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I have more female friends than I do male friends right now. The point isn't that she's in my life and how, its that my brain, no matter how self aware, or experienced... STILL DOES THIS BULLSHIT! I lock in and can't stop for weeks. Pisses me off. I sacrificed work productivity because I was sending her cutsie shit all day.
/r/seduction20/02/15 02:34 AM
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I'm 3 months out of a two year relationship. I'm trying to improve all aspects of my life before I... try to find someone to have in my life in a serious manner. I am not trying to fall into this trap of depending on others to make me happy. I am lonely as fuck and convincing myself everything about this girl is perfect for me and that I should commit to her. What will happen is I will get complacent in a few months and dump her for someone better and never really improve myself the way that nee…
/r/seduction20/02/15 02:23 AM
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Oh yeah, she's super manipulative. I'm aware of it, I call her on it, she plays it off like she has no idea what I'm talking about. I still can't stop.
/r/seduction20/02/15 12:30 AM
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We can just go ahead and consider this a fact, fellas! Two out of thirty something women that I have had sex with have ridden horses at some point in their lives.
/r/seduction15/02/15 03:56 AM
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This is what we call approach anxiety. No one on this subreddit has ever written anything remotely close to explaining how to conquer it though.... ever. Its not the third item on the side bar under guides or anything either. Yup... totally a new frontier for this sub. Let us know what you discover you pioneer you.
/r/seduction15/02/15 03:51 AM
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This is pretty basic info and easy to find on the sidebar.
/r/seduction05/02/15 10:10 PM
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There are a lot of situations in life in which you will feel guilt for succeeding because you can look around and see others fail to keep up. If you stop to help them you will lose progress. If you ignore them you will succeed faster.
/r/seduction05/02/15 09:57 PM
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Well then continue doing the same. Eventually she'll leave or you'll fold and get together.
/r/seduction05/02/15 08:17 PM
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Why don't you just tell her that you don't want a relationship? If she doesn't accept then it's whatever, get someone else to take her position up.
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:01 PM
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It makes sense ass /u/stillcole said. It's not wrong to feel guilty as we are hardwired to do exactly what you're doing. I think the guilt is just because you can't give her what you think she wants but until she actually brings it up and you inform her that you don't want to commit, then its up to you to understand and cope with that guilt.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:21 PM
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If she hasn't brought it up then you don't need to worry. If one of the girls does start acting like they want you to commit, then you have a DTR talk. Also if she hasn't said anything, at you're just assuming, then the problem is on your end and it sounds like you might be projecting a bit. As though you like her enough to commit but are afraid to do so.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:02 PM
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"Hi, im incaahhh, I wanted to meet you before I left for [reason]" Ask about her classes, schedule then get a coffee date setup and get her number and go to whatever your thing is.
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:54 PM
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As someone who just realized that they're building up the oneitus image of a girl I've talked to for like an hour in person and about 30 texts back and forth.... understanding this video and converting your mindset to what he is saying is key to keep your shit together.
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:10 PM
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Unless you're insanely perceptive you're not going to be able to tell these things in the short time you have with the person. It sounds like you did well enough. It's really not that different than normal day game except that you guaranteed have a short time to interact with them and if you overstay that short time it gets really awkward for her and slightly rude for you. Best thing when someone says you have a boyfriend. "oh... darn" in a non reactive tone while maintaining eye contact, making…
/r/seduction03/02/15 06:29 PM
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Is he going to buy me dinner?
/r/seduction03/02/15 05:46 PM
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If someone asks you to politely or rudely leave, just fucking do it. Even if they were joking, laughing whatever and you suspect you could stay, don't. It's the wrong choice no matter what the circumstance.
/r/seduction03/02/15 01:01 AM
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You know what, I just ran into a friend of mine who was always getting compliments about how sexy he was even though people tell me im more attractive. I don't think its clinginess that im putting out I think its just went I want to get laid I act more suave/sexy, what have you because I want something then and there and I know how to get it. When I'm looking for something special to spend time with I focus on conversation and don't really escalate at any decent pace because I want to learn abou…
/r/seduction03/02/15 12:51 AM
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You're starting from the 1st floor here. Read sidebar material first. It's all there. If you're looking for motivation from people on the internet, stop. Motivation is fleeting, you need to learn discipline. You need to get your life in order. Figure out what you want, how to get it, and start working towards getting it. With achievement comes confidence. You know what you're doing, you know what you want. Once you have real confidence in yourself, practicing basic social skills will be much eas…
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:15 PM
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So when I want a relationship, they still like me but are concerned about clinginess so they back off and set the boundary at casual. When I want casual, they like me and I'm aloof about emotional stuff so that makes them want to be exclusive. So, I have to pretend to not want, what I actually want. So that the girl wants what I actually want? So next time i want to date a girl, don't. Just be casual. This is going to be weird thing to try to internalize and be conscious of even though I underst…
/r/seduction02/02/15 07:57 PM
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Confirmed. Has boyfriend and def was not acting like it.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:42 PM
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Dude she forgot something in class aaaand? Any interaction can be made to build up sexual tension. She forgets something, joke around with her in a flirty way. Try to talk for even just 2 minutes. and then at the end look around the room, pull out your phone, open up to create a new contact and be like "OH crap i forgot something too" and then look her dead in the eye, hold eye contact while you say "i forgot to get your number" and hand her your phone.
/r/seduction28/01/15 04:36 PM
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He obviously meant to say bad idea. Honestly, I've dated coworkers without the intention of being serious and it ended up in a meeting with HR. DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT.
/r/seduction28/01/15 04:30 PM
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Analogies are awesome!
/r/seduction28/01/15 04:26 PM
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Maybe not but it's not as bad as "im not boyfriend material"
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:28 PM
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I like this a lot for noobies. Something about a made up scenario eases the anxiety by a ton. The actually subject you chose is also very key because its going to set her in the mindset that she can get you to think that about her if she qualifies herself to you. No one is going to go "No dude, we only want GQ models who have no game" it's just not going to happen.
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:52 PM
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That line tells me three things, you just want to fuck, that you're trying to be obscuring/cryptic/mysterious about it and that something is wrong with you emotionally/mentally since you can't be boyfriend material. You might as well just tell them you want a fuck buddy and set the sails straight. Edit: Im not saying just blatantly state "i want to be fuck buddies" with no context and outside of conversation and congruency. If you've been giving off the right signals and raising sexual tension, …
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:48 PM
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I ended up being real ballsy one night and asked for a lighter... while i already had one, from this really cute girl. She held it out in front of her and I sat there and made eye contact while I slowly leaned in. She immediately scoffed at me and started striking the flint. As soon as it lit I started wiggly the cigarette back and forth while apologizing about it being really windy out. It wasn't at all of course, she giggled the whole time. I finally lit my cigg and said thanks, complimented h…
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:43 PM
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Interesting theory, actually. Hadn't thought of that.
/r/seduction24/01/15 03:53 AM
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Yeah it's a possibility especially that she said that she was not looking for a relationship. She just had nothing for me to go on personality wise. It was just dull. Shes incredibly fit so I guess of course my strategy now is to try and re-engage and escalate to something.
/r/seduction05/11/14 07:58 PM
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Read the sidebar stuff. Looks like you need to start from scratch with pua. There's no quick success when dealing with any skill, PUA is no different.
/r/seduction05/11/14 12:46 AM
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you lost attraction for her, then yeah, it's fine to chat her up as a friend. I had more attraction to her pictures because I made assumptions about her appearance and dress style. She dressed much the same but my assumptions were very far off. She was very very cute objectively, just not my type personality wise. Going to try some clever sexual escalation through text to test the post meet waters but I doubt ill get much out of her.
/r/seduction04/11/14 11:23 PM
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It wasn't bad it was just meh. I tend to have much more chemistry with people I go out on dates with but since it was from tinder I had no idea what I was getting here.
/r/seduction04/11/14 11:20 PM
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Yeah, as of right now were just friends. I didn't feel like escalating would have helped anything. I got a few touches in but without any chemistry it felt more like i was booping a female friend on the nose for saying something silly than escalating sexually. Normally if I meet someone and there's chemistry things escalate without thinking about it. Another girl I met recently things just clicked and we were making out within about 15 minutes of meeting and we fucked for weeks. With this girl i…
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:15 PM
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Yeah, ill have to agree.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:01 PM
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