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This is a good take. Everybody claims to be “alpha” on here but can’t answer a simple question with their chest and own it. I like to play it off and avoid it but if the girl seriously needs to know just tell her and it’s on her to deal with the consequences of said info People are so worried about girls leaving or not respecting them after revealing certain information. If she’s willing to walk away after some trivial shit then she was never it
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:48 PM
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Yes. Why chase a girl around who keeps cancelling? The idea is that she should be lucky to go out with you. If she cancels she needs to be the one winning you back. You set aside valuable time for her and she wasted it. Needs to make it up to you
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:06 PM
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What does being stoic have to do with your dick? If showing some emotion gets your dick hard then laugh a little. Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:31 PM
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Yes and no. No because you gave her the option. If she’s not 100% in, she’s out. So unless she’s actually sick or has something legit come up AND has a new day/time in mind to reschedule then let it go. So don’t wait around for her to “let you know”. Tell her another time and don’t contact until she’s reaches out with a new date. You did alright by asking to buy the ticket back and telling her you were doing this either way PS - don’t take a girl to the movies early on. Are you going to get to k…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:28 PM
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How do you people come up with this shit. Better yet how does this come up in conversation
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:10 PM
2

Don’t disagree, you can bend in certain areas. I’m fine with IG, I’m not fine with an Instagram filled with half naked ass pics and thirst traps. It’s all give and take as long as you aren’t bending on morals or core values it’s not going to be a huge issue
/r/askTRP19/06/21 01:06 AM
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“Her friends will think I’m controlling if I order her to do it” That’s because you are controlling. Define your standards and stick with them. If you don’t like girls that have IGs and other shit don’t date them. Don’t start dating them and try to fix them up, they’re not kitchen renovations. They are what they are That being said good luck meeting an attractive young woman without any form of social media
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:45 PM
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Translation: I’m desperate for sex and was trying to plead with a girl to let me fuck
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:59 PM
5

Honestly, you two sound perfect for each other
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:48 PM
4

You’re right and it’s arguably the biggest issue with this community. Too many dudes with no game hating on women even though they have nothing to bring to the table themselves. Casuals will tell you you’re white knighting. The bitter dudes will tell you they’re all disgusting whores. This should be a place for bettering yourself, learning a few new things about women and how to present yourself. It has become a place where a lot of guys are so consumed with women leaving them and hurting them t…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:50 PM
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I know it’s a minute detail and it sounds stupid but he’s right. Unless there’s a funny joke or some shit save it. Also cut to the chase quicker. You know how to hold a conversation obviously but too much makes you seem like a pen pal. You: Oh you went to school out here, what are the best bars around here? Her: Joe’s, Nicks and Sam’s You: Yeah I’ve heard about Nicks, haven’t been there yet. I’m free Tues and Thurs after work, which night works better for you to come get a drink with me
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:13 AM
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If it’s not broken don’t fix it
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:54 AM
3

Do you want female friends or do you want pussy? Because you’re framing it as if you want them to fuck or you want them to throw their friends your way. If you feel like they use you then they’re not your friends, just girls you know. Sounds like you have some deeper issues/are stuck in the friend zone with some girls you want more with. Make friendships because you like the person, not because you like what’s in their pants
/r/askTRP15/06/21 07:27 PM
3

If avoiding a road trip and hundreds on a hotel stay makes me a wet blanket, I can live with myself.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 05:06 PM
2

Rollo has a lot of good shit, but not for nothing he's not someone I'd ever consider taking advice from in the looks department. Google him and tell me if he's someone who "looks important in society" Wear whatever you want. Getting girls is attitude and confidence, not cargo pants and dog tags. The better you dress obviously the more help you get
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:54 PM
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I really don't understand why you're so baffled. When you advertise Christianity, you're going to attract women whose lives revolve around church. When you advertise being conservative, you're not going to be very compatible with women who aren't. I wouldn't even consider these shit tests, if anything they're doing you a favor and saving you time/money. People have their preferences, can't knock them for that. You also shouldn't care if they bail, it's really not a big deal. Always stand your gr…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:47 PM
1

Two messages in and you're already asking some girl to come fuck you. Even if she's looking for something casual it reeks of desperation.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:34 PM
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You sound like a retard
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:31 PM
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Your GF has been chatting with a guy. That was all I needed to read to know you two have no business being in a relationship. Stop dating college girls. Yes they're stupid hot, but they're nowhere near mature enough to be in relationships. Almost every interaction they have is going to be inappropriate in regards to their BF. You can't expect a 19 year old girl not to go to parties. You can't expect her to not have male friends who text her all the time, you can't expect her to not have shitty h…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:23 PM
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I understand your general point and I agree. I wouldn't have went just to avoid the headache altogether. That being said there were a few ways to play that. Call her out on it and say we both know why you texted me, I'm not booking my own. Or book your own for one night and tell her if she's fun enough you'll consider sticking around for the rest of the trip Or the last option which is nah I'm good but if you're going to be in the area, feel free to stop by
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:13 PM
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Thought the same, if she works and has a life a few hours into between texts is normal. A lot of applauding, not sure I agree
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:01 PM
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It’s just a personal stance. Of course I lie about some shit and stretch the truth. I’m just honest when a girl asks what I’m looking for or where I see things going. No sense in turning another girl crazy for no reason I also don’t stress out about lost pussy. There is plenty out there, none that I would lose an ounce of sleep over
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:04 AM
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TRP doesn’t preach non monogamy, it preaches having abundance and not giving your most valuable asset (commitment) to a girl who doesn’t deserve it. Decent women obviously exist. Don’t avoid relationships because a bunch of dudes from the internet told you it’s bad. But don’t get into a LTR because this girl will leave if you don’t either. Do what you want, but don’t lie to get some pussy. Be honest, if you’re doing it right most won’t care. And if they leave well then hey good for her she may h…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:04 PM
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Whether he’s lower management, ugly, short or a tall handsome ceo- he still touches your girl right in front of you and nothing gets done about it. So before we go knocking this dude, you’re the one watching this unfold and keeping quiet. Either way your beef isn’t with this dude, your beef needs to be with your girlfriend. She knows this behavior is inappropriate and continues to do it because she knows you won’t do anything about it and quite frankly, she’s been right so far. Assuming you’re n…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:59 PM
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There it is, the dumbest shit I’ve read today
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:48 PM
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I mean it depends on what you’re using it for. Are you selling dildos or are you becoming a financial advisor? Does everything you offer make it seem like a pyramid scheme or are you working on a legitimate startup? If a few people you considered friends were ignoring you I’d say they aren’t rooting for you. But if nobody is helping you get off your feet I have to question the legitimacy of what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:07 PM
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This is why you don’t seriously date college girls. I’m sure they’re all fine people but they’re way too immature and dependent on validation to take seriously. You really want to wife up a girl who is going to frat parties and spends her time hanging around other single horny dudes for 12 hours a day. There’s no way to avoid it and there’s nothing wrong with them, it just is what it is. Even if you find a good one she’s going to have friends and roommates who don’t think like her and she’s goin…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:52 PM
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Jesus Christ, I understand the general attitude towards marriage here but not every single married person you see is unhappy. Yeah of course there are a lot of shitty marriages, but how much of that is due to people settling, doing the right thing, etc. If anything RP should make marriage easier. If you actually know what this shit means then you should know how to vet properly, how to treat an LTR, how to live your life as an independent and let her join in. For fucks sake Rollo is even married…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:40 PM
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Look you’re young and it’s obvious you have a ways to go. But something I wish I had knew when I was 20 was that most of the time -shutting the fuck up- is the best course of action. From going thru your post history it’s very obvious you’re way too invested in this girl and looking for anything that might be a sign. Do yourself a favor if you want to get out of the friend zone, stop being her friend and forget her. Whether her boyfriend is a “beta” who likes to get pegged or not - it doesn’t ma…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:01 PM
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This is a second opinion. You did talk about pussy when you let people know about the contest. Keep that shit to yourself and let other people do the talking for you
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:46 PM
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Or she thinks he’s a dork. Talking about getting pussy isn’t cool, getting pussy is. Don’t talk about it, be about it. Not only is he talking about it, but he’s not even getting any. Odds are that the girl with the boyfriend who is making fun of him for not getting any ass isn’t flirting. And if she is then everything is fucked and I give up.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:37 PM
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This is the right answer. I’ll add - if OP doesn’t trust her enough not to cheat then he shouldn’t be in a relationship with her
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:25 PM
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You’re her plate
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:13 PM
2

I mean she’s not wrong lmao
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:11 PM
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This relationship is not going to work. This is the bad insecure controlling side of RP that gets a bad name
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:51 PM
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Jesus Christ what are these responses. Ask her when they’re going to be handling it and if there’s anything she needs from you/anything that needs to be split/divided up. Then just put your valuables away somewhere safe and find something to do for an afternoon. If you really think she’s an evil vindictive bitch who’s going to steal all your shit - hang around and supervise. You can suck it up for a few hours to never have to deal with it again
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:46 PM
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Dump for good. She knows what she’s doing and doesn’t think you’ll do anything about it. In other words she thinks she owns you, which to be fair if you tolerate this she kind of does. You’re a chump if you stay in this for another second
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:49 PM
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I mean not for nothing but this entire sub complains about whores and pushes for good girls with low body counts when vetting for a long term partner. Now when it comes along you don’t want it? Idk what to say. If you’re trying to get another girl in your rotation I’d say it’s not worth the time. If you’re actually into her and could possibly see it going somewhere then figure it out. Is other non sex shit happening or are you two hugging at the end of the date? Does she have a low body count or…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:03 PM
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Cancelling was the right move. If there was an actual issue like she got a flat on the way there or there was some sort of real family emergency, tell her not to sweat it and let her know when you’re free again. If she was just slow and lazy getting ready/ being on time I’d just say she’s welcome to come by your place some other time or no contact until she attempts to reschedule. She should be excited to go on a date with you and if she’s not then she doesn’t get to. If she cared I’m assuming s…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:24 PM
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You guys are getting girls off?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:42 PM
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Suck it up for a few weeks until your lease is up and then you cut her out of your life. You can’t let a woman live in your head rent free like this. If she doesn’t want to talk to you, her loss
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:42 PM
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Who cares. Honestly it’s a good thing. Now you know which ones to steer clear of
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:59 PM
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Stop caring The only times you should care about offending somebody are when they’re family, friends, employers/coworkers/clients or if you’re actually being a dickface. The sooner you stop giving a fuck what the random girls on the beach think the sooner you’ll stop caring about other irrelevant shit
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:41 PM
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To feel better about themselves. Guys do it too 17 unopened messages: I can pretend people want to talk to me 0 unopened messages: nobody wants to talk to me
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:13 PM
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Well then that’s your fault for agreeing to it. “Hey I’m staying in tonight, you’re welcome to come by and cook with me”. Ball is in her court
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:10 PM
1

There’s a few ways to look at it If your friends don’t call you a fat cunt everyday. Does that mean they’re bad friends for not being brutally honest. If your fat friend calls you a fat fuck. Does that mean he’s wrong for doing so because he’s not in shape himself? Rollo Tomassi is considered a king on here. All this shit about plates, young women, working out, careers. He’s been married to an old lady and he looks like a 80s computer programmer living in his moms basement. Does that make any of…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:06 PM
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You’re an idiot. Why are you entertaining any of this? She’s an ex. You don’t take trips with exes. If she’s such a great person to have around and you know the sex is good why don’t you two just date?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:59 PM
1

If he’s a real friend you wouldn’t have to ask this question
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:52 PM
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Your main priority needs to be professional school. Whatever puts you in the best position to excel there needs to be arranged. A handful of girls doesn’t mean shit. Getting your degree and getting ahead in life is far more important than a pair of big tits. Go out with kids in your program and socialize. There will still be opportunities. When a girl is into you she will cut you some slack and help you out. If living at home is a deal breaker it wasn’t worth your time anyway
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:52 AM
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Blocking only works if you block her in real life too. No sense in blocking her on shit if you’re going to see her every few weeks at social gatherings. No right or wrong answer, just pretty pointless to block and still socialize with her
/r/askTRP07/05/21 06:03 PM
1

If you don’t know whether a girl is a quality woman after a few months you need to ask better questions and get the information you need out of her sooner. Also, a high quality woman isn’t going to let you jerk her around for a year. She’s going to move on and find something more serious for her. If you found a good one why would you want her fucking around and playing the field?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:24 PM
3

Don’t put all your cards on the table until you have to
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:47 PM
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Follow the money, unless you enjoy doing your work it all sucks anyway. I’ve never worked because I enjoy working. I’ve only worked to put food on the table and get ahead in life. Come up with a number it would take for you to stay at the current job. Go to your boss and say you feel you’re worth ___ according to the job market and tell him you want a raise. If he says no then you tell him thank you but you’ll be putting in your notice. And that’s it. Unless you’re going to be working double the…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:13 PM
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If she’s letting you fuck her for a year straight without any label, she’s not girlfriend material. Stop doing stupid shit to “vet” her. You’ve been seeing her for over a year, if you can’t determine whether she’s a good woman or not - you never will
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:01 PM
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Are you being upfront about what you do or are you being coy? Maybe just tell them what you do and how that would make for some unconventional work hours so they don't think you're a drug dealer or some Tony Soprano wannabe Entrepreneur could mean you invest in tech startups or it could mean you push ecstasy to local high schoolers. Don't forget, the majority of the workforce has standard hours. 8-4, 9-5, 10-6 so anything that deviates from that may be new to them. The same way you want a hot ch…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 07:03 PM
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Did this actually happen? People don't really act this way. Either she was busting your balls in a sarcastic manner and you didn't pick up on it or she's actually just a miserable person. Either way when you take her to a restaurant you need reservations for (and don't have reservations), you're going to look pretty stupid. And when you sit down at said restaurant and don't order food you also look stupid. Not defending her in any way, but if what you say happened really did happen then she was …
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:51 PM
1

My go to move was to text earlier in the day and say - going to be stuck at work later than I thought, you mind if we push it back 15 minutes” If you don’t get an answer it’s off. If she answers, do what you do
/r/askTRP27/04/21 10:00 PM
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Do some research on the dude that wrote TRM. Then get back to me and tell me why you would worship everything written down if he doesn’t even do so. TRM has some good stuff but it’s not gospel. Take the information you find valuable, put it into practice and don’t overthink things
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:54 PM
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Just don’t. She’s only contacted you about work related shit, you should keep it that way Almost 8 billion people on this planet, half women. And you need this one girl who has only contacted you for company t shirts?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:03 PM
1

I'm not here to offer advice, I just want to know how you thought talking to your ex for anything more than 30 seconds in front of your new girl was a good idea.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:55 PM
1

Yes Depends on what criteria/qualities you want from a girl. Some people want a fun girl who likes to go out and have fun. Some like to keep it low-key and do shit together. Some guys need a lot of space and want a girl who has her own shit going on. If you don't know what you want out of a gf, you're not ready to have one. Shouldn't need other guys to tell you.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:52 PM
2

I think you're looking at this the wrong way. The problem isn't necessarily the friendship, your girl is going to have guys she gets along with and is cool with. You can't expect your girl not to have friends from HS. The problem is the nature of the relationship- there really isn't a reason for them to be talking everyday. Odds are she has no interest in fucking him, but the odds are that she also knows he would do it in a heartbeat and she likes the attention and knowing she has this in her ba…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:45 PM
1

Why bother?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:30 PM
1

LMR is a good thing not a bad thing like everybody makes it out to be. If she says no, you're out, end of story. Yeah it sucks but so does trying to convince somebody to fuck you. The idea is that you're a cool, fun, confident dude and she should be happy to be with you. Not you trying to convince her to play with your wang. Guess what, she's not into you. You know this early enough and don't have to deal with it any longer. You got off pretty easy if you ask me.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:45 PM
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Don't contact your girl, contact your doctor instead. Ask if they have a cure for this level of stupid
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:38 PM
4

Living the single life and running thru random chicks seems fun until you're 77, have a bad hip, can't get up the stairs anymore and have no friends/family to help to care of you. I would assume you're meeting and hooking up with low quality girls. Which is fine, do your thing, but I'm sure that's part of the reason you feel this way.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:36 PM
3

What law is there that says you can't quit your job? Unless you have colleagues you have made friends with and don't want to fuck them over just leave and tell them to piss off. There is a difference between "we" have a problem and "they" have a problem. It's their problem, do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:26 PM
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I don't know the answer, but I wouldn't listen to all the hardos telling you she's cheating or not attracted to you. You had a kid young. I would assume you two aren't exactly rolling in the dough so you're probably working shitty shifts, dealing with the financial burden of having a kid young, on top of raising a kid which is draining enough. Don't forget, all the sucking and fucking led to you two having a kid. I would feel pretty confident saying - it's probably not something she wanted to do…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:12 PM
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Yes. Not every couple hates each other. Just because some dude didn't read The Rational Male doesn't mean his wife is cheating on him. Vet girls with qualities and personality traits you're interested in and make sure they're up to your standards. You'll have much better odds than the first attractive girl interested in touching your dick regularly.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 12:53 AM
11

Just call her for 10 minutes and say what's up. Damn dude
/r/askTRP23/03/21 12:38 AM
69

Could be you, could be her. I've had partners that came from forty seconds of shitty jackhammering and I've had partners that could only finish on the third Wednesday of every month at exactly high noon if the temperature sat between 73 and 76 degrees while they were on top. Some girls just aren't that experienced and don't know what to do/how to do it. Get more comfortable and start asking questions of what feels good and what you should be doing more of. It will either work itself out or it wo…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 05:42 PM
9

Start distancing yourself. If the hangouts are 3x a week, make them 2x/week. Then once a week until you find enough alternate options that suit you or you get bored. Also no more public appearances unless she wants to meet you while you're out with friends and go home with you after. I'd avoid sleepovers and keep the meetups to her place so you can exit when you want. She went through your phone, which is a no no. But more importantly she's a hypocrite, she's upset you're not loyal to her when s…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:35 AM
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Holy shit, rational advice
/r/askTRP15/02/21 08:18 PM
5

Maybe just heal and chill for a while? Make a profile, don't swipe, and delete the app. When you're ready to get back out to going out, hop back on and you should have a bunch of likes waiting for you You might have some luck on the apps, but the odds of a girl coming over to suck your dick and go home while you ice up are pretty slim. Match, go out, and do your thing. The whole sit on the couch and have girls come to me is a good way to think, but it's not that realistic.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:49 AM
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I mean did she ask to be exclusive after two dates or five months? It all depends on how long you've been together. Have you been seeing other women? Don't not date somebody because a bunch of guys on the internet told you she won't like you if you commit. Maybe it's true, but if you don't want her fucking other guys it doesn't take a brain surgeon to know that telling her she can when she mentions it is a bad idea. Half the advice on here comes from virgins and angry men who legitimately hate w…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 12:46 AM
1

Well then you played this all wrong from the jump She asked for exclusivity (which you want), you said no (don't know why), and she said ok cool I'm going to date other people (as she should have). You're now likely going to be one of two or three
/r/askTRP11/02/21 12:28 AM
2

If you don't care, it doesn't matter. If you don't want her fucking other people, she's going to expect commitment. Justifiably so Determine which camp you're in
/r/askTRP11/02/21 12:23 AM
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Yeah persistence isn't a good quality to have when it comes to a girl saying no. The whole idea is that you get a girl comfortable enough and she wants it. Not that you have to keep trying to get sex with a girl that's hesitant. This shit is not a game. For every "triumph" you have, you are that much closer to getting royally fucked. And I mean with the law. So do yourself (and the girls) a favor. Once, to see if it's a comfort thing. After a second no, hands off and stop. I don't care how many …
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:52 PM
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I stopped reading halfway through. I don't care what anybody says about girls wanting it but acting like they don't or like playing hard to get. Once you escalate and get a no, take a breather pull back and change the conversation. If you start screwing around again and are met with another no it's a wrap, night over. No pussy is worth an accusation. I don't care if Helen of Troy came back to life, shit is not happening. I will gladly go to bed with blue balls before I go to bed with a cellmate.…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:08 PM
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If a girl is okay with being non exclusive for a year, is this somebody you even want to be dating?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:57 PM
6

Dead serious, how is she an athlete?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:55 PM
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This is going to be an unpopular opinion, but I don't really care. If you decide kids are something you'd want, do it right. Find a quality girl you believe you be a good mother, settle down, get married, and raise them together. No this isn't necessary to raising halfway decent kids, but it quite obviously makes it a lot easier. Quality women aren't going to let you put a kid in them and have you take them every other weekend. For all the talk of finding high quality women on here, I don't unde…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:49 PM
2

It's fine if you don't want anything serious, it just makes you an asshole for using her because you couldn't get any friends or family to help you. I don't know how to answer all your existential questions but she's not going to hear - I need time and space. She's going to hear - I don't want to date you. Which really is the truth, especially if you're putting your dick in strange while you "work on yourself"
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:02 PM
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You can work on yourself and be exclusive with somebody lol. I feel like you can recover and not put your dick in other girls while you do that. You're not an asshole for not wanting a relationship. You're an asshole for having a FWB do relationship things, knowing you'll never date her just because it was of convenience to you. I would've approached it by saying - hey I'm fucked up right now but when I start to get right and recover I'd like for us to start going out together just me and you. S…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:03 AM
4

Don't do it because she gave you an ultimatum, do it because it's something you want to do. If four months is your thing, wait four months, don't cave. That being said, any halfway decent girl that would be considered girlfriend material probably isn't going to wait around for months on months while you fuck other girls and don't commit to her. High value girls with good qualities aren't going to let themselves be one of ____ girls in a rotation. You will hear guys say you need to vet for a mini…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 03:13 PM
3

This is why you're better off not dating and spending excess time with girls you don't plan on entering a relationship with. Invite them over to hook up once or twice a week and let that be that. You get in the habit of texting, going on dates, calling, etc next thing you know you're hooked. I'm going to assume she called a lot of the shots and I'm wondering if she even wanted an LTR with you considering she found and vetted a bf while you two were seeing each other
/r/askTRP29/01/21 01:59 AM
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There's a difference between a pic of her on beach in a bikini and a topless picture of her with her arms covering her tits. Girls go out, look hot and post pics of it. Decide for yourself if she's an attractive girl who likes posting pictures every so often or a tramp shoving her shit in your face with the sole purpose of getting men to drool over it. Half of the dudes posting on here are looking for Amish virgins who are covered from neck to toe. You want to bag an 8 or a 9, you're almost alwa…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 01:47 AM
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It's a medical thing. I really wouldn't have made it about you by saying you weren't ok with no sex. If you're using lube and shit still isn't working, the right thing to do would've been to tell her it's cool and you can try again after she sees her doctor. Yeah it's an inconvenience but it's also a possible medical issue that brings her to blood and tears. Cut her some slack.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:09 PM
22

I got cancer trying to follow along with this
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:01 PM
35

While men don't need women to be happy, growing old and living life as a single man will catch up to you eventually. There aren't going to be plates and younger broads when you're into your "70s and beyond". Truth of the matter is that yes, the social circle will shrink and there will be fewer things to be included in. When you decide you want to live the single life, especially if you date younger, you're just going to have to accept that your lifestyle doesn't align with everybody else's. Your…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 03:53 PM
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It's not an actual situation. I've seen a bunch of comments recently regarding boundaries and behavior. Wanted to see what the general consensus was
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:47 PM
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So here's where the question comes in. Some dude shows up on her phone, you're just walking away? No conversation, nothing? Not defending anybody, but I've definitely had girls hit up my phone while I was in a relationship. Many of which were completely harmless and innocent.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:44 PM
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Nope. Position of weakness. Maybe she'll hide it better. So what's the move here, just bounce?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:18 PM
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TRP is a bunch of blanket statements. One of the main ideas is AWALT, that's as big as a blanket statement as you can get. I don't actually disagree with your points but I never said they didn't exist, they're just less common than they're made out to be on here. A handful of dudes bang a handful of attractive girls in their early 20s. But that is not happening to the vast majority of 30+ men. If it were true, you'd see more pics, tweets, stories of hot younger girls with "dad" aged men. And it …
/r/askTRP23/01/21 05:44 AM
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Reading is key, the first sentence would be a good place to start. I'm in my early 20s. The girls in my social circle will screw around with guys in their late 20s, but none are trekking into the 10+ year age gap waters yet. They range from 21 to 26
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:57 AM
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Not denying that some guys have success with younger women, but the idea that women like older men (much older) is pretty inaccurate. Yeah a 23 year old will fuck around with a 28 year old but how many 22 year old girls do you know fucking 40 year old men? It happens, but not as often as it gets made out on here. The reason it doesn't happen as much is because they have pretty much nothing in common and they don't hang around at the same places. Hot 22 year old girls are hanging around college b…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:29 AM
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Maybe she's a racist asshole. Maybe you're an excuse maker who can't get out of his own way and plays victim. Italian girls from the northeast are going to be different than girls you'd meet in the midwest, south, etc. You're going to get a lot of mouth and a lot of attitude. It mostly has to do with the way they're raised. But that's a way of sizing you up and seeing if you can hang and roll with/match them or if you get offended and make excuses. It could be that they're miserable bitches, or …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:35 AM
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If you don't have time to call your girl for 10 minutes on the way home from somewhere you're a high value alpha god
/r/askTRP18/01/21 12:46 AM
1

15x is 13x too many. I know you're exaggerating but 2x and it's a wrap. You go in for the first time and get resistance, shit happens. You go to try again and are met with another no - it's time to grab some food from the kitchen or shoot off a text to someone else. You don't spend your entire night trying to convince a girl to fuck you. You're doing the right thing by withdrawing, but why are you even putting up with this to begin with? First time, sure she doesn't want to seem like a slut, but…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:21 AM
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Just be yourself and try to stick to the principles when they apply. You shouldn't have to worry about being normal around girls, just be normal. Laughing and making jokes over text is fine. Giving them tons of attention would be a no. The idea isn't that you're not supposed to be texting women, the idea is that you're supposed to be busy with your own shit going on that you're not available to text them all day long. It should be - why am I texting this person, let's just get together. Building…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:28 AM
1

There are things I need to do. I need to have a job, I need to have a car, I need to be able to pay my bills every month, I need to have hobbies, goals, gym routine, etc. Hanging out with old friends isn't something I need, I have other things to keep me busy. This is one of those situations where I have nothing else better to do so I stick my head in and say what's up when they're around and want to meet up. Why would I compromise - I won't lose any sleep over not hanging out with these people …
/r/askTRP10/01/21 07:16 AM
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Short answer is they're childhood friends or girls I've hooked up with in HS/college. I've been out of school for a few years, these are all girls I've known and been going out in larger groups with since I was 12 and well before I met my gf. Not randoms I met at a bar one night and have been hanging around with since. I would consider them friends. I know their BFs and I'm cool with them, I know their parents, siblings, etc. Not something I would have any interest in doing again with any of the…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 07:10 AM
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She knows some of them unfortunately. Haven't ever discussed my number or who, but she does know a few of them without me having to tell her
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:34 PM
3

If it's not working for you exactly the way you want it to, why are you putting time into this?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:20 PM
2

It's possible, it really depends on the back story. I have some "friends" that I have made from seeing out often, or running in the same social circles. They're cool and we have fun when we run into each other but I wouldn't consider any close friends that I could rely on for favors, support, etc. Then I have actual friends. Most are from childhood, hs, college, work. In other words, not really new people. Some are hot, some are less attractive. I wouldn't make a move on any of them or consider …
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:18 PM
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I understand how it works. The information here is a set of guidelines, not something you have to blindly follow just because it's written down If she's your girlfriend you're going to give a fuck. It doesn't make you a beta simp cuck. I know what you're saying, I don't agree with it. She didn't even ask him for anything, she's stating what she needs to make it work and he can either hop on or jump off. It's not like she got blackout drunk and called his mother a cunt. It's not drama, they're co…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 05:23 AM
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Once again, you're not listening. I never said cave to the demands, I didn't even say he has to listen to them. But disappearing for two weeks after she says she feels like he doesn't give a shit just proves the point. Has nothing to do with cucking or submissiveness. That hardo shit seems cool but it's pretty immature. If he doesn't feel like he's doing anything wrong the conversation needs to be - it's just the way I am, nothing I can do about it. From there it's up to her to continue or bounc…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:23 AM
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It's not white knighting You don't talk to your girlfriend for two weeks because she has feelings? Grow up. I'm not even saying he needs to listen to her and oblige. For all I care he can tell her that's the way he is and she can kick rocks if she doesn't like it. But not talking to her for weeks at a time is some childish bullshit If we want our women to be honest with us you can't blow them off for being honest, regardless of whether it's stupid or not.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:18 AM
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What the fuck is wrong with you people. Soft next for two weeks? Just don't talk to her and leave her in the dark for 2 weeks because she has certain expectations in her relationship? She's saying he seems like he doesn't give a shit and your solution is to ignore her for two weeks. C'mon with this shit
/r/askTRP04/01/21 12:41 AM
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Either you trust her, or at the very least trust her to tell you the truth if she ever went out and fucked around on you. If you can't trust her to do either of those things, break up. Sucks but it will really help your peace of mind. Also, if you're with a girl exclusively for 8 months and she doesn't have feelings for you wtf is wrong with you? Better yet, your gf of 8 months doesn't have feelings for you why are you still with her?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 12:18 AM
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"I was living in LA until Covid hit, so I'm back home for a little bit saving some money. It's kind of nice being back around family, but I'm thinking about moving to ________ once things start cleaning up again." No need to complicate. You're also young enough where living home wouldn't be an issue, as long as you don't sound like you want to cry while saying you're home it won't be an issue, you're not 40. Framing it as a good thing that you get to spend time with family even comes off as you …
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:03 PM
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I mentioned this somewhere else but the sidebar and a lot of the resources are solid After that the advice sucks most of the time. A lot of whiny, insecure bitter dudes leaving their GFs of 2 years because she disrespected them by smiling and saying thank you to the waiter that took her order at the restaurant The paranoia here is unreal
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:30 PM
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I'm a big fan of the sidebar and all the resources on here, but a lot of the advice is insecure, cringeworthy, worst case scenario shit.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:37 PM
3

Exactly...what are these responses It's his brother, he's not trying to steal his girl. "He's trying to make eye contact" You're literally supposed to do that with everybody you speak to
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:26 PM
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So you tried to face fuck a girl (who doesn't like giving blowjobs) 30 seconds into the only blowjob she's given you? You must've been an honors student growing up.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:43 PM
7

These are literally logistics
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:01 AM
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Or perhaps I was just being a bitch being all buthurt. It's this. Shit test? Really? When your arms are acting weird and she asks why, that isn't a shit test, it's a straight up question You'll get a lot of people telling you it's disrespectful and to not tolerate it and next but she's fucking around and making playful jokes. Now some are stupid and don't land at all but they aren't shit tests. Have a sense of humor
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:21 PM
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I guess my question is, do you really think your friends just "arent as fun anymore" or youre at the point where you really dont need to be hanging out with guys unless they actually benefit your life? Personally I just need 1 friend I can rely on (like a brother), the rest are gym buddies, project collaborators, people that benefit me. There really is no other reason I would want to be around other men so badly, so Im genuinely curious why this matters to you. This is actually a good question a…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 06:49 PM
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Dumbbells go for $2/lb in my area. A set of 30s will run you $120. That's a year of planet fitness right there. Just join a planet fitness for $10/mo. If you can't afford that, there are other areas you need to address first.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:01 PM
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Read it slower this time, maybe you'll get it. There are multiple questions in there
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:25 PM
1

My own terms would be - after the shit that needs to be taken care of, gets taken care of: work, finances, lifting, errands, etc. I'm not blowing off friends or putting my own shit in the back seat. It's more of if I wrap up with my shit at 7, she'll want to come by at 7:30. What I need to do gets taken care of first. I'm more asking about making myself available and cooling it down now to temper expectations when things start to go back to normal.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:28 AM
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She was a grade below so in the 22-24 range
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:03 AM
1

Any advice on how to deal with it? Is it a talk it out situation, a take the L and bounce back another time? I've never taken any supplements. Is there an amino I should be looking for, zinc, Vit D? I'm all ears
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:17 PM
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Yes, but you still need to get the calories up. You'll lose weight on the scale, but you'll also lose muscle at the rate you're going and get skinny fat. Don't worry about the scale, worry about the BF%. Find out what your maintenance is, it's probably 2000-2500 and subtract 500. Subtract 700 if you're really trying to lose. 1g of protein = 4 calories. Are you telling me that you're eating around 800 calories worth of protein every day? Even chicken, protein shakes, eggs are going to have some f…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:38 PM
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Did you go out of your way to pick the worst article possible to make your point? All he does is talk about using a calorie deficit to burn fat. You're not actually building muscle, what you're doing is losing so much fat that you trim up. When BF% goes down you're going to look more muscular. But there isn't more muscle being built. Let's take the poster for example. If he's 200lbs and goes on a big calorie cut of 500+, he can get down to 180 and look cut up. But he's not actually more muscular…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:29 PM
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You can't be catabolic and anabolic at the same time. 1000 calories/day is a what a UFC fighter does on drastic weight cut. By losing weight you're losing mass. You can't lose mass and put on mass at the same time. Whatever the diet is, I'd stop it. Find out what maintenance is in calories and subtract 500 and go from there until you hit an ideal BF%. Forget the scale. So to answer the question, no it's not doable. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. This is a great way to become skinny fat.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:34 AM
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