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Outer Game Throwaway1244588/r/seduction17/07/24 01:16 PM
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Inner Game Throwaway1244588/r/seduction24/02/24 01:13 PM
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Field ReportThrowaway1244588/r/seduction11/04/24 12:27 AM
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Fundamentals Throwaway1244588/r/seduction07/07/24 05:02 PM
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ConversationThrowaway1244588/r/seduction20/04/24 05:05 PM
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Outer Game Throwaway1244588/r/seduction30/07/23 12:55 PM
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Inner Game Throwaway1244588/r/seduction26/07/24 12:30 AM
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ConversationThrowaway1244588/r/seduction15/04/24 07:16 PM
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LifestyleThrowaway1244588/r/seduction18/02/24 02:01 PM
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Look op. I am in ya same boat and i am still working passed it. I am still shy and my current situation in life got my confidence messed up. But i learned this. You just have to keep putting the numbers and effort in otherwise that shyness is gonna fuck you over in the long run There is no reason to be shy(goes for me to) There is nothing wrong with approaching a women while nervous and they will notice. It’s ok tho bro. You approaching while being nervous is what we called building confidence a…
/r/seduction21/07/24 06:44 PM
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Bro i realized while im in the same boat of op. I realized that even if i never leave with anything that. I get a lil attention when i am dancing and look like im having fun. I also am introverted but i do seem to know how to blend in and gain energy from the croud of people im around
/r/seduction21/07/24 06:39 PM
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But the dances be sexual like grinding
/r/seduction21/07/24 05:48 PM
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Basically when we talked on the phone she was up front in she wanted “im looking for someone to have fun with” and when we were cool she would check up on me randomly(basically showing that was thinking about me”
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:49 PM
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It helped me and gave me a lil confident boost
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:43 PM
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Nah it could of though, but my text game is lame and im impatient
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:43 PM
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this guy isn’t lying. The gyn wont automatically give him the social confidence. He gotta still put in the effort to improve that too
/r/seduction20/07/24 06:59 PM
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Cause honestly if you approach, women have so many dudes that hit them up from the bar that they will forget you or simply waste ya time and block you instead of keeping it real and rejecting you. Happened to me a couple times. Get number from bar and never get a response. Get number from grocery store and or during the day Gets some type of potential to meet up and better know the person.
/r/seduction20/07/24 06:51 PM
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Even if i am dancing with them and they are throwing their ass on me. I had alot of occasions on where the women would simply not leave with me Like idk what the hell is going on with that
/r/seduction20/07/24 06:46 PM
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Most times you right, i had to say in my head to relax and not focus so much on women so I won’t get anxious But i can have fun without getting women’s number and i do all the time. Now day game and outside these places i had way more potential for shit to happen
/r/seduction20/07/24 06:42 PM
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You are not lying bro about the bar scene. Most times i see the same shit. Women dancing with friends or other women and ignoring men. Well sometimes i get lucky and get some form of attention because im having a good time dancing and maybe sometimes the women like how i look but i mostly get attention from women who aren’t ugly but just isn’t my type or the age range i want tho.
/r/seduction20/07/24 06:40 PM
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This man isnt lying. I was at a grocery store and i had cracked some eggs and put then back and got new ones I walked back and to my surprised the woman i was interested in walked down the same aisle just us. I was nervous af and said what’s up, was this close to not shooting my shoot and just asked for the number and did a quick little interaction asking her name and then she gave me it and i went about my day. Come to found out she knew i was nervous but thought it was cute. She was older than…
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:17 PM
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Don’t matter as long as it get them lol
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:33 PM
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Bro imma be real with you. I appreciate you keeping it a stack. Imma give myself 6 months, cause when i was younger and more slimmer i looked alot better man. Just i lost my job and those 3 months of being unemployed fked me up because i was always in the house and my car was down and i did nothing but Eat, play videos games, watch porn until i found a job. Now im 31 and im too old to be having those same problems.
/r/seduction08/07/24 12:32 AM
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Honestly i am still learning at my age but most my hobbies been nothing but inside. So im tryna find better things to do
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:43 PM
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Bro, honestly i need to focus on my goals because im wasting my time and i feel im chasing women and fking my life up
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:42 PM
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Honestly man. Idek why bro. I just became addicted to this shit. What is mean higher quality. I met people who seem to have good energy and shit going for them. Last few women i met at bars just seem to be into nothing but drinking smoking and partying. It was a few rare occasions i met some decent women but i usually get my eyes on the wrong women at bars because of looks and how they’re dancing. Now when i go out, i check to see which woman come off as sober or dancing with their friends and n…
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:40 PM
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Also imma take up fitness classes in my gym again, because i find it easier to talk to people at the gym in classes when i know i can probably talk to them outside classes it just feels more comfortable start for me
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:34 PM
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Also bro what i learned from clubbing and bars is, i do enjoy listening to the music and dancing with the women even if i don’t end up leaving with them or go further with them
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:32 PM
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Honestly man. I just might do that. I am putting myself in a hole with clubbing financially and i feel most these women in these clubs are single moms and low value. Especially the regulars. Im no one to talk because i became addicted to this after chilling with them but most these women i have nothing in common with and only just wanna have sex with them. Now outside of clubs and bar. I met better and more well put together women during the day and i can’t stand drunk people. Also while i wanna…
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:31 PM
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Honestly i noticed thats a thing. It usually be the baddies with their fat ugly friends who get ignored all night. Honestly i feel op i feel like the ugly fat friend because my crew is more experienced and don’t wingman or look out regarding women. So im there alone and times where i made something happen. I got cockblocked or the hot friend tries to get my attention to the ugly fat friend which i declined. Last time this white girl was tryna get me to talk to that girl which i wasn’t interested…
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:02 PM
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Getting rich won’t automatically make you better with women. Might make a easier target for manipulation. There no telling how long that will take for him to become a millionaire so thats poor advice as well.
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:56 PM
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Idk why people downvote this. If his friends aint helping him get the women he wants knowing that he always win over his friend then i would go solo dolo.
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:55 PM
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Other people from work and family have said the same thing about that. I also enjoy myself more when im alone and not around them when i party. These dudes been partying for 10+ years and someone i use to be close to described them and it seems like they never grown up
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:50 PM
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Trust me im reexamining my circle man because idc how much they say they care bruh, they bring me down every-time i don’t succeed or i found something. Trust me one of them was a co worker who would bash me everyday with other co workers. While he still invites me out and calls me a friend. I just don’t feel respected enough. To the point I can’t give wisdom without being bash or anything i say sounds dumb to them even if im correct.
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:48 PM
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I stopped giving af, and i told myself to change my circle because random strangers have helped me with opportunities than these niggas i do to clubs with. They always recording me or a bad moment i have and share it in a group. So when i go i get nervous and don’t feel confident knowing if i fuck up that these dudes record it and share it as a fucking joke and i just cussed out and called out dude for doing that Also i agree with the drunk thing. I am a different person when im drunk I talk mor…
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:38 PM
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Imma keep note of that and maybe MAKE MYSELF ABOVE AVERAGE IN LOOKS BY WORKING ON MYSELF.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:26 PM
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Damn imma just keep shit simple. So I won’t overthink the bs. Thats my issue i over complicate shit thinking i gotta say this and that instead of just letting it flow naturally and keep it simple
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:24 PM
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Imma be honest, no homo. But the only advantage they have over me is being more talkative and maybe taller. While my disadvantage is being shy, overthinker, anxious, short and chubby. Which all of that can be fixed(not height, i accept it but not my weight tho)if i put in the work on myself and have more confidence
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:23 PM
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I see them standing next to guys but not dancing with them, so i hesitate from overthinking, what i usually do is i talked to the dudes first out of respect asking if they free game but lately i been feeling less confident in club areas. Sometimes they are with their friends or siblings from my experiences or some just say yeah and don’t explain the relationship
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:21 PM
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Also in clubs it’s difficult to tell who is free game or not, that’s why i hesitate cause i have alot of moments when i approach dudes girl, i get rejected and i dance with a girl and end up not leaving with her. Im talking chick grinding their booty on me
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:16 PM
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I have rare moments and it’s mostly when im alone. Never got a lay yet, but i feel there’s a different feeling of me being alone and around others who don’t know personal shit about me from oversharing
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:14 PM
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I feel you, porn just fuck with ya mind and how you see woman. I need to stop watching porn because of that and the fact im addicted and it messed alot of stuff up for me
/r/seduction18/06/24 07:33 PM
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How long you think it’s gonna take to rewire
/r/seduction18/06/24 06:32 PM
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Don’t let others experiences make you feel less than and just get better bro with time
/r/seduction11/06/24 08:02 PM
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Facts bro! Nice look on this. Im not losing nothing anyway and if she see me working out imma ignore her lmao
/r/seduction21/04/24 02:56 AM
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Make friends at the gym or period? Cuz i seen some at that gym that im interested in and i haven’t been there in years lol
/r/seduction21/04/24 02:09 AM
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Funny thing is. My boy knows what gym she goes to and I signed up to workout with him considering my main gym is cant bring a guest. So if she sees me imma ignore her and she doesn’t exist to me
/r/seduction21/04/24 01:59 AM
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So should i cut her off It’s been 12 days since i got her number and i have yet to go on a date and she is becoming unresponsive and unreliable
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:37 PM
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My nervousness is what cause that, we discussed everything over a phone call though. I guess she picked up the fact i was nervous and still went along with it
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:28 PM
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Basically when i put myself out there i see myself having potential but i am nervous still especially around alot of people and end up not doing the approach. This moment it was me and her in the aisle at a grocery store and while i was still nervous i managed to get the number and she found me being nervous was cute at least
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:24 PM
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I think me being indirect and too engaging is ruining it. Im just trying to get her comfortable before i make things sexual but she already told me what she was looking for so i guess i an shooting myself in the foot with my awareness
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:22 PM
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Now she’s being inconsistent and unresponsive so imma give her space and i deleted her number because i think i screwed this up
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:20 PM
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So the approach was short and straight to the point because i don’t like talking much
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:19 PM
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I tried to do that brother, but i have social anxiety out in public and was nervous af to approach her so i tried to do that over threw text and the phone and eventually meeting up
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:18 PM
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Imma be honest might just cut her off and never speak to her again
/r/seduction20/04/24 06:06 PM
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She was supposed to call me yesterday but didn’t, imma just try one more time cause my options are low atm to just block her out the blue
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:53 PM
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Imma just give her some space for now and not overwhelm her but it’s been 12 days sent i got her number and her reason she told me was she had nobody to watch her new born 😳😳😳
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:49 PM
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Yeah i was thinking that and she asked how i feel about her being older than me and i was vague about my first answer and said “you wanna know my real answer, i think its sexy af”
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:48 PM
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Alright, she haven’t blocked me. She just been unresponsive. She has kids and is older(38) than me(30) and claim she doesn’t want nothing seriously. Said that she find my approaching her nervous is cute and she doesn’t care that im 30. She gave the number effortlessly so i was thinking she had attraction or high interest but when i told my friend i got her number he said he recognized her from the gym he goes to which happens to be confirmed. He send her working out with someone that was more fi…
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:43 PM
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Idk if that will get her to start chasing though
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:25 PM
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Basically if i knew what he knew, i would tell him to stop chasing and or block her because she is disrespecting your time and effort
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:24 PM
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I just wanna fuck. Nothing more than that bro
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:50 AM
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I already knew she went to the gym and since my friend recognizes her. I know which gym she goes to. My city is kinda small But i also don’t care about the other dude. Imma take ya advice and be more chilled and considerate and let her chase while i chase my main goals
/r/seduction15/04/24 08:15 PM
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Alright brother. Make sense. I just thought she had low interest imo. Considering she was down to do something and admitted the fact that me being nervous when i approached her was cute But then my boy i know, said he recognizes her at the gym and seen. Her working out with a dude laughing and hugging him. So i thought i was just a guy in the back of the que and that she lost interest
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:44 PM
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She asked what i liked to do and was down to do anything i listed
/r/seduction11/04/24 02:09 AM
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Why so blunt lmao lol She told me she isn’t looking for anything seriously and that she looking for someone to have fun with
/r/seduction11/04/24 12:35 AM
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Guess what. People in this thread have gave some valuable advice that will help me. I just have to apply the advice and get better.
/r/seduction24/02/24 09:55 PM
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You must know what being gay feels like. Im good on that bro. Keep that lifestyle to yourself
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:27 PM
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Ofcourse another dude who follow matrix pill bs
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:25 PM
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If you’re gonna be a dick why comment? Im asking for advice
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:24 PM
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I pay attention to the body language vibe and how engaged they are when talking to me If I get a vibe that they don't wanna talk to me based on the answers given I just move on to the next
/r/seduction18/02/24 06:19 PM
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I can tell when a woman is interested in talking. For example at night games. Some woman I talk to. I go for the ones looking like they having the most fun and they seem very tipsy and seem happy af. Like a married latina I met at a bar. I approached her and her vibe was very high charisma and she was engaged. Asking questions back and forth but she was married though she told me
/r/seduction18/02/24 06:18 PM
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Check dms
/r/seduction02/08/23 02:18 AM
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Ok, but be surprised. My weight carrys me well for my height. Just need to cut my body fat And people say my smile is great
/r/seduction02/08/23 02:11 AM
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I would, but this profile have sensitive information so imma have to blur my face
/r/seduction02/08/23 02:07 AM
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I get haircuts regularly
/r/seduction31/07/23 04:15 PM
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I'll dm
/r/seduction31/07/23 04:15 PM
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She mainly gaved me feedback like that cause when we text I called her out for tryna use me for money after a week of meeting and she got mad
/r/seduction31/07/23 10:53 AM
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No the hell it isn't.
/r/seduction30/07/23 09:35 PM
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5'6.5 inches tall
/r/seduction30/07/23 08:28 PM
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So regarding my flaws. It happens to the best of us.
/r/seduction30/07/23 04:20 PM
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Atleast I'm not blaming my rejection on the women and looking at myself first before anything
/r/seduction30/07/23 03:13 PM
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I don't argue with women. I said something she didn't like and she started talking bad about me. This was a woman who number I got bro and I didn't talk badly back to her. I just taken the heat and was calm.
/r/seduction30/07/23 03:09 PM
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I had her number already It just simply happened later down the road with texting. If you seen interaction you'd understand
/r/seduction30/07/23 03:06 PM
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Basically a beginner, but I got over a huge hurdle that stopped me from making progress and that's being shy and scared of rejection. I just gotta make sure when I leave I have everything checked off for when I talk to people. I got rejected so much that I honestly stopped Giving a damn
/r/seduction30/07/23 02:27 PM
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I gotten numbers sometimes through cold approaching, but alot of has been flakes and low interest. I think working on my appearance(and money to get what I need) and what that woman said will help me out. Cause that's all she said badly about me when we got into a dumb argument
/r/seduction30/07/23 01:10 PM
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Exactly why I don't fuck with PUA guys. Everything seems like they have 100% success rate and never show their fuck ups
/r/seduction30/07/23 01:08 PM
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I think that was my issue and didn't fucking realize it this night even if I showered before going out and brushing teeth
/r/seduction30/07/23 01:05 PM
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This why you get no women bro.
/r/seduction31/05/23 10:47 AM
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