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That's certainly a possibility! I would say I'm an environmentalist and I take the green pill from time to time.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 03:37 PM
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None. Cyanide is not available in pill form.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 04:34 AM
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Ya shoulda said "sure! I love golden showers!!"
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:00 PM
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u/gardenofeden123 THIS ​ You pretty much won this whole thread. I can't believe people here are telling her to do anything other than avoid him like the plague.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:43 AM
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No, no, and no. There are plenty of other men out there and undoubtedly some of them will want to hook up with you. If you're looking for FWB/hookups I say get off Bumble for a bit and use Tinder instead. You don't need his dick. There are other good dicks around.... He clearly doesn't want anything long term and you're wasting your time and emotional energy.
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:58 AM
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He even wanted to pay for my drink when he was leaving. ​ Never accept a drink from a stranger or let someone pay for your drink! Even if you're a guy. Also, it seems strange to compliment male strangers in a place like that unless you guys know one another. Sounds like you had a good time otherwise. Also, as others have said, stop fishing for compliments or thinking of yourself as "deprived" of them. Thinking of yourself as a victim and expressing that mentality will get you NOWHERE as a straig…
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:04 PM
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So go for it. Where are you hanging out where people prefer traditional roles?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 04:22 AM
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u/Visible_Chocolate_69 Would you like some cheese with that whine? Do you like white whine or red whine BTW?
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:50 AM
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*YAWN\* ​ Hitting on a woman who's taken is a waste of time unless you're looking for a hookup and she's poly/willing to cheat. Needless to say, OP sounds like an attention whore. Unfollowing this post.
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:39 AM
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Nah. Chat with them for a bit and THEN suggest meeting. Also, don't compliment women on their looks until you're actually dating them. That seriously makes you look like a simp.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:25 PM
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I couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:24 PM
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The problem is that looks and height are a threshhold only beyond which the other stuff starts to matter. Status, confidence and edginess can't boost your value if you don't have the physical attractiveness, because in the minds of most girls, you had no value to begin with ​ It actually can. Many women are more attracted to personality whilst looks are secondary to them.
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:05 AM
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u/Delicious_Ad_1853 different people have different interests and different tastes. For example, some people are really into video games and anime. I personally couldn't care less about that stuff. Running out of things to talk about after a few dates is a pretty good indicator that you guys have nothing in common. So don't beat yourself up over it or feel resentful toward them. Simply move along and find someone else. The ONLY way to make actual progress towards self improvement is when you foc…
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:59 PM
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I have. Some people are non-competitive and actually prefer solitude. They are rare though.
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:53 PM
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It's not about having one huge social circle. That sounds exhausting. ​ Speak for yourself. Some people are social butterflies and prefer quantity over quality. The larger your social circle, the more opportunities you have to find partners and meet new people. That is, the greater the abundance.
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:50 PM
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Settling down doesn't mean forfeiting a social life. Many married people have a life outside of the marriage. And the advantage of this is that if your marriage fails and you get divorced, you have a social network to fall back on and you're not completely alone. Settling down into a LTR does not guarantee that it will endure til death do us part.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:35 PM
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Lemme chime in on this: Remember George Sodini? AFAIK he was always gainfully employed and made a good living. But he had no friends, was estranged from his family, and single for 18 years before his death. There are unemployed moochers with plenty of friends who still get some play. I've been saying this for years: sociometric status is far more important than socioeconomic status! Being a rich dork is a lonelier existence than being an starving artist. Building a social circle takes time and m…
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:00 PM
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My first gf was very shy and introverted. She didn't make direct eye contact with me when we first met in public. But yeah, you as a man need to make direct eye contact with females you're interested in.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:43 AM
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Don't be friends with an ex or keep in contact with them at all. It's just easier that way.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:46 PM
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Well in that case maybe it's best to be friends with guys who aren't single or who are gay. Or at the very least have no interest in you sexually. ​ EDIT: What it sounds to me is that you're in a group of men and being a woman makes you the odd one out. Same sex groups can be like that. Most straight people do not view members of the opposite sex as peers when they're the only representative of their sex in a group situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:27 PM
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u/Vyrnoa is there any particular reason you seek out platonic friendships with men instead of with other women? Is it that you have more in common with guys and so you prefer to be around them instead? I'm always suspicious of straight people who prefer platonic relationships with the opposite sex instead of the same sex. Women do have guy friends but usually that's because there's a mutual lack of sexual interest but they still have things in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:53 PM
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Strong men create good times... ...good times create weak men.... ...weak men create hard times(like the on we're in now).... ...and then hard times create strong men... ​ *RINSE AND REPEAT\*
/r/AntiFeminists18/06/21 03:59 AM
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u/LillthOfBabylon most men don't actually have to put in that much effort into their looks unless they are short and/or obese. Remember Elliott Roger? He put stupendous effort into his looks and he still died an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:54 PM
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Dat's cuz looks aren't as important to women as men like you seem to think: Personality(read good social skills) and/or talent(particularly in anything creative or athletic) are what matter the most to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:58 PM
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If you're introverted/shy/socially awkward, then it is very much in your interest to pair off early. Because after you graduate from school and get out into the "real world", you're going to have a tough time competing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:01 PM
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I agree with what you said with a few exceptions: ​ ​ . Blatantly nasty/toxic behaviour . Terrible views about women ​ There are puh-len-ty of men with these problems who have no difficulty getting laid. Personality, and not character, is what really attracts women(looks too but not as much as a guys think they do). I will say that having confidence isn't useful if it isn't matched with social tact(speaking from experience): then it just comes across as arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:59 PM
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You did insinuate that friends are obligated to perform so-called emotional labor and listen to each other's relationship woes. So point #2 was to clarify that that is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:39 PM
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So don't be friends with people like that! Problem solved. But you're whining about how certain people don't want to listen to your problems and that's their prerogative. Find someone who is willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:34 AM
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u/rivertorain- you're misinformed. ​ Friendship is not a right. A person doesn't owe you friendship, they have to choose to be friends with you and can decide not to be friends with you/terminate the friendship for any reason they see fit. Being friends with someone does not entitle you to their emotional labor. They can pick and choose what they are and aren't willing to listen to . If someone you consider a friend does not reciprocate and/or shows no regard for your feelings and/or is generall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:29 AM
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Not true. I have a few female friends. And honestly, if I have no sexual or romantic interest in them it makes friendship a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:49 PM
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Good social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:01 PM
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Personality is just a code word for social skills. And speaking from observation and experience, I would say that for straight guys social skills are more important than looks. Social skills can be learned but they are learned by DOING. And social intelligence is a valid concept because a lot of social interaction requires pattern recognition and problem solving. Great minds do not think alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:00 PM
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u/LillthOfBabylon Do you have any citations for your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:07 AM
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u/MalloryTheRapper well your mom was lucky. My mom had my kid sister when she was 40 years old(though she might've been conceived). She was also lucky. My first cousin once removed had a single child at 40 but she needed expensive fertility drugs to be able to conceive. My kid sister who's gonna be 30 later this year turned out just fine. But my mom had amniocentesis at the behest of the ob/gyn to make sure that there was no chromosomal aberrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:16 AM
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On the OTHER hand, if you wait until your 40s to start having kids, there is a very good chance you'll be unable to conceive. My aunt made that mistake 34 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:18 AM
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u/Key-Philosophy-525 on second thought, I think you are confusing unsolicited male attention with unwanted male attention. I definitely notice that women complain-brag about getting unsolicited attention from men. This is what I was told by numerous women in another forum. But actively unwanted attention is discussed because they are seeking support. Being whistled at on the streets, especially from men in passing cars, is unsolicited attention. Whereas being followed by a male stranger they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:57 PM
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I haven't noticed that black and hispanic men use that line. Black guys usually say "dayyyam!!!" when they see an attractive female.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:35 PM
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They're just looking for an average 6ft tall guy with a 6 figure income and >6" dick. The bar can't get any lower. I mean if you can't meet those standards do you even deserve to call yourself a man? ​ Being at least 6 feet tall and/or well endowed is definitely a big advantage. Though the size of your dick isn't as important to most women as you think it is; it's how you use it. But the 6 figure salary part? Gimme a BREAK! Unless she's a sugar baby, a mail order bride, or is desperately poor, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:59 PM
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I don't think they do either; but they are still attracted to them. Attraction isn't rational. And sure as bloody hell isn't fair. Speaking of the so-called "dark triad", it is the Machiavelianism that is perhaps the most attractive because that shows that a person has social abilities not just personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:39 AM
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u/Ladyofblades of course you don't want incels. They are bitter, weak men with no redeeming qualities. Players, however, are players for a reason: they have qualities that are attractive to women and they are also socially adept enough to manipulate women into sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:16 AM
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I've spent the last 25 years dabbling in countercultures(like Goth especially) and alternative lifestyles. And the majority of women involved in these things tend to be sex positive(not just Goths!). I will not go into too much details about the physical traits that appeal to me but one thing is for sure: creativity is the ultimate aphrodisiac. I really am turned on by artistic people and they do tend to be more hypersexual than non-artistic types. The women in this subreddit do seem to be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:12 PM
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They will if they truly like her. If not, they won't, and will try to fuck some other girl they also don't truly like, but is DTF. Just because a guy is trying to fuck you, doesn't mean he likes you. He may not like you at all. l The last sentence is true for all humans. Not just straight men BTW. Now some horny guys for girls that don't appear to want sex that much because they think somehow that they can get her to open her legs using the right approach. They see it as kind of a challenge + th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:05 PM
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It's not a fucking rant but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:47 AM
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Perhaps....but ya gotta admit: it's just as narcissistic as "I'm procreating to try to save the human race".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:16 PM
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But to answer your question, being a walking incubator takes a toll on a woman’s body and quality of life. It’s definitely one of those things that needs to just happen and not be overly thought about because if women noodle too long on it all, they’ll opt out as the cons tend to outweigh the pros wrt her personal goals. ​ IDC about morality that much, honestly. But I cannot help but notice that women with personality disorders, educated or not, often do end up having children. And many times th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:41 PM
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And I clarified that men are not thinking about the greater good when they desire kids. You are. ​ What is your evidence for this assertion? I could argue that perhaps some women aren't thinking of the greater good when they have kids. They see their children as extensions of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:37 PM
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Nice strawman. Let's try this again: If people don't reproduce, as in men getting women pregnant and women having babies, then the birth rate will drop, and the population will decline. If that continues indefinitely then the population will go extinct. However, there are women out there who view having children as contributing to the greater good. Obviously you aren't one of them. INB4 "ur projecting!". Nope. Black swan fallacy on your part to deny that such people exist. Lastly, are you saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:25 PM
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So what you're saying , u/GridReXX, is that educated people are going to rely on the uneducated to replace them as they choose to be childless and focus on their own pursuit of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:18 PM
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Men tend to be more “we must reproduce and populate the land with our legacy as our duty and for my pride!” Because if they don't, and this becomes the norm, than the population will die out. That's a bit extreme but I'm assuming a scenario where birth rates fall without end. You're focused entirely on what you personally want rather than the survival of the species. Or even the survival of the population. Not everyone else in the world is like this and I do think that Western individualism is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:15 PM
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And utility is a measure of usefulness and character which is not the same thing as “I want to fuck her and leave” ​ "I want to use him and discard him" is no different ethically than "I want to fuck her and leave". Utility is based on usefulness and has nothing to do with character. If the value you assign to someone is based on what you can get from them instead of who they are, then you are objectifying them. Plain and simple(and it makes no difference what that utility is).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 12:09 PM
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I say it has less to do with the threat to women's physical safety and more to do with the fact that the legacy of chivalry persists to this day. Chivalry regards women as a protected class. It treats men as predatory to give men and incentive to carry themselves in ways that are mindful of women's sensibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:33 AM
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This phenomenon is very particular to western societies. It has to due with the legacy of chivalry. Chivalry goes beyond holding open doors, pulling out chairs, and paying for the first date. The kernel of chivalry is that women are a protected class. Thus men are expected to carry themselves in ways that are mindful to women's sensibilities and not make women feel threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:31 AM
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If a woman thinks of a man as an thing of desire or a thing of utility is is no less objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:29 AM
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Our civilization demands you carry yourself in ways that are mindful of others. ​ This is true but it doesn't address the OPs question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:28 AM
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Cheating is cheating. If he’s not satisfied with her, he can end the relationship and find someone else he’s sexually compatible with. I’ve heard about so many women whom their husbands reject them and don’t fulfill their needs, yet most of them don’t resort to porn or cheating. What makes you think that as a man it’s okay for you to do that cause you have “needs”? What makes you so sure that they don't resort to cheating? And maybe they do watch porn in secret and make damn sure he never finds …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:02 AM
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Are you male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:58 AM
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I hope you aren't still dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:56 AM
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If you're married to a woman like this, then you might want to at least separate from her and refuse to be faithful to her while you're separated. Basically make it clear that if she withholds sex you will not only distance yourself from her but will cheat on her/jerk off to porn. If you make me wait more than few months, I will lose interest and likely dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:19 PM
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Cat Ladies >>>> Dog Ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:13 PM
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**I think men who have never been married have less baggage then divorced men ​ Absolutely! This goes without saying. Divorce leaves people jaded, often angry, and sometimes bitter. ​ ​ the redpill say is how older men like younger women. ​ Ignore this "redpill" bullshit. Date whoever you want. A lot of guys your age dig older women BTW. An older gf is bragging rights because it's harder to get someone older than you to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:38 AM
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If you insist on waiting until marriage(or engagement at the earliest) because your personal values(religious, familial, or otherwise), that's perfectly fine. But you came across as suggesting that women withhold sex deliberately until marriage as way to create an incentive for him to commit. And that is what I find unacceptable: using sex as a bargaining chip. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:15 AM
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That's true. Though I have not found that to be the case. One of the match questions on OkCupid is "would you dump someone simply because they weren't good at sex?" and more than 50% of women have answered "Yes".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 08:33 PM
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um I don't know any woman in her 30s who is bald but I do know several men. I'm talking giant bald spot on the top of their head again I know zero women with this issue. I'm sure women experience hair loss with age (also having a baby causes hair shedding) but male pattern baldness is a different matter entirely and it is actually caused by DHT. And where did I say 50 year old women look like 12 year olds? Having certain features can make a adult look younger than they are that is not the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:08 PM
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I would not marry someone who would make me wait until marriage, or even engagement. Why? Because to me that shows that she has very different views on sex than I do. Or she is deliberately withholding sex because she doesn't trust me to commit to her. If that is your attitude, please stay the hell away from me. I won't put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:20 PM
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When I speak of experience, I'm talking about the sheer number of times he has had sex. Not necessarily the quantity of partners. If a guy has been in a 5 year relationship where he had sex, say, at least 1,200 times, then yeah. He has a lot of practice. I think that is what women seek. A socially awkward guy who has had very little relationship experience and isn't suave enough to get women to hook up with him is not going to have much practice with satisfying a woman in bed(for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:18 PM
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I've had a lot of women tell me that it's difficult for them to get an orgasm. And that men with a lot of practice are better at foreplay and also better at stimulating her g-spot. Sex has a physical component to it and no matter how much you like someone, there still is the issue of actually getting a climax when you fuck them. Seems to me like there are a lot of demisexuals in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:19 AM
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My ex gf really gave me a lot of shit about the fact that I didn't have as much sexual experience as she did. She was an extreme case as she's pretty much a nymphomaniac. I was on OkCupid for years, looked at thousands of profiles, and the majority of them said they wanted a man with at least as much sexual experience as themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:16 AM
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OLD works even for average guys. However, when it comes to NSA hookups, you have to be a reeeeeeally hot guy and be at the top of your game if you're gonna use OLD for that. Especially Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 05:38 PM
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I honestly don't think OLD is the hookup app straight men think it is. ​ Well OkCupid often is just that!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:19 AM
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Hookups also happen at nightclubs and bars. But yeah, you gotta be in the right place at the right time. ​ Also, when it comes to actual dating and not FWB/hookups, it's best to fuck on the 2nd date rather than the first. Build up the anticipation and sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:15 AM
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What are you confused about, though? Are you familiar with something called Friends With Benefits? That's where 2 people have an ongoing sexual relationship without any romantic involvement or emotional bond. A lot of hypersexual women do prefer FWB rather than one-night-stands where they can break it off at any time they choose. And they usually do just that. I would say that the "fuccboi" types, who pump and dump women, are hardly the majority of men. To do this, you have to be a lot more attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:53 AM
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Speak for yourself. Other women don't have the same boundaries nor do they want the same things as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:08 PM
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Are you male of female? If you are female, I happen to know plenty of women who feel the same way that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:01 PM
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Why would they want to commit? Some people, men included, prefer a variety of partners. Quantity is what they seek, not "quality". This is definitely more common amongst extroverts. I will tell you one thing: If you make me wait until marriage, or at least until engagement, I will lose interest and run off. Because not only am I an impatient person, but I am not going to knowingly grant you the opportunity to control me with sex. LIKE I SAID: There are women out there who aren't interested in co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:58 PM
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In my experience that is 1000% false. Women often complain about men not being good enough in bed/not being sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:43 PM
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If you're that misogynistic that you want to avoid high libido women because you feel like slut-shaming and chastity-chasing, then by all means. Enjoy the "chastity" that comes along with it, even if it means once every 10 years. ​ Look at it this way: a woman with a high libido is going to have a lot of sexual experience unless she's really really young. Most women prefer to date/fuck men with as least as much experience as themselves. I would say that the guys who prefer "chastity" are usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:14 AM
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Is he any good in bed? Even so, people in this thread act soooooo shocked that women do behave in very similar ways to men nowadays when it comes to sex. Gone are the days when women had to be "good girls" and keep their legs together until they got the engagement ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:08 AM
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Because marriage for the most part means commitment. Why wife those women when instead you can keep having casual sex with lots of women. Sometimes bad boys do wife those women and cheat on them behind their back. ​ All types of men dump women after "easy" sex. ​ And guess what? A lot of women do the same damn thing. Especially if the sex isn't to her liking and/or she doesn't think he's good enough in bed. I actually hear a lot of stories from women under the age of 50 that they often do try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:05 AM
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Men did this to themselves. They don't reward women who sleep with them on the first date with escalated treatment, better courtship, or more investment. THey usually treat these girls like trash and then ghost them for the least sexual woman they've ever encountered... the woman who ends up with the ring tends to be the least sexual woman he's ever encountered. When you punish sex-on the first date with shit treatment, and treat celibacy with a ring, you can't act surprised when more women make…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:56 PM
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Tons of women don't want to sleep with a guy who's not going to commit to them I do wonder if societal conditioning makes them feel guilty about doing such and they worry about their reputation. But I have encountered so many alt/artistic girls who feel no guilt about casual sex. I get that there are hyposexual/asexual women out there with low to nonexistant libidos....But these women are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:54 PM
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What pisses me off is that Michael Jackson has been cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:43 PM
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Shouldn't Manson get a pass too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:40 PM
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u/secondpriceauctions it's more ideological than gender based. You see, the so-called "dirtbag left"(think El Chapo Traphouse), which is staunchly Marxist, uses the blunt vulgar communication style that you hear from the populist right. Whereas intersectional feminists(SJWs) tend to be in the postmodernist camp and prefer the implication based subtext form of communication which dominates the discourse of the academic left. The latter could be argued as a requiring more sophistication.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 05:48 PM
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Communication through implication and subtext is an integral part of left-wing intellectual culture and leftist culture in general. They are trying to outdo each other in terms of sophistication and ideological purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:43 AM
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Females have every incentive to deny any privileges that are afforded to them. That would make them vulnerable to guilt tripping. They want to be admired and seek the attention and support of other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:29 AM
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To give you an example, I use to lurk on a feminist subreddit and at least a couple times a a month there would be a posts by someone asking why feminists don't care about sexless, datelss, loveless men. They would remark how unfair it was that men were expected to care about the wage gap but women don't care about these issues. Sjws believe that some groups have an unfair advantage in achieving success especially economic over others. The men on here believe women have an unfair advantage on ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:28 AM
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Privilege theory is all about guilt tripping and virtue signaling: manipulate others with guilt while making yourself seem holier than thou. Leftism is an elaborate social game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:25 AM
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Well I'm 100% sure that the #freebleeding hashtag has its origins on 4chan and this tweeter has tweeted in 6 years. I wonder whose photo that actually is. Probably a dude behind that account.
/r/AntiFeminists28/07/20 09:45 PM
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I thought #freebleeding was a hoax created on 4chan that feminists fell for. Also, this is dated. It's from 2014.
/r/AntiFeminists28/07/20 01:46 PM
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u/woodenbiplane When I speak of "looks" I am talking about someones appearance as a whole. That has several components: physical features, grooming, clothes, and personal hygiene. You seem to think that looks only refer to raw physical features but that's not the case. What I meant is that a man's appearance is a much smaller part of the picture than many people think when it comes to being attractive to women. Guys who dress sloppily and slack off on personal hygiene can make up for it by finel…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 09:11 PM
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u/[deleted] You're a DUDE. You're not fooling anyone here in this sub. I can't help but wonder what these "simps" think when you get undressed and they see your weiner! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:37 PM
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WHO FUCKING CARES ​ Would you like some cheese with that whine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:23 PM
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I think a lot of the so-called attraction problems are plain old libido mismatches. GENAU!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:04 AM
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The redpill theory is that as women age, their standards change and they end up settling for men they don't find sexually appealing in exchange for security and stability. This implies that most women end up with men they don't find sexually attractive, since according to redpill theory only the top 20% of men are sexually attractive to women. And that is where TRP theory is wrong. Part of the reason for this is that in the 21st century, women in post-industrial societies(at least in the western…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:03 AM
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Who needs integrity(LMAO)! All is fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:55 PM
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CMV: TRP is high beta fuckboy game. They only get pussy without commitment because they lie about their intentions. ​ SO? It clearly works for them and females aren't as smart as they thing they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:54 PM
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Ok fine. Don't marry anyone at 19. But you should still travel abroad and try to meet Asian women online. If that advice isn't good enough, well, suit yourself. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 01:48 AM
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I'm a Asian looking male and I have had basically 0 luck getting dates in my country , but once I was on vacation on a Asian country the difference was unreal on how much female attention I got , obviously the only difference was that my looks were considered "normal" there ​ If you have better luck with women in Asian countries than A)consider moving there or B)try to look for a foreign partner from one of those countries willing to marry you and move back to your country. That is really the be…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 12:20 AM
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Good styling and impeccable hygiene is necessary but not sufficient. Remember Elliot Rodger? He wore designer clothes and it still didn't get him the female attention he wanted. Developing social skills and particularly a strong sense of humor is a great way to get around lack of good looks. I have been told many times by women in the past that I've very attractive physically but my social ineptitude really cancels that out(they haven't said that verbatim but it's clear that such is the effect).
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 12:15 AM
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I have found that meeting people IRL when it comes to dating and sex is orders of magnitude harder than meeting people online. The internet is an excellent tool for finding partners(including online dating) for those with poor social skills and "mind blindness". I am NOT condoning redpill/blackpill/incel/MRA beliefs though. And I highly doubt that you would meet women *there. But there are plenty of forums for people with common interests slash genera social forums where there is a bit more of a…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 04:54 AM
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u/dddeeeeddddd Out of morbid curiosity, how do you locate these hookers? Do you find them on the street or do you use escort services?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 06:42 PM
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Hmmm, what country to do you live in? I would disagree that most women are attracted to old-school traditional men but it really depends on where you live and what you're into(which you haven't disclosed in terms of WHAT hobbies you do). I live in the US of A up in the PNW. And in most coastal urban areas there are lot of women who aren't interested in traditional men. Particularly those who gravitate to countercultures and alternative lifestyles. But if you're in a rural place then I can see wh…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 08:58 PM
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Hobbies are their own reward but it doesn't make me frustrated and everyone keeps saying you need to have this and do this when you have done it or have done all those things with authentic intentions You don't "need" to have hobbies. That's what I was trying to say! However, if you don't have good social skills, meeting people the old fashioned way is not always the best way to go about things. Do you use online dating? Also, are there internet forums for the hobbies you have? I have gone on se…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 06:43 PM
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It actually can be, though. Because most women are perceptive of body language and social cues. So if you're only there to meet women and not because you actually are interested in that stuff, they will pick up on that and see you as a creeper. Even if you are genuinely into it, having expectations will result in disappointment and make you unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 06:14 PM
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Interests are things that you like to think about, talk about, and read about. Whereas hobbies are things that you like to do. It is commonly believed that people with similar personalities often have interests in similar things and enjoy doing similar things. So having a hobby that you can do with others and not just alone is a potential way to make new friends and find partners. ​ It kind of makes me even more confused as to why I'm single because I feel like I have confidence and nice hobbies…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 06:10 PM
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I'll take your word for it when it comes to yourself, and perhaps most women....Trouble is I've had direct experience with women who have told me themselves that love and sex are very different for them and that a connection is neither necessary nor sufficient for good sex. My ex-gf engaged frequently in casual sex/FWB. There are entire subcultures that have plenty of women who partake in casual sex where there is no need for nor emphasis on emotional connection.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 08:10 PM
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u/WestAtmosphere A lot more women want sex from men first than you'd be inclined to think. It has to do with the fact that women tend to be highly selective whereas men, especially when they're young, tend to be indiscriminate.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 07:32 PM
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Well, the cause is different but the effect is the same.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 08:54 PM
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This goes both ways as it applies to women too. Many women have said here that men shied off when they revealed that they were raped because said men didn't want to deal with their emotional aftershocks that come from being traumatized sexually. In particular, I say that from your teens through your mid 20s, this is the kind of thing you should discuss with your therapists, your family(if you trust them enough), your close friends, and fellow survivors. Withhold this information from casual dati…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 07:37 PM
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If you're going to put on an act, you have to do it WELL. Effort is not enough. Otherwise, you're going to have to try to market yourself to people who are attracted to your normal demeanor. The truth is often quite simple...Coping and adjusting to it is what's hard. Other than that, I really have nothing else to say here.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 08:56 PM
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Don't you think that's kind of like the ultimate hypocrisy expecting men to keep approaching even though we know it's hell Of course! But most people don't feel guilt or shame about being hypocritical when it is in their interests(even if it comes at another's expense).
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 04:43 AM
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I don't agree too much with a body language saying simply because I have been unrightly judged in so many situations video someone else's perception whether it be my body language how I speak or whatever even though I completely game cam I do not know where you guys keep getting this idea that most women can read body language of the point of completely understanding someone else because that has been up also in my life as I've had to tell many people women included that they were wrong Everybod…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 04:31 AM
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People are nonlinear. Which is why they often appear to be complex.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 03:52 AM
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These are easy mistakes to be made by men who have "mind blindness" and a lack of social intuition.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 03:50 AM
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But in reality meeting people is about understanding how to act in different situations which can be complicated for people who aren’t normally outgoing. *applause\* ​ It's about know your audience. And sometimes the thing to do is find people who are naturally comfortable and receptive to you without you having to even try.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 03:24 AM
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Forget about "self-improvement". Focus instead of things that you enjoy and things that you find meaningful. But a better idea is realize that you got rejected because you tried to sell yourself to the wrong buyers. I would strongly look into online dating if I were you as a way of expanding your options. The only good reason to improve yourself is because it makes you happier and you should NEVER do it to satisfy someone else(this only makes you feel even more inadequate). Stop listening to peo…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 03:20 AM
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Best comment here.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 10:13 PM
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Nobody believes you. Keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:05 PM
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I'll keep that in mind. And for the most part I don't bother reading that subreddit. It is really infuriating that people keep posting stuff from that subreddit to Facebook.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 05:57 AM
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But you do it anyway. INB4 "No"/"Triggered"/"i know u r but wut am i"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:55 PM
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Yes Now stop projecting. INB4 "No". Sorry dude, not taking no for an answer. Few things are more fragile than a females ego on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:52 PM
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u/prunusamygdalis Why not just become a political lesbian and STFU about it. Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:26 AM
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u/AdolfGandi Well ok. They're not "good". But wimminz libido varies considerably from one wimminz to the next more so than it does for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:25 AM
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I really want the Donut Earther cult to take off and swallow up the Flat Earth cult. Flat = BOOOORING
/r/ExRedPill24/05/20 05:22 AM
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NC
/r/ExRedPill23/05/20 10:00 PM
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I'm telling it to YOU. Since you clearly cannot distinguish fact from fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:17 PM
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Can we just say Confirmation Bias? In particular, I notice that women are highly susceptible to it. ​ Men are rarely given incentives to self improve. This is part of why trp stresses this so much - it's the opposite of what men normally do. Many men expect a woman, think they deserve a woman, just bc he exists. I don't think I've ever seen a movie where a truly ugly girl ends up with a hot guy, but the opposite is a very common trope. Even in real life, you see pretty girls with ugly men fairly…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 05:24 PM
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To devalue someone because of something that someone else did to them against their will is totally and completely unacceptable.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/20 05:01 AM
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u/Hellion_shark You cannot put the blame entirely on TRP for perpetuating gender roles. They are fringe group that has very little social influence IRL. A lot of those guys whine about rejection and sexual frustration, but dealing with rape trauma from when you were a CHILD is some real shit. ​ needing to take care of someone in distress doesn't sit well with her. I would say that it doesn't sit well with most women. But it makes me wonder if a woman who has also experienced similar distress mig…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/20 12:58 AM
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u/sublimei Not sure what those vulnerabilities are(you need not confide it's none of my business), but there must have been something else about you that conveyed strength of some sort to make up for it. However, something like this, unfortunately, is just too much for many people to handle.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/20 12:51 AM
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Ok, Karen!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:07 PM
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You know, perhaps he might have better luck dating someone who is also a sexual assault survivor. The evidence seems to show that if you haven't actually experienced this, you cannot really fathom what it's like to go through it and continue to live with it.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/20 06:07 PM
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Sorry, but I doubt you'd even slept with 1000 men when there are several billion of them. But hey, suit yourself. You clearly won't take responsibility for your bad choices and would rather blame men like a typical, whiny female......🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:38 AM
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u/prunusamygdalis Sounds like it's the fuccboiz rather than the loyal men that you're attracted to. My ex-gf was exactly like this. Not too many BPD sex addicted females there are in the PPD.....Seems like a lot of the women who post here are the "good girl" type and not the thotty alt-girl IG/FB/Onlyfans types lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:18 PM
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u/sublimemongrel It's one thing if you really let yourself go and your partner repeatedly criticizes you for it but gives you reasonable suggestions about how to improve(and is very honest about exactly what they want). But the idea that you have to bust your chops to keep them satisfied or they won't sleep with you is not healthy. It is CODEPENDENCY.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:43 PM
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u/Appomattoxx ​ Mostly because it feels good. But sometimes they do it to get pregnant, and sometimes they do it because they feel like it gives them reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:18 PM
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To be fair, she doesn't owe you sex. But you do indeed have the right to leave the relationship if that's what you feel like doing. Sometimes feelings change and to quote Seinfeld: "It's not you, it's me." It's important to recognize that people will go through all kinds of mental gymnastics to avoid guilt. Especially when it comes to dating and sex. They lose interest, they feel guilty, but they blame you for it because that way they don't feel obligated to sleep with you. More often than not, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:16 PM
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Not necessarily. His efforts may not succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:10 PM
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u/sublimemongrel Seriously d00d, if the genders were reversed you'd tell her to leave the relationship. Just cut the bullshit and stop trying to avoid responsibility. It is true that feelings change, but you need to admit that it's YOU and not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:26 PM
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u/AdaTennyson ​ None of what you said changes the point that I made: Paternal involvement is NOT a biological imperative. It is the result of the transition from hunter-gatherer societies to agrarian civilizations. And the reason for its development is cultures based on property and inheritance have an incentive to keep track of filial lineage. And again, pair bonding = monogamy. There are societies which require paternal involvement but also permit polygamy. A man with multiple wives can produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:42 PM
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u/AdaTennyson You do realize that there ARE societies where men have no role in raising children whatsoever? They tend to be tribal hunter/gatherer societies like the Tlingit for instance; where child rearing is done entirely by women so women assist in raising other women's children. Women do need assistance in raising kids. But it need not come from the father. So pair bonding between a man and a woman in the form of marital monogamy is an invention that was originally designed for agrarian so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:19 AM
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A bit of both.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/20 07:12 AM
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u/PersonalJudge you mean they're not on social media/FB groups/Tinder too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:03 AM
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u/alluringjustice not all women who post nudes on the internet are "staceys". Many of them ARE average looking. And some are quite plump(as in BBWs) because there are men who love that body type even though it is not the most desirable body type. Before the internet and particularly social media, only women who had what were considered ideal bodies could be porn stars. But now, with sites like onlyfans, premium snapchat, Instagram, even Facebook(as long as there isn't total nudity), and certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:13 AM
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Actions speak louder than words. ​ If someone respects you, they TREAT YOU WITH RESPECT. Accept no substitutes. If someone wants you, they will show consistent effort to be in your life and even sacrifice a little(but not sacrifice too much!)to have you around. ​ Do not accept verbal reassurance from someone who is fickle, deceitful, and disrespectful.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 08:36 PM
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You have to learn to trust that women are capable of making their own decisions, that those decisions are healthy. Sure there are people who make bad decisions, but that's not the point. This isn't about women. It's about you. Or how about this: Women are capable of making their own decisions. Some of those decisions are healthy, and some of those decisions definitely aren't. But when women make those decisions, it's not about you it's about them. TRP is based on certain particular types of wome…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 06:04 PM
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u/alluringjustice exactly! The fuckboys and sluts get noticed because they have traits that make unusually sexy and that's what our instincts tell us to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:31 PM
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​ I honestly think society has created the belief that in order for a man to be cool and manly he needs a lot of casual hookups to prove his worth, and so men feel they have to fuck women left and right, but in reality, just like us, you desire romance, a connection, and love. If you stopped teaching other men about the value of fucking around, encouraged them to follow their heart and not sleep with women just for the pride, a lot less guys would be deeply struggling to find romance because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:28 PM
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English translation?
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 03:21 AM
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That is exactly what I am saying. Women want men who complement them in this regard and often are very turned off when men imitate their emotional behaviors. I know, it's unfair and hypocritical. But sometimes you have to learn to adapt to the way things are instead of pontificating about the way you think things should be.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 03:20 AM
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Correct. There is a double standard whether you like it or not. If you're gonna try to tell me this is unfair...well, it certainly is. You just have to learn to adapt to the way things are instead of pontificating about the way things should be.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 03:18 AM
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Oh cry me a freakin river! You can be open about your feelings without being bitter and always mooching for reassurance.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 01:50 AM
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In many western nations, particularly Northern European countries and there daughter nations in the "Anglosphere", the law tends to be favorable to women. And this particularly true in 21st century Scandinavia, Britain, and New Zealand. In the US of A, the law is variable depending on the region you're in. Whereas in Muslim countries, there is a very strong institutional bias against women(Saudi Arabia and Iran are particularly nasty examples of this).
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 09:34 PM
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I didn't mean to be insulting or dismissive. But I will just take your word for it about your own experiences. shrug
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 08:00 PM
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I can tell you my process for being attracted goes like this - > Oh ok he seems nice, get to know him more, know his personality, start to find him physically attractive as well. Of course there will be people you will never mesh with, but I am less harsh to rule a man out for looks. ​ I've had women IRL admit to me that appearances do count. They see a guy they thing is cute, then they observe him a little bit to get an assessment of his personality and even interact with him as well. If they l…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 04:30 PM
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Romantic love is a combination of close friendship with sexual attraction. So for everyone, lack of attraction begets lack of romantic love(but it does mean lack of platonic love). But for real, you sound as bitter as a lot of incels. There isn't really anything I can do about it for you and while I appreciate realism, this attitude is really not attractive. And it does make me wonder what kind of men you are actually pursuing.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 04:25 PM
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The word "intimacy" doesn't mean what you think it does. Having an emotional connection with someone else does not mean that you are obligated to be their therapist.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 04:18 PM
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Imo you are in a worse position than any ugly guy could be in ​ Not convinced. I've seen plenty of ugly girls find love and even get married long term. If you're female, there is always going to be someone out there who likes your looks and wants to shag you.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 04:10 PM
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So you cut it off?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:23 AM
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But snooping around reddit with that "own dem libs" attitude ain't gonna make girls want to be with you. I mean if the red-pill mindset i guess you have did work. You wouldn't be here. ​ That's true. Posting on reddit really won't make one bit of difference one way or the other when it comes to getting a gf/getting laid. But if you must know, that's not what I do such. I'm just here for kicks. But I do enjoy calling out platitudinal bullshit when I see it.....And calling that Red Pilled helps so…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 05:19 AM
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OK, WTF is this "purge week" all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:12 PM
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False equivalence. INB4 "hurr durr its science!". No dude, that's called pseudoscience. I hope you understand the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:43 PM
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Surrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrre you don't! Anyway, there IS hope for your micropenis: ​ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/17955-micropenis/management-and-treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:39 PM
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https://cdn.dopl3r.com//media/memes_files/trying-to-find-herself-readyto-settle-down-9lCnt.jpg ​ It's SCIENCE!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:38 PM
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Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:28 PM
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Dude, that book does not even exist. 0/10. Now get me a citation from a peer reviewed scientific journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:28 PM
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Male virginity is actually very important for smart women. They will sense it and yearn for attractive virgin men. Not True.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:27 PM
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That sounds like something an incel would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:25 PM
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u/quickbucket then again, humans aren't wolves. Our social hierarchies are complex and often there isn't necessarily just one single leader in a small-ish group. But very large groups like societies do usually have one person at the tippy top. So many instead of "alpha male" we can go back to the term used 20++ years ago: (a)stud. There isn't just one stud in human groups, there is usually a whole "class" of them.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/20 06:35 AM
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This is some Incel/MGTOW shit right here......
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:51 AM
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I know I do......But most of the simps here probably think this is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:50 AM
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Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:48 AM
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*citation needed*
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:38 AM
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So why do women prefer men with lots of sexual experience? Hmmm????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:38 AM
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u/BMXTKD this whole subreddit is full of platitudes and self-righteousness. He's just a self-promoter trying to get upvotes. But yeah, notice how defensive he gets by someone suggesting that refusing to play the dating game makes you a bad person lol.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/20 02:28 AM
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Nice strawman. ​ How about just finding people who actually like being around you and enjoy your company when you're just being yourself. Pretty "redpilled" concept, eh? (SARCASM) I do get sick of the platitudes around these parts sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/20 12:20 AM
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Getting paid is a contract, it’s like a deal, not entitlement. If your boss agreed to pay you x amount, but you felt entitled to MORE then you’d be in the wrong. ​ Those are your words, no? I AM aware that sex/dating and employment are 2 different ballgames, TYVM. Now when u/redditor8874 said ​ I work hard in my job so you bet that I am ENTITLED to get a pay for my work. If boss came to me after long day of work, saying I'm not getting paid for my work today and just told me to suck it up becaus…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/20 08:35 PM
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When people say "you're not entitle to blah blah blah" what they essentially saying to you is: know your place and stay in it, you lowly peasant! The charge of entitlement is very much about guilt tripping. So IDK about you but I don't waste my time caring if someone thinks I have a sense of entitlement or accuses me of such. The key is being adaptable. But that means adapting to world when it is in YOUR best interests to do so, not to appease others. What I will give you is that being adaptable…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/20 07:28 PM
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Well d00d, men who choose to play a more passive role are likely to get dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:27 PM
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Wussup with back women OTI these days?!? They be saying the dumbest shit ever
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 03:09 AM
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The cucktologist is in
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 03:04 AM
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Haven't you heard the adage: The internet: 6th grade for Adults ? Well, it's true. Adolescence is not the end of childhood, it is the beginning of adulthood. People are a competitive species and most adult humans crave both recognition from and social interaction with our peers. Social media has fundamentally changed society and there's no way around this. Some old timers think they're too sophisticated for it and downplay its influence.....all in vain. Maturity has more to do with conforming to…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/20 09:04 PM
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It isn't exclusively for youngins anymore. It is 10 years old now. People seem to forget that Gen-Xers(the dot com peeps from 20 years ago) are the ones who pretty much invented social media and even though we're in our 40s, we're still using it. You'd be shocked at the extent to which grown-ass adults with jobs, kids, and houses are using the internet to act like teenagers.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/20 05:50 PM
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So a "simp" is the Ebonic equivalent of a "cuck"?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/20 05:45 PM
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What is the crime we are talking about? You see the law is not a moral authority, it is a coercive authority. So if prostitution is what we are talking about, the real issue isn't the criminality of it it's that people think that renting your own is immoral.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/20 05:43 PM
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if it was your daughter how would you feel ​ Once she's at least 18 years of age, how you or anyone would feel is irrelevant. I really can't stand that question "if it was your daughter" because that does insinuate that women are property which they are not.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/20 03:30 PM
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So are you saying a lot of these guys had abusive, narcissistic mothers? Or is that what they're saying in those forums?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 11:55 PM
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I have to say: The descriptors mentioned in the bullet points are are a grossly inaccurate generalization of womankind but they are highly consistent with the traits and behaviors of a narcissist. RedPillers think that all women are narcissists. And I've met a lot of women who complain about men doing all the things those bulletpoints mentioned and how these women are sick of being used and abused by "fuccboiz". Ironically, many of these things listed have long been stereotypes of men when it co…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 09:45 PM
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women have much more sex partners than guys ​ This is often the case, but you need not be intimidated by women just because they have slept with more people than you have. ​ , they created hookup culture and have zero sexual morals. ​ Not true. Neither sex can be blamed for "creating" hookup culture. However, I am going to say this: I strongly advise someone like yourself to stay away from hookup culture. ​ girls are incapable of love. They only ever dated guys because they were forced too, now …
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 09:38 PM
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What I wonder about is the possible correlation between bodytype and personality. The 3 main bodytypes being ectomorph, mesomorph, and endomorph. This is anecdotal, but I've noticed that women who are thicker/chubbier than average often tend to be more gregarious than women who thinner than average. In particular, the shyest most introverted women I've met also tend to be very thin. Perhaps the stereotype of the skinny nerd is not unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:51 AM
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So I'm a GenX-er born in '79. When I was age 18-24, I was generally attracted to older women(and this was the case throughout my 20s and into my very early 30s), but now it has shifted to younger women. But since I'm 41, that does NOT include women under 30. The reason is this: I would prefer to date women close to my age but one issue is that women within +/- 5 years of me (age 36 through 46), particularly women who are least 40, may be far less likely to be able to have children. Many women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:18 PM
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My uncle is 7 years younger than my aunt(who is 72 currently)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:18 AM
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Well, I stand corrected about those stats. I am beyond the 18-24yo demographic. If you must know, I'm a Xennial/late GenX and I have used online dating since the early 00s. To me it seemed like a much better way for introvert weirdos to find likeminded partners.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/20 06:07 AM
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You are quite right. Especially given that fact contemporary women are aging more slowly than women of bygone generations. Incels and Red Pillers want young women(aged 18-24)because these men are far behind other men the same age in terms of sexual experience. So they want women as inexperienced as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:04 PM
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I beg to differ. I know women in their 20s who date and marry men well into their 30s and beyond. Your preferences are just that: preferences. Don't assume they are they norm unless you have some statistical data.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:01 PM
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Chubby vegans do indeed exist. There is an enzyme called Fatty Acid Synthase that converts carbs into fat. Getting sick of hearing these outlandish claims from fad diet enthusiasts.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/20 03:47 PM
4

This is by far the most honest and most accurate post in this whole thread. I am going to say that women expect men to be both strong and sensitive at the same time. And by strong that means emotionally independent. Women do not want to be the emotional caretaker for their male partners; that's for sure!
/r/ExRedPill01/05/20 08:10 AM
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ASK ME IF I CARE................
/r/ExRedPill30/04/20 11:21 PM
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u/krmaml personality =/= character. Good character by itself doesn't make you a fun or an interesting person. So you could say that while it may be necessary for some women, it is not sufficient. Misogyny comes it 2 different forms: contempt for women and resentment towards women. A man who has extremely good social skills and/or artistic/musical/athletic talent can get away with treating women poorly and especially if he is really good at sex. Not all women are looking for serious relationships…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 06:00 PM
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Bodyweight/BMI depends on many factors. You have to take bone structure and metabolism into account as well. Metabolic rate does have a genetic component. If you are an endomorph than when you lose weight, it often comes back. And if you are an ectomorph, you might gain fat in certain select places(like your gut) but it can be kept off by exercise and dieting. Some guys, like yours truly, prefer women with the endomorph bodytype so long as they aren't morbidly obese(and still have an hourglass s…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 05:49 PM
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True. Feminists tend to be narcissistic women who are actively selecting for extremely strong men. Women generally dislike weakness but feminists REEEEEALLY HATE IT.
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/20 03:27 AM
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Well males are obsessed with weight/BMI. Men judge women on their weight, and women judge men on their height. It ain't fair, but that's life.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/20 03:28 AM
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NOT. TRUE. Sexual attraction is not about fairness. I know a woman who is very blunt about her refusal to date balding men(her reddit handle = malice amarantine). I also know of a gal who is 5'11" who bluntly refuses to date men under 6' tall. It is exceedingly common for women to reject men who are not taller then them and guess what buddy......that's their right! I admit that I have rejected people due to things about their appearance they could not help. Won't get into the details but if that…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/20 01:28 AM
1

Black Swan Fallacy.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 10:57 PM
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Been there. Done that. Doesn't work. This kind of nonsense is exactly what leads men to TRP ideology: Selling them the false promise that being virtuous will help them get laid.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 10:56 PM
1

Here's the problem: people don't always say what they mean. Sometimes they deliberately give false information(lying) Sometimes they withhold information. And many people recognize that concealing their motives and intent is to their advantage. Sometimes they are expressing what they feel ATM without thinking about what that really means More often than not, people don't practice what they preach. They say things to promote themselves and to protect their reputation, but they act in ways that ca…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 05:59 PM
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Might I add: PUA is for hookups and FWB, not serious relationships. There are plenty of guys(Aspie and NT) who actually want girlfriends who are more than just sexual partners.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/20 03:07 PM
3

OMG....#3 is so true. And it's probably hard for Aspie women to get into the mindset of men likewise. This deficit in "theory of mind" really makes dating such a headache for most Aspies. Those who are disinterested in sexual relationships are the lucky ones. I envy them sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/20 06:18 AM
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Seriously, there need to be some exclusively male spaces online that are focused on self-improvement rather than bitching about women.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/20 02:50 AM
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I definitely agree with you about the PUA stuff. I think that when it comes to meeting women and getting into relationships, the most useful strategy is similar to one you'd use if you're selling a rare antique: narrow your search to places and people who are similar and this is tricky because they are very rare and not easy to find(especially in everyday life).
/r/ExRedPill25/04/20 02:04 AM
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If you are not sure where the boundaries are, it is best to err on the side of caution when interacting with someone who doesn't know you that well. If a person does not trust you, don't waste your time trying to persuade them into doing otherwise. Once a woman forms a negative opinion of you, there is nothing you can do to change that. A bad first impression in immutable when it comes to dating. However, despite rule 1, understand that lack of confidence is very unattractive to women. Don't be …
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 07:42 PM
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Interesting perspective. Sounds like this guy is very insecure. Some men are like that but I'm not convinced it has anything to do with TRP.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 07:04 PM
2

It has to do with having a strong sex drive and poor impulse control. When you see a sexually attractive stranger you first become aware of your own selfish desires before you're able to empathize with them. To see someone as a person you must meet them and talk to them(or at least know something about them). Most people in this world don't know you or care about you. But I'm getting sick and tired of the stupid assumption that only men think this way about women. AS IF women don't have the same…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 03:22 AM
1

Well perhaps there are some, but they are very very rare. I am aware that people have been experimenting with reversed gender roles, and the results are disappointing. Some women are willing to be breadwinners, but the overwhelming majority of women often complain about men turning into big babies and not being able to do things for themselves.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 03:11 AM
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Current European culture, particularly western and northern Europe, is not patriarchal. In fact, I daresay that some Nordic countries are leaning towards matriarchy(Iceland, Sweden, and to some extend England). I really do wonder why you mention Europe as opposed to Asia and the Middle East. Middle Eastern cultures are staunchly patriarchal. It was in NW Europe that feminism had its beginnings. And a big reason why it started there has a great deal to do with the enduring legacy of chivalry. Isl…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 02:39 AM
1

I don't think you can generalize about interests. Plenty of men are interested in people + animals and women are interested in things too. But certain particular interested really DO tend to be strongly skewed towards one sex. An example of that is Yoga in western countries.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 02:27 AM
2

That is false equivalence. Men and women want different things out of a partner. Interestingly enough, there is far less variability in turns of the things that people find repulsive as there is in the things people find attractive.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 01:36 AM
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And too many straight women view a man's company as worthless unless he provides them with adulation and ego-boosting attention. Platonic relationships between men and women are most sustainable when there is a mutual lack of sexual attraction. That's why gay men and straight women form such lasting friendships. FYI: I have met straight women who have openly admitted that the only men they have friendships with are men they find sexually attractive. I get sick and tired of women blaming men for …
/r/ExRedPill22/04/20 04:39 AM
1

Shy, sensitive men can be attractive to (certain)women if they have other traits that make up for it. For instance, if they have artistic ability and especially musical talent. But weak men? I don't think so.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/20 04:08 AM
1

You can't "buy" a relationship. And a hooker just doesn't have the ego boost as someone who will sleep with you because they're attracted to you. The problem seems to be that you feel a lot of guilt and they take advantage of it but what they want most is what you are not prepared to give. It is not your job to help them get laid. You can give some tips but you have to learn how to say NO and not give in.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/20 11:17 PM
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Whenever they came to me with sexual frustration or grief/anger over rejection, I tend to...tell them some platitude and then try to distance myself away from them until they are 'normal' again. ​ I honestly don't blame you. And it's true, you can't do anything about it other than fuck them(which is entirely your call since sex is not a right) which you probably don't want to do otherwise you'd be their GF....Or maybe just their FWB. I think that when men and women are friends and both are strai…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/20 10:34 PM
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Why? Because ya'all need to lighten up!
/r/ExRedPill20/04/20 09:27 PM
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Tis true!
/r/ExRedPill20/04/20 07:08 PM
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What are you smoking?
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/20 07:12 AM
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u/krmaml: You're right. But so effing what? It isn't their fault that many us men have a rougher time. Blaming them will get you nowhere. We cannot change the hand we are dealt in life, we can only choose how to play it.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/20 03:08 AM
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Have you ever had a relationship? Women that cannot love a man are usually narcissists and/or have personality disorders that render them incapable of empathy and trusting other people. These people do exist, but they are not the majority of women or even men for that matter. Ask Mr Google about signs that someone is a narcissist. And if a woman shows these signs, cut off contact with her and provide no explanation.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/20 02:44 AM
1

So you're basically an unemployed moocher. And sources tell me that your luck is running out. Haha!
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 09:49 PM
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I see extremely selfish, manipulative and dishonest behaviour when it comes to sex too. So we don't actually disagree. I'm just sharing my observations as I am mainly interested in facts and finding out the truth. How I or anyone else feels about it personally isn't relevant. Hope that helps.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 08:39 PM
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Let's put it this way: I would say that I have what you would call a cynical view of other humans. Surely some would slap me with the misanthropy label. Because I just cannot bring myself to go along with the social reality when the teachings of mainstream society clash with my own personal experience and I find that empiricism gets far better results than intuition or "timeless wisdom". Perhaps "misanthropy" is a cardinal sin in your religion, but not in mine. Needless to say, I really DO see a…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 07:40 PM
1

But I don't think that there's also a one-size-fits all reading of what people really mean. ​ Like I said: know your audience. Different strokes for different folks(which is consistent with the statement the way to get what you want from people is to pay less attention to what they say and more attention to what they respond to).
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 05:11 PM
1

It isn't about manipulation as much as it is about knowing your audience and observance of the fact that actions speak louder than words. People don't always say what they mean and I've been around people who say contradictory things without even realizing it! Expecting people to be completely self aware 100% of the time and always logical is expecting too effing much.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 04:54 PM
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DISCLAIMER(for everyone): kindness and niceness are not the same thing. Being nice = being agreeable. And if you're too agreeable you come across as needy and submissive. Neediness in an adult is something that the vast majority of adult humans find repulsive. ​ I spent so much of my life trying to be so good and do everything right just to get here and realize that women aren't attracted to people who follow the rules There's you're problem right there! You're a people pleaser. You're too focus…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 11:14 PM
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I'm gonna have to disagree. I used to have a lot of female friends and what I found is that most of those friendships petered out. That is, those women lost interest in the friendship and moved on. I thought that when I was a teenager that being friends with women was a great way to progress to an actual relationship with them but that line thinking proved to be incorrect. Now hear me out: Friendship CAN be a gateway to romance and many solid relationships start out as platonic. But if someone i…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 06:43 PM
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NO. The concept of "what goes around, comes around"/"you reap what you sow" is the ultimate myth. The reason people think that way is to avoid being affected by unpleasant things that are beyond their control. You sound like one of those postmodernist hiptards who try in vain to convince people that the world is too complex and too nuanced for them to understand(which is of course, bogus). That's why you resort to catchy phrases like the one I just mentioned. Also, not everyone wants to be treat…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 08:23 AM
1

You have to train yourself to be strong. And if you are a guy, you really gotta toughen up if you wanna get laid. Do not go easy on those who hurt and mock you. They are playing a zero sum game. Liberal mindedness does not make someone tolerant or even kind. It is nothing more than a pretense. You're gonna have to learn to be as nasty as they are and then some. ​ MIGHT I ADD: I'm all for weed and magic mushrooms, but don't use them as a vice/escapism. You should focus on something productive lik…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 04:45 AM
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