I’ve been practicing FDS and overall it feels great, however there’s just one problem... men don’t approach me.

General feedback about me is I’m attractive and “polished” looking— hair, nails and makeup are always done, women often commend me on this. Weight is not the issue either, I’m 5’4, 115 pounds. Stable job and advancing in my career. People are shocked to discover I’m single, which indirectly says they’d expect I’d be taken.

How do I get men to approach me when FDS advocates that we be passive about it? It’s almost like I have a force field that repels men and sucks in women 😂