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Great advice! And how much do looks matter in this do you think ?
/r/seduction08/01/26 12:52 PM
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How can one learn to be this quick
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:48 AM
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Don't be too friendly, make your intentions known. Also be willing to walk away if they don't engage the way you want.
/r/seduction06/01/26 11:02 PM
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Well if I call a girl cute it means she has an girl next door vibe. That's something I really find attractive too
/r/seduction28/12/25 07:19 PM
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Okay noted
/r/seduction28/12/25 04:55 PM
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Nah ur right. From what I have gathered, when they call u cute they think you look okay but not attracted to you
/r/seduction28/12/25 02:33 PM
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Lovebombing is a big one. They can use it t lure you in. Watch out for this because alot of men fall for it. Counter it by not engaging in it or engage without trusting them. Also hot & cold, one moment they are very active the next they pull away or ghost. This repeats itself to keep you hooked. Counter this by 1 having high selfrespect and 2 pull away yourself, do not engage in this! Also when you guys plan a date and shs cancels and she doesn't come up with another day. She is not as interest…
/r/seduction28/12/25 02:29 AM
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Then you should be safe. Just protect urself and dip out of there once the bs starts because I tell you, these kind of women only offer bs and headache
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:31 AM
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Beware of this kind of women man. Depending on ur intentions I would treat lightly. Sounds like it's leaning towards manipulation, but that could be me. Just ask urself, why didn't she want to before (no she didn't otherwise you would've been on the dates one way or another) and out of an suddden she wants again, watch out for this. But if you are only looking for an hookup, go ahead just stay sharp
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:18 AM
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A girl that does it for the attention (if I am explaining it right, english is not my first language) She actually is a really good/sweet girl. People in our town are very fond of her and she does like alot for our community. But that doesn't take away the fact that she could be flirting without intention
/r/seduction27/12/25 12:26 AM
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Yeah it really is 50/50 lol. I just hope she isn't that type of girl, been there done that
/r/seduction26/12/25 11:53 PM
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I thinl she doesn't have a bf and lost interest. In my experience if a girl will annoy you in a fun way they are always into you
/r/seduction26/12/25 07:33 PM
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Goated advice
/r/seduction26/12/25 04:44 PM
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I am the same rn, 100% do you have any tips on where to start to work towards that mindset you have now ?
/r/seduction26/12/25 01:16 PM
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Great mindset! What helped you achieve this ?
/r/seduction26/12/25 01:08 PM
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Good advice. It sucks that I am an bit of an high energy type of person so I really have to hold myself back with this then.
/r/seduction26/12/25 01:08 PM
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So do you have any advice for me ?
/r/seduction23/12/25 12:17 PM
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And that's why it sucks I can't get girls attracted
/r/seduction22/12/25 07:22 PM
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Thanks, great advice!
/r/seduction22/12/25 06:31 PM
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Actually a good way of thinking
/r/seduction22/12/25 06:29 PM
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How do you mean ?
/r/seduction22/12/25 06:05 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction22/12/25 05:09 PM
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Then what is ? I can't even get them attracted/interested from the start. My friends tried wingmanning me and setting me up but all of the girls didn't even wanna speak to me, not kidding not an single word
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:47 PM
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Well do you have any idea what and how ?
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:30 PM
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I do actually live my life just fine and I am not going 100% for dating but it's just that everytime that I try I fail
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:25 PM
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I do try this, also the initiating/kino but I swear the girls won't even speak to me most of the time so it's no use. My friends tried wingmanning me and setting me up but all of the girls didn't even wanna speak to me, no kidding not a single word except no sorry.
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:23 PM
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Sorry but I feel like it's no use. It has gotten so bad to the point that girls don't want anything to do with me without even talking to them. My friends actually tried wingmanning me and setting me up but all the girls, and I kid you not did not even want to speak/talk to me. It's like they are allergic to me so they avoid me. Even if I improve my inner game, if they don't wanna talk to me it's no use
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:18 PM
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Could be worth a shot, dm me
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:02 PM
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No but if it becomes akward it's gonna suck we both are very active in the community of our town
/r/seduction21/12/25 10:38 PM
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Ah I see thanks. Actually I am going to her house next week. I missed her housewarming party and I jokingly said that I would drop by next week. She replied with "sounds good" so it could be an good oppertunity for an first softclose attempt
/r/seduction21/12/25 05:50 PM
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I fear you are right. It's just that I am new to flirting/dating/attraction so I don't know how to think and act and stuff. Thanks man
/r/seduction21/12/25 02:34 PM
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Ur right! Do you know perhaps things to look out for if she is not interested or is interested ?
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:59 PM
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I might be dumb but what is softclose ?
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:57 PM
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Yeah I do actually but if there is no attraction from her side it will be vert hard to make her like me 🫣
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:16 PM
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So I just have to ignore her beauty ? I actually am seeing her next week, I missed her housewarming party and I jokingly said that I would drop by next week and she said "sounds good". But idk if it is just being friendly or not. I do intend to try and get closer to her and flirt so maybe I should indeed ignore her beauty
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:15 PM
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I think maybe it's too early for that. Whe actually know eachother because we live in a small town. If I ask her out and she rejects me it will be hella akward. I would like to see/gather some more knowledge first if you know what I mean. I am actually seeing her next week, I missed her housewarming party so I jokingly said: I"ll drop by next week and she said "sounds good"
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:03 PM
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As far as I know yes. Or her brothers/friends might be there out all of a sudden but again she hasn't told me about that
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:31 AM
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Actually I am supposed to go her house to drink tea. (I am allergic to coffee:( ) Because I was not at her housewarming a few weeks ago. Could that be something good or should I think not much of it.
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:21 AM
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And I am also not a 10/10 looking guy. Not low self esteem but just being realistic
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:50 PM
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Well like I explained she has alot more going for her and is ahead of me in live.
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:49 PM
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Things to look out for or tips like how to spot if the flirting is working. Maybe some mistakes to avoid ?
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:02 PM
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This is an good example. Thanks alot!! Can you give me some more tips ? I really like the way you explain
/r/seduction20/12/25 01:45 PM
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Yeah I noticed. I used to be quite the nice guy but again I really have changed, still not done yet but hey you are never done learning right It's a shame honestly
/r/seduction20/12/25 01:40 PM
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Noted. Thanks
/r/seduction20/12/25 01:11 PM
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Since I am new to this, what is kino ? 🫣
/r/seduction20/12/25 12:58 PM
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For me approaching is no problem at all. Like 0. For me it is the flirting/attracting part that I am working on. People tell me I am very funny and I can make girls laugh but I can't attract them for some reason. I don't find myself ugly bot not an chad either so idk what the problem is
/r/seduction20/12/25 12:54 PM
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Nice! Dating apps suck tho
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:24 AM
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I honestly that in bars you have an higher chance then in the gym.
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:21 AM
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Just focus on losing body fat and it will come. When it comes to the gymgirls, be careful. Sure there could be some nice ones but most of them get hit on by huge guys so they are used to it. When a guy who hasn't made that much progress yet aproaches them their ego kicks in and they reject you harshely. Not because it is you but because there ego is high from all the huge gym guys that they are used to. Focus on urself in the gym, way better
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:08 AM
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Nice work! Going to the gym is an life changer. When you are going to see results you are gonna love it even more
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:02 AM
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Keep this mindset and you can move mountains! How is it going so far ?
/r/seduction19/12/25 10:49 AM
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This way of looking at it is actually very good, thanks! Do you have any more pointers to look out for ? I am truly learning alot from this
/r/seduction18/12/25 11:10 AM
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Great advice! Can you elaborate more ? Like when do I know she is not comfortable? I actually I am very good at the talking with girls part but seeing if they are engaging out of interest or out of being polite is still hard Same with situations like the example at the girls house
/r/seduction18/12/25 09:36 AM
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I am also in this learning process. What I can give you is don't try to learn too much once. For example, first learn how to approach girls and deal with rejection a bit. After you feel good about that move on to learning how to flirt and use sexual tension. You find that by every step you take, the things you learned from the previous step will help you on your current step. Goodluck!
/r/seduction16/12/25 11:40 PM
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What is the hobby? If it's social maybe start socializing there. Or if you are ok/good with ur coworkers on your new job maybe ask them to go have a few drinks sometimes as group. Babysteps are also steps
/r/seduction16/12/25 10:23 PM
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You don't want to go too fast. You are good looking + nice build so that is a great headstart. Focus on learning how to flirt first and how to build sexual tension while flirting. This wil help you a lot in your 20's. When you start getting with girls maybe focus on foreplay stuff first. Chances are big that girls at your age are still virgins or have little experience. Going for sex right away might be too much for them or too direct. If you focus on foreplay and exploring it will come on it's …
/r/seduction16/12/25 10:09 PM
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Doesn't have to be. There a few ways to slide into her dm's again. Did you have any common interest or something you could laugh or something you specifik you talked about together ?
/r/seduction16/12/25 08:56 PM
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That would make it a harder, luck/fate is your biggest friend now. Ofcourse there are some keyfactors you can influence like making sure your accounts looks good for the first impression when she decides to check ur account. For the texting part, since you have nothing to talk about/ice breakers just be simple and honest. Something like: "hey your account kept popping up and I just wanted to tell you that you have a very nice profilepicture" if she replies you can ask her stuff like where she is…
/r/seduction16/12/25 07:42 PM
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Depends on the context a bit. Is it a stranger you have seen somewhere before? Like at school or at a party,? Or is it just an random account you found ?
/r/seduction16/12/25 07:29 PM
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I used to have this problem too man. I have learned that you can't water a dead plant. Maybe you should ask yourself when you have had enough of this and decide to pull back, see what will happen.. she might text back and otherwise you have ur answer
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:13 PM
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Are talking to her at all ?
/r/seduction16/12/25 01:47 PM
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Any luck yet ?
/r/seduction16/12/25 12:28 PM
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And what is an subtle way to do this ? I noticed that a flaw of mine is not making it clear the right away. When I try to do it I usually come over way too direct and it's not working in my favor.
/r/seduction15/12/25 10:22 PM
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Again good advice! I admit I am a bit scared of rejection because I have been rejected almost my entire life but I am trying to adopt an mindset of "what do I have to lose" when it comes to that fear. Also how can I use this tactic without coming over like an asshole or something
/r/seduction15/12/25 10:20 PM
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I kinda agree but is still an inner game, atleast for me. Because I don't have the skills (yet) and I am pushing myself out of my comfortzone by doing this and slowely you gain confidence which raises self esteem, atleast for me. For OP's problem instead of fixing his entire problem at once, what I try to tell is that he has to split it in peaces. Let's say he starts with fixing the scary vibe he talked about. When that is fixed he can move onto the next step and so on. This way you actually lea…
/r/seduction15/12/25 10:18 PM
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I suffer from the nice guy syndrome mixed with being an overthinker, it is hell. But I am working on it one step at a time. What really helps for me is not focus on fixing your entire inner game but do it in steps. Look at it like climbing a mountain, when the peak is high/far away aim for the first checkpoint instead, and the next and so on. Keep on doing this and you will reach the peak that seemed so hard. (My grandpa once gave me this advice) Right now I am in the phase of learning how to fl…
/r/seduction15/12/25 09:20 PM
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So just be more teasefull ?
/r/seduction15/12/25 09:14 PM
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The cheery one.. 🫣 my whole life I have been an optimistic cheerfull energetic person. I think we found the problem lol
/r/seduction15/12/25 08:57 PM
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Well let's just by that girl I got rejected/friendzoned. She said: I'd love to go but just as friends.. It's like I have a sign with friendzone me on my head. Even with girls I just met lol
/r/seduction15/12/25 08:21 PM
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I've tried dinner once but I didn't succeed. I feel like age plays a role in this one. I am still 22. And I feel most girls my age like dinners as a first date
/r/seduction15/12/25 08:11 PM
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No I understand loud and clear now, thanks. My mind was clouded and I was running too far ahead of things. I want to build my skills slowely and good. I came for advice about asking out not avoiding friendzone. Thanks for the wakeup call.
/r/seduction15/12/25 04:49 PM
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The hard part is actually landing the date. I always get friendzoned beforehand, something like this: "sounds fun! As friends?" And then I know I am cooked
/r/seduction15/12/25 04:10 PM
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I just want to avoid getting friendzoned from the start
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:57 PM
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Good advice! I still need to learn on my flirt skills. Again talking/interacting/making girls laugh is no problem for me, I really lack the flirting/attracting part so that Is something I have to work on still
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:57 PM
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And with xyz you mean plans? Like going out for drinks ? So if I ask: "do you want to go out for drinks this weekend?" It's enough I don't want to go out and be friendzoned
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:47 PM
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So if I ask a girl something like "want to go have a drink with me this weekend?" Or "let me buy you a coffee" she won't think from the start it's as platonic friends ?
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:46 PM
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This only works is she has any interest in you tho
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:19 PM
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Well I talk to them, make them laugh but I just can't them to like me. I always get friendzoned, rejected or ghosted
/r/seduction14/12/25 03:57 PM
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So I need to learn how to flirt ? Making girls laugh is something I already am good at
/r/seduction14/12/25 03:55 PM
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But how do I make it known what my intentions are. Could it be that I wait too long ? For example when I am texting with girls and after some time I ask them or suggest to hangout they always reply with the "too busy" or not commiting to an date. Or maybe it is because I can't flirt
/r/seduction14/12/25 03:55 PM
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Looking into their eyes yes, flirting is something that I try but I feel like I am not good at or something. I have 0 problems making girls laugh, they laugh at me all the time but I guess that's all I have. When I ask them out I usually get the " I don't have much time" or "as friends?" Or they want to but never commit to when and where
/r/seduction14/12/25 02:47 PM
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