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| 30 | Depravity knows no limits… even when you’re dead you’re not safePretty much! So sickening. I was also disturbed reading that because it made me wonder if we come across people like that in our daily lives.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 3 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.How in the fuck can he be so CHEAP and not support her?! The magnitude of wealth he has being a BILLIONAIRE is so much. He’s taking low value to another level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 17 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.I agree with this. There was a post on FDS a while back that speculated the same thing. Somehow autistic men are able to use their autism as an excuse, while autistic women can’t. Women are also more likely to put in the effort to mask themselves while men flat out refuse— go figure 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 40 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?YES. Love this, good one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 1039 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?Another one I want to add: Men can fake entire relationships to use you for their benefit until the woman they really want comes along. If you find yourself in a forever girlfriend situation, leave! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 144 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?Oh yes, this one. They love to see how much they can get away with 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 143 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?This is great, thank you for sharing. It’s a method Ted Bundy used to prey on his victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 67 | The narcissistic LVM stare. Has anyone else noticed this while vetting in person?Yes!! It’s definitely a thing many of us have noticed. I even made a post about it a while back: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f1hvrb/does_anyone_else_feel_like_most_men_have_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 81 | Whose child is this? And she proposed at her brother’s wedding of all places?! 🤦🏽♀️ please do not mistake this as “gEnDEr EqAuLiTy” 😑He doesn’t look happy at all.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 80 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?I agree. You may find the odd HVM, but he is an anomaly. More often than not, men resort to OLD for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:30 PM |
| 80 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?Girl it’s not you, I promise it’s the scrotes to blame 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 88 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveThe irony is that biologically woman are the selective sex. If you showed a woman a group of 100 men, chances are she’d only find a handful attractive. Our radars are always trying to pick the best mate—we have far more at risk when we invest in a partner. Meanwhile, do the same experiment with a man and you can bet he’d find far more than a few attractive. Knowing this, it makes sense for the woman to choose who she wants to be with. I refuse to date a man I’m not attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:26 PM |
| 243 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?Absolutely. My thumb swipes left until it’s sore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 86 | They will always make “single mothers” the villains to shift blame from male predators or male parental child neglect.To further this, I believe if schools taught principles similar to FDS young girls would even be deterred from having sex. If they knew most men objectify women and would (literally) fuck a McChicken, they’d think twice. Male attention is cheap and means absolutely nothing. And not to mention the potential consequences of sex: STDs, pregnancy, social stigmas etc. We are seeing a similar movement in Japanese youth where less and less women are having sex because they realize it bears more burdens… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 28 | Never beg for love!It’s suppose to be satire, but this is the reality for many women 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 335 | Lvm readers will be so triggered lol but she's completely right and now I want one tooThis isn’t surprising. They can’t get you pregnant and destroy your body or give you STDs, nor do you have to take artificial hormones (BC pills) only to receive 5 mins of disappointing sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 10 | Are there even any HVM from my era“Barely has any hygiene” 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Social Media and including your partner in your display picture: Pickmes usually have this habit... are your thoughts on this?I definitely agree! I think it comes back to the concept of the sperm chasing the egg. WE are the prize to be shown off, not them. I’ve analyzed many photos before posting this, and the general finding was as you’ve said: it looks forced. Men usually have negative body language, unless they were the ones who posted it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 11 | Social Media and including your partner in your display picture: Pickmes usually have this habit... are your thoughts on this?Yep there’s truth to this. Not all men who post their women are HV. The LV ones do it as an ego boost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 23 | Social Media and including your partner in your display picture: Pickmes usually have this habit... are your thoughts on this?It seems they derive a large part of their identity from being in a relationship. You’ll notice they usually lack hobbies/interests, and mostly post about their man and kids (if they have any). And as you’ve pointed out it’s a cope to compensate... aka they know their life isn’t that great, but by posting about it it’s an attempt to prove otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 12 | Social Media and including your partner in your display picture: Pickmes usually have this habit... are your thoughts on this?Agreed. From my observations they tend to lack an identity outside of being a “mom” and a “wife”. They usually have no hobbies or interests either. I bet lots on the breaking mom sub are like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Collage of my ex, so glad that's overHappy belated! I hope he spoiled you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Thank you ladies for inspiring me to make my own vision board!!Love the doggie goal! This is so inspiring. My ex collage feels so gross in comparison | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Collage of my ex, so glad that's overThe lonely birthday girl is sad. Sorry your ex forgot your b-day 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:25 PM |
| 182 | Hates porn because…muh penis!Oh yes. Let’s completely ignore the fact that women are abused and sex trafficked into doing porn. That’s not the real issue. The problem is it’s mentally damaging because men can’t fuck these women themselves! /s What kind of fucked up world do we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 10 | A day in the life of our lost sisters at breaking mom.I love how his shirt is also stained. Very accurate 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 22 | Put it away: Texas passes law against dick picsFunny how it’s in Texas. I bet all the LVM there use the same line: dIcKs aRe aLsO bIgGer iN teXas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | A tribute to my ex 🤡SAME! I legit thought every man’s phone was loaded with porn. But nope. It’s only the LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 4 | DAE finds 99.9% of men unattractive?...and there's millions of BEAUTIFUL women. Honestly it's just not fair, men don't deserve this. I think we should stop serving them.Same boat sister. A lot of people suggest the “asexual” card but I don’t think so. There are men I find attractive but they’re rare and few. I think if you’ve ever been attracted to at least one you’re normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:52 AM |
| 7 | DAE finds 99.9% of men unattractive?...and there's millions of BEAUTIFUL women. Honestly it's just not fair, men don't deserve this. I think we should stop serving them.Yes. It’s funny how frequently this is posted. Scrotes be unattractive 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:08 PM |
| 65 | Not only do they base a woman's value over her 'cooking and cleaning' but then they try to change the narrative of who ended things by saying some 'struggling in silence' nonesense 😭😭 the audacityThat’s the dumbest argument yet! Cardi B can HIRE cooks and cleaners. She doesn’t have to do jack lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 2 | A tribute to my ex 🤡LOL he deserves it. Glad you had a laugh 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | A tribute to my ex 🤡You must have gone through the same hell 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 17 | The FWB I Pretended Wasn't Complete Garbage 🤡Oh man. Crying at the selfie pic, lying ass Pinocchio man with his resume and the empty toilet paper roll 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 14 | A tribute to my ex 🤡LOL it might as well been. My ex kept his dingy old mattress on the floor and it was filthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:29 AM |
| 12 | Friends, here is my pic collage of my LVM ex husband. This was hard to do, but very cathartic.WAYYY better off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 68 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastCracked up at this. I’m not Desi, but my friend is and these are her complaints to a tee 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 15 | Muffinsongs’ most recent ex starter packAhahaha the love bombing! So clever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 18 | A tribute to my ex 🤡That’s an amazing idea! All their scrotery can finally be put to good use | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is society so obsessed with sex? It dawned on me that despite it being glorified as “healthy”, the only reason modern humans can have an excessive and unnatural amount of sex is because of birth control—which usually has a shitload of unhealthy side effects.So when I mentioned our ancestors having less recreational sex, I didn’t mean they had less sex over all— I meant the sex they had would be far more likely to result in pregnancy. Even if they had sex for fun, it would have been much harder to prevent pregnancy with their less advanced birth control methods. You brought up some great points that people today are having less sex than they did decades ago, which is true. However it bothers me to see that sex is so normalized in the media with sugg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:03 PM |
| 52 | Why is society so obsessed with sex? It dawned on me that despite it being glorified as “healthy”, the only reason modern humans can have an excessive and unnatural amount of sex is because of birth control—which usually has a shitload of unhealthy side effects.I’m exactly like you! Never taken birth control and never will. I believe the only exception is if there’s a medical need to take it (e.g PCOS). Risking your health just to have a bare penis inside you is insane. Men refused to do it with their birth control trials, so why should we? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:10 AM |
| 9 | BDSM IS ABUSEI completely agree with this. I knew a guy who sounds awfully similar... he wanted me to peg and piss on him. Thankfully we never dated or had sex—these are all things he requested while getting to know each other. Anyway point is he was demented. He had a shitload of issues like anger management and ADHD. Red flags all over the place! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 7 | This is what I had sent my ex husband after I found he cheated. My growth from then to now is in the commentsSorry! There was a lag, I saw your comment after I posted. Glad to hear you divorced his ass. You deserve better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:41 AM |
| 82 | This is what I had sent my ex husband after I found he cheated. My growth from then to now is in the commentsThis is a great example of why cOmMuNiCatIon doesn’t work. If it’s gotten to the point where you have to cry your heart out in paragraphs, he knows very well what he’s doing and that it’s wrong. The thing is, he don’t care. In fact, writing all that can even be an ego boost because it shows YOU care and he still has control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:31 AM |
| 76 | I have no words for thisWe dislike you, Jesse 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 68 | How to still be friends with women who don't follow FDS?I discretely convey FDS principles and see how they react. If they’re open to the suggestions, I slowly feed them more until I’m confident they’d be open to this sub. On the other hand, if they shut down my advice or suggest it’s too extreme it’s a good indication they’re hopeless pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 84 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisThey also aren’t real... many of these women you see on sitcoms are the fantasy of the LV scrote who wrote the script. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 13 | Assume Every Man You Meet is a NarcissistThank you for this! Your post was well articulated and contained great insight. The point about emotions lying particularly stood out to me... although I hate to admit this, in my pickme days I would compare myself to other women. It would hurt seeing a guy choose another woman, and then I’d compare myself and wonder why not me? The thing is...... I was actually better off all along. Those men were narcissistic jerks who would purposely target low self esteem women. One scrote in particular late… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | When the woman is about to break and wake tf up Reddit be like... “but why you look at his phone tho”Ah I see. Thank you! This makes a lot of sense. If it gets to the point where communication is the last resort, the guy in question probably already knows what he’s up to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 9 | When the woman is about to break and wake tf up Reddit be like... “but why you look at his phone tho”Lmaooo communicate ftw Question: is there a specific post or guideline that explains why communication doesn’t work? I need backup arguments for giving my friends advice (they think not communicating is just siLeNt tReaTmeNt ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:43 PM |
| 20 | ‘Most of words we use for sex are violent, not just fuck. Think about it…. bang, screw, hit it, pound, smash, rail, plow, pound, like our entire culture has tried to remove the concept of intimacy/vulnerability/emotion from sex by associating violent words with the action.For real. This hit on another level 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 17 | Height is a flaw “in the eyes of women.” Nah, being a scrote who speaks for all of us does that. 🙄😓That’s bullshit. There are plenty of handsome and successful short men. Scrotes just wanna scrote and put the blame on women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 4 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryI don’t find him attractive either but if I hard to choose I pick the after. Also you might find this article interesting: https://www.counselheal.com/articles/7781/20131127/masculine-men-more-father-ugly-daughters.htm IMO avoid serious deal breaker features at all costs. Your kids will hate you for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:33 AM |
| -8 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryObjectively speaking yes, certain noses are more desirable— plastic surgery is a billion dollar industry with rhinoplasty as one of the top performed surgeries. Whether that’s morally sound, or indicative of a deeply rooted problem in society isn’t up to me. I’m just stating what reality is. Also I didn’t intend to remind anyone of being ugly. You can still be attractive with a strong nose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:26 AM |
| -6 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryShe needs to be aware of what he looked like before so she can make a fully informed decision. Also, “strong” noses are not exclusively ethnic. I’ve seen a fair share of whites with non-conventionally attractive noses. The mindset that only whites have desirable noses is inherently racist. In fact whites tend to have larger noses on average— this was a trait which evolved to warm the air in their colder climates. Furthermore I never mentioned ethnic traits as being undesirable. I could easily re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:06 AM |
| 11 | Gamer Ex Boyfriend From HellYikes. Sounds like a train wreck. Focus on the silver lining that you now know all the traits to avoid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:59 AM |
| 79 | Lust can lead to bad decisionsYou don’t miss him, you miss the way he made you feel. The solution is to find a better substitute that makes you feel good. Not to be vulgar but yes, a vibrator can help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:57 AM |
| 26 | Why do ugly guys treat you like you're the ugly one once you give them a chance?Because they’re ugly, but not necessarily stupid. If you give an ugly guy a chance there’s a good likelihood you’re a kind person who can see past the superficial. Also a chance you have low self esteem. Either way both traits are seen as weaknesses they can use to manipulate you with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:50 AM |
| 18 | Is a guy [25M] whose friends are mostly attractive women whom he’s previously crushed on but with whom he’s remained friends, is he a LVM?Yes. HUGE red flag if he has no male friends or female friends he isn’t attracted to. To further that, it’s a blaring siren if he says “I prefer female friends because we relate better”—RUN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:43 AM |
| 36 | Is a guy [25M] whose friends are mostly attractive women whom he’s previously crushed on but with whom he’s remained friends, is he a LVM?Why did you have to drive him to see his “friend”? Also, what’s he been doing all this time... only starting nursing school now? Sounds LV to me. Someone made a post yesterday: if you take more than two sentences describing him he’s probably LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:39 AM |
| -7 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryDisagree. If he had major work done it’s false advertisement. Look at this: https://www.instagram.com/p/B3pIxW6pyHL/?igshid=zloawqftnxgo Especially if your child is a girl, your daughter would be very disappointed having a nose like that. I agree that genetics can be an unpredictable crapshoot, but flaws which seriously deviate from the norm should be avoided as they tend to be dominant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 11 | Creative men of TinderCrying at your comment. He’d get snapped up for sure on Grindr 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:13 AM |
| 8 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryWhat did he have done? Tbh I don’t think this can be seen in black and white— it’s a grey area. If he had MAJOR work done and looks like a completely different person it would be a problem if you want kids. I don’t mean to be rude but I’ve seen some pretty drastic transformations (literally parrot beak to cute little button noses)... it would be a disservice to your kids knowing they’ll inherit such traits. You could argue to raise them to “love themselves”, but clearly the father didn’t do that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:12 AM |
| 9 | Has anyone's past pick-me behavior/internalized misogyny stemmed from observing your parent's relationship growing up?Absolutely. I thought you just had to tolerate shit and the more you did equated with how much you love that person... I couldn’t have been more wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:22 PM |
| 20 | NVM upset because I wouldn’t come over and fuck after the first date.Lmaoooo what an entitled piece of shit. Claims it doesn’t matter, yet he’s clearly butthurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:30 AM |
| 51 | For reference, he claims to be a lawyer. This is the quality of men OLD provides.Lmao knew it. You got him good with the geriatric comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 65 | For reference, he claims to be a lawyer. This is the quality of men OLD provides.Curious, how old are you? I have a feeling there’s going to be a huge age gap 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 3 | WTFThe audacity is strong with this one 😂 Block and delete the scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:50 AM |
| 52 | I saw this and thought of FDS! I hate it when men are thought of as children. Like seriously, youre a grown man. Parent yourself.Oh my god. How has no one noticed this before?? 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:47 PM |
| 9 | INTJ Cringe, messages me six months later after forgetting one another’s existence and using COVID as an opener /: can the desperation get worse?“You’ve been in my thoughts”..... has he been brain dead for the past 5 months? It’s not like this pandemic started yesterday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 09:13 PM |
| 18 | Question about a stat I read a while ago here.Recall seeing this too.... I think it was 18 months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 16 | Why do men act like they hate you?Ughhhhh. This is one of those hard truths to swallow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:38 AM |
| 31 | Why do men act like they hate you?The thing is you’re the common denominator in your relationships... so if people are generally nice to you but that one person (man) isn’t, then he’s mostly likely the problem. Best to cut ties with anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:54 AM |
| 78 | Why do men act like they hate you?I second this comment. It’s a tactic they use where they’ll abuse you to lower your self esteem and control you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:19 AM |
| 26 | Sitcom wife trope brainwashes women into settling for LVM 🤮True. She’s one of the newer Disney princesses though. I feel like they did that once people became aware and started to demand more diversity and inclusiveness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 54 | Sitcom wife trope brainwashes women into settling for LVM 🤮Yessss! I remember someone else made a post about this. It’s basically LVM projecting a false reality. Another thing I noticed growing up was with Disney movies. In Disney couples the male always had darker features/complexion than the woman. The only exception was Pocahontas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:14 AM |
| 10 | The Spark: Do you think it exists? If so, what is it?”A lot of women start sexual relationships with men they admit they don't find attractive, but he's "nice" or whatever. I find it utterly baffling” I’m also baffled by this. How can you date someone you’re not attracted to? For me to want to date a guy I need to feel like I want to jump his bones🙊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 16 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂The audacity 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 19 | The Spark: Do you think it exists? If so, what is it?The spark definitely exists. To me it’s having crazy attraction to the person, they make your heart palpitate and you feel butterflies. You also can’t stop thinking about them. When you’re together you get along so well that time flies, even if you’ve spent an eternity together. I will say that once you’ve felt this it’s hard to settle for anything else. Almost like you’ve been spoiled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 122 | Just gonna leave this here.....Either way it’s always about the pee-pee ☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 30 | Who pays in the relationship?IMO when a man is truly interested he pays for everything. This is why guys who are playing the field split costs: dating multiple women is costly. Once you’re in a committed relationship it’s ok to start splitting bills—but even then the man mostly pays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:25 AM |
| 27 | Thank You For The Mindset Change, QueensYou sound like a sweetheart, doesn’t surprise me FDS came across as Nazi like 😂 Welcome to the sub! I hope it serve you well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:21 AM |
| 27 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?He is boring and low effort. Also I noticed you used way more emojis than him, try to refrain from that unless you’re officially together. I know us women love emojis but to men it comes off as desperate cause again, it shows you’re placing more effort into the convo than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:40 AM |
| 16 | Outrage as paedophiles rebrand themselves as 'minor-attracted persons' in chilling online propaganda drive [Did people really not know this was happening?!?]Is changing the semantics somehow suppose to make it better? 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:23 AM |
| 293 | Man wants to "nuke" marriage so he can fuck younger women. Shocked when people call him out.Is it just me or is this a lose/lose situation? Suppose he stays with his wife.... wouldn’t she deserve better? Why should she be with someone who doesn’t love her? Divorce might actually be the best option | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:19 AM |
| 18 | This man is balding at 26 yet he’s still full of SCROTACIOUS AUDACITYOh man. If this is true I won’t be able to keep a straight face next time I’m at the office. So many young balding scrotes at work 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:35 AM |
| 104 | But the marriage is healthy!!........ that’s enough Reddit for today. How pathological do you have to be to jerk your dick raw? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 12:26 PM |
| 21 | THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged!Solution: chop his dick off and ram it down his throat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 16 | Kinkmeisha Reform School 101: The BasicsAhh ok, I think I get it now. It’s less about the label and more about what it represents. As long as violence/degradation/humiliation is involved it’s wrong, and it just so happens that most forms of sex these days includes that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:21 AM |
| 6 | Does making the first move on a guy or asking him out (not for sex) a pickme move?Never ask a man out. Period. You can give subtle hints like smiling and prolonged eye contact to signal you’re interested, but ultimately it’s up to him to take the initiative. The rationale comes down to men valuing what they earn. If you ask him out you’re essentially throwing yourself at him which eliminates all the work on his part. Part of the vetting process is confirming a man is interested in you by the effort he puts into creating a relationship. So don’t sell yourself short! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:33 PM |
| 13 | Some Antique WisdomThe original OG for FDS 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:58 PM |
| 82 | I have been seeing a surge of these kinds of tweets lately— I love it. We’re doing something right ladies 😜Yasss! FDS is catching on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:57 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else just done with dating?I sympathize with you, I’m picky too! If I’m lucky I find 1 guy every 1-2 years I’m interested in, the problem is it never works. Either we aren’t compatible, he’s taken, or gay. The thing is you wouldn’t be happy settling for someone you don’t want, so you’re better off alone. Pickiness saves you from icky LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:05 AM |
| 16 | Anyone else just done with dating?I also hate the process of dating! It’s great finding someone but it takes forever. Feels better knowing others are in the same situation 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else just done with dating?Never settle! FDS has proven it’s better to be single than put up with LV trash. Your HVM is somewhere out there and he’s well worth the wait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 15 | Anyone else just done with dating?Your friend sounds just like my pickmeisha friends. They all have a history of terrible relationships and fight with their current partners. The thing is they think it’s normal. They use the excuse that “no relationship is perfect”... which is true, but it also shouldn’t be like an episode of Jerry Springer🙄 Also I agree with no dating during COVID. HVM have other priorities right now and wouldn’t break social distancing. Hang in until this is over! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:29 AM |
| 7 | Get the cat, ditch the bfBirth control is subjective, what works for some may not work for others. You need to assess the pros vs cons for each method and find what works best for you. Pills are great for some women and horrible for others, and it kills me when women suffer and continue to suffer taking them just to please a guy when there’s other methods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 87 | I feel deeply sorry for her🤢😭He has such a grimy looking hand. Imagine that trying to slap and choke you 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:58 PM |
| 32 | Get the cat, ditch the bfThat’s vile. The more I read about men the less I desire a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:43 PM |
| 46 | Get the cat, ditch the bfThere’s also research suggesting that BC pills increase your risk of breast cancer. If you don’t have a reason to use it (e.g endometriosis) it’s not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 06:50 PM |
| 58 | Get the cat, ditch the bfI agree that we deserve the right to reproductive freedom but hormonal BC is the worst. You subject yourself to terrible risks so a guy can benefit which is plain wrong. Condoms, non-hormonal BC (such as diaphragms) or even sterilization are better options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 64 | Get the cat, ditch the bfNever take BC pills unless you have a legitimate health reason to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:52 PM |
| 6 | How do I maintain abundance mentality when I'm very picky when it comes to looks?Ah I see. In that case it sounds like you know what you want but there’s difficulty getting it. Unfortunately this quarantine doesn’t help much either... I would say try joining a club or signing up for things where you can do these activities. It might be tough going solo, but you’ll eventually find friends with the same interests and possibly meet a guy in the process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 10 | How do I maintain abundance mentality when I'm very picky when it comes to looks?Question: are you interested in the activities you listed? I’m asking because if you post pictures doing those things you’ll attract men with those interests. You said you and your friends don’t, so I’m just wondering if outdoorsy stuff is something you actually want to do. I agree that it’s harder to expand your social circle as you get older. Most people already formed theirs and aren’t interested in making new friends. You could try asking your current friends if they’d like to try new things… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:20 AM |
| 29 | How do I maintain abundance mentality when I'm very picky when it comes to looks?I have the same problem! Unlike my friends I’m picky to a T. My suggestion would be to focus on yourself and self improvement. By maximizing every aspect of yourself and putting your best foot forward you widen your dating pool and increase the chances of more men liking you. By doing so it increases the likelihood that you’ll find someone you like. Don’t do the opposite and focus on one man. This is putting your eggs in one basket and setting yourself up for disappointment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:04 AM |
| 7 | Physically recoiled from this post and the mess in the corner. Had a hard time choosing a flair... so many fit.Daddy? DADDY?! He’s lookin more like Elf on a shelf. What a delusional scrote 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 11:54 PM |
| 40 | Glad he cleared things up; the innuendo was so smooth.I agree, both are bad but anal adds an extra layer of disgust ... and now that you’ve mentioned his height it makes it even worse 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 10:16 PM |
| 84 | Glad he cleared things up; the innuendo was so smooth.Ngl... I wasn’t expecting oven to be ass. Yet another degenerate scrote into anal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 08:45 PM |
| 3 | A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker!Thanks for sharing! Reading those made me angry. It’s infuriating how mainstream anal has become, even more so that men expect it. Meanwhile they also have an anus and shriek at the thought of anything going near it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 03:12 PM |
| 7 | A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker!Thanks! I just read through that and wow. Everything FDS speculates is on there. Horrifying that anybody would subject themselves to anal just because of a LVM and “mUh dIcK” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 12:24 AM |
| 25 | A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker!Do you still have these articles? I’d love if you could share them with the rest of us so we could do the same with LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 05:05 PM |
| 141 | Thanks to FDS, i perceive my Boyfriend as LVMJoin the club. My perspective on many men has also changed. FDS is equivalent to removing the rose colored glasses we viewed men with. So thankful it has shown us the light | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why women shouldn’t pursue men.Lol ok! Sounds interesting and I can’t wait to read them :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Why women shouldn’t pursue men.So the trick is to treat them like a guy you aren’t interested in? Also what if it’s a guy you don’t have a reason to talk to? Like someone that works in your building (not a coworker) or at a coffee shop? And thanks for the book recommendations. They sound good to read in this quarantine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:35 PM |
| 26 | Why women shouldn’t pursue men.I understood that, but my point was the men I like don’t pursue me. So given that it’s against the rules to pursue a guy, I’d rather be alone than settle for something I don’t want— hence not “abandoning” my standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:38 PM |
| 50 | Why women shouldn’t pursue men.That feels unfair? It means the man gets the women he wants, while you have to settle for one that wants you. If I can’t have what I want I’d rather be alone.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:21 PM |
| 13 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?It was too much for his pea sized LV brain to fathom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:38 PM |
| 31 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Mine never washed his bedsheets. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 05:48 PM |
| 55 | Why women shouldn’t pursue men.I have a legitimate question though... do those women love them back the same way? I completely agree that you should never chase and men should do all the pursuing, but I never have an interest in the men that pursue me. As a result I choose to be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 05:46 PM |
| 15 | I’m a pessimist/realist by nature, is this a turnoff to men?I don’t. I tried when I was younger and it was stupid, very pickmeisha thing to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:16 AM |
| 87 | RIP Jyoti. Justice was truly served for you. But it made me realise that I don’t see many stories like this where the violent men are being adequately punished for their abhorrent crimes.Good. I remember being shook to the core reading that case. Those pieces of shit should have had the same things done to them, but this is the next best thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 01:22 AM |
| 79 | If he cheats on you, that’s mean your pu$$y is trash 🤦🏽♀️There’s no pleasing LVM. Most men claim they want a women with “low mileage”, but he just called the 22 year old’s vag “C- minus vagina” and that’s not withstanding the fact he insulted Khloe K’s vag too. Very hypocritical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 04:41 PM |
| 10 | Would you date a guy who earns less than you ?^ this. If there’s no guarantee he’ll get his shit together then it’s a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:23 AM |
| 64 | Quentin Tarantino’s babymom is only 20 years younger. Good luck, girl.He is hideous. Hopefully her genes will save that baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 127 | Stop Smiling So MuchOuch. My friends nicknamed me smiley because I’m always smiling. I don’t do it to please men though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:59 AM |
| 82 | So many men have exes with BPD that it should be considered an epidemic at this pointThe thing to remember with these men is this: who’s the common factor in their relationships? THEM. If they keep encountering “crazies” chances are they themselves are the crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:16 AM |
| 21 | What are your "requirements"/standards for a man?”No unwashed ass, skid marks” This seem TOO specific, I feel like there’s a hilarious story behind it? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 13 | Don’t fall for this LVM / BPD shit! They don’t actually care, and you’re not their mom.He sounds like he’s writing the lyrics to a new Drake song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:38 AM |
| 48 | Don't Marry Men who won't care for themselvesIf he can’t care for himself, he sure as hell can’t care for you. Run for the hills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:05 AM |
| 13 | One of my fave responses.That man needs Jesus 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 25 | I got my first message from a male lurker after I made a comment on a post about not whining and being entitled to guysI always get guys asking me what size penis is best. They are fucking weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:27 AM |
| 23 | Well aren’t we clever....Lol I also feel bad for laughing 😂🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:58 AM |
| 5 | This so random!!Flawed LV logic. I can guarantee he won’t like women who smoke when he sees the effect of it decades later. He just likes the idea of a hot young woman smoking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Thanks for the advice, a few others also mentioned it but I don’t think it’s the case. All my crushes have been men and I’ve never had feelings for women. I think I’m just very unlucky =( I’m extremely selective and when I do find a guy I’m interested in he’s always taken— which makes sense because if something is good someone else will want it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 60 | Man dumps GF of 1 year, two years ago. He didn't think she was marriage material. He broke her heart. She begins getting closer to another man, appears to move on. He surprises NO ONE by suddenly feeling very hurt. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!!A lot of them don’t realize what they have until it’s gone. Grass is greener on the other side syndrome. It’s almost like they lack insight and critical thinking skills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:19 PM |
| 21 | I can’t tell if these messages are sincere or manipulative and I’ve been ruminating all weekend.He sounds like a manipulator. Not all scrotes give two word responses. The ones that write paragraphs tend to be the abusive manipulative type | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:16 PM |
| 51 | Man dumps GF of 1 year, two years ago. He didn't think she was marriage material. He broke her heart. She begins getting closer to another man, appears to move on. He surprises NO ONE by suddenly feeling very hurt. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!!Scrote be mad. It only took 2 years for his big brain to turn on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?I feel your pain, it’s annoying. When you put so much effort into yourself you’d expect the same in return | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:37 PM |
| 15 | This dude has a file called “Face for jerking off” AND is so proud to share it with one of the women he added in there.Gross. I wonder if he cums on his phone too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?I partially agree. Those are all traits you can easily change. Then there are other things like nose shape, weak jawlines and receding hairlines that would require more invasive intervention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 53 | Trauma bounding.Yes. It’s a horrible cycle of being addicted to the highs and lows of an abusive relationship. What helped me get out of it was changing my social circle and focusing on myself to recapture my self worth. I had put this LVM on a pedestal and in my eyes no man could compare—in reality he was a lazy worthless sack of shit. Changing my social circle helped me realize that there were MUCH better men out there. Adding to that the way they treated me was like night and day....I was actually treated wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:31 PM |
| 14 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Thanks for brining this up! There are quite a few handsome K-Pop men. And lol at how you labeled regular men “normal men”. They should really take example from the K-Pop stars | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:44 AM |
| 12 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?I think there always has to be some initial form of attraction. Some men I’ll write off immediately, a hard pass. Then there are others where I’m like “mayyybe”.... and things could develop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:32 AM |
| 11 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Hang in there! You might find someone eventually My advice would be only get to know men you find attractive. Obv you won’t know this right away, but there has to be some initial form of attraction. Then do it FDS style, taking things slowly and getting to know him inside out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:31 AM |
| 28 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Do you usually “give them a chance” with the hopes that chemistry or attraction develops? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:48 AM |
| 15 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?That’s quite interesting, didn’t know it’s a thing. Don’t think it’s my issue though, I’ve only ever been attracted to men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 9 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?I’ve never been attracted to a woman. All my crushes have been on men, but the problem is I seldom find ones I’m attracted to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Thanks for sharing! It sounds akin to FDS in the sense that you should focus on yourself first. And who knows... sometimes you find a guy when you least expect it. But even if that doesn’t happen having no crush at all beats the stress of oneitis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:53 AM |
| 7 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Mind if I ask how therapy helped? This is a huge issue for me. I envy girls that can jump from crush to crush. If I like a guy it means he’s already met my stringent criteria and finding another one is next to impossible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:39 AM |
| 23 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?No offense taken! I appreciate the concern but I don’t think this is the issue. Once I find a guy I’m attracted to I usually develop a oneitis crush. The problem is it doesn’t go anywhere, so it lasts until I (eventually) find another guy to crush on. It’s an endless lather, rinse, repeat cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:26 AM |
| 55 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?From my experience that 0.05% on Tinder are also taken, or every other girl wants them. Tinder also makes my thumb hurt... too many left swipes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 72 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Same! I should have clarified I’m not looking for a perfect Ken doll... but even that you can’t find. Men don’t realize how lucky they are because gorgeous women are everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 7 | is it pickmesha behavior to admit to having interest in a man?When you have a crush you tend to idealize that person and put them on a pedestal. It’s similar to the honeymoon phase of a relationship. My suggestion would be to focus on his flaws. Doing so will allow you to see him realistically and not through rose colored glasses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Military guy mentions he was drinking wine and "got to talk to his kids" and I'm so tired of giving guys the benefit of the doubt.. your daughter chose "widowed" for you and denied her own existence? Come on now.. next!Definitely seems suspicious! Either delete or troll him if you want some fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:19 PM |
| 11 | Military guy mentions he was drinking wine and "got to talk to his kids" and I'm so tired of giving guys the benefit of the doubt.. your daughter chose "widowed" for you and denied her own existence? Come on now.. next!“Quite difficult setting all this up”.... if he can’t even set up a dating profile what else can’t he do? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 21 | is it pickmesha behavior to admit to having interest in a man?I think it’s extreme to say you can’t have a crush....it’s human nature to feel attracted to certain people and not others. HOWEVER the difference is whether you act on it. You should never pursue a man. Crush on him all you want, but don’t initiate! Wait for him to come to you. Men are hunters, they value something when they’ve earned it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t men approach me?Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and OkCupid. Pretty much the popular ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Why don’t men approach me?For sure! I’m not going to go out of my way to do something I don’t like. Even if I did do something invasive (say, lip fillers) it would be for myself. In my case I might try a new hairstyle, or updating my wardrobe with stylish and elegant pieces... not trashy pickme clothes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:34 AM |
| 11 | Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence.Take this negative and turn it into a positive: he showed his true colors and you don’t need to waste anymore time on him =) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:25 AM |
| 9 | Why don’t men approach me?This is nice, I love practical advice. I’ll try it on a day when I feel bold enough 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:18 AM |
| 17 | Why don’t men approach me?Those are excellent points. Tbh I didn’t think of that distinction when I posted this but my goal is definitely a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:16 AM |
| 7 | Why don’t men approach me?I think it’s worth a shot to try peacocking. Will be cautious though... I don’t want to go overboard and create a persona I’m not! I’ll also try to watch my body language to catch any unapproachable signals. It could be similar to resting bitch face where you don’t even realize you’re doing it 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:13 AM |
| 20 | Why don’t men approach me?Been there, done that with OLD. Yes I did get flooded with message, but they were all LVM. The majority had no job or degree, and couldn’t even drive 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 8 | Why don’t men approach me?Interesting perspective that men would expect rejection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:39 AM |
| 23 | Why don’t men approach me?I agree with what you said about peacocking, but many women in relationships (which is the goal) don’t have these “loud” traits. In fact many look quite simple, like the girl next door. And yea, I’m usually quiet. Would say I’m an introvert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 10 | Fuckboy has no brain cellsI lost two brain cells reading that.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:30 AM |
| 13 | Reasons Why I Don’t DateHave to agree with this. Texting him first was the first strike, it continues to go downhill from there. Don’t text men first! The only exception is if you have a reason to. Also she was too eager to meet. Should have told him she’d think about it and build up suspense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:19 AM |
| 46 | V-Day PlansHiding under a rock from LVM. Valentines is their excuse to come out in hordes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:47 PM |
| 10 | I get this line maybe five times a day. This is my response.LMAO amazing response 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:15 PM |
| 9 | Does anyone else feel like most men have a predatory stare?LOL I laughed out loud at your story 😂 Poor guy, we’ll be nice and make one exception for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else feel like most men have a predatory stare?For the ones I’m talking about I’ll sense that they’re staring, then I’ll look at them but they don’t look away. They’ll continue staring with an intense look like I’m a piece of meat. It’s really creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:18 PM |
| 68 | Guy call me half attractive...Came here to say the same thing: negging! It’s a low and dirty PUA technique. Ignore his LV ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:16 AM |
| 24 | Does anyone else feel like most men have a predatory stare?Good! Glad you asserted yourself. Hopefully the negative reinforcement teaches him not to do it again. And you are right about it working on women with low self esteem. Classic predatory behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 23 | Does anyone else feel like most men have a predatory stare?That’s so vile 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:38 AM |
| 17 | Guy friend zoned me ?Exactly. Don’t give men you’re dating “boyfriend privileges” until it’s official. Afterwards don’t give boyfriends “husband privileges”— everything must be earned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:26 AM |
| 26 | Guy friend zoned me ?”I went to his place on second date and we had sex. And on the third date also.” There’s your problem. He got what he wanted. Dust yourself off and move on, but please learn from this so it doesn’t happen again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:22 AM |
| 36 | Guy friend zoned me ?Men like a chase, and it’s possible that with the men you don’t like you treat them nonchalantly. It’s human nature to care more when you’re interested in someone, but as FDS shows always be the one to care less. The second you show more interest in a guy than he does to you it’s game over Edit: To answer your question he’s made it clear you’re the second option. Delete and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:10 AM |
| 39 | Deterrent for LVM?LVM are easily intimidated by assertive women. You being intelligent enough to know the relationship won’t work after a short period of time threatens their ability to hide LV traits and deceptive dating tactics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:47 AM |
| 6 | Things I've noticed all of the men I've dated, or fell for, have in common...In some cases they can be trauma bonded. It’s an abusive relationship held together by intermittent positive reinforcement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 17 | Tinder creature remains determined and persistent 🤡For real. No way in hell he’s choking me, his limp dick can get it instead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:09 AM |
| 12 | He literally WON'T contact me over the phone. But acts interested when we see each other.Gonna second this. Definitely sounds like he’s playing games with PUA tactics— and if he is there’s a good chance he’s LV because reading that crap taints men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:06 AM |
| 28 | Best dating advice I ever got was from my mom: NEVER get involved with a man who has not lived by himself. And if he does live by himself, he needs to be doing a good job of it.Yassss! This post should be pinned. The logic behind it is solid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:59 PM |
| 18 | This page made me realize my grandma is settling for my grandpaAll the time! Once you learn FDS the revelations are incredible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:57 PM |
| 41 | Things I've noticed all of the men I've dated, or fell for, have in common...IMO it isn’t the ex they miss— it’s the drama. They love the highs and lows but won’t admit it. Another thing is their denial of an ego blow. They refuse to accept they’ve been dumped, so they create an excuse and blame the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:51 PM |
| 12 | What FDS principle has helped you the most?In my experience male paragraphers aren’t always HV. They can be just as bad as LVM or worse. IMO the LV ones are usually immature, dramatic, psychotic and/or abusive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I’m pleasantly surprised by the responses! Your question about women shaming other women might be a good one to ask— part of the reason I’m so surprised is that my friends in real life think my preference for short guys is weird. So you might be onto something 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Hmmmm good advice, I see what you’re saying. Some advice is obvious (like dont date a rapist!) but others are guidelines which are subjective. In my case height isn’t something I’m stringent about. On the other hand, I refuse to date a man that makes less than me. Many women have said that dating a short man makes them feel masculine, well to me a guy that makes less is the equivalent. It’s not me being a “gold digger” or expecting him to buy me fancy material things, I just want to make sure he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:32 PM |
| 14 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?That’s the exact reason I made this post! I feel like they get such a hard time on this sub :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Good point. There’s many aspects of attraction that are subjective, but overall I agree that you shouldn’t feel masculine compared to the guy you’re dating. I too dislike skinny with narrow shoulders! It’s a hard pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Can a guy who is less educated than you be a HVM for you?It depends... if he has less education but is more successful than me I don’t mind. I think what it comes down to is his character and ambition. There are plenty of dropouts who do just fine in life. However, if this man is content flipping burgers at McDonald’s for the rest of his life it’s a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 24 | Literally MenLittle brain always conquers big brain ☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 8 | I have a crush on a HVMDon’t feel too bad about it, I’m in the same position. As long as you don’t act on it it’s fine to feel that way. It’s great seeing that high value men exist cause it inspires hope. Some women are just lucky to catch these men first 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I agree with you. It’s a double edged sword. Because it shouldn’t matter, but since society deems that it does they’re labeled with a flaw. Overtime they get shit for that and it turns them bitter. I think the trick is finding one who’s confident enough to ignore the stigma against short men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 6 | Quick questionLOL this is a clever response. I think it’s fair to say this guy is low value, but if you want to give him the benefit of the doubt use this method | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 18 | Asked me out for dinner and drinks and then told me he wanted sex. Was offended when I sent him a link to local escorts. Told me to apologize to him and then called me an as*hole 😂 didn’t screenshot the rest of the convo cause I reported him. Men think Tinder is a vending machine for sexRight?? What a low value piece of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:42 PM |
| 14 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Lol short men definitely get the shorter straw when compared to tall women. I think you’re right about the kids turning out in between. Genes are funny and unpredictable, but it’s usually that the son mirrors the fathers height and the daughter the mother’s (as is the case for your family!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:26 PM |
| 24 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Lol it does feel comical. Personally once a guy is beyond 6’3 they look too long and lanky for me. And if they aren’t skinny I find their huge size intimidating... like the might break me. The mechanics of your relationship also become weird because it makes hugging, kissing etc awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 20 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?“As the saying goes, 'the greatest gift you can give your children is their father.” Wow, that’s such a great quote! It’s crazy if you think about how many aspects a child’s father affects, it goes way beyond height. I have to play the devils advocate though, if I have daughters I would prefer them to be short. For sons it’s great if they’re taller, but it seems like taller women have a harder time dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Argh. That sucks. It seems to be common in much of the feedback here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:10 PM |
| 9 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I also used to prefer tall men, but over the years I’ve met short ones I’ve feel head over heels for. Interestingly I’ve found that there’s plenty of handsome short men that get overlooked because of their height, while the opposite holds true for tall men. There’s many tall guys who are considered “attractive” just because they’re tall, even if they aren’t facially attractive. Society definitely plays a role in determining what people find attractive.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Attractiveness aside, a HVM is one that has his shit together and treats his woman right. He should be ambitious and lack any sleazy, abusive and undesirable traits. With that being said, I think you have a valid point about these men being clowned on by other men. I can definitely see how it makes their lives harder and would create a complex. I guess if he’s truly HV he would have the confidence to overcome that and set his own worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 32 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?This is true, I have to admit many of them seem to have a complex about it. It’s sad that society has made it such a stigma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:33 PM |
| 23 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Great post. I think this highlights an overarching point that you shouldn’t do things just because society expects you to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:30 PM |
| 10 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Yes! I forgot to include this in my original post. Body type also plays a role. As you’ve said some can have a great inverted v shape. I would not date an overly fat or skinny one though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 12 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I really don’t mind. It also leaves more in the dating pool for me 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:25 PM |
| 29 | The difference between cheating men and cheating womenOh yeah I totally agree. I was just sharing what I’ve been told. Those men respect neither the ugly woman nor the hot one 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 60 | The difference between cheating men and cheating womenLots of men have told me that when this happens it’s usually because the “ugly woman” is willing to do things the “hot” one won’t— usually things of a sexual nature. For many men being sexually adventurous can drastically increase a woman’s attractiveness, even if it’s not in the objective sense. I think a good way to avoid this is to steer clear of porn sick limp dick men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:08 PM |
| 19 | Ladies keep your dignity. You can’t cajole him into commitment, and even if you do it won’t change anything. If he wants to marry you he will.Are you interested in the men that like you? I think a large element of being a pickme is chasing the man you want. Before FDS I used to do that. Now I don’t chase anyone and I do attract guys... but I’m not interested in any of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?If she is indeed a LVW it gives me zero hope because what’s the point in trying if women like that get the men I want? People say I’m “smart” and “pretty” and all that but it means nothing to me because it doesn’t get me what I want in life. It’s like saying someone cheats and undeservingly gets awarded— of course you’ll judge! On the other hand, if things aren’t as they seem and he’s actually abusive (which causes her to be that way) then no, there’s nothing to be jealous of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 01:22 AM |
| 24 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.”Most men have psychopath level empathy” Girl, you made me crack up with that! But on a serious (scary) note, it’s kinda true 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:18 PM |
| 9 | You need friendship and social skills to date successfullyLove this post, it’s very insightful. Completely agree that the issue goes beyond dating. It’s a societal issue where people lack the basic skills required to build a foundation for any relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:13 PM |
| 0 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?Likewise you don’t know anything about me. Do you know how soul crushing it is to try your hardest and constantly be rejected and then invalidated by comments like this? I constantly hear “you’re a pretty girl, why are you single?” And then I see women like this having it all. I do agree with the possibility that things might not be what they seem and he’s an abuser. BUT if that’s not the case and she’s simply like that it gives me zero hope in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:39 PM |
| 7 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?Lol cubic zirconia. Good one 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?Medical professionals don’t like to wear wedding rings because it gets in the way of their gloves. There was lots of gazing but again, he never made a move | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:04 AM |
| 3 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?Sounds like the second guy smartened up. The first one hasn’t learned his lesson yet... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:51 AM |
| -1 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?I thought he’d be HV since he resists the urge to cheat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:49 AM |
| 2 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?Lol that’s a valid question. Sometimes he doesn’t wear his wedding ring because of his job. He caught my eye because we’d make glances at each other. I felt some vibes but he never made a move, later learned he’s married and figured that’s why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:38 AM |
| 6 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?For sure, especially since they have kids! That would be one messy divorce. All these comments make me feel better. At first glance she has a prize, but when I stop to think about it I wouldn’t want to be her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:24 AM |
| 11 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?Never thought about it like that. Typically figured it’s rude to be on your phone in the presence of other people, but you’re right that people also do it as an escape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:15 AM |
| 7 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?Does this mean they’re both low value? And why do you think he’s with her? I suspect that they mutually benefit from the toxic relationship: she gets money, he gets babied? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:13 AM |
| 10 | The other extreme: how do Low Value Women get High Value Men?That’s a good point. I do suspect she’d put up with abuse to keep him (because of his career) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:01 AM |
| 17 | Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!!!!!Laughed out loud at this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 57 | Pickmeisha Rehabilitation: First stepsAMALT unless proven otherwise is one of the best pieces of advice I’ve read. It’s the dating way of saying better safe than sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:03 AM |
| 56 | Check out this winnerOnce you’ve defeated all the OLD fuckboys he’s the final boss 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | #MakeHimWait2020. 90 days minimum.That’s a good point about HVM being able to control themselves. And thanks for the tips! I like to be absolutely sure about a guy before making a move | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | #MakeHimWait2020. 90 days minimum.I guess I wanted to know body language wise if there was any way to read them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:08 PM |
| 20 | #MakeHimWait2020. 90 days minimum.Sexual tension always has me tripping. Anyone have tips to know if the guy feels it too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 05:07 AM |
| 30 | REMINDER: Social &!biological science is full of self important male delusional nonsense. These “studies” on women’s sexuality are shaping a narrative they want to exist.Trash studies. Why is it so hard to fathom that women also care about looks? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 01:35 AM |
| 11 | Struggling to build attraction for HVM. Advice?I wouldn’t beat yourself up about it too much. There’s a reason many good looking guys behave like shit— because they can. If there’s a high demand for someone it means they don’t need to put in as much effort. The demand issue is also the reason most good guys are taken. Can’t count the number of times I met a guy I thought was attractive/HV or whatever only to see a wedding wing or hear the mention of a gf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 8 | How do I become a respectable and attractive lady after I had kids and let myself go ?Start putting yourself first and do it with baby step. For example, if you don’t have time to exercise then replace another activity (e.g watching tv) with exercising. Cover all the basics: try to get enough sleep, drink plenty of water, eat less sugar and more fruits and vegetables, cut out alcohol, use sunscreen. If you’re determined to have surgery start a savings account. You can even look into financing. Some moms have it harder than others “getting their body back” but there’s absolutely n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:38 PM |
| 32 | Okay okay so performing oral sex on menThis is the way I’ve always seen it: regardless of if you’ve done PIV, only perform oral if he’s given you oral first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:32 PM |
| 3 | You will never get commitment or someone faithful out of certain men (Not all commitment is good commitment)I partially agree— I meant more along the lines of if you’re a pickme and force a relationship on a guy. If he doesn’t like you enough he’ll come across as LV. But otherwise, yes. Definitely wouldn’t want to be with a man who manipulates on his free will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 11:34 PM |
| 7 | You will never get commitment or someone faithful out of certain men (Not all commitment is good commitment)Hate to sound like a pessimist, but doesn’t this mean that there isn’t enough HVM for all of us? Alternatively I think it’s possible that a man can evolve to HV status with maturity and experience. And controversially, I think it’s also possible that men can switch from LV to HV depending on the woman. If he doesn’t like you enough or you make yourself a doormat men will take advantage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:23 PM |
| 35 | Pay attention to every detail ladies...LMAO this is gold 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?Good luck! I’m routing for you. Take this greasy BO smelling girl to the cleaners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:39 PM |
| 417 | He has literally no reason not to text you back.This isn’t the post we wanted to hear, but it’s the post we all needed 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:05 PM |
| 10 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?Yes, spot on. People remember you based on how you make them feel— and it would seem that a happy/bubbly personality type makes them feel better. This makes it difficult for those of us who aren’t, however on the flip side I can attest that I tend to find those types annoying! Hence my suggestion to find like minded people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:48 PM |
| 28 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?Sadly, yes. Generally speaking from my experiences most men are drawn towards that. Whenever I come across as “mysterious” or “serious” it attracts weak LVM who want a femme fatale. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:36 PM |
| 37 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?There could be many reasons but something I’ve noticed particular to women is that they’re expected to be happy, bubbly and positive all the time. I myself am a realist/pessimist and tend to be drawn towards those type of people, but the majority isn’t like that. Looks play a role in the initial impression, however the psychology of most is that they want to be around positive people especially if they’re a women. Now I’m not saying you’re negative— in fact you seem interesting and have a high d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:08 PM |
| 42 | Is there a term for a girl who's even worse then a Pickmeisha?Choosemeisha? But honestly we’ve all made mistakes, don’t sweat it. What’s important is that you’ve learned from your past and don’t repeat the same things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 32 | I work in customer service and I’m tired of dealing with gross menI used to encounter the same thing when I worked in retail. Unfortunately there’s not much you can do unless they get really out of hand. Mangers usually side with them too for the sake of customer service. Only suggestion would be to smile less and give curt replies- basically don’t say anything more than necessary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:10 AM |
| 7 | Losing my Virginity at 28: Lessons LearnedHmmm your post contrasts his. He’s making it seem like a big deal while you aren’t. I’m inclined to side with you on this | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:05 AM |
| 25 | Men complain endlessly that women don’t find most men attractive but most men put no real effort into being attractive. The men of PPD think basic adult standards are unreasonable and too high.The comments on that post had me pissed. Men have no idea of all the effort women put into their appearance. And I’m not just talking about makeup— we do the whole shebang of fitness and eating healthy and sleeping right. Meanwhile half of them haven’t bathed in days while they have beer bellies and black shit under their nails. UGH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | For the last several months I've tried making guys crave my attention and validation. The results genuinely amazed me.No offense taken! I’m not discourage— opposite actually which is eager to start. Practice makes perfect with anything, so if you don’t start somewhere you won’t learn :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 01:18 AM |
| 6 | For the last several months I've tried making guys crave my attention and validation. The results genuinely amazed me.For sure! I definitely agree that you have solid experience compared to most people. Can’t say I’d be anywhere near your level... but you also have to start somewhere. I’m dying to try it because this current technique of being passive just doesn’t work for me. Like I said....it attracts all the men I don’t want 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 12:38 AM |
| 14 | For the last several months I've tried making guys crave my attention and validation. The results genuinely amazed me.Thanks! Just gave it a read and that’s an interesting technique. The psychology of stroking their ego and making them crave it is brilliant. Almost sounds like a subtle form of lovebombing minus the pickme element. I’ll need to find some victims to test this on.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 11:30 PM |
| 28 | For the last several months I've tried making guys crave my attention and validation. The results genuinely amazed me.Yasss! Please do tell. I get tons of attention from the ones I don’t want 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 4 | As M. Angelou would say: When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.Realest advice I’ve heard was to judge men by their actions. Words mean shit. Always judge them based on what they do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:17 AM |
| 3 | To the woman who recently went on a date with a man and shared her reddit with him:This is most definitely fake. But if it is true I’d wager my bet that he’s a LVM scared to be caught. Men don’t like when we know their tricks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:16 AM |
| 13 | Can you relate to Pickmeishas anymore?Not really, my friends find my approach bitchy. But guess who’s the one without any man problems?....🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Truth!What if I care about these things? I love to pamper myself and treat my body well. However I do agree it’s not for some damn man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:10 AM |
| 32 | There’s a big difference between privacy & secrecy. If you’re in a “secret” relationship - understand you’re in NO relationship. Period. Cut that shit out. It just wrecks your self esteem & diminishes your self worth. For what? Exactly.Yeah please don’t fall for this shit. You want to be with a man who’s dying to show you off. LV fuckboys stroke their egos when they collect “secret relationships” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:07 AM |
| 37 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.Lmao I thought the same thing. Is it more than just chance? It’s very odd how they ALL sound the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 302 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.I would abort mission. Almost all guys that mention sex before the first date are trash. Plus stop entertaining him with that convo because he’s enjoying it more than you’d imagine... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 07:04 PM |
| 45 | "She just delivered my baby, traumatized her body, and imbalacing her hormones leading to depression, and just when she needed me the absolute most, I cheated"Reinforces my desire not to have kids. Love em, but the risk of encountering this kinda shit is too high | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 18 | My depression has gotten worse after dealing with the guy I was obsessed withSorry to hear that. I think we’ve all encountered a douchebag like this at some point that leaves us in a rut. My first suggestion would be no contact! Block and delete everything that has to do with him. Next is to focus on yourself. Until you’re in a better place be selfish: do things that make you happy and put yourself first. Last, knock this guy off the pedestal you put him on. He is trash to you. You do not want a guy that can’t treat you right. I would also suggest focusing on his flaws. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 03:33 PM |
| 38 | Dealing with rejection?You cut that fucker off— NO CONTACT! Block and delete his low value ass. As for your emotional well being...think to yourself, why would you want to be with a man that doesn’t care about you? He’s trash to you. You deserve better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 04:40 AM |
| 13 | Birthday/Christmas gift adviceMen like practical gifts. I would say a bottle of alcohol (Baileys is nice for this time of year) and something like gloves or a scarf. Men see things like roses as dumb. If they can’t use it or eat it it’s useless to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 04:34 AM |
| 133 | There was a photo of a cat in my lap...Meanwhile he wears his pubes on his face... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:50 AM |
| 34 | This queen just took out the trashWhat could she have possibly seen in him? 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:40 AM |
| 28 | He has to love you more than you love him for your relationship to work.I hate that this is true. I never have feelings for the ones that like me more. Feels like I would be settling or unsatisfied with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 12:01 AM |
| 7 | If you’re broke you have no business looking to get in a relationshipLow value men expect to be both the king and queen 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:00 AM |
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