| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Anybody in Denver that wants to go out?Not sure what you mean lol | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Anybody in Denver that wants to go out?Well they say with seduction don't go at it alone! I don't have much experience either | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Anybody in Denver that wants to go out?Oh nice I'm 21 I'm surprised you say night life is dead in Boulder I feel it would be better at least around the school because of the parties and stuff but I'm not around Boulder much | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Anybody in Denver that wants to go out?How old are you out of curiosity? I go to school down there | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How to make people chase you : give them spaceSorry I meant start a conversation after a while of not talking | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | How to make people chase you : give them spaceThank you. Very helpful reply! Also wanted to add one thing I forgot to say. Before yesterday (4th) I haven't talked to her since Saturday and I was at a 4th of July party and i took a Snapchat story and little while after she actually messaged me regarding my story and we began a little conversation that led to a teasing/ fun messaging thread. It didn't last all that long but I think because I haven't talked to her in a couple days she took the opportunity to start something. | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How to make people chase you : give them spaceSo my issue is when I'm in the process of talking to a girl and I can't exactly hang out for a while because of schedules/work and everything, what's the right balance of ME texting her vs waiting for her to text me? Like is every couple days alright? Right now with the girl I'm talking to it feels like we talk maybe 2-3 times a week (usually me initiating but she does sometimes) but it's always a fun and light conversation that is engaging and funny. I'm trying to not be needy and it definitely… | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | The key is to stop caring what people think of you, especially what beautiful women think of you.Hey man and I truly believe in most cases beauty is fairly subjective because I always remind myself of the times where I've liked girls who weren't perfect 10's or anything like that. Some I wouldn't even consider "hot" by societies standards, but for some reason they were just attractive to me. Some maybe we're a bit big, had some acne, or looked pretty skinny. Still found them attractive and I can't nail down why, but probably because of their vibe they gave off and they were comfortable to b… | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Almost 21, need help with my dating life (long post)You're just like me man except I'm 2 years younger and not in a band lol | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Besides "both", what quality is more significant: face or body?Already did it. Acne is 90% gone just scars left | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Besides "both", what quality is more significant: face or body?See what you said gives me some perspective. I seem to focus on the things I don't like about me rather than the advantages I already have for myself like height and personality. I'm still thinking about the treatment though and I might get it early next semester jan\feb | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Besides "both", what quality is more significant: face or body?Yeah I already drink so much water all the time. It's not really just redness but actual red marks on my face where the acne was | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Besides "both", what quality is more significant: face or body?I'm 19 almost 20 in February. I would say the scarring and redness is moderate. It's not horrible but it's definitely not clear at all. I think I might still do the laser treatment but it's just a lot of money to commit to. Although I do feel like if my face was clearer I would have a lot more confidence | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 12:16 AM |
| 206 | You see a girl you find attractive...It seems so obvious but for some reason it's still so hard to do | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why am I still concerned with my looks?I appreciate it man. I have been putting a lot of focus in other aspects of my life, mostly health, working out, and being better at conversations. I guess what I'm insecure about will just have to get pushed away over time | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Yeah I don't know if she's new to it but I am for sure. Thanks for the tip | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?Hey I appreciate the response but we already scheduled a date after finals week :) all seems well. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Communication week before first date?Ok maybe I should have clarified, it's hard to explain exactly how this went down. It was HER that reached out to me and explained school was stressing her out. I told her to tell me a day that would work best and she said Monday the 19th. She also said she was really sorry for changing. She seemed excited after I confirmed the day would work for me. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Love this. Makes total sense. When I see her I'll give a hug and work on small contact through the date. This whole seduction journey for me is mostly about breaking my pride and ego holding me back | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Good points for sure. For 8 does that mean like giving a hug/complement and also holding hands when you first go out on the first date? | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Actually really good idea since there are like so many things to do in my mall near me. Plus everyone knows what mall I'm talking about because it's the main one. And you get to talk without awkwardly sitting in front of each other and you get the choice to go in certain stores and hang out | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Simple first date do's and dont's?You're welcome! Didn't know this was gonna blow up so much I'm overwhelmed with replies :) | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?It's a good idea. Maybe I'll find a coffee place in the mall since we already made plans to get coffee | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Perfect thanks! | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 12:13 AM |
| 0 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Alright cool. I guess it's safe just to ask if she needs a ride or not right? | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Thanks this was helpful! | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?She's an extremely nice girl from my class who I could call an acquaintance. She's responsive to me and we've known each other a little bit through class. We're freshmen in college | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm overthinking this. Can someone helpPerfect! That makes total sense | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 08:39 PM |
| 8 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Look man I appreciate it but I'm not looking for that at all. I'm just going to meet up with this girl and see how we are together. She's from my class and I feel like the sexual stuff can come later. Of course I'll flirt and stuff but I'm not looking for a "lay". So that being said should I just pick her up out of a bit of generosity or just ask if she needs a ride? That's all I want to know | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 06:16 PM |
| -1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Ok thanks. My main question is picking her up or not I can't get a definitive answer because everyone says different things. I've already offered to pick her up but we never really confirmed that, only the date | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 05:58 PM |
| 39 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Should I just ask her as an option? Like "hey! For tomorrow, 4pm at "X" place. I can pick you up or you can meet me there. Up to you" | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Do you think it's fine to offer to pick her up? This may be a dumb question | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Sure man I'll read it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 04:37 PM |
| 1 | I keep feeling embarrassed internally about trying to get better with womenThanks man that's encouraging. I actually just scheduled my first date last night and we're going out for coffee Tuesday. And so it begins... | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?I have a date with her now so all is good lol | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 03:18 PM |
| 2 | I keep feeling embarrassed internally about trying to get better with womenThanks for the wisdom that resonates with me | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Coffee, Movie, or Dinner? Or a combo?Well there are these lit up gardens down in the city where I'm at and you walk through. It's a really scenic sort of thing to do at Christmas and I've been there before. How about that? There's coffee there too | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Coffee, Movie, or Dinner? Or a combo?So I'd basically say it like that except with coffee because we can't drink yet xD | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Coffee, Movie, or Dinner? Or a combo?So what in your honest opinion would be your ideal date (not options I listed) if you lived where I was where it's cold as shit right now? | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?Alright I'll do it xD | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?Alright I'll play it patient for a little bit. Do you think it's safe to text her today if she doesn't reply saying something like "did talking about school scare you off yesterday? Lol" | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?Alright I guess I'll try your advice and the previous repliers advice. Thanks man. I want to change how I'm not super clear on my intentions and make them more clear and earlier in the future | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?I know right? He's great :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Can you guys tell me what I did wrong?Can't tell you how helpful this reply was. You explained everything that I assumed went wrong with how I handled the whole interaction. I guess my main revelation is that I know I CAN talk to girls effectively if I'm in the right mindset, but I have to change my overall perception and show my true intentions earlier. My only question is that why do you think she will reply back? Our conversation was pretty surface level and it got to the point where she was replying an hour later and then never.… | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Alright. Newbie could use advice!Makes sense...I'll do it later today then when I'm done with my classes. I'm not sure how a walk would work considering how freezing it is here. | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Alright. Newbie could use advice!Since we're not old enough to drink going out for coffee would be just as good I would think. Thanks for the suggestion that's easy enough. When should I do it though? Does it matter? | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 11:38 PM |
| 3 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.You know that is so inspirational because I know I have an amazing life and an amazing family full of fun and love. The only thing is I have trouble expressing my truest and most vulnerable form to girls I'm attracted to, and THIS is what I'm focusing on: making more honest and open connections with women. Thank you for sharing OP! | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Acne and Seduction. Need an honest answerActually I'm not sure my condition is worse. The accutane really helped reduce the overall breakouts on my face but the problem is the red scarring that happens afterward. And about healthy eating I'm already pretty healthy drinking 99% water throughout the day and 0 sodas ever | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Acne and Seduction. Need an honest answerYou know, maybe I just didn't stay on accutane long enough. Maybe I'll try it out again and stay on it longer. Thanks for sharing, and your story gives me some perspective because just reading how bad yours was makes me realize that my face isn't as bad as some people's. | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Acne and Seduction. Need an honest answerYeah I'm using a retinoid prescribed by my dermatologist. It helps with new breakouts but the scarring hasn't got much better | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Acne and Seduction. Need an honest answerI have been to the dermatologist a multitude of times. I have been on accutane and I have been off of it for a while, but still using a topical medication. My acne is 10x better than it was, but I just hate the scars that they left. The treatments I hear for scars don't help a whole lot but I'm debating trying anything for them at this point. I am thankful however that my acne used to be so much worse and now it is not as bad | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I want to thank this subreddit for making me discover eye contact!This is the same problem with me. I'm fine with looking people in the eyes but I feel like I do it way too long at points and I don't know where to look | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 01:27 AM |
| 1 | It's annoyingStep 1- stop popping them or you'll get scars Step 2- get to a dermatologist and ask for accutane or retin A. (I think that's what it's called) accutane is the strongest stuff for acne and it worked for me who has had chronic acne and now it's pretty much gone except for scaring on my cheeks | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been approached by girls?I've had one time where a girl had her friend ask me for my number couple years ago. Also one time I was just sitting in the mall alone at the food court and this group of girls just came up and threw me a piece of paper with a phone number saying "call me". | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Try this tonight if you're going out..This is so true...whenever I go out with the intent of talking to girls I always have this vibe in the back of my head that alludes to picking up girls or being smooth or something like that. I'm a beginner still but this is something good to keep in mind. Just go out with an intent to be you and express it to people | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried the clover dating app?I'm just wondering if I should get an app like that or just go balls out approaching in public...I kinda just would like a nice relationship and I don't know which is better to eventually get that | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 03:03 AM |
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