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How long have you been doing this (2nd exercise in particular)? Do you do it daily, and have you observed lasting results? I’m theatrically trained, so I developed abdominal projection years ago, but I hate how high-pitched my voice sounds and have been looking for a solution. Just doing this for 10 minutes, I do seem to notice a difference, although it may be in my head. Wondering how long it takes to see results and how long until those results “wear off..?” If it’s a muscle like any other, yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 06:21 AM
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Hey I’ve been looking around for the journals you’re talking about and am not able to find them. I’d be very interested in reading them- can you provide any links? Really interested in his notes on this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 12:00 AM
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However- the point of my post was to try to understand “The Male-Female Hug” from the female’s perspective; hence the concern of not communicating weakness, platonicism, etc. That’s the point of this forum and everything on it. No need for condescension.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 01:33 AM
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Thanks. Sometimes, if they’re closer friends. Not most of the time, though.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:18 PM
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Some say kissing on the cheek (outside of EU I guess) is very weak and “friendly” behavior. As in, “Why didn’t he go for the lips?”
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:43 AM
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I'm taking a wild assed guess that some of the women you've been interacting with would describe things differently than you have. I think you need to work on your approach. Sometimes a hug is just a hug. Thank you- please elaborate
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:42 PM
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Wow, that totally makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. I've been binging radio episodes of Loveline on youtube and 95% are calls with women whose father was absent, it's nuts. Will check out the link, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 03:40 AM
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I've noticed that about post-wall women at the gym as well, especially women around their mid-forties. They look miserable, and as if they are fighting a constant uphill battle against time that they know they will never win. They seem to hate it. I almost feel bad for them.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 03:14 AM
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Yeah, I'm above average so on me it looks like a monster. Almost every girl who's seen it has said something similar.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:07 AM
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Why?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:15 PM
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Got it, thanks. This has happened to me in the past as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 03:46 PM
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What do you mean? I don't get it. What are you supposing she meant by that?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 04:05 AM
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Great clip, thanks
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:15 PM
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It's better to fail tremendously than to do nothing. Every failure or "cringe" moment is a learning experience. I discovered this place at 32 so I already had a lot of life/women experience, so the material clicked right away, and I knew it as fact rather than theory unlike a lot of others here. My goal upon learning this stuff was to crash and burn with women as quickly and spectacularly as possible, to grow as efficiently as I could. Take huge risks, be bold- far bolder than is within your com…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:23 AM
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Well said! That is exactly what I would say to myself about a year and some months ago. "Man cannot rebuild himself without pain, for he is both the marble and the sculptor."
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:38 AM
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That will get her wet within milliseconds. Because you are DHV and are making her work for it and "earn" it?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 11:44 PM
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Would this mean that in tribal times, once the women became pregnant, they'd seek betas for taking care of the kid?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 06:29 PM
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Yeah, Ben Shapiro talked about this yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:10 PM
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I'm with you. Visited Toronto a couple times a few years ago. I was constantly seeing the hottest women I'd ever seen in my life. I like mixed, ethnically ambiguous women, and there seemed to be no shortage. I've always since thought of it as the place with the hottest women. I'm moving to LA this year though, hoping that title changes!
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 04:34 PM
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Fuck yeah man, cartoons are the shit. I get them to put the Teen Titans Go show on at the gym when I'm on the treadmill- it's hilarious, especially with the subtitles. Check it out.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 10:53 PM
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Read Jocko Willink's book "Discipline Equals Freedom."
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:31 AM
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Sounds like the Thousand-Cock-Stare.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:28 AM
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I actually said "Daaaaaaamn!" out loud.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:29 PM
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Best way to learn is to touch that hot stove. I wouldn't have bought TRP without the personal experience- I thought I was an exception.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:22 PM
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I get pissed just thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:20 PM
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Ps, I've also won straight up dimes over taller built guys as well and there is pretty much no greater feeling.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 03:38 AM
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I'm telling you, being shorter can actually be an advantage- girls might question it at very first glance, but when they see you are the life of the party, are a ton of fun and truly don't give a fuck, they are captivated. It surprises them. I generally am not attracted to girls taller than me and almost exclusively go for girls shorter than me. I've found that girls shorter than me are thrilled and don't have a problem at all, in fact I think they find it more comfortable and natural to have a …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 03:35 AM
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I gotcha. I'm telling you, being shorter can actually be an advantage- girls might question it at very first glance, but when they see you are the life of the party, are a ton of fun and truly don't give a fuck, they are captivated. It surprises them. I generally am not attracted to girls taller than me and almost exclusively go for girls shorter than me. I've found that girls shorter than me are thrilled and don't have a problem at all, in fact I think they find it more comfortable and natural …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 03:35 AM
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Or if he has unshakable frame and unmatched charisma. I'm 5'4" and do great.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 02:38 AM
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I think he meant that he is interested in the friend romantically. If so, face your fears and escalate.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:13 PM
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Your personal perception of who you are is more important; it is the definition of Frame. Everything else- your entire life experience- and, indeed, the entire world around you, is defined by this. It is the definition of Frame. You must be so certain in who you are and your place on the Earth that it is absolutely unshakable. Nothing is more important. Edit: People will fall in line with your frame. If they don't, they have no place in your life. Be prepared to lose close friends once you make …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:08 PM
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Some of this was posted live and more on the unofficial RP discord server. Wait, you were posting FR updates while you were with her?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 11:19 PM
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Patrice O'Neal had some good advice on The Black Phillip Show. It's in the 3rd or 4th ep but you can prob find the secluded clip on youtube.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 03:13 AM
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Check out Corey Wayne's work- def read his book and I know he has a couple videos about masculine/feminine dynamics within homo couples. He teaches all kinds of relationships.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:53 AM
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I've also had several posts I thought were helpful but each time I post it doesn't show up on the sub. Not sure if I'm "shadowbanned," or don't have enough comment history or what. This happened a few times and has since caused me to become apathetic about contributing to the sub as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:49 AM
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I've had several posts I thought were helpful but each time I post it doesn't show up on the sub. Am I "shadowbanned," or don't have enough comment history or what? This happened a few times and has since caused me to become apathetic about contributing to the sub as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:46 AM
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The purple-haired one was recently telling us why women in their 50's, like her, are more attractive than women in their 20's. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-5184831/Star-Wars-Laura-Dern-reveals-aging-women-sexy.html
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 10:27 PM
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Nah but Asians, esp Asian women, age very well. A woman with at least some Asian in her is my ideal for serious LTR.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 05:40 AM
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Man, underrated comment of the sub. Can you please elaborate on not asking questions to women? I've never heard this before but it makes sense- questions make you look weak (unless when asking to get to know them).
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 04:48 AM
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Always learning. Post your deal to AskTRP for a thorough response.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 03:08 AM
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Great post. We are indeed blessed to have the red lens. I cringe when I see afc/nice guy behavior (daily) because I've been there and can relate, but goddamn, after a year of TRP it feels awfully powerful to have this sixth sense and be viewed as top shelf by the women who get to interact with me.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 10:16 PM
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The moral is that there is no single standard by which a man can be better than other men. Great point, and one I haven't seen on here. Really hits home and shows that only you can decide what the best version of yourself can be. You are trailblazing your own path! There is no path to follow. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 11:16 PM
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Is this a joke? She wants the D. Women will almost never make the first move. Escalate and smash, but beware of shitting where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:39 PM
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Married/taken women are more inclined to advances because it's a win-win for them- a simultaneous double test for both the boyfriend/husband and the new guy. She's testing the new guy: "Are you strong enough to win me over my partner?" She's testing the partner: "Are you strong enough to win me over this other guy?" It's validation from all sides, all to her benefit and entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 04:42 PM
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"Man cannot remake himself without pain, for he is both the marble and the sculptor." It will take time but you have to keep pushing. Think of all of your ancestors who struggled so that you could be here to prosper- do them justice. Do yourself justice, for it is your birthright to succeed in this way as a Man. Look into Jordan Peterson's work, and read Corey Wayne's book and watch his videos as supplements. Give it a month, 3 months, 6 months, a year. You will get stronger. Sounds like you are…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 01:54 PM
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This shit is true, and when I was at my lowest exactly one year ago, I would read stuff like this and it would seem impossibly distant. Like something deep inside realized it was true, but I truly never thought I'd see the day when I would "come to terms" with the reality that my "ideal woman" could reject me. It really is only the beginning of an amazing opportunity to become the MAN you are destined to become. You will one day be grateful it happened.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 05:03 PM
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"Who" was reading the site/ what was the situation?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 04:39 PM
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Awesome, never thought about it that way. And never heard that Pryor quote, either. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 02:40 PM
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She can sense your jealousy and will think less of you. Gotta get that under control. Easier said than done but as another person said, it is due to your scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:53 AM
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Read Corey Wayne's book and check out his videos as supplements.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:49 AM
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Word. I find it easy to sometimes get too "cold" when following RP logic.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:17 AM
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I think this is a plate for OP but if it were an exclusive relationship, isn't the correct answer: "You can do whatever you want but no girlfriend of mine will hang out with other guys one on one?" Then if she does it dump her immediately with no explanation needed?
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:22 PM
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Nah man, she's saying she only sees your dick as provider status and a doormat.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 09:15 PM
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Finally getting the kind of success with women unimaginable prior to finding TRP.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:43 PM
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Orange Juice is right, but you should also do Dr Jordan B Peterson's Self Authoring Program. The Future Authoring program helps you find your life mission and also how to best affect the rest of the world. Also check out Corey Wayne's work. https://www.selfauthoring.com
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:38 PM
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Exact situation: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:52 AM
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I liked it, please continue posting
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 03:26 AM
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It's funny bc I used to do a lot of things that put me in the public eye. Women would act like this all the time towards me, so much so that it was annoying bc I thought it wasn't their "real" personalities. Post-RP, I now know that it is most definitely their "real" self, trying to work as hard as possible to earn my approval.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 04:56 PM
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I watched this video last night, it was amazing. It really struck me when the computer was giving advice, and I actually laughed out loud when it said, "Trust me." Actually made me cringe a bit as it reminded me of times I fucked up with women in my days of BP-past. Not sure how realistic the women's demeanor was, but look how much the girl helped him out, how much shit she actually did put up with to try to get it on with him when she was at his place- turning down the lights and getting him to…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 06:28 PM
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I watched this video last night, it was amazing. It really struck me when the computer was giving advice, and I actually laughed out loud when it said, "Trust me." Actually made me cringe a bit as it reminded me of times I fucked up with women in my days of BP-past. Not sure how realistic the women's demeanor was, but look how much the girl helped him out, how much shit she actually did put up with to try to get it on with him when she was at his place- turning down the lights and getting him to…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 06:28 PM
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Did you do the past, present, or future authoring program? This is the point of the future program.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 04:28 PM
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This is one of the best posts on the sub-- very important words here and a great explanation. Sidebar material. Really resonates with me, thank you. Our strongest Frames are deep inside us. You may need to draw them out, to discover them by exploring the world and experiencing as much as you can. It could be a long and difficult search, but it is well worth it. This is the crux, and a huge understatement. I would add that you should be so naturally passionate about your life mission that every m…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:57 AM
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I was gonna say, for anyone struggling to discover their purpose in life, check out Jordan Peterson's self-authoring program. https://www.selfauthoring.com
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:31 AM
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Unicorns are generally considered 10's, or at least 9's. Ie, if she's an 8, "There's someone hotter out there." I'm with you that she's got some great stats though.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:06 PM
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an 8 Nope.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:34 PM
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Read Corey Wayne's book and check out his videos on youtube as supplements.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 03:21 PM
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Yeah you're right, there's too many variables about how she was feeling, but the point is how YOU were feeling. That's all you can control. And anyway, your holding your positive emotions and being "amused" at her shit is super attractive to her anyway. Maybe it was all a shit test, intentional or no. In any event, everything is a learning experience, just look back on shit that doesn't go how you want it to, evaluate what you would do differently in the future, and continue living your awesome …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:48 AM
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Have you read The Book of Pook? Life should be about you having fun, and you allow girls to participate in your fun life. Maybe you're being too serious/thinking too hard? I get this way sometimes and have to remind myself. It's funny, because of course the times when you're just enjoying yourself and not thinking about girls are the times when girls magically find their way into your orbit.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:27 AM
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It clicked with me literally immediately. The first week I discovered this sub was hungrily reading everything, every day all the time, even on breaks at work. I'm 32, have dated dozens of women from around the world "successfully" (via beta standards), and the first several days were filled with adrenaline as everything I had been confused about my whole life finally made sense. This stuff is not theory.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 10:26 PM
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Thanks. Deal-breaker lists are always valuable to hear.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:03 PM
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That was a sincere question.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:05 PM
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What are your deal-breakers?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:18 PM
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Agreed. OP check out The Book of Pook (again, since I'm assuming you've read the sidebar)
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 03:34 AM
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Good method. What if she apologizes with a possible bullshit excuse and wants to meet up still another day?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:39 PM
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On the first meet if she doesn't show, do you not text her at all? Like a few minutes after the set time or anything? Just wait for her to message you (assuming she does)?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:12 PM
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Such a hard but necessary lesson.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:14 PM
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I agree that it's "not our fault" and that society has "trained" us to essentially get friendzoned, but now that you've found this place and know better, you should be working to rectify that within yourself. You have no excuse anymore once you find TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:09 AM
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Not with that attitude you won't.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:06 AM
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Sorry about your father, man. Sounds like you learned a lot from him. Thanks for all your contributions here, I know you've helped me.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 06:36 PM
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Wouldn't her expressing this to him be her female way of trying to show her high smv? "Look at this dude who wants me, I am so wanted/valuable"
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 05:59 AM
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Now that I'm RP aware I just feel bad for these guys. They are of no competition whatsoever so I never feel threatened at all. Even most guys who try to cock block me or something, these days I can just tell immediately if they're BP, and they generally are. I know genetically speaking they are competition, but I see a bit of my distant past self in them and often feel compelled to help them out after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 09:46 PM
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Anal only.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 03:39 AM
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I wonder what she looks like without all that makeup
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:07 PM
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Jack White. Lots of Bob Dylan. There are some good posts in this if you search.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:15 PM
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Always go for the kiss. Check out Corey Wayne's book and watch his videos as supplements. Edit- I didn't look at your username. I've given you this advice like three times but I'll leave this response here for others who may have the same question.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 04:53 PM
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Somewhere along the way, I implicitly bought into some blue pill nonsense (hard not to do in psych programs) Why is this? I would think it would be the opposite and that psych classes, esp at the graduate level, would teach red pill truths, ie Jordan Peterson. Is the stuff he talks about really that unusual in academia?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 02:39 PM
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Word. I hadn't seen this- nice, man.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:51 AM
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He shouldn't if he's a personal trainer working with tight hotties all the time.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:04 PM
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lack of initial attraction, it's often a shit test. It's maybe the toughest shit test, too- esp if they're giving you shit. I didn't believe it was a shit test at all until I dealt with a hottie girl like this (seemed to pass her tests but then I walked away to do something else). I ran into her again weeks later and she was extremely affectionate and praised me for "being so cool when she was acting like a bitch to me." Bought me drinks and said I was "so much more interesting than her loser bo…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 04:43 PM
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Women become more attractive the more attracted they are to you. This is something I haven't seen mentioned on TRP as far as I can tell. I try not to use the 1-10 scale so as not to pedestalize, but I was at salsa lessons last week and there was a 7 and also an 8.5. The 8.5 responded well enough to my flirting/interactions, but the 7 was outrageously attracted to me. Her eyes got big and glossy when she spoke to me, she laughed at everything I said, stuck out her chest more, seemed to be in awe …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 02:36 PM
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There was some cartoon show I saw as a kid in the early 90's (I think it was Bobby's World), and a kid on there would ask all these hot and popular girls out. Each one would say, exactly, "You're such a great guy, and I wouldn't want to ruin our special friendship." I distinctly remember thinking as a seven year old what a shitty and insincere thing it was for the girls to say. Each girl had a snivelling valley girl kind of voice when she said it, too. I clearly remember thinking how offended I'…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 03:24 AM
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That's all you can do. They won't listen and will chastise you for being cold or something.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 02:57 PM
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Yeah exactly. You can feel her mania for validation just by scrolling through. It's unsettling.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:57 AM
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Image search her name, you'll see plenty.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:23 AM
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I don't use dating apps much but I will say that I've had pretty poor results when negging over text lately, even really light sarcastic remarks. The humor just seems to get lost or misinterpreted, especially if it's earlier on, like in the first few text exchanges. I've been playing it much more conservatively with better results. They say texting is for logistics only for this reason. I don't really sext or anything like that- I'm kind of interested, but a bit apprehensive that I'll do or say …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 04:37 PM
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"I just broke up recently" Ugh, flashbacks to my last beta days as well...
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:02 AM
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You should be approaching in real life, everyday.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:17 PM
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You have to throw in some beta at some point (appreciation, affection, "vulnerability"). But you should always lead, always. Always have a plan, know what's best, etc. You literally can never stop "gaming" her, and all women will always test you, forever and ever. This sub deals a lot with spinning plates, but to answer your question and general strategy regarding LTRs, I'd direct you to the Married Red Pill sub.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 09:59 PM
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It's always the man's fault- success or failure in a relationship is always a result of the man's ability to lead.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 09:54 PM
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You have to treat all women the same, and you have to be consistent, always. Sometimes, especially when you just start out on your Red Pill path, it's easy to treat girls differently when you really like them or if they're really into you. You start to think, "This girl's different," or, "I've got this in the bag, I can 'relax' on the dominant stuff," and tread dangerously close to oneitis territory. This is especially easy if you're a recovering niceguy. You start complimenting her, start suppl…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 05:07 PM
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Yeah, exactly. This would be "basing all of your decisions on what you imagine she might do," like he said.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 04:08 PM
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This is one of the best replies I've read on TRP. Sound advice here, OP. Real love experienced by a masculine man is like owning a puppy, not being the puppy. This line is going to be my mantra next time I find myself losing my shit over a babe who's totally into me. These days I'm getting more affection from women than I ever have before and it's unreal. I find when they're all over me that it's easy to involuntarily retreat back to the "boy" and supplicate. Sure enough, they are immediately tu…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 03:04 AM
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Haha that's a good one, I'm using it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 10:10 PM
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The latter sounds like a recipe for oneitis...
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 09:59 PM
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Absolutely makes sense biologically speaking. Makes sense metaphorically/psychologically as well-- men are generally forward-thinking, decisive, goal/outcome-oriented. Women are all over the place.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:01 PM
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Holy shit, that's unbelievable
/r/askTRP20/08/17 05:15 PM
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This is a great response. After nearly a year of TRP and working on myself to shed the niceguy, I'm finally truly finding the balance between "asshole" and "good man." I've realized that finding the balance really entails cutting away some of the "new asshole" aspects and let your true charisma shine. Being able to pull it out once in awhile when needed, like you said, is key. Great epiphany just this weekend when I "rediscovered" my true charisma which had been kind of lying dormant in this per…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 04:23 PM
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Damn, I swear the souls of a thousand fallen betas felt this one. Hear hear!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 10:51 PM
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"Michelle? or is this Brandy?" This is the exact situation for this kind of response. Works on so many levels.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 02:36 PM
1

That's what I was thinking
/r/askTRP11/08/17 02:35 PM
3

If ever this response was appropriate.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 02:33 PM
1

I'm just asking if Asian women are, in fact, at a biological advantage over other "races" in terms of their fertility window. Sounds like you're saying they are not.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 02:32 PM
2

Honest question- I do find that Asian women tend to age very well (aesthetically) compared to every other "race" of women. I know 30 year old Asian chicks who literally look 16. Despite their youthful appearance, their biological clock is wired the same as all other women? Or do they actually have more time? They still literally feel their biological clocks in their late-20's to 30 as well?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 03:21 AM
1

Good call. How do you swing this/plan for it when you're on a first or second date? Ie, if you at some point suggest you both go to her place and she says you can't for whatever reason, what do you do?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 04:56 PM
1

Where do you take them? Their place? Car or hotel?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 02:04 PM
1

Hahaha yeah thanks man
/r/askTRP03/08/17 10:26 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:28 PM
1

Oh is that where LA is? I haven't bothered to look it up on the map yet as I have made no preparations whatsoever.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:19 PM
2

Oh, I would appreciate the suggestions, thanks in advance. And what is the attitude I apparently possess that will prevent me from making it? Edit: I was being sincere, btw
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:17 PM
1

No, what other comment?
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:13 PM
1

If you are a fairly successful actor, it won't matter what roles you are known for. Ah, thank you for the feedback.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:10 PM
1

Yeah dude, trust him!!
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:09 PM
33

He'd tell him to go clean his room.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:01 PM
1

No I don't think that and I know what you're saying. You didn't answer my initial question.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 06:11 PM
1

Yeah, exactly. I'd take it. I MAY hesitate if it was really demoralizing, but I'd probably do it.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 06:10 PM
1

Thanks, for sure. I'm definitely doing it, just wondering about the BP nature of the industry.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 06:09 PM
3

Yeah you're right man, fuck my dreams. I should just do something more realistic since it's so hard and scary and you think I'm not the best. I should run from the dragon. LOL
/r/askTRP03/08/17 06:08 PM
1

33 but I'm mistaken for early 20's almost daily. If I shave my full beard I could pass for a teenager. I have a ton of energy/endurance if that's what you mean. Young person's game how? And what are your thoughts about my question?
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:32 PM
381

What an obnoxious dude. Jordan Peterson would like to have a word with him.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:53 PM
1

Exactly. It's more freeing when you come to a place where you can really embrace this and learn that what you were "working towards" is an impossibility in the first place.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 03:02 AM
3

Ha, yeah I did this, too. Quick way to lose friends and come off as a mysoginistic lunatic if you aren't careful.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 01:30 PM
3

Yeah I started watching MadMen right after discovering TRP and noticed the same thing about Draper. Californication, however, did make sense.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:11 AM
3

I call it the calibration period. I'm juuuust figuring out the ideal balance right now and it feels awesome.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:07 AM
2

ASSess the situation
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:06 AM
3

Ps, this was my "mistake" also- "Maybe if I become RP enough I can win over my oneitis!" Passed her once on a jog and I said, "Have we met?" as I kept running. That was the extent of it, though I should have probably just ignored and not gone for a jog in her neighborhood. Could have been a lot worse I guess.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:02 AM
3

Are you the guy who made the post about how he finally fucked his oneitis after discovering TRP but to his "horror" the beta came back without his realizing it? "I was a complete disgrace to the entire TRP community." It was hilarious and also eye-opening.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:58 AM
11

Roses and chocolates are reserved strictly for female orangutans.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 04:33 PM
3

Both Brad Pitt and Leo DiCaprio got dumped. What does that tell you?
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:19 AM
1

Yeah dude, read Corey Wayne's book and look up his videos as supplements. Also, lift. And good job for not texting her. It's true that the best way to learn is to touch that hot stove. It may take a longass time but you really will be stronger in the long run. Also watch Jordan Peterson's interviews on the Joe Rogan podcast on youtube. And watch all of Black Phillip on youtube.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:14 AM
1

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 04:41 PM
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You have to get RUINED by a girl for the inner Alpha to come out. But it is the worst pain you've ever felt in your life, I know. It will pass and you will emerge a righteous Man, trust me, it took me a long time but I'm finally feeling really strong and powerful. Man cannot change himself without pain for he is both the marble and the sculptor.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:43 PM
1

I disagree with the last guy. I say be direct: "Hey, when are you free this week?" Pick a time she gives and tell her to meet you somewhere at a specific time. "What are we doing?" She asks. "You'll just have to wait and see ;)" or whatever. Direct and assertive. Turns girls on and they will mention it on the date. Edit: but he's right about her being interested if she offers an alternative meet time if she "can't make it" the first suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 02:23 AM
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Ugh. I was actually expecting worse... I thought his initial response after 5 months or whatever was pretty clever. But he's def BP to the max. "My parents can't wait to meet you." Oh god. Anyone else think they look like siblings?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:33 AM
1

I had no idea since I always game solo, day or night. Once I walked in a bar with a (male) friend it was like a hundred times easier. And once I had a girl crawling on my arm I was getting huge IOIs from every other girl in sight. Makes total sense how meeting chicks through friends is best. Gaming solo and cold approaching is like seduction on hard mode.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:04 PM
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This is true- and the benefit is that it will be way easier for you after having so much cold approach practice. I recently met a girl at an event through some acquaintances and when I went for the number close at the end she was visibly turned on at my confidence and casual nature as I handed her my phone. This chick is nearly a dime and would possibly give me a lot of shit from a cold approach. I genuinely wasn't nervous at all after having so much practice lately, but I've leaned that social …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 04:39 PM
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I understand man, but as I suggested before, you should read Corey Wayne's book and check out his videos on youtube (as supplements). I'd encourage you to not naysay this advice like last time without investigating it. You're really close, and already have miles more confidence than a lot of guys on here; You need the mentally of, "If he (anyone) can do it, so can I."
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:44 PM
1

Great analogy
/r/askTRP25/07/17 03:09 AM
2

I'd second this. I fell into such an extreme case of oneitis last year, which ultimately led me here. When she eventually rejected me I truly thought I was going to die- unbelievably agonizing. In fact, the parts of the brain that are tormented during a horrible rejection/breakup are the same ones that light up atter the death of a close loved one. But the things I learned through the aftermath of the oneitis experience were so precious, and in many ways I feel very fortunate to have learned the…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 03:07 AM
1

Upvote for shamwow reference
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:15 AM
1

Apparently not!
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:00 PM
1

Great advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 10:39 AM
1

You suggest telling her to exchange info, then continuing to hang out with her (and just kinda hope the other guy goes away)? I suppose by doing this you display huge confidence, as in, "Sure, take this chump's number- he can't compare to me anyway as I have no competition?" I think that makes sense when looking at it as a shit test, but it feels more like outright disrespect, especially on a first date, and therefore weird to want to continue hanging with her. Do I have that right? I do like th…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:15 AM
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Hahaha that would be awesome
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:08 AM
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Haha def not infatuated in the least. Just wondering if reaching for the low-hanging fruit compromises my integrity. Good call on the house/drinks possible next date tho. This RP practice was super-valuable, actually. It's one thing to read about these situations, but having this experience under my belt makes me feel a lot stronger.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:43 AM
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Damn, should I quick copyright that shit? Wouldn't be the first time I inadvertently gave away a big moneymaking idea.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:05 AM
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Dude that is excellent advice. Say it in kind of a half dramatic playful way but still serious, I totally get it. I will keep that in my toolbox. Genius. Thank you
/r/askTRP13/07/17 12:41 AM
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Maybe. Still disrespectful and not warranting of my further attention though. Actually I bet he understood my reasoning.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 12:34 AM
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Yes dude! I was hoping you'd give some such advice.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:12 PM
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Right on, man. I love the challenge of conversations so much that when the guy FIRST started talking with her, I was kind of excited about it. As in, "How could this guy possibly out-alpha me in conversation." But as I mentioned before, the barstools were in a straight line, so to even see the guy I had to lean past the girl (who's back was already facing me)- would be totally in his frame. Should have led her somewhere else I guess but I just didn't care enough.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:11 PM
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Thank you. Yeah a more thorough post on that would be greatly appreciated and would probably be sidebar material. That's a part of my game I don't have much experience with (yet). But I'll bet it's not that hard once you get the hang of it. It just seems like all this effort of "sheilding" her and moving her around to avoid other guys should be unnecessary. As in, are women really worth that effort? I guess that's my call. My goal, of course, is to be of such high smv that she wouldn't dare allo…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:05 PM
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Thanks man, right on.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:55 PM
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Thank you, great feedback. As I mentioned above, the barstools were in a straight line, so to even see the guy I had to lean past the girl (who already had her back to me). Would be totally in his frame. I wasn't going to pull up my stool between them. This inability to engage made me feel kind of trapped and "threatened," as someone above suggested, but I'm telling you, if I was able to talk to them both I would not be threatened in the least. What would you have done given the details I just o…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:49 PM
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The barstools were in a straight line, so to even see the guy I had to lean past the girl (who already had her back to me). Would be totally in his frame. I wasn't going to pull up my stool between them. This inability to engage made me feel kind of trapped and "threatened," but I'm telling you, if I was able to talk to them both I would not be threatened in the least. I would have found the guy's attempts endearing at best. I like the hand between her thighs bit as the guy is trying to talk to …
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:36 PM
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I did never intend on talking to her again. I think you're right that she didn't realize she was being a poor date, which is why I was wondering if I was too harsh- and this is where my insecurity came from. During the date I was 100% confident and chill- so much so that this is why she was so surprised when I left- I think she had no idea. However I'd still guess the dude was trying to mack her- I don't remember if it was before or after he "realized" we were on a date but at one point he told …
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:31 PM
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It's true- the barstools were in a straight line, so to even see the guy I had to lean past the girl- would be totally in his frame.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:22 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:20 PM
2

Thanks man! It's a powerful feeling for a former NiceGuy.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:20 PM
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I'd never been in such a situation and wasn't sure I handled it properly. Didn't know if my planned text was appropriate, if at all (I did not send it). And was thinking for a minute that I may be able to leverage a soft next for some really intense desire from her for a ons or something, but I'm thinking it would compromise my integrity. As I mentioned above, if I just met this chick then I would move her away from Bob, but she was on a fucking date with me. She should be trying to earn MY appr…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:19 PM
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If I just met this chick then I would take her elsewhere, but she was on a fucking date with me. She should be trying to earn MY approval. I didn't feel as though I should have to go to such measures, fuck that. But I understand, good feedback, thanks.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:15 PM
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Nice man! PM me a link if you actually use it.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:09 PM
1

New Zealand (South Island) would be good. It's not a really different culture, but it's interesting and pretty. And if you're in a tourist area you'll meet people from all over the world every day. They have a working holiday visa for people under 30, and it's free.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 02:28 PM
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At least go somewhere and work a job for several months, rather than a couple week visit. That's good advice...
/r/askTRP24/06/17 02:22 PM
1

Funny, I took a girl on a date last week, we went to a museum that had a fun hands-on kind of brain teaser/puzzle exhibit. Like a word search where you actually jump on letters that light up and stuff. I love puzzles so I was stoked. There were some competitive puzzle games too. Problem was, she beat me at them! I kind of rushed and didn't think much about it, but lesson learned. I respected her more for beating me, but really, your date should not be beating you at stuff, especially logic games…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 07:05 PM
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Agreed. Dates should be "fun-filled romantic opportunities for sex to happen" and should be at night. Friends meet during the day. Maybe something more active that you're good at so you can have fun doing something YOU like and also show off. I've been digging the "barcade" date lately bc I kick ass at Street Fighter. You can tease her for sucking, push her mid-fight, mash her buttons, walk away for a min then come back and still beat her. Gets her all excited, it's the best. Check out Corey Way…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:42 PM
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If he can do it, I can do it. They've never met anyone like me before. She'd be lucky just to get to know me better. EDIT: The key, however, is to actually believe that stuff
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 05:31 PM
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I want to go out, have sex with different girls Sounds like you want to go out and have sex with different girls. Do that.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:49 PM
1

I'm telling you dude, women can feel that insecurity that you're projecting of your height. I honestly believe being short can be an advantage if you have rock-solid confidence, because it totally surprises the woman. I have taller chicks flirtatiously approach me all the time, probably because I prefer shorter chicks so the taller ones are basically invisible to me. I'm always stunned when tall girls come on to me because it's opposite of what you think. It really is all in your head dude.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:29 PM
1

Shorter than you
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:06 PM
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I'm glad there are short people with shitty attitudes like yours because it makes short guys with great attitudes like mine really stand out.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 12:48 PM
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Congrats, great work! I'd suggest not setting up a next date on a current date. It keeps her wondering and otherwise she knows she "has you." Women want a chase.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 08:34 AM
2

Do you specifically suggest using "please" and "could you?" TRP preaches telling them to do stuff and implies that women prefer it this way, but my former nice guy self is still a bit apprehensive about this sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:58 AM
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She says later on that she thinks men are biologically non-monogamous, but women are not able to be. ...yet she says her husband is monogamous to her and she def didn't say she encourages otherwise. So I guess that proves your point.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 12:21 AM
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I see what you mean- like she is overtly communicating the AWALT nature of women hanging out with exes, and (supposedly) actively restraining herself from it, so this honesty is commendable; that's what you're saying, yes?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:05 PM
2

The more you say/think, "She's the best XX," the more you solidify your oneitis programming. It's a bitch, but you have to stop.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:56 PM
1

Lowers your value in her eyes and makes you look weak to keep going after her. Check out Corey Wayne's "Seven principles to win an ex back" on youtube and read his book.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:54 PM
1

Great point. I'll add that she does say at 6:00 that she "doesn't hang out with ex boyfriends because it could open up the door to something happening." Still AWALT-ish.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:47 PM
2

What if, after your first "just got this" text, she just continues her excuse and does not offer a new date? Act chill and ask when she is free the next week? Or just ignore?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 04:49 PM
5

A dick
/r/askTRP19/06/17 03:42 AM
2

No, he's not PUA and he doesn't like PUA. Look into him, believe me, your success will increase.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:02 PM
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Yeah plus you never know- you could run into her later in life under better circumstances and with more experience under your belt, and you could be successful then. An alpha NEVER gets butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:44 AM
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Good job of course but have you looked into Corey Wayne's work at all? He says to never text/call to confirm the date beforehand because it shows weakness. Instead he says to get her to confirm when you make the date and to say, "Great, I'll meet you at X place and X time then and if something changes we have each other's numbers." Then no contact till the date (unless she contacts you). There are so many small things that actually communicate a lot. Check out his thousands of videos on youtube …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:28 AM
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Excellent. Any additions (by OP or anyone else) are most welcome. I've lately been making a serious effort to LEAD in every way I can in my life, especially minute ways like some of these...
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:53 AM
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They're both great and the moves are transferable.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 09:45 AM
1

Hey what do you mean by, "Go for the close" in this context? I get numbers almost every time I approach but I often won't get a response when I text a couple days later.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 07:03 PM
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Go for the kiss!! Always. Esp an Asian with a fat ass- nice job, man.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:59 AM
2

...Also Ghandi
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:47 AM
2

Ben Kingsley
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:47 AM
1

I feel ya dude. Unfortunately this is not the place for that kind of support. It is/was a learning experience- you're more of a Man now than you were before. Accepting that, bettering yourself (lift), meeting more women, and time are all you have. Good luck-
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:27 PM
1

I would never have bought into RP had I not been rejected by this extreme oneitis last year. I would have continued to believe that I am an exception to women (Disney), and that all I'd have to do it "try a little harder" (aka be even more BP). The rejection still stings but I've since had success that my former BP self would never believe.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:19 PM
6

Any examples of failing comfort tests resulting in irreversible damange?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:11 PM
2

Would this be a comfort test or shit test? Or could be either/both? When you aren't sure, which side should you take?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 02:21 AM
3

This is a really great addendum, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 02:16 AM
2

Stay chill and don't push for commitment- let her do that. Check out Corey Wayne's youtube channel and definitely read his book.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:36 AM
1

Can you give more examples of actions you can take to strengthen your frame? I like the idea of this as your goal as opposed to pulling.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:29 PM
1

No, I teased her and it somehow came off as offensive. Don't remember what I said- it was just after I had shed my "Nice Guy" ways, so I was still in the calibration period.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:02 PM
1

I guess I am too, now that I think about it. But honestly, I never ever think about it. I haven't thought about that sort of thing since middle school. Maybe that's why it's never come up- because I never even consider it. Guys will sometimes say something about it when we're dogging each other. I guess I did have a woman bring it up once when I approached and inadvertently offended her. I was surprised I offended her and acted kind of awkward, then she said something about me being short. She w…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 08:11 PM
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They do have a point that you should be prepared for it, as absolute last resort, especially when physically protecting your woman (and especially as short guys, ie "easy targets"), but I've found in life that fights don't seem to find me much, fortunately. Honestly I don't get shit tests on my height much at all but one tactic I will NOT use is agree/amplify. I suspect any time you hear guys on here suggesting stuff like that ("Yeah I look like a fucking dwarf when I'm not in high heels" etc), …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 07:14 PM
1

Yes I'm sure. Develop strong confidence and you'll know. And no fights since middle school, but that was an integral part of developing said confidence for me. Boxing and Judo is really great for this, I'd recommend it highly. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 07:02 PM
1

Girls that are too short just seem wrong based on my height. I'm 5'4" and similarly, girls taller than me just doesn't feel right. I almost always go for women shorter than me, and my height has never been a problem. It may actually be an advantage to be short in a way because women can be totally impressed and taken aback if your confidence is rock solid. Honestly it surprises me that taller women are often into me because it's totally contrary to what you'd think. It may also be because I pay …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 04:39 PM
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Damn man, are there really that few educated and intelligent women in LA? I'm planning to move there to pursue acting at the end of the year but had no idea it was THAT bad... Educated/intelligence is a must for any serious LTR in my book...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:04 AM
2

Check out Corey Wayne's stuff in youtube and DEFinitely read his book- you can even read it free on his website.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:20 AM
1

chadly
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:27 AM
2

Yeah get a trustworthy friend to go get it.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 03:00 AM
2

Oh, yeah. That's stupid. But hey, it still gives us less competition. Obviously written by a guy (Aziz). Interestingly, I just spoke with a friend who said her close friend recently was seated at a table adjacent to Aziz while he was on a date. Her friend said she said it was obvious he was talking about himself the whole time. Go figure.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:18 PM
7

Maybe I missed something but from your description season 2 sounds incredibly realistic as he goes all Blue Pill and never gets the girl. I watched season 1 when I was still BP and have been anticipating a cringe-worthy experience in Season 2 now that I know the Truth. I find modern media to be depressing and infuriating because of how brainwashed I was, but am beginning to appreciate it as it keeps me at the upper hand of the vast majority of society.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 09:43 PM
2

I'd also suggest On Point with Tom Ashbrook, and Fresh Air with Terry Gross. Both are geniuses regarding keeping a conversation going and asking good questions that get to the point.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:10 AM
3

Start training in a martial art like BJJ or Judo. The inner and outer strength you will gain will make that shit go away.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 03:02 AM
3

God DAMN it I love pizza... Started a serious diet about a month ago (permanent diet I believe) and dammit I think about pizza at least once an hour...
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 02:58 AM
1

Yeah I'm with you on all that, thanks. Also I find that it's a good vetting opportunity to see how appreciative they are of the gesture. My only caveat would be to not say "you can pay next time-" instead I generally say something more like, "you can pay next time IF we decide to meet again." Keeps them on their toes.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 02:49 AM
3

Ah yeah, that makes a lot more sense. "The golden pimp move" he calls it or something. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:28 PM
2

Yeah I get that but if you listen to the clip, he's saying that women want to pay so that they specifically don't have a guy think they owe him anything, and that they partially want to feel like they (the women) are owed something by the guy. For this reason Patrice says to always pay no matter what. Doesn't quite make sense to me considering AF/BB.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 07:06 PM
3

Patrice says at 1:20:15 that a man should always be reaching into his pocket and should always pay for dinner/drinks/etc, even if he has to argue with a woman. He says women want to pay as a power move, kind of like a shit test, and that men should never let them have this. How does this jive with the AF/BB dynamic? Isn't that seen as "Beta?"
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:50 PM
4

What are the negative side effects?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:38 PM
6

Once you have sex with a girl who is completely in desire for you, there's no mistaking it after. I never really experienced this till finding TRP actually. Check out Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 04:01 AM
11

What progression would you recommend reading through Athol Kay's books? I haven't read any yet but plan to this summer. Which one should I start with? I'm not married, if that matters.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:10 AM
1

Especially don't go to a baby booker female therapist. I did this after getting dumped by my oneitis last year and she was just totally blue pill. She told me the exact kind of stuff you are fearing: "you did great," "that girl was just ungrateful of all the NICE things you did," etc. Found TRP soon after that.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 10:24 AM
0

Agreed. She would never respond that way to Brad Pitt.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:41 AM
2

Curious, in cases like you mention where you fucked up a relationship opportunity by being totally weak/beta/doormat/nice guy, then get burned but find TRP and come out a legit Man, do guys sometimes actually thank the girl later on for dumping his ass, etc? I consider doing this sometimes if the opportunity ever arises, but I feel it would make me look even weaker still, like I'm still pedestalizing by thanking her. Then again, she already thinks you're pathetic so a) why would you want to be w…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 10:46 AM
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Look up Corey Wayne's stuff on youtube and definitely read his book.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 10:44 AM
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I'd encourage you to look up Corey Wayne's videos on youtube, and definitely read his book, it's free on his website. I bet you'd be in really good shape after that.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:11 PM
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He's saying you need practice to get to the kind of girl you ideally want to get. The practice and experience makes the next time easier.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:43 PM
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You didn't see it yourself so you have an out if you want to avoid the situation. I suspect this is what I would do. Just don't lie if approached about it- tell your side of the story.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:51 AM
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Good man. Dude hostel game is perfect, and it's filled with exotic adventurous young fit women who are "free spirits" and ready for fun. I missed so many incredible hostel opportunities in my days of BP past. Slay it! And be especially bold with your approaches since you almost definitely will never see them again. Review Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:47 AM
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Ahhh, thank you for the clarification- I really appreciate it. I'll heed your words and use this- thanks again!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:33 PM
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Hey thanks man. Forgive my confusion though- I may just be confused by the wording, but are you saying this is a question I should ask at the end (if they didn't already ask), or question I should anticipate and be prepared for?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:47 AM
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I liked it.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:44 PM
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Hey thanks for this, and great timing as I have a "big" third interview with the managing partners of a company week. I'm interested in the "why should you hire me" question. I've never heard of this before- please expound on why you think this is a good question. Does it need to be delivered very serious/straight-faced? I can imagine asking it with a slight smirk and coming off like a cocky jackass, especially when I do not have any other interviews lined up, not that that matters I guess. In c…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:28 PM
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It's not their job to approach/introduce themselves, it's yours. Hostel game is THE easiest way to go imo man. Wish I knew this stuff when I was hostel hopping a few years back.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 10:05 PM
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That's fascinating... Is that akin for men in the sense that after we orgasm we often have a ping of disgust in the woman? As if to say, "Already impregnated this one, move on?"
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 12:11 AM
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Also, saw in your post history that you tried his future authoring program- looking forward to doing that this summer, too.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 01:41 AM
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I think this should be a new curse phrase akin to "fuck you." Go clean your room.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 12:38 AM
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Will do, I've been meaning to- it looked awesome.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 12:35 AM
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So many RP fundamentals confirmed here, perhaps the most engaging three hours of my life. I've listened to it twice already. Joe says it's his favorite podcast of all time.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 05:04 PM
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Fuck that noise, and fuck racists. It's just ignorance. I'm generally more attracted to women of races other than my own, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:49 PM
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You can save her!! Never give up.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:14 AM
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Don't know why you're getting downvoted, it's right there in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:11 AM
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I think it was someone shitting on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:48 AM
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Yeah. The former sounds stronger and more indicative of a leader. I'd go with that one, although probably a bit less directly; "No gf of mine would ever cheat on me or it'd over." Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:26 AM
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I'm only on season 2 but I thought Roger was embarrassingly BP with Joan.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 02:14 PM
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Late response here, but are you suggesting that the second option is better, because you will more easily expose her cheating nature? Hadn't considered this kind of strategy...
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 04:34 AM
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What kinda lies? I've been thinking a lot about this lately.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:57 AM
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Yeah, I dunno... Starting to agree with others here- sounds a lot like she's feigning ignorance to protect future actions via shit test. This one's confusing.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 09:55 PM
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In which case, should he somehow reward her for her handling of this situation?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:49 PM
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He was a guest on Joe Rogan's podcast not long ago- an amazing episode, watch it on youtube.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 02:44 PM
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Haha that does sound awesome
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:45 PM
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Right on, man. "Failure" is more important than "success;" no such thing as failure, it's all valuable. Impossible to forget those mistakes- best way to learn is get burned hard on that stove, and I am confident there is no way I could make those mistakes again. It all woke me up to TRP. A blessing, really. Only wish I found this stuff earlier but I have to accept that it's all part of my path. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:54 PM
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Ugh, reading your post hits hard. This was totally me with my extreme oneitis last year... It lead me here, so yes, a major blessing. I've since had success with women that would be unimaginable to my former BP self, but I still think about her and kick myself when I hear shit like this now that I "get it." Impossible to make those mistakes again, a great lesson. But I still cringe at stuff like this.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:22 PM
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OP, if a woman asks you to change something about yourself and you do, she will actually despise you for being so weak. She wants a strong man, a leader, and likely will not even understand why it is she detests you. "Men mold women into someone they love, women mold men into someone they hate," or the like. Check out The Black Phillip Show and also Corey Wayne's work on youtube. Also, sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:35 AM
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why stay with a 9.5 when you can get a 10? Nice, never considered this.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:26 AM
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How thick are you? I'm 5'4" and 6.75" long with 5.5" girth and almost every girl I've been with has outright said I have a big dick.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 11:59 PM
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Underrated comment of the year, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:33 AM
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Thanks so much for the great and thorough response, I really appreciate it. I do love myself as a person very much, always have, but I have learned through the experiences with this person that I did not demonstrate this self-respect, as you said. I am already at the point where I have recognized the truth you're saying: I did make so many mistakes with this person and I can now identity probably all of them. Yes, I have learned these invaluable lessons and I am certain I will not make them agai…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:48 PM
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Man, this really hits home for me right now, thank you. I do see getting burned by the oneitis and finding TRP as a lesson- an essential one for me to become the man I must become. I am a new person since those days, just several months ago, and I am extremely optimistic and confident about the future. I did give it my all and absolutely did the best I possibly could with what I knew at the time... which was to be a huge beta/doormat. I never thought I was "bad," always thought I was doing the r…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:55 AM
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Ha- and on your cakeday, too
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 01:00 AM
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Ugh. I was never that bad- not an idiot, just misguided by society. Still, that shit will prob hit too close to home for me to want to check out, hahaha.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 10:11 PM
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Is it a joke? Or are they actually self-righteous nice guys (oxymoronic)?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 10:01 PM
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Wow, that makes a lot of sense- very interesting. Would explain why men didn't have to deal with this as much before the contraceptive pill was created.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 08:31 PM
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Look up Corey Wayne's stuff on youtube. I haven't read his book yet but I plan to next week, I'm sure it goes a lot deeper.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:39 PM
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Your attainability and familiarity in her eyes becomes repulsive (note this is on an unconscious level and primarily felt in her vagina). Is this literally felt in her vagina, or a metaphor? Amazing post, btw. Especially: They are relics of a time long past, where you were a naive boy, and they served as stepping stones to becoming a man.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:05 PM
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Holy shit, well said.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:04 AM
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Great story. Also, great username.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:53 PM
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Actually the epitome of Beta is a guy who marries a girl and they BOTH hyphenate their names but the hyphenation is HER name before his. Guy at my work did this with his wife. Even before I discovered TRP I knew I detested him, but I couldn't figure out why...
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:35 AM
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This is basically what my main focus is in my RP "journey" or whatever. Always been extremely charismatic my whole life, but nice guy Beta until finding TRP several months ago. I've found that it takes time and practice to find the right balance of charisma/asshole, and it seems like you're bound to piss people off as you figure this out. I find myself teetering the line, but I'm getting close. I was called an asshole (not in the good way) by a super high SMV chick and kicked out of that bar for…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 11:12 PM
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**Don't improve yourself to win over women at all. Improve yourself to be the best version of yourself possible. Women will come naturally.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:12 PM
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No shit... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xfffwx3nWuA
/r/MGTOW04/04/17 01:20 AM
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I agree, OP- don't bother with a therapist. Last year when my oneitis gave me the LJBF I also couldn't eat/sleep and I saw a therapist for a couple months. She kept reassuring me that I was a great guy and that the oneitis was kind of a P.O.S. and ungrateful for all the NICE things I had done for her. Those sessions were helpful in a way, but it still didn't add up- I still didn't understand why the oneitis didn't want me. I realize now that the therapist was 1) a woman and 2) a baby boomer, and…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:16 PM
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God damn that's a great post. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 07:09 PM
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That white male clip was infuriating.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 03:19 PM
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Agreed. Also the last sentence says the manliest thing we can do is be vulnerable (like a beta).
/r/askTRP01/04/17 02:27 PM
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CGTOW lol
/r/MGTOW01/04/17 07:59 AM
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I just listened to the Joe Rogan episode where he had Henry Rollins on. Truly inspirational- the man is a machine on his mission. Check it out on youtube for full effect.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:13 AM
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Most of what she says is shit tests or requests that test for alphaness Since finding TRP I've noticed this to be true, too. It's really interesting. I bet 95% of my interactions with women in my days of BP past (romantic or otherwise) were just me continually failing shit tests, hahaha.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 02:00 AM
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Yeah... But for many (like you and me), getting your heart destroyed is the only way to truly discover and swallow this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 01:07 AM
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Great line.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:53 PM
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Found this place last year at 32. Dated dozens and dozens of women all over the world in my days of BP past. I have yet to find a contradiction within the main points of TRP, with any woman, including family. Shit is legit, and life-changing. It's not manipulative, it's nature obscured by society. Impossible to unsee.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:42 PM
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What you've experienced less of is the deep respect women have for players and alphas. Man, I've absolutely noticed a difference in the way women act around me since TRP, but just this past weekend was my first real experience of that deep respect you mentioned. Ran into a girl at a bar that I'd had a few slight interactions with before. Super hot, really put together- professional and young. I just held frame and lead the whole time, light kino, flew through her shit tests, teased her and made …
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:10 PM
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you've got a huge amount of blue pill reference experience of what not to do in life. When we say "she says this but means this" for you it is not theoretical. You have proof, you have experienced it. Exactly. This is why the transition was extremely quick for me. I knew it was all legit.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 04:46 PM
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Of course. The other guy's right- it's all about leadership and confidence, abundance mentality, and outcome independence; and really the #1 rule of TRP is to make yourself the best you can be, and do NOT do this for women. Women will naturally come as a result or side effect, like icing on a cake. Read all of the sidebar of course, but stuff that particularly helped me was Rational Male Year 1, and The Book of Pook. Look up/read No More Mr Nice Guy, The Charisma Myth, Sex God Method, and 3% Mal…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 04:42 PM
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Dude, totally; it's insane. So many years of cockblocking myself into a corner. So many incredible missed opportunities. Crazy too that it's getting to a point where I don't really have to "think" much to be in the RP mindset- it's starting to just kind of.. happen. But yeah man, I look back on texts I sent just a few months ago and cringe. Only wish I'd have learned this stuff sooner.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:31 AM
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Absolutely, it's almost scary. I carry myself 100% more masculinely, and have an Alpha mindset, and I swear everywhere I go women are covertly presenting themselves to me. Part of it might be that I'm just more attuned to how they work, but I've had more "success" with women since swallowing TRP several months ago than I've had in my entire life. Last weekend I ran into a girl at a bar that I'd had a few slight interactions with before. Super hot, really put together- professional and young. I j…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 12:00 AM
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No such thing as a mutual breakup? I've never heard that before..?
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:57 PM
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Wow, that's unbelievable. Thank you for the lesson.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:39 AM
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Different strokes. I'm white but generally very much prefer non-white women.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 07:05 PM
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Interested to know why you'd say it's better to start with a new girl after taking the pill?
/r/askTRP23/03/17 07:13 PM
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I'm with you. I'm 5'4" and very charismatic, keep myself in shape, well-groomed, etc etc. I'm taller than my Dad, who is taller than his Dad, and I was brought up learning to physically defend myself from bullies, etc, so I almost never even realize I'm "short" these days unless someone brings it up. It hasn't been any sort of conscious thought since I reached adulthood. I have no problem with women being attracted to me/ going out with me, and since swallowing TRP this has become a lot more int…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:29 PM
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Exactly. This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Thanks for those words, makes me feel a lot better, haha. It's tricky to het it right, but I'm very optimistic and excited for when I get this down to where I want it. Really looking forward to becoming the person I want to be.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:21 PM
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Yeah... I've found (the hard way) that smiling is 100% key.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:05 PM
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Why do you say this period is necessary? Because you have to learn to kind of "calibrate" it, like I described in my post on this thread?
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:04 PM
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Interesting timing of this question for me. Recovering nice guy here, I never really teased or flirted with women before (or knew much what I was doing), but overall I have transitioned well to a kind of "comfortable cocky" where the woman isn't turned off or offended because it's pretty clear I'm just goofing around. In general I have been very successful with this. However I am sometimes having a hard time calibrating when to tease/be cocky/asshole-ish, and when not to, because I've found ther…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:03 PM
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What if she asks why, and presses him about it? What do you do?
/r/askTRP18/03/17 04:09 PM
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A) to pass on any STDs so she can imagine you had them first B) in case of accidental pregnancy a month later she can imagine the kid is yours Holy shit, I bet some women would actually do that. Insane.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 04:06 PM
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Dude I'd encourage you to not think about the details so much. It's crazy because, assuming they're laughing and enjoying your presence (and not giving you really bitchy shit tests), a lot of the time whatever you say doesn't even have to make sense. As long as you deliver it with that cocky kind of unwavering confidence. The energy is what's important. Try not to think of it so logically because women aren't logical. Make fun of their hair, shoes, clothes, makeup etc (stuff they really care abo…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 02:08 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lhrjnSyKBYw
/r/askTRP17/03/17 11:32 PM
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Pretend they're kids and make fun of them not maliciously but always in such a way that genuinely entertains you. It's purely for your entertainment, and this way you'll always naturally be smiling and laughing at it all. I act cocky to an almost ridiculous degree, so it makes it all the funnier for the both of us, and I still can't believe how much they eat it up. Once it all clicked for me it erased any kind of approach anxiety and became incredibly fun.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 11:27 PM
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That latter one is really good. I gotta hone up on my pressure flip skillz.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 01:03 AM
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Good advice here. I'd be interested in a follow-up.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 09:34 PM
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So funny because basically the last thing I would ever want to hear in a really terrible situation is "everything will be alright." Pisses me off and is illogical. Then I remember that I am a man and women do not think logically. Damn, my life is different since TRP.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 01:17 AM
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Some here will say that the fucked up mother-child psychological associations you initially made with this woman are hard-wired into your brain and will never go away. Others say it can, with time. There have been FRs here about guys finally nailing their Oneitises from days of BP past, only to find themselves reverting, to their horror, back to their former bitchass Beta selves. I find the concept of Oneitis really fascinating. I'm about 6 months out from rejecting the LJBF offer from my Oneiti…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 12:08 AM
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On point. Listen to this guy, OP.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:27 PM
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Good mentality, thank you. That's really interesting, I wonder how many chicks have flaked on you after/because of that..? Seems like it has to be executed pretty delicately or else come off as really odd. Or maybe that makes them more comfortable? Also, why in text as opposed to in person? So they can actually send a photo of it or something? Do you reciprocate? Thanks again, I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 10:11 PM
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So if you're on a first or second date at your place, things start to get hot and heavy, clothes come off, then you ask her to pull out her STD test papers? Or when/how do you bring this up?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 09:53 PM
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You guys actually ask to see documentation of an STD test before having sex with a girl? Or is this a joke?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 09:48 PM
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You guys actually ask to see documentation of an STD test before having sex with a girl? Or is this a joke?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 09:09 PM
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Great quote.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:37 PM
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Is a girl stopping in the middle of sex saying she can't continue really that abnormal? I've never had that happen but don't think I would have jumped to false rape conclusions. Honest question.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:26 AM
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Why doomed from the get go? Cause he's pedestalizing and in her frame? Or do you mean that in general relationships with a oneitis are doomed?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:05 PM
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Why do you hard next a oneitis?
/r/askTRP05/03/17 01:53 PM
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Do you specifically hate yourself because you know how pitifully BP you were before, and how this girl knew you as pathetically BP? So you feel she could never really have a "pure" impression of you due to your wimpy-ass past with her? So you kind of inadvertently lose confidence in your future with her because she could never truly 100% trust your masculinity due to this? I'm a totally different person from the BP bitch I was with my oneitis, and whenever I imagine somehow getting with her and …
/r/askTRP03/03/17 10:24 PM
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Why is a girl pressuring for commitment/monogamy at the onset of a relationship a red flag?
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:34 AM
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Is that really a red flag? The oneitis that rejected me (which led me here) is 29 and has supposedly been in back to back relationships since she was 16. She's really hot and cool, smart, funny, blah blah. Magnetic person. When she first mentioned that, I was kinda taken aback, but have since figured that this is typical for most hot bubbly girls...?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:33 AM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:19 AM
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Got a friendzone offer from my oneitis (which I fortunately declined) about 5 months ago. Couldn't believe it as I knew this girl was crazy into me at first. Saw a post in r/breakups and the guy was just talking about things... differently. In a way that made a lot of sense. I was really inspired, looked into his history, found TRP and discovered that I had been, in fact, a complete weakass chump with her the whole time. Since then I've been a completely different/better Man. Still shocked and a…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:08 AM
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Most define "unicorn" foremost as a virgin. Ie, so desired and unlikely that she is viewed as a mythical creature.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:09 AM
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Yeah exactly. I've done some international travel and know bits of a dozen languages or so. The reaction is sometimes unreal when you greet or thank a woman in her (fairly obscure) native language, especially if your pronunciation is really good. I feel like it's something you may have to experience to understand.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 09:36 PM
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Yeah it was badass.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:18 AM
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Fucking fascinating. (Not sarcastic)
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 02:08 AM
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Ugh I have so many similar stories to this- I realize now after discovering TRP...
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 12:48 AM
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Just do it without thinking, just go into it and approach. Longer you wait and think about it, the worse you will come off. If/when rejection happens, do NOT look at it as "failure"-- it's all learning, and the "failures" are really more valuable than the "successes" because of what you will learn. It's how you grow. Reflect afterward about what you could have done differently because in the future you will at some point get the same responses and you will be prepared. It's really fun once you g…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 05:54 AM
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I know this was posted awhile back but I just wanted to say that this has probably been the most encouraging RP post I've come across and I come back to it often. I discovered TRP not long after getting a LJBF offer from my oneitis (that I fortunately declined) and of course since then have realized just what a weak chump I was the whole time. Had no idea but have transitioned to RP frame pretty quickly and easily. I'm still really embarrassed by how pathetic I was and how pitifully this person …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:06 PM
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If there's no date within 48 hours, I hard next. Why is this? Surely some girls are totally booked for 48 hours, no? Also, when approaching at the store, do you approach and generally remark/tease them on stuff they're buying? Or always wait for their IOI, then approach/introduce as normal?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:06 PM
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Right on.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:49 AM
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Funny, I just discovered the value of the arcade date. I love old videogames. Kick the shit out of her in Street Fighter, tease her the whole time, bump into her, mash her buttons, pull her away from the machine mid-round, still win and tease her further. They die laughing. &nbsp Actually I'm planning on moving to Chi this summer. Mind if I ask what thrift place you're talking about?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:44 AM
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Wow that Goodwill/roleplay date idea is brilliant and sounds really fun. What girl wouldn't love that and see it as truly unforgettable? Great first impression. Thanks, man. Would you set that up by telling them the idea beforehand, or (I assume) keep it a surprise, ie, "Meet me at Goodwill at 2pm?"
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:36 AM
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I bounce once I see they're mirroring me well Interesting. To leave them wanting more/build mystery/make yourself look busy (whether you actually are at that time or not)? grocery shopping together and then cooking a meal at my place Is this generally a meal of your choosing (you lead it), or something she suggests, or decided upon mutually? Any fan faves or dishes that worked particularly well? Recipes welcome. some sort of random roleplay date What does this mean?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:08 AM
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TRP didn't let me post to the main sub because my account was so new. So I posted here because I thought it would be a great discussion. Then my original post suddenly showed on the main sub after all. Shrug.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:22 AM
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Aside from the constant 'A-ha' moments the sidebar gave me as every "success" and "failure" I've ever had with a woman was finally made clear, the real 'A-ha' moments came when I was interacting with a woman and felt true, unmistakable desire and lust from her. Finally understanding what she was reacting to and why, being confident with it, and knowing how to work that within her. Biggest challenge is (still) dealing with the embarrassment of my former BP ways as I now understand the weak chump …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:48 PM
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Marx Bros- Horse Feathers is my favorite. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wn9kMxvN6qY
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:17 PM
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For example, cute chick who works at the yoga place I go to. I've seen her out and she's receptive. Any other girl I'd get the number, but I mean- it's the yoga place, so there's lots of babes there. Why would I jeopardize the babes that go there for the one sitting at the front desk watching everything? My question is- do you think this is an appropriate payoff? I'd think not but wanted some outside opinions.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:33 PM
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Hm, interesting. I think I could buy something like that. Almost like Oneitis is equivalent to falling for the "Alpha" female in terms of ideal beauty/fitness/childbearing qualities. If Oneitis inherently exists within all of us, as you say, maybe it's a kind of natural population control? If that were the case, we, by practicing abundance mentality, are kind of "hacking" nature.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:53 AM
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Right on, thank you. I wonder why this happens biologically... Nature programming men to want to "settle" and raise offspring when humans lived in smaller groups and abundance mentality was not possible? I find oneitis very interesting.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:12 AM
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Is Oneitis generally something you get once and never get again after learning from? I am just getting over a crippling textbook case, which helped me find TRP. I've had it before too... But I just don't see how there's any possible way I could make these mistakes again after all the RP teachings/books/Black Phillip/etc... My brain feels fundamentally changed.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:27 PM
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When, if ever, can you talk about intellectual stuff? Just bit by bit but never heavy doses? In LTR situations? Or exclusively save it for your guy friends? I suppose every girl/dynamic is different...?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:52 AM
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Very wise words, thank you. I've read this comment over several times and will continue to meditate on it. I feel as though your comment is something of a cornerstone of my path. I appreciate it. Oneitis, compounded with my (now after finding TRP I see) embarrassing former ridiculous beta nature, is a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:33 AM
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Haha I just meant that it was strong and confident.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:15 PM
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Thanks man- workin on it. Lifting/cardio/yoga almost every day in some variance. Learning/hobbies the rest. Been keeping real busy and been really successful with women since TRP. Got a few plates and lots of dates, but hard to find hotter than the oneitis (I know, I know). Funny, each time I run into her, she never seems to be quite as hot and radiant as she is in my head...
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 05:18 AM
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Thank you- I mean regarding the pedestalization you psychologically have developed for a particular person- will that always come creeping out, should you ever have interactions in the future, even if time has passed and you've grown? Is that what you meant by playing with fire? I've heard conflicting theories on this. Fundamentally, I find it very difficult to believe that I would ever develop oneitis again after this- I somehow feel as though my brain is now incapable of doing so... We'll see.…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 05:13 AM
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We have run into each other a couple times already and I just ignored. Wanted to do something else to re-engage a bit next time I saw her. I know that is ego, as u/SeemedGood said, but I wanted it, at least for myself. I know this means I'm not 100% over her yet. What do you mean by "zero/sum game of she loses/I win?" And is it generally understood that Oneitis is permanent, and formed from some weird mother/child association we made long ago that unconsciously and involuntarily comes out once w…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:23 AM
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Also, as I said, we have run into each other a couple times already and I just ignored. Wanted to do something else to re-engage a bit next time I saw her.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:13 AM
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I see what you mean. I was so beta during our last interaction when she threw me the LJBF that I definitely did want to prove something to her, and to myself. I am not 100% over her, but I am very close. And, beta or not, I felt like I did 'need' to prove something to myself. It was ego, no question. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:07 AM
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Nah. I see how it could read as try-hard, and would be in a different context, like if I approached her at a bar with that line. But it was very quick and she was scurrying to contain her unleashed dog as a runner was about to pass (she didn't know it was me till I was close), so it was a frantic kind of moment for her. I was totally stoic with a slight smile. It was more like an amused-mastery passing kind of way of saying, "Don't I know you..?" But I didn't stop or even pull out an earbud. I d…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:48 AM
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Similarly, I just now ran into my extreme oneitis while on a run. No contact since I declined the LJBF offer over 4 months ago. Found TRP since then and destroyed the Beta, working hard on myself every single day. We've seen each other in public a couple times but basically ignored each other. She was walking her dog as I ran past. I told those butterflies to fuck off, looked her in the eye, and with a slight smile and an abdominal voice said, "Have we met?" Kept running, never broke my stride. …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:41 PM
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That's interesting, can you expound on that?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:30 AM
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It does make sense, thank you. After reading No More Mr Nice Guy I still have a hard time internalizing why I am compelled to do nice things for people. I am incredibly confident, sure of myself, and I like doing "nice" things for people because I like making people feel happy- this makes me feel happy. It really is my pleasure to take the trays to the front if it creates a more convenient experience for the other person, thereby making them happy. I definitely have experienced your latter descr…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:28 AM
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Recovering nice guy... I still have trouble differentiating when to be "nice" and when it's appropriate. u/Woujo's blog post above explains that the entirety of a relationship dynamic with a woman is a negotiation, and that the subtleties are extremely important. That makes a lot of sense and I haven't heard it explained like that before. It's really essential stuff...!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:32 AM
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That blog post is incredibly thorough and helpful. Timely for me, too. Looking forward to checking out more of your blog- thank you, I will donate at some point soon.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:28 AM
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if you approach a woman at a bar, or anywhere else, you should be smiling, enthusiastic, and warm, but DO NOT STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING This makes so much sense and never occurred to me. Thank you, great post. Question: Sounds simple but more of a philosophical thing- if you and a girl go to a restaurant and are finished eating and have to bring your trays to the front, would it be seen as Beta to take care of both of your messes? Do you lose value in her head by doing this? Seems Beta and chump-e…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:14 AM
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That makes a ton of sense, thanks so much, man. I once read on here someone saying that a guy in my shoes could reapproach and re-establish frame by just "telling those butterflies to fuck off," but it seems a lot deeper than that... While I could see a single first interaction playing out well in my favor, I suspect maintaining that longer-term would be insanely difficult and near impossible due to that dependent attachment you mentioned. This is proven at least by the guy above who banged his …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:14 AM
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That's really interesting... Do you think those BP expectations of the BP exes ever go away? Or just takes a long time? I found TRP after getting the friendzone offer from my extreme oneitis. She was for sure into me when we first met, and we really clicked, but I BP'ed her away. I'm a totally different person now, very successful with women. We haven't spoken since I (fortunately) declined her friendzone request months ago, and while I often think I'd now be strong enough to re-establish frame …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:28 AM
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That's really interesting... I found TRP after getting the friendzone offer from my extreme oneitis. She was for sure into me when we first met, but I BP'ed her away. I'm a totally different person now, very successful with women. We haven't spoken since I (fortunately) declined her friendzone request months ago, and while I often think I'd now be strong enough to re-establish frame and make a move if we ran into each other again, I can sense that oneitis is a really psychological thing... She i…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:11 AM
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Absolutely. Can't agree enough and it's so liberating to finally embody this role since swallowing The Pill. Seeing examples like this honestly biologically triggers something within me; makes me feel as though this is the correct way, evolutionarily. Thanks, I'll check out the movie this weekend. Any other films with similar characters/themes you can recommend, I'd be happy to watch- never heard of that one. I'd actually really appreciate your thoughts on the recent post I made in asktrp about …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 06:15 PM
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This was, perhaps, the most enlightening post I've ever read in this sub. Thank you. I've barely ever posted on reddit but logged in just to thank you and upvote.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 05:22 PM
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Booo...! This was a good question!
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:30 AM
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Can confirm this works. OP if you'd read the sidebar you'd learn this is the only effective way to restore foreskin.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:27 AM
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Thanks guys. I don't have any RP-aware friends in real life and had to get that out. I appreciate the encouragement.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:58 PM
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