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It's a little depressing when you read threads from people who think they are stuck making a certain amount of income or can't find a job "in their field," while being $50k in debt. At a certain point, your entrepreneurial spirit needs to kick in. Whether it's gunning for the promotion, building your network, starting a side hustle, or doing your own thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 05:01 PM
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Best thing I ever did was challenging myself to 5x5 for the whole summer: I talked to 5 girls/day and went for the close (number, date, etc) by the 5th exchange. It was super rough at first, but honestly 2 weeks in I was killing it. I've just noticed with girls I do fuck it seems like there's a strong natural chemistry from the start. This is so amazingly true. Eventually i could tell who was going to text back, and who's i was going to fuck basically right off the bat. Best thing I ever did.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:01 PM
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Can find several threads on TRP about that. My goal was simply awareness, as without that nothing will stick.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:13 PM
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Ya, I rail coffee. I quit every 4 months or so, and when I do I feel great (after a week of hell). Then I have a cup/day... then 2 cups... then... well...
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 04:44 AM
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I'd say 95% of people in sales are losers. 5% work when they want, live it up with their clients, make more money than God, and don't give a flying fuck about you.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 04:43 AM
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First off, I love poetry. Second, most of my friends know I read poetry and have a weird kind of respect for it. Everyone kind of wishes they were cultured enough to read poetry.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 02:50 AM
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In sales. I actually read this as "Always B" and "Be C."
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 09:33 PM
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I feel like, if anything, I need some type of application or meaning here rather than just typing.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 09:31 PM
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This is a great point here. I am happy just about 100% of the time because no one and nothing can take away my happiness. I have literally pounded this into myself through intentional work and thought. If anything, stoicism is about seeing the good in everything, and not taking things for more than they are.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:35 PM
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Consciously adopting certain beliefs, rules and standards is so important. They don't need to be mantras ("I am good at sales - people want what I'm selling") but even just an overarching thesis is good. When I'm down or frustrated, I'm able to say to myself: "The world is a big place, full of possibilities - and we're all gonna make it." I tell people to do it, and they're shocked at the results.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:31 PM
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I love this, as the simpler the better. If you do the body section, you will change your life in 2 weeks, and be a noticeably different person altogether in 10 weeks. "Find your passion" is tough, but there are actionable steps if you look for them.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:29 PM
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It's not my job to Red Pill people, but I actually think it's a fun, sneaky way to both dig the person as well as make more people click the link with the pre-frame to "watch out, or you're going to get Red-pilled just for going there."
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:25 PM
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I'm more of a fan of scheduling it in. I'm now a big "productivity porn" guy, but in The Now Habit the author recommends scheduling it ahead of time so you're not worried about shirking your responsibilities and actually have something to look forward to. You can moderate it, keep it high quality, and keep it enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:24 PM
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Wherever there's an Indian with a little self-confidence and the audacity to think they deserve to get laid.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:47 AM
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How do you just start a business though? You change your attitude and beliefs. Reread your comment. Everything you in there tells me you won't succeed in anything, doing it by yourself or not. You're better than that - right? I'm sure you can find reasons why you're at least better than how you described yourself.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 02:18 AM
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If it works for you, then there's no argument here.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 02:13 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:25 PM
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Someone posted about how fucked up the red pill was, but linked to it in their post. I told them that if they're really against it, don't post a link, because that's how 90% of people get red-pilled. Every single time someone talks about it, TRP gains subs.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 10:06 PM
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There's never really time unless you make it. What are you doing that you don't want to? Where do you have a couple minutes in the day? Could you journal more consistently if you did it exactly when you woke up? What if you had it on you 24/7 in your back pocket.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:38 PM
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Seems pretty wrong, but wouldn't be surprised if it was >25% from liquids in general.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:08 PM
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In context - be honest with how much you're watching, decrease quantity but increase quality, and don't use it to procrastinate. After that, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:19 PM
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Thanks. Actually intentionally skipped lack of sleep for now, as I thought there were bigger ones to tackle.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:17 PM
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the Indian disadvantage Limiting belief. Cut that out - you have an interesting background and perspective on things, and there are tons of Indians I know that fuck. Get a good job, lift, and be interesting - it's the only way forward for anyone.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 08:03 AM
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Others have good advice, but some possible things to consider: How involved do you plan on being in your son's school and sports? Pump and dumps are great, but if these moms have kids in your son's grade or sports team, you will see them for a long time. Fucking married chicks at a club is great, but it's a little different when your kids are in close proximity and you possibly share common friends and acquaintances. You can get into a desperate housewives situations where you're the guy that br…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 08:01 AM
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Right now I'm attracting girls but can't find a girl hotter than my ex. Likely won't change till I drop some weight, get over my ex, and get better at approaching. That's a limiting belief. Cut that out. Personally, widening my standards a little really helped after a breakup. I really embraced TRP sub and got momentum. I got up early, went to the gym, worked on my business, then went out with friends and found a girl and my confidence and improvement became a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:53 AM
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So, I was on fakebook the other day, and up pops some uneducated female hippie's misandrist post. Get off of Facebook and you wouldn't have to see it. So, after I logically defeated the arguments of the author Think harder. No one cares about logic.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:53 AM
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There is honestly no greater validation than when a gay guy hits on you. You legitimately have to be attractive.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:41 AM
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I'm in sales - if i'm not getting a reaction from the other person, I'll "polarize" the conversation where I intentionally challenge someone and piss them off to actually get a reaction from someone. Rest of the time just trying to be nice. Also - original convo was with a guy, fyi. If it's a girl, ya I may take it there just to tease her.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:58 PM
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Any answer is really acceptable if you value doing it, and are willing to accept the consequences of what happens by doing it. Personally, challenging someone's identity like that rarely gets me towards my goals with this person, so I don't value doing it. Additionally, the long-term consequences (I will make this person feel bad, onlookers will think I'm a dick, etc.) further push me away from doing it. But again, any answer is fine if it meets your criteria.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:19 PM
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Something like Introvert vs. Extrovert, and in fact all the letters, are extremely limiting beliefs. You are under no obligation to be anything you don't want to be at any time. If you don't like something - change it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:15 PM
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Radical honesty is interesting in theory but disastrous in practices. There is a difference between True and Effective.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 12:25 AM
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That is a belief that I have consciously adopted. However, not everyone can teach you anything on any topic. If someone thinks one way and I think another, and they're not willing to have a conversation in good faith, I've learned a lot about this person, and will apply it in disciplining myself not to be like them.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 10:45 PM
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Confused as to what this means. Can you elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 10:36 PM
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Ya, but then by definition that's not "value." I guess it's a question of objective vs. subjective, but we're having the discussion in terms of interpersonal relationships, which is going to come down on the side of being entirely subjective, in my opinion. I can wash the dishes, but if my roommate literally doesn't give a fuck and will use any plate, dirty or clean, I have objectively created value, but if he does not value it, then it's not real "value."
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:49 AM
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Hmm, interesting take. Care to share an example?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:40 AM
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Without saying you're wrong, I would say I don't engage in the conversation because I don't give a fuck about protecting my ego or being right. Unless the conversation has some sort of stakes involved, that person doesn't deserve my time and attention.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:19 AM
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This is an amazing article that sums up what you're saying. People only care about the value you create. They don't care about you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:37 AM
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Absolutely the wrong play. Shut it down and move on. Law 38 - no need to try and educate or save someone. "Ya, maybe. I think it's a complicated issue" and then change the subject.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:34 AM
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Nothing is left wing or right wing unless it's characterized by an obvious attempt to be left wing or right wing, then it's left wing or right wing. To say "diversity isn't political!" Is akin to several arguments made by The Left that are, on their face unassailable, but in reality are kind of disingenuous. (Best example is "oh, so you hate poor people" on various issues such as minimum wage and welfare). No one thinks diversity is bad. No ones. Forced diversity for simply diversity's sake to t…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:07 AM
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Going full left doesn't sell. Just ask ESPN.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:28 AM
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______ are the oppressor group and ******* are their victims. Everything in society is set up to favor _______ and penalize ******* and the only way to make things right is to redistribute (wealth/political power/privilege/insert here) is to ******* from __. This is the absolute moral truth and we are totally justified in taking any action against _, who cannot be oppressed because they are by definition the oppressors. Anyone, whether ****** or __ I took a Chicano Literature class in college (E…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:02 AM
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Not "Do you want to get dinner this week?" but "Let's get Thai food on Thursday." Assume the close! I had a guy friend basically screaming at me that more men cheat rather than women because reasons. I began explaining that denying that women have agency in their relationships and are also sexual creatures is a relatively immatu- ... and I'm a sexist. Great.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:57 PM
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I went to Dreamforce recently (175k+ registrants) and it was basically spring break for office workers, especially the women. They were aaaaallllll looking to hook up. All. All.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:50 PM
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I've found changing my environment to be effective. If I procrastinate on something, I'll go to a coffee shop or a bar and do it. I've even found switching up how you're doing it works - I'll work from my fucking phone, because it just works for me sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:41 PM
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I've found changing my environment to be effective. If I procrastinate on something, I'll go to a coffee shop or a bar and do it. I've even found switching up how you're doing it works - I'll work from my fucking phone, because it just works for me sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:41 PM
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I learned to never, ever, ever talk about what I've learned and been practicing. It goes against the society's narrative, and anything that does that people will instantly find it disgusting. I told a friend to start 5 conversations with women/day and ask for their number by the 5th line in each. You would've thought I told him to go on a rape-fest.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:36 PM
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Had similar epiphany 5 years ago. Lifted, started a business, and now I'm very successful. My advice? Start small. What you're talking about is what I call "midnight motivation." It's great, and often necessary, but you may find a week from now that you've lost the motivation because things aren't going perfect. Write out next actions. Take them. It won't happen all at once. Take massive action, but don't expect the world. Keep reading what you wrote.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:09 AM
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First off, on both topics, I think you're looking at it from extremely idealistic lense that has no basis in reality. I don't say that confrontationally, I say that your arguments have been explored and it just does not map across to the results you mention. I think The Matrix reference doesn't really go further than just "in the matrix, vs. out," but to your point, I don't think anyone really cares about "Smiths," and I can guarantee that no one here is trying to change/beat society because, to…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:57 PM
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What do you want your outcome to be? What's the end result? What job do you have - what girl are you getting with - what body do you have - what do your finances look like. Think really, really hard about this, and the next steps are simple (which doesn't mean easy).
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:53 PM
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Seeing that light is what the Red Pill strives for, but it is not usually discussed as such. Seeing reality for what it is is literally how The Red Pill got it's name? because of the loss of innocence is not something to grieve for, or be sad about. The loss of innocence is to be celebrated, because innocence stems from ignorance. While that's a great notion, anecdotally, there are several not only predictable, but necessary phases a man will and must go through. Anger is one of them, and always…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:50 PM
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Keep hearing I need to read Flow. Seems great.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 04:54 PM
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I run my own digital marketing firm. Succeeding in sales is the greatest example of 80/20 in the professional world. 20% work hard, make a ton of money, and get better at their craft every day. Most are normies who just get by and hate their life. Tips: Find a product you're excited to sell. Improve yourself every day. Build supreme confidence in yourself as you'll need it. "Sales is either the easiest hard job in the world or the hardest easy job." - My Dad.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:05 PM
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Ya, I've taken it with me several places. As much as I think it's important to read widely, I think it's more important to read deeply. A book is not amazing IMO unless you want to read it again.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:03 PM
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Hmm. Ya, read Mastery. Looking for more over-arching "change your life" books but Mastery is a must once you get past a certain point. You're either a Robert Greene guy or you're not (obviously I am), at which point you're going to love all of his books. They're dope as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:47 AM
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Never Eat Alone is good, but not sure it would be a great first sales book. I'm not as up on true sales-as-sales books as I'd like (although I'm in sales?) How To Win Friends and Influence People is amazing here, but I'm probably not the best resource. I'm a big Tom Hopkins fan, so Closing for Dummies or When Buyer's Say No are good resources.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:25 AM
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Not 100% sure about buying drinks as many are legit ok with using you and know they're doing it in the moment. I will say, something that works - just randomly and quickly ask her to hold something. I would go to a bar with a pool table and pop-a-shot on dates and when it was my turn just say "hey, can you hold this?" and hand her my coat and then go do my turn, and then not even mention it until she brought it up. It establishes control (kind of fucked up, but no one's hurting anybody).
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 11:17 PM
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Hays edition = GOAT I absolutely agree. I remember the first time I read it I would like put it down every couple minutes and think. A lot of stoicism/ancient philosophy is like that, where it's just a profound paragraph by itself and you just get gut-punched and have to think about it for a while.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 11:12 PM
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I'm halfway through the audiobook and it's great so far. Highly recommend. He doesn't bullshit around. I read Influence when I started researching Trump (dove DEEP into psychology, sales, marketing, negotiation, hypnosis, NLP, etc.) and Trump is just the master.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:03 PM
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Classic books all men interested in self-improvement should read: Meditations - Marcus Aurelius Oft-recommended on this board but I've probably read it 10x as you can do it in a couple hours. I had to stop underlining things because I realized 90% of it was underlined. Amazing. How To Win Friends and Influence People The OG self-help book that's been ripped off over and over. Teaches rapport and appealing to other's self-interest in such detail that a cuck over at Lifehacker wrote an article dec…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:22 PM
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Would consider myself extremely successful in life, largely because of the beliefs I've consciously chosen to adopt. I have pretended these were true until they simply became true: The world is a big place, full of possibilities, and we're all going to make it. My past is not my future My success or failure is no one's fault but my own. Ever. The meaning of my communication is the response it elicits from others. Everything is an opportunity. Everything. This is America - you can literally do wh…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:21 AM
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I've stopped consuming less, and ESPN is a great example. I just don't pay attention to things that tell me what should be important, and my life has changed for the better.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:55 AM
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I was thinking the same thing until I just started digging it halfway through. I was like man this is some Cormac McCarthy shit right here.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:44 PM
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He knew, he married her, and now he's trying to use it against her? Whatever you want say about her - this guy seems like an insecure asshole.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 08:31 PM
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Disagree - I can't find the original article (there's been so many of them). The original article was all about this woman's insecurity, and how she would rather date a guy who had a dad bod for all of the reasons that we talk about here (and that /u/TheBrokenRuler is mentioning). Obviously she went to a southern school where being a rich white guy is enough to have status, but she said it made her feel better about herself like 10 different ways in the piece.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 05:33 PM
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When I weigh 190 lbs and have 9% body fat, it's going to be much easier to get sex... While relatively true, this is a severely limiting belief. You can get those numbers and still have problems because, in reality, that bad attitude was the problem all along. Goals are essential - but be careful what you believe and how you believe it.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 04:06 PM
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The thing I didn't anticipate, and it felt a bit overwhelming, it's that when you arrive in a venue with a girl like that, you're scrutinized. Every single table was staring at me and her as we went to sit down. Seems like you were looking to get scrutinized, and you found it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:41 PM
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I like to think that it's just breaking the bonds of social conditioning and finding what truly matters for each individual, while at the same time recognizing patterns that undeniably lead to success (lifting, dressing better, etc.).
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:38 PM
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Anyone supporting Milo will start off by saying "I disagree with him on most things, but..." because supporting him is supporting what he ultimately stands for - which is the marketplace of ideas. Also - 70% of what Milo has to say is extremely important to talk about, 20% seems a little too edgy for me, and 10% is just complete trolling. So "not agreeing with him on everything" is a good place to be, because he's a performance artist.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 12:28 AM
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I like to recommend books. I don't recommend this to everyone, but I would pick out "The Power of Positive Thinking" for you. Great read for you, even if you're not religious. Now a couple tactical things: Create a list of three things that makes a "perfect day." I did this when I was unemployed. It was 1. Making my bed. 2. Going on a mile walk. 3. Taking 5-6 job actions (resume send-outs, coffee requests, etc.). Once I had finished those 3 things - I was done for the day. This could be at 9am i…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:10 PM
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Big Sean - I don't fuck with you 100%
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:05 PM
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Pretty straightforward. Just forget about it and move on. No one will listen to you and it'll be more trouble for you than it's worth. Just the truth.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:59 PM
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I was laughing my ass off. In between feel-good virtue signaling (earlier, Che was talking about how he supported the march because he's not a dick - later, there was a cringy song to send off Obama) there was this absolute masterpiece of RP gold. I was laughing my ass off and my wife was very confused.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:22 AM
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A virtue signal boogie man that can't be refuted or disregarded without looking heartless to the plugged-in. I've had a lot of great conversations about with my liberal friends on this very issue during this election. Talk about the minimum wage and "oh, so you don't like poor people?" is sure to follow. Completely unassailable point that ends the conversation immediately with everyone just pissed. Pretty childish.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:28 PM
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I just finished reading The Power of Positive Thinking and this is a major point throughout each chaprter. Focus on your own improvement, get in peak shape, dress well, and your relationships/friendships and parenting will improve. If you don't, you don't honor yourself, God, and others. Old self-improvement books (How to Win Friends, As a Man Thinketh) are RP as fuck. What happened.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 08:05 PM
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Not too worried about it. It's 3.5k words and not too accessible.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 07:52 PM
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Yes. My buddy went to a Christian school and his buddy and his GF fucked in the ass to preserve their virginity. People get in weird spots and rationalize only following the letter of the law rather than the spirit.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:52 PM
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I went on a date with an ex-Mormon girl who said they got around not having sex before marriage by soaking - PIV but without thrusting (also called "floating"). I told her since I don't fuck on the first date, soaking would be a great alternative. We immidiately went home, soaked for about 30 seconds laughing, and then had great sex.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 12:12 AM
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If you've ever kissed a girl without speaking - you were in rapport.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:43 AM
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Looks matter This completely changed my life. Not just losing the weight and being treated differently, but paying attention to being treated differently. The world is a shallow place - and it will never change. The more you pretend like genetics, biology, and social dynamics are something that's negotiable, teachable, or worthy of shame, the less happy you personally will be. Frankly, that realization was kind of freeing.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 10:46 PM
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I feel like you're missing the mark midway through. Trashing on guys who are ashamed at the porn they have to watch to get off because porn has ravaged their pleasure-receptors to where they need to seek out more novel and extreme material isn't really fair. Obviously it's sad, and it's a sad state to find themselves in. But saying "lol, you may be gai brah," not sure that's an accurate read of the situation.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:58 PM
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I've found you can skip negotiation if you have standards. My wife knows certain things are the way they are without nagging, because those are the standards I've set for the relationship. Much easier, much more sustainable.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:25 PM
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You can't. tried several times.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:01 PM
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I found increased focus, attention and presence after quitting. The biggest realization for me a couple weeks in is seeing what "triggered" looking at porn. Difficult task? Welp, better beat it first. Horny? Let's fix that. Bored? Let's see some titties. A while after quitting, I had no other choice but to start the task, actually engage in sex with another human, or let myself be bored in a constructive way.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:00 PM
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Saw a picture of myself after going to Disneyland and I had thinning hair I was trying to do my best to hide, was 40 lbs overweight and shaped like a pear, and walked around hating myself. I shaved it extremely short, dropped the weight and got jacked. Found TRP. Improved confidence, got disciplined, and started my own business. Started getting laid (a lot). Will it stop you getting from getting laid? With that attitude it will. If you own it, you'll be just fine. Girls that "don't like" bald gu…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 12:30 AM
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I’m also married (que boos). Even still, I can’t advocate for this subreddit enough in terms of the importance it is for men and how real a lot of the information on here Out of all the populations that stand to benefit from TRP in terms of improving the quality of their lives: I think married men are #1. Being a beta single guy trying to get laid by hot chicks has nothing on being a beta husband trying to get laid by a total bitch. It's kind of tough on this board because I feel like some marri…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:48 PM
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"Do BLACK lives matter... or do ALL lives matter" was literally a question from Anderson Cooper in the debate for Bernie Sanders. Don't pretend that anyone on the left has EVER taken a nuanced position on this issue. I've never met anyone who didn't think all lives, and black lives as well, matter. You don't get to shame others all of the sudden because by pretending the conversation is actually about something that's not just political horseshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 04:53 PM
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Give up: Things that artificially change my state (alcohol, caffeine, porn) Twitter and Reddit (quitting facebook 2 years ago was one of the best things I've ever done) Sleeping in Take up: Finish my morning routine every morning Read for 20 minutes Meditate Visualize Do GTD Daily Review Fill out Day Runner
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:16 PM
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Cernovich did a post a while ago about how the best way to give up porn is to have extreme dedication towards fulfilling goals to the point where you're not interested in diverting your attention towards it. Harder, but more beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 04:58 PM
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Staying up tonight to read "As a Man Thinketh" and "The Power of Positive Thinking." Man is made and unmade by himself Relevant to your piece. Suffering is always the effect of wrong thought in some direction. It is an indication that the individual is out of harmony with himself, with the Law of his being. The sole and supreme use of suffering is to purify, to burn out all that is useless and impure. Upon reflection - you've found your run, lifting, etc. necessary. It is aligning forces within …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 11:27 AM
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"What if?" Is a loose working definition of Hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:44 PM
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This was my question. I live next to a cougar bar and there are some serious foxes. If you're going to ONS with a hot mommy with big tits, there are worse things.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:54 PM
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My anecdotal experience with TRP: Dread game leads to better outcomes for both parties. Men are obviously happier, but the woman is happier as well. Nu males being lead to terrible outcomes. Men are unhappy and confused why the woman is even less happy. The willingness to bend over backwards is awful for both parties.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 10:45 PM
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A guy I hadn't seen in a while told me I was looking huge the other day and I played it off so much that it kind of got awkward when he saw that I was serious.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 06:40 PM
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Think as you like, but behave like others. 48 Laws of Power: Law 38. Things that go against The Narrative disgust the average person. They're repulsed by it to the point where you need to be shamed. People aren't ready until they're ready - even those that claim to be "open-minded." I've done my fair share of trying to "educate" or "save" people, and you just end up being a martyr for a set of ideas that literally tells you not to be a fucking martyr. Either learn how to talk to people about the…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 03:45 PM
3

Only Bruce Springsteen has an album that sold more than speak now with the artist having sole writing and music credit. So- all of them. (Especially Enchanted).
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:27 AM
1

One of my pet points here in TRP: the 70th percentile of men is closer to the 30th percentile than the 80th. Look at it like this. It does not take a lot to rise above the 80% of chumps in this world. They are not interested in self-improvement. Lift, get to a decent bodyfat, buy a couple shirts from H&M and you'll be a men among boys in 3 months.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 08:41 PM
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Whoa bro, don't try and math me like that!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 08:31 PM
1

Can someone elaborate on the "too much light" thing? It seems like, if that even was a problem, it would be like problem #10 when it came to video games.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:36 PM
1

How To Win Friends and Influence People is secretly RP as fuck. A beta-bitch from Lifehacker wrote a scathing review on it about how it "manipulated" people and... he's not wrong, it's that he's not ready to truly understand it yet. Written in the 30's, it's got tons of folksy aphorisms that would be later backed up by science and psychology.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 04:50 PM
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That shit is fucked up and really affected my view on life. I'm respectful, but I don't pussyfoot around with my friends anymore when I tell them what's really happening in their relationships/dating/plates. You have to use terms they can understand, but goddam that was some heavy shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 04:45 PM
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Say it with me: Behind every crazy bitch is a total chump. More posts need to recognize that the behavior they're writing about that's so deplorable is enabled by the total faggot she's seeing.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 04:39 PM
7

Creating a mega-post about rapport and it's basically those two things. People are interested in those that are interested in them, so "interested" is just another way to be interesting.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:21 PM
1

tell her you're going to school and if she doesn't 'let you' you will strongly consider divorce. Ya, ok. Pretty sure that's what she wants him to do.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 07:28 PM
1

Change happens in an instant. Tony Robbins If you truly want to change something: You will. Right now. The "truly" is the hard part. People need to focus more on why they want to change than on the strategy of change itself. That figures itself out.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 06:32 PM
12

Is this a serious question
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:48 PM
1

Haha, hear that it takes hard work or that you actually can see the improvements you've been telling yourself you can't?
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 02:23 PM
1

I think your entire point is borne out in dread game. Women's base natures aren't the traditional housewife platitudes, but put a strong man around and she gets there pretty quick. I think society has fucked a lot of people up when it comes to telling people they can't do what's natural. You mention the Halo Effect in another comment, I've found that those that doth protest too much (landwhale HAES-advocates or dike man-shamer) are projecting on their insecurities on pet issues - and hate themse…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 12:23 AM
5

I would say about 6 weeks of strength training, weight loss, and diet improvement. If you're overweight and have never lifted before, you can easily lose 15 lbs and put on a little muscle in that time if you bust your ass.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 06:28 PM
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I think something that needs to be communicated on this sub more is that we talk about self-improvement to get into the top 20% of men... but DOESN'T TAKE A LOT. The median for men is extremely low. The 70th percentile is much closer to the 30th percentile than to the 80th, if that makes sense. I spent 3 months working out, got some shirts from H & M, and just started asking for girls number and it was like night and day. You quickly realize that 80% of dudes are just chumps.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 06:02 PM
1

...is that the guy has to take so much shit by default. I mean ya, with that attitude. What if you don't?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 03:47 PM
3

Good friends give you shit 1-2x whenever you do something new or try and make a change. It's just how friends work. Anything after that and it's obvious they're not friends with you because of YOU, they're friends with you because of how you make THEM feel.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:56 PM
2

I was going to say - someone posted something here a long time ago that talked about this actually happening with predictably disastrous consequences. Even past the "women/business" issue, putting someone on the board because they "have" to be their probably leads to some dysfunction and feelings of superiority. LOL
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 10:58 PM
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Ya, it has a couple issues. First, I basically pumped it out, so it's meandering. Second, Should've been formatted like a blog post to be more skimmable. Third, I haven't written anything like this since I graduated college 7 years ago. My next one will be much better!
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 02:42 PM
1

Thanks. Writing the next part which should post soon. 3000 words is tough.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 02:40 PM
1

Whatever sounds natural and works for you is the best way to phrase it. Are you outside of the US, perchance?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:12 PM
1

Hmm... I'm not sure. However, would be much better to word it "SINCE I know you're having fun tonight, LET'S GO to the next bar, because everyone says it's great" You'd make it a complex equivalence (will cover this later).
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 02:28 PM
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Stopped reading at "tone." Ok, only kind of. I have had this exact experience, using these exact points, with two of my friends on separate occations. My prescription: Do Greyskull LP for 2 months (I will go to the gym with you) Use LoseIt to track your calories for 2 weeks (I will help) Buy 5 $7 shirts at H&M (I will go with you) Just that, and their lives changed. The rest tends to follow, in its own way.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:25 AM
1

If you have advice to give, do it in the imperative
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:20 AM
1

Interesting. Can you give me an example? Also - what is your outcome in the second example? We're always looking to achieve an outcome here.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 04:43 AM
1

Not going to a Trump rally (yet) is a huge regret of mine. They seem like a great time.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:46 PM
1

I would recommend NLP for Dummies. It really is pretty great.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:46 PM
1

Thanks. Will put some high-level materials in the next post.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:45 PM
1

Ya, when he started writing about Trump over a year ago it's what got me into this stuff. Then I attended a Tony Robbins seminar and dove into NLP. Fascinating shit indeed.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:45 PM
1

Ya, I was unclear and spent way too much time on the Meta Model. We live in the Milton Model (everything you hear is vague, you put your own meaning on it). Your use of the meta model combats that ("please be more specific"). While conversational hypnosis takes advantage of that (You hang your meaning on a vague statement like - "You'll love this product because you're looking to save valuable time."), I'm going to spend the rest of my post(s) using the Milton Model.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:43 PM
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I think some NLP would be great for the sidebar. However, it certainly wouldn't be this post. A high-level post that covers actionable information about: Beliefs Self-Talk Body Language Communication Modeling Would be great. If anything, it could just be a link-fest to more resources.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:45 PM
1

Yep. A lot of it is SMV and language you'd use in game.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:33 PM
1

Going to cover Double Binds and Tag questions a couple Parts from now. Them: "... because I said so." You: "You wouldn't take my word for it, now of course you wouldn't... would you?" There is no way to answer that other than the way you want them to.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:32 PM
1

Yep. I comb through TRP after all these years because there's always an amazing distinction hiding somewhere among the "Fuck girls!!!" posts.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:29 PM
1

Ya, spent a little too much time on the Meta Model.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:28 PM
1

Yep. When I learned about it I realized how much I have done this just through reading/learning/doing sales. Again - the toolbox comes into play. There is no overarching "sales" science, it's all just models that take bits and pieces of things that work (and are often scientifically proven).
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:28 PM
1

If I edit it down, it might be. I think there are posts that are more appropriate for the sidebar later in this series.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:25 PM
1

Ya, I figured that out after I posted it. Was great to write 3000 words, but it wandered quite a bit and it's unclear to those just learning how these all fit together. I spent a lot of time on the Meta Model even though I caveated that "we're not going to be using it." Future posts will be extensive, but on one topic with a coherent structure. Also - ya. Look at Obama - dude is a G.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:25 PM
1

Yep. Look up Obama cialdini, and the master himself was on his team. Think of the Yes We Can and the Hope imagery. It means nothing and yet everything.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:23 PM
1

Ya, going to make the next post more accessible. Have to make the title more clickable.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:22 PM
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It's all story. It's an entirely different post, but Milton Model goes down (Structure to Deep), Meta Model goes up (Deep to Structure)...... Stories and Metaphors go across. A good story puts people into state, and they connect the dots. Try cutting off a great story and saying "I'm not sure I want to go into that." Their brain demands a conclusion. Vinkatesh's "Gervais Principle" is God-tier content. I've thought about doing a mega-post about Trump's use of Powertalk. Using Vinkatesh's definit…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:21 PM
1

Great point. Completely changes the meaning (and an odd practice that's worse than inflection).
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:14 PM
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I DISAGREE BRO, BUT PROPS FOR THIS SHIT. NEXT PART INCOMING SO COME AT ME.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:13 PM
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I'm a little confused as to the overall point here. I will say changing the context (or frame) with which a woman sees you is basically impossible without blowing it up completely. That's why orbiters try for years and then when they just say "fuck it" and cut them out have so much success. Or: if you're not getting enough sex... break up with them. Guarantee you'll have more sex the 3 months after you break up then you did the previous 3 months together. Total context change.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:14 AM
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Thanks. Wrote it as much to clarify my own thoughts on the issue and practice writing. Thought I could've cut it down by 20% or so, but glad you liked it.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:15 AM
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Sure. Love Trump. Just saying if you want to see this post series writ large in one figure - it's him. He's TRP's last boss.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:15 AM
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Disagree, but I respect you bringing it up. Probably won't change the language.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:14 AM
8

Yes. Been a member here for years and years. 1.) What you quoted was an open-ended statement. I didn't tell people specifically what and what not to do. 2.) I don't mind drawing a line between the usual petty moral shit that comes up in the comments (banging married chicks) and getting someone to sign up for a loan they can't afford.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:33 AM
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Depends on what you think of Trump.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:28 AM
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I was dating a girl one time with great tits and a so-so face. Her friend did her makeup for New Years one year and I swear to fucking God she looked like the hottest porn star that I'd ever seen. She wasn't into makeup, so that kind of sucked. Sex was great.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:34 AM
2

He concludes by saying that in order for there to be a change, there must be danger again---in other words, the welfare state must collapse (or be greatly reduced voluntarily) so that the real everyday dangers of reality may once again present themselves. Wow. We're fucked. PS - one thing I've realized in this election is people's opinions have zero consequences. This is an amazing country, in that regards, as you'll never be that bad off if you're an American. What happens when things change?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 02:14 AM
6

When I was like 6 my Dad took me into my parent's walk-in closet and showed me a sticky-note that had the income he wanted to make on it doing real estate ($250k... in 1993). Then he said "son, it's not about making 250 thousand dollars... it's about becoming the type of person that makes 250 thousand dollars."
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:38 PM
1

Look at an experience where you had that thought. If you peed your pants in class - Pay attention to what you're hearing, seeing and feeling in that experience (modalities in NLP). Pay attention to the attributes of those modalities - like brightness, whether you're in your body (associated) or watching yourself (dissociated). How does the kids laughter sound? How do your pants feel? Then play with them until the feelings no longer occur as strongly. For example: Dissociate (watch it as if you'r…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 03:15 PM
1

You can also think about how you unconsciously benefit from the negative thought process (called secondary gain in NLP). e.g. - if you procrastinate: what pleasure are you gaining by doing so? Surely it's something. What pain are you avoiding? Then think (as /u/bruh_my_jays says - very, very deeply) about what what you're giving up, losing, or not achieving. What is that pain? What pleasure would you get if you succeeded? You can't just intellectualize it - you have to get emotional and feel it.…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 03:10 PM
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Oh shit, I was thinking of doing a mega-post about NLP (getting super into that shit during this election) but you beat me to it. I've been thinking about doing a post about conversational hypnosis, so I may do that one instead. Some easy steps for modeling would be an as if frame. It assumes you have the necessary resources already within you, you're just going to pretend that they're real... until you're not pretending anymore. Physiology: How does a confident person stand, sit, or walk? DYK a…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:43 PM
8

One of the things that I struggle with is this: you have agency in your own life. No matter what. Sitting there and hoping it will all work out works less and less as you get older. If your situation is shitty, change it. If you want more money, change it. Hell, if the dishes are dirty, fucking change it. Something that I learn at a deeper level every passing year - you can literally do whatever you want. Every second, ever hour, every day. This is America and this is your life. There are NO rul…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:31 PM
3

...It is through this communication that the world can get to know who you are. ...Although we live in a controlled reality, which completely affects who we are ...our subconscious records these actions, and it's what we come to know. I've been getting really into Neurolinguistic Programming, and this is pretty much spot on. The world, your current reality, and your past experiences are all very subjective. Your input, what you bring to the table and color them with, is everything.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:56 PM
3

Married man. Someone made a comment about LTR's with a term that really resonated with me: "Frame Maintenance." So many of my buddies have turned into broken down dudes who have let themselves be walked on. The more they let go (forget?) who they are, the more their wives trample over, and disrespect them. If you don't respect yourself, she won't respect you. If there's one lesson I've learned from TRP it's this : behind every crazy bitch is a complete chump.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 11:55 AM
1

That's one of the main presuppositions in NLP. Not really. I'm a huge Taylor Swift fan. Probably my favorite artist after The Boss and Blink.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 06:33 AM
1

True. I guess I would say that life is complicated. Everybody has to find their way.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 08:04 PM
1

Going to seem a little backwards... Way more valuable for someone who is self-aware in the context of your comments than for someone who isn't introspective/disciplined/etc. already. No book, course, or mentor can make you actually care. If I had to gamble on who would leverage what they learned at that event to actually work on themselves... I would take the people that have already decided to work on themselves. Every time. A criticism I mentioned earlier is that a lot of people attend an even…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 09:14 PM
2

Landmark is fucking nuts. I went with a friend one time to shut her up, and I noped right out of there at first opportunity. At Robbins' event in Florida, I was talking with a guy at a bar where he goes "Who the FUCK are all these Robbins fuckheads talking about this guy like he's FUCKING JESUS." The problem is that people think it's a silver bullet where they don't have to do any work. And that making a serious investment represents their personal investment, when it doesn't work that way. 98% …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 08:05 PM
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Now that I'm a 6... The truth of your value is not determined by women. But you are judging your value (6?) based on what you think women value. You don't need to think of yourself as a 10 (or as a number at all). Much better, in my opinion, to question your own mindset and if you're improving in what you want to improve in, wherever you may be on an arbitrary scale. You're either engaging in that day-to-day improvement with confidence, or you're not.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 07:56 PM
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Well, that's NLP in general (and also a huge criticism of it). Cernovich's Gorilla Mindset does a pretty good job of explaining it very, very simply with exercises. I'd say 80% of people that go to his stuff are small business owners. They tend to uncuck themselves rather fast, because you realize you're responsible for your own performance, and any notion that that's not true (or you're not worthy of it) is simply a limiting belief. Reason why most small business owners are conservative. The be…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 02:58 PM
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I've read all his stuff, and been to Unleash The Power Within, and Robbins has a lot of relevant stuff. In short: Your beliefs, feelings, and standards guide your life. More often than not, we passively accept them through osmosis from other people. However, you can choose to believe empowering things about yourself/the world. You can choose to feel empowering states. You can raise your standards if you give yourself permission. Pretty fucking real shit. Note: The documentary had little to do, i…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 09:42 AM
1

Lost my virginity at 24 after finally giving up on saving myself for marriage (sorry God - just had to fuck. You get it.) Found TRP at 26. If anything, I think of it as a blessing. I can still identify with just about everyone In social situations as someone who used to be fat funny guy. I can adapt to situations way better than most that were alphas from an early age. Along the same lines I'm able to wield mindset and strategies as I see fit. One of the benefits is you're able to gain a more ho…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 09:41 AM
1

Sounds like a fucking blast. Geez.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:24 PM
2

Big fan of Tony Robbins. One of the things I'm committing to is not engaging in activities that artificially change my state in the short-term. That means drugs, alcohol, and masturbation - anything that I can get short-term gratification from. It's been really interesting thinking about exactly why I do things. What am I using porn for? To make me feel a certain way? Why do I need to feel that way? Can I make myself feel even better doing something else?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:31 PM
3

As a married man, this is amazing. I'm trying to get educated on divorces and prepare for the possibility (I love my wife but I'm not a fucking idiot). I think you did a good job keeping your finger on the pulse of what was going on. Obviously finding the iPad was a godsend. I think the key is being proactive, consulting a lawyer, and going first.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:22 PM
4

I saw a picture of myself at Disneyland I was horrified. I looked like a pear with sticks for arms, and wore a hat to hide thinning hair. Lifting, losing 50 lbs and getting my shit together turned me RP before I knew about TRP. Each 10 lbs I lost people treated me better. I am serious. As a former fat guy, I can absolutely tell when someone is nicer, attracted, servile, courteous, respectful, or interested in me in ways that would've never happened when I was fat.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:11 PM
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I feel like Gay marriage isn't even an issue in this election. People just assume it must be under attack because Republican.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 01:13 AM
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