Myself and my LTR were at a party and an ex fling of mine was there. I spoke with the ex fling for 30 mins one on one. I have a feeling someone told my LTR that we were flirting.

So my LTR asks for a one on one. I said oh I made up with ‘ex flings name’. I then get slapped I’m confused and to some degreeI thought she was joking and I said don’t hit me especially that hard. She then kicks off about how I made out with the ex fling. To which I correct that I made up with not made out.

She apologised immediately but that’s not the behaviour I’m after so I walked out telling her I would talk to her when we are both sober. Over the next few days she’s been very apologetic, taken me out for dinners, bought me and even made me gift.

She has only one previous red flag where she was acting insecure because I couldn’t see her for a few days because I was busy at work. During our conversation I told her she should be able to control her anger enough that she doesn’t need to strike especially before she’s clarified that I’ve done anything. I also told her I haven’t forgiven just yet and if we are to go forward this could never happen again or I will just leave without even talking to her.

Overall she’s a good catch, high SMV, loyal, good fun, good sex and comes from a good family. However, this is a pretty big red flag as she clearly couldn’t control her emotions when she was drunk and jealous.

I don’t think it’s worth breaking up over as she has a lot of good traits and this is the first instance she’s behaved in a way that makes me even question her as a LTR. However, I know my advice to a friend would be to break it off and at least downgrade her or hard next for a while.

What would your advice be?