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How do I fix it?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:42 PM
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Not nearly 100% lmao. I've rejected girls or been completely turned off by them due to a shit personality, and the same is true where i've not thought a girl was anything special until her personality made her sexy
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:40 PM
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Couldn't you say the same for women with that logic?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:53 PM
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Stupid jokes are easily the best way to get girls to laugh, but really if shes into you she'll be laughing regardless.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:39 PM
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I’d bring it up with one of the cool kids in a way that is somewhat indirect “yeah my weekend was pretty fun I got high as fuck” and if they’re hip or interested in hanging out with you they’ll add on and then you can suggest y’all smoke together or whatever. The older kids absolutely know where some is so I’d find one that can sell to you if you really wanna go that route, but don’t let anyone charge you more than 10-15 a g which they’ll definitely try to.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:16 PM
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Same here but they all smoked a ton. It’s really the easiest way to get in with people you actually want to chill with, as smoking weed is inherently a social thing. That’s what helped me meet people the most in college as well.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:12 PM
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Lmao the shit guys on here worry about
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:08 PM
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“the druggies” lmfao. You’re a freshman so you aren’t hip, but smoking and drinking is a quick way to get popular. That’s just reality like it or not.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:02 PM
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Do drugs
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:01 AM
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If only that were the case. Fat chicks still get reasonably attractive dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:55 PM
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Whatever works for you man. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:20 PM
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I like dominant girls, they're much more of a challenge and interesting to deal with. That said, mostly any girl whose either acting dominant or actually is an alpha female is still going to want a man to be the "dominant one" in the relationship or at the very least be someone who doesn't put up with all of her shit.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:04 PM
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Men who spot approaching women because they have a silicon sex doll in the closet at home are not men who women want to be fucking anyways. Women could give a fuck less, the guys who are into this stuff or debate it are completely off the radar anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:22 PM
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Bingo. Protects their ego.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:28 AM
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When I figure it out for myself I’ll let you know.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:50 AM
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Everyone is insecure. My 6’3 bodybuilding Hawaiian friend who fucks literal 10/10 models still tells me he looks up to me and wishes he could have the personality I do. I’ve talked to absolute stunners who think they’re ugly. Everyone has their own shit whether or not it’s rooted in reality or not. Why do you think movie stars and the rich and famous are often so depressed?
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:38 PM
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They're either going to 1. Act super weird and standoffish because they assume theres some ulterior motive for you hitting on her (like fucking her friends), as if shes the ugliest in the group she 100% has super low self esteem or 2. She's going to be super into it and flip her attitude 180, which is exactly what you want
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:43 PM
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This is absolutely 100% true
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:39 PM
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She was being nice but really not that interested. You caring this much about a girl you’ve never even met is a huge turnoff.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 11:01 PM
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I’m more confident when I’m drinking because I simply don’t care about negative feedback, which ironically is exactly what I avoid by not caring whether or not it happens. In fact, I always love to have girls shit test me when I’m drunk because it just opens the door for you to build rapport and show your value when you pass a shit test with flying colors. I wish I could be like that when I’m sober, and especially when I’m high, as I get 1000x more low energy and anxious when I’m fried off my as…
/r/seduction16/09/18 10:57 PM
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The best way to move up the social ladder is prove to the guys who get the hot girls that you’re worth having around. Girls and especially girls in HS all chase status. Your personality is more or less irrelevant. I remember in HS people/girl would sometimes blow me off and I thought it was because my personality was shitty. Then I got to college and realized that social status is all about how people perceive you. The biggest pussy slayers I knew in HS all did their scheming over Snapchat or at…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:09 PM
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Lmao I have sky blue eyes that I get complimented on frequently and it’s gotten me laid exactly 0 times
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:48 PM
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You being offended about stupid shit offends me
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:45 PM
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I used to be but idk about any longer. I spend literally almost the entirety of freshman year being social almost 24/7 for the entire year. Same with the summer. If I’m not social I get incredibly bored super super fast.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:06 PM
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ive read it. In fact, I’ve read most of if everything worthwhile TRP has to offer, yet I’m still feeling this way. And it isn’t based in reality one bit. I’m an incredibly social person. I’m in a fraternity. I’m good looking and people invariably love me (as cock as it sounds it’s absolutely true) yet I still have this horrible anxiety about myself for no reason. When I’m sober I’m a cool guy that people like. When I’m even buzzed my charisma can absolutely own a room, and it hurts my confidence…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:39 PM
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The shitty part is that I’m already incredibly social. I have a fantastic social life, and am pretty much the “alpha male” as trp describes it to a T when I’m fucked up, but I can’t always muster the energy when I’m sober and it makes me hella insecure.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 01:40 PM
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How do i reach that energy level on a daily basis though?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 05:26 AM
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Can’t tell you how many times I got cockblocked by upperclassmen last year lmao
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:03 PM
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Lmao bruh how do you not have time
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:34 AM
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Dumb as fuck. Hanging out with a lot of girls is the best way to meet new chicks and get laid especially if your girl friends wingman for you which they love to do
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:58 PM
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Lmao quoting Goebbels. The cringe is real Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:45 AM
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I find this super hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 07:04 PM
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The thing that I most struggle with is easily just mustering up the energy to socialize. If I'm in an up mood and I start conversations with people it literally always goes well. I just can't reach that energy level to have the motivation to talk to strangers very often and it makes me very insecure and frustrated. I have a very very active social life and meet tons of people all the time but I feel like I have to be buzzed on a few shots to really become interested in other people enough to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 07:11 PM
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I didn't mention we hung out with these girls the night before and me and this chick were talking for awhile and she was giving me some IOIs then (me and another guy were both trying to flirt with her and she would make eye contact and talk at me 90% of the time whereas she would only respond to the other kid when he asked her a question, told me I looked like a family friend who is a multi millionaire and has a hot wife etc). If you were in this situation, with your friend and her friend there,…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:00 PM
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Well you can lead a horse to water right? My highschool friends are more or less losers. They bring little to the table and I’m always the one making the plans and having them to defer to me. In college on the other hand, everyone pulls their weight. Everyone brings girls and everyone knows what’s good. That’s what you should expect from your friends.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:18 PM
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By pinpointing where their shitty annoying behavior comes from and helping them work through that insecurity. Helping people make positive changes and move forward isn’t so much “molding” them in the manipulative sense but more simply being a good friend and person which makes people love and respect you. My friend was a fat slacker and would take his insecurities out on other people by taking shit way too seriously and over compensating to seem like the alpha big dog all the time. I got him int…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:57 PM
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So my issue is more with how to physically escalate and actually seal the deal. I have plenty of opportunities and tons of social proof but I never seen to be able to meet a girl at a party and then take her home and hook up?
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:21 PM
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Yeah I think my issue as a freshman last year was that I was literally either in class (usually with a few friends) or at the dorm hanging out with people, so I really never got time to meet people alone.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 09:59 PM
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So here's my dilemma: Im 19 and go to a party school where I'm in the top 10% of guys easily due to my social connections and the fact that I'm a pretty social. However, the guys and girls I interact with on a regular basis are also all top 5-10%, and you can probably imagine that girls who are 8/9s are going to be dating up for sure. The girls are one thing, but it also certainly doesn't help that everytime I go out or meet people essentially i'm with my friends who are all 8+, and in fact my r…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 02:57 PM
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As if Drake isn’t the biggest artist in the world right now love him or hate him haha it’s hilarious
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 01:25 PM
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Forcing others to bend to your will is very needy. If you want people to do what you want them to the best way to go about it is to show them how it could benefit them. Being a charismatic leader is all about being able to sell people on your way of doing things and to convince them that your way is better than theirs regardless of what idea your selling them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 03:43 AM
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If you’re a competent leader, why would they want to spite you? It wouldn’t benefit them. Being a leader with an alpha personality is good but it isn’t everything, and in fact most people are fine being followers and that’s ok. I know a ton of guys with beta personalities who are awesome and get girls and that’s because they’re ok with themselves and don’t try to be something they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 03:40 AM
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Abundance. Show less investment and demonstrate why you’re the alpha, as an alpha always has other friends and things to do.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:26 AM
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Lmao imagine being this deluded. You worry about the media manipulating you while you praise the president who is a Russian puppet in Putin’s back pocket.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:28 PM
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Not true. They’ll always be insecure and compare themselves to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:36 PM
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Make your existing friends into a better version of yourself if you can’t simply find new people. Don’t tell, show them why they should follow your lead and do things other than what they’re comfortable doing rn which is weed and Xbox.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:59 PM
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If you’ve never heard white guys bitch about black dudes railing white chicks you’re living under a rock. I say this as a white dude. I don’t take racial shit seriously so none of what you said applies. You’re projecting. I’m a white guy without an ounce of white guilt of any of that shit yet I can point out stupid shit white people do.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:54 AM
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People who say this always make me think they’re scared they won’t measure up or some shit
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:06 AM
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Myself included. I got more pussy in middle school than a lot of guys on TRP have in their lives. However I ran into some tough times in HS (IE: got fat as fuck playing football) and it was then that I realized that I’d skated by my whole life never really having to try or invest in relationships with people and that I had no idea how to get back the “magic” I had before. That’s where TRP came in and helped me better to understand the workings behind the social interactions I’d participated in m…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:15 PM
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Obviously high self esteem. Having anyone, even a super attractive girl you’re banging invest all their self worth in your opinions of them is exhausting. When a girl has a high self esteem she’s more of a “challenge” which for me is good. A girl whose super submissive because she has no confidence isn’t gonna think for herself and will defer to you, which is good in the short term but annoying in the long term. Whereas a girl who knows her worth will challenge you on shit and not just blindly f…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:25 PM
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It doesn’t really but I’ve noticed white dudes get the most hurt about black guys railing hot whites women so I used that as an example
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:07 PM
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Mobile and trying to reply to people during my rest sets isn’t a good combo lmao
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:12 PM
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You. I’m just trying to make sense of your comment about how partying didn’t help you advance as a person.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:09 PM
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Because being a whore is a mindset and isn’t directly proportional to having a lot of different partners. You can be a virgin who fantasizes about getting gangbanged by 15 Black guys or a serial monogamist who wouldn’t dream of cheating on her bf but has an n count of 10+. There’s a difference and even though sluttiness is often caused by red flag personality issues it’s not always directly related.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:07 PM
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And you found you still hadn’t found what you were looking for and sought through partying and hooking up with chicks?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:02 PM
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Being a DJ and being a kid that parties on the weekends are two different things. But to say nothing good comes of it is disingenuous. I’ve met the most girls at parties and solidified some great male friendships by going out together. But if you were really a local celebrity why are you on trp?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:38 PM
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Lmao is that a hint of jealously?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:29 PM
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This is absolute facts. Being a slut is a mindset. If a girl is a slut and her n-count is super low, you can best believe that’s gonna average out eventually. Virgins especially will want to play the field. Meanwhile a girl who isn’t a slut but has dated a lot and maybe hooked up casually is going to know what she wants and seek that rather than go for what they think they want and end up cheating because what they thought they wanted isn’t actually what they did.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:41 PM
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Or because when your girl is whining about you doing some small insignificant thing it’s better to just chill and watch the movie than refuse and start a fight just because you “can’t seem beta by compromising”. It’s like some of you have never dealt with real life people before.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:11 PM
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And now you're crying about it on the internet. Seems like your girlfriend was right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:35 PM
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The thing about the anger phase is that for some losers it isn't a phase. Let the bitterness go bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:13 PM
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Haha another one of my friends (not the kid I referred to in the previous post) is a 6’0 190 D2 football player with probably 8% bodyfat and while the kid occasionally gets laid from tinder sluts looking for the pipe, you put him in a social situation where you actually have to talk and he will come off retarded every time. I literally mentor this kid on how to act in social situations and he’s gotten a lot better, but before I started bringing him around my group of friends he never went out (t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 09:51 PM
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Wrong. The halo effect is real of course but that doesn’t mean you can’t have presence if you aren’t a 10/10 Adonis. Have you ever actually logged out of your lookism incel boards and ventured out into the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 09:45 PM
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By actually getting with women first and foremost lmao
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:06 PM
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Haha that’s weird. I want a girl who is comfortable doing anything in bed. Thinking about other guys fucking them in the past is kinda wack my guy.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:38 PM
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That chick is at best a 5. She’s hiding her stomach fat by hiking up her shorts but you can tell she’s a bit chunky. My body count is at 4 and all 4 of those girls were hotter than this one. I’m 5’8. Wow! How did that happen? Almost like if you’re a guy whose over 5’5 you’re going to be tall to a majority of girls. Keep spouting the same blackpill whiny fag shit and let the guys who actually go out and talk to women have all the fun. By the way, my friend whose 5’3 but incredibly DGAF got more p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:53 PM
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It’s amazing how I’ve only seen 3 of your posts yet I can tell you’re a short guy whose incredibly insecure about it. Everything you post is about height or guy who are 10/10 and have literally 1/100000 looks. Obviously those guys are playing the game by a different set of rules. And that doesn’t matter in the least bit to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:44 PM
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Ah and I was just agreeing with you on another post of yours. This blackpill shit isn’t at all accurate. Presence isn’t about how tall you are dude. Whenever I see people posting shit like this about how looks are everything it makes me laugh but also makes me think that the poster hasn’t interacted with enough high value guys to see how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:41 PM
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Hahaha holy shit I’ve never heard this. That’s hilarious. I literally fucked more times than this dude in middle school. That said he posts some decently good shit. Sometimes it takes a loser to know where most losers are going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:36 PM
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You’re a try hard and girls hate try hards. If you were effortlessly winning you wouldn’t have this problem.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:28 PM
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Sounds like you don’t stand out so they have nothing to criticize. I highly doubt that it’s because you’re “smart”. If that were true people would either tell you or make it clear through their actions (deferring to you, valuing your opinion over others including theirs, asking you for suggestions etc). But your friends are likely talking behind your back tbh. It’s the reality of a lot of relationships. The key is to run the social group by becoming everyone’s “best friend”. That way if/when peo…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:51 PM
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And my point wasn’t that men don’t do it, it’s that they don’t do it nearly as much or to the damaging extent that women do. However you are right that men will ironically call chicks who give it up to other guys but not them sluts. That’s probably the most common slut shaming I’ve seen from other guys. But that is mostly from the losers who blame their lack of pussy on the women and can therefor be disregarded along with all the other bitter people who don’t take responsibility for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 05:35 PM
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And my point wasn’t that men don’t do it, it’s that they don’t do it nearly as much or to the damaging extent that women do. However you are right that men will ironically call chicks who give it up to other guys but not them sluts. That’s probably the most common slut shaming I’ve seen from other guys. But that is mostly from the losers who blame their lack of pussy on the women and can therefor be disregarded along with all the other bitter people who don’t take responsibility for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 05:34 PM
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My main issue with calling a chick a slut is that sometimes you’re right, it isn’t out of needniness but simply being horny and open to experiences. That’s fine, and in fact I had that very convo with a female friend of mine regarding her friend she was trying to set me up with. However, if a chick uses her body as a means to get something, like a nice guys who tries to be nice to get pussy, then it comes from a place of neediness which people are going to find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 05:28 PM
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I was comparing nice guys to sluts, which is their female equivalent. Read my comment again because it seems you missed the point somewhat. But yeah the cool guys are always going to be markedly more misogynist than pretty much any other demographic of guys, which is something that has always blown my mind. It’s funny now but when I was a lowly sophomore or junior I couldn’t wrap my head around the fact that I was getting passed up for guys who had 0 respect for any of the girls they were fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 04:08 PM
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What you’re describing seems a lot like the story of the typical nice guy that every blue piller (or red piller for that matter) shits on around here. Mostly anything you’re going to be doing out of neediness is going to be viewed negatively by your peers. A “nice guy” is going to get no pussy and be a doormat while the slut is going to get no commitment and be a doormat. It’s fine to mock the “nice guy” and argue that women don’t owe him sex and that his issues are his fault, yet it’s somehow m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 04:04 PM
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Men may not want to date sluts but that isn't slut shaming. They may get butthurt when they get turned down too but if the excuse wasn't that she was a slut it would be that she was a bitch or something. As socially "damaging" as it is for a girl to be branded a slut by other girls the same is true for the guy who doesn't get any pussy especially if he gets turned down from the slutty girl. But guys are still gonna hook up with sluts. They're still gonna buy them shit, spend time with them and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:41 PM
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Consent laws that allow women to withdraw consent after the fact and punish the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:36 PM
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It's more like you and your friends are the school drug dealers who rip off all the freshman for 20 a g and then all of a sudden some dude comes out of nowhere and serves everyone for 5 a g. I wouldn't say sluts pressure women to lower their standards though. Guys who fuck fatties dont pressure me into doing the same. The issue of assault is a very nuanced one, but I'd say that if those attitudes do prevail, which at least for the teenage guys i'm around isn't accurate, it would have something t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:19 PM
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How do I deal with them? Same way you deal with any AMOG or wanna be AMOG, by not taking them one bit seriously. Laughing at them like what they're saying is hilarious and pathetic, and bonus points if you just AMOG him in front of the girls, which will go over well if you actually are higher value.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:05 PM
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I've seen more slut shaming from women than guys tbh. I remember one time in HS vividly where we were sitting at lunch when one of my friends sits down and enthusiastically tells us he just got head in the bathroom. The guys of course all dap him up and have a good laugh while the girls sat in shock and said shit like "yeah which slut did you convince to do that" while seeming super annoyed and uncomfortable. In fact I'd say that girls reacting to hearing about other girls giving it up almost al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 02:59 PM
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Any tips to get to that level in business? I’m a fiancé major right now going into my second year and while I’m not fantastic at high level advanced math I think I make up for it with reading/writing skills and overall ability to communicate and lead. Does finance sound like a good career path for me?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:14 PM
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There's more than truth and lies. You need to know who needs to hear what, to do what you want them to do. Facts
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:09 PM
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Also in my experience women don't give a shit how guys treat lesser weaker men. In fact the guys that get bullied are often labelled nefarious titles to excuse the bullying they receive. Loser, creep, weirdo to name a few. Of course that's when they aren't completely invisible to those women to begin with. Read my original post. Bullies are bullies because they have social proof and excude a lot of alpha traits, which is attractive to women. Dicking on low value guys in front of women is also in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 01:19 PM
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Even if that was the case (which it isn’t) do you really think the women are attracted to that sort of abuse or do you think they stay for different reasons? That’s a rhetorical question by the way. Even some basic reading on this topic will get you hip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 01:11 PM
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Horrible way to put it. Alphas aren’t inherently bullies and betas aren’t inherently victims. I will say many of the traits that the stereotypical bully has are attractive to women, like confidence and social dominance, but the cruelty inherent in these types of guys is a huge turnoff for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:53 PM
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No. Beta guys are just not going to be getting tons of casual sex, which for a lot of guys on TRP defines success, as it is the thing many are missing from their lives or are working towards getting. Most guys are betas. Most guys have sex. Most of the guys I know in relationships are “betas”, yet they’re dating hot women and getting consistent sex. Alpha traits aren’t all good and beta traits aren’t all bad, contrary to what you’ll read on here a lot of the time. People only refer to beta trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:51 PM
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It may not be the case for most women, but the fact that it’s the case for some women is evidence enough that men benefit much less than women in marriage. Women marry for a lot of reasons but they often pick men based on earning potential and status, two very superficial things that alone aren’t enough to make a successful and healthy relationship. In the end though, women are the selectors in the SMP, and therefor are mostly responsible for whatever type of marriage they get into.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:44 PM
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Marriage is shitty for everyone involved a lot of the time but men undeniably get the short end of the stick most of the time. Housewives staying home, raising the kids and spending hubbys money drinking margaritas with the girls on a Tuesday at 11 am used to be the norm and is still fairly common, but you’ll almost never hear about the reverse even in today’s progressive era. I’m literally at a job right now where I see a ton of these women who have never worked and are living the life that too…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:31 PM
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Social intelligence is more useful imo. I have a few HS friends who are literal geniuses (1400+ on their SATs, 4.0 in college without trying) and I bet if I asked all of them they’d tell me they would trade their analytical brains for a more emotionally intelligent one any day of the week. Having perfect grades is objectively much more important than having a good ass time in college, but the look on the faces of my friends when I tell them funny or crazy stories tells me they’d trade it all in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:06 PM
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I’m the opposite, which I find funny considering red pillers on here are often highly spergy and analytical. I have sky high social intelligence. I’ve always been highly empathetic and in touch with others, which is good and bad. It’s good because you can calibrate and make deep connections with people but it’s bad because I can almost always tell what people really mean and I have a very low tolerance to BS or fakery, which can lead to me AMOGing people which hasn’t pissed anyone off that much …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:01 PM
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Hard to tell on here sometimes with all the incel shitpostig on here
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:45 AM
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Or because marriage almost always benefits the woman much more so than the man in almost every scenario? I think many get into it for the wrong reasons, and then are unhappy when the realization of “till death do us part” actually hits and they realize this isn’t the guy they are looking for, but can’t leave due to the sunk cost fallacy and or because the benefits they get trumps the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 11:42 AM
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Exactly. But if the trailer park girl was hotter and had a better personality than the chick doctor, the guy in this scenario would seriously consider her over the female doctor. If this scenario we’re reversed however, the trailer park guy could be Brad fucking Pitt and she wouldn’t pick him over the doctor. That’s the main difference between men and women when it comes to dating. Women will pick status over looks every time whereas the opposite is true of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 11:37 AM
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Both.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:01 AM
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Lmao. Not true at all. Not having social media is, at most, a minor dock at first impression. Girls will ask about your insta and when you say you don’t have one you may get some momentary weird looks, but if you say something like “I had one but deleted it, I don’t need people seeing everything I do” you can explain it away and then demonstrate your value through your game. Social media can be a tool in your favor if you have an active account with a lot of followers, but if it’s anything but t…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 10:49 AM
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Having male friends is easy imo. Go to things that interest you (for me it’s the gym, BJJ, rock climbing etc). You meet someone you like? Befriend them, bring up your mutual hobby and suggest you do something sometime. Not everyone will have time but you’ll meet cool people this way. As for how to get closer and not just superficial relationships, most guys are looking for an emotional outlet and are secretly begging for someone to actually hear them out and give a shit about what they go throug…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 10:37 AM
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Responding to the same post for a second time because I didn't give your first message enough attention lmao. Only confirms that everything that I said was spot on. You're a fucking weirdo bud.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:40 PM
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Care to link the scale? Found a bunch of random shit when I looked it up. I’m going into my sophomore year in a frat at a pretty big party school. Any fire tips you can offer about gaming at parties or with sorority girls that aren’t already obvious?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:45 PM
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I had bad imposter syndrome my first semester of college. Basically you feel like a different person than the person others view you as. I was around the type of people I knew would take me places socially and vice versa, but I still felt like the kid who was fat, quiet and socially anxious sophomore/junior year of HS. They were the type of people who had been going out since 8th grade and it somewhat intimidated me. Only way to fix it is fix how you feel about yourself. I went from the kid who …
/r/askTRP02/08/18 01:56 PM
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Good work. You still in college? This is the setup I've been looking for tbh. Also what is PSL looks scale?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 01:49 PM
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Do you compare yourself to others? If so, what factors do you look at and put weight into? Where do you feel you’re lacking? Is your ideal life different from your current life and if so in which ways? Start to ask the right questions and you’ll find the answers you’re looking for
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:10 PM
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Haha holy fuck. Have you even fucked this girl? You are seriously deluded and it’s obvious from the matter of fact statement comparing yourself to Jeff goldblum. You’re also clearly ultra butthurt because, as I said in my other post, delusional as fuck and your perception of yourself is not aligning to how other people are reacting to you. It’s creepy, needy and probably why you’re not doing better. People can pick up on vibes. Back to your point though, the reality is, women like fuckboys. If y…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:59 PM
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Bruh your post is geeking me. Obviously you think that you’re a quiet brooding alpha male chad that is so clearly better than these “crass wanna be alphas” (who are probably much more socially dominant than you) yet the results listed in the post above, which is obviously referring to one specific girl, don’t align with that. Truth is that the loud, obnoxious douche bag is every bit of a high value guy as you if not more so. People who are like that command attention and draw people in, regardle…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:35 PM
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Well, I have some friends I otherwise wouldn’t hang around with if they didn’t do something for me. Whether it be smoking me out or simply serving as walking social proof, they serve a purpose so I put up with shit I wouldn’t put up with from my “close friends”. However when my actual friends are in town and hanging around my other friends it’s very apparent whom I would prefer to spend my time with. I’d rather have a friend who does nothing for me but is charismatic and fun than a friend who do…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:45 PM
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I’d say the Muslims are the least of yalls worries considering it’s highly likely that much of the British ruling class is made up of a cartel of pedophiles and other predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 02:29 PM
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What’s wrong with jocks lmao that’s a lot of women go for
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:18 PM
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Not exactly what I’m looking for sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 02:01 PM
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Haha jesus what a lucky guy, if you know a place where I can find some submissive nymphos go ahead and point me in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 11:33 AM
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How did you guys adopt this dynamic? Did you go into the relationship with it in mind or did it just arise?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 11:18 AM
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Funny thing is that even with your analogy it is only true if you allow it to be. I’ve literally been that guy walking around a football or basketball party as a short skinny white dude, except I was the one bringing the cheerleaders through because that’s what you have to do when your looks only get you so far. Some guys are inherently gifted. They are athletic and good looking which puts them in a positive feedback cycle from a young age. I was that guy, until my peers shot up in height and si…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 10:29 AM
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Probably actual NPD but obviously he wasn’t ever diagnosed
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:19 PM
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One of my friends is like this and I’ll do my best to diffuse the tension when he spergs it up in front of people and then go over where he fucked up and how to fix it once we’re alone. Been working pretty well, but he has a longer leash than many because physically he’s a good looking guy.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 05:22 PM
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You confuse narcasissim with self assuredness and low agreeability. People who are genuinely extremely secure and confident and know what they want go far in life. Narcissists seem like this type of guy but under a microscope it becomes extremely apparent that they use the outwards bravado and overconfidence as a way to compensate from the profound emptiness inside. To many of the guys here who were empathetic and selfless to a fault, the allure of a man who gives no fucks and does only what ben…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:08 PM
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Narcissistic people simply use others as a fuel to make themselves feel validated. They see people as tools to be utilized however they see fit, and discarded whenever their usefulness runs out. I’ll give you an example: One of my friends from high school was a huge narcissist and would basically do two things that made people very dependent on him. See the best in everyone. Sounds like a good thing, right? Especially when the kid is very popular already? Well, like I said earlier narcissists se…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:37 PM
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All of the non “white” black girls I’ve known were so masculine themselves that it never really surprised me that they were into the hyper masculine wanna be thugs that went to my high school, which is in an extremely wealthy county. This never really bothered me as I’m a white dude who happens to not find black chicks attractive really at all (lost my vCard to one in middle school though go figure), but I don’t think there is a single demographic of women who shit tests more often or harshly th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 11:57 AM
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If he wasn’t chubby in the second pic he’d obviously look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 11:47 AM
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Why wouldn’t they? I’d do the same if I were a woman. They can have their cake and eat it too. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 12:22 AM
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As much as men say they want one thing, they really don’t do it in practice. All the girls I know who were gigantic hoes married well, and the nice girls are either still searching for good relationships or getting out of bad ones. The hoes who have been involved in a lot of relationships typically know their value and worth and demand to be treated accordingly. The “nice girls”, like nice guys, are in a scarcity mentality and therefor will put up with bullshit making them inherently lower value…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:52 PM
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Drinking age isn’t 21 anywhere they refer to it as a pint. Obvious troll is obvious.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:26 AM
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Haha fuck highschool man. Same kids who ran my HS and barely gave me the time of day are now banging my line on the daily because I went to a better school than them, fucked hotter girls and had a way better time. Sounds like some nerd fantasy revenge porn but for me it was the reality. Point is do what you want and don’t care too much about status or whatever because the second you graduate everyone is on the same even footing once again only this time it’s not the kids who matured faster than …
/r/askTRP26/07/18 10:37 PM
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For me I was simply way too focused on other people’s needs and happiness over my own. It came from a place of insecurity and neediness as well, because I really wanted people to like me. Once I started to get some more friends and had some abundance, I felt I could really open up and be myself and that was when I started to see some of the best results. The social pressure disappeared, and going to college only further helped me as I had essentially a blank slate which allowed me to use my newf…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:25 PM
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Oh I’m not blaming anyone. I’m extremely happy I ended up where I am. It’s a good school and my social life is fantastic. Much better than it would’ve been otherwise. But that doesn’t change the reality that women and minorities are given special passes in certain areas of society. They have it harder in other areas sure but most men are given 0 special passes at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:50 PM
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My high school councilor, multiple college admissions people, tons of internet research and personal anecdotes. I applied for everything like 2 years ago so it’s very fresh in my mind. Where are you getting your facts from?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:47 PM
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Appeal to authority. I’ve spoken to tons of these people and they’re far from doing an exact science. But there are quotas to fill. Living in a better area makes it harder to get into good schools, and race and gender absolutely play in. You’re clueless if you think they take the best students straight up. It doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:10 PM
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Not an excuse just reality my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:08 PM
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On a level playing field those two things would be the best thing to measure an applicants qualifications to be at said university though, right? As opposed to looking at very subjective extracurriculars and other factors which basically boil down to what race/gender you are and how much money your parents make. If you’re poor and brown you’ll get into most colleges assuming your grades aren’t horrific and not only that but you’ll probably get tons of economic aid too. I know what I’m talking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:39 PM
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Maybe, but if I was brown or had a pussy I would’ve gotten in anywhere I wanted. Seriously though, if I told you and SAT or HS gpa (which sounds majorly faggy so I won’t) you’d understand what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:19 PM
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Arguing that women aren’t on a pedestal is almost comical. Women have always and will always be the protected, pedestalized sex. Which was/is essential to the survival of the human race. Men are naturally programmed to protect women, thus inherently pedestalizing them. Most women are inherently valuable because they have something most men desperately want and need, to the point they’ll do most anything to get it. Whereas women, who are much less thirsty, determine which males are valuable and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:15 PM
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It’s true, though. I got waitlisted at the best school in my state and i know girls with worse grades, extracurriculars and SAT/ACT scores who got in simply because they were girls to even out the schools gender ratio. I now go to a school with around 65-70% girls and yet it’s still easier to get into as a girl especially if you apply to be a business major which is easily the best program at the school.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:07 PM
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If your boys aren’t breaking your balls you aren’t near the top of the food chain
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:12 PM
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I see canned openers and lines as a way of building attraction and interest so I can show my true personality later. You can’t dazzle them with your charisma if you come off boring upon opening or lose their interest fast which is bound to happen most of the time if you go in without a plan so to speak. Like a rapper who writes his bars vs strictly free styling. One is always gonna sound better than the other, even though some people can freestyle better than other rappers who write their verses…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:30 PM
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Those you listed work for a single girl, not so much in situations where you have to open to a whole group of girls which I had little experience with yet seems to be the majority of my sets at frat parties or bars. It’s pretty well outlined in the mystery method. You can easily find a PDF online, it’s a very very good book with tons of good advice and reframing of social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:00 PM
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My bad, someone responded to the same saying they were MGTOW. Didn't notice there were two different usernames. PUA helps, for me, with openers and providing somewhat of a template on how to escalate. That's all it should be, and a lot of people run into trouble when they think PUA will replace a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:29 PM
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Exactly. You'd be surprised at how many people are fiending for moves. Even the most popular kids are going to react positively to someone asking them to do something fun. If you aren't doing something fun then fix that and people will want to be apart of your frame.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:28 PM
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I lost hella weight and ended up unearthing a sharp jaw, but other than just being super low bf it mostly comes down to genetics. If you have a shit jaw grow a beard. One of my friends who pulls the most is 5’4 and has a shit jaw so it really doesn’t matter in the least.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:08 PM
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Bingo. Lifting and getting inner game down is the most important thing you ever do. I lost my vCard at 13 but didn’t so much as kiss a girl since but first week of college I doubled my n count and got hella ass at parties because I was in great shape and had hella confidence Only thing I regret about HS was about girls, as not having female friends in high school is gonna hurt in the summer when you’re back from school unless you meet girls who live around you, which I luckily did.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:57 PM
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Hahah oh man. I could’ve literally written this almost word for word 2 years ago. Here’s what I did, you’d be smart to read this whole post. I was a popular kid my whole life until freshman year of HS when I put on hella weight and got very introverted. Took until the summer of junior year to wise up to the fact that while I had “school” friends who all seemed to like me, I didn’t have any real friends to hang out with. And you know why? Because I didn’t stand out. I was a “yes man” who seemed a…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:44 PM
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You’re operating under the assumption it doesn’t work because it didn’t work for you when clearly it works for millions others. You’re a MGTOW lmao why should anyone take you seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:10 PM
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It may not have worked for you at first but that doesn’t mean it wouldn’t have if you hadn’t quit nor does it mean that other guys shouldn’t work to improve themselves and their game
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:31 AM
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So you never learned game and decided to give up rather than improve? Yeah, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 12:15 AM
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I found out that no matter how good your game is, it is very pale vs good looks and wealth. But good game in addition to those things can make you better than 99% of guys. Even game alone makes you better than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 10:12 PM
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It shows you the “right” way to do things, and in doing such illuminates what’s lacking in your own game/appearance. Take the mystery method for example. You had thousands of guys having 1000x more success with women than before. It doesn’t matter how it works, only that it does. If a book persuades you to go out more, is that not an example of it working?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 06:53 PM
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Social connections are great but if you have no game you won’t get laid. I can probably walk into a party at any of the big 3 schools in my state and know a few people but that doesn’t mean I have airtight game that can’t improve or that I’m drowning in pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 05:46 PM
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Reading these books helps self diagnose. It can also help with pretty much everything else. I don’t know what you mean by they have nothing backing their effectiveness. That’s objectively false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 05:41 PM
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Yeah, this isn't giving the average guy advice on how to fuck at all. Your advice is how not to put people off. If the average guy wants sex he must look at those who have sex and ask what they have that he doesn't. Is he fat? Lose the weight, confidence will follow. Does he have no game? Read PUA books, inner game books and practice talking to people. People want a magic pill to suddenly become an alpha chad pussy destroyer and it doesn't work that way. One must be honest with themselves and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:42 PM
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A woman won't invest (give attention and validation) until they are given a reason to, while a guy will invest simply based off a girls looks. And why would she? She gets approached or hit up by guys all the time.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:35 PM
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Do a little good old fashioned brown nosing to get your foot in the door (ex: man you seem to be very good with clients, let me buy you a beer so I can pick your brain a little bit) and then demonstrate value through your personality, ambition etc
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:32 PM
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I disagree. I'm 19 and yet I've made more strides socially in the last year than many will ever make in their lives. My peers and even to some extent my parents look to me for validation and advice. Some of the same people who literally didn't even know I existed for most of high school. 2 years ago I was deeply depressed and constantly compared myself to the cool kids who I was just close enough with to know that they were having fun but not close enough to actually be invited. I've since surpa…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:39 PM
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Fuck sounds like I may need to check out Europe hahah. I have to consciously up my energy levels whenever I’m scheming on girls because most of the time I’m very laid back and calm and it takes some concentrated effort and or alcohol to reach the levels necessary to be able to “put on a show”.
/r/seduction19/07/18 02:18 PM
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And yet Obama posessed more power and influence in his 4 years than Alexander the Great could’ve won in 10 lifetimes. Masculinity and alpha behavior is great when picking up women, but the addition of beta traits to certain alpha traits are what allows you to get ahead in business and working world. Alexander the Greats form of masculinity wouldn’t exactly go over in 2018?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:22 AM
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And I’m typing this message to you from a phone that can access billions times more knowledge in the span of 5 seconds than existed in the entirely of Alexander’s empire. The decline of unchecked masculinity is the reason why the world has changed so drastically. Masculinity now takes somewhat different forms but the leader follower dynamic has and will never change. And just like in all of history the alpha masculine guys are the shot callers and the beta guys are the followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:13 AM
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Yeah that’s how you handle these situations like a man. I feel like some of the guys here are still bitter about how women treated them back in the day so they inflict that deep seeded anger on the new women they plate. Of course there are some situations where leading someone on would be the best option for you, like when you’re first getting plates when you’re starting out and lack abundance, but you should move past this phase quickly.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:34 PM
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Bill Clinton is my role model tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 05:16 PM
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Could’ve said some shit like “geez rick, you’re turning into an old man bitching about the youngins these days haha” or something. Just make a joke out of it and move on.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:29 PM
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No just follow the template
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:28 PM
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Change the subject. Learning how to change the subject is one of the most crucial social skills you can have.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:19 PM
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Follow the spreadsheet. Read the top portion with text. If you hit all your reps and some extra on the 1+, add weight to the training max which will increase the spreadsheet numbers.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:07 PM
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If guys are asking for your advice or telling them shit about themselves, its a good opportunity to understand how they work and demonstrate higher value by helping them figure out how to solve their issue. With girls you're trying to game I'd recommend not paying attention and kind of playing off/making a joke about whatever issue it is so long as it isn't serious. If your goal is social climbing having personal ammo on people can be a powerful weapon.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:58 PM
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That sounds essentially like my frat party game. But what I’m really lacking here is the cold approach game where you can charm a group of girls and then isolate one of them. Or going from grinding/making out to bringing them home and fucking. Can’t stand how often I’ll have girls making out with me and grabbing my cock at a party only to disappear with their friends later on.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:07 PM
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Yeah, how can I learn dance floor game? I’m white as fuck and generally just find girls to grind with because I have no moves hahaha. My issue wasn’t IOIs, as I don’t think I’ve ever gotten as many in my life from girls who were legit 8/10+ but walking up to a group of random hotties and trying to finesse is not quite in my toolhouse atm and I’m trying to change that.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:28 PM
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That’s funny coming from someone on asktrp calling someone else a manlet hahah
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:38 PM
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For every geared out chad on here there’s 5 chubsters with Dad bods pulling twice as much. Inner game far outweighs genetics.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:31 PM
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Oh yeah what am I thinking only guys who are 6’3 240 with 10% bf fuck hot women you’re right man
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:17 PM
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I know plenty of chubby guys who pull a fuck ton
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:12 PM
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Because chicks want an “alpha” and you can be a doughboy and still be an alpha. That and money.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:01 PM
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Anytime man. PM me if you have any other questions. One more thing though, if a chick who was a 5/10 said your joke was distasteful, how would you react? Probably laugh it off or make fun of her for being so sensitive. Because you could really give a fuck less what she thinks. You’ll have infinitely more success treating a 10/10 like a 5/10 than a 5/10 like a 10/10.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:43 PM
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Read my comment again, I added some shit. As for girls, as I said, its all a matter of the cost benefit of the relationship. But girls are going to give you the most shit out of anyone, which is a sign they're interested. It's a good thing. Look up shit tests. From guys or girls shit tests are a sign of interest. I'll shit test my friends occasionally to see if they're on "my level" so to speak. If I break their balls and they clap back at me I know they have they're confident and have the abili…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:31 PM
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Stop being so emotional and preemptively rejecting people. You seem to think an IDGAF attitude means not caring about anything or not putting up with any shit and then cutting them off. Newsflash: friendship and relationships doesn't work like that. There is gonna be some BS. Some shit you're forced to do for your homies. Ask yourself what each person in your life brings to the table or could potentially bring to the table and then weigh it against the BS involved with them to see if its truly w…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:21 PM
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Then bring up partying in some aspect and start to gauge interest before you pitch the idea to throw a party and drink.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 01:06 PM
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Make friends with the right people. Much more easily said than done obviously but that’s the answer to your question. Approach it without any neediness and you’ll have the best results.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:40 PM
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Men have dictated what forms the parameters of what is deemed socially acceptable. Saying men are socially retarded especially in a workplace environment is pretty clearly offbase.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:31 AM
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Sounds more like a social retard problem than a bachelor problem. But I agree social retards should not be at the top of any food chain or there is gonna be some shit antics you’ll have to put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:21 AM
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Most professional women aren’t gonna give a fuck lmao especially if you have a good track record and reputation already
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 11:22 PM
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Lmao is this a serious comment? If you are making fat stacks in a leadership position you can clearly manage your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 10:10 PM
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Bingo. Why do men put up with women who are bimbos, bitches or simply annoying as fuck? Because they're hot. What turns women on? Confidence and status. Making sexist jokes in front of hot women may in the short term provide some faux outrage, but its indicative of a guy who doesn't give a fuck which is supremely attractive to women. Ever heard "yeah he's kind of a cock but..."?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 05:43 PM
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If I’m going to a college to party this weekend and want to peacock and flex on my other fellow hammered college students, what would you recommend? I’m trying to stand out but not look like too much of a fag. Was thinking maybe a Hawaiian shirt and flip flops but idk. It’s much easier at theme parties haha peacocking has never been my strength anyways.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:09 PM
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If I’m going to a college to party this weekend and want to peacock and flex on my other fellow hammered college students, what would you recommend? I’m trying to stand out but not look like too much of a fag. Was thinking maybe a Hawaiian shirt and flip flops but idk. It’s much easier at theme parties haha peacocking has never been my strength anyways.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:08 PM
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No help elevate them or get them hip to doing fun shit. If you’re a cool guy bring them to your level.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 11:10 PM
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Gonna tally this one in my internet arguments won column for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:58 PM
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Her maybe. I think we both know following someone into battle is a pretty shit example. That’s more looking to someone as a leader than respect. I could respect someone’s ability to lead us into battle while still thinking I’d be more capable as a leader. But in a classroom environment for example I’ve respected chicks ability to do group projects and do other shit creative like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:51 PM
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You obviously don’t care about forming a coherent argument either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:41 PM
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a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. That’s what respect is defined as. You can’t just make up your own definitions lmao. You can have respect and admiration for someone without submitting to them. You can have your own opinions while still respecting theirs. Gender has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:38 PM
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I respect other male friends and can admire their admirable traits but I don’t submit to them. I can respect a woman’s individual achievements like a mans completely outside of anything involving any romantic feelings as well. And honestly, Id never date a chick I didn’t respect on some level. Obviously as a guy with a strong personality I prefer submissive girls but I’d never date a chick who I didn’t respect on some level. Hot women who are doormats or have no opinions of their own are somewha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:28 PM
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Respect from women to men is possible, male respect from men to women is not. Men love women, they dont respect them Doesn’t matter if they’re hallmarks of the female sex, literally saying men respecting women is impossible is idioctic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:26 PM
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One of the best posts I’ve seen here. Makes perfect sense. Was reading the art of seduction and one of the chapters focused on why Marilyn Monroe was such a sex symbol and it addressed the same madonna/whore complex you talked about, although it wasn’t as well written imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:22 PM
1

I had no clue 5x5 required a power rack Lol bruh
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:34 PM
1

2 drunk people having sex is not that crazy lmao relax
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:41 PM
1

Don’t be so dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:33 PM
2

Never been to college have you junior
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:20 PM
1

Lmaoooo used that line in middle school and it didn’t even go over then
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:30 PM
15

When does this ever happen? Men are judged much more harshly by pretty much every metric including and especially in the court of law.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 11:25 PM
1

Goes for most people, but even then people know when they’re wrong. Having them admit it doesn’t make one bit of difference. If someone fucks me over and I know about it they’ll face the consequences from me until I have them apologizing to me and asking what they did wrong, which they already know the answer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:07 PM
8

Exactly this. Women know they can get away with shit and thus utilize it. They’ve known how to play people (especially men) since they were little girls. I don’t necessarily find it offputting most of the time, though. I hold girls to the exact same standards as everyone else, as I certainly don’t buy into the “women are children”, “AWALT” or any of the other garbage RP theories that absolve women of responsibility by saying they’re incapable of it. Once the girls in your life realize you aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 05:57 PM
2

Used to feel the exact same way until I met one of my college roommates. Good looking guy, big partier but pretty quiet until he got fucked up after which he became super hilarious and charismatic. Could always tell he had something mentally up with him, though. One night we got really barred out and he broke down crying telling me about his girlfriend (who he'd dated for 5 years since freshman year of HS) cheating on him and how he felt like he'd thrown away a big part of his college experience…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:16 PM
5

Because it appeals to her fan base full of high school girls. If OP really thinks Katy Perry isn’t loving every second of getting the highest quality dick possible he’s mistaken.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:41 PM
1

Man oh man do I wish weed did more for me. It opens so many social opportunities but for me all its ever done was make me less social and much more anxious. Smoked daily because I enjoy being social but smoking directly hinders my ability to talk to people and scheme on girls which I hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 02:44 PM
1

Exactly but she’s butthurt enough to start to question what she’s letting him do, hence the message. Now you just mix asshole game with some comfort and she’ll be hooked
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:31 PM
1

Yeah you must be a troll. No way someone is this clueless. Yes, you are just like the other guys. The whole point of hooters is to make lonely horny guys feel special so they tip. Go ahead and go in and do what you said you planned to lmaoo it may be exactly what you need to start to face reality
/r/askTRP04/07/18 09:38 PM
1

Asking a girl out in the right situation isn’t creepy, but the wrong situation 10000% is. Yeah we said me and my girlfriend we half siblings and she was like, "Ohh thats cool so your dominican and your??" Etc we were like talking about where we all from and stuff. Lmfao holy shit. A waitress at hooters making small talk is not a sign of interest dude. That’s literally their entire job to extort big tips (which I bet you gave her LOL) out of desperate losers who want to hit on them. Holy fuck dud…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 09:30 PM
1

You’re one of the biggest cringe artists I’ve ever seen in this sub (that’s defintely saying something). A hooters girl is literally paid to flirt. You flirted with her before and she made it clear she wasn’t interested and only acted that way to get your tip. Saying “we should all go out for drinks sometime” is a way to make you think she’s interested (and it worked) but she included your gf in that “invitation” to make it clear she isn’t interested in you. Now you’re still thinking about a gir…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 08:17 PM
2

She was unreceptive to his advances by her explicitly saying she wasn’t interested in a relationship right now, and then he kept pushing and she played it off by saying “we should all get drinks sometime”. Oh, and she works at fucking hooters. Easily one of the cringiest posts I’ve ever seen on here and the last paragraph is one of the worst I’ve read.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 08:13 PM
1

Lmao bruh do you know how many models are going to come up with that vague a search? And idk what you mean by code I just want a frame of reference about who you’re talking about I’m not tryna expose anyone here but it’s all good.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:59 PM
1

What’s the guys name if you don’t mind me asking? You can PM it to me if you’re cautious about who reads your posts
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:46 PM
1

There are pros and cons to being that attractive. I used to look at those guys and get super butthurt it wasn’t that easy for me, but actually pulling and learning how to escalate pulled me out of that toxic mindset and now I’d say seeing a girl go from indifferent to attracted over the span of a few minutes is almost as satisfying as getting my dick wet.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:27 PM
4

I’ve literally said the exact same thing to a Hb9 and she responded with “how are you gonna make it up to me” which opens up a variety responses. I said “come over and you’ll see” but there are so many directions you can go with it.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:20 PM
2

Pretending to be a sensitive guy who takes her feelings into consideration to get her to come back over and then running more asshole game with the negs toned down is the best thing to do here. Saying I’ll make it up to you is about as thiny veiled a sexual proposition as you’ll ever see as well.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:16 PM
1

Having girls approach is the one thing that usually separates the men from the boys so to speak, but even that happens to me more than you’d think and I’m not super good looking. I’ve had girls randomly approach me at parties and immediately start making out with me and grabbing my dick out of essentially nowhere. But again actually leaving with these girls was more or less mission impossible for me as a freshman and has only gotten slightly easier since.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:21 PM
7

If a girl sends a message like this it means 1. You tried to neg and it failed to do anything but make her pissed and insecure and 2. She’s into you enough to send this message. Ignoring her would serve no purpose. She’s into you, now escalate. The faux apology is just to provide some comfort and to get her back to your place. Apologizing for being a dick, which isn’t even happening in this case necessarily, isn’t losing your balls and bending over either. Women need comfort. Comfort isn’t neces…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:02 PM
11

Push pull. If you’re a dick you’re gonna have to inspire some comfort of a girl is this obviously butthurt. And the subtext of “come over so I can fuck your brains out” is still there. I swear some of the guys here giving advice are fucking clueless.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:49 PM
4

Bingo. If you’re attractive it can literally say anything. I know plenty of guys with cringey ass social media bios with weird references or generally quirky fag shit and girls are either indifferent or love that type of humor from hot guys.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:43 PM
2

It’s the guy who uses flattery to get what he wants. Making betas feel important and like they’re alphas is an easy way to manipulate them and get what you want while still being completely in control of the situation. A guy who trades validation for material goods is about as beta as it gets.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:38 PM
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I’d say “Damn, I didn’t realize you felt this way. You know I think you’re a great girl. Why don’t you come over tonight and i can make it up to you”.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:38 PM
23

Being a dick for no reason will disqualify you more than it will work for you. Especially with girls who are super insecure.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:37 PM
2

I know some betas who objectively trade giving alpha acknowledgement to other men for free shit Then who is the alpha? The guy who trades validation for material goods or the guy who uses flattery to get what he wants?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:33 PM
3

Guys seem to be much more transactional, at least guys who aren't beta. If I spark you, you'll spark me. If I buy the beer this time, you guy it next etc. Betas who want to win your approval will of course do shit for you without you asking, but that's a bit different. However my female friends will often do shit for me simply for the sake of doing them. I've had girls do my laundry when I was sick or hungover, steal me full bottles of wine or, most hilariously, make their 22 year old fuckbuddy …
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:03 PM
1

I mean this is anyone though. Walking up to a girl, start dancing with her and grabbing her tits/ass and making out isn't hard and I've literally never gotten shot down from anything other than the making out aspect but even that is rare. Now actually bringing chicks back from a frat party to bang is a whole different beast. LMR and their cockblock friends are huge obstacles.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:12 PM
5

I've noticed female friends are much more willing to buy me shit/do things for me than my guy friends.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:08 PM
1

I’ve seen many a time this exact situation actually played out and the kid who is bullied usually gets his ass kicked because he’s weak and timid, hence why he gets bullied in the first place 🤔
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:45 PM
0

Haha should’ve read the whole post bud And it doesn’t matter in the current environment where they punish everyone equally for fighting, nor will it look good to his peers
/r/askTRP03/07/18 10:48 PM
1

Seems like you’d have the same benefits from nutting once every week or so, right? Not cumming for months seems absolutely torturous. I’d lose my mind.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 11:43 PM
2

No almost no break can’t be unbroken my friend. Whether or not someone is willing to do what it takes to fix it is another. Nobody is going to be marrying a girl they date at 22. Have some fun and don’t rule out people simply because of traits that might be indicative of emotional issues. And even if they are it’s all about the extent to which they affect the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 11:39 PM
82

More or less every person now a days. The solution isn’t to avoid women who have these traits, instead knowing how to manage them
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:56 PM
1

Gonna be a long post, but absolutely worth the read. Divide and conquer. A lot of the spergs in this thread are gonna tell you to fight him. Not a good idea. Can backfire easily and get you in trouble, and then he could easily turn it around on you for being a pussy who can’t take “jokes” and resorts to violence. If he’s the alpha he’ll get the groups support. What you need to do is turn the group against him. For example, in high school one of my friend groups included me, 3 other guys, some gi…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 03:11 PM
2

Here’s the problem with being the clown, given what I’ve seen from a few of my friends who may be similar to you: You derive validation from others. When people are laughing, whether it be with you or at you, it validates you. When people don’t laugh, it’s a hit to your ego and sense of self, because you base your self worth on being the guy making everyone laugh. There’s a very subtle but very big difference in someone who makes jokes because he’s funny and doesn’t give a fuck and someone who m…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:27 PM
2

Don’t just become interested, become understanding and empathetic. For example, when one of your friends says something about missing an ex perhaps, most people would think that it’s the person themselves that they miss and ask follow up questions accordingly. However asking a question like “is it that you miss your ex or that you miss the feeling of being wanted and loved intimately by someone who has seen both the good and the bad”. A response like this indicates a few things to the other pers…
/r/seduction02/07/18 02:01 PM
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As he said in the video, it’s easy to be afraid of people you don’t understand. When you can’t pick up on social cues, which are sometimes very subtle, you’re going to have a bad time. Especially dealing with high value men and women, who often disguise their true feelings or intentions and communicate through power talk that the clueless simply can’t understand. However once you begin to understand how people work, everything becomes easier. You can tell when a girl is interested and when she i…
/r/seduction02/07/18 01:45 PM
3

Don’t do keto then. Or do what I did at certain times throughout my time on Keto which was essentially live off KFC grilled chicken. My biggest advice for you would be buying a Fitbit. Helps motivate me by seeing how much activity I’m getting and eventually you’ll realize that while the calorie counter on the app isn’t super accurate, it provides a good frame of reference. There are also places on the app to count your calories and log your weight. It’s fantastic. Other than that, id find a chea…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:27 PM
1

We’re you getting laid consistently? Or did you just not cum for months? I’m pretty disciplined (lost 40+ pounds, totally changed my social life, workout 5 days a week consistently) and have gone through some difficult times (depression, social anxiety, fucking pledging lmao) but I don’t think I could hold off for that long. Especially since I’m 19 and constantly horny as fuck.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:14 PM
2

6 months maybe? Lost a ton of weight (40 pounds) but I was very very consistent with it. I decided one day to do keto and the next day I jumped right into it and literally didn’t once deviate from the Diet in the entire time I was on it. I also didn’t drink once, worked out consistently and did a lot of cardio.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:09 PM
3

I hear about death grip but nobody specified what it exactly is. I jerk off almost every day pretty fast without lube and usually to porn and my dick is never 100% hard. However if I don’t cum in 2-3 days I get those full erections from almost nothing. The last few times I’ve had sex my dick wasn’t 100% either and I got almost no sensation with the condom (was also drunk which probably has something to do with it) and had to take it off in order to cum. Think I should try to cut back or does tha…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 03:10 AM
11

Yeah this guy doesn’t seem to realize that life is far too short to pass up great opportunities simply because they’re not perfect. Outward enthusiasm also =/ the extent of someone’s love, that’s more of a personality trait to be overly excited and enthusiastic that people seem to either have or don’t. Pretty clear this guy lacks an understanding of what love is judging by his tit size hypothetical at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:30 AM
2

Keto made me thinner, which helped me get over a major insecurity that was a cause of my depression. So it can fix it indirectly.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:50 AM
15

Think of it like this: your mind dictates reality. I know people who are ugly, stupid and generally have nothing going for them, yet they are irrationally confident and it makes them attractive people. They dictate their reality, and it becomes others reality too. Isolate the causes of your depression and formulate a plan to fix them. Consciously think positive thoughts about yourself and repeat them, even if you don’t think they’re true in the moment, the more you convince yourself the more it …
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:49 AM
2

Nah, not true. Some of the most alpha guys I know have girlfriends. On the other hand some of the most beta guys I know get laid semi consistently. Being beta =/ having no game and alpha =/ getting tons of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 03:59 PM
1

That’s also a form of social proof if you can pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 02:01 PM
1

A choice made in the moment is neither good nor bad, you have to wait to see the outcome to determine which one it was. That’s how you learn from your mistakes. To create a brand you need something to sell. Which requires capital. For every “experiment” you’re going to be losing capital. A degree allows you to take advantage of market trends without actually creating anything of value, something you can’t do unless you have experience and your opinion holds weight. And the easiest way to get cre…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:51 PM
1

I’d say depending on someone you barely know because you have no degree or job experience is dependent. Forging personal connections while working towards setting yourself to be in the position to benefit from networking is a conscious choice. At first your hamstering was funny but now it’s just and repetitive. Oh well.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:33 PM
1

There are no wrong choices. Just choices. Judge: So do you think robbing that bank was a bad choice Shithead about to be sent to jail: There are no wrong choices, just choices Lmao Business is really about the work you put in. Says who? Also, you keep referring to business as a distinct field but it is simply a term that encompasses a variety of different industries. But in literally every industry the minimum requirement is a college degree. You won’t even get your foot in the door without it. …
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:29 PM
1

Yes, because no 28 year old with actual experience in business is going to do anything for you while you’re 19 with no skills or experience. That 18 year old kid is gonna eventually graduate and get into the real world and i guarantee he’ll be more willing to go out of his way for someone they regard as a close friend or fraternity brother than for some random kid they met in some community college programming course.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:23 PM
1

You made the wrong choice, and I’m sure seeing your friends having the time of their life is really difficult for you. Hence why you’re trying to convince a total stranger that you have it all figured out when in reality you clearly have no plan other than “I’m gonna succeed in business because I work hard lolz”.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:19 PM
1

No, making money is about connections, networking and as you said hardwork. However you can work your ass off all you want but if you’re not in a position to earn a job with upward mobility none of that will matter. You’re right, you only have one life to live. That’s why I’m working towards a marketable degree while having some of the most fun experiences of my life by far and actually networking and making real connections, not just knowing someone you briefly met in programming school and cal…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:15 PM
1

Thing is, i got into some really good schools. But instead i took a risk and tried a programming school in silicon valley California So you’re either lying about getting into good schools or you’re an idiot who decided to go to programming school as a backup plan to college which clearly hasn’t done much as you’re posting here. You wouldn’t need to post if you had a plan. Btw, I’m gonna bet on the former. A reason why only 20% of people in life of financially successful, they done what 80% didn’…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:11 PM
2

Instead of fucking college fatties, how about fucking girls, models from all over the world from traveling the world with money you have from investments, business, savings? Its about the bigger picture. Yeah, that’s how I know you didn’t get into college. Good luck doing any of that without making at least 6 figures and good luck making that much without a degree unless you’re one of the lucky few who can make a successful business from nothing and good luck doing that without working yourself …
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:58 PM
2

You’re hamstering big time. Almost like you’re trying to convince yourself rather than me. My guess is you didn’t get into a good college and now you’re scrambling to find a backup plan while trying to convince yourself that not having the best 4 years of your life is somehow a good thing. Plenty of people succeed in business without a formal degree, but unless you have a million dollar idea or are fantastic with people odds are you’re going to be like every other struggling “entrepreneur” not m…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:47 PM
3

Do you think all college graduates want to be corporate drones? That their goals at 19 were any different than yours? Good luck traveling without money, good luck being your own boss without marketable skills and most of all good luck being financially successful without a good degree. If you’re smart enough to attend a good college and get a good degree than it’s clearly the best option. If not then i hope you have a good plan other than “I’m gonna open a restaurant like my parents”.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:29 PM
2

Go to college dude. Even if you have to pay for it. It’ll be 1. Worth it for the degree and 2. Worth it for the experiences.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:19 PM
1

Nah, it’s just social proof taken to the extreme. I remember in high school before I “wised up” I was sitting at lunch with one of the best basketball players at my school and two attractive girls, one of which was dating the starting runningback who was also sitting with us. All of a sudden a few freshman basketball players a grade below us, popular in their own right, came up to our table and started hyping up my friends performance in the game a few nights before. He responded to the ego stro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:36 PM
1

Yeah, if you’re putting off old friends you’re probably being a dickhead tbh. Trying to act alpha when you’re socially retarded is a sure fire way to come across as antagonistic and standoffish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:35 AM
1

I’d say my old social circle defintely treats me differently for sure. They listen much more intently when I speak and defer to what I want to do on most group decisions. They text me personally instead of the group chat we all have together. And when we do things it’s almost always on my terms. They also try to bust my balls more, which is also telling, as often in a group of low to mid betas they will only make jokes at the expense of the alpha or omega, with obvious differences in tone and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:34 AM
3

Chad isn’t chad to women if he isn’t a playboy or at least a guy who is in demand. That’s the whole point of chad lmao. A guy who gets with lots of women or is dating a hot woman is attractive to women. AWALT would be wanting chad to commit and then losing attraction once he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:55 AM
1

People equate being alpha with having a lot of casual sex, but plenty of guys who are what you would describe as alpha have vastly different tastes, sexual goals and personalities. She wants a guy who is attractive and relationship minded, which doesn’t mean he isn’t alpha simply that he isn’t the chad stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:39 PM
4

How? She said she wants someone with a backbone but isn’t a playboy type. You don’t need to be chad or brad or vlad to have a backbone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:37 PM
2

Not necessarily. I’m without a doubt the most socially dominant guy in my group of friends (made up of other pretty high status guys) and yet some of my friends who are more attractive absolutely get more initial IOIs despite these same guys literally and unironically calling me the “alpha” of the group. However if you actually are socially dominant it’ll even out in the long run, especially when chicks see you calling the shots and other alphas deferring to you.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 12:43 PM
2

Women have a higher floor, men a higher ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 10:47 AM
5

In a society and world in which sexual attractiveness is absolutely everything, in which all of your success is determined on how physically attractive and "hot" you are, most men will fail. Most men know this. So they give up trying. I see shit like this and it blows my mind. Look at a majority of couples out there: they’re unattractive. Not only currently but it’s often very obvious that neither party was a looker at any points in their lives. Men are only slightly worse off than they were bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 11:11 PM
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If a guy is sexually successful and has lots of casual sex, I’d argue that the types of women he’s having said casual sex with will be skewed towards the types of women you mentioned in this post, but that doesn’t make up most women. Truth be told most women don’t have a ton of casual sex, and are more geared towards relationships in my experience. The sluts TRP talks about are not inherently broken or shitty people because they fuck around, but often the motivations for fucking around are roote…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:23 PM
0

Most chicks who are hot and not dating someone are going to be hooking up in college. Whether they’re being drilled everyday by their boyfriend or by some random guy they met at a party is really irrelevant. One is not inherently better than the other, and chicks in relationships especially those that came into college with a boyfriend are, in my experience, much more likely to cheat or do other whorish shit behind their boyfriends back than a girl who know she wants to play the field and theref…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 12:11 PM
1

She doesn't need to sleep with a bunch of them to fulfill her curiosities. E.g. I find brunettes and blondes plenty attractive. I have a secret love for redheads, though. Yet I've never had sex with a redhead. Yet I'm completely sexually fulfilled married to a blonde. I didn't need to fulfill some silly mini-fetish of mine to have a great sex life. Maybe I can ask my wife, a natural blonde, to color her hair red? ;) You yourself said men and women’s sexuality is much different though, right? Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:56 PM
2

Going to the gym is so important because it differs from the instant gratification of our society and forces people to work towards something that is difficult and time consuming, however the rewards are more than worth it. It teaches you discipline and garners attraction and instant respect from men and women alike.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:50 PM
1

Mens' sexuality and womens' is NOT the same. Why? Libido is not the same (see: masturbation rates for men and women). Do you pay attention to anything that women say here? (This is one area where their anecdotal evidence is actually worth something). Most women aren’t sluts. Most women don’t have a ton of partners. On average, women’s libido is lower as you correctly stated. However the opposite is also true, and some women’s libidos are sky high. These are often the types you’ll see have a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:34 PM
4

Why she would opt for "lots of partners in college" and then suddenly "change her behavior" is really questionable. That and whether people with the former "lots of partners in college" mindset have the personality/character which makes them a good LTR prospect is also highly questionable. Do they actually change who they are? I doubt it. Takes a life-or-death magnitude event to really change people. Lol, why are guys promiscuous in college? Same applies for women. They’re young, horny and away …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:59 PM
4

Sluts fuck because they like sex usually. Whores fuck because they’re missing something and use sex as a weapon to get it. The distinction is a big one and a woman who uses sex to get what she wants is the type you have to look out for. And yes all chicks do this, but the extent to which they do it is the big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:45 PM
13

Being a whore is a mindset. I know plenty of basic fat bitches with low n-counts that would readily be whores if they were attractive enough. Some of the only times I’ve ever seen chicks drop really really obvious can’t miss hints towards me came from busted bitches who were fiending for the dick. If a woman has a lot of partners in say college but then has a strong desire to settle down, then you could say she has the right mindset or at least a mindset conducive to pair bonding. Whereas there …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:22 PM
5

The only thing that can immasculate a man is himself. If he lets his girlfriend wear the pants, that’s his fault, not a product of obsessing over women or of a woman dominating her partner. Obsessing over women is no different than obsessing over fitness, video games, partying, drug usage or any other vice that the AFC is prone to becoming addicted to, however it is markedly less damaging than a lot of vices out there and can actually be beneficial assuming, like everything, it’s done with some …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:08 PM
15

Obsessing over women is only bad if you can’t get them. Is Leo’s obsession with fucking hot super models bad? No, because his life isn’t defined by it and he has tons of other shit going on. On the other hand, the AFC’s obsession with women from a scarcity mentality is what ironically continues their cycle of scarcity. This entire post is just a couple thousand words of crude shit metaphors which essentially boils down to “take pussy off the pedestal”, but I doubt the average guy realizes just h…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:12 PM
1

TRP is about becoming a fundamentally better man. Nowhere in that is room for deceit Lol, are we reading the same sidebar? What you said is all well and good, but it doesn’t mean social proof isn’t incredibly beneficial, if not the most beneficial.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:01 PM
5

Don’t get so smashed you can’t drive. If you don’t know your limits then don’t drink to more than a buzz.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:38 PM
3

Try talking less like a serial killer and your point won’t be lost on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 11:37 PM
7

LOL wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 07:16 PM
1

I absolutely have. I naturally have an alpha personality, but I was incredibly insecure which kinda overrode it. Once I began to overcome that I realized the type of person I was and got back to my old self quick.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:46 PM
2

When does looking become an IOI though? Always difficult to tell tbh
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:31 AM
0

Yeah at that point you gotta deescalate the situation. Not worth catching a punch over meaningless arguments.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 05:58 PM
0

Yeah you can do this with anyone, and I do, but its all a question of why you would want to. When I'm with girls I don't want to be serious or intellectual.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:35 PM
29

Hahah I actually geeked when I read that line in his post, but it’s so true. If I wanted to talk about male disadvantage I’d get on here or talk with my guy friends. Women not only don’t want to have these conversations but are completely turned off by them regardless of what they want to admit.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 03:43 PM
1

Definitely this, but it’s also how you carry yourself. Full stop though OP if they aren’t paying you attention that means they don’t respect you. At all.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:03 PM
5

Yeah it’s defintely not always true but more or less is for girls who you aren’t around often. It can take a lot to reverse someone’s first impression of you. But it can be done.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 03:07 PM
1

How do you even find steroids? With other drugs it’s easy as fuck but I’d feel like such a jabroni asking around for some tren or some shit lmao. I’m only 19 too so idk if it’s the best idea.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 03:06 PM
1

Pretty true. Not that TRP is a PUA form, but a neg for example is not going to work well on a girl that already has low self esteem. She’ll believe it and get really down on herself/get mad or defensive, whereas a girl who is hot and knows it will react in a totally different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 11:49 AM
6

Probably by disagreeing with the echo chamber if I had to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 11:48 AM
2

Bingo. Can be fun though, but usually have some issues.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:50 PM
1

If you’re constantly getting in fights over petty shit, that’s a pretty big flaw in the relationship. Although I kind of do understand liking drama, as it does more or less keep shit interesting, that shit gets very tiresome after awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 05:35 PM
1

Nobody is following you around. You aren’t that important despite what you may think. We’re on the same discussion sub and you post here a good amount. Eventually there’s going to be some overlap. I’m not trying to shame anyone, that’s faggy as fuck, but the only thing I hate more than self righteous attitudes are people who can’t back them up, and so naturally these long comment chains will occasionally devolve into some cuntiness, a fact you yourself are clearly no stranger to. You have no iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:37 AM
1

People who make their political views a centerpoint of their personality and intentionally exclude people from their life just because they disagree politically are, in my experience, extremely antagonistic and you simply proved that once again. I made no mention of your social life until you clapped back at me for the original comment, but I did ask how it’s working for you socially, which if you think is an attack would signal that it really isn’t working.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:58 AM
1

Buddy, what's it for then? Getting a barely 50K/year job in some random company? Cause that's what most of the frat dolts did. They live in the boonies and drive leased cars or old shitboxes. I work at a large investment management firm, working with equities and equity derivatives and bought a $40K car cash when I was in my mid 20s, and live in a good Boston neighborhood. I've never made less than $75k / year. 5 years later it's over 100K/year. And I ended up marrying my LTR who I met halfway t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:19 AM
1

LOL You’re the guy who would chill with his LTR and not go out at all on the weekends and thought he was the shit and better than the guys who went out and picked up chicks, aren’t you? And if you think a fraternity is only about getting girls you’re clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:24 PM
2

Sounds like someone who was never cool enough to be apart of it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 07:41 PM
2

I live in the mid Atlantic and go to a school with a good university with a significantly higher number of girls than guys. But the girls these guys get with are all easily 7+ sorority girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:23 PM
1

Don’t even know what this means. But yet again you’ve yet to actually succeed in having a discussion where you defend your views instead of just attacking others. But then again I’m sure that’s the attitude that grants you the time to shitpost on here 24/7, because you’re clearly not doing much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:16 PM
2

The guys who are the most misogynist seem to do the best with women? Jeez how does that work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:14 PM
1

Because you’d have to be majorly autistic to make your political views a defining characteristic of your personality. No different than the monster truck driving douchebag with confederate flags who pisses everyone off. What reality do you live in where you don’t have to interact with people that disagree with you politically though? Like actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:53 PM
0

Yes I know what an echo chamber is. I also know how most people react to groups like those outside of the echo chamber. Like I said, how’s it working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:50 PM
0

And where has that attitude got you? I can think of about 10 people off the top of my head who benefit me by their being around that probably wouldn’t be if I was sharing “extremely outre political views”, or even mentioning the red pill, regardless of how much of it I actually agree with. I don’t see any benefit in intentionally alienating or pissing people off to share political views that people don’t really want to hear in the first place, even if they weren’t outlandish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:38 PM
0

Would you post all the shit you say on here on a public twitter account that was viewed by family and friends? No? Then you do understand why people feel the need to censor their thoughts and be slightly pissed about the double standard regarding fat women and short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:32 PM
1

Even healthy girls will get offended by the no fatties, due to most girls being super insecure about their weight and thinking it applies to them. Guys will also once again white knight about other guys saying shit about girls weights. Men who aren’t short will be mostly indifferent to a no shorties comment and occasionally will white knight and agree with them. Women could care less about guys getting flamed for being short. But it is blatantly obvious that there’s a huge stigma around mentioni…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:29 PM
1

On social media? Both women and white knighting men. In real life it all depends on the audience and how you say it, but I’d say most women would be at least somewhat offended by a guy saying no fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:17 PM
1

Men will absolutely be shamed, and women will at worst catch a few mad comments from shorties. That’s a fact, whether or not anyone should give a shit about the double standard is a whole different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:07 PM
1

Or you can just not respond to fat women and end up with the same result without the ostracism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:01 PM
2

Never heard anyone say riff raff except my parents lmaoo but yeah that’s wrong almost every guy rates girls that’s just the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:56 PM
1

It’s a bad look if you post it on your personal twitter. People will see it and will judge you negatively for it. And while that isn’t the worst thing in the world intentionally pissing people off and having them dislike you for no reason is never a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:54 PM
1

Half of those are literally just tall insecure girls who don’t get enough attention from guys blaming short dudes for their inability to get approached by the guys they want. Nothing to see here. Guarantee that half of those girls could get gamed by a short guy anyways. Girls always have preferences until their soaking wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:52 PM
1

Absolutely this.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 03:10 AM
1

We both know that one was pretty weak atlas. If you’re going to be an adult fighting with teenagers all day on an obscure reddit forum, at least get some zingers in there every once in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 05:03 AM
1

You can pretend like you have something better to do but you’re not fooling anyone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 04:50 AM
2

The use of the word feel was not literal. Obviously. I could’ve easily substituted it with “why does it seem like” and it would’ve had the exact same meaning. Speaking of worthless typings, why not look at the sub you’re on lmao. It’s pretty inherently worthless, and most normal people wouldn’t have the slightest idea what a “chad” even was. But this is a discussion board based on ones opinions and personal experiences, therefor the observation about your character followed by a statement based …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 04:40 AM
3

Didn’t address the points I made, unsurprisingly. On another note though, what do you do? Because you sure as shit seem to have a lot of downtime to shitpost on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 03:51 AM
1

That's incel-logic, but that's not how any rational person would prove anything. You don't know the percentage of women who would say something like that if you only listen to those who do; you don't hear those who say nothing. If you look My Little Pony videos on YouTube you can also find plenty of men who say that they would fuck Rainbow Dash, but that doesn't mean that this is true for men in general. The difference between logic and incel-logic is that logic is logical and incel-logic is str…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 03:46 AM
4

Why do I feel like you speak as if your opinion is more than just an opinion, and is somehow worth more than anyone else’s in here? You seem to be into the bad boy type, and have said as much, but let’s not act like most women don’t need a little bit of that comfort. A demonstrably bad person is not going to provide that, and while the good may outweigh the bad a lot of the time that doesn’t mean that a guys “bad qualities” (not the “blooper” bad qualities but actual bad qualities, I think we bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 03:37 AM
1

Bingo we have a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 03:31 AM
1

What’s the time commitment for something like BJJ? I’m definitely looking into something like this, as a small dude who talks a little too much shit when he’s drunk sometimes hahah
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 09:14 PM
1

Not that I don’t like your posts, because I do for sure, but how does this vary from every other post that essentially boils down to: 1. Lift, 2. Be the prize, 3. Never stop improving?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 09:12 PM
2

Exactly. I’m an only child who was super sheltered and have a mom that pretty much checked off every crazy box AND gave me the most horrible advice you could imagine. I went out with a female friend to get a bagel one time when I was 17 and when I told her I didn’t pay for the girls meal she told me how disappointed she was in me and how I was never gonna get girls acting like a dick (meanwhile my dad worships the ground she walks on and she is super cold and distant). Yeah. Still don’t blame th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 01:46 AM
2

I had 800 kids in my graduating class. Went through HS thinking I was a small fish in a big pond and only later realized I was a big fish in a gigantic pond.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 01:41 AM
3

Why do I feel like neither of your posts have made any sense at all?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:41 PM
2

A wingman isn’t necessary, only a boost.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:31 PM
1

When I go to parties with a friend of mine who is a HB7.5 who is really touchy when she’s drunk it’s a huge boost. Girls love wingmanning for their guy friends too.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:26 PM
7

Utilize your bi female friend bud. Having an attractive female wingman is literally the biggest sice in the world, especially when gaming insecure teenagers.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:01 PM
1

Addicts get addicted because they rely on getting high past a certain point. They need it. You’ve obviously never experienced or been around someone whose an addict otherwise you wouldn’t boil such a nuanced issue down to “they do it because they like it”. Yeah everyone likes it until they can’t get through the day without it and begin to depend on it. And while validation whores won’t get withdraws, they depend on external validation to keep their fragile mental state in tact. And whores who fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:37 AM
1

There’s a time to “attack” (lol) and therefor a guy doing what needs to be done wouldn’t make him an asshole. But you’re clueless if you think the guy who is universally loved isn’t attractive to women. And you don’t get there by being an asshole to everyone. You get there by being a guy with frame and values and backbone who says what needs to be said but in the end has people’s best interests in mind, without compromising himself and his needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:26 AM
1

“If you truly did not like doing something, you wouldn’t do it” yeah tell that to every addict who hates themselves yet continues using. Or every validation whore who fucks guys “to not feel so empty for a few minutes” (I put that in quotations because that’s word for word what the biggest whore I’ve ever met told me as she was breaking down and spilling her heart out). A guy who passes shit tests isn’t an asshole. A guy with options isn’t an asshole. A guy who treats people like shit simply bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:20 AM
1

Why would I bother when we’re discussing something like the definition of “asshole”, which depending on who you talk to, has a multitude of different definitions. Besides, I did read the dudes links, evidently unlike him. For all the reasons why women are drawn to guys perceived as “assholes”, them being treated like shit is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:08 AM
0

if they don’t feel good about it why do they keep doing it Your question was literally answered in the excerpt i quoted from the link you gave me lmao. Try reading. You have to be an actual sperg to think that women like being treated like garbage. Being an asshole doesn’t help tremendously, being a guy with frame who knows how to tease girls and is good at the push/pull dynamic helps tremendously. Does that make someone an asshole? No. I don’t think you know what an actual asshole is. Being nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 01:52 AM
1

Did you even read the links you provided? For women who struggle with low self-esteem, nice guys do not match their neuronal wiring for a negative self-image. As a result, it may feel odd, uncomfortable and even burdensome to become romantic with men who directly and positively take an interest in them. Instead women who struggle with low self-worth continually pick men who re-confirm their view of themselves as being not good enough. Their learned dating pattern screens out those men who see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 12:09 AM
3

People have hugely varying definitions of asshole. An actual asshole who is an abrasive dick is going to have few friends unless he has a ton of status or something that makes people drawn to him, and even then that guy would be better off not being a cunt. However guys who have a backbone, call shit how they see it and stand up for themselves may be branded assholes but it’s exactly that type of behavior that gains women’s attraction and men’s respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 12:03 AM
5

I’ve smoked every day multiple times a day for about a year, and I get like OP to a lesser extent. I’m much more anxious, in my head and substantially less social. I’ve taken a T break and I’m on day 4 and I already feel way better. Only side effects is 0 appetite, which is great since I’m in a cut rn anyways. Weed for me was always about the social aspect of smoking it but at some point I came to realize it’s simply not worth it. For some people it is, but for others it isn’t, and it’s your res…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:46 PM
19

Ehh, depending on how serious the relationship was I may care. Nothing to end a friendship over, but I can’t say I’d condone my best friend cheating on his girlfriend of 6 months and lying to her about it. Call me a moral fag or whatever, but some things are just not right.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 04:56 AM
1

Obviously it isn’t that literal. But you can tell who is your superficial friend and who actually has an intention of hanging with you outside of school. I was friends with the popular kids in my school but they never invited me to shit until I changed my attitude and body. It wasn’t their fault they didn’t respect me before, it was mine. I didn’t respect myself. Even then though, those kids aren’t my close friends. My friends I met in college without the stigma of who I was in the past were som…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:23 PM
6

Can’t tell you how many times I heard “wow I can’t believe I never knew you before this year”. Sad part was, it was senior year of HS, mostly second semester. I’ve since made friends with most of the kids who wouldn’t give me the time of day when I was a fat insecure freshman and sophomore, and they’ll occasionally say shit like “yeah I don’t think we had any classes together otherwise i would’ve known you”. The looks on their face when I tell them that we had multiple is worth every single grue…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:04 PM
2

Basically you’re aiming for some connection or middle ground for which a friendship can be fostered, and then you can start to do different things that shows them you’re well rounded and have a personality that’s on par with theirs.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:39 PM
1

I’ve been (I guess I still am?) the guy who gets his ass licked, and I can tell you that the guys who see me as an equal are the ones who get my respect. Supplication and neediness can be smelled from a mile away and instantly turns me off of a person. If you want to get in with the guys you see as cool, find out what type of shit they like and what they like to do and then essentially pander to that, but in a non obvious way (ex: the guys you want to get in with are huge partiers, you could say…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:12 PM
2

Bingo. And to make these deep connections, you have to talk about things deeper than the typical superficial conversations that many guys have with their friends, or go through crazy and adventurous experiences with them.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:40 PM
1

Be around cool people and you’ll pick up little bits of everyone’s charisma. Little phrases, ways of explaining things or otherwise funny and cool things that your friends do can be incorporated into your personality.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:40 PM
3

Is crying about height going to do anything? No. Do shorter guys than you get more pussy than you can imagine? Yes. I’m 5’8 and had some of the same feelings as you until I saw my 5’5 friend pulling more ass than me. No excuses.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:53 PM
1

What I will say was that when I was super low on confidence it was for a reason. I wasn't the guy I wanted to be and I knew it deep down. Yet what I also came to realize was that these limitations that seemed so logical and realistic in my mind were unnecessary. The ways I qualified myself in woman's eyes weren't always realistic, despite what I thought. Point is, don't reject yourself before you even play the game.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:04 PM
5

I'll skip the video and give you some advice: confidence won't come from anything other than yourself, and achieving your goals. It comes with external validation for sure, but until you actually have some success socially and work towards whatever goals you have your confidence will waiver.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:51 PM
7

Low self esteem girls are easiest. She may pretend to have a big ego as a "coping mechanism" but a little prying and you'll see she (like most girls) is deeply insecure. In these scenarios asshole game doesn't really work. Confident girls who expect guys to be blown away at their beauty will respond well to that type of game, but these type of girls need some comfort before they'll put out. But give her some comfort without seeing too available, fuck her well and she will be hooked.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:49 PM
4

Most guys fiending to fight do so because they're fake tough guys or pussies who want to look tough. Either way, most guys will back down if you seem level headed and calm, cus the guy who is angrily screaming at a stranger in a bar picking a fight is, on the inside, fairly scared.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:46 PM
1

Lol yeah you would. Free money and travel?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 08:23 PM
7

I’ve converted beta friends. Not by referring them to TRP, but through honest feedback and advice. You’d be surprised just how many spergs never get any feedback. In my experience they correct some of their more retarded tendencies and you become much much closer as friends.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:25 PM
1

Never blacked from xans. Drank plenty with them. Don’t be retarded.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:46 AM
3

Pretty sure you’ll be fine. I’ve seen the lean gains guy mention extremely minimal cals are fine
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:23 PM
2

If you’re gonna go that route I’d recommend xans and a bit of alcohol assuming you aren’t a lightweight and can handle yourself. Adderall is pretty much only gonna give you that “high” if you have a low stim tolerance and rail some IR. Nobody takes it for parties, as you’d be better off railing some coke and drinking if you care about mitigating the comedown. But really OP, just get some alcohol, wear a tank top and some swim trunks and bring girls If you can. Otherwise just relax, enjoy yoursel…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:09 PM
1

Notice any long term differences? I haven’t yet.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:06 PM
1

I’d take like a half bar, drink and then postgame with either dabs or geebs when I was really trying to get fucked up, but unless I’m on a drug that makes me feel up (acid, xans, alc etc) weed pretty much always makes me feel super relaxed and couch locked unless it was a super strong sativa (had a gelato cart once and it was beyond fire).
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:41 PM
1

I’m talking strictly bud. Oil gives me the most amazing high but I don’t have a dab pen or rig so it’s unfortunately strictly gravity bong rips for now. Even a regular bong is wayyy better.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:09 PM
2

60 dollars? Hahah
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:59 PM
2

I could easily drink everyday. I’d also get fat as fuck and become an alcoholic.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:01 PM
4

Nah, smoking has 110% improved my social life. But you’re right, I need to smoke less and do it smarter, not take 7 rips on the gravity bong or waterfall or whatever and be fried off my ass.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:27 PM
1

Not so much they wouldn’t hang out with me, but usually after we lift, ball and then chill there’s a “so what do we do now” moment and inevitably it comes back to smoking as the only thing to do.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:24 PM
1

Nonsense. You can’t just cancel your life on the off chance your wife is getting double teamed while you’re away. If she’s gonna fuck herself over like that he should let her, because that’s about the only way you’re ever gonna get custody
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:23 PM
1

That’s because you’re a whiny emotional beta
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:09 PM
1

Lmao what a cringey retarded comment. It’s 100% not the guys fault. Don’t blame a nigga for trying to get a nut, blame the cheating bitch who invited them into her house.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:08 PM
1

Don’t know about that. Cheating and being distant is usually enough for the court to side against you, especially if the kids testify.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:06 PM
3

The fact women just want to be heard out and not have their problems solved is almost cliche at this point
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:37 PM
1

Boooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:28 PM
10

You ever met bland guys? That should answer your question. Women aren’t some different species whose immune to being boring or annoying or otherwise wack.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:18 PM
17

Absolutely does. 110%. Anyone telling you otherwise is hamstering the fact they either don’t have social media or don’t have pics with hot girls.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 01:57 PM
1

Because your on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 09:49 PM
2

Even as a young kid I can tell the people who’ll succeed and who won’t based on personality traits. The winners have people skills and the losers don’t. Intelligence can only carry you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 04:49 PM
1

Not nearly as cringeworthy as the shit you’re writing my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 04:26 PM
2

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:30 PM
1

Being quiet sometimes is fine, especially if you’re extroverted a lot of the time. Once people know you can be the life of the party, they’ll see you differently and not judge you negatively for not being talkative all the time.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:56 PM
4

A year ago I would’ve said the same thing. I had charisma but I was fine being quiet and would allow bigger personalities who were louder and more self assured to run the show essentially. I fashioned myself as an introvert. Turns out, I was totally wrong about myself. What I thought of as introversion was actually just social anxiety. And when I felt that going away as a result of “exposure therapy” so to speak, I realized that my natural personality was every bit as abrasive and direct as the …
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:50 PM
5

Manipulation
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:27 PM
4

What’s the difference between porn and imaging sex which is essentially shittier porn?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:27 PM
1

The good looking and the extroverted. But yeah, some of the kids I thought would be chad ended up deferring to me by the end of the year. I went into college hella insecure and wondered if I’d have trouble fitting in at what is pretty much a party school, but by the end of the year I’d gone from someone i doubted would be making moves to the guy that would be hosting 40 person pregames in a tiny ass dorm room.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:21 PM
3

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking because you’re a STEM major you can’t have fun. Not that you were hinting at that, but I know plenty of “chads” who are engineers or whatever and it’s all the more impressive that they could balance grades and their social lives perhaps better than i could.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:19 PM
1

Nah, it’ll be incredibly easy to spot the “popular kids”. We had an orientation week for my school before classes started, but even then I could tell who would be making moves and who wouldn’t. I brought a handle of jack to school with me and pretty much approached the kids I knew would be going out the first week and the rest was history. I went out every night the first 3 weeks and by the time it was time to get serious I had already made some really close friends and good memories. Rushing fi…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:18 PM
0

Scheming on girls through Snapchat is a start. Having girls in your social circle also helps. Invite them to hang out, or to a party on the weekends. Do you drink or smoke weed? Sad to say, but doing both of those things in high school gives you instant status, and inviting a girl to smoke is a good way to get her alone.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:09 PM
2

My closest friends are people I’ve gone through crazy adventures with honestly. But more than that, I just simply have deep ass personal conversations with people. And that’s what sets me apart from other people I think, and why a lot of my friends regard me as their best friend. I actually listen to what they have to say and am interested in their feelings and inner thoughts. You want to get closer with your friends. Hear them out. Like really hear them out. Ask probing questions, listen to wha…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:41 PM
0

And you base this on what? Your 2 second interactions with them? Plenty of people are simply good friends to have, while others simply serve a purpose
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:23 PM
-1

There’s some truth to every rumor. Nah, the GOP has been the “but the other guy” party the entire election. Every single issue with any of the conservative candidates was met with “muh emails”. Each side is equally guilty, yet you haven’t given a single reason why the left is a bigger threat to freedom. I agree 100% that the current atomosphere of rape allegations ending someone’s career is fucked. Look at Reuben Foster and how the NFL subreddit responded to the allegations. Then his ex girlfrie…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:51 PM
2

Haha, well those with low self esteem are always going to look for shit to nitpick in others to make themselves feel better. I’m only 5’8 but I can take solace in the fact that anyone who thinks I lift because I need to compensate is doing their own sad sort of mental gymnastics.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:31 PM
2

I’ve literally never heard that it comes off as attention seeking unless you’re like 5’4 and comically roided out
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:58 PM
1

In the middle of a restaurant lmao that’s obviously what I was going at
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:54 PM
1

Yeah, against prevailing beliefs on this sub and TRP too much masculinity is undoubtably toxic. Only thing less masculine than having some dude insult your girl and not doing anything about it is getting sent to the slammer for escalating a confrontation well past where it should go. I’ve almost been arrested a few times for stupid shit and any notion of being a tough guy goes out the window when you’re about to get cuffed. Luckily I talked my way out of it each time but it was never a good look…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:35 PM
2

Yeah, it’s a hit or miss honestly. Either the chick will be 100% turned off or 100% turned on. Really depends on the manor in which you do it and how you react afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:32 PM
2

Yeah, because beating someone unconscious is super masculine. Especially in a crowded restaurant. That’s losing frame 101. I’ve beat people senseless for disrespecting me and while people respect you somewhat, they also definitely hold it against you if you do it at the wrong time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:30 PM
-2

The leftist media controlling shit is the biggest right wing myth out there. Fox distorts the facts 100x more than CNN ever has. Perhaps there was some left slant in the coverage of the election, but that’s only because of the sheer dysfunction of the clowns the GOP ran. Why not take a look at some of the scandals in the past 6 months and tell me that the GOP isn’t a threat to freedom? If it was up to them there would be no abortion, divorce or same sex marriage. All freedoms that should go with…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:26 PM
-2

I’d argue the current right is a bigger threat to freedom than the left in America ever was. Not only is an entire government essentially appeasing a mentally ill narcassist, but the fact that many of the White House officials are essentially in bed with Russia should worry everyone. Not that this is a place for political discussion, but the tradcons on here who fetishize the 50s and the nuclear family seem completely off base. The SMP right now is as beneficial for men as it’s ever been, assumi…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:08 PM
-1

Yep. The government wants you to be good workers, that's what the school system is about - it's also why the libtards keep promoting ”Universal pre-K for kids ages 3 and 4!" like it's something good - really it's because the sooner they get kids under state control the better. Really, it's so they can start the programming earlier. Also, it frees up mothers to go back into the workforce so they can get taxed. Definitely don’t think this is a liberal issue, lmao. Conservatives wanted the Bible ta…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:40 PM
1

You have to confront these situations in subtle ways. Obviously the go to answer is find other friends, but that isn’t always feasible or optimal. Instead, demonstrate you both have other shit going on and know they’re being fake. In college, my friends are incredibly responsive and always down to hang out, because they know I’m the “alpha of the group” so to speak and therefor hit me up constantly, almost too much. However, during the summer my old high school friends are for one less cool but …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:32 PM
2

Never saw the need?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:54 PM
1

They’re one in the same. A great personality is one that attracts people to you. That doesn’t mean being “nice” either, although that usually doesn’t hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:52 PM
1

Bingo
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:01 AM
5

If you actually have a great personality you’ll be fine regardless if your ugly or not, within reason. Being ugly isn’t the nail in the coffin at all, and the ugly people who act like it is don’t realize that very attitude is the reason they’re failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:02 AM
6

Hahah are you kidding there are sooo many tall lanky goobers out there it’s unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:00 AM
4

Paying attention to gonial angle and cantal tilt is overthinking it a bit haha
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:50 PM
5

It’s not so much not showing weakness as it is not being emotionally needy. If you cry because your dog dies a girl isn’t gonna be repulsed, often the opposite. But when you’re being emotionally needy and whiny girls hate that. As you said, that’s what guy friends are for.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 01:56 PM
1

More like diversity=having differing opinions formed by different life experiences. That’s the idea, but it gets taken too far in some ways obviously.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 02:44 PM
1

Sounds like someone with 0 evidence trying to hamster their lack of evidence away.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 08:42 AM
0

Blah blah blah blah. I’ve made like 4 comments. You don’t know anything about me. Stop trying so hard nerd.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 08:42 AM
1

You’ve done so much research, why not share it with a plebeian such as myself? Also, you want people to laugh behind your back go ahead and say any of this shit out loud in person. See the response you get from well adjusted adults.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 04:24 AM
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Low T soyboy cuck lmao. I’m sure you’re much more of a man than Trudeau. After all, everyone knows alpha males feel the need to call others cucks on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:19 PM
3

Well first off that’s subjective, and secondly even governments with women presidents are mostly made up of men who contribute to the decision making
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:16 PM
0

Is a woman leaving a younger, better looking guy for an old rich dude a visceral decision, or a logical one? Wouldn’t say that’s because they’re dumber, a lot of women have no expectation to be the bread winner or even in some cases a bread winner. Guys spend money on all sorts of absolutely retarded shit to impress women. What makes a yeezy a yeezy? The brand label. Nobody ever says that. I’ve never once heard that any shortcomings are only white men’s fault or that women are exactly the same a…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:01 PM
0

Does pretending im an incel make you feel better about yourself?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 08:50 PM
0

Generalizations are fine when they’re grounded in reality and taken literally by half the spergs in here who obviously have 0 understanding how women and people in general work.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 08:49 PM
1

Nah I’ve been here a couple years. Gotten a lot worse with retards like you though, as anything that doesn’t confer with the hive mind is white knighting or virtue signaling, as if that’s going to do anything on an anonymous message board. Nah, when you make sweeping bullshit generalizations the burden of proof is on you. I’m not gonna do your research for you, not that there are any scientific studies out there that would confirm your bullshit hypothesis. You’d be laughed out of any serious dis…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 08:49 PM
1

I don’t even know what this means yet it’s somehow still incredibly creepy
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 07:05 PM
0

Watch out or you’ll cut yourself on that edge. I begged you as an incel type sperg and your projection has done nothing but confirm that. Find one scientific study that says women are unable to think critically and you give yourself another gold star for internet arguments won. Until then you can keep shitposting without any evidence whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 07:00 PM
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And yet a person doesn’t lose the ability to think critically because of what’s between their legs. Some of you guys shit on feminists for generalizations about men and then do the exact same thing hahah it’s comical you don’t see the hypocrisy.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:40 PM
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I fully understand the point of the sub, but making generalizations isn’t so much the problem as it is when the generalizations are bullshit
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:37 PM
2

If you wanted to back up your nonsense with science we wouldn’t be having this conversation right now
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:36 PM
6

Burden of proof falls on you to prove 50% of the planet can’t make logical choices, bud. That’s the way it works when you make sweeping bullshit generalizations.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 04:18 PM
1

Nah, he doesn’t. Same projection bullshit. Women are capable of making logical choices devoid of emotion. They do it all the time when they ghost guys when another comes along. Saying they aren’t capable of logic is a scapegoat. They are and all it takes is understanding the subtle and big differences between men and women and you’ll be golden. Much better than making bitter whining rants like everyone in this comment section who feels persecuted for being a guy lmaoo. The outrage porn is real.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:50 PM
1

You’re barely even bulking dude. You notice the tiny almost imperceptible changes in your appearance and then let the insecurity manifest itself into something that other people can tangibly pick up on. Your face is fine. You’re not getting fat. Keep getting stronger and worry about this shit later because fitness is the long game.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:50 AM
4

Seems like complete bullshit to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:54 PM
1

You need some confidence. What would give you confidence? Female attention? Go to the gym. The approval of your peers? If you’re in high school, get interested in the shit everyone else is into: trendy music (get Spotify and follow well known rappers), sports (local teams), having fun on the weekends (make up shit it you have to, but make it believable) etc. You hear kids talking about the new playboi carti album? Talk about your favorite songs. Break away from your parents. Do something you are…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:16 AM
1

He’s 6’0. If he’s a manlet then I’m a legal midget lmao. His acting is more or less unrivaled at this point though. He has so many knockout performances it’s not even funny. Wolf of Wall Street was one of his best movies, although part of me wonders how much of that was actually acting... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:07 PM
1

He’s 6’0. If he’s a manlet then I’m a legal midget lmao. His acting is more or less unrivaled at this point though. He has so many knockout performances it’s not even funny. Wolf of Wall Street was one of his best movies, although part of me wonders how much of that was actually acting... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:06 PM
3

Wow this was cringey. If people are showing EXTREME contempt towards you, 90% of the time youre doing something wrong. Have you noticed that the guys most successful with people and women are the ones who everyone cant help but love? There are plenty of jealous losers ive been forced to deal with, and the most powerful way to handle this is absolutely to show them kindness and go out of your way for them. If youre truly the high status guy you are then it will already be apparant where you both …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 04:08 AM
5

You could stop crying and realize a lot of people are naturally redpilled by being socially adept from a young age. You weren’t fed anything, you should’ve wised up to the fact what you were doing wasn’t working and changed it. But judging by fact you’re blaming feminism (lmfao) and the “blue pill” (which most well adjusted people don’t even know about) means that no matter how high your sexual dimorphic traits are (lol) it’s your creepy beta whiny personality that is holding you back.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:55 AM
1

This isn’t my first rodeo with tracking and everything, but I still appreciate the advice and perspective my dude. If I have any further questions I’ll be sure to hit you with a PM.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:04 PM
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Depends how you define a 6.5 or 8/10 physique. I see plenty of guys in my fraternity and other fraternities who are pretty huge and decently lean that absolutely rage on the weekends (yes a lot of them are juicy but still). I’m not a big guy, and even though my alcohol tolerance is sky high it won’t take more than 8-9 shots to have me feeling it. That’s what, 800-900 calories depending on what vodka I’d get? Completely doable, especially if you go easy on the calories the day after. To put it th…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:53 PM
1

Depends how you define a 6.5 or 8/10 physique. I see plenty of guys in my fraternity and other fraternities who are pretty huge and decently lean that absolutely rage on the weekends (yes a lot of them are juicy but still). I’m not a big guy, and even though my alcohol tolerance is sky high it won’t take more than 8-9 shots to have me feeling it. That’s what, 800-900 calories depending on what vodka I’d get? Completely doable, especially if you go easy on the calories the day after. To put it th…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:52 PM
1

I’d definitely say it’s worth somewhat sub optimal muscle growth if I can keep the fat at a minimum, especially considering my age and the fact it may never be easier to add muscle than it is now.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:47 PM
1

Alcohol in moderation is fine, and the fun it adds to my life is well worth the small fitness setback it would cost me.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:45 PM
1

Yeah when I drink I usually get vodka and mix it with something like Diet Coke. Completely terrible but it’s the best way to get sauced on a calorie budget for sure.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:42 PM
1

Whenever I drink I get the protein in beforehand. I try and hold the calories the day of as well, but if I’m bulking a few extra calories isn’t the end of the world. And yeah the fitness model shit is funny. I know a few kids who swear guys like Jeff seid are natty. Almost comical.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:35 PM
1

So what you’re saying is I should eat around maintence until I begin to stall and then slowly add calories in? Seems like a good idea for me, honestly. I know plenty of people who’ve gotten bigger without getting fatter and I imagine it’s because they just workout harder and eat a little more without over analyzing like it’s become so easy to do with so many fitness resources out there often saying differing or contradictory things.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:25 PM
1

The lifts stagnated as in I didn’t workout consistently enough to have them go up hahah. Sorry if that wasn’t clear. My plan is probably a slow bulk, as cutting at this weight is majorly shit and honestly isn’t even worth it. Alcohol will be limited to once or twice a week, which is fine by me. Fitness is there to enhance my life, but without balance it becomes all encompassing and borderline obsessive for me. If bulking and cutting is really as simple as calories in vs out, why is the cardio ne…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:20 PM
1

Eating around 2000 calories a day would have my surplus around 200-300 (estimated of course). I think that’d be perfect for a slow bulk, as my goal is to keep it as clean as possible so the eventual cut goes smoothly.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:15 PM
1

My usual pants size are from 28-30, if that gives you an idea. Even then, my love handles and lower belly are the first place I gain fat. Those lifts have more or less stagnated over the last semester, as I honestly was not as consistent with my lifts as I should’ve been. I essentially had the same lifts last December when I was weighing in at anywhere from 140-145. Freshman year of college haha whole lotta drinking. However now that I have essentially from now to late August my only goals are t…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:13 PM
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Not OP but kind of a similar question: I’m 18, 5’8 148, maxes are B: 205, DL: 370, S: 250. My BF is probably around 13-16%. Only issue is that I don’t really look that big, but I don’t have too much definition either. Should I bulk for a couple months and then cut in time for school at the end of August, or cut down to around 10% BF (which I’ve done at these strength levels and I just looked pretty skinny) and then bulk after that?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:58 PM
2

Women like sex too. And when they’re in an environment where everyone is doing it, why wouldn’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:21 PM
9

Exactly. Most guys would fuck their attractive female friends, yet unless that’s the sole reason they’re hanging out together, they’re still genuine friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:16 PM
1

Start drinking occasionally then at a local bar where you can become a regular. Seems pretty simple to me.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:11 PM
1

Exactly. When I pledged it really made me fucking hate taking orders or being submissive to anyone, and it was only then that I really began to come into my own as a “shot caller” within my social circle. It did prepare me for life though as taking orders is simply the reality of the world for most.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:40 AM
2

Depends on the drugs obviously, and the extent to which they are or aren’t addicted. I’d consider myself a decently heavy drinker and drug user (nothing too crazy, and pretty much everything in moderation except weed) but it is college so it kinda comes with the territory. But girls who smoke cigs or are coke fiends/bar tards should definitely be plate material only.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:36 AM
3

Mixing alpha and beta traits is perhaps the best way to succeed in your mission, whether it be getting girls, making money or getting better with people. Being a cocky dick all the time will get you nowhere. Being a passive beta won’t get you anywhere either. However, being a guy who can lead and get what he wants while also being kind, understanding and fair can make you a person people can’t help but love and want to be around. The most popular and successful guys I know have rock solid frame …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 02:41 AM
2

Everyone is very superficial, yet you’ll find that woman aren’t nearly as superficial as men. Men will immediately rule women out based on looks almost instantly, while most women are either instantly attracted to a guy based on looks or are simply indifferent, however that indifference leaves the door open to facilitate attraction through other ways such as personality and social proof.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:20 PM
2

Considering I got a few upvotes and a reply from you and atlas, it seems that people are listening? Just because you’re having a hard time keeping up doesn’t mean everyone else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:59 PM
4

Is your first thought when you see a good looking guy “he will look like shit in a few years”? Or is your overly negative salty attitude only towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:50 PM
3

Instead of making a needless, annoying reply that clearly shows you didn’t comprehend my original comments, why don’t you re-read what I said and realize that I did say what I intended to say in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:49 PM
2

Get into music, read books, play sports, go to clubs or festivals, watch documentaries etc literally anything that makes you a more rounded and interesting person. But really, do whatever interests you and assuming it isn’t anything weird or creepy people will be interested to hear about it if you talk passionately.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:33 PM
5

Not saying you were, I’m saying the people, mostly reds, echoing the sentiment of the OP is indicative of the overall shit attitude a lot of the red pillers on here have. I do find it funny though that a woman who seems to speak for a lot of the reds on here is totally off base on how normal, well adjusted people think. Not to say most red pillers aren’t normal but their attitudes towards women are going to be pretty inherently unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:52 PM
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That’s the salty pessimistic loser attitude that caused a lot of men to gravitate to the red pill for lack of success, so it doesn’t surprise me that shit like that is the first thing to occur to these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:30 PM
4

Most men don’t see a hot woman and immediately think “she’s hot but gravity will have her way with her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:56 PM
3

Send her something that’s interesting. Whether it be you with friends, playing sports or even just something funny. If you don’t have any interesting shit happening throughout a normal day then that answers your question as to why you’re not keeping these girls attention. Anyone telling you Snapchat isn’t worth having is an idiot. Great way to stay connected with friends, flex your social proof or just scheme on girls with essentially 0 investment from you. Don’t overthink the streak shit too mu…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:50 PM
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I absolutely smash shit tests when I’m under the influence of really any alcohol. From girls, friends, fucking cops etc. Alcohol affects everyone differently. I can’t scheme for shit when I’m stoned, maybe you’re the same with alc?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:01 PM
1

As utterly pretentious as this is I really never lived in the moment until I had an ego death experience on acid. Suddenly my own mortality became readily apparent to me, and I realized that I had to live my life for the now. I had always been the type to look far into the future, but realizing that life was extremely brief made me appreciate what I had and made me live more in the moment.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:50 PM
3

Yes absolutely unless you don’t care if they know or convince them not to tell each other.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:44 AM
1

Go to work or hang out with friends
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:22 AM
4

I was in your exact situation last year and I’d say spend fun time with your friends that you do have and make an effort with the cooler guys but don’t try too hard, cus it won’t matter worth a shit when college comes. In college the cool people will gravitate together. Early in HS I was pretty low status because my weight induced anxiety was crippling, but once in college I became myself again and absolutely flourished socially, but even then the cool kids are going to want to do cool and reckl…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:13 AM
1

Get off the internet and go outside and you’ll see that not everyone who pulls is a 6’3 steel jawed chad with a 6 pack. Whiny pussies will always make excuses for why they don’t have what they want. You not believing a perfectly believable anecdote makes me think you fall into the aforementioned whiny pussy category. Actually, having read some of your other comments, not only are you a whiny pussy but you clearly have no experience with women at all if you think they’re asexual or that good look…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:21 PM
3

If you’re a regular poster on an incel board who cries and blames others for their problems, then odds are you have little hope. Even when I was at my very, very lowest I still didn’t blame anyone but myself for my problems and I learned from them and it’s payed off. Big time. I went from a fat nobody to an actual alpha, because I maintained frame and accountability and trust in myself even when nobody else believed in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:11 PM
6

As it should be. The current social climate allows for those who truly don’t deserve to pass on their genes to suffer the consequences of their horrific personalities. And before someone cries about looks, unless you’re literally in the bottom 5-10% of guys who are so ugly or disabled that most women will be repulsed at first sight, then you have nobody to blame but yourself for your failings. My suitemate first year of college was a 5’3 weak chined effiminate golf player who pulled more than my…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:50 PM
1

Not caring is masculine but not winning and or being a bitch loser is the complete opposite of masculine to the point that it completely overrides the DGAF attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:12 PM
1

Become interesting and engaging
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:51 PM
1

I’d consider myself a “natural alpha” as I have a very naturally dominant personality and had tons of female attention from a young age (lost v card at 13, could’ve been earlier). However i went though some really tough periods of depression and anxiety that led me here, which allowed me to get back to my old self. As to how to know? Do people naturally defer to you? Are you a leader of your friends?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:07 PM
1

Of course not
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:03 AM
1

That guy is a literal model. If you matched with a chick who looked like Margot Robbie but she said in her bio was crazy as fuck, you wouldn’t swipe right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:48 PM
2

You’re an enormous pussy for not leaving years ago. Are you gonna continue to be an enormous pussy or are you gonna do what you know you have to? Give her an ultimatum that this no sex shit is ridiculous and if she does anything but agree simply walk out of there and work on moving out until she gives you a reason to reconsider that decision.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:28 PM
3

They understand when you point it out to them, but in terms of introspection most people I know don’t do it. For example, Women who say shit like “I pick really bad boyfriends” or “im in a douchebag phase right now” are somewhat aware that their mind and sexuality are telling her opposite things, but in terms of understanding why she feels that way most girls honestly have no idea. But when they open up more and tell me about their past it always becomes clear that these girls are damaged and th…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:17 PM
3

Everyone has to bring something to the table in every relationship or friendship. That’s the bottom line. Some of my friends only get the time of day because they bring something to the table.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:13 PM
1

Intimidation is more about attitude than physical size
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 11:31 PM
4

Freshman year of college was goon central. Pledged, Smoked everyday, drank a ton and financed my substance abuse problem by trapping adderall and weed heavy. It was fine though because my classes were easy as fuck. Extremely lucky I didn’t fuck myself over but looking back I had such an incredible time and made such incredible memories that I’ll hold onto forever as college gets harder and less fun.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:14 PM
2

To add, when you feel good, or did something that makes you more confident and sure of yourself, right it down. There will be times where you feel worthless and going back and seeing the times you succeeded and won will make you feel a lot better, like you’re actually accomplishing something.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:36 PM
3

Ive made incredible friendships because I connect with people on a deep level, and because I’m very social and always have fun shit going on. But I really honestly don’t make friends so much as I make people into what I want them to be, essentially. People always always always enter into my frame, because I’m a very persuasive person with high emotional intelligence. Once they enter into your frame and you learn more about them and become closer, you can start to correct the shit they do that bo…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:33 PM
1

Where do you live? How many plates do you have? How do you meet them? Make some counterpoints instead of just saying oh trust me I know what I’m talking about. Unless you live in a college town or city finding single hot chicks is difficult.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:58 PM
1

I’m saying for the large majority of guys finding hot plates isn’t easy and breaking it for no reason is stupid. You’re the one living in the fantasy world where hot pussy is a dime a dozen. Don’t know where you live mate, although I bet you don’t actually pull you just recant redpill theory like a brainwashed drone without ever really stopping and considering if all the shit you real actually translates to real life
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:40 PM
1

I go to a college with 65% girls and am having the time of my life hahaha keep dreaming faggot
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:09 PM
1

You sound like an incredibly insecure faggot hahah holy shit
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:08 AM
1

Good luck finding an abundance of chicks if you aren’t in college lmao some people on here spout red pill theory without taking a second to actually apply it to real life
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:07 AM
1

Because hot plates aren’t a dime a dozen and there’s no use breaking a plate for no reason
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:46 AM
1

Dread doesn’t create attraction. It only works in the first place if a girl is invested in you anyways, and even then dread game could backfire and she could simply hit up any of the numerous guys in her DMs. Emotional manipulation has its time and place but using it wrong can easily backfire.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:37 PM
1

Maybe, but it’s also just as likely she gets turned off and the plate breaks. Everyone on here is a huge fan of dread game yet never seem to mention how easily it can backfire and if you don’t have a ton of plates lined up you can deal with your problems another way
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:31 PM
8

It’s questions like this that make me question whether some of the guys on here have ever actually interacted with women
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:27 PM
1

He’s not actually mad, just acts that way so his chick understands what she can and can’t do. If you aren’t in a relationship tho then yeah go ahead and go radio silent, it’ll work just as well.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 10:25 PM
1

Cus if she isn’t coming on to you then she’s just a friend. I’d bet if you went out with them she’d wingman for you. If not, she may be into you secretly and will get jealous with you flirting with her friend .
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:33 PM
3

She’s trying to set you up with her friend, clearly.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:27 PM
2

Avoiding telling the truth is a beta move. If you can’t even tell a random slut or your girlfriend how you feel you’re an emotionally retarded pussy. Don’t keep it real all the time, but keep it real enough that people wont suspect when you do actually lie.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:50 PM
1

Alcohol is the perfect thing for the job
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:47 PM
1

The trope of an alpha who doesn’t give a fuck about anyone else may be true sometimes but that doesn’t mean it’s a fundamental alpha trait. Selfishness is beta. Assertiveness and having boundaries may come off as selfish to betas who don’t know the difference
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:45 PM
3

What would I do in your exact situation? Snap her later that day having something to do with the homework or a test or whatever and essentially lead the convo in a way that eventually ends up with you asking her to help you study ("I'm so bad at this subject haha you think maybe you could tutor me sometime"). If she is flakey on snap or unresponsive, try and talk to her in class more but wait a few days to snap her again. But this question is indicative of another issue you have, and its one tha…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:05 AM
6

Detaching from your ego is perhaps the most important thing you can do. You’ll begin to see things more clearly than you’ve ever seen them before. As for the connection thing, it could just be the realization that some people are shitty and boring. I used to look for the good in everyone. I used to put up with a persons weird or annoying behavior because I only saw the best in them. But in reality, some people suck and aren’t worth your time. Giving it to them only weighs you down and holds you …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:52 PM
1

I’m extremely self aware and socially adept, which honestly was part of my problem back when my insecurities began to really take root. I knew my spot on the high school social ladder (due to being fat and depressed until senior year) and I knew i couldn’t do much about it, which killed me. I was literally a sophomore counting down the days until graduation so I could go off to college. Even at my lowest i knew I’d make the best of college, and I absolutely have. It’s funny, I wrote that a week …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:46 PM
2

So you did your research to make sure you came off as a charming and attractive guy, which initially grabbed her attention (hence the texts and calls) but then you showed your neediness and pussy tendencies and she’s sense lost attraction. Imagine if you met a girl and she seemed super into everything you were into and was attractive and cool, but then you talked for awhile and you realized all of that was bullshit because she was just trying to get to your wallet (you said you got a job at the …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:37 PM
5

Calling her out wasn’t beta, actually. The fact that you care she’s ghosting you enough to make a post is beta. You guys aren’t dating, as she said. You aren’t exclusive. She’s gonna see other guys, and just assumed you were talking to other girls. Getting mad is only going to confirm to her you don’t have other girls, which means she knows you’re more invested and will therefor lose attraction or at the very least shift the power dynamic in her favor. Ignore her until she hits you back up. When…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:32 PM
4

"Holding frame" literally just means being consistent and assertive with your wants and needs. If you don't want to do something, make it known. If your gf is being a bitch and throwing a fit? Talk it out with her in a level headed way without getting mad or annoyed. Your friend being a dick? Tell him, but don't be a dick about it. People respect rationality and people calling them on their shit, assuming you do it in a socially acceptable way, especially women. If they're being irrational they …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:15 PM
1

Make yourself someone worth feeling proud of. I always wondered why I didn't have confidence. It was because I didn't respect myself at all and didn't until I actually became the person I knew I could socially.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:46 PM
4

People in general mold themselves to the dominant person in whatever group they're in. Guys do it too and its frankly hilarious to see a guy lose their frame around you.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:43 PM
2

Cringe. He’s almost 100% gonna be in the dorms. You can throw banger pregames in your room but I wouldn’t do it unless your RA was cool. Ours was a beta who idolized us because we were living the “freshman experience” he essentially missed out on
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:51 AM
1

Join a fraternity, but don’t rush first semester. Meet people, get your grades down and learn how to study before you fuck around with Greek life, as it’s a huge huge source of social proof but pledging will tank your grades
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:43 AM
2

Because so many sexless guys on here think getting pussy is the end all be all. They change their personalities completely to achieve that goal, which to me was always so disingenuous. Sure I was fucking insecure college sluts by coming off as a douchebag “challenge”, but it didn’t feel real. My insecurities remained and were in fact exasperated by the fact that it seemed like I could only get laid as a douchebag character I was playing. As soon as I began to trust myself, it was then I realized…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:52 PM
0

They don’t dislike you because you’re a guy lmao. They probably don’t like you (if they even don’t) because you’re weird, which is only confirmed by this weird ass question on here. Handle it like you would in any other situation. Don’t leave it up to chance whether these girls give you a good grade. Make damn sure they do.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:49 PM
1

Women are almost always easier to deal with too, which is funny. You can use charm and charisma to win them over. Guys are much harder to win over.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:32 PM
3

If you can’t handle such a simple social situation, how can you hope to succeed in the real world? I’d speak to the leader of the group or in front of them all and plainly lay out the fact you feel excluded and are hurt by it. Girls are much more likely to respond positively if you tell them your feelings then if you come at them with a logical argument. Win them over and make them like you is the best advice I can give other than being a man and talking to these girls.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:35 PM
-6

There’s no connection between the red pill and conservative ideologies other than the fact a large percentage of the users happen to be conservative. You can be a socially adept and aware “red pill man” and still not cry about taxes or taxpayer funded social services for the most unfortunate among us. Funny how this place is meant to better people yet a single mother on welfare working 2 jobs would get lambasted by the entire sub. Conservatism is literally what got men cucked in the first place.…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:31 PM
16

The difference is that "nice guys" are out for themselves while the hypothetical person in this scenario is out for everyone else, *without* compromising their own wants and needs. I'd describe myself as the guy listed above and I guarantee my friends would as well. I can manipulate people, I can bully and embarrass and do whatever it takes to get what I want, but I *don't*. Do I fuck as much as I want or could if I was a huge dick? Nah. Just the other night I had some chick I was trying to fuck…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:23 AM
3

Become a good listener who people can open up to and you’ll immediately be elevated into the drivers seat of your social circle since you’ll have the dirt on everyone
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:06 PM
7

Extremely useful skill. Extremely. It’ll make people drawn to you like a magnet, guys and girls alike. When you understand how people are feeling and why they’re feeling that way, you gain an insight into their mental state that they probably won’t even know you have.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:05 AM
17

I didn’t feel truly content until I was in control of my social life. Nothing else really made me fulfilled tbh
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:35 AM
1

Exactly. Be yourself means be comfortable being yourself and making light of your faults. That’s it.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:45 PM
1

I’m probably a bit introverted too as well, but that’s no excuse for not being able to carry a conversation if needed. I can talk forever about anything, because I’m well versed in a lot of topics and know to how to listen and let people talk about what they’re passionate about
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:46 PM
11

Seriously. Nobody will ever know I go on here. Ever.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:42 PM
1

Basically, I was a natural alpha who got into some awful thought loops after years of social isolation and low self esteem due to some awful anxiety issues I dealt with during HS. Imagine a natural alpha who was very socially calibrated, but too anxious to really feel like myself around other people, and therefor knew when social situations were awkward but had no ability to change it. Late in HS I lost a bunch of weight which allieviated some of my anxiety and senior year was incredible, but my…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:38 PM
15

I solve everyone else’s problems. If there’s ever a problem with our friend group, whoever’s involved comes to me to help solve it. If my friends are going through tough times, they open up to me and the solution to their problems are clear. My 6’5 stereotypical chad best friend called me crying when the cops came to his room, and then begged me to come handle it, which i did. Girls open up to me to, which honestly kills my sex drive but I can’t help but hear them out. Something about a girl cry…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 02:31 PM
1

If this is some random girl it can’t hurt to text her again.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:15 PM
12

If I had a dollar for everytime one of my female friends showed me their tinder to laugh at the shit guys say or at their pics id be a fuckin millionaire. Girls use tinder for validation primarily.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:14 PM
1

Absolutely ditch toxic friends. One of my closest friends started hooking up with my date at a darty 2 weekends ago and then chucked a full cup of jungle juice at me and another girl I was talking to, to rub it in. I dropped him in front of the whole party and beat the piss out of him. Then I cleaned myself off and left the party, with my date still there. When my date got back to my place with our mutual friends she was ALL over me, and not only fucked me multiple times that night but disclosed…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:08 PM
1

Absolutely depends on the girl. If a girl is attracted to a guy, and he doesn’t approach, they’ll lose said attraction a lot of the time, whereas in a drunk party environment it’s much more socially acceptable for the girls to act on their attraction immediately and approach guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:59 PM
2

Every girl who ive ever known like this was pretty broken and used her “guy friends” as validation. Even girls I’ve known like this who I didn’t want to fuck and just wanted to be friends with eventually made it weird when I didn’t meet their expectation of me wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:43 PM
1

I’m saying you can learn how to be alpha to the point where nobody will know. I was a huge beta in HS and completely reinvented myself in college. I’m the leader of a large group, and even top 5% guys recognize that I’m the alpha. I was naturally alpha In some ways though so YMMV
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:07 AM
2

Not that guy at the moment, but everyone has the potential to be that guy. I’m clearly the alpha of my group of pretty high SMV guys despite the fact I often question myself and still have some social anxiety at times.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:35 PM
3

I’m definitely that guy. I understand covert communication extremely well and am very socially adept. My issue was always just getting over my anxiety and having enough confidence to trust myself and what my intuition was telling me.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:06 PM
1

Women want the fairytale romance with a high status guy. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 05:08 PM
2

Snapchat is a great tool, man
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:00 PM
2

That's a reference to the hot crazy matrix bud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:49 PM
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