Coffee, Movie, or Dinner? Or a combo?

Deaf_Mute · 2016-12-09T20:27:33+00:00

Not a movie. Always have an interesting go to place because if she really digs the place you took her it only makes you look cool.

I ask girls out like this: I know a great little place that has cocktails on tap that's across the street from a place that has the best chicken tacos. When are you free?

Dr_Mercury · 2016-12-09T20:05:12+00:00

My rules on first dates is always go somewhere where you are not being forced to be together for a long time. A movie or dinner would not be a good option because it forces the two of you to spend time together. What if somewhere along the way you realize you don't like this person and you don't want to continue the date? What if she feels that way? Always start small and leave it open ended. This is return will make the other person feel more comfortable knowing they could be out quick.

Once you've had the coffee and you built up enough rapport you can then lead the way and suggest a walk on the park, or do something fun nearby. The trick is to continue moving and taking charge. You don't want to sit in one place for a long time because that get's boring.

Blue_Falcon_Killer · 2016-12-09T21:10:44+00:00

Bowling hands down even if you suck at it you can joke around about it and I still have not had a girl that was super serious about it. There are other people around pitchers or beer, jukebox, and bar food. Most places are smoke free now and it is active enough where there is no weird silence because you can take you turn and there is no time limit if you hit a really good topic.

mrs_robstark · 2016-12-09T20:00:38+00:00

Definitely coffee, gives you the chance to talk, so later when you do go see a movie, it's not as awkward because you are more comfortable with that person. Another thing is that coffee is only a few bucks, so when it comes to paying the bill there is not as much pressure on who pays it, opposed to dinner.

RytekBJJ · 2016-12-09T21:25:28+00:00

I always save meals for the end of a date. My date format is Coffee -> Conversation -> Fun Activity -> Dinner and Drinks -> Intimacy. Save meals for the end when she proves she's fun and into you. Go to a pub or bar and order some drinks and fun and cheap food. Meals at nice restaurants are for BIG things like an anniversary. Women don't care how much money you spend, they just want some fun and romance.

Beast___Mode · 2016-12-09T19:53:45+00:00

Movie should be on the first two three dates, until you established some kind of connection with her. What's a point to sit together and watching the movie. I would recommend to have a coffee, have a dinner in good place, go to the bowling or just go to the park or any beautiful places in your city. The point is to do some kind of activity together.

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-12-09T20:07:53+00:00

This is fun.

Coffee is something that you do with a friend. You sit across from them and you have to fill the time with conversation while they sip on a drink. Some people go on coffee dates and do not even realize they are on a date.

Movie is something that people can do alone. This means you can sit beside her and focus on everything but her. There is not much interaction.

Dinner is something where you can talk, but you will spend a good amount of time eating. You will probably sit across from her and again there isn't much interaction.

Combining them is your best option for an okay date.

It makes no since to have dinner and coffee at two different places.

Movie and dinner takes up a lot of time. There is very little interaction here.

Movie and coffee also takes up a lot time. Your best option is movie and coffee because you can use the movie as something to talk about while on the coffee date. You might want to make sure the girl has her evening free.

aminl · 2016-12-10T03:06:59+00:00

My favorite is an arcade

Luckyluke23 · 2016-12-10T10:11:13+00:00

IF you have screen her IE met here in public and you don't get a " I WILL MURDER YOU IN YOUR SLEEP " vibe

your place

tell her to bring a bottle of wine

cook food.

DATE DONE!

She is already at your place man. now put on some some vinyl and sit back and enjoy your night. it's not hard.

Title	Coffee, Movie, or Dinner? Or a combo?
Author	Szentinal
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	December 9, 2016 7:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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