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Why wouldn't you choose easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:38 PM
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Just get fat. It transcends gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:35 PM
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Contrary to what I expected every single time I ask this question it's literally 100 percent of people want to keep their gender regardless of their often skewed views The older I get the more curious I am about the opposite sexes experience I even believe women are at a disadvantage (not just physically) yet I'd still want to be a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:34 PM
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You as you are now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:23 PM
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If you could chose at birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:21 PM
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I'm renovating my house so I'm staying g with family it's chaos lol Im ALWAYS on Reddit tho lol xx
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 12:24 PM
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Huh I'd say that dynamic is the basis of all the people you're drawn to online. What I'd like to know is why are you always drawn to the people who display traits you actually despise or regard as week or inferior? You're unusually open, free and flexible with your interests
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:04 PM
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They don't boast about how unsuccessful they are with women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 01:58 AM
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I envy you. I wonder what the percentage of women that do and don't because I bet there is a correlation with promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 10:06 PM
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Did you answer my question? Did you cum with all those randoms? you rub it and an orgasm comes out Yes when I rub it it does when others rub it no they were all concerned with my orgasm Agreed they were but still doesn't mean they could achieve it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:39 PM
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Did you orgasm with all those ons? Because I've indulged is all sorts of crazy shit and had a blast but guaranteed I never cum from casual encounters. Ever. I can only do that with people I trust. I know it's not unheard of but I think women that can cum like that are unusual
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:37 PM
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http://68.media.tumblr.com/e3a5a4809cdd4931c7cacbcb3de421b8/tumblr_mn4f9aJNai1s5h9x0o1_500.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:50 PM
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Like they say if a women has on fancy lingerie when you fuck then you didn't decide whether you was going to fuck. I think if a woman is taken off guard and "seduced“into sex there will be a higher chance of a negative outcome like rape accusations or “I was pressured"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:41 PM
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If he is depressed them "motivating" him will have the opposite effect because you will only serve to be a constant reminder of his lack of motivation. (lack a few motivation from depression is pernicious and not changed through force) He needs to a) acknowledge if he is in fact depressed b) remove the reason for said depression (not always easy and often not helpful ie having kids, for instance, really fucks things up) If I was you I'd ask him if he wants your help and then see what he says. Te…
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 04:33 AM
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Aw hey lovely, I shall try and pop in soon x
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 02:39 PM
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Leave him or nag him choice is yours. Either way this is going to end badly for one of you. I wonder how long your patience will last before the gloves come off? If you don't want to do the majority of work for a man who wants to as little as possible don't complain when the inevitable consequences of your poor choices plays out
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 06:35 AM
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Gimme my wig back!!
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 04:10 AM
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Don't have links to shit my mum said growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 08:29 AM
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I asked a client what they think is indicative of a good relationship and they said "the sign of a good relationship is no sign of it on Facebook “ I thought that was pretty accurate.
/r/RedPillWives29/09/16 06:20 AM
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Blow job
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 05:28 PM
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Unsolicited advice is rarely received warmly. You could actually do more damage than good. She could use your advice as "proof" that she the problem isn't hers as the only advice she was given was to "be a doormat" She needs to be in a place where she's ready to change.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 05:10 PM
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I like where your heads at lol 😁
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 02:44 PM
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Do you mean soupy things or just getting hammered? Lol either way I like it
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 10:24 AM
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Reality is subjective..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 03:35 AM
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It was ironically from my husband and he said "never explain yourself and NEVER justify your actions.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 09:09 PM
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I LOVE evil buildings!!
/r/RedPillWives24/07/16 10:30 AM
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I think Daenerys should sit on the throne
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 03:50 PM
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Hodor!
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 03:49 PM
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You should make this into a nice Power Point it will really drive the message home lol
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 01:55 PM
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Define worshipping his masculinity? How I feel about my husband could be akin to that I imagine. I am at times in awe and feel an intense sense of respect and behave in a servile way that I wouldn't dream of behaving like around anyone else.
/r/RedPillWives11/06/16 03:36 AM
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If you're hitting on a guy and and he's not interested he's either gay, married or not attracted to you.
/r/RedPillWives03/06/16 10:00 AM
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In between two women.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:00 AM
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Mash an Avocado into the yolks. They look a bit Gnarly but taste incredible
/r/RedPillWives28/05/16 05:13 AM
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Mojitos for life!
/r/RedPillWives28/05/16 05:12 AM
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If you like Cucumber Sammiches you should try it with a small bit of Marmite. It's ughMazing!
/r/RedPillWives28/05/16 05:12 AM
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I make his skin itch when I'm needlessly needy lol
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 06:23 AM
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I do that. I like his reaction.
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 06:23 AM
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My sincerest congratulations!! You have just made your marriage a really happy one. You will be amazed at how easy it all becomes
/r/RedPillWives01/05/16 09:25 AM
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Because the vast majority of women have an exceptionally high SMV, Actually no they dont. you only think they have an exceptionally high SMV is because you're using your gage of whats a high SMV. in reality women and men are fairly quite equal. its only all the make up, hair products , wonder bras, perfume that make women "appear" higher on the smp, that coupled with mans inate desire for women. the only thing ill give you is women having the upper hand in youth. youth is attractive to literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 05:02 PM
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I've never heard once that mens SMV can be more easily changed. In fact women are more likely to, with all the make up and wonderbras and tit fairies they have at their disposal, APPEAR as tho they can manipulate their SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 03:56 AM
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I think he's on his period
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/16 02:00 AM
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Short answer is yes. It can. It really depends on how much you want to impart on your kids. Personally I am not concerned with making my kids believe the stuff I believe but more helping them to be confident and happy with decisions they make.
/r/RedPillWives23/04/16 09:55 AM
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And also "scientific proof" I thought was relevant and worth bearing in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 08:26 AM
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Aren't we all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 10:03 PM
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You'll get the service you deserve
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 08:56 PM
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That's interesting you see it like that. I work hard to not be rude with people whilst still trying to be congruent. One of the things I love about RPW was how we don't mollycoddle women and not sugar coat things. Don't lose that
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:43 PM
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You should wear a sign saying "kick me"
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:20 PM
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That was me being polite. Sorry if it's not acceptable I'll be good I promise
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:16 PM
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Whilst what you say is correct I think that if one person cheats then the other should think about what part they played in that. This is a very uncomfortable and hard thing to do and sometimes impossible when you're feeling so indignant but honestly all the people I've seen cheat it was a symptom of a larger problem If your partnership is good and sound cheating is much rarer. All the people who say my marriage was great I dunno why I cheated I was just an asshole, well that's the wider issue y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:20 AM
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You really don't sound like a brat. All I can say to you is question everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:14 AM
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Omg it's beautiful
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 08:22 AM
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Samantha Field needs to get some lol
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 08:21 AM
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It's pertaining to things of equity or fairness, just and right. They no longer think this is happening if they maintain ties to TRP. Going out on a limb and I'd say they're not doing us a just service if they do so. All your comments are so salty lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:14 AM
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Wazzup gives head so good it gives him brain damage. Talk about taking a hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 07:51 AM
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That's because nothing outside of themselves sets a benchmark. They are the benchmark.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 07:43 AM
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That's a very dangerous idea. I think first and foremost a rpw will choose a man and THEN she caters to him and him alone. Do not start by catering as default it won't end well. Furthermore if you decide to cater to a guy you really should choose well and that's where RPW sub is helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 07:16 AM
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I trust you ladies to have the subs best interests at heart so I shall see you in your new sub 😀 x
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 06:32 AM
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If you was 82 then maybe but 22? Srsly don't use it as an excuse because red pill or not that behaviour is just fugly
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 04:33 AM
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I tell my h whatever pops into my head at the moment. This morning he asked me to something I wouldn't normally do an I told him I'll only do it because he's so sheksy ( I did it in Sean connery voice) I also tell him he's my most favourite husband ever but if I want be serious (which isn't often tbf) I will just tell him I feel really lucky to have such a gorgeous husband, even when he stumbles out of bed with bed hair and squinty eyes I'll whisper “I would" when he walks past me. Just be spont…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 07:19 AM
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Keeps some surface spray under the sink and just spray and rince.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 07:10 AM
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Like Temp said a short course of some type might be the answer. There are lots of types where you're more than likely get a most female group but as to what to do it depends on what your interests are. You could try Meet Up or maybe try an amass your own group of people by advertising somewhere with a common interest such as the gym. You should so go on the IRC rpw chat room if you already haven't. It's the closest you'll get to being in a room with some awesome like minded peeps
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 07:09 AM
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He was branch meandering
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 04:22 AM
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Yet you're the one here policing the subs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:17 PM
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Oh well thank god weve got you here to guide us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 04:53 PM
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Well it sounds like you've pushed him too far. If he has actually found the motivation to leave it doesn't bode well and whatever you do now will have to be more appealing than his new found freedom. You say you want him back bit you very quickly point out his lying and spendthrift ways so think clearly. Don't fight to get him back only to complain about him. But if you really want him back ask him for forgiveness and make him a promise you'll be the wife he wants but honestly I'm not sure this …
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 04:53 PM
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If as you say you're doing everything possible and he just simply hates you then quite frankly you've lost but as I imagine a man doesn't just hate his oh so trying perfect wife. You're gonna need to fess up I'm afraid
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 03:56 PM
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Have an upvote for self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 03:48 PM
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This is so sweet x ty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 03:39 PM
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I personally don't think there is need for sophrosyne here. I say vive la difference and stop being a party pooper. It's reddit not Parliament
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 02:30 PM
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I've been a pathetic loser and working hard lol i miss you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 02:03 PM
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Easy Tiger. There's only so much danger I can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 01:42 PM
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Is he the main guy in breaking bad? If so then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 08:16 AM
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Iirc she is a therapist and she is falling into the trap of making it seem "nice" instead of brutal honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 07:33 AM
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EBay?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 07:30 AM
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I started to have a seizure so I turned it off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 07:26 AM
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Are you aware of your thinly veiled threats in how you write?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:52 AM
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No reading the musings of a alpha wannabe does not resonate with me however I will say women who fall for very cheap alpha/bad boy tricks get everything they deserve. I'm all about that ruthless idaf survival instinct and not the "appearance" of a "alpha" who is just another guy scrambling for pussy As for Trump please don't ask me anything to do with politics I direct you to my husband who deals with all the important decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:50 AM
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Except the ones who marry them lol but yes I imagine there are a large chunk of women only "flirting with danger"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:37 AM
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The danger. The feeling that if I were in a zombie apocalypse I would live longer if I were with him. It satisfies the need for safety I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:18 AM
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That's debatable. If a psychopath has decided he likes you you'd actually get a lot from them but that's not my original point. With regards to the question in the op I was highlighting what was awalt about myself. While I have a fondness for lunatics I also have enough self awareness to understand this would be a shitty life choice to pursue one. However I can't deny that I am attracted to traits that lean toward that, for example in film for instance I can't help but be impressed with characte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:15 AM
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Less of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:57 AM
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I'm commenting on your actual FR the second paragraph. It feels like you have a tendency to really over think stuff. That's in itself is not necessarily bad bit I think that maybe when everything feels under such scrutiny you might leave him feeling exhausted. You should just learn to let go of stuff. There is so much freedom in not having to control or know everything. Not everything has to be intense.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 05:56 AM
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Something that helped me whenever I felt clingy was knowing that when I'm doing that I am actually like a living embodiment of repellent. I cant bear feeling gross to my husband so knowing I was appearing yuck when being needy put a stop to that pretty lively.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 05:47 AM
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No I mean really bad. Psychopath bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:39 AM
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people tune out when you....... I don't. I actually prefer getting a sense of the ops personality through their writing style whether it be insult, jargon or whatever You can't speak for everyone and tell him he shouldn't write how he wants to write just because you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:36 AM
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Scale for women is a) I will fuck b) I won't fuck. Sometimes they fuck people in the b) category for marriage or personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:25 AM
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I cannot lie I have a weakness for bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:22 AM
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I wouldn't have to do anything I'd just let the husband know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:07 AM
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Itt a lot of these people don't have much experience with 17 yr old girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:06 AM
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Lols. So you throw an epic tantrum if you don't get your own way? Disowned at the first sign of trouble lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:04 AM
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Yes I agree and the argument still stands, If a woman at a young age is viewing her "time" as a bargaining chip she is precisely the type of calculating woman any man with sense would avoid. Trust me those types will be the first to take "the gloves off" at the first sign of trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:36 PM
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Trust me I know the sense of urgency and the fleetingness of one's looks. I am a post wall woman. I think what I was trying to convey was the ruthlessness of a woman trying to use her youth as a bargaining chip. I have always known the value of my looks but once a woman steps into the territory of a calculated move based solely on her looks she loses the very essence of what a desirable woman is, but that's just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:33 PM
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I completely see the logic in your argument but I also think any woman whom sees her "prime" as a commodity is the sort of woman to swerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:41 PM
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And likewise if you were to find out your husband was encouraging cute young female Co workers to send pics of themselves you'll be happy with his response of not having an explanation?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 05:27 PM
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In between wives Sounds like expensive girlfriends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 11:03 AM
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Human female
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 11:00 AM
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This is a serious question but why wouldn't you just merge the two lists for everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:59 AM
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Lol your comment made me want to give you a little hug 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:57 AM
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No it does not matter at all. There is a level for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 08:11 AM
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I think you'd (and a lot of other women) be surprised just how many men have that type of fantasy. It's very common
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 06:48 AM
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That pie though ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 07:56 AM
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Agreed. It's quality not quantity.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 06:29 PM
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My reaction would be very very happy. I'd love to run away with him. In fact when we were very young and stupid we did just that and it was one of the happiest times of my life. I'd take with me my toiletries my make up, perfume and some fluffy socks and my phone and laptop and chargers. Knowing my husband he'd tell me just leave and anything we need we buy lol. He'd also ditch the RV and just use hotels
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 08:02 AM
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We are borg.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 08:21 PM
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Ask her what she needs. All new mums are different. I imagine cleaning and laundry especially helpful. Personally I loved it when my sister took the baby for an hour or two so I could do all the mundane shit myself. It made me feel normal lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 08:57 AM
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You told him to keep them? Yuck!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 08:54 AM
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My husband bought me an electronic device one year for my birthday. He charged it the night before then put it back in the box which I thought was quite symbolic of how he thinks of the things that no one else thinks of. He's awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 08:53 AM
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Tell her that you won't be talking to her if she's talking about A that way and remove yourself until she apologises. Just don't tolerate it. She's like a child. Treat her like a toddler. Set boundaries and uphold them. The way your SO handled her was perfect and she's lucky he was civil about it all.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 05:06 PM
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I have a rule in my house that if you have been a certain age you can revert back to it for a while. The thinking is my 13 can be my baby again and snuggle guilt free but also my she can't act 16 as she thinks she can lol but I kind of acknowledged that inside me there is a stroppy kid who irrationally wants all the attention and if I don't get what I want I have a sulk lol awalt but that doesn't mean you are a victim of this. You always have a choice on how to behave. Maybe you should tell your…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:49 AM
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When dealing with someone who is that much of an asshole being graceful is not going to be a priority. My priority would be to make sure no one can fuck with my life and if I look stupid, aggressive, pathetic then so be it. I'll do what ever it takes
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 02:18 PM
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You've really latched on to splitting lol you're seeing it everywhere Sinister was probably wrong choice of words but my point was to not lump all self absorbed behaviour as narcissistic Technically you could but it's clumsy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:43 AM
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You can Technically label all self absorbed behaviour as narcissistic but you would also be a fool. There is a big difference between say a hypochondriac and a narcissist True narcissism is imo more sinister
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:53 AM
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You could quite easily say that RP relies heavily on Archetypes There is a million different schools of thought you could latch onto trp you have just stumbled upon this one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:49 AM
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You may well be right but this will only apply to you. You are projecting on to all the others in redpill. It's a bit like discovering I have OCD and all of a sudden I see OCD everywhere or I think everyone I meet has OCD. It's surprisingly common. I also think a lot of people here experience projective identification which is similar but not the same You seem like you have a genuine curious mind you should apply it to something irl 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:47 AM
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Men don't come to redpill because they're successful with women so yes of course it's because they're unhappy but what you just said applies to nearly everyone. All of us are motivated to avoid/repair past trauma. You haven't realised something amazing. You can apply pop psychoanalysis to pretty much any situation and I should know I do if for a living
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 08:00 PM
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Well even if you're right, so what? What further does it tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 07:42 PM
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So is hubris. Fact is " splitting" is a defence that all of us adopt to varying degrees at different times. In fact you are doing it now with red/blue pills because the truth is (after befriending a lot of people both red and blue) we are not that different and pill part is just a small part of who we are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 07:28 PM
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Of course that's not how you wanted it to come across but people here will work with what they've been given (your words) and give their take on it. There will always be things outside of your awareness and will be blind to some of the things you do and while this may feel like a big problem to you HWL is giving you another perspective of you making big drama where there needn't be. If you can take something positive from it then all is good 😊
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 06:37 PM
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The irony of being a leader is that you can dictate who does the "leading" at any given moment. Do his bidding lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 06:31 AM
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Then find a man who is sensible enough to realise his "threats" and make it your own personal mission to be such amazing wife material that you change his mind but to be honest you read like every other fickle hamster laden women who will find some excuse to moan or nag about " I want to get married but hate men who want to marry" Go outside.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/16 07:39 AM
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That's the beauty of Co dependency. Feels real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 11:21 PM
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Maybe there is a reason he is saying all these things that is not immediately apparent to you. Maybe if you understood it you could understand the logic but as of now you only hear "nagging" ? At the end of the day you are going to have to decide whether you can live with this as it's who he is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/16 06:16 AM
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Unspoken and agreed upon rules an uproar when not upheld
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 12:01 PM
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Lace your morning coffee with brandy and see that frown turn upside down 😁 Hello stranger!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/16 08:36 PM
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Thank the Lord for Hold Ups! Whilst beautiful and a quick way to inveigle a man, garter belts make me feel like a trussed chicken and I can only wear for the bedroom 😏 In fact I commend you for committing to wear something of this ilk all the time as I doubt I could. I live in the UK and it's bloody freezing. I can't wear skirts and dresses all the time, I'd perish lol Let it be known though I've not met a man who wasn't partial to all of the things in your post ☺
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/16 10:04 AM
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Well if you get em young enough they don't have any at all /s for the spergs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 06:46 AM
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Well that was perfect 😐😁😐
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 06:35 AM
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I just thought I'd give you a different pov. What he said about her wasn't necessarily a red flag for me. If it was continuous and he kept bringing things like that up then yes but what he said alone would not put me off. He basically told you he's not desperate enough to bang every girl who throws herself at him. Granted being mean about it was possibly uncalled for but again he's demonstrating his personality type and tbh I like cheeky cocky and wouldn't really feel the same about Mr always ni…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 05:40 AM
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Depends on the weather. If it's hot I wear as little as possible if it's cold I wear yoga pants and fluffy socks and a maybe a hoody
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 06:59 AM
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Where do you see this happening? I have seen plenty of feminists openly dislike Islam due to their very traditional way of beholding women
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 08:33 AM
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I'm not going to tell you how to apply makeup because you can get that type of info everywhere and some of it is really excellent esp on yt. I just wanted to say that I can relate to the feeling vain thing. If I look particularly pretty and well put together I have a weird thought that I've gone "too far" too pretty. It's the strangest thing and as I have gotten older ( and now my looks fade) I have come to appreciate the fleeting peak of my looks and all I would say to you is don't be intimidat…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 09:03 AM
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Women are the living embodiment of dread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 12:42 PM
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Because men do it better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 12:41 PM
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If ever I trip over I like to round it off with a forward somersault. It never fails to save face
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 01:25 PM
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I am so busy with work and family it's insane I intend to get on the irc asap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 03:32 PM
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Congratulations on marriage and the soon to be daughter!! So nice reading about all these ladies bettering their lives 😊 Quite simply, for me, the thought of my husband viewing me as a frumpy dowdy mum and not the hot vixen he lusts after ( I use these inflammatory words to highlight my own fears) terrified me. Also you only raise kids in order for them to have their own lives. Your husband was there before them and he'll be there after them ( just as long he doesn't ditch the frump for a vixen …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 11:28 AM
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I've been reading this for the past two hours while I couldn't sleep 😊 I like it that you thought of me >_<
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 09:22 AM
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You're over thinking it. Good thing with the RP dynamic is that you can let him take the reigns and lead so if he's asked your input give it and let him do his thing. Does it bother you he looks to you?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 09:20 AM
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Thanks for answering ☺ Not gonna lie that sounds rough but I'm always fascinated when couples find their way to the sub. It's usually couples whom are really on board with each other or couples having a more tumultuous time Hope you work it out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:01 PM
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Not op but I'd like to reply, it doesn't have anything to do with the discussion but I'd also be curious to know your take on why you think you've both ended up here? Are you a reluctant participant or a willing passenger?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:16 PM
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Things can only get better for you if you keep implementing the stuff you read and the proof will be your marriage Mark my words but it will blow you away at the cause and effect your behaviour / words have 😊
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/15 07:16 AM
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It's really quiet atm but just wanted to say hello and welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 12:03 AM
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 04:39 PM
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Neo?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/15 04:14 PM
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Oh lol that'll do it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/15 02:35 PM
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That's not communication that's called putting the onus on someone else I would also say you're being passive aggressive because you're trying so hard to not be angry/aggressive or whatever other unpalatable emotion you try to avoid Be accountable for what you're feeling. Try and fix it yourself first. I don't think "pretending" to be nice is going to work when everything is so fraught. I don't often say this but get a therapist and tell them about your feelings. I don't think you're being fair …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/15 10:30 AM
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Is that a thing now? Telling people to ignore other people's posts in favour of our own lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 05:18 PM
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It does not seem small at all. If you do broach it again I'd refrain from labeling any of his behaviour as gross etc Like I said come from the angle of wanting to understand him better However you've been doing before Makes him feel like youre against him try to let him know that he is ok you just don't understand it and further more what is it that his mother gives him that makes him feel as he does. Ask him if there's anything you could possibly do. The main thing is that you have the conversa…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 05:16 PM
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I'm not sure going to her mil without speaking to him first is a good idea. Maybe it's different for other people but it wouldn't be cool if I done that. There is also the danger that op will come off as the enemy because it seems that mil is part of this behaviour and they both seem to be getting something from this. If op challenges this she could be singled out for disrupting it. Maybe I'm wrong
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 05:08 PM
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That is odd. It really sounds like something else is going on, the fact that he gets angry when you don't behave how he wants you to behave and the refusing sex around the time. His mother putting down the phone and indulging him like that is really fucking odd. Sorry. Sounds like he has some complicated relationship with her, is he an only child? If not how does she behave with the siblings and how does she treat her husband? I think you need to just address this like an adult. Calm in control …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:39 AM
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As much as it's horrible to see him like that, he needs to deal with his stuff in his way. All men are different but my husband appreciates it when I ask him what I can do. I just let him know that if there's anything he wants me to do I'll do it. While he's dealing with it its nice to know he has someone who is his soft landing so just make sure you're as nice and kind and hassle free as possible Maybe take a night off and go for drinks dinner and insist he puts everything out his mind just for…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 05:19 PM
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Get really drunk and burn the Turkey Srsly I put a God awful amount of twinkly lights up loads of decorations but what really makes it christmasy for me is wrapping all the gifts, I go to town with pretty paper an ribbons I absolutely love that part. I cook to epic levels, I live in the kitchen and feed people to disgusting proportions. I also insist the family spend nice time together watching a movie playing trivial pursuit etc I also have a pre Christmas Christmas where I sneek in some cheeky…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:27 PM
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and sometimes even my kids see it That is very awesome
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 03:00 PM
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rather than chasing your own interests I did. You're my interest 😊😊😊
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 02:58 PM
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If you're looking for normal family meals then Delia online and Good Food are the best I also have an app Google Keep that saves all the winner dinners I have, over time, tried so many different things from working my way through countries to giving my kids a few cookery books and telling them to choose a few recipes for the week. My favourite thing to do is to ask my husband on his day off to think of the most amazing meal he can think of and ill cook it for that day. Sometimes he'll choose rea…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 10:11 AM
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I arrange treasure hunts for my children not my husband. Stop trying to monopolise his time when you're not even with him, you said yourself he's quite happy to do his own thing
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 08:53 AM
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The clue is in the title. It's called a Moogly week which is OPs pet name . its a week all about her
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 05:51 PM
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This would be grounds for divorce if I pulled this lol but good luck with your venture
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 05:45 PM
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Hey :) I'm a lot like that I am also kinda impulsive and act before I think but it never ends well when line this with your husband . Really give it a good go of it I mean really extended effort , reign it in be the best perfect wife and then if you come back saying he's being too much then that's a different kettle of fish I'm convinced his acts of defiance are ones of finally having his eyes opened and I doubt he'd feel the need if he felt you was being a sweet supportive wife in fact it's onl…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/15 01:37 PM
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If I fall silent its not because of their barking its because I don't want to add to the histrionics
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/15 12:42 PM
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A great leader makes you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 06:47 AM
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Import/export
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 06:47 AM
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I'm a big believer in giving people a chance. He fucked up big and it'll be good to see how he handles that. Either way its a shitty situation but not the end of the world
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 08:59 PM
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I wonder what the root of that is? They want to have sex with you lol I jest But seriously I share some similarities with you I that I grin I jump from topic to topic ect. Now I think that for someone like you it would crush you to behave demure and reign in your exuberance which also means your options are far smaller than most people. You need to find a man who can not only match you but completely dominate you until you do you will find it hard to truly respect them and at some point down the…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 08:55 AM
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Relate won't advertise this bit their ethos is to provide therapy for everyone and you can haggle them down to very cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:52 PM
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Jerkin in the Shitters Name of my new album
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:47 PM
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Have you given birth? There could be legit reasons for the pain you should get checked perhaps
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 05:05 PM
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Tempy told me to and that's my excuse 😀
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 05:04 PM
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You have paid your babyflair dues and we expect your remittance shortly
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 10:10 AM
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I'm not sure I agree. Actually if there's a type that gravitate towards be a therapist then it's the type of person who has had a difficult time in the past. Fucked up basically. However I would also say they are very motivated to try and really be there for and help other people. Now as for the paranoia about them being overly "feminised" I have not found that. I will say though that it seems therapy is regarded slightly different in America as opposed to here in England. There seems to be a mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:00 AM
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I'm not arguing against you but I'm also not agreeing my point was you need to just make sure you find the right one. Tbh from these comments there is quite a bit of paranoia re therapy /Therapists their only human and flawed just like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 04:39 AM
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well for whats its worth it sounds like youll likely do some good work with understanding all that already. Its really hard when someone ends up in therapy not knowing why they feel as they do, they just have an unrelenting depression with zero understanding why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 08:54 PM
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Know of any good therapists, lol? I know a few but only if youre in the London area lol but I am also quite demanding. well that can be a really good thing. Gives you ssomething to grab hold of lol And you should be able to form an attatchment once you meet the right therapist Maybe you had to demand attention from your parents because of siblings lol ( i jest)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 08:30 PM
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It might be different in different countries but here you could book an initial assessement/appointment with multiple therapists all over say a week and pretty much decide on the spot. People forget that youre the paying customer and they should be at your service. Think of it as choosing anything else you might buy. It can happen quite quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:31 PM
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Your are most welcome. If theres anything youd like to know id love to help and best of luck with your therapy :)) when it works and you really have a good conection it can be amazing but i would say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:26 PM
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Im not going to speak for most therapists but you certainly get all sorts, good, bad, ugly. I think also the search for a good one can be very difficult and like you say not worth it for a lot of people but I primarily work with people who dont really have much choice. Goverment services are dire and other than drugs its pretty bleak but I do what i can with what ive got.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:24 PM
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Theres so many different styles and approaches that, yes, that could be said but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:42 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:40 PM
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Actually sometimes divorce is inevitable and therapy can make the difference between an ugly divorce or a civil one. Therapy cant work miracles
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:33 PM
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Well by the time they have gotten into therapy things can be quite tense lol but imo usually both parties want me to side with them. Maybe they have slightly different motivations. From my limited experience the women want me to agree with them for "appearance" and men want me to agree with them to feel heard but honestly that is a very over simplistic way of me explaining it and its a lot more complex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:26 PM
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I have a very close friend who live very far from me and we don't get to meet much. What we like to do is watch a movie together. We put it on at the same time and have Skype on as well and it's the closest we get to hanging out. You could do that together?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 02:06 PM
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Lol I blame the critical parents. Lots of pressure to make things better 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 01:28 PM
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You'd be surprised. Because quite often it can resonate with the Therapist and she projects or experiences transference. But yes its poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 12:54 PM
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Well in a therapeutic relationship you dont want to "get round" it rather you use it to do some work with so imagine I say to a client, who struggles with confidence, "how would it feel to talk with lots of confidence?" and two weeks later they come back and say " I done what you told me to do, I talked with confidence" I would then ask them if thats what it feels like when i ask you to imagine something..does it feel like im telling you what to do? further highlighting their lack of confidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 12:38 PM
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I am. Although I do most of my work 1 2 1 and couples every so often. For instance let's say the wife looks for a therapist for couples therapy and spends time talking to the Therapist bemoaning her marriage and without meaning giving a one sided POV. When they eventually end up In therapy she holds on to all this info and tries to change the husband to fix it for the wife. It's wrong and very short sighted on the Therapist behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 12:29 PM
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Even if they did they'd have to try to justify this in Supervision. They have to have roughly one hour of supervision per four hours client work and basically a much more experienced counsellor will make sure the counsellor is practicing properly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 08:42 AM
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It 100 % depends on the Therapist. I know of both men and women that have felt "ganged up" on. A good therapist will understand she is treating the relationship and not so much their individual issues (although they inevitably come into it) Therapist must hold each member with the same amount of regard. The big problem is in therapy a client will hear a Therapists input as an attack or criticism when it's not always the case. I've lost count of the times a client says things like " I done that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:43 AM
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I was lying on my bed while my husband was getting ready for work and told him I was going to ask him some questions. I pulled up the 20 Qs thing from the previous thread and asked him them. We were kind of jokeing around but I actually got some really productive stuff from him regarding how I don't pay enough attention to certain things so I've been working on that and it's been great! He definitely loves that I bother with stuff like that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 08:39 PM
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Those Twix cookies are like my favourite Millionaires Shortbread http://goodfood.uktv.co.uk/recipe/millionaires-shortbread/
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 08:33 PM
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You're projecting your past relationship /experience onto OPs one. It's a big mistake to do this because you're painting a picture of OPs SO that could be wrong and it's unfair
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 08:26 PM
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Oh wow! I rely on my calendar for work and didn't know about the widget that is fantastic!! Thanks:-)
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 08:26 AM
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If he wants to look after you it's really important to let him and to allow him to feel useful to you. No one likes a martyr and if he can't care for you when you're sick it basically tells him he's not needed Being vulnerable with him is important Get well soon x
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 08:22 AM
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http://41.media.tumblr.com/8ab8af8f8a71ab3c51d8ed2f85f21634/tumblr_n2bbbp4HdI1rsdqvqo1_1280.png Here are a few but basically they're defence mechanisms and reddit is very guilty of "intellectualisation" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 08:20 AM
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The like first example is like https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hide-and-seek/201203/self-deception-ii-splitting both genders do it but imo women do it more easily
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 07:35 AM
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People use the term Psychopath far too readily. Why on earth would you use that here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 07:23 AM
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I'm pointing out he was an older man who was single and owned a luxury car and dated women in their 20s That swine! Come on ladies man the pitch forks
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/15 08:29 PM
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It's funny how a woman can turn driving a luxury car into a pejorative but anyway to your question of what to do, I would fix yourself before ypu attempt getting into a relationship. You make bad mistakes with men them blame them so I would think very hard about getting into another relationship Being raised "different " is no excuse either in fact it sounds if you listened to your parents ypu may have faired better but that's just speculation
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/15 07:05 PM
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with a terrible man who I invested time with until I was 24 who damaged me pretty bad emotionally. Can you explain ? Should I try and find the love of my life while in school? is this while There is a guy in my life now who's great because that doesnt sound like the best of ideas and lost my way when i met some one who was not my prince charming. hmm very dubious , you sound like youre blaming others for your stuff and "the one" and "prince charming" is not goint to come rescue you RPW wont tell…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/15 06:28 PM
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Aw happy birthday :-) Once the initial massivebummeromgimoldanusedup shock wears off its actually replaced with something else. I feel much happier the older I get it really is just the physical that's difficult. I swear if I was still single at this point I'd cat right up an be done with it :-D
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/15 06:34 AM
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I'm not convinced that you being in a relationship will fill that "gaping hole" It will distract you for a while but unless some guy meets your, imo high, expectations it will be doomed If you're beating yourself up about being a failure and now just getting uglier @ 20 yrs old I really wonder what you expect or think you should have? Just stop obsessing about yourself. Spend time with your family, go outside, devote yourself to something you're passionate about Idk it feels hopeless if a young …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 09:44 PM
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I would tell her to stop embarrassing herself and move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 03:18 PM
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No matter how self aware you become you will ALWAYS have a blind side. There will always be something that only others will see when they experience you. That said dont let that stop you from learning and growing in awareness. Also do you really want the opinion of a man who doesnt want you? If i could give you any advice i would say dont overthnk it. Be as honest as you can in a relationship and let him tell you if theres a problem an if there is then deal with it IMO having a guy take charge m…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 02:11 PM
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Lol if an ex asked me for "feedback" I would have to say something like " you just seemed like the type of person to ask an ex for feedback...." But yes I mean you're not wrong with all your reasons but for me it's just overridingly weird thing to do. I'm an old woman compared to a lot of people on Reddit and young people now just seem so strange and uptight .i think they are bearing the brunt of having an older gen /parents being indulged and freaked out by media
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 06:11 AM
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Yes it has chunky mountain bike wheels
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 08:21 PM
1

Numbers? Lol even better " number six leave number four alone and you ...three get down from there !!"
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 08:20 PM
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It is a bit strange but I like it 😀 To me it says something about identity and confidence
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 07:42 PM
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Congrats on the new arrival and your really positive attitude 😊 When I had my baby I bought a stroller designed for off roading and I used to run with my baby . It was really helpful and I never had to worry about getting a sitter
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 07:34 PM
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No one can really help you and I say this as a therapist. At best they can help facilitate YOUR HARD WORK.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 07:30 PM
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Ok something that doesn't makes sense to me is when someone says " I have this problem and this is how I make it worse , I know exactly what I'm dong and it's bad" It almost makes me think that your self loathing is your "wooden leg" ie how can I possibly run when I have a wooden leg. Maybe just maybe you are using this as an excuse? Because if it's not what exactly are you doing to fix this? Can you say hand on heart you are genuinely trying to challenge yourself and be accountable?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 07:27 PM
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:-))
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 04:25 PM
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I can't think of anything more neurotic and weird than asking an ex for feedback.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 03:23 PM
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If I chose something he didn't like we'd ditch it . If he chose something I didn't like we'd ditch it . We kept guessing until we found something we both liked.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 07:19 AM
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The question of the decade, LOL! You want to debate that don't you?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 04:11 PM
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If he takes over the finances it will not help this problem keep doing your best and let him decide if something needs to change
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 02:13 PM
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Behaviour?? you will laugh at this but in all honesty my husband has shown me the most in stregnth of character
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/15 09:56 AM
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*fist bump Me too
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 01:54 PM
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I can't agree with that because imo it's more about his fame as opposed to gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:09 AM
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My husband said the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:09 AM
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I couldn't say much about why the South Africans felt he should walk Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:07 AM
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I'm confused, where/why does your SMV come into this? Work is work and play is play With work i just be the adult and do what needs to be done even if it does feel uncomfortable
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 03:07 PM
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Thanks for looking :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 04:20 PM
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Actually one of the, I believe, stickied posts by a RPW mod Tempy specifically warns against working only on the exterior. It maybe a common error that some fall into but on RPW we strongly suggest to make the changes more than superficial
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 07:46 AM
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what people here have to understand is it isn't about you What?!? It's all about me! :-))
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 12:05 PM
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Flying out your mouth is one thing but you're actually writing this all up and asking for help on the Internet so yes this is hardly just slipping out you know in full awareness you shouldn't say something so why would you?
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/15 05:52 PM
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I'm certain he's already interested but you have the distance to contend with. The distance is the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/15 01:23 PM
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If you know you shouldn't, why would you? It's a no brainer.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/15 11:15 AM
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trying so hard to bite my tongue or something terrible might escape God forbid you control yourself around another person's childs outburst.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/15 05:19 AM
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Correct. Redpillwomen NOT TRP. Our strategies are at odds with eachother ie they're not the same K?
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 05:12 PM
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This isn't TRP. The women here are looking for marriage and once you commit like this they would expect to be a team, a united front. This is not the same as making her the centre of his universe. It's loyalty that comes with marriage and plus we don't necessarily want what you guys at TRP want to be. A mix of beta alpha is preferable.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 04:54 PM
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There is a difference between dominating and being assertive. My husband would be repulsed if I tried to dominate him but he likes the fact I'm enthusiastic and pro active in most of my life. It's not as simple as just submissive or dominant.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 04:47 PM
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I can hear you pouting lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 02:37 PM
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It sounds like you was doing (whatever you was doing) more for yourself and what you wanted ( a rp relationship) instead of being what he wanted/needed
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 06:36 AM
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That's a shit attitude you have. I doubt he'd give her shit whatever she done, he clearly stated (and was adamant) what the problem was. Imo a lot of women here think that if you play the part of a serene ultra feminine innocent then of course he will behave. Her utter shock at this proves this. Moral is to actually listen to him be receptive to the type of man he is and yield to him. Not role play of the RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 06:34 AM
2

I have a list on my fridge also. It's called My Winner Dinners :-) I have a picky eater and if I find something that works I need to list it
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 03:34 PM
1

Like caged rats
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 01:54 PM
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I see, quite often, people use their or others diagnosis to deflect the cause of a real problem. Its like a "wooden leg" how can I possibly run if I have a wooden leg? Type of thinking. The absolute worst would be to use your partners mental health issues against them. It really is kicking a man when he's down.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 06:10 AM
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Trust me on this, you might go to great lengths to hide this from him but through the years that type of paranoia creeps it's way in. It starts under the guise of being concerned, loving even and escalates depending on how he handles you. He will learn to adapt his behaviour so to not "set you off" and eventually resent it. He will know.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 08:09 PM
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Given that you know there is no rational reason for ypu to doubt him and you're a aware this is all in your head doesn't this at least give you some reassurance? Other than that you should know you could potentially kill your relationship. There is nothing fun about being with someone who is incessantly suspicious. It'll wear his love goggles out over time. When it rears it's ugly head take yourself away and tell yourself ypu need to stop
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 07:41 PM
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he asked if he was better looking than her boyfriend Eeeeew
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 07:35 AM
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IME men make me laugh harder than any woman I've met. They have a more risky sense of humour
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 06:34 AM
1

Yes! potato carrots and beetroot are the best for it. Thin slivers and some EV olive oil and bake or if you're feeling wild deep fry
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/15 09:33 PM
2

Just be happy with a cigarette ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 08:53 PM
2

That gadget is awesome! I use mine for coleslaw and to make vegetable crisps :-)
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/15 02:09 PM
4

Try to remember youre packing for him an not you. Most men are much more functional and pragmatic and don't care for "little touches " that remind him of home.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/15 02:08 PM
2

That is so thoughtful and brilliant.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/15 02:04 PM
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Perf!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 09:08 PM
1

That's what I think as well but it's interesting how you only point out your thinking in that rpw are manipulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 07:08 PM
0

And if you're not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 06:45 PM
4

Who has kids with the idea "well this will be bettering the gene pool"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:55 PM
2

How are you affectionate to your parents or relatives?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 03:42 PM
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The fact that you think asking a question will lead to a fight is a worry in itself. Either you attack him or he's overly defensive
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 03:40 PM
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You're probably insecure because of your fragile ego and you place so much importance on other people's perception of you. You can still have an over inflated idea of your " intelligence " and how you intimidate professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 08:50 AM
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Lol he may well have liked you but that wouldn't stop him from thinking it's pointless seeing you unless he was really unprofessional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 08:48 AM
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would be intimidating for professionals More fantasy You have illusions of grandeur Thank you that will be £70. 00 please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 07:32 AM
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It's a well known fact that intelligent people CAN be harder to treat because they have more sophisticated answers to their bullshit and it is bullshit otherwise they wouldn't be there . They have a more complex way of rationale and they intellectualise their problems so any psychologist that says they are stumped are either shit or acknowledge that the patient has no intention of change and would rather not waste their time on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 07:27 AM
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Lol a psychologist said "you outwitted me" I don't believe you. That is a fantasy of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 06:14 AM
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will smile and shake your head at the younger you Or, like me, cringe hard and try an not think about it at all lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 09:59 AM
0

IME my relationship with my mother is one of the most difficult. We are close but still not many people can affect me like her so yes I completely agree with you
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 06:53 AM
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Inside I was bristling with rage Don't do this. By feeling so much in response to a person like that you're being part of their game. You're not responsible for your mother ( or anyone) and I'm sure your SOs mother will admire that fact you manage to remain respectful and dignified in the face of having a disrespectful mother. For what it's worth you should totally game your mum and treat her with amused mastery lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 06:30 AM
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When dealing with a lot of crap the little things, like forgetting tampons, can send you over the edge. Thing is you're in a precarious position now because you're in danger of going down the road of " well it's because of my anxiety that made me do it" Don't let this rule you. He's shown you he still love and cares about you but DO NOT abuse that. The best thing you can do with regards to your SO is show him you can rise to the occasion when the chips are down and not be a feeble person who has…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 04:07 PM
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OP is suffering with anxiety, depression, mood swings and birth control related issues but the problem is her husbands PE....
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 04:16 PM
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I can't have sex for two more weeks Now if you had a robot though....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:35 AM
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You should vary the things he does like. You have said he likes steak carrots and mash potatoes so would he eat minced steak? Or perhaps slice the steak up and use it in a sauce for pasta. Would he eat grated carrots or soup? Does he eat fries or sauted potatoes?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 02:09 PM
3

You should check out r/awefuleyebrows for some quality eyebrow wreckage :-P lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 08:42 AM
0

Silicone build up will leave your hair flat an lifeless. Every once in a while you should strip it with a really harsh detergent like washing up liquid :-)
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 08:40 AM
5

Because she will only hear what she wants to hear and ignore or mock the rest
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 03:07 PM
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So let's all put the redpill pitchforks down an breathe You seem to take great delight in thinking that this sub is overly hysterical about your decisions but that couldn't be further from the truth Fact is no one gives a flying fuck how you live your life but you came here for our advice. Lol you sound nuts
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 03:05 PM
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Don't compare your inside with other people's outsides
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 03:01 PM
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Wow for someone who's says they're not naturally gifted in keeping a home you sound like you do it better than someone who is naturally gifted :-)
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 02:57 PM
5

Next you'll be saying that the fuel fairies don't exist!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 06:23 AM
2

Whoosh
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 05:10 AM
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Poor Husband :(
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 04:36 PM
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Define psychological issues? If you're talking diagnosed, say, schizophrenia or a personality disorder then sure it COULD be, just like joining a hippy comune COULD be detrimental to them. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 02:45 PM
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I'm not sure if it's visible to others but I have quite frequently had people say to me that they would like a relationship like the one I have. I suppose it translates as still showing a great deal of respect for him and not assuming he will just do x y z for me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 01:04 PM
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Over time this attitude will kill your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 07:51 AM
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Just tell him. Just keep changing the subject will get old quick and, I'm guessing, he will either keep trying or next you. Just go for broke and say it like it is and let him decide if he's ok with that. I would say something o g the lines of " I'm flattered and as tempting as it is its just not what's going to happen "
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 07:47 AM
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That after over two decades together we still don't take each other for granted.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 06:00 AM
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Fabulous!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 03:02 PM
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If you're adamant in marrying him don't get off from the start wondering if your relationship is doomed. It's tough for him not being with you. His natural tendency to mate guard is near impossible when you're both apart. To some degree you won't change a jealous man but you can at least put his mind at rest somewhat by being really devoted. Let him know you're thinking about him when he's not there. Stuff that means you spent time on him even though he's not there like making him stuff. Take pi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 02:59 PM
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And I'm sure you'd be equally as stubborn if it were your partner you'd spent your whole life with? I don't envy you. It's hard enough having a young family. Can you hire some help into the Home?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 02:52 PM
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Then that is all the more reason to let your husband know you support his decisions
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 02:49 PM
0

So how much did you lend her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:30 AM
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Just look up Defence Mechanisms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 12:35 PM
1

So tricky. You've gotten to know him but you've not actually met him. I mean if you do meet and you both are really attracted to each other then he'll more than likely want to. What does your definition of physical mean to you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 02:53 PM
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I did not intend to be patronising I get that and you didn't come across as if you were. In fact the gist of your post seemed really good willed and that's why I wondered if it was significant to you because you was doing something different? Maybe in the past you would have felt the need to point out he was wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/15 06:55 PM
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and probably against popular opinion but I think it would be really patronising to thank him " anyway " and pretend he done a good job. My husband is big and ugly enough to handle me telling him he got it wrong. In fact I think he'd hate it if I just "pretend" to spare his feelings but maybe for you this moment was significant in learning to bite your tongue?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/15 06:20 PM
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So, the woman who took my virginity...by force (she had advance permission for consensual non-consent, due to my PTSD)...wasn't attracted to me? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 05:18 AM
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He said he only Met up with her to get an update on her life? Lol he has a hamster that'll rival any womans
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 01:24 PM
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I've missed whatever the response was to my "tip" lol but I can assure whoever did respond to me that my "stfu" was theoretically meant towards myself with regards to my husband. Perhaps op took it personally?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 04:45 AM
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STFU
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 08:40 PM
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I hear you. I imagine It's a pretty big blow being told they've lied / faked all this time. It depends on the man though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 06:05 AM
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Congratulations!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 05:27 AM
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I am a very submissive female I'd not be so confident in that statement. You may want / need a man more dominant than yourself and if you're a very dominant character it can be hard. Just because you act servile does not mean you're being genuinely submissive. The fact you're here making this type of post says otherwise. he has never given me an orgasm I fake it Well how the hell can he make you cum if he already believes he is Faking it is the biggest insult imo especially if you're going to co…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 05:25 AM
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Lol your pedastalizing tendencies are cringy She is 20 not had a relationship and is "terrifyed and paranoid" She needs to get over herself. She doesn't even need to put out but come on.... Someone get the smelling salts
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 05:35 PM
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Agreed. Op is being unrealistic and putting too much value on her virginity
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 03:44 PM
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If you're "terrifyed" and it's making you distrustful and paranoid then why don't you wait for marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 02:59 PM
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Barf
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/15 06:48 AM
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What would you rather they were saying?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 06:10 AM
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You are lying to yourself. Practice having more self awareness and be honest. It's plain to see you want him to start behaving in a way you'd prefer
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/15 06:03 AM
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Anyone can be serene and calm, happy and enthusiastic when life is good. Saying that, you really get a measure of someone with how they behave under pressure. Try to remember that whilst if feels horrible when under stress the situation isn't actually stressful but mote your response to it is. Also remember that you can only do so much so instead of thinking you must do it all try thinking the stuff I can do will be done well and the other stuff will have to wait. Prioritise what it the most imp…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/15 10:13 AM
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Most women I know say cheating is a deal breaker. I personally think that you can't really put "cheating" all together in one bag. For me there is a world of difference between, say, drunkenly fucking up and prolonged deception or an affair. If my husband fucked another woman I'm sure I could get past that bit if he fell in love with another woman the decision would be taken out of my hands. I would feel to hurt to go on. I think for a lot of women it's the feeling of being humiliated that is os…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 04:32 AM
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Your last paragraph is the good shit
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 07:17 PM
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I'm on my phone so I'll keep it brief. I have found that really dominant / alpha types veiw the world as theirs. It's theirs and they manipulate it accordingly. Everything and everyone yields to them, willingly or otherwise. They also "miss" other people's experience of life, it doesn't register. I think they need to to get shit done. Their agenda takes upmost priority. I also don't mean it as a pejorative I actually find it quite impressive Hope that makes sense ☺
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 07:14 PM
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This is good stuff. Female solipsism is well talked about on trp but men have it too ( I have a theory about how a more alpha type man will actually be more solipstic but I digress) It's why men send dick pics. 😀
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 03:58 PM
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I wish you could have just a little bit of perspective. You have already found someone who likes you. There are women who would kill to have that. Don't ruin it with over thinking / complicating it. You've passed the first major hurdle of finding someone and now you are in a position to put in place all you have learned. You can make him happy. Trust him when he says he wants you. Don't think you know better. Lastly your extreme turn around will give you a lot to compare on with regards to what …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 03:51 PM
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nearly every country has a stir fry style of cooking. I'm fascinated by these themes that occur all over the globe. Stuff like Colcannon in Ireland and Aloo Sag in India. Most places have a version of potatoes and greens. There must be a good reason why this happens. If I were to give any advice to someone wanting to learn to cook it would be learn different cuisines
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 04:44 AM
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Some people eat to live while others live to eat ☺
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 04:32 AM
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I think the point she is making that is maybe op would prefer to be broken up with rather than feeling obligated to "pony up"
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/15 09:41 PM
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You are far too kind 😃
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/15 07:37 AM
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It's not hard. There's not a massive skill set in making a man happy it's more your attitude towards him. Be nice, pleasant agreeable. Show your respect for him. Don't disrespect him. Be willing to learn to be the sort of partner he wants. There is a massive emphasis on being feminine here but imo that's not the point the point is to be the type of SO your SO wants whatever that may look like ( quite often men like feminine so that's why but you get the point) My husband is an incredibly dominan…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/15 10:55 AM
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Keep telling yourself that sweetheart
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/15 09:17 PM
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Oh the irony
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/15 08:59 PM
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Yes because obviously when a man finds gobby women gross he's "intimidated"
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/15 08:36 PM
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It's all good 😊 I appreciate you taking the time
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 10:22 PM
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It changes nothing for me knowing any of that. I live my life as it comes not as a prescription and based on what studies tell me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 10:13 PM
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Scientific fact?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 09:44 PM
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Well this is a two month relationship. More importantly you need to figure out if you're compatible.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 09:38 PM
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Good call 😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 09:32 PM
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It's easy enough.. A holiday or your relationship. You can both go on holidays together in the future
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 09:20 PM
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Usually it gives advice to women when they have sought it. It's a bit bold to say " you should only choose men like the type of man I choose" Trp understands men and women are different. It's easy to be a slut and difficult to be a stud. Ypu are offering your opinion and not what trp necessarily agrees with
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 09:10 PM
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Offering advice ( esp when sought) is one thing but unsolicited urging women to only go for chaste men, ventures into the type of controlling mindset I find odd. I find it curious why people do this when it comes to sex. Do what you want with your sexlife but keep your nose out of others.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 09:05 PM
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Why do you care what type of man other women go for?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 07:43 PM
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Not so much debate as more "urging women to do x y z " I do not need her "recommendations" on choosing a partner. Why she is urging other women to look for the same things in a partner as she is is questionable in itself. I am urging her to focus on herself. I'm good 😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 07:41 PM
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Left to my own devices I would happily see clients all the time but I only go as far as my husband wants me too. Everything I do is ok'd with him. If he wasn't happy with something then something needs to change. Is your husband happy with your arrangement?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 04:09 PM
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Luckily for you he can't remember.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 04:05 PM
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for women everything is an indicator of something else Yes it's precisely why they are so maddening and whilst she is reading into, second guessing, predicting how he is a very naughty boy who gets sent to bed with no dinner she is missing the fact that the dude came into some money he is grieving and wanted to let off some steam. He lost his money.. Big fucking deal.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 04:03 PM
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bossypants cunt I snorted.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 03:58 PM
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I want to see how he handles his inheritance before I blah blah blah Try being a bit more patronising
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 10:06 AM
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what do I do when he wakes up Apologise.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 10:04 AM
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Why are you giving out shit advice on a "pretty darn weird" sub?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 03:00 PM
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Each woman might be different but I would not settle for that in a man.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/15 03:24 PM
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Just so you know, that " bitchy condescending " attitude is about as attractive to a man as if you sprouted a pair of balls and asked him to wax your chest hair. I don't know how or why women think they can get away with being a shrew when the reality is its pure repulsive to men. Are you ok with knowing he finds you ugly when you behave disrespectfully to him? It would kill me to know that. I want to be nothing but gorgeous to him and this is enough to make me stfu
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 11:28 AM
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My husband simply word never tolerate it. He has would next me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 11:23 AM
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You know what's worse than seeing you without makeup? Hearing you complain about / hiding yourself / fretting about how bad you are without make up. Before make up was even invented men had no trouble finding women desirable. Make this time a joy. Be carefree and fun , this is an exciting thing for you both to do don't ruin it by worrying or overthinking everything. If he wants to pay for everything just make sure you show how appreciative you are
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 04:54 PM
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That doesn't exactly answer my question. I'm just wondering what she dislikes about his beta behaviour and what she thinks she'll like about him being more alpha. Beta does not necessarily mean bad and alpha does not necessarily mean good. It sounds like SHE wants these things. Emphasis on her not him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 08:40 PM
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Just a quick question. Why do you want him to be more alpha and less beta?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 04:38 PM
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I don't necessarily find what you're saying wrong but there is a chance that if my h was on holiday and I was fine and nothing more could be done there is every chance I'd wait till he got back to tell him I'd been in an accident. If, however, I was hurt or there was some other serious ramification I'd feel Id have to tell him. I think there is room for both outcomes. To tell or not to tell but you're right the withholding of all negative information is telling of someone who finds it hard to tr…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/15 05:08 AM
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over complicated romantic com romancing ideas in this thread Yes it's solipsism. You're in a womans sub and they will tell you " run him a bath massage him blah blah blah " it's what they want failing to understand he would actually just like a non reciprocated blowey
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/15 09:49 PM
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Unless youre going to take him out I suggest a lap dance and a blow job for desert :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/15 06:39 PM
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Make him the most important thing in your life. When you regard how you are with him ask yourself "could someone else do it better." If the answer is yes then be better than that . Don't ever leave room for someone else to fill in your gaps because the day you start lacking is the day his mind will wander..
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 06:10 AM
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I cant say what you should do but given what youve just said, if you dont go, it will cause serious damage to the relationship
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 09:38 PM
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The thing is we are an Anti feminism group. You are coming into a well established sub and basically telling us you think we are wrong. This is precisely the type of attitude we are against. Please stop
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 01:32 PM
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With all due respect you found the sub half an hour ago. Maybe read an lurk a bit more. I think it's damaging to create a discourse where these two ideologies are at odds with one another Why? other than you really don't see it being the case. I hope there aren't any RPW who have dismissed the feminist agenda in its entirety because they feel it conflicts with their choice to be RP Maybe they didn't dismiss it maybe they gave it a lot of thought and decided (just like you ) and maybe the aversio…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 01:06 PM
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Thank you muchly 😄
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 07:23 PM
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If you knew your man would be working 100+ hour weeks for the next couple years, what would you do to help him? Everything so I've got plans to spoil him. Other than that I'm at a loss. Ask him. Tell him youre prepared to cut your hours or anyhting he thinks may help. Ask him "what do you need from me?"
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 04:10 PM
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Grow up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 08:32 AM
1

My condolences
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 06:58 AM
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Lol because he made a comment? You must run a tight ship!
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 06:53 AM
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It doesn't look good. It's not so much the fact he's going it's more the fact you're both not acknowledging it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 07:10 PM
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When I was young I travelled extensively. I never set out to learn a language but the one that I did pick up was the one that needed to. I mostly learned the language based around food stuff. It was a necessity as I loved cooking and wanted to learn how to cook that cuisine. My point is if you love WHY you're learning as opposed to WHAT you're learning you'll find it easy peasy
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 07:07 PM
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She is. She's posting here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 08:37 AM
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I'm totally going to abandon food. Makes me fat.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/15 07:39 PM
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Lol it doesn't work like that. You don't get to ask him to leave because he doesn't agree with you
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 03:20 PM
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There is no one way to go about this. Lots of women come here asking for the "correct" way of doing something when they already have the answer at home. Some men like to share some dont. Its one thing to be ovelry dramatic/emotional but its another to open up appropriately. If you are too aloof and share nothing it will translate that you dont trust him. Maybe he wants to feel like you need him ? My boyfriend insists I open up Dont take my advice take his. I think you already know that being "to…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 11:03 AM
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That type of anger has to go somewhere and there is a danger of it going in the wrong place. You can only squash it down for so long. Try sitting down when you have some time by yourself and articulate all your thoughts. Write it all down who and why and all the implications of him losing his job and what it means to you and just how mad you are. At the end of the day you need to stop trying to take control over your SO ( it's not going to help him if he feels like you need to wade in and do his…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 05:43 AM
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As a Therapist who occasionally does a bit of couples work i think it's only right I receive this book lol
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 07:39 AM
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Your user name is defunct ☺
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 07:50 AM
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Same as you do when you meet any brand of asshole My personal tactic is to not give a fuck but if they are in my face then I will make them look stupid by their own stupidity With people like that of you give em enough rope........
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 07:47 AM
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How did that answers her question?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 06:04 AM
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An over all pleasantness is a by product of something deeper and more real it's not a goal in itself
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 09:21 AM
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but I'm assuming we should not as women call out other women because we might end up looking like bitches You are way to concerned about appearances
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 06:36 AM
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What wingnut said and if you want creative hum the alphabet.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 05:22 PM
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OMG! That panda is so cute 😀 They look very nice and thank you for remembering 😃
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 12:00 PM
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The side bar will really help and joining in in discussion, you can even come and chat in the chatroom as the the people there are awesome 😃 The place you will will get your most useful instruction is already right under your nose, your SO has all the answers. Even if RPW had a foolproof prescription of what to do it would be pointless if it didn't make HIM happy Apart from all the, as you say, superficial changes the one that is the most simple and yet a lot of women find difficult is to shut u…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 07:12 AM
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Pay attention to yourself when you have your back against the wall. You really get a true measure of a person when you observe them under preasure. If you can keep your composure when it matters youll be laughing with day to day stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 08:24 PM
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Ooooh tetchy lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 03:55 PM
0

Above all else I just need to defer to my husband. He makes that list not me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 02:13 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by bargaining sex, I don't use it to get what I want. When I said I've used it for all sorts I meant relieving boredom, cheering myself up etc but anyhow yes there is a difference and the most important and best is when I feel close to my husband
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 02:18 PM
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I have used sex for all manner of things but essentially, being pertinent to your question, it is something that makes me feel uniquely close to my husband
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 01:49 PM
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I also like to imagine collecting all the whining/bitching/complaining and imagine what they'd sound like if I played them back to back to myself. Gross!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 01:47 PM
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Does her counsellor know about what she's doing? If so she should be seeing her far more often. I wouldn't be surprised if your wife is lying to her counsellor. If I were you I would tell the counsellor in fact you should tell your wife it might be helpful if you have some sessions together. That way you can explain exactly what's up. If she doesn't stop or change the ending is always the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 03:45 PM
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We always celebrate the "birthday week" and he gets Power of Birthday which means he gets any wish granted no matter how outrageous or absurd because Power of Birthday lol Also have Birthday Boxing day which means the day after he gets spoilt breakfast in bed etc so hos bday isn't such a comedown.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 04:11 PM
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Serious question Ian, why are you asking RPW and not some other female dominated arena? Also I couldn't open your link for some reason
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 06:19 PM
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http://www.deliaonline.com/ That website will have literally everything you need to know Go to the Cookery School section and there are excellent lessons from basic to advanced Her recipes are brilliant and always turn out good. I'm really good in the kitchen but still use this site a lot If you only had one resource make it this one.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 01:22 PM
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I would love to see pics of your Sushi if you ever feel like you can spare the time to do so 😃 I tried making it a few times and I think it was the messiest thing I'd cooked. I found sushi rice up the walls in my hair and was clearing bits of rice up for a couple of weeks after
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/15 02:01 PM
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I haven't read it but I know a lot of women here have and have spoken highly of it. If you're single and looking for a relationship I imagine that book and the subsequent one to be a good idea. Plus this sub, you'll get fantastic advice and meet like minded friends 😃
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/15 06:07 AM
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Anything that helps motivation is a good thing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 07:11 AM
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Hello and welcome to RPW With regards to your post you have definitely come to the right place 😃
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 07:10 AM
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I stumbled upon it post wall but it was inconsequential because I met my husband at 22 however that said it has helped my relationship with my husband as I feel I understand him more There are ladies here of all ages and while it might fit with your narrative that we are desperately trying rpw as a last attempt from my experience the ladies here are very earnest in their attempts to put their men first regardless of the wall It would be silly to say we don't care about the wall but like the men …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 07:08 AM
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you're an interesting person I'd like to get to know you better lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:42 PM
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Usually women think support is getting together and bad mouthing their husbands in a collective bitch fest, stay away from that at all costs. I find this sub to have been the most supportive re my relationship but other than that I don't even rely on my girlfriends for support I only depend on my husband. He is the one who truly has my back. I have my mum my sister my MIL for anything my husband would find irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:39 PM
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Stand back the Male Invaders are here
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:33 PM
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You don't want to "make" men do anything. Especially stuff he feels uncomfortable with
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 02:22 PM
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I couldn't agree more
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 04:11 PM
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Apart from a few humorous comments from some men it was pretty neutral Most of the people I have on FB are pretty chill and I don't think they'd say much just because they disagree Interestingly the woman who posted it was probably the last person I thought would post something like that
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 01:49 PM
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Bernie is a stupid man. One day Bernie will do that in the wrong environment and that day Bernie will learn not to fuck with other mens stuff. Good for you anyway! Looks like you thwarted a shitty situation for all parties involved
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 11:39 AM
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Don't listen to his advice it's terrible
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 06:23 AM
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Pay attention and remember the little things that are personal to him and that reminds him you really take note of him and his world
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 06:11 PM
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Try being a bit more pertinent with posting Anyway it could be as simple as letting yourself go and coupled with a negative attitude. Even your post felt a bit...much, for want of a better word. Does he masturbate? If yes then it's more than likely you and if no then he should really get checked out, if he feels like he wants to tackle it but the last thing you should do is try and dictate what he does Lose weight, look pretty be fun and nice to be around and treat him like he's gods gift after …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 01:38 PM
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Hello GS Two things you said 1) happening for a long time and 2) you talked of a time frame of every couple of weeks Do you think this could be linked to your hormones / M cycle? I only ask because I used to get incredibly emotional and it was always two weeks before I came on. Counselling is a good Idea but make sure you interview a few first and find one who holds some of your beliefs. Something that greatly helps me is my husband. If I think i am making him unhappy or annoyed I can reign in a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 05:02 PM
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My advice is to leave him and let him find happiness with a woman who is not going to be a complete horror show of a woman :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:44 PM
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He might me willing to give it a go but the truth is ( and if you had any shred if kindness about you) you'd admit he deserves a far more sweet kind gentle compassionate woman and you need a the type of man that will not tolerate such atrocious behaviour It's a mark of your character how you behave under pressure and yours is poor and the fact you feel you should be forgiven only shows further the type of person you are I feel for the man if his future has you in it
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:18 PM
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That was incredibly cruel of you. Why do you think he should give you a chance? A woman like you is a danger to a man like him. He's gone through something that sounds like it's severely traumatised him and you have kicked him while he down.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:01 PM
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ok give up then. I wasnt aware there were "common" meanings for what she said
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 09:41 PM
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only if you actually love him
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 09:35 PM
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are you saying you took the literal meaning of "every penis you put in yourself breaks your heart a little." ??
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 09:32 PM
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I get that more partners is seen as detrimental to having a LTR If you get that then why are you picking her up on her vernacular?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 09:25 PM
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If im holding out Ive waited for a long time. Ive been with my husband for over two decades but luckily I managed that hurdle early on.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 08:59 PM
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scaredy cat lol
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 08:55 PM
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I love to cook. There's nothing quite like the feeling of when you make people food and they LOVE it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:06 PM
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that smells the worst If people are showering everyday I don't think it gets that bad I love giving my husband a good sniff he smells awesome even after a long day
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:03 PM
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Because I get bored of my clothes quickly and like change them a lot I rarely spend a lot on the bulk of it unless it's a really decent pair of jeans I'll wear a lot but what i also do is always buy really decent accessories. Jewellery, bags belts etc I spend a bit more and don't feel the need to change them as much and they are a bit more timeless. I also like to check out little boutiques that sell one offs and unusual stuff and they're also not to expensive 😃
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:59 AM
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Out of interest, what has stopped you from telling him you love him? When I was in the first few months of dating my husband I had to really stifle myself from saying it till I couldn't stifle it no more and blurted it out. Do you think you love him or is it you're undecided?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:52 AM
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I find that interesting. I also saw a programme on the pain relieving qualities of swearing lol there is a reason women swear during childbirth https://youtu.be/s_osQvkeNRM I think what a lot of people are missing is that if I say I swear it does not mean I'm walking around swearing at everyone. I find it odd that people make an effort to not swear purely becuse of appearance but there is a lot of " keeping up appearances " without actual substance
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 11:45 AM
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Lol I didn't say it was Imo people who say "classy " are worse that people who swear
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 08:31 AM
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No, it's an indicator of class and character. What is? A girl cursing is a big red flag for me. bully for you This is harsh, but I automatically and instinctively think, "she acts trashy, I should classify and treat her as that." I'm devastated Further, tonality is really important in red pill subs Is it? Well thanks for the heads up and your tone might be a reason why you got downvoted. Its cute how you think I give a shit
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:44 AM
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Stop cursing. Every time you say "fuck" or "shit" it's a turn off. its only a turn off to guys who dont like swearing. but honestly, I think I'm better without it. and thats great for you but everyones different and don't justify your plate status because the guy you're seeing is hot. instead of justifying it just dont be one ..dont ever be a plate ...ever if you want to be a RPW you can never be a plate plates are bad
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 10:16 PM
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Question for the ladies: should guys shave downstairs? Im gonna be real honest with you.. (please dont think im being mean im just being honest) but when you say I shave my armpits too, for that reason. I hate hate hate it when it still smells sweaty after I take a shower. I think you sound like a woman. I am quite alarmed by a dude who wants to shave his pits but still questions whether he should shave his groin
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 10:02 PM
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if he doesn't want you then fine he's the loser in the long run he's short sighted It's not really like that. He's allowed to not choose her and to have made a good decision. Just because you deem yourself a " good woman" doesn't mean every man should like you Saying he's a loser for potentially not choosing her is precisely the type of team woman talk that thinks men should love you for you and not because they want too
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:31 PM
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I'll have whatever you're smoking
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/15 01:25 PM
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Buying a book will not save your marriage Why exactly can't he love you anymore? Or are you going to say you've been a model wife?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 01:14 PM
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Just to play devils advocate if my marriage was falling apart the last thing I would be doing is looking for something extra. You need to get your house in order before you can start with the " oh poor me my husband is such a meanie " posts
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 12:58 PM
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and by most accounts as close to unicorn as possible, And yet you are here I dont think you know what a Unicorn is. If she was the fabled Unicorn you would be merrily getting your dick sucked right after she put the kids to bed and fetched you a nice hand made snack
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 08:48 PM
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He goes out to work all day long to provide for the family. I think he should get to choose how he spends time with the kids. Maybe adopt a more grateful attitude. I think the fact that he is either working or on his phone is pretty telling ie he doesn't think much of your company. You sound like you've become one of those women who being a mom is your whole identity and that is a huge boner killer You want to be one of those parents that everything had to be " funjacational" but he doesn't so w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 05:24 PM
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Thanks for that. Its a good job someone is paying attention :P
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 12:51 AM
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replying to men who message them and apart from being pretty ( lets hope OP is a looker) what is the motivation for all these men that are going to be contacting her? Are you saying OP should just put up a pic and she should just pick the best of the crop ? I think if she actually put in a bit of effort she might get a more higher quality man and not just choose from any old tom dick or harry
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 12:03 AM
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what you say really doesn't matter, because people get to know you after you meet And how are they going to meet?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 11:35 PM
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While i agree with what your saying with regard to men not givinga shit about fave books etc but with the same logic do you think it would matter if she had a profile that read " im a complete slut who has fantastic daddy issues and im a devout feminist who thinks men should treat me like a princess"? They have nothing to go on except her profile it makes sense that she at least put effort into it. Or should she just think that she is entitled to quality men just by way of existing?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 11:04 PM
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so why did you leave him? I know you want to work on yourself but, seriously, dumping him is idoacy. What if he meets someone else while youre "working on yourself"? Personally i would rather stick pins in my eyes before i ditch the man i love
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 10:57 PM
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I don't think what you put in your profile matters much. really? that doesnt make sense to me Go on lots of dates with many different men who have high SMV and don't sleep with them until you are in a committed relationship. How will she get to go on those dates if she hasnt bothered with her profile? This might help you http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1zjuef/online_dating/
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 10:49 PM
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Over time people remember how the sum of the relationship makes you feel If you're a pain in the ass or a needy shit testing pain in the ass it will leave it's mark Now maybe he'll stick with you but when he meets women who are carefree fun and nice to be around it will highlight just how neurotic you are and he will wonder "is it worth it?" If you want to turn it around you'll have to work extra hard but that will always be there
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 12:48 PM
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She's not a plate, he told her to not worry about it when she complained about the relationship then she broke up with him Not being a pedant just strikes me as odd you read into it that way or maybe I'm missing something idk I agree tho she should either move on or not break up with the guy she is trying to "win back" it's female logic at its finest
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 12:38 PM
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Really? What a bunch of randoms on the Internet say makes you hate one of the most basic drives in a human? That's Iike going to a food sub and swearing off food because you hate their recipes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 09:12 AM
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Are we reading the same thing? She had a tantrum and broke up with him
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 05:44 AM
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That I should stop being attached to him. Ouch! So your relationship hit the skids due to no effort ( and im guessing a load of other stuff youre omitting otherwise why does he think youre too attached to him?) so you broke up with him and youre going to work on yourself and come get him back? Hopefully im wrong in guessing this but when he feels like this That he feels apathetic sometimes and does not look forward to talking to me like before. That I could try and be more sexy and dress better.…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 07:59 PM
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You almost sound like a caricature of yourself the way you describe being a "skipping puppy dog" with him and a total bitch with his friends That type of incongruence screams fake to me Doesn't matter how awesome you think you are with him if you turn it on an off like that you'll end up coming off as phoney and untrustworthy Imo genuineness is worth more than forced smiles but that's just me
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 01:04 PM
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We have one joint account and two separate accounts Mostly everything is done through the joint bit we both like to have a bit of spare cash to ourselves as there's nothing more shit that buying someone a gift with their own money
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 07:18 PM
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We went and got married by the coast in a tiny little village We didn't plan on getting married but we were going on holiday and I called him at work one day and said "shall we get married while we're there?" I bought a dress for £25 and after we went for a meal There were a lot of people upset they couldn't be a part of it so as a compromise we organised a party a month after we got back and celebrated with family and friends that way
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 05:55 PM
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No its more like all the manginas hanging out in trollx
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 06:19 AM
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Can you please explain in detail how to be charming? No one is going to change your view as this is precisely the type of stuff trp warns you about You are a single woman claiming you more knowledgeable and competent than the the collective knowledge of group of men honning their ability to get laid You'd be funny if it were not so tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 06:11 AM
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No the stuff you read that you don't like does not "undo" anything. Men are finding success with this and you just can't argue with THAT
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 06:05 AM
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You're trying to pin him down and like a caged animal he will chew his own foot off to get out of that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 08:13 PM
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What I wouldn't do is be a complete buzzkill and insist on having " a talk" You will become something he dreads if you keep pinning him down. Can you not trust how he feels right now?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 03:27 PM
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TIL
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 10:37 AM
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I do as I'm told.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 06:30 PM
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Shout it at him in a German accent
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 03:16 PM
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It's being so cheerful that keeps you going isn't it?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 02:46 PM
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Good question! Lie lie lie don't let on to this sub either Maybe join a church and infiltrate the men there? 😀
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 02:45 PM
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Is your SO a SJW?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 09:36 PM
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It's like scratching an itch that feels the most satisfying right before the moment you scratch too hard an it hurts
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 02:12 PM
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It wasn't a problem when you got with him so don't make it a problem now If you can't move past it then move on but if it were me vaping is hardly a dealbreaker He's obviously " bettered" himself by ditching the fags in favour of the vape If he gives up he needs to do it off his own intention and not yours because if you made him give up you'd lose respect for him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 07:53 AM
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You absolutely are using his words to punish him. If you want to word it in a way that says you're not and lie to yourself also go ahead but I don't believe it at all You need more self awareness and to be honest. You're using your own issuess with weight and getting angry with him. Even the title to your post screams at how pissed you are at him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 02:04 PM
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When you have nothing of worth in your life, the small becomes the all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 04:42 PM
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Nothing beats raw sexual chemistry
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 02:45 PM
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Someone with historical depression that also runs in his family will not be "cured " with a couple of months worth of CBT Just sayin
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 07:11 AM
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Why wouldn't a therapist tell them to have fun? All work an no play is a huge relationship killer. Mortgage kids work take a huge toll on a a partnership and sometimes all a couple need is to have fun together. Not everyone knows how to play, most people can go to a pub with friends and kick back some will head out in the outdoors but some literally do not know how to have fun and if op and her so is like this then telling them to have fun together is sound advice. Therapists ( not necessarily p…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 12:32 PM
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Because sex is very very important to men
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 07:39 PM
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You're more in love with the idea of being married than you are with your husband and now you're wondering if I could have married better because appearance is very important to you Lots of women do it, young girls seem to be easily seduced by " the biggest day of their lives" and the fairytale nature of the whole thing but the reality is its the first day of the rest of your life that will no longer have the luxury of being selfish. Next time you have these thoughts remind yourself that this ma…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:29 AM
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There are an awful lot of " I think and I want " in your post and a lot of those are assuming what he wants and how well he is or isn't doing. You may have good intentions but you are are leading this relationship. you're dictating too much and mostly because you want it
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:09 AM
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Thats awesome!! Well Done :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 10:46 PM
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Can't really help you with this as it all hinges on what your Husband wants. It sounds to me that this is more about you and what you want when really it should be about what your husband wants. Can I ask why you want to do this?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 07:19 PM
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" you're sweet" after a first date and no contact sounds like he views you in a non sexual way
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 02:59 PM
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Ah OK. Totally went over my head 😃
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/15 02:21 PM
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Yes very much so. It's one of the most empathic responses I've read on here. Whilst she focuses on her issues, you can empathise with all veiwpoints
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 11:22 PM
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And you think you don't do empathy?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 10:25 PM
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Bit disappointed rap battle guy never worked out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 08:38 PM
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what IM looking for is a way to tell her to keep it to herself, without being rude. Hey I love you, you know i do but do you mind if we dont talk about these things it makes me uncomfortable. Move on. It really is as simple as that and if you think its not then this is just your need for drama and he said she said mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 06:25 PM
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Listen to yourself, you are creating drama. No one has asked you anything and you're posting on the internet looking for "advise" on their lives. spend your time thinking about your life and how to improve it. I would rather not spend the day saying "ok, yeah, wow, shh kids are coming". Even if I change the subject it comes back up repeatedly. then dont, tell them you dont want to talk about this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 06:09 PM
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"I love it when my girlfriend stops shaving her legs in the winter" said no man ever
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 04:34 PM
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Why the hell do you need to make this your business ? Doing so is in the same vain as gossip and drama. Bitches love gossip n drama. Don't be that woman, your post amounts to " look at these other women making poor choices while I don't" who gives a shit what other people do with their lives.?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 04:30 PM
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Well you'll certainly get all those. I hope you find what you're looking for
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 06:17 PM
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Why don't you start with one of the things he has asked of you? If he wants a cleaner house start there? You sound defensive and if you're like this with him when he asks things from you it will only add to his feeling frustrated. A large part of adopting this approach is in attitude. Try adopting a more humble one and defer to him instead of looking in other places. Rpw is a fantastic resource but ultimately your husband knows everything you need to know and where to start
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 04:47 PM
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Given everything you've disclosed what exactly was you hoping for by posting? It sounds like you know what you should do bit you're having trouble doing it? I only say this because a trap that a lot of people fall into is believing they're doing something by preparing or researching and not actually doing the work. An example would be a dieter stocking up on diet food buying lots of gym clothes and perpetually "starting Monday" No amount of therapy / guidance will fix anything unless you bite th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 04:29 PM
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Well the good news is you are aware of the fact it's not ok give your husband this type of marriage. The bad news is you have damaged your Marriage ( to what extent I do not know but I bet you money on the fact your husband of nearly two decades is fantasising over other women and not just sexually) personally knowing that would kill me and I would do everything in my power to get back his devotion. I would start by apologising to him and tell him you know this is unacceptable and, if he'll allo…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 02:45 PM
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I dont think its a school of thought its more my own opinion. If I was serious about a guy Id got in my sights I dont think dating many guys would help me. Even if shes not putting out I think having a load of orbiters "boyfriends" sends the wrong message imo.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 02:33 PM
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I didn't say anything about being slutty. I just said if she wants to be taken seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 01:01 PM
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I'm curious why you posted this to this sub in particular?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/15 03:11 PM
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I would get rid of the other guys if you want this guy to take you seriously
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 11:29 PM
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women should remember that cooking cleaning and sex can all be bought. Have something special in your bag of tricks or youre easily replacable
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 10:41 PM
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It will hurt me a tiny bit, but I can easily cut him out of my life and move onto someone new This is why you were a plate If youre more worried about the fact you are devalued than opposed to losing him then move on gracefully learn from the experience and dont do it again. Also I suggest you choose a guy you actually feel some raw chemistry with instead of a list of merits you deem "favorable enough"
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 10:37 PM
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Either or 😃
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 08:21 PM
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You was a plate? Try and give a few more details like how you know eachother, how you addressed the slutzone issue, who is he etc?
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 08:13 PM
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I bet you're a right laugh at parties
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 01:28 PM
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Huge red flags are men that love fawning over randoms on Gonewild, you're half way there ready
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/15 01:21 PM
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I take no credit. I would do/go/say anything as long as he told me it was ok to
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 02:52 PM
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There is a reason people don't ordinarily like being vulnerable. It can leave you wide open. Being appropriately vulnerable with another person sends the message " I'm trusting you " so with that, it can be either, hugely flattering or a sign of naivety. I suggest once you have decided you like someone you test the waters with a small show of vulnerability to gage their response. A man will show his character (as will anyone) with how he chooses to respond to you. My husband knows I'm phobic of …
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 11:57 AM
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In your #2 you state " fierce competition from other women " as they take good care of themselves. "Competition" is good, raised standards or whatever you call it, you should not shy away from this. Turn yourself into a woman who you feel confident you're in the running with this "fierce competition " Be awesome and not hiding away where competition is easy and get the best man you can. The better you are the more options you have I make myself indispensable to my husband, he could easy get 10s …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 04:25 PM
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Your assumption you're going to be desired by all men because you follow RPW Is naive and no you're not undesirable because you're "too nice " you just met a man who might not find you attractive... So what. You shape yourself into the woman you want to be and then you find a man who is attracted to you. People have different tastes. My husband is not unlike your freind, he likes straight up confident women but he also likes the fact he can dominate them. Different courses for different horses.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 11:36 AM
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Follow his lead
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 11:12 PM
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its ridiculous and not positive at all. aww didums, is it all a bit icky for you?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 09:21 PM
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"I defer to the dictionary meaning " Really?? A self proclaimed "personality researcher" uses a dictionary meaning to understand what it means to be aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 11:12 PM
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Link them then. As long as you're going to come from the angle of "well I've seen some studies" For every bit of evidence you've seen I've seen two to counter it. Take my word for it because I've seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 02:14 PM
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It sounds like you're looking for someone to tell you what you want to hear. At the end of the day you need to have this conversation with your husband
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 07:46 PM
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It's not that she wants to maintain a relationship with her it's the fact she has lied to you. I wouldn't be surprised if she has been in contact all the time. What are her reasons for staying in touch? It's not like she's 8 yrs old and needs her.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 06:58 PM
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Unless he's a neat freak who actually loves washing up I'd say he'll be chuffed you insist on doing jobs like that. From my own experience I graciously accept him doing the man jobs I know he feels he should be doing but in all honesty he's pleased that I insist on doing the more female centric jobs, but thats my husband. You're the best judge of yours
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 12:25 AM
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Why don't you just insist he sits down and relaxes whilst you do it. Tell him you love doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/15 11:49 PM
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Feel free to post something to counter that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 12:44 AM
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Shameless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 05:17 PM
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Smooth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 05:16 PM
1

That's an odd thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 12:16 AM
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I need to grab your shoulders and shake you. If you were guy I'd say you're thinking with your dick! It's not hard for a man to father a child and your logic that just because he has might make him a good candidate for you is madness and I think deep down you know this, otherwise you wouldn't be here. Without sounding like a broken record, this is why this sub recommends getting commitment first. Now you've played your best cards and you still want to win this game. I don't know if you can but i…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 09:19 AM
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It's essentially propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 05:05 PM
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You've replaced his mother. Your language regarding him is paternal and not what you want for a marriage. Personally, an I know this won't be for everyone, I would give him full responsibility of his money. You'll probably tell me this will kill your finances etc etc but imo it's far better than killing attraction ( for both of you) He will never learn how to manage money if the women in his life keep taking over and assuming a care taker role. The problem you are going to have to deal with is h…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 12:43 PM
5

Act surprised like you never realised till they told you " fuck me so I am!!"
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:14 PM
1

Sorry but I can't take advice from "a man" who likes to pre empt his "Ive stopped touching my privates guys " with a trigger warning.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 09:33 AM
3

Fantastic!!! Congratulations tryanotherjuan :-)
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 09:16 PM
2

Are you serious? Wives having a "headache " is the oldest joke in the book. The only difference now is wives are more gobby.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 02:41 PM
3

You're missing the point.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 05:18 PM
11

It doesn't matter that you don't have their money and you don't move in those circles what matters is you are nice, polite and show that you are a dedicated girlfriend to this man. He's already thought about the implications of introducing you to his friends and he obviously thinks enough of you and trusts you won't let him down.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 06:08 PM
25

Men are dramatically more at risk of suicide and depression when unable to work. This is a cost that's not taken into consideration when the workplace is flooded with women.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 03:52 PM
2

Huh?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 02:07 PM
8

"its the society we live in.....may as well join in" Nah not really.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 12:46 PM
1

I'm sensational
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 10:00 PM
3

Don't. Don't even go there. Imaging you was giving advice to your daughter? Would you tell her this? You agreed to marry a man you don't find attractive and you either want to change him or "learn to love him" whatever that means. You will end up resenting HIM when he's done nothing wrong and you'll make his life hell or divorce him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 01:51 PM
9

I couldn't if I tried. My husband is a law unto himself.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 07:24 PM
5

Really? 8 months and everything is going well, he asks you to take him seriously and you feel as though you could fall in love? Except you are now trying to figure out of you're wasting your time because why? He's younger than you and you are his first love? If you keep trying to plan your romantic life like a list of dos and don't you will fail. You haven't indicated any single thing this man has done to make you start questioning this new relationship yet you are thinking about what If what if…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 06:12 PM
11

You mean is there a gracefull way of saying " I'm bored now, pull yourself together because I'm getting sick of having to do all the work" Sorry if that sounds harsh but imo you're being really selfish because from what I can see is he has been going through a rough time and has other things on his mind other than getting you off. Why don't our ask him if HE'S happy with how things are?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 06:05 PM
3

Hi IMO a 40 yr old man should be behaving better than this esp since he's knocking women up. Doesn't sound like he's finished with the ex bit she's finished with him, no matter what he tells you
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 03:00 PM
1

How long have you been together?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 02:50 PM
1

You don't need to buy the book there is a very quick online test you both take and it's free. It sounds to me you are bf and gf. I think you're over thinking stuff, and tbf I'm not surprised because being your first relationship an all. With any luck you've missed out on dating some duds and found yourself in a steady relationship :-) It's ok to be sensitive, it's what makes you who you are but it's a problem when it starts negatively affects your relationship. Once you feel like you're committe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 04:02 PM
8

I've been seeing a guy for two months now and we are exclusive, but not "boyfriend / girlfriend" What does that mean or how does that work? and it's like he sees me as being more masculine What evidence do you have to prove he sees you as masculine? It sounds like hes having fun with you ( and you reciprocate) and then you do a classic female thing of thinking you need to reign in your behaviour as he might think x y z of you. IMO RPW is not about the "feminine vaneer" that so many like to think…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 12:00 PM
7

I don't think RP has a standard opinion. I say it's great men have the option to just go an pay for it when women irl are just too much of a pain in the ass.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 12:26 PM
3

When seeking advice and asking people to give up their time to give you their opinion, you do not tell people where to go. You may not like what people are telling you but that does not mean you can take that position. You will always have opposing opinions and that's ok, don't tell users to go elsewhere when you are the one asking their advice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 07:09 AM
5

Leeloo is my phone screensaver 😃 I love that film!!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 10:49 AM
2

Can you expand on what you actually mean by settling? Have you? Are you considering it? What does settling mean to you?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 10:46 AM
2

I predict a future of heartache with this man.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 02:16 PM
12

" is impossible to embarrass" That type of confidence is a pussy magnet.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 02:13 PM
4

After reading your comments re small cuts that sting and the unbearable pain I suggest you go get checked out you may have a STD
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/15 07:50 PM
5

Here I am judging your White knighting as well
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 03:12 PM
0

Oh rly!
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 01:44 PM
8

" I don't like that I've gained weight " That's your problem right there. Fix that You don't go from a 9 to a 6 in a year esp in your 20s Lose weight, grow your hair and be happy you've met someone. Obsessing about your looks to this degree is far uglier than a few forehead wrinkles
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 09:33 AM
4

EBay
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 09:28 AM
1

I'm so sorry to hear your news. Times like this really bring out the best and the worst in people and, I guess, your SO is proving you can rely on him :-) Everyone goes through bad times and yes I'd say it's ok to fall apart a little but it's not an excuse for bad behaviour. "how do i let him know without being insane " Let him be the rock. Be vulnerable and allow him to play the role he wants to in all of this, you don't need to tell him just show him. I wish you all the best and hope the futur…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 09:25 AM
14

Alpha widowhood, falling for the wrong guy, falling in love whatever. You realise you've made a mistake and you know what you need to do. You won't get any magic pill that annihilates those feelings you need to let go and move on. Assuming you have made a mistake and realised you have become attached to a guy you shouldn't have I would cut all contact, delete all numbers and social media contact and don't be tempted to text or speak to him by proxy of speaking to his friends. Long story short it…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 09:14 AM
3

says the man with the golden mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 10:37 PM
3

I'm curious, what was it that upset him exactly about reading the thread? I thought he would have been somewhat relieved in reading how you were being told it was your behaviour that was not ok? I think its good that you shared the post with him and you are both able to get something from it. It would be good to remember that whilst you can see the very imediate benefits of looking to him to lead the relationship the real benefit ( and what rpw ultimately promotes) is the hard work put into the …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 10:26 PM
3

I don't have enemies, especially not other women my age. Me too :) I like people I like getting to know them I enjoy making friends and I will give people the benefit of the doubt. OPs posts are very adversarial and masculine in nature (bossy and leading) I dont find them to be feminine at all.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 08:43 PM
18

Without being too nit picky, you say wome n should avoid TV and social media yet you blog and are one of the most frequent posters on this sub. I'm all for reading people's opinions on here but I like to think that they have substance rather than re packaging what they have read elsewhere and they actually practice what they preach.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 03:55 PM
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You sound depressed and self absorbed which I can imagine is the real reason it keeps the men away. I doubt you're a 3 I think your sense of self is a 3 but in reality being young and slim by itself would get you a fair amount of attention. It can be a bit of a shocker when you first read trp and if your identity is a bit shakey it could easily consume/overwhelm you but make no mistakes your real source of power comes from you and not an Internet forum. Take what you need from it and use it. Use…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 07:37 PM
8

I think you know the problem is you https://www.reddit.com/r/drunk/comments/2ic1xd/im_drunk_fuck_my_life/ Yet this post seems to be posing the problem as his to avoid dealing with your own issues You need to work on yourself much much more before you start turning on him. There is A TON of stuff in the sidebar and if you pay particular attention to the mods you will get a lot of sound advice
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 04:12 PM
2

No gum. She just needs to get something straight in her head ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 03:50 PM
7

I cant tell you exactly how you should have sex with your SO Or exactly what to say but IMO the reason why you are struggling with all of this is because you think being a good RPW is just STFU and calmly walking around all serene. You think as long as the "appearances" are looking good then that makes you a "RPW" All the while you still have all the same old internal negitive patterns you have always had ie being controlling or lloking down on your SO. You could have easily have TLDR'd your pos…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 12:07 PM
6

Youre doing the whole "never say no to sex" thing wrong. Theres no way you should have ended up talking about your dog and future children in that senario. Once you decide youre saying yes you just consentrate on the task in hand and not quietly seeth over all the things youre anoyed about. Telling him "im not turned on" whilst having sex is probably one of the biggest bonner killers i can think of. You call his response to your concerns "moping" you repeatdly do this which in my mind is rude an…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 11:25 AM
2

Cool!! Well done and keep it up. I've made my own NYE resolutions and have had success and failure ( I'm losing weight but haven't started the excersises atm) From experience the harder the challenge the bigger the win so stick at it and remember this time in a few months it'll feel even better :-)
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 11:07 AM
1

There's no prescription for this but it's easy to get wrong if it's said too soon. As long as it's not too soon just say it when can't not say it any longer. Be passionate and spontaneous and mean it. Even if you immediately cringe and feel stupid I think the sentiment won't be lost :-)
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 10:58 AM
3

You made a connection between the stressful period and becoming more sensitive. It makes me think you don't have much of an outlet for the stress you have been feeling. Sometimes when " your cup is full" it only takes the smallest of things being added to make it overflow. Do you find it difficult to talk about how you feel or to assert yourself? Maybe start small and try to confide in a friend ( even if it feels a bit scary) other than that is there any support at college you can access?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 08:30 AM
5

WTF is up with all these young women whinging about good men?
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 03:57 PM
1

Yes by Captain Obvious no less
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 05:22 PM
3

You said " I worry if I move in we'll get stuck in relationship purgatory and what would be the reason to get married if you move in with him?"
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 05:47 PM
7

It sounds like you are using this as a bargaining chip for getting married and you don't want to lose your leverage. I can't for the life of me understand why you wouldn't jump at the chance if what you say is all true
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 03:21 PM
1

I think it's a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 11:48 AM
2

Daaaaaw happy new year Phant!!! It's been most awesome being a part of this sub and all the people I've met over the past year and how it's helped me. Heres to many more! X Lots of love from a very squiffy Theterrorsquad
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 01:39 AM
3

I'm not commenting on the smp I'm just suggesting in general your average girl will always find life easier. It would make sense that it's a more difficult pill for them to swallow because it takes away security where as for men it's welcomed because it gives them a way out of the hoops most men need to jump through to get anything out of life. I'm not making it a race for first position in who has it better or worse but I do believe women have an easier time which isn't necessarily a good thing…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 10:49 AM
10

WHen asked if she is a feminist she responds with "is it bad if i say im not?" Its very telling. It seems like americans dont have options. Like its not ok to not be a feminist!? wtf is up with that? Unless youre a feminist youre gonna be hated, which sounds to me like a dictatorship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 11:48 PM
14

I agree with this in general but again I don't think that life is wonderful for girls. Not saying it's harder than it is for guys, but it's not easy for mediocre looking girls that aren't too feminine. Even mediocre girls have it better than the 80% of men whom arent gifted with a brad pitt face an body Being female by default offers you a meal ticket in more ways than you realise. Get stranded with a broken down car on a quiet road and youll instantly understand how even the most average women …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 10:36 PM
1

Lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/14 09:10 AM
1

Why do you feel the need to bond with her Because this is her FHs family. It matters.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 09:13 PM
1

And thats how to be passive agressive. downplay what you've done and let her be the troublemaker not you. "Oh yeah I moved a few things to places I like better... the mugs, the breadmaker... is this a big deal?" Really? I dont think behaving like that is a good call at all, She is not the enemy she is his mother, who is actually trying to help her out. How about she gets over her nasty streak and try to get along with her future husbands family? If the mil was a dragon I might I might be able to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 09:10 PM
3

I want a BB to look after me while I wank about the gardner. WHY DO YOU GUYS NOT WANT ME???" The answer's in the question.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 08:53 PM
1

It does thank you
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 11:37 PM
2

I don't understand what that has to do with what I said. I don't give a shit where people look for a partner, I just don't understand the mentality of the op bitching about how "those foreigners are no better"
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 10:21 PM
7

Sorry to say this but youve married a selfish lover. I assume he has always been like this?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 08:06 PM
0

Her response is constructive. He may well, and very obviously, responds to you in a way that doesnt say "hell yeah" RPW advice in this situation would be to tell you to stop being solipsistic. Of course he is goint to tell his pregnant wife those things the fact is something is up and the fact is not all men want to jump their pregnant wife. He could be scared, nervous or yes even grossed out , it happens Can you think of any other reason he might not be reciprocating you right now?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 08:01 PM
4

I think it would be helpful to seperate this into the pregnant issue and the non pregnant issue. Some men love a pregnant womans body others do not. If he does not there is nothing you can do about it. He might not be turned off but he might view it as "out of bounds" its probably something to do with protecting you. Non pregnant could you clarify what the problem is ? You say you have a lot of sex but the problem is what exactly?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 07:53 PM
1

The only change I've seen is that sex has increased dramatically and he's way more attracted to me. He also appreciates that I look after myself, as well as to look good for him. It definitely makes him happier and more attracted to me :) This is what RPW is about, such a cool thing :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 07:27 PM
2

Congrats on the weight loss thats prety awesome. I can imagine how great that must have felt :) Can you say anymore oh how it affected yur relationship? Did you specifically notice changes within the relationship and how he acted towards you?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 07:14 PM
6

Why would you be intimidated by the foreign woman? Why would you be intimdated read threatened by any idea that there might be women womaning better than you? Your focus should be on you and your game. Worrying about other women being better than you is a waste of time IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 07:09 PM
5

The only thing that will change their minds is if your marriage survives. When youre both in your forties they will concede you were really meant for each other and if your marriage doesnt survive they will say " I told you so" Point is if you go with what you want and not listen to them they might make a few remarks but they will go with it. Theyre trying to think of your best interests and if they see youre happy and your life is a good one then that will win everytime.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 06:59 PM
1

It is why gaming women works so well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 05:38 PM
3

TL;DR AWALT
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 05:07 PM
3

What exactly is HWL saying to you that is rude? No one is keeping you here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 02:16 PM
2

Next
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 02:49 AM
3

Youre not a prick. You have needs just like she does but the only difference is she is the one having a temper tantrum over it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:44 AM
3

Then stop going back. Stop relenting to her. You are enabling her to be a crazy bitch with your passive behaviour. Dont stand for it. Draw a line in the sand and tell her she is being a child and you will only tollerate her when she can meet you on YOUR terms.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:24 AM
2

Imagine every single woman does this to you. All women you meet just fawn over you and they reel out the same old compliments time an time again. It gets old. Then all of a sudden you meet a woman who doesnt and she actually gives you something to "bite back" with. Someone who actually makes you feel like you need to prove yourself? You get the chance to show who you really are and not just an idea of a idealised version a a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 01:16 AM
9

Shes passive agressive on hard mode and your relatioship is volatile. If I was to hazard a guess you have stuck your dick in crazy. Proceed with caution. Edit. I get tired of the shit and walk..two weeks later we get back together, this is all on you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:00 AM
3

What exactly are you asking? You say you want a "boss " type husband but you also say you can't be friends with someone who want talk at length with you? It's probably me but could you explain it a bit more clearly :-)
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 05:08 PM
4

You, as a woman, feel open to being around his kids and having them in your life. He, as a man, feels zero motivation to spend his free time around your kids. Why would he? It's seems you're on different pages with the evolution of your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 11:49 PM
2

Your're welcome. I am being crazy, aren't I? It goes with the territory :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 10:58 PM
3

Sit down and have a good, long, unemotional, brutally honest conversation with yourself on whether you are ready to marry and have children with a man who has children from previous relationships. Shes gonna delete her post. I guarantee it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 10:09 PM
2

It's entirley self serving
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 09:43 PM
42

Seriously? Dont do this. You are behaving crazy. You are in a LDR and you are questioning his family life insinuating he is an idiot. Dont act on this because of "horror stories" You are completely undermining his autonomy and second guessing stuff on his behalf. I think you are creating drama where theres possibly none. Stop being crazy
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 09:33 PM
5

Ask him. What would he like to do? I once planned a romantic meal and a movie when my husband succeeded in doing something he wanted real bad and when he came home to my lovely dinner he said "fuck that Im taking you out I wanna whip your ass at pool" lol saying that I think just telling him how proud you are and what it means to you goes a long way :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 09:21 PM
3

Thats a very good point.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:40 PM
0

I dont know and maybe youre not I was just ruling things out :) I just feel confused as to why after 10 months you feel so in the dark.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:10 PM
4

Have you considered you might be a plate?
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 06:58 PM
6

Someone else will probably give a you a fuller answer but the only thing that really stuck out for me was the TV thing. 100% DO NOT try to discuss this stuff in the post sex glow. let him zone out and stop fighting the need to act on the desire to have his full attention. Turning th tv off would be a very selfish thing to do. I understand you need to know where you stand but right after sex is probably the biggest turn off I can think of for a man.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 06:49 PM
2

How strange. Women talking shit about other women that are effectively trying to do the same thing. Go women!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/14 06:12 PM
1

It sounds like he is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 10:21 PM
4

Stop being a dick.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 11:22 PM
5

I'm having trouble with this because I feel guilty and ashamed that we are having the fertility issues in the first place. I understand you but try not to be. You are taking on something that takes a massive ammount of resolve and dedication in the persuit of building a family. You are doing an amazing thing and i really wish you all the best of luck. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 09:59 PM
1

How could you!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 07:15 PM
13

Lol she fucked you on the first date and now you've been exclusive for "many months " dude get back to us in two years with a progress report. Thing is you don't demand commitment on your first date together you just make sure you're good enough that he'd WANT to go on the next date and so on. Your girl game needs to be on point. Tbf if I met a guy that was so adamant he has sex on the first time I'm out with him or he won't see me again I'd take that as a red flag. A high value man doesn't act …
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 06:44 PM
6

It's sad there are a lot of girls that post in your position and it's precisely why we advocate getting commitment first. You should chalk this up as a very good lesson to yourself. Imagine if this guy wrote a field report of how he is spinning his plates. I'm sure he would commend himself on placating you just enough to keep you hooked. I think you've lost your best hand at this point and I would say to him you're off because what you want is a monogamous relationship with someone and then just…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 05:16 PM
4

thats sad
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 08:10 PM
1

Don't be a smart ass. Your question didn't have enough information for anyone to answer that. Would I cosign for a bf whom I've been with for 2 months or would I cosign for my husband of ten years? You see the problem with your question?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 01:16 AM
1

So why did you pose the question?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 01:00 AM
2

You really need to expand on this. There is not enough info to discuss.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 11:47 PM
2

You're over thinking it. People shit test unknowingly a lot of the time and it's been called banter when it's done in a "nicer " way The women who shit test on bitch mode and succeed only succeed in getting betas You're probably a fairly charming bright kind of guy and you know how to keep up and like I say a lot of all this is done whilst flirting etc The type that is done in LTRs is slightly different but I digress Don't go throwing your toys out the pram because it seems like bullshit it's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 05:53 PM
-1

What do you mean by "standards"?? Careful you're coming off as a slut shamer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 01:59 AM
8

You lose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 01:31 AM
4

Did I say it was ignorant? I am just pointing out if youre oblivious to it then you really cant fight that battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 01:28 AM
1

If you need to ask youre a failing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 01:16 AM
7

Why is TRP and the like "the dregs" of the Internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 05:07 PM
2

Honestly, if I'm with a man who I have to nag in the first place, This is how women think. No man "needs" to be nagged. I would say if you are overcome with the desire to castrate a guy THEN you are with the wrong man. The onus is on you not the man
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 05:08 PM
3

I answer to my husband. My husband does not answer to me. He is the top of the chain and being accountable needs to stop somewhere. This is why you choose a good man who won't abuse this power.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 02:49 PM
1

Sorry tbf i was just jumping in. But they aren't keeping an entire hobby to themselves...they're just having a seperate group for it. So are you saying if they have seperate groups they would still oppsose to women engaging in said hobby? I seriously doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 08:55 PM
2

Those comparison pics are pretty cool.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 08:48 PM
2

Maybe not the actual hobby itself but whilst engaging in the hobby they want to do so with just men. And women love to do that with what kind of hobbies exactly? Things like women only gyms and women only, at certain times, at the local swimming pool. Things like this http://www.nawc.org.uk/what_we_do.php sort of thing where women want to engage in a all female space I dont think there is any shame in wanting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 08:46 PM
6

Maybe they want to be in a male only space a bit like how women love to do this as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 08:32 PM
3

A hunting knife.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 04:48 PM
4

On the whole men are much funnier than women. Women seem to think being a moody bitch is funny. It's not.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 04:47 PM
1

5.9 sounds perfect. I'm short and I feel the same as you. I'd kill to have legs. The grass is always greener!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 06:54 PM
2

Ok that's fair enough. Can you not take his behaviour in the spirit it's intended? Basically do your needs outweigh his? Can't you allow him this and have enough self awareness to understand he is over the moon and wants to demonstrate this. It doesn't mean that you can't still be demonstrative. Being redpill doesn't mean either you or him are "star player's " it's the captain first mate dynamic and he as a captain wants to protect. Having your first child together can make a man crazy protectiv…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/14 06:56 PM
2

What exactly is the problem? Is it your husband who cares and is embracing being a father and looking after the mother of his child and you somehow don't like it? Or is it you and you think being pregnant is going to "turn" you into what? Sorry if I sound curt but I am. I don't know how anyone can find a problem in their wanted pregnancy and their SO is doing everything he can to care.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/14 06:16 PM
4

That's quite correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 06:22 PM
1

Yeah he was asking for it dressed like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 02:42 PM
0

Nonsense he absolutely should have worn that shirt. A shirt made for the occasion by a friend?! He's not some CEO turning up for a meeting he's a scientist who has just earned his stripes. I say the dude has the right to wear what he wants. I think standing on ceremony has its place but this isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 12:12 PM
7

If I drop something on the floor and bend down to pick it up my husband will Unzip his fly. He'll even do this wherever we are.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 07:57 AM
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I'm sorry it's probably not what you want to hear but, honestly, I think it's the correct advice :-/
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 07:36 PM
83

You stop being a plate by ending this relationship and find a man whom doesn't want plates. You get over him by time.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 07:00 PM
2

Is there an approach I need to use that I'm just not thinking of? Yes its the "I shalt not change my husband once ive married him" approach. The best thing you can do FOR HIM is to agree with him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 09:56 PM
2

Thats awesome so is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 10:11 PM
2

Wear whatever you want however you will attract the type of guy who, like you, doesn't care about appearance.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 01:52 PM
6

and just want fun sex. There is a reason the CC is discouraged It's same for guys No its not. Its entirely different for men. Men and women are different
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 10:46 PM
7

Then dont be surprised when the guy you promised this to and he then commits to you thinks youre a big fucking prick tease. It's like the old fear of looking like a slut in front of your husband never went away Worrying about how your husband views you is one thing but banging randoms in a threeway is another
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 09:43 PM
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I'm curious as to why you're happy to have a threesome with guy you have no commitment with but not with him once he's committed to you? It just doesn't make sense.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 07:49 PM
7

I have a fantasy of having sex with someone's fiance, making proof of it, and then showing it to the guy on their wedding day. That would be so much fun! Who says romance is dead!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 09:33 PM
3

A mod is probably best suited to answer but I think you play it by ear. When a post is overt fawning and general vom inducing or lewd it shouldnt be encouraged but if the sentiment was honest and just recognising a good thing a woman has done I always take it in the spirit it was intended. I think his comment was justified considering the post hes replying to, she done an awesome job and that certainly would be considered "wife material" :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 09:23 PM
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That sounds awesome! Well done and high five for changing the bed clothes. Everyone loves clean sheets :-)
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 02:28 PM
3

It's not really a RP issue but re your gatekeeping question same sex couplings actually backs up a lot of what rp talks about. The phenomenon of Lesbian bed death and the promiscuity of gay men seems to be a result of the different agendas men and women have.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 01:16 PM
1

lol what was you expecting to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 08:59 PM
2

Quite right :-)
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 04:53 PM
1

Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 02:39 PM
3

Projecting on to your children is different from teaching or instilling into you kids what you think is correct. Whilst I get that she hates feminism she completely misses the point on what it is to be a man. Ordinarily I could overlook some things if the overall message was good but apart from hating feminism ( which she seems to do for selfish reasons) she says nothing of substance
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 07:19 AM
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I want my boys to be chivalrous, to open doors and carry heavy loads, to ask a girl out on a date and pay the bill without expecting anything in return. I am encouraging my sons to tell girls when they think those girls look beautiful. I love that my boys want to surprise me (and eventually their partners) with gifts, and the spontaneous hug or peck on the cheek I want to vomit. I appreciate you "resonate" with the article but I just can get past her solipsism and how she projects her own agenda…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 06:39 AM
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I am proud to raise them to be hard-working and dedicated providers. I am raising them to treat the women in their lives like princesses, BARF
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 05:56 AM
2

If your husband likes you to initiate then initiate away. In fact if he does like it then just let yourself go and surprise him in way that are new and unusual cus men love the strange factor. Point is there is nothing wrong with your sex life if its making him happy If you are ever wondering if you are doing the right thing refer to his boner, as in, does he have one. If yes then procede with abandonment.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 07:55 PM
3

ou're disgusting. Why are you even here? It would be wise to not throw insults to people who were honestly answering you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 06:55 PM
2

Tru dat. He was booted out the uk and his name was everywhere for a brief while, being talked about on the radio, in the papers. He must have loved the free advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 06:27 PM
3

They already are. The amount of times I've seen a woman berate her partner in an angry stance only to turn around and smile sweetly at someone else, they don't even mean it. They adopt a nagging attitude purely to get some bs they want or need doing and their whining isn't even heartfelt it really is like sport and it's done on a whim whilst he is feeling the full weight of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 06:23 PM
3

Yes true but in the context of the question " do men actually ask" I refered to where there would be proof of that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 04:55 PM
2

Like I said I feel she is upsetting the balance and by having the pre nup she is holding a lot of power over him. It seems counter intuitive but he is a beta bux or her dutifull husband until she swings to the next branch knowing she can do so with no obligation to him. If I was really mean I could even say she cheat her way through her marriage for all we no with a bunch of alphas because the dutifull husband doesn't have a leg to stand on but as I'm not a meanie I'm just gonna say op should th…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 03:23 PM
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Thats how its supposed to be but check out r/deadbedrooms and there are plenty of men whom have been reduced to not only asking but begging and being put through humiliating senarios of spending days of foot rubs flower buying house tidying in the hopes of getting a blo job
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 03:06 PM
1

TBF I am against them they do not support marriage and make it easy for people to walk away. I wouldnt sign one and I wouldnt want my SO to sign one which leads me to; I am curious as to what you would suggest should happen if the worst were to happen to her marriage and he decided to leave All of this should be agreed with each couple prior to marriage and prior to any talk of splitting up , my husband and I have talked about what might happen if things hit the skids and at the end of the day h…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 03:00 PM
1

She is hypergamous because her priorities are making sure she has a prenup with the guy her earns less than her. Do you think shed be banging on about a prenup if she was broke? If you read her posts she is overly concerned with who owns what and who holds wealth etc she said herself "but what if he leaves me for someone else" whilst this is a problem all of us could face she is walking into a marriage with all of her priorities wrong. Fuck maybe im out of touch but i was of the thinking you cho…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 12:40 AM
1

it was my friends who brought it up because they know my SO is not wealthy. Yes and team woman will always make sure the poor man willl never leach off of you
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 12:28 AM
1

I know a woman loses value as she ages. Even if I stay fit and healthy, I will age...this is inevitable. Yep and the fact you are walking into this "marriage" with this in mind only further leads me to believe that you are behaving in a hypergamous manner. And what if he meets someone else who he wants to be with more? thats right so you better snare this guy with a prenup because its inevitable right? Its inevitable that he will leave you for a younger version? Maybe in the back of your mind yo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 12:17 AM
1

But I don't want you feeling guilty about this any more than I want my male friends (who I also advise again and again, get a prenup) to feel guilty. but its not the same. As a woman she has the odds stacked in her favour and your male friends dont.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 11:45 PM
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That's why I intend to do it sooner rather than later. I am just brainstorming ways to bring it up. .but I know total transparency is key. I dont think you know what total transparency is.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 10:38 PM
0

I bet you do.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 10:32 PM
1

And what has your fathers input been on this? What did your father say you should do? It seems to me this is your decision and yours alone. Did your father tell you to do this ? If he has had no part in this then it would seem to me you are making a selfish decision based purely on protecting whats yours (and not your "future husbands" ) This is not a recipe for a happy life long marriage. For all we know your father is more than happy for you to marry this guy without a prenup therfore you coul…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 09:55 PM
1

I personally don't understand marrying a man I wouldn't trust with an inheritance And there it is.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 09:44 PM
2

Wat?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 07:20 PM
4

Reminds me of when I used to say "I'm bored" to my mum. She would say " only boring people are bored"
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 06:42 PM
2

yeah, it's called the beauty of honesty, authenticity. Hitler was very honest in his love of the Aryan race. I think he tried to keep an authenticity to his, percieved , master race. Was that a beautiful thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 01:40 AM
5

wow just wow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 12:59 AM
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There are new women coming here all the time and this sub is precisely about this type of thing (relationships) Feel free to add some new shit that we've not thought of before though.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 02:52 PM
3

You should know when he's getting mad at your mothering it's because he's scared your going to be like the mother figure he had its kind of misplaced. If you reassure him that you're different and commited as a loving mother you will greatly reduce his anger re this
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 10:45 AM
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He has a strong desire to know you're a capable mother. Some men need to know this emphatically. I imagine his upbringing was less than great and wants to not make the same mistakes his parents did. It might seem counter intuitive to you but he would rather you put an emphasis on your daughter as opposed to him. I think he's probably quite a resilient man and would prefer you take care of his child instead of him and if you succeed in doing that he will be more open to you taking care of him
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 12:11 AM
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You know when people say " I'm not racist but" Well you kinda sound like that. You sound caught up on appearances. He's moved to your town he's now the stranger and you are complaining he wants to spend time with you. If he moved to your town and didn't want to see you you'd probably be writing a different post complaining about that. He also sounds like your BB because you only seem to want to keep him "make this work" because he's a "good man " yet you find your mind wandering to the ex who yo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 06:59 PM
5

I really value my clean sexual and relationship history You dont have a clean history, you jump into threesomes with PUAs lol youre not what you think you are but then again ...troll hard or go home
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 09:33 PM
1

I like the cut of your jib.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 09:31 PM
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I am a sucker for a sob story and I was all out feeling for OP right up untill the threesome crap. Your trollharder comment confirmed all my doubts lol Youre spot on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 09:29 PM
1

This might sound like a stupid request but tell me in simple terms "a man that does this kind of stuff? " What stuff is he doing exactly? I wont tell you are wrong because there really isnt a wrong or a right. If thats how you feel thats how you feel but you should know that this will affect how your partner relates to you. She has been with him for nine months and she has already singled out three women she has taken issue with and is refusing to accomodate himin any way, in her own words "just…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 07:04 PM
4

There is no point reversing the roles, men and women are different.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 06:08 PM
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If you trusted him 100% you wouldn't be freaking out to the level you are Maybe you're not even aware of just how difficult it is for you to trust people as it feels normal to you but it seems like you're controlling out of anxiety. If you succeed in him not seeing her he will resent you and a part of you will lose respect for him for handing over his balls to you because at only 9 months in and you're displaying highly insecure behaviour
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 01:46 PM
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While I agree with Happywifelife you cant forever keep all women you pervieve as a threat out of his life and even if you do you will be controlling him to a degree that will kill any kind of rp dynamic (if this is what you want) I think her coming to the party is a great idea beause he will not be spending alone time with her and you get to meet her and show her how happy you both are together. You never know you may even get along. It is getting tiring to keep one eye on my boyfriend and one e…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 12:40 PM
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I'm telling you that you don't pay attention to what is done or said because in this conversation you havent I could say exactly the same of you. Youre solipsistic and you cant even see it But you certainly are being patronizing. And now obnoxious. lol youre so precious with your veiw. In my mind we were just conversing with our own point of veiw but the min i dont step in line with you i am now obnoxious . I wont resort to name calling i will just end it . Good luck wish you all the best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:58 PM
1

and you STILL are trying to maintain that height is a factor for me. No sweetie not for you for women in general. You aren't listening to what women say OR do. Patronise me some more its really hot when you do that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:35 PM
2

when many women say height isn't a factor. what they say and do are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:26 PM
1

No you haven't. bless you you're trying to say women are attracted to the same things. No im not im saying in life there are trends and this is a glaring one How young are you today? ;) aw so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:12 PM
1

We share the same cake day we are practically sisters
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 09:05 PM
1

I trust you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:04 PM
2

Also, happy birthday! Why thank you I've met enough happy couples to know what I'm talking about. We all have
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 09:03 PM
0

like a douchey Danny DeVito acting obnoxious that could work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 08:33 PM
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Yes and see how contradictory they are as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 08:31 PM
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Put the heating on timed to come on an hour before he arrives and use the slow cooker to have his dinner ready for him also. If theres a day when you know you will be there dont tell him and surprise him :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 09:25 PM
3

Lol I have one of those, just never occured to to use it :P Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 08:18 PM
1

Not really babes, you cheated on the guy and pretend like its not really that important other than a "fiasco" but now hes being really mean to me. Can you hear yourself ?
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 04:20 PM
3

Do you know of a way to stop the skin sticking to the pan with this method. I already use butter and have tried with spray oil and I even tried non stick paper but it sticks every time and let's all the juices out.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 03:02 PM
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Imagine your husband had an infinite amount of money and he checked himself into the most exclusive healthcare setting where the care/service was flawless. Where no job is to small for the nurses and he is totally catered for. Now be that nurse except be really unprofessional and sneak in and give him blo jobs on the side.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 02:53 PM
1

Can you expand on the "cheating fiasco"?
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 02:46 PM
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However, when you are acting in a public facing role for your organisation, you are what the public sees. Yes just like Jessica Valenti the feminist you seem to want to defend who was "on vacation getting some pro mo shots"
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 01:18 AM
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but they still identify as one of TWO GENDERS . There are two genders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 12:22 AM
2

Well you may well be right and I may well have missed it because I'm old and not down with the kids :-) Your English is great!
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 10:24 AM
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Lol bless you. No I think it means she enjoys mens pain.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 09:53 AM
7

No
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 04:14 AM
2

nooo steal away lol
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 01:08 AM
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The attacks on Matt Taylor should make every feminist hang their head in shame http://imgur.com/LOwd6mp How can you see this pic and be ok with that?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 11:55 PM
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Like I say read the sidebar it has more than enough to let you know what we are about. We are about the "captain first mate" dynamic. Its about the deference and respect to our partners and doing all we can to make them happy. We are also anti feminist
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 11:44 PM
2

Its the thought that counts lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 11:38 PM
2

lol ok so we are very guarded on this sub of trolls because we get exactly the type of backlash you talk about but make no mistakes, though, we will not just chime in with any tom dick or harry just because they say "IM A Mysoginist CMV" Surely you can understand that?! It seems to me unless we just rally round you and prop your veiws up you seem to think youre being alienated yet again. Read all of our submissions we are more than welcome with women that are genuinely trying to improve themselv…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 11:37 PM
1

you wont get bashed on for that
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 11:20 PM
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Why because we wont do the work for you? You sound like the type of entitled snowflakes we hate
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 11:02 PM
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We do not hate female nature. We nurture the best parts of it and use our will to subvert the worst parts of it. I really need to learn how to award points
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 11:00 PM
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You sound like a troll we will not be renewing your faith in anything.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 10:58 PM
2

I'm hoping that some of you on this sub might be able to change my viewpoint on this and renew my faith in the female gender. Well I can only speak for myself but I am not here to change anyones mind. I'm looking for a place with like minded women, who don't necessarily agree with feminism, or are at least willing to talk about it without the need for insults towards the other persons character. Have you read ANYTHING from this sub least of all the sidebar? Anyway for what its worth RP, very muc…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 10:57 PM
2

Yes , I cant think of anything worse than watching women when they indulge themselves. It will always turn into them lamenting about prince charming, chocolate and back rubs. In fact if you look up the word, Banal, in the dictionary there should be a picture of SaTC next to it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 08:11 PM
3

Most excellent!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 06:18 PM
5

What a fantastic post!! I'd love to know how he reacted to this change in you, I know you said you're better than ever did he say anything? Or did you talk about what you were doing or did it just all fall into place? Congrats anyway it sounds like you really pulled it together and can see how it actually gets great results :-)
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 05:03 PM
1

lol wat
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 09:09 PM
5

That was a satisfying read
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 11:14 PM
5

Out of all of that the thing that stood out was that "he feels like I don't really respect him" Men need to feel respected and I can't stress how important this is. You can work and provide all you like but all your efforts will mean shit if he feels disrespected by you. He will also react badly to you, as you have indicated. It sounds like you both have a volatile /passionate relationship with lots of issues but I think the single best thing you can do at this point is to back down and learn to…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 05:24 PM
1

No it relies on men being men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 01:05 AM
1

I think some men would, but far from the vast majority But why? Why would they not choose a version of you that was you at your best and without aging, bad health etc? Their voting of themselves out of society would only benefit the human race. So says you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 12:58 AM
6

Hamstering. He named it with his defense mechanisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 07:23 PM
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I am male. Alpha Male so bad I can't even hide it when I try. I am missing something in my life in terms of women and my woman. I am almost definitely sure that all these years the qualities that make me want to take care of a woman and love her with all my heart are RPW qualities. Can you teach me? Please? lololololololol
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 10:38 PM
2

You should totes lie to him. Paint yourself as a really nice person and not someone who is violent towards men cus men tend to not like that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 08:26 PM
1

Hes nexted you. Walk away with some dignity and leave him alone
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 08:18 PM
4

then I am sorry apology accepted. the same level of self-control as a dog Actually whenever I have been confronted with someone whom doesnt know how to behave in public and they are without malice I tend not to compare them to animals and try to show some compassion. Your veiw of men as "savages" based on cat calling is more sinister than the act of cat calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 08:14 PM
1

Dont be surprised when people call you out on your shit when you disclose things, such as, getting black out drunk and assaulting a man to the point of being arrested. Your criminal past is relevant to this topic. Wouldnt you want to know if the guy youre about to date had a conviction of violence?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 08:04 PM
0

Yep! Whether op realises it or not she is utterly disgusted and hates men. Which is is fantastic if, especially, she is a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 07:04 PM
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However, there are still some respectful men of whom I'd consider actual human beings, rather than creatures lesser than untrained dogs, who can't help but salivate and snap at the sight of something inticing, you sound like an awesome person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 06:52 PM
2

or I didn't get it across very well. Oops! I think you done great :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 06:30 PM
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I don't think I did as well as I could have Honestly, I dont think there would have been anything you could have said that would have been heard. For a sub that is supposed to be all inclusive, you go gurl, and general huginess, its actions speaks louder than its words. They are very closed minded.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 05:55 PM
1

Oh please! dont blame this on your "lack of experience" if youre that completely clueless you should not be having babies with these men and then wonder why when they come up against you splitting your loyalties between them. edit; youre a big girl now.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 08:00 PM
1

really? This is you being sarcastic? good job!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 07:54 PM
1

Are you seriously considering cutting ties with the father of your child because of a comment on RPW? If he can do better then BE better and stop making this humiliating for your "soon to be husband" jesus do you have any sense of comittment or loyalty? Or will you keep flitting from one man to another comitting to none.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 07:51 PM
1

"wtf? who are you to deny time with my kids?" This isnt about him denying you having time with your kids this is about him not wanting to have you answering to another man.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 07:20 PM
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Actually rp have the same goals as you do. They are using rp knowledge to get what they need, just as you're using rpw to get what you need
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 01:34 AM
2

He's using a bit of dread on you He is not. She is feeling dread as a by product of his, honest, desires. When a guy uses dread its intentional and its to illicit something from the girl. I believe this guy is really is struggling with loving her and wanting strange. At five months in and hes feeling like this id wager money on its just a matter of time before he caves.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 04:08 PM
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It possible to nag even when you think its for his benefit ie nagging him to go to the Drs You dont even need to "go on" about something, odd passive agressive comments can be nagging.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/14 07:56 PM
5

When I hear of heinous stuff people have done in the news and i say "god people are scum" everyone knows what I mean and what that implys. AWALT is much the same no? That its a fact of like that people are shitbags and to assume NAPALT and to give everyone the benefit of the doubt would be a dangerous thing to practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 09:21 PM
-1

Everybody can give you their own definition of what is and is not TRP and what certain terms mean and don’t mean, but ask five different guys and you get five different, often contradictory, answers. And unlike religion, there are no holy texts or official doctrines you could base an argument on instead As its so vague and varried why do bluepillers lump anyone thats remotely red with the more toxic/angry/extreme?? of redpillers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 09:13 PM
2

Well if has an absolute rule of not getting back together and you want to I would definitely not stay in touch. It will only prolong how you're feeling
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 08:23 AM
4

First things first, I am absolutely 100% accepting full responsibility for the fact that it ended. I was, amongst many other things, selfish and self-righteous. I ended things and have realised what a totally idiotic decision that what but it's now out of my hands.We've spoken, and I've been given the definitive "no" to getting back together (I think....) which I believe is my cue to start letting go. You fucked up. But I really, really do not know what to do, I've started knitting a scarf and I…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 11:47 PM
2

you give women too much credit, they absolutely would see him in a different light NOW hes a billionaire. They would suddenly see his repulsive nerdiness as cute once you throw in money to the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 09:31 PM
14

I want this for him almost as badly as he wants this for himself This is probably why he feels like hes let you down. What was your reason for wnting this so much? If you can honestly say that it was because it would make him happy and not because you wanted the "high status" SO then you need to let him know this. Supporting your man doesnt have to be an agressive display of enthusiasm. If you truly have his back then you will let him do what he needs to do even if that involves fucking up. Supp…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 08:12 PM
3

Such bullshit! And she's asking for money!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 12:46 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuavD-rcf6s you come across like this
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 01:13 AM
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Is that true about the sunglasses thing? That changes a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 05:58 PM
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Whilst dating can be seen as a "vetting process " your first date is not an interview. Just get to know him as another human being. If the guy is right for you getting to know him should be fun and it'll interest you. Show a genuine interest in him but don't grill him to find out if he's suitable. Your first date should be as relaxed as it can be as it's such an intense experience and remember he will be deciding if he wants to see you again. He probably won't want to if he feels he was being sc…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 11:14 AM
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When I was single, until a guy commited to at the very least being exclusive and introducing me to friends as his girlfriend, I focused all available energies on being hot stuff in my own right WTF does that mean??
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 07:49 PM
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You seem to be entirely focussed on the men that decide they dont give a shit because that props up your negitive veiw of TRP. There are, equally, just as many men that find it abhorent. My point is TRP doesnt have any "rules" when it comes to hitting on a taken woman. It seems your beef is with the men that "wave" those rules and not what rp is about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 12:47 AM
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Back in my day it was a given that if you started dating it was common courtesy you didnt date others. Hook up culture has driven that tradition into the ground. Its a win situation for the men and an all together nightmare for women whom want marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 12:36 AM
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He seemed very pleased with my offer. thats all you need to be concerned with
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 12:13 AM
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Well if you adore kissing and foreplay as you say you do I would say you do have some "sort" of sexdrive. Your OBGYN sounds shit and I would get a second opinion. There should not be pain and she should have investigated it further.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 09:54 PM
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Thats quite interesting you have used the term "mom territory" I do a lot of those things you do but ive never considered that ive taken a paternal role with my husband. When you say "help him study, or , Ive put us on a budget" how much of that is something he actually wants?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 09:41 PM
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I adore kissing him, foreplay and stuff, it's just the actual sex that's the problem. That sounds quite specific. Is there physical pain?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 09:37 PM
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I've heard rp men be very respectful of other people's marriages and I've heard others say they don't care. TRP doest decide whether it's acceptable or not it's down to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 06:27 PM
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Ok so this was thing that was something youd been working towards for years? Youve supported him and "shared his enthusiasm" for years on this thing we are talking about, not only that he was in full agreement that he wanted to share this special moment with you ? Then he he suddenly out of the blue excludes you? yeah next him, OR quit ommiting facts because what you say doesnt add up.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 11:45 PM
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I wouldn't call this abuse. Who called it abuse? I posted more details under the first person that asked you gave nothing of substance. Alll you said was "what im doing isnt working" well what exactly are you doing?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 11:09 PM
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ruin what for him exactly ? Youre leaving out way to much stuff
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 11:00 PM
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discovering it has made me question a lot of my actions. I was simply worried that putting myself in a position where a guy was likely seeking a ONS was a bad Ok my point is you should have questioned your actions as you were freely giving out your number and agreeing to go on a date with this guy. Try and see this from his point of view, men are not here to be picked up and put down on a whim
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 09:04 PM
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The bit about sucking it up, I took that it was advice from other people but i could be wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 08:48 PM
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you are not a slave to your "tingles" you need to stop acting on a whim and have a bit more self awareness edit to say ; if you keep acting like that you will the type of woman to frivorce because tingles
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 08:37 PM
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If he still has a bad reaction then you might want to reconsider whether you want to stay in this relationship. But its really hard to make that call when we dont know anything about the things she fighting about, she has left out ANY detail and just elluded to him being unreasonable hence the previous post thinking its a concern troll. Id like to hear of some examples from th op before Id say whether he is being unfair. edit, another comment says this "you make it sound like verbal/emotional ab…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 08:33 PM
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I think "expecting an apology" is a very agressive approach to resolving an issue. What if there is a genuine "agree to disagree" situation do you expect an apology for not agreeing with you? Therefore i'd really need examples of the type of things youre upset ove because that is really the only way of knowing how to answer this. Some men wont be dictated too which is what youre doing when you expect an apology
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 08:22 PM
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You come across as bit flakey to me. Why have you changed your mind after giving out your number to a random ( no judgement on that) but give out your number, agree to a date then go home and think better of it?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 02:33 PM
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" hes made a few references about having trouble leading because I don't follow " Theres her advice right there. Sounds like she only wants to follow under her rules. It doesn't work like that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 02:30 PM
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I tend to look for the good in people. Even crappy people have redeeming qualities or maybe that asshole was just having a bad day.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 01:39 PM
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Men can be really fuckin angry sometimes And? In fact if ive angered my man that much I would like to know what im doing wrong. Good luck cooling someone down with words only. where did i say she needed to that?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/14 10:29 PM
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You can be angry babe just as long as youre nice about it
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/14 09:41 PM
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I would say her "approach" to her husbands anger is terrible. The whole article is me me me and how she aint gonna put up with this shit and will ignore him untill he submits. I wonder where their relationshipwould be if he employed the same tactics ? What if he disagrees with her? What if he doesnt want to be ignored and wants to actually talk? By her own admission she is just as atagonistic but, no, his anger is just unacceptable and shes drawn a line in the sand.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/14 09:26 PM
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For all the people on these subs who "wave off" Freud as out dated and "debunked" they dont know what they are talking about. Yes his overt claims such as penis envy and Oedipus Complex are crude to say the least but his work around the unconscious was groundbreaking. we have so much to thank him for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 08:14 PM
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Being a sahm should be a joint decision so if it's something agreed upon the only time I imagine he would be resentful is if he works full time and pays for everything and she does fuck all and spends everything. If she pulls her weight and does what she's supposed to and makes his life as easy as it possibly can and respects him and let him know ow he's appreciated then I'm sure he'd be a very happy man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/14 12:15 PM
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Nor would I want you to dox yourself but you should know that no one is going to believe you as long as you keep coming up with these fantasical claims that just so happens to back up the lies you are saying. This latest one was just one of the many "well its funny you should say that but....." claims (read lies) Ill give you the heads up, stop being "creative" with your stories of bullshit and walk away with any last remainng shred of self respect you can muster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 09:34 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 05:26 PM
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Because they asked her to kill her husband. Are you playing the fool intentionally ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 05:01 PM
1

how do you veiw the holocaust? Be as succinct as possible please?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 04:58 PM
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I think youre telling porkies babyguineapig.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 04:57 PM
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If you come to a womans sub asking this question you are going to get more "feel good " answers like " it doesn't matter" or "well I'm short so all men are taller" but the fact is your height will be a disadvantage on some level or another. I am 5 foot and I still prefer taller men. I'd like knowing that my husband could dominate the majority of men we'd ever meet, you don't necessarily need to be tall for that BUT it does give you an advantage. Just as men prefer hotness and youth, women prefer…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/14 02:22 PM
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My point is that women like to think of their men as " protectors " they don't like them being submissive to other men as it speaks volumes about their capacity to protect them. Height is a very obvious visual display and is why women so readily like tall men but it doesn't end there. You can be 6.6 but if you have the attitude of a little bitch it will cancel out the height. So this is why I made my original comment. As long as you have the right attitude your height shouldn't matter "too" much…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/14 12:16 PM
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My guess is that you're confident around other men?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/14 10:45 AM
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Nice one! I like that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 04:47 PM
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You're gonna have to be exceptional relationship material to get this guy to commit. What would you say is his incentive to commit to you at this point in time?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 01:54 PM
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I am just really disappointed that he didn't communicate this with me until the very last minute. I don't know what I can do to ensure this doesn't happen in the future with something else. I am calling BS on this. By your own admission you said he is fantastic and you know this is the right thing to do for you both. I think you just want to rally up some bullshit female support to prop up your delluded thinking
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 08:23 PM
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hush, back to the kitchen with you young lady!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 07:18 PM
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If you're genuinely interested you can read the side bar. Eli5 won't do it justice
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 09:29 AM
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You are not getting the correct advice on this thread
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 08:14 AM
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You go girlfriend! I Think you're in the wrong sub
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 08:13 AM
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No animal comes before your SO
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 05:03 AM
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Thats a great film. From what I can remember Charlie Prince was more a typical alpha. They are not as appealing as crows character. Ben Wade was likeable and was doing something "good"( he was also very very manly) but the type of men HHL is talking about are veiwed as not very nice, selfish, imorral to the wider public because most people have waaayy more compassion than they do and recognise them as something"bad" Your average man or even what TRP describes as a "alpha" would be horrified at s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 08:41 PM
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Tbf he is behaving like a big girl.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 09:00 AM
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and you are NOT welcome here ...so fuck off
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 12:04 AM
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lol sorry babes you do not dicate what i do :)
/r/askTRP21/10/14 10:00 PM
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your words were "often stopped by strange men" you sound like youre back tracking babes
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:49 PM
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Ill tell you why they think youre a troll. Your story reaks of "made up to gain validation" NO MAN cold approaches on the street to comment on your "elegance or grace" that is out and out bullshit or female wishful thinking lol
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:25 PM
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Don't be scared, it's awesome! Be nice be friendly and take your cues from him. If he wants to socialise then make an effort to get to know his friends or if he wants spend time with you then stay with him. Either way just be relaxed and enjoy yourself. Re the footwear maybe wear a kitten heel? Lastly be sure to thank him for the invite and let him know how much you appreciate him wanting to introduce you to his friends :-)
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 03:11 PM
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When I gave up smoking I struggled but pushed through it. After three months I knew in my heart I'd beaten it. It was a great feeling. But it was only then the smoking dreams came. It was my unconscious playing out my old patterns. I think your dream is a bit like that.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 12:55 PM
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Inferiority complex much lol so many of your comments are about the perfect asthetics, you literally ooze inferiority with your balding "dark skin" trope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:42 PM
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Of course the mods are important to maintaining civility in the sub, but that does not make you the be-all-and-end-all of all RP knowledge. actually the mods are here to educate you on rp subjects and to point out your errors . Learn to know when to shut up an listen.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/14 07:40 PM
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not much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 05:58 PM
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and by raise I mean raise properly) theres your problem ? define properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 05:57 PM
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Lol ok
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/14 03:54 PM
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This is so convoluted I'm struggling with what the point is. Maybe a Tldr?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/14 03:40 PM
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You're not lonely Skratt. Do you even know how many subscribers this sub has?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:31 PM
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Check it before you wreck it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:30 PM
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It all comes down to this. Your comment should be the banner of TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:30 PM
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Yes that's exactly what I do :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 05:13 PM
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I am not dull. I am not timid. I am not quiet and I am certainly not a back stabber.I am not impressed by wealth. I may enjoy it and want it if I can but it most definitely doesn't impress me. I am also very feminine. To put your narrow idea of women being feminine in the bracket that you do is fatuous as it is way more complex then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:52 PM
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There is a reason she's concerned about tbf because men are incredibly loyal to their best mates and having him give loyalty like that to another woman will cause a problem and it's just a case of when.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 02:58 PM
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*fist bump
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 07:42 PM
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You can but it is such a complex interchangeable thing. Like how long she's known you how much she likes you how dominant you are ordinarily. It's a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 07:01 PM
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Lulz
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:46 PM
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http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/423/402/39c.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:45 PM
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My job deals in people being vulnerable and I openly encourage it so I concede I am not the obvious choice in answering this but I can tell you this even when ex's displayed vulnerability ( at my encouragement) to me I never hated them or thought bad of them and I also wanted to help them but It never made me want to jump them either. It made me feel like I was the parent in the relationship and that doesn't do it for me :-/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:40 PM
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Some people are so fussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:34 PM
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Not catty just don't put up with bullshit n bad behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:32 PM
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Lol she's shit testing your boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 05:26 PM
1

I done it! I ran out of rice an yogurt but had some nan bread with it. It was actually fantastic and the family loved it https://www.dropbox.com/s/ar1zxztwcxzgzie/DSC_0280.JPG?dl=0 10 out of 10 would eat again lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 12:08 AM
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its more an "expectation" or a "want" I can expect and want the vows my husband said but that doesnt mean ill get them ( maybe he will change his mind) but to feel entitled speaks volumes about the type of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:37 PM
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Nothing. I dont feel im entitled to a single thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:33 PM
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oooooh get a load of you! Ms serious!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:17 PM
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It's being so cheerful that keeps you going isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:14 PM
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You get self loathing in all walks of life. tbp is no exception. Personally I think I'm sensational!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:10 PM
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Lol the rules are if you're clearing up for someone you don't look through their private photos. But hey his reaction tho
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 12:22 AM
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His reactions to the photos I found that he never told me about_different story Yes because he is supposed to give you an artinary of all personal belongings to avoid awkwardness when you confront him on the stuff you find in his home whilst "cleaning"
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 10:10 PM
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because we need to respect his space and autonomy lol good luck with that going down well with any guy
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 10:07 PM
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Put it this way your friend will be more succesful than a woman who is "respecting his boundaries" and not tidying up for him. Girl game, it work
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 10:04 PM
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I'm afraid of what will happen if my achievements overtake him. Which I'm confident there's a high chance they might. Does it sit well with you that you have these feeling? If not then challenge yourself and know that you would be the shitty person in this relationship if indulging these thoughts. You lower you value considerably by going with these thoughts. I mean does it not feel utterly shit that your feelings to him can change like this in direct correlation to how succesful he is compaired…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 09:51 PM
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Who is this "she"? She that is spending her days bear foot and naked in the kitchen? I thought you was arguing the concept of cleaning for a man
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 01:00 AM
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I do not agree with this post at all. Sure going into another person's space and overstepping your mark is not good but clearing up for your boyfriend? Fuck what the fuck is wrong with that. I use "acts of service" as a way of demonstrating my affection. Talking about "infantilising" him and lack of respect just screams feminism to me. imposing on a mans space is one thing but demonstrating a level of care via cleaning for him is something entirely different
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 12:09 AM
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yeahhh dont think shes gonna be all hunkfuckingdory folding linen shooting the breeze with this guy.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 09:34 PM
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Mine works nights but when he's not I always get up first and fix his breakfast for him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 07:48 PM
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That's so awesome and amazingly well organised
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 07:47 PM
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And that is a huge red flag. She's behaving entitled and entitled to your money. Honestly? I can say quite truthfully that never once have I asked a bf or my husband to take me out and pay for me. Proceed with caution.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 05:18 PM
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You don't need to delete stuff just because it's down voted. My comment was meant to be funny:-)
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 02:57 PM
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Or as I like to say to my friends " happy birthday I hope you get everything you deserve " lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 01:55 PM
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My goal is to not be a disgusting slob and clean my dressing table. It is minging!
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 08:11 PM
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I would pass it off as a joke. Forgetfulness in old age is no joke.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 08:09 PM
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You fein superiority by regarding yourself as an anomaly. You break the mold and look at how successful I am. When the reality is you have just been called out on your AF/BB. There is nothing remarkable about your story
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 08:07 PM
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I cant imagine coming in to over 2 million and before I even tell my husband I ask an online forum for advice. Shits telling.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 07:56 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 02:16 PM
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Lol you're not super nice to anyone :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 02:10 PM
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Sure your relationship is equal. Fast forward to when your relationship is under pressure (for whatever reason) one of you will surface to hold more power than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 09:41 AM
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and you think youre altruistic? lolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 12:16 AM
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so you are saying you think everyone modifies who they are to get women and/or friends? i don't. most people i know don't. that's fake narcissistic behavior to do that. lol youre wrong my friend. You clearly have no understanding of human behaviour. Go back to reading The Survival of the Prettiest or whatever magazine youre currently reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 11:34 PM
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My question is, if you are 5'5, don't you think there might be a reason for that? Every circumstance in your life is meant to challenge you and give you just the right lessons to move you forward. No there is no "reason" for your height. Just like there is no "reason" for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:30 PM
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Fair enough :) its all good.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:50 PM
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but I'm fortunate to have very low standards. nods every cloud n all that!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 07:45 PM
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This reads like propaganda to me. Its exactly the type of twee romantic idea of men nd women that only women indulge. Show me a man who reads this and says " oh fuck yes" and ill show you a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:35 PM
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does this market/democratic driven model cause red pillers to lack an authentic internal identity? No. Are you trying to tell me you dont try to make freinds or romantic relations? because if you do you will, on some level or another, modify/compensate/comply on your behaviour/personality to suit the peo;le you like and how to gain their attention. men are post wall when they look older than 28, how does red pill account for this reality? is red pill only for people that look under 29? or is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 07:12 PM
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Trust me you'd be writing a whole different post if your husband didn't show an active interest in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 06:06 PM
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Ok so why don't you like thinking about her getting boned by another man? Sounds like a stupid question because of the obviousness of it. Men DO NOT like it. It repulses them. And the idea of them doing it with more and more then more of the reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 04:34 PM
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Yes they have type of skillet they use for the job (a taval I think) and a bit like pancakes the first one for practice lol well for me anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 04:28 PM
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I have made it but my hob is electric and you really need a gad flame to make them puff up at the end of cooking. (they go flat again but they need to puff up like a ball in the last bit of cooking) I love how simple the recipe is and how delish they are. I believe chapatti flour (atta) is half white half wholemeal and a pinch of salt and water! So simple bit the technique for cooking is just as Important :-)
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 04:11 PM
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I LOVE yogurt on the side most westerners turn their nose up. I'm gonna use thighs maybe take a little of the skin off. I shall serve mine with rice because rice lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 03:44 PM
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Why the fuck should I give you details about anything when you continually hide deflect and obfuscate. I'm finished talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 02:50 PM
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You're barking up the wrong tree. I was trying to help BlueF understand how banging loads of people might not be a great idea. Read the whole thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 02:49 PM
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I see you like it so much you do all you can to not think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 01:45 PM
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Can you see how you are equating a past experience that's done and has nothing to do with the present and you have a strong dislike for it. It has nothing to do with cheating that's just irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 01:23 PM
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Can you give me a clear detailed reason why you don't like thinking about your so previously banging people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 01:03 PM
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Are you really trying to call me out on a nick name? You are hilarious. Woefully fuckiing hilarious. I think very highly of putting people's needs first. My profession is one of helping people and I volunteer my time to a charity not sure where you're going with this. It seems you have an idea of a "redpiller " and speak to us all as though we are one person. You also brag at length at how fantastic you are but you show nothing of substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 01:01 PM
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I think protection is the number one thing women want everything else can be met if they feel protected. Incidentally for men I think knowing they can protect that they are of use and capable is equally as important to them. I'd say this is what is at the heart of all of our relationships but people misconstrue it with things like money or title.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:35 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:28 AM
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Yes and this is why it's unfair BUT there are lots of things in life that aren't fair. Lots. And complaining about men and shaming them for an overwhelmingly prevalent trait is fatuous. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:25 AM
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Well well well isn't this post ironic? You come across as raging teenager who's just grasped the concept of empathy and altruism is on a crusade to teach the world. All the while displaying zero empathy to the forum you are preaching to. Slow clap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:20 AM
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I'm a woman and like you I used to think that men shouldn't care about a womans sexual history but the fact is they just do. Every single one of my ex's and dudes I know have never wanted to know the ins and outs of their girlfriend previous sex life. I'm with you on the fact men that berate and openly hostile to whist banging said sluts is a marker of a more "threatened " man but even the cool guys would rather not know. Saying that men shouldn't be repulsed by sluts ( on some level) is like sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:16 AM
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http://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/1993658/homestyle-chicken-curry lets do this one. We have untill the end of the week ok? If you tweek anything make a note of it and ill do the same. Make a note of what you serve it with as well .
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 12:26 AM
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read this it explains it perfectly http://minarchyblog.wordpress.com/2010/09/03/pinchbeck-diggers-or-how-middle-class-women-conflate-wallet-size-with-dominance-and-are-perenially-disappointed/
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 11:55 PM
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Yes you guessed wrong. The car the house an all the money in the world does not compete with raw male agression.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 11:53 PM
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put it this way, when you got a load of women together and they all start competing discussing their husbands jobs, saying "he is the CEO of whogivesafuck" as opposed to "he gets his income from about 60% dayjob, 10% military and 30% rental income" doesnt have quite the same ring to it for the trained goldiggers ear.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 11:34 PM
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He seems to have a knack of making life easy. He's like the king of life hacks lol part of that is delegating jobs to me but on special occasions i get those perks as well lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 11:25 PM
2

its the fact youre busting your balls with three jobs. Women will not see that how you see it
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 09:12 PM
2

happy cake day dude :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 08:45 PM
2

aw you sweetie! we should choose a recipe to follow and both cook it on the same week and compare notes after. Id gladly answer any curry related questions you have
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 06:20 PM
15

If my husband has bought me anythin like a phone or device he unpacks it and pre charges it then puts it back. I always thought that was the epitome of thoughtful.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 05:40 PM
0

When women want to "communicate " they usually have an agenda. I think if communication is going to happen they need to listen first and foremost
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 02:39 PM
2

I'm with you. My husband can get sex anywhere so to stick with one woman it's going to have to be a bit more than a jump.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 02:37 PM
1

I'm not pretending anything. I wasn't talking about uni cyclists just pointing something out about psychos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 02:29 PM
2

Ooh I'm big on asian as well. I adore Thai food but am more adept with Indian.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 11:31 PM
1

You make it sound ominous. Maybe youve gravitated towards a career that is in keeping with your nature. I am also in a "care" centric profession and I am proud of what I do. Caring for people (if i can) gives a lot of meaning to my life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 11:08 PM
1

Im big on recipe websites. What do you like ? I swear by epicurious and Good food.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 10:46 PM
3

she wasnt talking about art. She was talking about beauty. Something we are all drawn to, even if you have managed to divert off the common path, it still remains there is a "golden ratio" of beauty.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 10:17 PM
2

say what you want about those type of people but they are very "exciting" Thats the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 08:14 PM
1

you dont know what youre talking about. There have been plenty DT, psychopathic women from varying places on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 08:12 PM
2

I know a woman who lost her children. Her unmet mothering instinct was off the chart. She changed profession to that of a childminder and babysat for anyone who let her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 05:16 PM
2

The ones I follow are Showerthoughts, Mildlyinteresting, food, foodporn, and a load of others that are either NSFW or stuff women usually dislike.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 06:47 AM
3

Head down. Mouth shut. preach.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 10:56 PM
4

ding ding ding Er have something goldish 🌕 its gold on mobile
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 10:36 PM
4

"how do you give yourself to completely to a person who shows affection but not as much as you do? " He probably is in his own way.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 02:17 PM
2

LMAOOOOOOOO are you for real? Your are like a born again christian trying to show me the way is that it?? purleeese !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 08:55 PM
3

talking to you gets old real quick. Stop Obfuscating and name dropping and taking the moral highground just because you think youre altruistic. I can tell you now if you want to get in to a pissing comp about who is the more altrustic out of you and I, you will lose. You assume way to much about the people you are arguing with such as claiming my life is parasitic. I at least have the decency to not assume your lifestyle. You think youre altruistic?? then stop being an asshole to strangers on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 08:46 PM
3

If that was all the info I had, I would flip a coin. If I knew more about the strange kids parents, I might make a different decision. you dont have children do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 07:47 PM
3

Just because you're on a crusade to make society a better place doesn't mean others have to. Some people don't care and I don't think it's up to you to say who or what is antisocial
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 05:01 PM
11

" I do not grunt or make male noises in the gym" Aw bless you! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 04:46 PM
4

All of them go on to marry the next woman. This speaks volumes and it tell me that whatever reason these guys don't want to marry you are profound. Conveniently you have left it all out bar " I like the last word" You can't just "flip a switch " in men you have to work hard.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 04:14 PM
3

It's a bit like me assuming my husband will be nervous when he goes for a job interview because I always get nervous before a job interview. You don't conceive that someone else might be fiercely loyal because you aren't or wasn't.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 11:48 AM
2

I see you. Share recipes, make food, feed the troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 08:39 AM
7

: New, only 3 months in. I’m often feeling vulnerable and insecure, he's too good for me---and I also feel scared that I don’t know him well enough yet you wanna know why you feel those feelings? Its because you cheat at the drop of the hat and project that onto your current relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 11:02 PM
1

yeah I can see that. Thats what i found interesting the differing veiws on what made it more content.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 08:24 PM
4

I think what he's saying re the strategic way of banging men from the offset is this. He regards himself as the top tiny percentage of alpha/high value males and he will only commit if the woman can't help herself and bang him straight away otherwise you snooze you lose. So in his mind he thinks he's worth the risk because if you win you get him. No man is worth banging on the first date to secure commitment. Wife material isn't determined by her swiftness in putting out.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 05:22 PM
2

How is that comment supposed to "make them" feel insecure AND attractive? Do you really think that was some some sort of propaganda to convert someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 03:50 PM
3

It's a game of push and pull This is what its all about and if women could learn the finer points of this theyd succeed but I find from my own experience this is an intuitive thing and not a prescribed thing
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 09:02 PM
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I dont envy girls trying to navigate this sort of thing today. Luckily when i was young and stupid I didnt really think about it and played everything by ear. I think when you have a rigid prescription for how you determine what you do you will run into problems.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 07:28 PM
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I found that thread quite interesting. There were a lot of people commenting on how not denying sex made for a more content relationship but from what I can make out the sex is by product of a more submissive woman by nature which I think is the real reason for the content relationship. It's a bit like saying " people who eat wholegrains have healthier hearts" when really people who eat wholegrains are far more likely to excersise which is the real reason for the healthy heart
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 11:24 AM
4

Have an upvote for loveliness :-)
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 10:39 AM
0

Asking permission from your husband for things you do in life is one of the most important things you can do as a wife. It demonstrates a respect that is worth its weight in gold
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 07:19 PM
1

I actually agree with you. "Atheism" is just another religion. The reason I posted it was for variety. As much as I dislike religion I love the patriarchal element to it but I also really like the idea of serving your husband for no other reason than you just want to and not for god.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 07:03 PM
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It sounds like you just picked up where his mother left off. Don't be his mum be his wife. You need to stop controlling everything. Don't underestimate making food from scratch for your husband. If he likes pizza and you make it yourself as opposed to buying one it will not go unnoticed. Even if he prefers the shop bought he will love the sentiment. I really think you should go to him and tell him you don't want to parent him anymore and that you want to take a more servile position in the relat…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 06:58 PM
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If you're a wife and you hear your husband say "happy wife happy life" You should know it's code for "my wife is a bitch "
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 03:14 PM
13

This relationship isn't just "backwards" you are living a life where you are an overworked overbearing parent and he is the child. He sounds so controlled he won't even complain about the things he hates. Writing his resume and applying for jobs on his behalf leaves me thinking that you are the one that needs "encouraging" not him. The dynamic of your relationship is so extreme I get the impression that if you suddenly changed and stopped controlling everything your so would be freaked out like …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 09:33 AM
1

lol really? I offer to pay because i really appreciate spending time with you
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 02:28 AM
7

your husband needs to give you a dutch oven.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 01:45 AM
4

You have a terrible attitude. My advice to you is to pull that rod from out your ass and chill the fuck out
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 10:56 PM
1

You're weird
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 05:13 PM
2

Don't be late. Offer to pay.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 04:35 PM
1

I agree it's pretty embarrassing saying I'm an athiest. It's a bit like how smoking has become shameful
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 03:28 PM
3

Holy shit! Why on earth are you complaining about him? Because he has a second chance at life and literally re arranged his whole life and has you and is showing how much he appreciates it all. Jesus you need to re evaluate your thinking for real. Edit: " on a side note he hasn't read trp recently and I can see him slipping back into beta" Yeah you can fuck right off with that attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 02:14 PM
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" you love me like you love pot roast?!?!?!" " I LOVE pot roast!!" If my husband told me he loved me like Marmite I'd know I'm going to be saved from a burning house lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 12:01 PM
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Because atheism is just another religion
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 12:54 AM
1

It's so glaringly obvious Iol
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 12:47 AM
2

Nothing more sinister than a woman who is "fantastic " when stuff goes her way yet can turn on the ugly when she's pissed
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 12:43 AM
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A room mate that you expect far to much from.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 01:39 PM
2

Let them collect them. Any man who plays second fiddle won't be a great catch lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 10:38 AM
2

One of the number one candidates for a back up husband should be your ex husband. Speechless!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 06:13 PM
3

Come out come out wherever you are....
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 12:23 PM
4

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Po%C3%A8te_maudit Romanticizing the tortured artist. Its kind of linked to "the bad boy" thing
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:28 PM
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Its not always the case. I get along with anyone I am really social and love people however I have experienced a lot of women take an exception to me and its always women never men. They are usually insecure bitchy and needy types and yes its usually jealousy as they hate seeing a new female enter their space and who gets on really well with everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 01:06 PM
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"I thought I could change him" Oh got the amount of times I have heard that from women dating bad boys.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 12:54 PM
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(Also if women actually met Brad Pitt in person they would be disappointed with his average height of 5'11") LOL yeah meeting the one inch away from six foot brad pitt is going to be a huge dissapointment if youre completely fickle and batshit crazy
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 12:52 PM
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Yes I meant that for women "a job" doesn't really hold the same meaning it does to a man. Furthermore having 50% of the population now working when they didn't before displaces a lot of men out of the workforce. Men thats sense of purpose is so closely wound up in their ability to work.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:04 PM
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And that's why you see men committing suicide when they lose their jobs and not women.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 07:41 PM
5

Awesome!!! Nice one lifter :-)
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/14 06:15 PM
2

Show her this sub. Edit: as an after thought. My best friend and I live completely different lives and part of the appeal of our relationship is that we don't interfere with eachother we are just there for eachother. Your friend is living her life just as you are and it's her perogative to fuck shit up and only she can make the decision to change. You can either spend all your time trying to change her or you can just be mates and stop worrying about it. But if she is getting shitty with you bec…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 05:15 PM
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its a good job you're here to correct us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:25 PM
3

oh please
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 08:46 PM
1

If women are opressed by "the patriarchy" then so are men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 06:48 PM
12

in most cases, second fiddles have earned their spot. There you go!
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 06:29 PM
5

You are far from a lost cause. I imagine you feel this way as your virginity was special to you and now it has gone and he has broken it off this must feel disappointing but try to see it from the pov that your intention was good and you gave it to your (in your words) best friend and someone you cared enough to give him your all. He broke it off not you, you was in for the long run. You don't sound feckless you sound like you want a solid relationship and I think that you won't have a problem w…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 03:37 PM
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It's not necessarily malicious it could be you're too frightened of being alone. Like I suggested in my PM you could introduce him to some of this new stuff you've got into and give him a chance to get into it aswell
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 03:10 PM
2

Serious question, why are you here? You're a feminist who posts on trollx and is disgusted by TRP so why come here and try and pick it apart? I can't speak for anyone else but I am more than happy to converse with you but I'd like to think you're here for reasons other than being critical and judgmental
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 03:05 PM
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This is very telling... " I don't think dumping him so I can know this dynamic with another guy is wise" In your mind the only reason you'd let this guy go is to swing to another branch. How about you let him go because you didn't feel you could give him what he deserves. Because you are spending a lot of time on the net bemoaning your lacklustre relationship ( reading through your history) How about you done the decent thing and stopped leading him on because you're to scared to be single? Also…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 02:52 PM
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Strategy, game, whatever they're just words to describe something similar unless you want to impart you're wisdom on it but you seem to be splitting hairs. I don't know where you got the idea anyone thought badgering someone was a strategy but I doubt anyone here does
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 02:35 PM
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"isn't this more relationship advice" I don't you you tell me. You're the one who talked about "advanced game" Even when you're married believe it or not some people still like to keep things exciting and put in effort instead of turning into a sexless fat slob
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 02:16 PM
1

Do enlightened us with your advanced game, you know? To be productive and not just critical
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 01:53 PM
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Skype is the obvious choice but it's also nice to send stuff via the post make a little parcel of nice things he'd appreciate. Not everyones cup of tea but my husband went away once for a while and I used to make him playlists of music for him to listen to. Photos are always good just showing him what your life is like etc Also a surprise visit would be nice when you're particularly missing eachother :-)
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 01:51 PM
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No worries Your English is great! Your words were " ok my window for attracting a mate will close up soon" You feel as tho time is running out and now you start to think about what you really want. This isn't bad in itself but the point is there is another person in this equation, your boyfriend. You are basically saying he's doesn't quite cut it for you and this, I feel, is unfair. If I were you I would take an honest look at what you want and once you decide stick with it. If you end up feelin…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 11:23 AM
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Your words were " I feel afraid of becoming resentful in the future " And who will you resent? And all this is coming conveniently when you think your options are dwindling.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 10:53 AM
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You went from one relationship to the next without really thinking about it meanwhile you have a man who's committed to you and trust me you are thinking about someone more alpha. Taller extrovert confident. I think there is every danger you will be resentful if you feel like this already and who will you be resentful to? Your quiet decent boyfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 10:35 AM
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Spare him the heartache you will undoubtedly inflict in this guy. 3.5 years in and you're already fantasising about some Alpha guy, something your boyfriend is not. He is "decent" read nice and I feel for him. Maybe show him your post and see what he thinks. In all fairness I can't argue with wanting to be dominated and to feel protected but you are toying with men when you do it in this manner
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 09:59 AM
1

Lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 09:20 PM
2

This is awesome!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 08:36 PM
1

oh do tell me why i shouldnt be here having an opinion of a man who ends a relationship when his gf wants to care for HER DYING MOTHER! stfu
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 08:00 PM
1

Her mother was dying. He sounds like a child
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:53 PM
1

How can you possibly trust this man. After reading your history I am in no doubt this man is unreliable
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:30 PM
0

Yeah ok
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:27 PM
1

Yes let's embrace our flaws
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:26 PM
1

And you are in the wrong sub
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:23 PM
0

Right. He was Butt hurt you wanted to care for your dying mother. Bullshit
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:21 PM
0

Really?? If that's the truth an the whole truth why on earth do you hold no ill will?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:18 PM
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Yeah why a man wouldnt want a woman less demanding less volatile with fewer problems baffles me
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 10:02 AM
2

What first attracted you to the RPW mindset? I didnt choose the rpw life it chose me. What was your experience like transitioning to living a RP life The more rp i am the more awesome my husband is What are some examples of ways it has changed your relationship with your SO? Once i started to compliment my husband instead of being his equal my marriage improved 100%
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 10:00 PM
3

youth is wasted on the young lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 08:49 PM
3

It sounds to me like he still answers to his family and this would be a red flag imo
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 08:18 PM
5

Its is doable but it doesnt mean you want just anyone to be the parent to your kids. In fact I want someone awesome as ultimately they will have such a large part in how they turn out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 07:58 PM
0

" it hurts he thinks so little of me" He thinks enough of you to be a mother to his children.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 12:19 PM
2

ok but im still gonna go against my biology and stay loyal to my husband. furthermore im gonna judge op for giving into it when the wellfare of her so is at stake
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 09:01 PM
2

Nope. wont be nagging ever!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 08:05 PM
2

"maybe the world shouldn't be so judgmental" But it is. Very much so and very harshly. This is the real world as opposed to the nice and convenient world you would like.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/14 06:41 PM
2

Men take a big risk getting married. Women take a risk not getting marriage from a ltr. I agree to a degree marriage is just a bit of paper but the fact is in the eyes of the world and how the world treats you if you're married, it means a great deal.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/14 06:39 PM
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Why don't you ask him " what would be the perfect packed lunch for you?" Then make it. Edit cus I'm feeling generous lol buy a food thermos and give him some hot food. A big meaty casserole!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/14 06:27 PM
2

It's inevitable that a relationship changes over time and what women like you fail to see is the benefits of what it changes into. Instead they harp on about the past excitement and thrill. After a while you will get bored, become resentful and then leave or if you do stay you will spend all your time bitching about how dull your so is completely missing the point. Point being you're intitled and shallow. Edit. Not necessarily you op but what you say is a red flag imo but I'm more talking about …
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/14 06:24 PM
2

Well said!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 06:07 PM
10

People always misguidedly throw money at something thinking it compensates for a human touch
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 06:06 PM
1

She's taking it personally that you're having fun and not giving her your attention. In her mind she takes it as an insult and I'm guessing in your mind you are just out with friends kicking back. She's now trying to manipulate you into doing what she wants. I mean really? This makes her question your relationship? She needs to get over it
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:09 PM
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It's really hard to comment whilst not really knowing the people involved but what I do find interesting / odd is the fact that these three people got together to discuss your relationship this way. Either they are being weird and manipulating or there is more to this and they are genuine For what it's worth I think it's encouraging how your so reacted to this. As an after thought, is your dad "under the thumb" of your mum and whos mother is the grandparent to? Edit it's a bit of a flag to me th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 03:22 PM
3

But he's not marrying every woman. A woman he was previously happy to marry. What do you think it is about finding trp that made him change his mind? Because from what I can see he must see in her something that resonates OR he's aware his smv will climb and he is curious about his future options.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 03:03 PM
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It sucks that he was once happy to marry you but since finding these subs he now won't. Do you think there's anything he sees in you that has made him change his mind? Because in my mind if you were ticking all the boxes so to speak, reading stuff online wouldn't change much as he would understand he has the real deal. Maybe reading this stuff has joined the dots fir him and he now has a language that describes some if the more negative things he sees or feels. If it's none of the above I can on…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 01:53 PM
3

Your own personal experience doesn't determine human nature
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 03:56 PM
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I know you wasn't referring to me I was using myself as a figure of speech. It was when you say "why deny biology " I took that to mean, well Fuck it it's our biology, why bother trying. Men have there own biological drives but you don't see them giving into them all the time other wise the world would be a far more threatening place and likewise I expect women to keep there shit in check esp when op is basically using men then throwing them away when something better comes along.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 03:12 PM
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Personally I would like to see less of the discussions that get bogged down in shades of lipstick and types of crafty hobbies I can do to more of the discussions on how to best relate to my husband. Yes wearing make up is part of keeping myself appealing but if I need anymore info on make up and how to apply it etc I'd go to a sub that's more suitable You could always pop over to the irc chat we talk about all sorts on there make up included :-)
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 10:57 AM
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Ok it's my nature, does that mean I should just forget about trying to be a loyal wife? A wife who commits and sticks with it. Or can we all just say " fuck it it's my nature "
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 08:40 AM
2

at that shrivelled old age pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 10:14 PM
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My SO is aware of my history so he does express concern and strong disapproval when he thinks I might be getting into certain situations that may lead me to lose perspective. and rightly so I would give you a wide berth. Its good youre honest about your nature but whats more important is you will never be happy. You are the type of woman i detest, you have your beady eye on the next best thing. Where do you think it will end? what happens when you cant trade up and you have to trade down? you wi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 09:23 PM
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Welcome to the sub :-) and thanks for introducing yourself. Going by what you say I think you will gain a lot from being here with regards to looking for a relationship. Hopefully make some friends as well Btw Personally I think the saying "I" a lot is a good thing. It means you're not focusing on others and thinking about you and what you're doing.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 07:54 PM
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heh words shmords lol point being when a womans love is unconditional to her man or as unconditional as far as it can be it will set in motion a really positive response from her man but if a woman tries to steer, encourage, or call it what you want she is manipulating him and i think she will get, one way or another, a negitive response. Its all good :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 12:37 AM
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You don't need to apologise to me :-) I think it's an interesting thing because if a woman is behaving in a away that's pleasing to her man and she does so because she loves him then that will inspire her man to react positively to her but the minute a woman has an "agenda" and thinks she can " dictate " how her man behaves based on how she treats him then that's a sure fire way to either betasizing him or divorce
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 12:21 AM
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WTF edit that to say. IMO training or conditioning your man is manipulating your man
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 11:27 PM
0

lol you is funny. Where do you get the impression she hates men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 10:41 PM
9

Is it possible that your "picker" is broken? most womens are
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 09:55 PM
10

I have no idea if there is a RP way to stay cool :P sleep with a wet sheet eat salad be nice to the boyf k bai
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 08:28 PM
1

More like looking for advice on coping with trust issues while still pulling off captain/xo but you didnt though did you? You came here asking how to not react the way you do when your so is embarassing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 07:19 PM
1

You didn't need to explicitly say " I blame him" but you you say he is an embarrassment you are implying he is doing something wrong. My husband has behaved in a way I cant say I was thrilled with on occasion it happens but I would feel like a traitor if I judged him the way you judge your boyfriend. I just think he has his reasons and I'll get behind them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 06:22 PM
1

Well for a start you can stop inadvertently blaming him for your issues. I say therapy but I would say that I'm a therapist lol other than that try being more congruent re yourself
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 03:37 PM
4

You don't trust him. You probably don't trust anyone which would explain you feeling the need to control everything. Your questions should be directed solely on yourself "why don't I trust him" "why do I want to control everything " "Why am I framing everything as if this is my bf problem an not mine"
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:37 PM
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If you're getting embarrassed it's your problem. This has nothing to do with him. If you're saying what he's doing is clearly repugnant then you chose the wrong man. If not then stop being embarrassed by him and putting what other people think of you over how your so behaves.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:38 PM
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welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 08:46 PM
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you seem naive unless youre ok with hooking up then thats cool but if not really gonna get any redpill advice here. If youre not cool with hooking up and srsly want a relationship I think youre going to be sorely dissapointed. The guy is almost 100% thinking he is going to bang you. If you go you should be prepared for that. Try looking elsewhere for a relationship tinder is probably the worst place you can go to for that .
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 01:35 PM
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Thanks for that tip: lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 01:23 PM
1

ark at her!! lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 07:25 PM
9

Don't underestimate a mans loyalty. If you make him happy in a way know one else does it doesn't go un noticed. I am not threatened by someone else's looks but I'd be threatened if someone made my husband happy
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 12:50 PM
1

Youre coming off neurotic. Chill the fuck out he is consistant. Has he changed his mind or is he thinking more realistically about "when"
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 09:14 PM
1

But that is not what we have so clearly been discussing really? from your op you mentioned he talked hypothetically about marriage so what if he wants to wait a bit longer it sounds like he is more measured and you are all over the place desperate to marry him
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 09:04 PM
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(e.g. him wanting to have sex in the bed right next to his younger brother) your bf has issues with boundaries. Like really big ones.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 07:42 PM
2

Hindsight is a marvelous thing!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 06:27 PM
4

Well you are as far as you possibly can be. (with effort) Ideally I like men that look like Brad Pitt in fight club but it doesn't diminish anything to my husband :-)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 03:56 PM
3

Why is that depressing?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 03:41 PM
4

What happens if you husband loses his job?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 12:37 PM
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While she still loved him, Karen began to feel embarrassed by Matthew's blue-collar jobs Fuck Karen!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 11:05 PM
2

yes lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 09:16 PM
7

It looks like your both on the same page imo
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 04:47 PM
9

Women: Know Your Limits! Harry Enfield - BBC come…: http://youtu.be/LS37SNYjg8w I couldn't help it
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 01:21 PM
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yeah keep letting your, wife , dictate your fate with those big ole eyelashes lol you both deserve eachother :)
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:06 AM
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No I did not start with the name calling I only stated betas are smitten by such fatuous displays of "female submissiveness" I didnt say YOU was I wasnt lecturing you i was commenting on a thread thats all :) Why its "obvious" i dont know what im talking about? My marriage of 20 yrs tells me Ive done something right.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:56 PM
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Im sorry you took that so personally. It was a comment in general to men just like yours was in general to women. However I wont be reverting to name calling.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:54 PM
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The redpill women don't even understand submissiveness or how it can control a man. that comment is wrong on so many different levels. Yes we do know the value in submitting and no we have no desire to control men. How you deduced that from our sub baffles me. IMO when girl game is so easily disarming when she bats her eye lashes and talks like a child youre a beta. Girl game can help and enhance a relationship but it should never be able to lead a relationship around like a cock on a lead
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:52 PM
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You dont know what youre talking about. This guy is using her. We will never encourage her to stick around for a man like this
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 09:24 PM
4

I'm just walking out the door but I'm going to pm you when I get back in about 20 mins
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 07:32 AM
12

If he cared for you he wouldn't continue to see you and spare your feelings I wish I could tell you something more positive ( maybe someone else will) but he knows he could have you with the click of his fingers and his interest just isn't enough. Honestly? I think you're drawing out the inevitable.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 07:12 AM
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You won't. How old is he? I feel bad you. I understand how you're feeling and it's rotten but the best thing you can do is walk away from this man with your chin up. I'm sorry it's not what you want to hear and Im almost positive you won't take my advice ( I know what it's like to feel like that about someone) but honestly this won't work out and you you should forget about this man
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 06:31 AM
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My advice to you is to not see this man again. I sincerely hope you are not having sex with him or plan to. Cut your losses and move on. This one will not end well for you
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 05:58 AM
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Don't feel sorry for him, he knows. Feel sorry for the men that don't get it and are plugging away at a hopeless marriage / relationship
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 12:38 AM
3

But maybe I was being over sensitive. No you're being oblivious.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 12:11 AM
1

c'mere an hug it out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 11:51 PM
1

youre also a moron lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 11:33 PM
1

I have a gay twink face and jacked up eyes, so I cannot be a true robust masculine slayer. yeah cus youre a fuckin moron lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 11:29 PM
1

develeopment you fucking moron
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 11:26 PM
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