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Tbh I’m one of those guys but I haven’t had any success for a long time. Also from What I notice a lot of guys like me don’t have much success either. and I know some semi introverted guys that can have more success more easily. So I kinda disagree. But maybe that depends on your environment, on how many women you’re around and on how confident are the other men as well.
/r/seduction30/05/26 06:44 AM
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If you’re in SEA or Latin America maybe
/r/seduction24/05/26 08:25 AM
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It’s because most guys aren’t rich at their 30s and 40s. you need to have 8 figures+ in liquid money to get the benefits of “money” in dating in the west.
/r/seduction22/05/26 10:12 AM
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online dating is cancer for most men
/r/seduction15/04/26 08:31 PM
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The environment thing is brutal tbh. It’s not simple at all to be in a good environment where you can reach high volume. people tend to underestimate this.
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:01 AM
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״just be attractive bro”
/r/seduction06/03/26 08:08 AM
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Well in my case they didn’t, went with my friend and only saw girls with boyfriends. couldn’t even get one approach, but maybe my city sucks idk
/r/seduction15/02/26 08:49 AM
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Impossible for most men. If your not top 10% in looks (aka, tall, good jawline, fit, perfect hairline, etc) you’re not goint to get enough volume, or even near enough volume especially in online dating even if your only lack in one of those aspects . the only way for most men to get those numbers is to be extremely rich/famous and run parties in their mansions or some like that.
/r/seduction06/02/26 11:03 PM
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Yes but you need to remember that most cities are shit for daygame because lack of opportunities
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:29 AM
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To find a wingman. It’s very tough going out on my own in my city, but it’s also not simple to find a wing. most of my single friends don’t interested in doing any form of game outside of social circle game or online. After that just going out more and approach more. I find it very hard to reach to 500 approaches like you in my current situation so even if I can have 2 DECENT approaches a week (but every week) I’m good.
/r/seduction02/01/26 09:50 AM
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Take risk. If you’re talking to a girl in a bar try to tease her and if she’s responding in a positive way level up until your talking about “sexy” things and then you can start adding touch if she’s still responding well and then you can escalate. But you must consider the fact that she may not respond in a positive way and she’ll stop talking to you and that’s fin. it can be seen as the wrong thing to do because you couldn’t talk to girls like that before and you don’t wanna “ruin” the chances…
/r/seduction24/11/25 09:51 PM
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Be confident and take risks, tell her: “we can check it out later ” or “I thought you’ve actually have good taste in the beginning”. Some will take 2 steps away but honestly you shouldn’t care anyway if that’s the case. The rest will be into you immediately.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:49 PM
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Honestly I find it extremely hard to make female friends, even harder than dating them. when I go to social events outside of my current social circle most of the time I speak to women i get the vibe that they think that I’m hitting on them, even if I’m not even interested in them. trough my current social circle it’s impossible because most girls there are hate me for some reason. How the hell can I find female friends lol
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:19 AM
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That’s the point there’s no real reason for it. I’ve acted with confidence and was also kind and friendly. I guess they just rude. And they called me unattractive because maybe they found me unattractive lol. Can’t be attractive to all women and yet having only negative experiences for several months can be rough as fuck. And yes I’m probably should switch social circle, it’s kinda hard tbh because it’s require a lot of extra work. it’s also kinda weird that many people recommend about social ci…
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:31 AM
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1-1.5 hours
/r/seduction20/09/25 11:08 AM
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If you’re doing YouTube for the sole purpose of meeting women that’s kinda lame tbh. You need to have passion for that in order to be creative enough to get a large amount of subscribers. If you one of those guys that can make lame videos but get tons of fame because of your looks/charisma so it’s may be possible but still you could achieve more success with just being a normal person and approach.
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:39 AM
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It depends on the person tbh. There are ton of smart and creative people that can get to 1 million subs or make millions but they had an extremely negative experience with women so it’s a lot harder for them to succeed with even 10 women than achieving millions in the bank/subscribers. Actually from my personal experience most of the extremely successful people are like that. And sleeping with 1000 attractive women without being a supermodel yourself (or going for “working women”) actually requi…
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:35 AM
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Where are you meeting those women? Honestly it’s sound like you masters meeting the women that you’re their type
/r/seduction07/09/25 01:31 AM
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approaching 5 times a week is actually pretty good imo. Top 10 percentile
/r/seduction05/09/25 10:23 AM
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If you’re 20 pulling 22 years old girl should be no problem tbh. If you’re somewhat confident and can have more mature vibe you should be able to do so. I thought you’re talking about 28-33 tbh
/r/seduction17/08/25 03:45 PM
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You’re probably top 1% looks and profile wise so you one of the very few that can actually rely on dating apps. 3 dates a week with attractive girls is impossible to most guys and probably already takes to much effort. so just keep doing what you’re doing and enjoy your life tbh
/r/seduction17/08/25 03:32 PM
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Nope, but that’s the point I want to try and see if it worth it. I know many people that got good results immediately after improving their profile but for others it required more iterations. Anyway its a lot of time and money
/r/seduction02/08/25 09:46 PM
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Yeah that’s what I experienced until now. But it seems like some guys that are in the “same level” as me when it comes to raw looks can get very good results in online because they have killer profiles and very good style. but honestly I don’t know how much I will need to invest to get this kind of profile
/r/seduction01/08/25 09:01 PM
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Average looking != average profile
/r/seduction01/08/25 08:59 PM
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What do you mean by fun social media page? Like in wich platforms should I use for it
/r/seduction01/08/25 04:08 PM
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You’re probably underestimating yourself and you’re far beyond average in game/looks/style/charisma etc. most men don’t have women show interest in them especially online where most men have one digit amount of likes/matches on apps these days and have 0 chance stand out in dms. When it goes to real life so it’s easier but still requires charisma and character. But maybe standards in the us are different idk actually
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:29 AM
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How many women are you approaching when you’re going out? And also what do you mean by bar hookup, doing it in the same night or maybe in 4 days after you got her number etc. If you’re going frequently for several years and haven’t got anything so that’s may be a skill issue. And I think it’s also heavily depends on the location, if you’re in a big city or in a place with a lot of tourists I would say it’s happen extremely often, I once had 2 hookups night after night from bars in this kind of s…
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:34 PM
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I guess it’s not that uncommon because a lot of people don’t even trying to meet outside. Which is kinda fucked up imo because for me and most people I know using the apps is a nightmare. Going out requires getting off your comfort zone and a lot more rewarding.
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:22 PM
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Drinking actually helps tbh
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:32 PM
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I think you’re wrong mate, when your traveling your in better mood and women can sense it, that’s why women from other countries seem easier for you. Ive seen it to many times, if you confident women will be more open to you, if you hesitate you’re done.
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:23 PM
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Talk with other people in the place, and by other people I mean guys. If you see a girl you like, try starting talking to her. But don’t go just for picking up women
/r/seduction21/03/25 07:38 PM
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Sound weird for me, where I live girls go to gay bars because they don’t want to get approached lol
/r/seduction21/03/25 07:33 PM
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It’s hard to answer about that if we don’t know anything about you, you can claim anything that you’re charismatic, good looking ugly or boring but none of us knows. If you got rejected so many times you’re probably doing something wrong that’s for sure.
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:08 AM
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lol it’s always was like that. And today digital communication is less than 5-6 years ago. Don’t blame the time it’s just hard and always has been.
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:05 AM
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Not only but definitely best. And you get to this position by being social and outgoing so the best way to start is by going out more and talking to people, but doing it with strategy
/r/seduction02/03/25 03:02 PM
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Regularly? I think like 2 precent. Sometimes? Around 10 I believe, honestly you just need to get out more and approach and eventually it’s gonna happen
/r/seduction21/02/25 04:36 PM
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lol, people here saying shit on this guy have no idea. It’s far beyond women, doing stuff other than sitting at home and watching TikTok’s in your free time is super important. The only reason to stay in the house in your free time is 1. You like it and have no desire to do more. 2. You study, work on side hustle etc. 3. You need to rest after you’ve done some hard work and enjoyed. Other than that you’re kinda wasting your life
/r/seduction03/02/25 12:28 PM
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It’s hard when you also need to improve on other things like career. Going out once a week and work on yourself is maybe not ideal but people have real limitations
/r/seduction29/12/24 03:56 PM
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From experience, some women like it. Also if you have style and good face and muscle you have nothing to worry about you will get the hottest girls. But you will need to work harder, rely less on online and build your confidence. Btw if women say something about your baldness you’re going to get laid if you know how to react
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:59 PM
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It’s 10 times more fun to meet a women at a club/bar than app. It’s about enjoy things not about efficiency. Stupid post tbh
/r/seduction25/12/24 06:58 PM
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I don’t care what random people think, I somewhat care what people that I know will. Anyway I’ll go for it why not
/r/seduction12/12/24 04:34 PM
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Girl like confidence, if you can say you’re alone and be confident about it you’ll be more then fine
/r/seduction07/12/24 03:58 AM
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lol, clubs it latam are one of the best ways to get laid, even if you want “white” girls. If you speak Spanish and you’re white and have just some charisma you can get a girl every time you go out because they fan of white pepole there. Just don’t go for the most attractive girl in the club wtf man
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:41 AM
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It’s always was like this bro…
/r/seduction15/11/24 07:30 PM
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I’ve had the same issue, kinda. 2020 was good for me and had above 100 matches. Now I actually became more attractive and have better photos, yet my results are less good. Post Covid i think meeting irl is the way to go
/r/seduction02/11/24 11:27 AM
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So delete them…
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:48 AM
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Most people get into this to get a girlfriend…otherwise you will probably need to compromise
/r/seduction22/10/24 08:40 AM
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You’re doing nothing wrong mate. At this point I think that dating apps just pick randomly users and promote them more than others. I know many people that look good, basically very similar to each other and also have similar profiles and yet one nearly get matches and the other one get hundreds. Nothing you can do about it guess other than stop using this shitty apps
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:15 PM
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That’s crazy to be honest. I’m not even half your age but I never got even 5 precent of these results in online dating. I’m not bad looking or something, even good looking according to many people but this is crazy that you able to get 200+ likes on bumble in 2 days. For me it’s just 2 likes in the first hour and then I get nothing for a week. Every time that I open the app I had this experience.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:12 PM
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I find it hard to believe that 50% of couple met through dating apps, maybe generally online but not dating apps. anyway as a men you don’t really have control over the women you will date trough dating apps unless you very attractive and have extremely good photos. If you want to achieve control on your dating life your best option is to approach in person. Most men don’t have control over it and that’s the big problem imo because you date lower quality women most of the time.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:02 PM
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If you’re getting rejected let’s say 20+ times in a row then you’re probably doing something wrong. Numbers game is a lie, yes you need to try more times to get something but trying the same thing that got you rejected doesn’t gonna get you anywhere
/r/seduction20/09/24 09:42 PM
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Depends how good looking, and presentation is also very important. Cold approach definitely requires practice but it’s a good skill and also you can get quality results more often
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:34 PM
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That’s what happen when anyone can reply. But there’s also good advice here, if you wanna know who to listen just act yourself and see
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:27 PM
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If apps don’t work for you they don’t work for you. I know good looking people that got 0 results on apps and below average people that get a lot of traffic. People tend to underestimate that amount of effort that it takes to have a good profile, you need to go to places, be with the right person to take them and know how to pose and to know how to build it. And in my opinion put the effort on it will make you focus on things that aren’t really important, it’s the ugliest form of “fake” culture.…
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:52 PM
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Bullshit. I mean if you’re looking like a model or have an extremely good presentation maybe. But for most people approaching irl is the way to go
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:43 PM
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It’s not lol
/r/seduction04/09/24 10:04 AM
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Approach and act with more confidence
/r/seduction01/09/24 01:39 PM
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You don’t, it’s harder. But it can be more rewarding
/r/seduction30/08/24 03:20 PM
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Go to escort or get really lucky with an attractive girl that find you attractive enough and in the right mood
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:54 AM
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It’s interesting, I mean you must be really attractive. You’re probably don’t read the girl in front of you tbh, some girls will seem disinterested in the beginning to test you.
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:47 PM
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I disagree. If you’re getting only rejections your game is shit, your have a weird vibe or you’re not attractive enough and dressed poorly. You can approach 10 girls and not be their type but the 11th one will like you it’s just common sense. Anyway you have nothing to lose from approaching
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:36 PM
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Define high rejection rate, for most guys is at least 90%. I would say that after you’ve had some success rejection will hurt less, the hard thing is getting the first girl to like you
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:37 AM
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That’s the case for most people, unless you’re very attractive but have axintey or something
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:16 AM
1

Like literally going out for approaching or approaching a girl that they seen in the street during they daily routine. For the first one it’s kinda rear, less than 2 precent. For the second one I’ll say 10 precent
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:04 AM
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It’s depends on your profile as well, but still easier than apps. If you left on read try to text one more time, it definitely can work
/r/seduction21/08/24 11:50 PM
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At Apps or in person? On apps is 95 precent how you look like and your photos. If you wanna meet online just try instagram or apps like twitter
/r/seduction21/08/24 10:22 PM
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Practice
/r/seduction21/08/24 10:20 PM
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Most men have it like that’s hahaha
/r/seduction21/08/24 10:05 PM
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Yeah I remember how easy it was for me in 2020-2019 to get a date compared to now, and I actually got better photos and got better looking. Or maybe I was just more patien, nowadays if I’m not having at least 3 attractive matches a week I’m just deleting the app. It’s fucking with your mind in a way that even if you combine it with other methods you will think that your “league” is much lower. From my experience, the girls I match with in dating apps are usually the one that will approach me in …
/r/seduction21/08/24 08:36 PM
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Ok that make sense somehow, it’s interesting because it’s mean that confidence while approaching is extremely important. If you’re so good looking and yet women reject you irl while other people who are less good looking than you can pull it off it’s mean something. Other option is that after one rejection they give up, yet other people just go for the other girl and get success in the end
/r/seduction21/08/24 08:29 PM
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I’ve talked about a specific case of people who are doing great online but getting only rejections irl. Which is weird, didn’t said anything bad about it, just wanted to discuss why it could happen.
/r/seduction21/08/24 07:01 AM
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Wtf is wrong with you
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:55 AM
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Also, don’t just go to a random bar. That’s an important one, many people will say that bars don’t work but they are going only to bars that fit to a group setting. Try to go to a place where the environment is more friendly, usually it’s places where you need to move in the space and not just sit on your table, because coming to a strange group table and approaching them is extremely hard to pull off. But talking to someone while waiting for a drink or near a pool table etc is much easier
/r/seduction20/08/24 09:12 AM
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Good advice would be to drink before going because it’s gonna make you more relaxed. You’re also need to come with the belief that people will benefit from talking to you, that’s the hardest part. Because you’re coming alone you may think to yourself “I have no friends to go with and I’m not valuable” even if yesterday you went out with your friends. That’s because as humans we always survived in groups. But if you seem to come confident, with style and a bit of mystery people are going to react…
/r/seduction20/08/24 09:03 AM
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5/10 is not good. Also don’t forget that the below average looking boring guy from their social circle basically need to try to convince the girl date with him for months! And what’s gonna happen if they will break up? it’s always better to develop the hard skill of meeting women in cold environments. It’s take time though, sometimes years
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:15 AM
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If you’re below average in looks you need an insane inner game to get an attractive girls consistently . Also great style will help you. You need to get to a point that you’re “the guy”, I’ve seen it so many times. Most of the time it’s just because the guy really believes he’s special, have insane embitions and not afraid to talk about it. Most people are usually lame, they’re good with having “just” a good job, few vacations a year etc. and if they have big plans for the future they will be af…
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:58 AM
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It’s working in other places if you don’t “search” for girls and just approach to the girl that looks nice to you on the street/bus station/coffe shop etc. Thats a basic skill that you need to have but the best way to develop it is to spam approach for some period of time and it’s far easier in the places you mentioned. Having 5-10 “smart” approaches can benefit you more than 100 “spam” approaches
/r/seduction14/08/24 05:53 AM
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You can have more attractive version of yourself by being fit and with good style. And age doesn’t matter, there are 20 year olds who like bald men and 40 years olds who doesn’t
/r/seduction13/08/24 02:24 AM
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Honestly it depends how you look like bald. Yeah some people had it better after being bald because it suits them and forced them to be more charismatic, but for some people it can be kinda harmful. If you look decent bald just don’t bother, you’re gonna find success with attractive girls without trying to fake it, if not maybe consider it
/r/seduction13/08/24 02:22 AM
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This is your time to fuck up. Yes it’s harder to approach the hot girl but from my experience 90% of the time it’s in your head. When you’re gonna come back to your country you will have it easier if you get over it because you’re going to understand this shit isn’t so bad
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:58 PM
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Men don’t have testosterone this days wtf
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:28 PM
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Lean body, frame, facial structure and fashion are far more imo than hair
/r/seduction13/03/24 06:04 PM
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This one really got me tbh. He’s actually trying really hard to make people feel bad about themselves…like he’s seems to be actually a really BAD person. I missed so many opportunities with girls that i liked because I thought they didn’t liked me (and they actually did liked me) because of the mindset that he’s trying to promote. Most of those guys are good looking, and with proper photos the rating will rise drastically and if some of them actually approached them irl they would forget about t…
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