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He's a "good listener" too if he has to put up with this drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 04:02 PM
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I had a quiet day stuck at home sick so came back here to check out what has been going down since I last got involved on the reg about year ago. It is an absolute shitshow, you are all just trolling each other. It barely has anything to do with red pill (probably one or two people here are actually red pilled, and they probably have to be DQd from that for posting here anyway), people are arguing against each other without understanding the other's point, no one seems to be persuading anyone of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:00 PM
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Embarassing, but could be important to know, like you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:36 PM
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Not many middle-aged people here. I'd hope that when the time comes that my wife can manage to communicate to me that she is hitting the menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 02:04 PM
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Would you divorce a your wife if she had an unfortunate car accident that made sex impossible for her? ​ You didnt mention this in your OP either, did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:43 PM
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But I also know having sex for a woman that isn’t aroused is painful. It can cause tearing and bleeding which burns and itches for days when you piss. ​ You didnt mention this in your OP did you? Quite the change of tone...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:43 PM
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If my gf is having a bad time Ill still inititiate, but dont push the issue if she isnt receptive. "I know you're having a bad time but I want my weenie touched". Right, this is the problem with overt communication in these situations. Potential shitstorm right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:31 PM
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" Whose Pleasure Is More Important? Hers or Yours?" ​In the sense that I get a build up of semen and testosterone that makes me a raging beast after a couple of days and effects my overall well-being then mine is very important. Masturbating reguarly makes me lethargic and depressed. If she genuinely wants her man at the top of his game then sex is definitely essential. It relaxes me and makes me more content. If it does the opposite to her then what the fuck is she doing with me? Good sex is up…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:18 PM
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I agree after a long time of DB. Id have no qualms if I got rejected, say, 3 times in a row with saying "what's up? why dont you wanna have sex?" The DB smacks of death, a situation that is beyond repair. You have to stay on top of it. I wonder how these guys get into such a situation. If it's not that they've had giant changes through having kids and etc. then it's probably just through being pussies. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:52 PM
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The other thing is he didnt realise you were having a bad time at work? The first thing my partner does when she gets home is tell me about her day, so it's obvious when she is stressed. No offense but sounds like a lot of miscommunication going on on both sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:48 PM
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You aren't remotely red pill and weren't, you are someone who got butthurt by being unable to find a girl. If all it takes to fix you up is someone telling you you "aren't ugly" then you stayed blue pill gaining a minimum amount more self-awareness. Rejection is just a part of it. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:30 PM
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Not that much cos these days most people move away from their hometowns to seek opportuinities for work etc. Obviously young people in bigger cities have access to more diversity in terms of people and cultural opportunities, but when you go to college you're still a kid, even when you start working you're still nowhere near the finished adult. I was raised in a smallish UK town and was quite well-cultured and outgoing. There were plenty of young people around. The key time for economic factors …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:20 PM
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Yeah I dont give a shit. I wish she would get out more to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:39 AM
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Hypergamy is that women will look for the best available option. Women gatekeep sex, men commitment. If they can lock down the highest quality guys around then there is no need to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:34 AM
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Sounds like she isnt working? Is he 100% sure she isnt cheating on him? ​ > And holy shit that makes the guy miserable. It basically poisons every other experience he has with his family. ​ But he still keeps up the facade in public, even in private? He sounds like a big baby to be honest. ​ > Their dialogue often goes like that: she mostly just say that she doesnt want sex at the moment and when he is trying to persuade her to have sex anyways, she starts to accuse him of only valuing her for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:36 AM
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Im not really keen on this analogy because she gets intimacy and validation through sex no? For me, the equivalent would be if I stopped considering her in a girlfriendy way whatsoever - stopped going out on dates, stopped going on walks, stopped cooking meals together, stopped going to visit her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:24 AM
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I agree with this. Dreading her and ignoring her IS communication. Let her know you arent the type to tolerate a dead bedroom. It's better done without words anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:59 AM
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If it's a medical issue then why hasn't she brought this up to me much before having a discussion about the dead bedroom? I'd be wondering how poor her communication skills are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:56 AM
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If it were one of those things then I'd expect her to tell me about it upfront. If it's a serious partner then I'd consider keeping those things to herself a serious communication failing. I'd seriously have to reconsider if my LTR thought that keeping stress or depression to herself was a smart idea, more so an illness. That's very very poor communication and very selfish, especially if you're married. ​ If I had been married to someone for a while and they brought that up during a discussion a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:52 AM
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I agree that work stress and general life stress can put a dampener on things. ​ Was he not even trying though? Id have thought he would still be initiating sex and you would have noticed that you were turning him down a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:40 AM
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> The most beautiful women on campus actually had the fewest sex partners, or were the earliest to enter long term relationships. ​ This is true but Im not sure what it contradicts. Truly high value people dont need to prove themselves. I dont remember anyone claiming that the hottest ones sleep around a lot. College is early days as well, college students are yet to mature. ​ > The most likely girls to sleep around were the 5-7 out of 10's. ​ The ones who need validation. ​ > Also, the dating m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:23 AM
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Going back quite a long time now, pretty sure I wasn't given a choice when my parents wanted to go and do shopping or something else essential like that. The deal was if I didn't play ball then I wouldn't get to do any fun stuff. I can't imagine how Costco would be particularly fun for anyone under 18. What do your kids like? There must be something that they enjoy doing that could be turned into a day out .
/r/askMRP15/08/18 06:26 AM
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Fair enough if you don't want to LTR her anymore, that's up to you. But it sounds like you're more shocked than you should be. Sounds like you went after her like a full beta, of course she made you wait. Sounds like you were projecting your ideals onto her, now you've realised that you yourself were just full of shit. Go ahead and plate her, I'm struggling to see why you're angry at her though. Give it time you'll realise you're angry at yourself for being a BP fag and making her into a Disney …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 10:57 AM
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Ive had a few experiences of this/noticed a few things degenerative disc disease in my back. Was in blinding pain for a few weeks, followed by a few months of limited mobility and weight gain. She was supportive for a few weeks, then just seemed very annoyed that it wasnt healing up. She decided the way to help me in this situation was to cheat. I look after myself better now, but obviously something like this could happen again. Not sure what else I can do except try and date someone who isnt a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 05:43 AM
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Id much rather not have internet dating prospects looking at my facebook profile. Much too personal. I'll pass on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 04:25 AM
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It's probably a blessing in disguise. She might just be out for the money/lifestyle. I'd be thinking that it's better in the long run if she fucks off. Someone like that could run away at the first sign of any hardship, and anything can happen in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 04:23 AM
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1.Reddish, 36 years old About 20 but I notched up 6 two years ago when I was completely single for a while. 3.If handjobs and oral counted that would be around another 20 on my n count. 4.15 5.3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:37 PM
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YEah often it means 'I want some other cock' like it seems in your friend's case. I dont think I couldve held my tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 03:02 AM
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I think it can work quite well if the couple communicate well. If one of them sees it as a 'battle' then something nasty is probably going to happen. I think what you're talking about is the examples of when the women suddenly decides she wants an open relationship cos she has already lined up some fresh cock. Obviously, women who do that need dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:38 AM
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Just get over it. You bought the bullshit that people should love you for what's inside, and now you've seen what reality is. The problem isnt women, it's that you were an ugly idiot in the past. Just use the experience to not be an ugly idiot again, and be grateful that you have learnt the lesson you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:33 AM
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Why does anyone want to study or learn anything? Explicitly learning should accelerate your skill in something. Some things can be picked up implicitly, but the conditions need to be right. For example, a lot of RP ideas I felt I already knew when I found RP. Some of that stuff is old-as-the-hills clichés such as "treat em mean to keep em keen". Other stuff, such as the whole concept of hypergamy, was not told to me particularly explicitly before I read RP. I recognised some of the ideas, but ma…
/r/askMRP19/02/18 02:59 AM
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I don't like to think I need to do menial tasks to win my girl's approval.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 12:46 AM
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Thanks for dissecting my butthurt, it was fun "Sure honey, I'll warm up your car. And maybe when I'm done, will you let me give you a foot rub too? After I get the dishes done first, of course." Reacting like this just sounds sarcastic if I say it especially as I wouldn't get up to do anything afterwards. This is actually a good tactic as it'll make her laugh while also telling her not to be lazy. "Screw you! Where do you get off thinking you can boss me around, you stupid whore!" This one is to…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 09:38 PM
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I dont meet many 'party girls' anymore so that'd be me. Places where you can drink, sure, but not big mad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 12:09 AM
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Id get input from several different people and read about it, then evaluate it against my own feelings and experience and decide for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:20 PM
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Dread is supposed to be used more in marriages/LTR no? Why do you think this is Dread Game anyway? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ She might be gaming him in some way, but it isnt Dread Game. Dread Game would be if she was making him worried she might sleep with someone if he didnt do something right? She is actually sleeping with other guys here, in most cases that would be enough to get nexted. She doesnt give a fuck enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:46 AM
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You make some interesting points. I'm 35 and had 4 serious relationships. One relationship in your teens wouldn't have changed you all that much. Those relationships are far, far away from a marriage or LTR and you don't really learn that much from them. Taking a teen who had a high school relationship and putting her in a marriage wouldnt prepare her much more beyond she would have some sexual experience. Also, the sexual experience she would have had would be limited. I remember thinking that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:12 AM
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With these sexual assault and affirmative consent etc issues there has been a big backlash brewing for a while. I haven't been following it closely but with the metoo thing it seemed like open season has been declared for accusations of harrassment. Obviously, attention-seekers and people looking for a pay out will jump on the bandwagon and eventually they'll pick on the wrong guy. I hope that all of this will eventually lead to stronger rights for accused men. Anonymity until proven guilty, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:54 AM
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Finger her while you're eating her out? Have her dildo herself while she's sucking you? That type of thing
/r/askMRP16/01/18 12:56 AM
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I dont do serious lifting but train Krav twice a week. I prefer it to going to the gym as it is more social and there is a good comeraderie at my group. We go out together sometimes and there are some decent women at the class. I find it an involving hobby, you can practice a little at home and learn about fighting which is pretty interesting and engaging. Also gets you out the house.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 07:34 AM
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Definitely I'm more attractive than I was. I'm much physically stronger and getting the benefits of working out for ten plus years. Plus, personality wise I know how to go about myself now. Guys in their 20s rarely have that much character about them, they don't have the life experience to be able to dominate situations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 09:09 PM
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I agree but the thing Ive learned is saying it wont change anything. It's a waste of time trying to change female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 04:27 AM
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I had trouble in my 20s and now in my 30s meeting women is very easy. I think a lot of guys are similar to me. Women love the older guy. Sorry, youre wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:38 AM
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This is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:36 AM
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nothing that went wrong could be their fault is all I think. It's always the guy's fault, after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:32 AM
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I think looking at internet dating like this is interesting, but people take it to mean dating in it's entirety. Im picturing a completely lost guy, sitting their with his cock in in his hand thinking 'mmm,if I only could get some tinder matches.' I was getting matches and you could say 75% of those never led anywhere , cos you still have to develop it before you even meet. To get laid, either way you need to get out of the house. The best way to get laid still stands at going out drinking with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 11:11 PM
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Oh yeah I know what you mean. I guess the reasons vary. a lot of women are poor at communication and dont let you know their expectations until you manage to let them down without knowing it. some maybe had moms or role models like that and they think that one of their roles is to nag. some are concerned that you're lazy and they dont want to end up doing everything for you. quite a lot of people in general like a bit of banter like that and, to be blunt, quite a lot of people like arguing to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:10 AM
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Have to evaluate what they say and then if theyre right, act accordingly. If theyre not right, figure out why and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 11:55 PM
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I'm ok going a month without sex. I just like hunting out women for fun when I'm single. It's something to do. Girls don't such a high sex drive as guys, but they need the attention and enjoy the validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 05:34 AM
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TED? Thats a load of pretentious shit as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 04:21 AM
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Just do things on your own terms. You do not need to get married or have children if you dont want. You dont have to live with someone if you dont want to. Harsh as it sounds, a text message would finish my current relationship. It doesnt make sense to complicate thing beyond this, but I do enjoy ebeing with my gf. Ive been clear from the start about all of this and she has taken to me with all of this clearly outlined. If she doesnt like it she can go. People are adapting to their world, it see…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 04:08 AM
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I stopped listening to people like that a while ago. People jumping on that kind of bandwagon are whining busybodies. I couldnt care less that some Hollywood stars groped some women. Makes no difference to me. I dont use Twitter at all so hashtags dont effect me either. Had a break from reddit as well and it refreshed me, made me see what a waste of time all this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 03:18 AM
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Im in a romantic relationship now. I give compliments when it's actually due (not just because Im supposed to) and buy gifts on special occasions. Doing either of these without good reason is, in my opinion, a bit lame because it makes you look like youre trying hard to impress her. Not really good taste, and you lessen the impact of it. If I buy my gf a gift I want her to really enjoy it, so if you do it al the time she will get used to it and it wont be as romantic anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 03:13 AM
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No I couldnt give a fuck. If you do a bit of professional development and get a better job, do yu sit there crying about how your company wouldn't've hired the old you? Does a filmmaker who becomes successful later in his career sit there angrily hating everyone cos they didnt like his earlier films? But it is does kill notions of star-crossed lovers and definitely stops you taking romantic attention personally. Youre still the same person, unless you are absolutely faking it now. People change …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 03:07 AM
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Well you get all sorts. I think it is nonsense to say that personality doesnt matter, especially if you have lots of options. When I was dating a lot I wouldnt think twice about ghosting a girl if she annoyed me on the first few dates. One I just walked away from cos she got angry for no reason, and she was very hot. Looks are definitely very important though. People have to emphasise personality because they feel bad that they're not that hot, or disappointed cos their partner isnt hot and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:44 AM
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There is truth in that I think. When I look at guys younger than like 25, I see kids. That doesnt mean they arent good people but they quite often havent got a clue what is going on. Im sure guys older than me think that of people my age as well. There's a lot of life experience you can only get from taking the hard knocks in the real world, and Id say you need at least ten years after college before you really start seeing the bigger picture of the world. Physically, guys are more or less matur…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:09 AM
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Can you post a link to a serious claim that the wall hits at 30? Or just strawmanned it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 02:52 AM
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Women can make their own money, but probably not enough alone to raise a family, buy a house, go on holidays and have the lifestyle. The nature of our world is that only some will have that kind of success. Women can have careers now yes, doesnt mean every woman is well-off. 2 incomes takes a lot of pressure off in lots of ways. This is your only downside in your post but the ultimate point. Even if there are no plans for a family, a partner eases the burden somewhat. Renting alone is expensive.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 01:52 AM
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I think that the best answer is that one is taboo the other isn't particularly, like you say. In places where prostitution is rife and affordable, it doesn't seem to be quite as big an offense. In such places guys are quite open about it, at least with other guys. The women know it goes on. The west still has quite , I wanna say 'Christian', views on sex to a point whereas I've heard of places that view sex as a fun hobby rather than the most important thing in the world. Prostitutes are a bit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 01:31 AM
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Naturals learned their game. I remember back before the internet, we used to talk about how to pick up and practice when out and about. It's just that people discussing it online look like dickheads. If you know when to keep your mouth shut, no one would be able to tell the difference anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 05:49 AM
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Seeing as the concepts are as old as the hills, I dont see it going away. It's just labelled a set of ideas basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 05:46 AM
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Sounds like you grew up with a bunch of losers. Move away from that and youll get better. I did and now in my mid-30s, comparing myself to the people I grew up with doesnt happen anymore cos we are so far apart in nearly every sense. Now at my age, if you brag about getting laid you look like a teenager. Perhaps the most important lesson is try not to compare yourself to others a lot. There's a lot of bragging and boasting going on and often it isnt even true. Avoid one upmanship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 02:51 AM
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Ive never heard 'looks dont matter' said about getting laid. Said by a woman that is. I've heard it plenty of times said by people in long term relationships/marriages, I guess coming from the idea that you need more than just a physical attraction to sustain something like that. People in long-term things usually think that is what single people want as well, so to an insecure singleton then this is their advice. It's well-meaning, and coming from a kind of truthful place, but it isnt going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 02:01 AM
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How about we get an add-on that dates when your photos were actually taken? Next time I go to meet someone and she is 5years+older and 20lbs+ heavier than on her photos, Im just going to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:20 AM
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Oof! I bet theyre fucking regretting their shitposting now. Dont fuck with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 02:54 PM
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Purple Pill means a guy who believes in red pill truths but still believes he can have a good family life with a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 11:11 AM
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I can say that most vaginas are forgettable in nearly every way. Only if it smelled particularly bad or was particularly saggy, or had an interesting hair style would it be worth remembering. For the wank bank , most men's are filled with images of their dick in your mouth. So my advice would be to give a good , slutty blowjob and make sure your twat isn't too saggy or stinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 01:14 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/nottheonion/comments/536rcg/japan_has_a_worrying_number_of_virgins_government/d7qjk87/?context=3 Have a read of that comment. According to the user it is a highly misleading article. They asked single people only, so that is 44% of female SINGLES aged 20 - 34. The percentage of female virgins is closer to 20%, he calculates. Moreover, the majority of those are closer to 20 than 34, which puts the article to rights even further. Japan has to be the country with the most b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:42 PM
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I have just browsed a few threads and I havent seen anything funny at all yet here. Is it supposed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:31 PM
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I supervise, so without me it all goes to hell
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 04:50 PM
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Of course they can't demand it. The time like this when it's a problem is if they're stuck together in some way, such as in school. Then the girl might worry she'll get kickback from the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 12:31 AM
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What's this got to do with humiliating her ex? Doesn't really mention him much. It's more humiliating for the new guy that he sent "dating CV and resume". Lol. Suppose he gets to go skydiving though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 12:25 AM
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What kind of stupid thoughts ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 05:24 PM
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There is a reason women use it! My gf tried it on me a while back so I said "What you talking like that for? Are you ok?" She was pretty embarrassed hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:21 PM
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I dont think theyre parallel by any means but they both seem to have some issues. I went out with some 'ambitious, intimidating' type women who projected that. They fail to charm. 'I intimidate men' could just as well be 'I'm too much about my success so I put people off me'. You can be as successful as you like, without any intrigue youre going to be a dullard. I know plenty of successful women, who have landed good guys cos they have their heads screwed on. They are grounded and down to earth.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:15 PM
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You do have women dating multiple men though no? Sure I've seen that before. It's not clever to boast about it, but if they ask then it's probably better not to lie. I've tried it, you have to have the right circumstances and a lot of time and access to lots of people (or Tinder). There's a lot of flaking and people will change their mind. My guess is that men and women will both do it on their way to something commited. That's basically been my pattern forever Dating a few - get along with one …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 11:37 AM
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My totally unscientific opinion, based on my own experience, is that girls who don't use vibes a lot are much easier to pleasure. Likewise, I'm easier to get off if I'm not beating it everyday. On the other hand, if a girl gets herself off a lot then she is likely to have a higher sex drive, and is likely to watch porn which means she has nasty ideas in her head. I don't mind too much either way I guess. I kinda like both scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:59 AM
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At work, are you some kind of boss? On a different team? They might not like you but office politics can be complex. Where I work, the women there will blank me all day if I'm next to them but if we go out for a beer or something then they're suddenly much different. On the street, I wouldn't read a lot into that. Most people don't wanna do eye flirting in the street. Are you like leering at them ? Staring ? Try just forgetting about the women walking on the street, put some music on or somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:48 AM
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Do you mean people you see on the street or people you know well? What's your daily setting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:05 AM
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Ive seen similar to this I think. The guy will need to think he deserves her in the first place, or he will be insecure. On the other hand, some of those women Ive met will complain about not being able to find a date, but then will have very high standards and/or their lifestyles or personalities might be a bit difficult. Whatever is going on, Im not seeing it happening yet much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:48 AM
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It's a manipuation thing. For example, I remember one girl had a bag with her and she did a cutey face and said "heavy" in a baby voice, implying I was meant to carry it. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:35 AM
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The gelled masturbation aids are at least gentle on your member unlike the death grip. Like women, I guess it goes case-by-case. Sometimes it inteferes in your sex life, sometimes it doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:33 AM
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This was the case with me and I got really sick of it. The fix was to cut the beating off down and use lube
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:30 AM
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Ive given a few a try. All that happened was I would meet other girls when I went out, felt guilty and ended it. Sometimes you end up with one as 'the last ones left' at a party or something and then hook up a few times after just cos. That's quite fun but never gonna be anything serious. Girls who I dated who werent attracted to me, were more likely to try and take liberties I found eg - turn up late, change plans last minute. I remember going on a date with one who obviously didnt like me like…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:07 AM
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Stuff like candy bars or something when you're out and about. I've got a low tolerance for it so they've never got beyond that. You could bracket it under 'asking directly for me to buy things for them' actually. For some reason that has always boiled my blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:48 PM
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Doing a cutesy baby voice and asking for you to buy something for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:40 PM
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Reading material and engaging in discussions about the opposite sex online Being openly jealous giving vague, evasive answers to straightforward questions not being able to read your mind spending lots of money on useless crap acting cutesy asking for stuff being short
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:28 PM
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Theyre hard work in that quite a lot of first dates turn out to be very boring. After youve been on a lot you start to be able to predict the conversation and procedure. They can be a real drain on your time and sometimes your wallet. And a good half of the time they might not even be particularly pleasant. They're one of the reasons I prefer to hook up earlier on and then start dating properly after that. Youre way more comfortable with each other after spending a night together, there is a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 01:13 PM
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It's not the woman's fault, it's the guy's fault for being a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 12:59 AM
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In the past, you could see yourself as the best bridge-player in your village or whatever, and that would be a source of self-esteem/identity for you. Today, we constantly compare ourselves to the world's elite in everything that we do in a way that makes us feel small/untalented. It's a double-edged sword I think. In the past you wouldnt see the incentive to improve perhaps, and you wouldnt have access to the means to do it either. I was very good at writing when I was at school and I only real…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 01:35 PM
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It's not a thing to be particularly proud of but the responsibility lies much more on the married person. If it isnt you, it'd be someone else doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 05:57 PM
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I think it depends on how much the other person has invested. The worst case scenario, for example, could be that the person you married has been cheating on you for years with someone you know. That would mess your head up so, so badly. Your sense of reality would be smashed. My experience with it was pretty bad as it messed up my life path quite a bit. I was very angry and not really in control of myself. I was living with her at the time too, and she didnt come out of it too well either. In r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 05:36 PM
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A scenario Ive seen often is that someone cheats, then their partner forgives them only to be dumped at a later date because the cheater is figuring out that something is very wrong for them. Often what people say is "if you are cheating then something isnt working for you". From what Ive seen, people are fairly often ok taking back someone who cheats only to be dumped at a later date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 05:15 PM
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It's a fucking travesty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 04:02 PM
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No Ive lived there before though. It was quite a while ago so it might have changed a bit since. Im not the authority on the place but I do know a bit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 12:49 AM
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It's quite fiercely capitalist and can be quite a cut-throat society in a lot of ways. A lot of women are unapologetically hypergamous and can be shallow. The concept of face is often paramount and you can get by on your looks. The family always comes first, so people are looking for good mothers and fathers as partners. This goes both ways. As a result a lot of people seem to end up unhappily married. It's a small country so a lot of competition for not that many jobs, although there dont seem …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 11:49 PM
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I think what might help you is to realise that 21 is still very, very young. I know that sometimes it feels awful if youre having a bad patch, but I dont know of many guys who couldnt iron it out eventually. My key advice is the same as it would be to someone my own age if they were having a bad patch. Shift your focus away from your bad luck and onto other areas. You even say yourself you're doing this. However I don't know if I can live with that if it's after a certain age. I'll always end up…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 10:47 PM
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I agree but they are hazardous and have previous. They killed about 100 South Korean naval officers a few years back when they sunk one of their ships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:42 PM
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The only scenario I could picture NK attacking is if they were checkmated and decided to go out kicking and screaming. Having said that, they sunk a South Korean ship and killed a bunch of their soldiers not that long ago and that wasnt enough to provoke a war. I was rather impressed with how the US evacuated Florida the other week with the hurricane, they got everyone out of there in a few days. If they could do the same with Seoul, it might be game on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 03:20 PM
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Sluts aren't bad people. They arent 'bad' per se. If they arent harming anyone then theyre not bad, they could be very altruistic. If theyre cheating on people and shit like that though, then you could say theyre bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 03:13 PM
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Something about guys working maybe? Looking serious and like you have purpose? When I got single again after a long relationship, the first thing I realised was to get my chat about my job down. A little bit of passion goes a way, and women would tell me that they dont like guys who complain a lot about their jobs (are you listening college grads?). I dont make good money particularly, but if they see you're passionate about it it can only be a positive. I remember one time I was doing math home…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 08:35 AM
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It's probably part of it. But if Im not reading then Im messing about on my phone and I dont catch people looking at me much then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 08:30 AM
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It's ok, it's just a ginger person. They're not literally evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 07:41 AM
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Grannies do. Cant beat a gum job
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 07:40 AM
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Im 36. Not currently as Im attached but I woud do it often like that before yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 06:25 AM
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The ginger lads at school were pretty hard cos they had to put up with loads of shit. I wouldnt've messed with any of the ones at my school. They could have a joke about it but if you went too far you could expect a headbutt. By about age 14 there wasnt much you could throw at them that would bother them and they'd be raring to ridicule you back, having had so much practice at it. They usually do quite well with women being a little bit different. There's always gonna be one or two that are into…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 06:18 AM
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Reading If I'm reading on the train and look up, it's not unusual to catch a woman gazing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 05:19 AM
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I'm pretty sure these are meant in a positive manner so I wouldn't say they're unfair. Male weapons you could add there are wit and decent wingmen. If you've got a good crew with you then it can be so easy to meet women. Edit - thought of some more. Having veiny arms is apparently a turn-on for some women (mine arent), and some love when you roll up the sleeves of your shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 04:09 AM
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Not really a lot to challenge although there is a ring of "kids these days" about it. I think the older generations tend to think the younger ones are useless regardless of how true it actually is. Also,we are in somewhat new waters in lots of ways.Our parents had no idea what was coming with society so I don't see how they could have pre-empted our problems. There are a lot of issues arising though, can't deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 03:09 AM
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I guess I don't need to add much to these responses but it sounds like you're probably kidding yourself if you think it isn't because you look good. Open and honest guys are ten a penny . A woman can find one of those very easily, what counts is if he meets her standards for attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 02:55 AM
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I find direct approaches to be cheesy anyway. I approach subtly , just chatting as normal and find that women do this kind of approach often as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 01:40 AM
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Does either of them particularly exist ? If you've seen truly horrible people of either gender, I wouldn't want to decipher one as being a worse influence. A particularly darkly masculine man might beat the shit out his kid for being homosexual for example. There are many examples of daughters being punished with acid to the face for dating in a certain culture. Women can be just as bad. It's true that we should remember that in these PC man-hating times, but really below a certain point scum is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 01:33 AM
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I don't think they care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 12:41 AM
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It's written for men, about women. Saying men can and do do the same sometimes would just be a token disclaimer without any meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 12:21 AM
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Ah right. That's a shitter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:53 PM
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For example http://www.nydailynews.com/amp/life-style/women-shun-promiscuous-peers-study-article-1.1365570
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:50 PM
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I mean it sounds like someone who wanted to sleep around and still find that one true special person, like a unicorn. I think sleeping around changes how you see things but not to the point where you can't become attached. Sounds like they need to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:44 PM
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I've seen it loads, all my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:40 PM
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Was that a long distance thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:36 PM
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It's perhaps more pertinent these days to talk about how so many guys are going for a mummy figure in older women. Especially seeing as how the women will usually have missed out on having kids themselves. Does dating a toyboy let them fill the gap of never having a son? Guys who are into older women tend to be soft as shit so perhaps they have mummy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:25 PM
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I think it's worth remembering here that women are more likely to reinforce this double standard. They slut shame like crazy and obviously they like the studly types. Loads of guys I know couldn't give a shit if a girl has slept around a bit, and if you're a guy sleeping around it's usually better to keep it close to your chest rather than boast about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:17 PM
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I'd say that slut shaming is done much more by women than men, even "manospherians".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:15 PM
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Meh. Sounds like someone realised how things really are and it smashed their one true love fantasy. Bless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 11:11 PM
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I'm not gonna listen to someone who uses that clappy between words thing on twitter, thats a sure sign you're dealing with a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 10:48 PM
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It's just scummy to present it as a woman's thing. This is to do with the audience isnt it? What value to the reader would it give to say that guys do it as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:37 PM
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I've never in my life seen a women going crazy over Mel Gibson or that bald guy from diehard. Both huge sex symbols. Rachel from Friends went mad for Bruce Willis! My gf loves Vin Diesel and other such meatheads
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:18 AM
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Another comment says "Im psychology student where most of the people in class are girls but they are fucking idiot. Not worth even talking with them". (I'm sure the irony of his grammatical mistakes are lost on him). English isnt their first language Im guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:11 AM
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From what I can see in my daily life, for most people it's somewhat fleeting and related to context. In some areas Ive got the knowledge and experience to be dominant whereas in others I'm very much behind. In this sense it is similar or the same to Alpha/Beta, which most people recognise as a range of traits rather than a definitive personality type. Ive met a whole heap of people who tried to be the boss but couldnt back it up. They might get people to play along a bit but when push comes to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 01:33 AM
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You cant really discuss sex here without the BDSM experts getting involved, and that goes for anything with 'dominance' or 'submission' in it regardless of the intended meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 01:15 AM
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So is this OP about dominance in the bedroom or just generally? Cos most of the posts are about SM
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 12:22 AM
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You've listed a few female politicians but I don't think it's imaginable what it would actually be like. The boring answer is probably similar. From what I can see, most of the ruling people do comes back to the bottom line. Wars are about money and nearly everything else is as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:15 PM
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Red pill advice is nothing new and I couldn't count the times I've heard advice that is akin to it. It isn't original in its accurate nor controversial ideas. It's just collated conveniently and of its era. Anytime the topic of relationships comes up something red is usually said. Guys will be honest between each other a lot of the time and you hear lots of stuff similar to awalt. Even with women some of the stuff rings true and you look socially aware, although if you go too far you'll look lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:00 PM
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They live in the over-socialized beta nerdy bubble. They don't know hardly any men that treat woman badly or that take advantage of them because of the segment of society that they inhabit. I think you have to look at this in that they had a beta perspective as well though. Guys who treated women badly are dismissed wholesale as scum and the women as being taken advantage of/naive. The thing is that for a beta, the boundaries for treating women badly are very thin. When you see the other side of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 02:09 AM
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That is certainly part of it, but overly simplified. From what Ive read a lot of people turn to red pill after they were in a relationship where they thought they should be best friends with their partner, and that that support and companionship would be enough. Then when the loved-up feelings of the first few years wear off they get stung when the girl gets bored. Then when she cheats/branchswings/leaves they felt betrayed because "how can she do this after all we have been through/all I have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 01:54 AM
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Couldnt say without witnessing the altercations. How do you think it went down? I guess if we take it that most people arent au fait with BDSM protocol then it can be difficult to communicate your desires. I remember one girl who I was seeing wanted to be submissive or something, but I only learned this when she was drunk and started shouting "HIT ME! SPANK ME! IM NAUGHTY!" when was she hammered drunk one night. I thought she was insane at the time. On the other hand, Ive heard girls talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 01:29 AM
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Not true, hit up the BDSM scene and only half of men even want to be dominant. The BDSM scene is a tiny minority compared to the amount of people who watch porn though no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 01:06 AM
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I honestly reckon more women watch S&M porn I dont think it was saying that more women watch it than men? A larger portion of women but Id guess that men watching BDSM still outnumber the women significantly. Look at the amount of femdom porn there is. because a lot of men these days are pussies who will only do super vanilla stuff Where do you get that from? As far as I was aware, most men would love to be in a dominant role. I dont see much of a point in analysing porn watching as Im not learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 12:50 AM
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Thanks for the family.memoirs dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 11:35 AM
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That no one ever said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:28 AM
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The only reliable tell is to see how he argues during a conflict. But sometimes my relationships go for years without fighting, and it seems dumb to start a fight just to see how he will react. I think this could be a useful measure, if you opened it up a little bit. Everyone goes through some kind of regular conflict, how do they deal with these? For example, I have 2 newish colleagues who both seem very cool when you meet them. Being work, we regularly have negotiations and disagreements and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 01:55 AM
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So people who think relationships have a transactional element are sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 12:51 AM
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It's ok, I can take a joke. You could be right. In any case, it's better to learn a few things about the red flags an abusive person might throw up. But I agree that judging people can be a hazardous endeavour even if you've got exceptional people skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 12:46 AM
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Or my ears to listen to what theyre saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 12:24 AM
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Could be the case, but the meme has traditionally been "a woman's intuition" hasnt it? I guess that this could even be interpreted as being a traditionally sexist idea. Men dealing in logic and facts, women going by on gut feeling and undefined extra senses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 12:12 AM
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Yet there is little, if any, talk on the subject of women who end up with abusive psychos. Real psychos are quite often mentioned as 'charming'. Like - 'I thought he was a bit too passionate and jealous but he was so charming I couldnt help myself'. There is definitely something of a myth about women that they have this "intuition" that makes them able to tell certain things about people, or are able to read situations better than men. It's bullshit most of the time and I'd think most right-mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 12:06 AM
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Im sure it would drive some women to despair. So could working in a job they hate though. There aren't enough great careers to divide up between men and women, and the current state of employment isnt great. Zero hour contracts, intense competition for even entry-level jobs and so on. It doesnt look like getting better soon, and we are mostly unlikely to be retiring young so you could well be in a job you dislike for most of your life. On top of this, if you are a working parent the chances are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 10:50 PM
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They need it. If they can't figure it out on their own , they should just quit and get back in their lane. Grown adults should know what makes them happy and not need Oprah to tell them what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 04:45 PM
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Women who need to read articles on how to be happy are pretty pathetic to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 04:36 PM
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Im pretty sure it's cos they have to work now. It got trussed up as 'freedom' to cushion the blow, but at a certain point you realise it's just going to be shit a lot of the time. Best to just ignore when you didnt have to work, cos those days arent coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:56 PM
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The only things that keep me Purple instead of Red is the adherence to gender roles based on one's biological sex, the use of Dread, and the (relatively recent) pervasiveness of members literally​ believing AWALT/100% of people with vaginas act a certain way, with complete disregard for individuality. This is the fun stuff though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:38 PM
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I dont know if this counts but lots of women love it if youre bitchy and gossipy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:20 PM
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It depends on how you carry it no? A guy who can laugh at himself can come across as confident and good fun or he can come across as needy and insecure. It can be like they dont care what people think, or that they want attention or are using humour to cover up other things. Similarly, a guy who acts very serious can come across quite powerfully or they can seem like they arent quite plugged in socially. Obviously, it is also down to the appropriacy of the situation. You cant be a jackass in a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:13 PM
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Ok, so the OP question is "Who has a higher chance of success with women, red pill men or the rest of the men in the world?" I hope I wouldnt need to explain the problems with that, nevermind that 'success with women' isnt defined anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 02:57 PM
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It's still something that Red Pill advises. Being attractive and being dominant isn't monopolised by the Red Pill either but you're happy to use them as negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 02:55 PM
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To me, the thing about it is that Red Pill seems to be trying to claim certain thoughts, mannerisms/behaviors as being "exclusive" to Red Pill ideology, when that's simply not the case. Anyone is capable of thinking or behaving in the same manner, but that does not make them "Red Pilled." Yeah a lot of it is common sense. Stuff we would talk about in the pub 20 years ago. The thing is when it's on the internet it's suddenly shocking. What I'm saying is that people who read this forum and partici…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 04:01 AM
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I'd say that people on here who are blue pill have quite a strong interest in similar things to red pill people yeah. Actually, for this reason they would stand a chance of being good with girls. I reckon half the problem is people walking around never thinking about or questioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:18 AM
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allowed him to build a good reputation in his social circle Definitely red pill advice as well though. Social standing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 02:54 AM
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Also, people in this thread are defining blue pill guys as anyone not red pill. I think blue pill guys should be defined as people who are anti red pill , as that what blue pill is. Otherwise it's "everyone in the world who doesn't read a small community on Reddit".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 02:48 AM
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What do you mean by success with women? Sounds like you mean "getting them into a relationship". After my last break up I focused on sorting myself out and sleeping around. Worked well. If you're getting tired it's probably cos you're making getting girls the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 02:18 AM
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Quite right, a welcome reminder for me not to stick my dick in a crazy man. Easy to forget that while focusing on not putting it in a crazy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 12:40 PM
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I'd get a girlfriend who takes out the trash. Why do I have to fucking do that every time? Bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:40 AM
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Learning a skill like PUA isn't being a fake. Being a PUA when you don't want to be like that is being fake, like of you do it cos you think it'll make you cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:39 AM
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I think that as well as the romance genre , lots of other media teaches people that if they persist and work hard they will win in the end. Which is very often bullshit. For example, sports films have a character who fails then builds himself back up to triumph. America loves this kind of American Dream story when most indicators point to it being bullshit. A typical American guy might think "oh well she don't like me now, but if I work hard then my dream will come true", or at least that how it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:35 AM
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He's not into super kinky shit, but I'm in my 30s and I've had my fill of the wild shit anyways so it's not a problem. Possibly what I'm going through now. Do you think kinkiness is more of a young person's activity ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 01:35 AM
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Yeah I mean when you know how to push someone's buttons it's almost like a cheat code. So yeah of course I'm gonna be interested in my partners kinks. Good point here. Youd be surprised to learn your partner had some weird thing they really really liked after several years of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 12:49 AM
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Usually someone brings it up and you talk about it. For me it's been after starting sleeping with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 12:48 AM
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Porn I'm guessing!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 12:40 AM
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Lovely answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 12:39 AM
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You can, if theyre cool and have some kind of proximity to you (live nearby, work with you). But if we all thought like men, we’d probably be facing a serious overpopulation crisis. Yeah shit, hope that doesnt happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 10:07 PM
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As for the "women dont make good friends," I really dont agree. I will say they are different to be friends with, but I wouldnt say one is better. How are they different in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:52 PM
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Im sure it's a massive disappointment but I dont think it is the end of the world. You get on with your life though dont you? Women who miss out arent commiting suicide over it as far as I know. Like I said, we all have our regrets and disappointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:59 AM
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I think the trouble is distinguishing between cuckolding as a fetish and open relationships. Ive seen lots of posts about people who have female partners wanting to 'open up' the relationship. Dating being what it is, it looks suspicious that the woman in the partnership just wants to sleep around and keep her boyfriend for his support. The guy might have big trouble finding a casual partner whilst the woman probably will not. In essence, he is being cuckolded. This is our paranoia about how muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:56 AM
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Ive got no sympathy for someone who gets a girl pregnant cos they didnt want to wear a condom. If what youre saying is "If you have to have unprotected sex, dont do it with a woman who who wouldnt want to have a baby with" , then I wouldnt disagree with that, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:42 AM
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Ive been sexually active for 20 years and I havent impregnated anyone yet. There are these things you might have heard of called condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:34 AM
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So the biological clock makes it more stressful, as opposed to not being able to attract men. That's right, because life being what it is they might not be able to find the ideal one or even someone suitable. Men don't have quite the same clock and they will be aware that the woman might just be looking for a father to her kids. So the woman might have to keep lowering her expectations until she find a balance between someone she really wants vs who will be willing to commit to such a permanent …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 12:59 AM
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There are people who like to think that women go into decline and become miserable after their youth starts to fade, and seem to get a kick from that. That's clearly childish and not very nice. There is some truth in it though. As I see my peers barreling towards 40, it's apparent that some women I know are going to be last ditching attempts at having kids . I've got lots of examples. I'm sure there'll be lots of regrets for them, but then what I realise now is that most people have lots of regr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:45 PM
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Where are you from exactly? I've lived in a few places now and it always seems like it's just pros and cons. In places like Korea, there is (or was at least) a low divorce rate and they adhere to the model you describe but lots of married couples despise each other. I don't think there's one better way, seems like a combination of freedom, understanding and selfless sacrifices work out best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 09:45 PM
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I think the thing it triggers is paranoia not about the fetish of cuckolding, but the situation some people find themselves in where their gf or wife decides she wants an open relationship. Obviously it's quite a powerful fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 09:38 PM
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You wouldn't need an alpha woman, you could humiliate the sub yourself. You'd just need a complicit partner. I'm sure it already happens, but I think that it isn't to any extent is because men are watching more porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 09:33 PM
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Well it must be particularly unappealing to some then. And what's wrong with reading a little into it? No one is claiming to be the authority on why people like what they do, we aren't calling them degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 09:30 PM
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Did you know that? My wife told me you were here. She told me, "you should go talk to them" Is she stalking me again? Please remind her of the restraining order. Ok, I'll be waiting for your seduction 101
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 08:49 AM
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Probably doesnt tell us anything concrete. It must reflect some things though as there is clearly a market for it. Some ideas clearly lots of guys get off on being humiliated. This is becoming more accepted now. young people dont think of the consequences of experimenting, or they dont care. it suggests people might make up stories and post them onto the internet. porn has made everything acceptable. People are bragging like crazy over doing the weirdest things. porn is influencing our sex lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 08:19 AM
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Could you walk us through a seduction that youve done in the past? Might be able to get some tips from you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 06:44 AM
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Sounds like she's got her game down at least. Im from the UK so I can easily picture her. The guys are rich morons looking for a trophy dumb girl. And youre dead right she'll probably be on her arse by her early 20s
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 03:32 AM
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My girlfriend dominates me with her wife's permission. Your gf is married to another girl but she dominates you? That's an interesting set up. Do you have PIV?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 01:55 AM
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Yeah he's a dumbass. He didnt even cheat and he got caught. If you have knocked up your gf, it probably isnt the best time to start e-mailing your ex. Youd want to at least give having a decent family a fair shot wouldnt ya? If the roles were reversed, and you found out your baby mama was doing the same youd be furious. As the columnist says, he's on the hook now anyway. As he hasnt done anything physical though, and with a baby coming, I think he still might wind up in a family. But from the so…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 01:47 AM
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Personally, it seems less experienced women aren't willing to do as wild sex acts in bed as those who are more experienced, such as balls-deep deep throat, throat sex, facials, swallowing, anal, sex on balconies, etc. Most of these I've never wanted to do. Id speculate that women who agree to these have probably got more experience watching porn though. The girls who had a lower n count but I got into LTRs with were enthusiastic to try out different stuff. Perhaps excited to have a boyfriend (I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 07:03 PM
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So let me ask you: who made them like this? Big business liberated women as they wanted a wider pool of workers/had a shortage of workers. See how the living wage is going down but the living cost is going up. Women were never the mindless docile slavewives people make out. They were never going to keep house, do starfish for a husband they dont like AND put in a 40 hour shift as well. So they were given freedoms aka privileges. But who is to teach girls all these things if you are weak and conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 06:40 PM
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I'm not at the moment cos I don't have enough time. My work schedule is busy, I'm working out a lot and trying to maintain my social circle. So there isnt enough time left. When I had lots of free time I enjoyed having a few casuals on the go at the same time though. You've got your regulars, and you can go out free to hook up. It's good fun. I'd do it again if I wasn't so busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 06:47 AM
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I think that communication is important with sex. With my last few gfs I steered the conversation towards the dead bedroom topic (easy when you have lots of married friends between you) and mentioned that if that were to happen to me, barring illness, I'd leave. They agreed enthusiastically. I think that this works well because you set up expectations that are easy to manage, and it makes it easy to call it out if something goes awry. It makes it awkward if you have never voiced the expectation,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 10:43 AM
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It seems that women who are into me like my sexuality, and want to fulfil my ideals with that. Women who dont really like me are a bit more reluctant to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 10:16 PM
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I agree with that though. My gf just wants to eat and watch TV, which is boring but actually nothing wrong with it. Someone who is boring but thinks theyre interesting is a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:59 PM
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Sorry i was meant to be talking to the OP with that question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:51 PM
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I like this comment What do you mean by boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 09:45 PM
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It depends on what it is, and how you do it. Oh, and it depends most of all on how much of a bitch she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:32 PM
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When I read articles written by women about tinder they always say "I know every guy swipes right, so I dont read too much into that." So they know what guys are like. They also know if we dont contact them (after matching etc) then we had a look and are not interested. And I bet that happens a lot. It isnt at all like real life and it doesnt reflect the dating scene IRL. Guys should use it on the off chance theyll find an easy lay, or to just buffer their chances overall. If you use Online Dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:28 PM
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If you mean 'street smart' then Im down with that. Ive done a bit of training, and usually the smartest course of action is to avoid or run away! Doubly so if you've got someone who would need protecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:59 PM
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I literally do not care if the guy I'm dating cannot attract other women......I would actually find it weird if girls were into my boyfriend and I would start thinking maybe we don't belong together. Dont these 2 statements contradict each other? And how on earth do you reach the conclusion that if other girls were into him you shouldnt be together? I was always 100% confident that my boyfriends could never find sex when they got out drinking with their friends Could never? Or you were confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:28 PM
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I think there are a number of reasons why people get divorced!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 11:27 PM
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AND so are all the posters from the dataset on /r/Adultery oh THAT data! lol Nice that you ducked most of my post as well. Skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 10:42 PM
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Have you had a girlfriend before? I think what a lot of guys notice is that girls tend to react positively if they notice that their guy can attract other girls. Subsequently, a lot of guys realise that girls can go off you if they realise you arent attractive to anyone but her anymore. Most of the time, this is the guy's fault for getting lazy and complacently thinking that he's got her now, so she's gonna be into him whatever. If you look at the first 6 or 7 steps outlined there, you'll see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 10:36 PM
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I agree that people do change when you live with them vs went you live separately, but don't most people in marriage-minded relationships nowadays actually cohabitate prior to getting hitched? One would think that any bugs could be found and worked on during this time. Obviously not, or people would never get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 10:15 PM
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Have you ever lived with someone? It's a different game to dating. People do change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 09:58 PM
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Say are you saying these men just take what they can get, then pay for it later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 09:29 PM
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Sounds to me like the author is strongly implying that something needs to be done about this effect, presuming it exists. What makes you think they are implying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 01:50 PM
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Unpredictable and capable of violence but not ACTUALLY violent. I think it's kind of received wisdom that you need experience to be capable of violence. Sounds like you're into people who do edgy posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 01:40 PM
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People are interesting if they know about things I dont know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 01:39 PM
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Everyone wants to be with someone they enjoy being around, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 12:37 PM
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The majority are under 30, like I said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 12:12 PM
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it was in the survey that was done a few weeks ago https://ucsbltsc.qualtrics.com/WRReport/?RPID=RP2_0kc5o6SOXhm9VFb&P=CP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 10:10 AM
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Even women who say they are happy being single often have guys they can go to if they feel the need. You dont find many women who have rejected it all completely. At the very least they still need the validation. Often the women who say they have rejected it all, upon questioning it seems like they are in a bad time for having a relationship or just havent met the right person. They're still looking. Women enjoy lots of platonic intimacy and companionship with their female friends: they can talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 10:07 AM
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The majority of the users on here are under 30
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 09:46 AM
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I think it isnt reddit that skews it, but internet dating/apps. The apps seem to hugely favour women as it seems that they get much more interest from guys than vice-versa. As a guy, you have to assume that at least a few guys are trying to hit on them at the same time as you are whereas sometimes she'll be the only one really talking to you. But I think it is easy to get carried away with OLD. You get a bit of joy and you keep going back for more, and eventually it becomes your primary source o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 10:19 PM
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I've heard a few people say this, too. It seems like one of the most reasonable solutions to my problem. Cheers. I'd say so. It seems like you do have some standards and know a bit about yourself. If you stick to your guns, you will come good in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:31 PM
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What do you think would happen in the initial stages(1-12 months)? It would be a long time before they became socially acceptable, if they did at all. It's not like a dirty magazine that you can hide under the bed. You're not going to want to take a girl home with you only for her to go in the wrong door and see Sexy Stacey the android on charge. What do you think would happen in later stages? I think that there could be a market for it in robot brothels if they were more affordable than regular…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:29 PM
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I'll have a look at some of these points. If you're pursuing a woman for sex, you'll have to "game" her, play her dumb (mind) games, and convince her you're the best guy available, which is especially messed up when you realize there are at least around 10-50 other guys thinking the same thing. Not my experience, traditionally. If youve got a decent social life, you dont even have to pursue it that hard chances just come to you. If you dont make it your main goal, I find that it comes along agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:03 PM
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Have a look at this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2viqpa/awalt_nawalt_allow_me_to_explain/ It doesnt have to be totally negative. As you can see here, some users believe you should just accept it as a set of truths. It doesnt have to be something to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 05:54 PM
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And what choice is he likely to make ? It might be why it doesn't happen much already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 05:19 PM
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And a younger guy doesn't need the pressure to have a kid way before he is likely to be ready. That's a heavy limitation on your freedom of choice and options in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 05:14 PM
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RMV Biological clocks ticking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 04:56 PM
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Cos looking for an older man is the better option for them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 04:55 PM
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I was thinking more emotionally, since women his age wouldn't be willing to do that Of course they are gonna be supportive if they wanna have a relationship with the guy. Unless you mean supportive like a mother? Why would those men be her main audience? Because attractive young guys are going to be with girls the same age mostly. Similar social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 04:45 PM
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Supposedly men are at their horniest at a young age and women become more sexual a bit later. But I don't know if it's Freudian myths. I think it's a bit of a myth. You can find young girls out there who are extremely horny, and lots of married couples have so-so sex lives. However I think an older woman who just wants sex and a younger man who just wants sex are a good fit. this is true, as there is much less chance of any complications. She can relive her youth, and he can get some experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 11:14 AM
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the numerous stories about the 20 something plus female teacher sleeping with underage male minors They are paedophiles and should be imprisoned as such. As for cougars, I definitely think there are some older women who are attracted to younger dudes. There's enough sex going on with that demographic to back you up on that. It's usually just sex though no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:31 AM
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My guy is a few years younger. To me, a few years is nothing. It needs to be say 5+ years older to really be a head-turner. However, Ive noticed the same thing and agree it is getting more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:19 AM
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Well it does happen. The trouble is there is rarely any future in it. Kids will usually be on her mind, and not on his and this will be obvious to the both of them. There wont be a lot of women who will be that supportive of a young guy. I dated an older woman in my 20s and she bought dinner sometimes, that was about it. If you were talking financially supportive, I cant see it happening. Theyd be too afraid of being taken for a ride. And if it's a big age gap, then you have the social stigma. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:13 AM
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then no-one will care. A woman about mid-way between their ages probably would!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 11:53 PM
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It isnt just about your age group though is it? The Manager is his 30s has more status than the Data Entry Clerk in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 11:27 PM
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That's true in more ways than one, but that's not the average trajectory. Most people manage to build up their careers and their lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 11:02 PM
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The big problem is that most men have already made their mark in social status whilst they are in their twenties, and any man who increases his social status in his 30's is either an outlier, or just following an expected career/life trajectory. Let's not forget that social status will depreciate for the vast majority of men as they get older. We're not surrounded by CEOs, entrepreneurs and amazing athletes. How does social status depreciate? Many guys I know spent time in their 20s living back …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 10:55 PM
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I guess to put it succinctly: My male friends in the early 30s have to deal with the god-awful dating market of "leftover women". You dont exactly disprove it here, do you? You say your friends are getting better with age but have to deal with the dregs? This doesnt disprove the statement, it just means that the glee with which people make it may be misplaced. However, I do think it's very exaggerated. It seems to be a big button-pusher and people go off the deep end, both ways. I've had a blast…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 10:18 PM
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It's a needed smack around the head for lots of people who get overinvested. When you're getting carried away with something you can easily make poor decisions based on who you're currently with. It can mean that you are smart to keep your options open and not pin too much on that one person. Why do RPers need to be told this? I don't know, to me it all seems so unnecessary......Expect that people can leave you, you don't own them. I think that the fact that you kind of agree with it in principl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 08:30 PM
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Yeah I'm uncut and you have to give it a scrub or it can get pretty cheesy down there. My last gf liked it though, she used to put her finger inside the foreskin and leave it in there for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 01:07 AM
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How about if it's uncircumcised, but they roll the foreskin back?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 12:57 AM
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but apparently, as a man, I should put up with that shit because pussy is some rare resource. miss me with that. Same here. Sex is so glorified. In the end, even if you're just banging someone once a week you still have to spend time doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:57 PM
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Is that supposed to be a dig at me? It was, but to be honest it was a bit of a joke!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:39 PM
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Im red(ish) and a man. Im supposed to be horny all the time but fine with sex once a week. Lived like this for 5 years with my ex. Didnt mind all that much if we went a few weeks without any sex. So I dont need a horny monster of a gf. My gf at the moment isnt very kinky and it's kind of refreshing after the last few headcases I went out with. as I'm living in Asia, I see more of a real need for women to stick up for their rights and prefer women who will. I'm quite mean to people I know (in a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:36 PM
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Having sex with a random girl isn't a big deal to guys. To girls, it's traumatizing. Right. Why is that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:15 PM
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It might be better if women had to get a license before they use the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 08:12 PM
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Prague is getting more multicultural for sure. Lots of Vietnamese, Chinese and Koreans around last time I went. It's chock full of tourists too if that counts haha. Also, for a major city it is pretty small. I like multicultural places, but I kinda hope it doesnt change too much as some of the idiosyncracies of it would be lost. There's this Dutch woman whose job it basically is to travel around the globe and visit people living in the most remote areas of the planet. Now that sounds like a grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 03:52 PM
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Id go to Prague or Budapest. 2 of the most beautiful cities in the world with knockout women all over the place, and a beer (the best beer in the world by the way) costs about a dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:53 PM
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I dont see what need having a gun would fill. The US had them from the get go right? Introducing guns would just cause problems. There are already gangs of people running around stabbing each other. The UK is much smaller than the US as well. When I was in University, the student accommodation was 5 minutes walk away from the areas with all the drug gangs. You cant just put the poor people together and ignore them like in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:48 PM
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The UK seems to be much ahead of the US when it comes accepting men who don't conform to their gender role but we'll eventually catch up. That whole "real man" stupidity is fading quickly. Not sure that we are ahead or behind, it's a different culture. Id say that this poll shows that they dont feel masculine probably isnt a good sign though. Being from the UK, this strikes me as being more about the lack of security than being more accepting of relaxed gender roles. Young people cant find a sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:43 PM
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I've not known anyone at all in the industry so you know more than me. My own idea of it was that it'd probably be good fun. Obviously youd have lots of sex and meet a lot of lunatics. It also seems like itvcould wind up being hard work, you might have to take viagra and whatnot? There's probably a lot of drink and drugs going on the social side of it as well. And youd need to work hard to keep in good shape, my beer belly wouldnt cut it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:24 PM
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Unfortunately, the UK has quite a lot of crime and violent crime at that. The recent pet horror story of the newspapers is gangs of guys who throw acid on people before they rob them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:04 PM
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This is probably because the real 'masculine' guys in the UK are potato-headed morons. You quickly disassociate with them when you are growing up as if you want any kind of life beyond fighting, drinking all day and living on government benefits then you dont want to be in their circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:00 PM
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5-6 other indicators of their non consent what would these be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 12:54 PM
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Your partner signals your status, so in a way both men and women are like prizes and are often treated as such. Like with most things, people dont like seeing it explicitly stated as it takes away the mystique and reveals some home truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 12:39 PM
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I think a woman should be able to say 'stop' or 'no' if she doesnt want to have sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 12:36 PM
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This sub tends to go in cycles if you hang out long enough. You get back to the same topics and then the same arguments get trotted out. This little round has been very tiresome though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 12:24 PM
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I agree with the right to revoke consent. I also think it's not too much to ask for a woman to say "stop" if she wants to revoke the consent. I've had this a number of times. I didn't immediately register she wanted to stop. I noticed a change but youd have to realise explicitly that she wanted to stop. Sometimes I was doing doggy and got asked to stop. How the fuck are you supposed to notice a freeze when you're doing doggy? I understand people can freeze up and not know what to do. But I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:46 PM
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Agreed It's no wonder that colleges love this shit. It's an irresistible stinking shit show
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 03:55 PM
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It gives me a headache how people demanding the most freedom then make the most demands for everything to be legislated just so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 03:33 PM
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The life of the average working class girl from my generation and locality. 0 - 11 years old: quite nice, calm upbringing. 11 - 13: starts dating. likes lads who fight and cause trouble cos theyre the most alpha. cant compete with middle class kids at school so now starts to really hate it. 14: starts smoking, drinking and having sex. doesnt go to school much now. 16: gets pregnant to get social housing. drops out of school. 18 - 21: baby father goes to prison for the first time, they realise th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 11:20 PM
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Nah but it was quite an entertaining read. The big thing that is missing from all of this, yet again, is CLASS. You are better off bracketing rich vs poor than man vs woman when it comes down to your privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:08 PM
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Early red flags:- being flakey on the first few dates. taking too long to arrange meeting (red flag that she is probably seeing a few guys, or even that she is too busy with work etc for a relationship right now). playing with her phone too much. Taking pictures of food and drinks. seems to just want a boyfriend rather than being interested in me. (living in Asia red flag) stereotypes foreigners. eg "Americans are______". has to have a strong opinion on anything. always has a better story about …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 04:44 PM
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yup, simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 09:59 AM
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Thanks. That's just uncalled for imo. Exactly. It bears stating here though that I think it's a big mistake to tell your partner this. It is damaging, but the thing is that this kind of thing will come back to haunt you. I remember the first girl I lived with being like that, and I was so upset about it that my effort towards her just dropped. Why invest in someone who acts like that? So in the end she just made her own life worse. It's just basic common sense that you look after the feelings of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 09:32 AM
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You can go ahead and do that if you want. I agree that some people are probably better off on their own. The traditional models of husband and wife are pretty rigid, and surely not for everyone. It's not a lifestyle decision to be taken lightly though if you ask me. There seems to be plenty of women (and men probably) who already made such a decision, and wound up regretting it. First and foremost, most people want to have children. That's not an easy task regardless of the money it requires. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 09:25 AM
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Those werent real life examples, but more to show the kind of attitude some can have. Ive had similar experiences though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 08:28 AM
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It's ok, I've got experience handling moody teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 08:26 AM
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I mean what kind of shaming language do red pillers use? Im aware of the anti-male shaming tactics used towards males, being a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 08:23 AM
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I see red pillers and mgtow using "shaming language" against women all the time, talking down about women, yet these same men will attempt to call out "shaming language" against men. Got any examples of all this? Im not entirely sure what youre talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 08:18 AM
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And guys in their 20s are usually sexually frustrated cos they cant get enough. Make it less important and focus on other things. Guys n their 20s arent getting laid as much as us in our 30s it seems
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 12:23 AM
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how long can you go without any kind of orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 12:17 AM
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What does 'lucking' mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 10:30 AM
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That's comedy. Can't knock her negotiating skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 02:27 PM
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That's interesting. It might sound a little bit obvious but to me it seems like the whole chain of events was started off by the Industrial Revolution. Machines making men obsolete.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:02 PM
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From which historical point do you think things began to slide?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 12:02 PM
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This is correct, but for me the most effective way to get rid of my sexual frustration was to not make sex the most important thing in my life. It shouldn't be your main goal. A decade ago, it was. But I got fired from a job because I had health issues and had to move back to my parent's house. Realising that between living at my parent's, having no money and having health issues I was never gonna get laid anyway, I knew I had to focus on something else. After a while of doing this, lo and behol…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 10:48 AM
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Woman's discontent makes the life of the present day still more overstressed. The high pitch given to existence by people who are restless and dissatisfied because they fail to achieve things wholly out of proportion to the health and talent with which Nature has endowed them is a bad thing for the world. Definite wise words in this and the previous post. The quoted part here is pinpoint accurate, and for men as well as women. Too many people want to punch above their weight and dont know their …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 10:17 AM
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It's finding the attention span to do it all. I exercise, but you're talking 2 hours tops and not everyday. I enjoy reading but there are so many books out there, you're more likely to select something easily forgettable than something genuinely worthwhile. You can take up a new hobby, but again they often prove to be boring. Need to plan this shit out and work at it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 08:22 AM
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Yanks! Yanks everywhere! It also confirms that you're mostly a bit younger than me, and that I'm getting too old for this shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:59 AM
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I think he means the way they talk in those situations. I've had times when women say that kind of thing like they dont really want to but they'll do it as a favour to me. It's not romantic. Im picturing: "Oh, is it Wednesday? I guess it's time for your handjob. My wrist is a bit tired so can you come quickly this time please?", "mmm, I'm not horny but I guess I could go down on you. But clean it first and DONT push on my head, ok? And dont even think about coming in my mouth." "well, I suppose …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:36 AM
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I think relationships like mine (partners with very different sex drives) can last. People are not having sex most of the time during a relationship so I don't think "sexual compatibility" is super important. I think it could because you are pro-active about it. You're taking your partner's needs into consideration. I've had partners before who were just "I dont want it so we are not having it and that is that" during a dip. Still though, my fear would be there'll be someone out there who could …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:25 AM
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You dont search for breasts on a fucking hardcore porn site. You just know theyre gonna be there. It'd be like going onto PornHub and searching for "sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 09:06 PM
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Having kinks and shouting them from the rooftops is the trendy thing at the moment. Keeping up with the Jones'. Like i say I've reeled it in, and Im going to make it a rule in the future to not even bring them up until after a few months of good meat'n'potatoes fucking has gone on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 05:46 PM
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It might be hypocritical in a sense but do you judge them less because of it? How you frame it reminds me of the cliche that it is usually the powerful CEOs who want to be slaves to women in their free time. Or how the dirtiest girls when we were teens were always the posh ones who went to the religious all-girls school. The story goes that CEOs and Politicians want to break out of their public face and their inflated ego for a while. Feminists too might enjoy being degraded as a counter to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 05:41 PM
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I don't think we should judge people politically based on what they role-play as. Right, we shouldnt. Cos it's their business. It's inevitable if they insist on putting it out there though so they'll have to ride with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 03:17 PM
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Seriously though I think role playing is just role playing. So you think the roles you play have no bearing on your overall psychological profile? I struggle to believe people genuinely think this. Even some men like to be dominated sexually (hence dominatrices exist) but that doesn't mean they want to be subjugated irl. It doesnt mean that they want to be subjugated in real life no, but it could and probably does mean something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 03:08 PM
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What is kinda interesting is that so many people dismiss it as a bit of fun. Does it have any bearing on your psychology? For example, what would you think of a guy who likes watching women being humiliated? Like pissed on, kept as pets, used as ashtrays, violently raped? Would you accept he just uses porn for a bit of fantasy? There's probably something going on with it, so it doesnt strike me as totally unfair to question it. What happens though is people make a judgement on it without being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 02:37 PM
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That you should be allowed to tell someone if they watch nonsense porn. It's up to them to brush it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 01:31 PM
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Yeah you'll have a bruised ego and youll carry that bruise forward, like a real soldier.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 01:19 PM
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Im gonna disagree with you here. If you are old enough, big enough and secure enough to put your private business out there, you should be able to take some more flippant opinions without getting upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 01:11 PM
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Go to a Dominatrix if youve got the cash. They cater to your fantasies so it's like real life porn. It scratched an itch for me, and I came out of the session feeling high as a kite. Real life women often wont share your fantasy specifically so it isnt worth the effort to hunt them out and try and get them to delve into your depraved little mind. Ive been to a few, and slid right back into my normal sex life reasonably easily. To answer your question, Ive cut back on porn and try not to masturba…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 01:07 PM
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I was kind of mad, told her how she could move on that quick, when I didn’t even do that because I felt it was wrong. She probably hasnt 'moved on' that quick. When you break up the tendency is to see it almost competitively. Who is doing better now? Was I good enough in the first place? The thing is it doesnt matter. It isnt a competition. The thing that hurts the most is the bruises to your ego. But again, that doesnt matter much to anyone except for yourself. People get fucked over like this …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 08:39 AM
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She ended up digging up some conversations I had with an ex where I talked like a pathetic faggot (because I was a young teen) and got extremely sad and angry (both emotions, at different times). She was going through your social media then? Never let them do this. It cant end well, and it is extremely disrespectful. Overall Id say youre too young. Most of the shit you read about here is coming from people who have been through the ringer several times. And she was even younger! This is the prob…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:25 AM
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That they "know what they want" sounds like the most faint and vague praise ever - borderline meaningless, really. Yeah that is pretty throwaway. I guess it means with guys they know what they like and they dont like. So it's throwaway and also it's bullshit. Women over 30 will say they know what they want, then a few months later guess what? That has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 12:35 PM
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I think that most people generally improve their social skills somewhat as they age. They just get used to talking to a broader range of people about a broader range of topics. Girls I remember from their early 20s were still gossipy, talked about what they specifically did and what their friends did. Its easier because the dating market outright flips in favor of men when one enters 30's. If I could have the same brain as I have now but travel back to me when I was 24, I think Id do much better…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 11:48 AM
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Right, Id agree with that being a pain in the ass. Might come back to the attitude and the abundance mentality you need to acquire? I remember in the more successful parts of my 20s that I got hook-ups mainly from the virtue of being in the right place at the right time - in clubs that they happened to show up in. Or we were both going out with our friends and we planned a later place to meet-up. Dates didnt really work. They work in your 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 09:03 AM
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Right. So in my case, ulterior motives would be getting her into bed without any intention of dating her after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 08:58 AM
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I'd say it's unlikely that these women have found out how to do away with ulterior motives altogether. In reality, probably not whatsoever. Women in their 30s will do exactly that. But they can go from casual to commited very very quickly. My counter-ulterior could be that saying you are commited doesnt mean shit until you live together. 30+ women will usually have this somewhere in mind. They are at least looking for someone more stable and fatherly. Ive met a lot of women in their 30s who have…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 08:51 AM
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There's another thing that might factor in, that might have been missed. In my case, I was in an LTR for about 5 years before my most recent bout of dating. This was my late 20s/early 30s time, so I missed out on dating during that era. When I got back into, it was the difference as is being talked about. I think though that this time living with a woman might have prepped me quite well for dating afterwards. Thinking about it, living with a woman gives you a lot of insight. What kind of stuff t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 06:45 AM
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Did the really lose those ulterior motives, or did they just get better at not blaring them from the rooftops? I dont even know what he means by 'ulterior motives' there. Im not sure he could define it if we asked him. What is dating with ulterior motives? Looking for a free meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 06:10 AM
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I think a lot of people have a peachy ideal, and they have to realise what goes on in reality. For example, ten years ago my idea of a perfect relationship was spending all of our time together in a lovey-bubble. Then I moved in with a girl, and realised that every second spent together was unhealthy. But we want our dream to come true, and people tell us we can have our dreams come true, so we cling onto that. Eventually, reality dawns and you see female nature in all its wretched glory, and fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 06:07 AM
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But I've been really surprised by how many amazing women I've met in their late 20s to early/mid 30s, who have never married or had kids This is a bit 'Women are Wonderful', but I think that it is definitely true that women improve their social skills as they get older. Sounds obvious, but often overlooked. It's not universally true though, just like Im sure it isnt for guys. You've lived three decades on the planet and have faced (and overcome) some adversity. That makes you stronger. You've pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:50 AM
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What this doesn't show is how a man can look to go for women significantly younger than him at that point, although such a view might not be kosher on askmen A few of them mention that they can now get girls from age 23 and up, if you fancy trawling through all the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:29 AM
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I wouldnt say she settled cos she was young. She still is. But all Im saying is living with someone who is doing that under your nose is about as nasty as it gets. When one is settling for another things usually get too bitter to keep the relationship. The best thing is to escape even if she hasn't cheat on you yet. If theyre settling then they probably have some notion of 'making it work'. Some people cheat for years without getting found out. They tell themselves they still want to make it wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:28 AM
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They probably overrate themselves as well, and are quite possibly hamstering away their dwindling options. You might not like the red pill, but there is something in the idea that women peak early on with regards to their options. If you are talking women hitting their late 30s, 'I settled' could well mean 'it was the best I could actually do, given my circumstances'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:24 AM
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Yes, Im sorry. I just have a very high opinion of myself right now and felt the need to express it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:22 AM
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The least of your worries? I lived with someone who wound up cheating on me and it was just about the worst time of my life, and as bitter as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:19 AM
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So you mean you think it could actually be genetic and not adaptive like you initially said?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:05 AM
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The same goes for the opposite though no? If you tell yourself "everyone is a unique individual, no 2 women are the same", then youll see it through that lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:01 AM
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But would you feel offended if you found out your partner had settled for you? Or would you accept it and maybe even feel the same way towards them? Offended?Id probably cut and run. If she realises she settled, it doesnt bode well for the future. Women have poor judgement sometimes, the ones who 'settle' are looking at things short term. She is likely to get a second wind after a few years, then what is stop her cheating or going looking for someone who she doesnt feel like she settled on? She …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 11:51 PM
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What the fuck is a TERF?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 11:22 PM
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virtue signalling Im awesome, look at me did I tell you about how unique I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 11:15 PM
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I guess it feels dehumanising/objecting. Like discovering you're a machine that simply requires the correct sequence of buttons pushed to get desired result. I guess it does. But then again it works, and you wont stop guys discussing it. So it's hard cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 11:14 PM
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It's a triumph!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 12:57 AM
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That's an entertaining thread though!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 12:29 AM
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I think men are more self interested than women and make decisions first and just hope their SOs are on board. Compare this to women where before making a decision, they consider how the decision could affect their loved ones. If you're talking about a guy with a family then no. He'd have to figure out his sales pitch to his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 04:11 PM
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It's not really a great tragedy. It's something we (should) learn to get control of early on, in our teens or early adult years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 02:54 PM
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Of course it is learnable. Everyone had to learn how to get women into bed, and what comes after that etc. Most people will discuss it and learn from it that way. What people reaaaaaallly dislike is when it is made explicit. They want it to stay a mystery cos in turn it makes them feel mysterious and attractive. To be honest, I can see why women dont like it. I couldnt imagine waking up in bed with a girl and discussing the steps it took to get her into bed. She could feel conned over it. It's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 02:46 PM
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Well you could say it is nature vs nurture. Of course it is adaptive to the environment. I'd say that by our base nature, most guys would choose to have sex with lots and lots of women. But that side is repressed by society cos it causes chaos. So I'd say if we are going on animal nature alone then the post is correct. But why should that nature always win out anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 02:35 PM
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Yeah, youd think he might have remembered from when he was a child that she was like 10 years older than him. It's a bit harder to hide when you're a kid.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:50 AM
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Start off with physical therapy probably. After that, maybe some kind of martial arts class? Youd have to be quite careful with your injury list (eg - probably wouldnt be a great idea to do a BJJ class with that back) but mine has people with all sorts of physical ailments in it. Yoga as well would be good. Maybe forget about getting ripped for now? If you can find a suitable MA class then youll still be strong.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:27 AM
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To my mind it would be better to be somewhat right and be able to back yourself up rather than be flakily left. Or vice-versa. If you can only come out with cliches and official safe views that parrot everyone else, then people are going to see through that. If you go full-blown either way, then you will have to accept that you will have people unimpressed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 08:14 AM
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Well extreme communism and fascism are not that different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 07:18 AM
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How do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 06:38 AM
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Wasnt there something like this for the anti-Trump protests when he won the election? I remember there were reports of tweets saying "Every guy who stands with us tonight is getting laid". This in turn reminds me of 'choreplay', the idea that guys who do the housework get laid more. Furthermore, we see it on this forum often as a tactic to try and put people off TRP. Time after time, the female users here suggest that Red Pill guys dont get laid, are low value sexually and etc. With the implicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 04:31 AM
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Id try and raise awareness of there being life beyond the internet. Billboards and PSA movies. Id organise a No-SNS day, and arrange meet-ups in parks to celebrate with games to get to know each other. We could subsidise bars later on for folks to get to know each other in the locality. Id then consider the idea of having a follow-on 'No Hooking-Up Day'. A day where you all go out to socialise without the idea of fucking each other. This would be flanked with billboards aimed at getting people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 04:28 AM
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It's too context-dependent to give a straight answer. My ex suggested it after a few years of being together, and I kind of realised right then that the writing was on the wall. She wound up just cheating. So she was asking for sanctified cheating I guess. For my part, I do think I would have been able to find girls to sleep with but I was more interested in having the relationship. For me, it falls down as an idea because there just isnt that much time for more than one woman. A guy would be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 04:10 AM
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I'd say that is a wee bit different then. If I met a girl who was a virgin and wanted to wait a while then I would probably be understanding of that. The friendzone devastation is when you realise she is out getting up to all sorts with guys whilst you are just a friend. This usually means you get all the emotional dumping with none of the sex, which is humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 05:05 PM
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Were you sleeping with other dudes while he was in the friendzone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:53 PM
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It is the height of cruelty and meanness to marry a man promising a sex life and holding yourself out as the only woman he is allowed to fuck; then refusing to fuck him despite your being able to do so but merely unwilling to do so. Ive been in a position something like this and it was very bad. She would say shit like "you didnt clean up today so you arent getting any sex" or "if you bought me dinner more often maybe youd get more action." This was a bit of a hammer blow to my self-esteem at fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:15 PM
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M 35 red Id put it in with love and belonging. Id say for me, Im not feeling entirely loved and like I belong without sex and it is strongly connected to my quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:03 PM
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Oh but you're not allowed to say this. You're not allowed to talk about "being lied to". If you do, you're a loser piece of shit that should have figured it all out on your own. Just ask most of the women here. Precisely. I can understand that people say they dislike TRP because of the volatile language going on, but there is more to it than that. Discussion of women and their nature is banned. We see everyday that we are called losers, misogynists, whatever else for daring to question the shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:45 PM
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None of this necesarrily makes you a bad person. Life is layers and layers of gray areas. If I lie to help someone, is that bad? If I break a barrier to do good, is it bad? You say yourself that it is good that most people are selfish, so then what do you mean by 'not a good person' in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:44 PM
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I class it as a need, but you can release from jerking off no? So there is no real problem there for me. Isnt 'witholding sex' from your spouse reasonable grounds for divorce, even classified as abuse? I always outright say, very early on with a new girl, that I need to be getting my sexual needs met by them. If they are not going to do that, I will leave them. So, the need to ejaculate is a real need, but you can do that yourself perfect adequately. edit: Do you have another theory as to the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:40 PM
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But really, I don't hold anyone to ransom for not feeling sorry for me being in pain 2 days every month. Yeah, no one ever inflates that into an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:36 PM
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You probably just have low testosterone levels. Have you ever thought about getting tested for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:35 PM
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Yeah I have. It isnt the end of the world if you realise what is going on and cut it loose. What fucks me off is when women try and friendzone you when you arent even attracted to them. This has happened quite a few times, I was just trying to be friendly and then they come out with some shit like "I like you as a friend", with the impication that they arent attracted to me. This is when I wasnt even attracted to them either. If you go and broach that then and say "it's ok I dont think youre all…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:51 PM
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Yeah pretty much. It's this whole thing where you are not allowed to tell women what they find attractive, but it's perfectly fine to tell men that they have to love fat women. If you state your preferences as a woman, that's fine. If you say, as a man, you dont want a fat girlfriend then you are to be held accountable and possibly be accused of all sorts of misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:30 PM
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You dont want a weak woman either. She will be flaky and unpredictable, prone to lying and cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 11:30 AM
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Well not really. You can always change. You are talking about the people who naturally just get it. Some people are not naturals at this stuff Shit can be learnt. The first step is acknowledging what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 10:21 PM
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probably cos it goes on a sliding scale. you can only fuck what is available to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 09:49 PM
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Well it doesnt work like that. The average girls can only play it up so much. Like I said, in Asia theyre all slim, so even a douchebag will end up with a fuckable woman. The average to low value man can get laid if he wants though, he just doesnt know how. So the anger towards fat women isnt really good form if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 09:42 PM
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It's not about fair is it? I dunno. I don't really hate anyone I'm just trying to answer the question.if shit was fair I certainly wouldn't have done all the shit I've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 08:56 AM
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Well girls are girls. Most people don't examine this shit in detail do they? Hence the need for the red pill. They get angry at fat girls cos they don't understand what's going on. People who know won't get angry, they'll just work on what they can do. That's why I'm red.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 08:24 AM
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Alright . Well again I'll talk about Asia but you need to ignore the cultural nuance. All the girls are feminine and cute. Most of the guys are not very masculine and etc. So what do you think happens? Even the worse off guys end up with doable wives, and they enjoy that. So if all the American girls were slim and cute, they'd eventually HAVE TO start getting with the ugly guys. And this goes on a sliding scale
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:56 AM
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But if they were like that as standard, he'd have a better chance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:52 AM
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Nevermind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:48 AM
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Well perhaps, but then that means fat women have a higher SMV than fat guys? Just because some guy likes her why does that matter to you? Then if I were a fat guy, I couldnt even sleep with fat women. So literally no one wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:44 AM
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As I mention below, I live in Asia and there are very few fatties around. This makes dating quite a bit better in some ways, as you know that most young women will be passably attractive. So the average guy is sleeping with girls he is actually attracted to, instead of settling for less? If guys werent so thirsty, then this could perhaps be remedied. Also, we should take into account the state of the guys themselves. Im not even really saying all the hate is appropriate, and Im sure most of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:39 AM
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Well if the average girls doesnt want him, he has to shoot lower. So if there were more average girls (and not big fattyboombatties) then the actual attractiveness quality would be higher. So Mr Average Skinny Fatty would be able to have sex with hotter women. On the other hand, Ms Average McPudgy can realistically punch above her weight? But Im not going to argue that it isnt hypocritical cos it probably is. This shit usually is. How about if I boil it down more simply. Less fat women = more at…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:33 AM
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Cos the average girl doesnt want him, she wants someone more attractive. Especially if he just wants some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:24 AM
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I kind of answered this in a comment below. I think it's the average guy who loses out then, as if he wants to date down in the SMP then he might have to go for something repulsive, instead of something that is just not that hot. The girls probably dislike it as well, but they are less likely to have sex out of thirst with someone lower in the SMP. Instead, they'll just wait. The complaint then perhaps comes from the idea that if these women were all slim, they'd have larger pickings and in turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:20 AM
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Well I live in Asia where most girls are slim, and the overall quality looks-wise is higher. The result is that you end up sleeping with hotter girls. However What is it about fat girls that is so disruptive to an SMP populated by fat guys? If the SMP is also populated by fat guys, then it's probably just acting out their frustrations. It's unlikely that were a fat girl to slim down that she would start dating bottom-of-the-barrel guys. That is the classic beta move - "Ill wife up this fatty cos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:11 AM
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I guess if they werent fat then then the female SMP would be higher quality. The more attractive girls there are the lower their overall value gets, the higher the average guy's SMP goes. As it is, if there is a glut of fat girls out there then the average attractiveness is dragged down. So a skinny-but-not facially gifted girl gets a bump of a few points, which can put her beyond her true male equivalent (she can command a more attractive guy due to the market).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:52 AM
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When you consider the things men are judged based on Such as weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:51 AM
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I agree to be honest. Ive said on here before more than once that I've benefitted well from the acceptance of casual sex. The alternative would have been to settle down early, which would have changed my whole life. What's more, I could be single for the next 10 years and know that sex is never far away if I want it. But Id say the primary beneficiaries are the women who want to employ the AFBB strategy. They get to have a ton of fun when they are young and then can settle down with a good husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 02:20 AM
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I believe it exists but the link you posted only annoys me. To start with, it is "Why is it only women that see sexism everywhere?" which starts off accusing me of not noticing sexism. Then, her male boss was the one who noticed his behaviour and sorted it out. I believe it exists and dont support it, but this kind of tumblr-feminism hogwash only gets on my nerves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 02:08 AM
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It's already been said, but that finding someone will turn your life on its head and make you happy. This was my own major downfall earlier in life and I fell for it a few times. On both occasions it was a band aid and the core of what was wrong I was either fixing independently anyway or it was getting worse. This delusion is particularly bad cos when it doesnt play out, people tend to blame their unicorn/partner. Relationships can be hard work, single life is much simpler in lots of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 01:55 AM
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They are both sides of the same coin in that the people involved are rinterpretting the same reality. Neither is a religion that must be followed, and Blue Pill is pretty much just people who dislike the Red Pill sub for the amount of hatred they see on it. Id say neither is really a movement, or even particularly tangible. Most blue people on here admit that a lot of red advice is good advice. They just have an issue with the pull-no-punches delivery of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 01:34 AM
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If they're single then they might be getting some casual cock. This is usually about right. They might not be getting railed every night but the possibility is there and has perhaps been taken once or twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:20 PM
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Yeah ok then. I'd say that before the internet, from what I can remember , the easiest way to meet someone was through a friend. That didn't have to be a female friend, but just someone who could make the introduction. It does still work now. I like trying to hook up my friends with my gfs friends cos it's fun, and it means we can all go out together. I guess then to expand your point, if you're single and don't have a social circle , then you better be handy on the Tinder or you might have a ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:09 PM
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I'm not really into this tactic. You have to put the time in and genuinely like hanging out with them. Also you come off as a bit of a creepy orbiter if you do as you have said. "Make friends with them in case they have some trauma with the boyfriend." It's worked out a few times for me though so not to be discounted. But I'd still rather prefer to get my own thing going. Another good option is to make it known you're looking to your male friends and associates. I've had 2 approaches from guys i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 03:35 PM
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I'm quite polite until I get to know someone then I'm quite bolshy and make fun of them. I usually get it back as much as I give it though. Most women think I'm adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 12:42 PM
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It's probably the same as any addictive thing. If you overindulge it's bad for you. If you can use it moderately it's probably going to be good fun. I've never had a problem separating it from real life. Porn is a different thing to sex to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 03:50 PM
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Meh Rich women have it much easier than poor men and women. Rich men have it much easier than poor men and women. That's the point that gets overlooked too much I'd rather be a rich woman than a poor man. I'd rather be a rich man than a poor woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 03:43 PM
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You're a great example of why 30 something guys get more casual sex than 20 something guys. Do you think these girls are thinking "Oh what a nice guy he is! He doesn't want to have sex with us even when we want to."? When you get older you'll realise all the chances you didn't take cos your head was up your ass. Women want to have sex, they want to be charmed and they enjoy those manipulation games on some level. Casual sex is like a game, it's fun. Don't waste your prime years by being self-rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:13 AM
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My thoughts are, stop being so pretentious and go out and meet some women who just want sex or a casual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 03:56 AM
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I'm not saying that younger women find older men attractive suddenly , just that older men would prefer to bone younger women cos they are hotter. Op asked what reduced SMV is. Well it is that younger women are hotter, as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 12:42 AM
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It depends on what you're sharing. If it's a real adult concern, like something at work or a health scare then you're better off getting it off your chest . If they use that against you then good, they can get lost. For example, I've had a low kinda burn-out lately. Some kind of depression I think. I'm better off telling my gf about that than having to put on a happy face. If it's complaining about some childish shit like my boss made me stay half an hour late, she is gonna think you're a bitch.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:58 PM
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Women between 35 - 45 still have SMV. Don't worry about that. I'm 35, anything above 42 just feels a bit silly though. My limit for a relationship is about 38, and I do wanna have kids sometime in a few years so I'll have to lower my range at some point I guess. Edit: forgot to say, I'd much rather bone someone younger . No doubt about that. That's what it means , and it isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:50 PM
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It's not a religion, just take the stuff you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:30 AM
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That is one huge long caveat to try to fix a single line of bad advice. If that much explanation is necessary, then that kind of proves that the original advice is bad. Good advice doesn't need an 8-paragraph explanation. It is rather a lot of hamstering just to try and bait red pill readers. Someone has some free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:10 AM
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WTF!! Nothing wrong with Alfred! Robin was the one you wanted to avoid being.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:09 AM
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This is red pill advice. Improve yourself to the point youre content and then improve yourself some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:01 AM
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The articles are relating it to unhappiness. I guess that the pressure to succeed has always been there for men, and this results in a certain amount of self-obsession that in turn results in unhappiness. But women now have that same or similar pressure on them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:48 AM
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Yes, focus on you, make your life about you, get to know the real you, figure out what you want and do it for you, then you will know who you are. Without you, you are nothing, so be kind to you. Learn to love you for you, then other people will love you. You are special and unique, in your own special and unique way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:43 AM
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I dont see it as a widespread problem but it's something I damn sure have to be aware of. It's one of those things that you need to be vigilant about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:23 AM
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Because you see a lot of people posting who have low-confidence and are probably depressed on some level. I've been there. Once you break out of that then you start to raise your expectations. Or rather, realise what they actually are. It's not hard to understand, if you have choice then you go for the better option. If you dont have much choice then you take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:17 AM
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In terms of men vs women, it may be that children who are encouraged to play competitive sports from a young age and those who pursue activities that result in frequent public failure develop better coping skills and strategies that they can apply to other areas of their lives. The articles say that guys are more narcissistic in general than women, but the women are catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 03:22 PM
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I think it's entirely possible that getting women into the workforce was done for much more cynical reasons than to give them more freedom, it was done to swamp the job market and lower conditions for people all around (which it has). In the meantime, it seems that women are often sold the working dream to be a lot more glamorous than it is. They are told they are talented and unique, only to find that when they get into the snakepits of work that they are neither. And they will have to suck it …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 03:20 PM
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Im not sure of the context cos I dont read that forum. It works well for single guys though as you start to measure what you say more. I guess in that sense, why wouldnt it work for married women? Sometimes they nag and complain out of habit, some of them think that that is a big part of being a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 05:39 AM
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I've spent time in Turkey and all the above symptoms are exceptions vs. the rule. The same can be said in many other places I've been. There's a reason a lot of guys look for women out in places like Poland, Central Europe, even Russia and Ukraine, not to mention all across Asia, South America, etc. It's really easy by comparison in any of these countries (and many other countries) for a normal guy who's social and a decent person to have dates and bring women into his life. This is probably tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:54 AM
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I dont think that older men are getting it on a lot with younger women either. But that isnt what I see as being meant by all of this. Others have said as much here I guess, but being single in your 30s you wind up with more options. A lot of guys have a hard time in their 20s, regardless of how they look. They dont have a lot of money and they often dont have their heads together. They struggle. I see this plenty, young guys look quite good but they cant keep it together well in a social situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 01:11 PM
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If you are real red pill, you dont judge that to be bad. It's just the way it is. You realise it and accept it and work with it. It isnt that bad really. I dont think it's bad at all, I just think that it's reality. I couldnt give a fuck morally if women do that, Im not gonna be the moral judge, but I just need to know that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 03:00 AM
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I probably did but I used to and still do jerk off about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:45 AM
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No, I lied and said I was 18
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:42 AM
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I lied about my age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:36 AM
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I was pilled up and in a nightclub. I started going out when I was 14 cos I looked older. Older women have always loved me. I can always get sex off them. We just met in a club and I was hammered, and she took me home. We had sex listening to the second Chemical Brothers album, then got drunk and had sex again the next day. It was good shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:33 AM
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There's no unfair in it though, the game is the game. You have to make your decisions. Arbitrary decisions abound, that is exactly what I said in my original post. Ive been ghosted before for more trivial shit than that. Like I said, when Im single Im not generally loking for a relationship, it just comes along. Im looking to have fun. What usually happens is I meet a girl and we hang out a bit, then I like spending time with her more than the others Im seeing so I spend more time with her. So i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:30 AM
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That's ok but it doesnt make any difference to me really. I dont rate women who have sex soon as sluts or anything, just think it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:17 AM
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That's exactly what I am saying yes. Most people just go out and have fun until someone comes along that works well for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:06 AM
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I would break up with you because Id think you werent interested in me. Unless you show it in some way. Id think you just wanted to be my friend. Sex shows that youre interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:05 AM
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about 15, I slept with a 32 year old woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 11:16 PM
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In my experience most people set out casually, then fall into something. Or else they start dating someone they already know somehow and then it gets serious. I see lots of people who set out looking for someone to LTR having all kinds of trouble. They work out a long list of criteria, are too quick to reject perfectly fine people, they convince themseves they know what they want when they dont. It makes much more sense to me to get your life up and running and then find someone who can slot nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 08:30 AM
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This is all because of Tinder and co. Guys hit on anyone on dating apps, so it looks like women don't need to make any effort. It looks like guys don't have any standards at all. It's not really reality. Even at the peak of my usage I could only manage a few dates in a week and the reality is that you will need at least 2 dates before you start having sex. Often you don't have the energy to arrange a second. Once you get into the swing of dating lots of people you realise some are just not worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 07:50 AM
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Without sex that's just being friends. If there is some real reason why it slows down then that might be alright but I make it clear from the get go that my girl has sex with me. I don't need more friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 04:00 AM
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Perhaps. I dunno though I think she was pretty out there. In retrospect I should've just dumped her at the first sign. She wasnt normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 09:21 AM
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Yeah that was a particular surprise. I think she realised I had gone past giving her the credit of the doubt (which there shouldn't have been anyway. I was fucking stupid back then) and saw that the situation was going from bad to a real serious situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 09:21 AM
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There are numerous advantages to casual sex. You have way more freedom than in an LTR. In an LTR you are obliged to spend what? At least 1 night a week together plus time at the weekend. And that is probably a conservative estimate. If you are very busy then this can be stressful. You are obliged to make other plans as well. Trips away to keep things fresh, trips abroad if the chance comes up. Other things you wanna do are forgotten. None of this with a casual lover. Things get booked in advance…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 08:33 AM
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We had a similar thing to this last week no? But I find it cathartic cos I cant talk about it to people in real life. The once I tried I had it turned on me like I was the abuser so since then Ive kept quiet. If your own, what was that like at first? Exciting. I was a few years out of uni and in my biggest dry spell. So it was kind of a big deal from the off. It coincided with me moving to a new place and changing nearly everything so I was particularly pleased with how everything in my life had…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 05:07 PM
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For me, if theyre noticeably more highly educated or have very good social skills I feel they are out of my reach. I can hang with these girls if I am on form but I can never keep it up for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 11:16 PM
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Exactly. But people arent really allowed to talk about it openly so it isnt something that comes up. That a man might leave his wife for a hotter, younger prospect is news to no one. That a woman might leave her husband for a richer, higher class guy is a bit of a taboo. In my experience at least. It's ok, I dont see much wrong with it all now. It's just human nature. It's always wise to be weary. And to know that women *can" be hypergamous. Yes it is, and therefore it's a useful discussion to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:31 PM
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That happened to a family member of mine so I hear that. I guess that could be interpreted as your male hypergamy. And we see women get just as insecure as men do about that kind of thing. Again you can call me a hypocrite if you like but realising that a man would run off with a younger woman doesnt mean as much to me as realising the hypergamy of women. Before I really thought about it, I knew that a lot of women were like that but I also thought there was an equal amount who would settle and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:48 PM
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And, this is why people are bothered by hypergamy. If it were just 'women are programmed to look for the best guy' then who would care about that? The thing is that a lot of guys believe their woman when she says she is loyal, only for her to leave them in the dirt when someone of higher value comes along. So whereas most guys would cheat on their partner given the woman was hot enough, they probably wouldnt look to settle down with her. Women are programmed to jump at the best opportunity, rega…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 02:33 PM
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Probably a bit of paranoia after the weekend yeah. There's some truth in it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 01:16 PM
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There is probably some similar thing to it yeah. I was thinking how much it sucks that if someone hotter than me popped up for some reason and the chance was there, my gf would cheat. Then I realised that I'd do the same if it was on a plate in front of me. I'm a hypocrite but I think it's useful to remember that I'm not the hottest guy out there and women will go for hotter than me if it comes along. Keeps reality in check. Maybe the difference is men would fuck anyone hotter than their gf if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 01:09 PM
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Probably get rid of internet dating. Get all the sad saps who are despairing about it out and about, they could find themselves hobbies and a purpose beyond moaning about sex. Get the girls back out into the wild where they make their judgements on the person in front of them rather than the profile picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 09:14 AM
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Ok then. It does sound a bit freer and you never know, you might find quite a few guys actually come out of it a bit better off when you consider a lot of them fuck up on getting laid cos of societal conditioning. Removing the freedom restrictions would make the need for social approval less pertinent, also women would react more to what they really like rather than building their desire around what gets them approval in a wider sense. Obviously it's not gonna happen because as you've not addres…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 08:05 AM
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Well would it be true sexual freedom? Would men be allowed to rape who they wanted to? Incest is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 07:31 AM
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So the guys don't need to look after the babies if they don't want to? There would be a hierarchy of some sort, how would that be? Who would be in charge? I guess it sounds like eugenics cos you have to consider the disadvantaged people. People of a less popular race for example. You'd be breeding them out too. Disabled people wouldn't stand a chance to the point where they might as well be culled. What about beta men who are particularly useful in some way but are unattractive? Like say a very …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:57 AM
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But that wouldn't last long would it? You'd be breeding out the betas no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 12:24 AM
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I'll just reiterate what seems to have already been said. If she doesnt want to get down and dirty with you, she doesnt have that impulse towards you. Without that impulse, you run a very real risk of the sex drying up completely. Somewhere down the line you could be looking at a totally dead bedroom. Then youre beta bux and getting rinsed out for your resources. So it's a big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 11:50 PM
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Do you agree that this would most likely result to women reproducing only with certain, top-tier men? Probably the kids would be better-looking but the top-tier men in the sexual world arent necessarily the ones who push society forward. You couldn't trust women to accurately choose the guys who would build a thriving society. And women dont know how to raise masculine boys. They'd get raped, pillaged and wiped out by the ugly barbarians from over the hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 11:34 PM
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I started reading red pill primarily cos I didnt have a fucking clue what I was doing when I started dating after a long time of being in relationships. I'd say the generalizations made are often true, but that a lot of people have nuances that you need to be able to read when they show themselves. I've said it before, using generalizations and paradigms helps aid our understanding in most cases. Ideas that are modelled into theories and so on. Think back to anytime you studied something and I b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 03:04 PM
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I'm sure that happens yeah but wouldn't you say that those women have problems? I wouldn't want anything to do with a woman who is looking for an insecure partner. Sounds a bit manipulative. "I'm a guy who looks for insecure women because I don't feel confident in myself". That certainly sounds like a recipe for disaster. So you can keep your women who are insecure and looking for unconfident people. There's no future with them. Imagine having kids with someone like that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 11:28 AM
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There's a difference between being confident and being full of yourself though. I find aggressively confident people intimidating sometimes, but know plenty of people who are low key with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 10:15 AM
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Yeah it's obvious really isn't it? So many times I've been out with low value dudes who can pick up just cos the women don't want to be left on their own while their friend gets taken back for a rooting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 08:23 AM
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Right. But women are out for themselves, they aren't the keepers of morality. Nor should they be. Too many people credit women with having some superior idea of what's fair and just. They don't deserve such a place nor do they even want it. As far as I'm concerned , if you get friendzoned you deserve whatever you get. Same goes for if you get fuckzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 08:21 AM
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Should threatening to end a relationship if sex isn't given be illegal? No, sex is important in a relationship. And we need freedom to end it as and when we please no? By this measure, ending a relationship cos the sex was bad should also be illegal. Both men and women can and will end a relationship cos of lack of sex. The idea that you could be prosecuted for saying you want to end the relationship because of a lack of sex is ridiculous. Should lying about your penis size to obtain consent be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 07:40 AM
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The point was that average/less attractive white women often find themselves in a problematic postion when dating out here. You tried to excuse this away with saying that Japanese people dont want to have sex, I can tell you that sex is very easy to find there if you want it. Attractive white women have no problem finding it. Sorry if I hit a nerve somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 07:29 AM
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The time doesn't matter as much as his attitude. I've dated guys who lost jobs before and they spiral into a dark place fast. If my SO lost his job but was able to maintain a positive attitude (it's just around the corner!) it would last a lot longer than if he slept in all day and missed interviews. Good hamstering. "It wasnt that he lost his job, it was his attitude."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 07:24 AM
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Lol. I cant believe youre here trying to argue this with someone who lived there for 2 years and had sex with more people than I can remember. You really dont have a clue. But keep arguing, it's amusing. Japanese people are fine with sex, but they dont talk about it much. They keep it private. Americans like to hang their whole self worth on it, and focus their whole identity on it. In Japan, it's more like a hobby or pastime. It comes secondary to your work and family, but if you want it you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 07:18 AM
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Cos Liberal has become equivalent to being a pussy I guess, on the internet at least. In turn this is because it has been hijacked by feminists and other such undesirables. There are plenty of liberals who arent pussies, and plenty who are more right who crumble when they get away from their keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 07:13 AM
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Japan has arguably the worst dating market in the civilized world. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 07:08 AM
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Not getting laid translates to they couldnt find a relationship and werent hopeful about it. No future out here. Granted, quite a lot of them arent attracted to Asian guys that much. The high quality Asian guys are already hooked up with smoking Asian girls. The white guys dont want to come out here to hook up with white girls. And even the ugly white guys can hook up with someone. Leaving slim pickings for the white girls. Im not hating on them, Ive got some good friends here who come from back…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 07:04 AM
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Now I think youre just trolling. I lived in Japan and there is plenty of sex going on. I nearly doubled my n count there in 2 years. But if you only want to believe the racist stuff the media publishes go ahead, but you wont learn much. Also, the second article is by an expat in Korea, but maybe they're the same to you? No need to decipher the differences nor listen to what people have to say, you carry on in your little bubble. No worries :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:54 AM
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http://www.vagabondish.com/female-foreign-japan/ http://www.pusanweb.com/Exit/Jan98/dating.htm Here's a few links for you. I'm not pimping a revenge fantasy, it's very real. About 80% of the expats here are guys, the girls all get sick of it and go home. That youve only known 3 shows you dont know what youre talking about, I've lived out here for more than 10 years and Ive known hundreds. Some white women get married here, and more power to them. Plenty of others go dateless for a year then go h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:46 AM
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Reading this sub the counters to red pill stuff is quite often "it wont work in getting yourself a wife". Ive had enough of long term relationships personally, which is one thing that attracts to the red side. The odds of being happy in one are low as far as I can see. I think that if you look at it from my point of view, that I dont want a long term relationship yet, for a few years, maybe you could find it in yourself to fuck off and leave me alone? Why is it your business if I want an LTR or …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:38 AM
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I guess the point is you have to start somewhere. You cant just think "oh, I need to do this to be confident" and then go and do it and be confident. You need to experiement. And if we are looking to be holistic you have to experiment in every area.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:33 AM
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Real red pill is that you build yourself to the point where you dont need tricks to work it. PUA stuff doesnt read well when it's laid out, but it works in reality. Touching and playing mind games does work. What people like you dont like is that men can work it out and tell each other about it, the big taboo is that female sexuality can be deciphered and manipulated. But it's fine for women to do it. You can call it panhandling, you can call it what you want, if it works it works. No amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:30 AM
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In Asia, the average white woman finds herself to be low value. Asian women look better than white about 90% of the time and obviously the white guys out here go in for that. What happens is the white women usually get angry for about a year, then go home in frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:28 AM
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Yeah that's right. You need lots of practice and building your thing. You can get a sort of abundance mentality from faking it but you will still get run through by a woman who is genuinely confident. Then you have to pick up the pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:16 AM
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Well that's a thing you can do to see if you are being friendzoned. Ask your female friend if she has anyone who might want to date you. If she makes fun or says a firm no, she probably thinks youre an orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:04 AM
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Faking it can get you through the gate. In job interviews, I could act the part and get the job even if I was vastly underqualified. Sometimes with dates you can do that, and you can get laid by acting the part. It's in the long run youll get found out. Women are very critical and like to pick men apart, so in that sense you cant fake it. Even if you are genuinely confident and happy with yourself, women will find flaws and try and bring you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 05:56 AM
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Being freinds with a woman and being friendzoned are totally different. You can be friends with a girl, just hang out and not try it on. If you do this, and they actually like you then quite often theyll try and hook you up with their freinds. This happens to me quite a bit, my female friends ask if Im interested in dating their friends or if I want to double date. It's when you try to sleep with her that you get friendzoned. Then they keep you at arms length and you get the creepy label, then t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 05:47 AM
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As I posted in the other similar thread, it's cos you quite often end up getting attacked by the guy and his girl. That, or you can end up on an assault charge. So for example, on public transportation, men will sexually harass women, and other men don't care to step in and stop this behavior. Like a guy jacking off in front of a woman, clearly using her as masturbation material, or even physically imposing and touching her, or perhaps stalker like behavior. This example you just made up. How of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 05:41 AM
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I dont think women of post-wall age are necessarily unhappy. They seem ok. I guess the key is if they can accept their new position in the dating market. If they cant they could well end up unhappy. Women over 40 are my go to if I need some sex quick and Im 35. It really is like I click my fingers and they start on me sometimes.They're nearly all grateful for the attention of someone younger, married or not. They dont have any shame left cos theyve seen it all before and nothing is shocking. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 05:24 AM
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You have different phases of during those decades so it depends on the person but in general, I'd say:- 18 - 22 - University time. Lots of chances for casual sex and general irresponsible fun which a lot of people are going to take advantage of. Not much chance of finding your wife here although some certainly do. At the least you could find some kind of serious relationship, but that is unlikely to last. 22 - 26 - Finding your feet time. Lots of folks move back home or away from their Uni town …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 02:11 AM
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I think it's probably smart to take such steps, however common it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 03:41 AM
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Right I get it. Well it's about standing up for yourself isn't it? I think it is getting more and more normal that people don't really know how to do it so then they don't end up looking good. I used to be much more of a soft touch, and had a period of surprising myself when i started standing my ground more. You can get away with so much and get much more respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 03:15 AM
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Like, for example, when youre tickling their stink and they ask you to unleash the dragon in the old town hall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 02:57 AM
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Just imagine the fun that they must have flirting, being beautiful, wearing beautiful dresses/heels/hairstyles, being joyous/effervescent/fun, getting men excited/turned-on/horny, getting men wrapped around their finger, getting men in the palm of their hand, and having endless on-demand as-much-as-you-want orgasmic sex with hot/cool/smart partners. It's different fun to how we guys have but we can have fun. Nothing like going out with your buddies and acting ridiculous all night before taking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 02:42 AM
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I moved in with someone when I moved abroad. Didnt vet her properly before moving in and she struggled with the new circumstances. After a few months started taking out her frustrations on me. She would keep me awake at night when I wanted to sleep but she couldnt. Im a Brit and she was American, and thought we were all meek Hugh Grant-types. Unfortunately, Im definitely not like that. Massive rows became the norm. Eventually she started becoming violent, in a low-level and petty way. Pulling my…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 02:37 AM
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From as far back as 5-6 yrs old, I noticed this. Dozens of family men at a fair sat by as as some alpha dude yelled and yanked his crying gf around. "Why doesn't anyone stop him?" He was clearly doing something wrong to even a 5 yr old. First off, what makes this dude an alpha? Second, this is a tricky one. It sounds like a big cop out, and it might well be, but have you ever intervened in something like this yourself? Back in the day I saw guys diving in to help women in this sort of public spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 01:38 AM
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Army positions? Police, fire etc? Other physical activities. Further to these, a lot of jobs these days are low-level service positions that men need to at least supplement. Educated women dont wanna do the donky work even if it's the donkey work in a nice office. Women enjoy beta men as well, on quite a few different levels. Husbands and fathers essentially need some beta qualities as being a pure alpha doesnt work well in a family. Betas add a lot of value to the family and society in general.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 12:05 AM
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Forgetting the pills, I basically just think I grew up. My idea of a relationship was unconditional love, like in a family. Realising that that didnt work was the most important turning point. Also, more pill related, realising that sacrificing all your free time for someone not only kills romance but also makes me unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 11:56 PM
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Cos you only think about sex. Betas already occupy plenty of high power positions and have a lot of influence on society in a wide variety of ways. They pay taxes and contribute to society. And that is before we get into the fact that most people combine alpha and beta traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 11:42 PM
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Yeah I have. From other guys trying to shoot me down as well as women. Stuff like "Yeah, he's into Asian girls." said because Ive lived in Asia and had a few Asian gfs. This has been an interesting one and an eye-opener. A few times Ive had it suggested Im some sort of perv for liking Asian women (and it's not an exclusive thing). Online it can get pretty harsh, with SJW types throwing out cliches such as "oh they cant get white girlfriends so they go for the submissive Asian types." All sorts o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 02:36 PM
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Im British, and it took me totally by surprise. Maybe it's how dense the population is and etc but it seems so much more prevalent. But I hear ya. There's just no point in even co-habiting with someone. Your life is so much more peaceful when you dont, and you still get all the good shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 02:19 PM
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How are the married women for cheating? I used to live in Japan and they are pretty bad for it there. My intial impression was the guys go to hookers etc quite a bit and the women get more into the mother role. As I got a bit deeper involved there time after time it was the women who would be cheating. My ex's colleagues all had boyfriends as well as husbands. Friends I knew had Japanese married female friends who had started having casual sex again after the kids were old enough. After I became…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 11:45 AM
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Personally, Im not sure. I was very much into watching movies, TV, playing video games and reading magazines when I was young (later on came porn) so they had a big influence on me but Im not sure how far it went. I never really had a plan for relationships when I was young just thought something would come along (like in the movies?). At High School, I had a crush on someone who lived near to me and I used to walk home with, we were big friends. I was crushing hard and got shot down (perhaps wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 11:15 AM
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Yes, of course. Dont we all? It's very interesting that you think it's a crucial part of learning how to socialise and I guess it is. Id say not to forget the crushing impact puberty has though, some people change totally when that comes around. Gaps in maturity start to open up pretty wide and this is perhaps the most crucial stage initially when it comes to being confident with women? If you have some bad experiences around this time, I think you could develop some problems. Thankfully for me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 10:59 AM
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I think they lower their standards because they've not yet found the perfect combination. otherwise they wouldn't need to look for anyone, they'd be sorted. I actually think it's well intentioned , they look for someone who will be a better long term partner . But the road to hell is filled with good intentions. To be fair, for those who it seemed settled, they probably hamstered it well enough that they thought they were doing the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 10:32 PM
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Nah. I like a bit of chaos. Think of the entertainment value at least. We arent Middle Easterners, we are supposed to experiment and express ourselves freely. What's with all the drama today? First, it's getting sex from women is the driving force behind society, now it's casual sex that is bringing down society. Today, women are choosing to have sex with anyone they find sexually attractive regardless of anything other than physical looks. So the men getting the women now have no ambition to pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:49 PM
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Im not too keen on seeing 'autistic' used as an insult (I wont say who it is usually directed at). I dont think this makes anyone look very clever. What also gets me down a bit lately (and Ive posted as much) is how obsessed everyone actually is with sex. People on all sides cant resist boasting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:41 PM
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So you mean, women's sensitivity in the nether regions means theyre having a more intense experience even without orgasm. But then in the edit you say that women have super-intense orgasms. What am I supposed to do with this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:34 PM
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How did you figure that one out then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:08 PM
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No worries, I havent got the energy. I guess my conclusion is that sex can be a motivating factor on some levels but it's narrow-minded to think that all of our achievements are down to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:05 PM
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That is essentially what this thread is no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:51 PM
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TRP claims this all the time. Do they? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:48 PM
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Contraception?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:25 AM
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This is effectively why ISIS, and by extension, all war campaigns are so successful. It isnt quite that simple though is it? ISIS are a group of people who have lived the last decade or two watching foreign nations bombing them and stealing their oil. Im pretty sure the American wars/genocide in the Middle East is not due to America trying to steal their women. Women are a natural resource, granted, but generally wars are caused by the need to secure such resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:34 AM
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He just googled 'matriarchal societies' like I did. There are about 10 examples of tribes that are matriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:30 AM
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What about the need to secure resources such as food that have caused a lot of the war and oppresion that humanity has seen? Society and biology pound into men the desire for sex, the belief that males are not real men if they are not having sex, and the belief that having sex makes you a better man, a stronger and more virile human being. War, genocide, slavery, and all manner of societal ills could be attributed directly or indirectly to the male sex drive. Which wars or genocides could you of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:27 AM
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Im going under the mod cos this is the worst thing Ive ever done. Ex had a very expensive laptop given to her by her parents. I got wasted and somehow managed to kill it while she was out of town (spilled something on it). I didnt tell her anything, and she only realised a few weeks later. Still feel guilty about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:12 AM
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A few years ago I was out here on Xmas Day with nothing to do. In Asia you have to work over Xmas usually and I was lucky to have the day off. She took me on a surprise trip out to a very nice place and then we had a good dinner watching Xmas movies at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:10 AM
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(I did enjoy it.) Maybe he enjoyed it too. The salamander probably didnt. The salamander always gets the bum deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:07 AM
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What's the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:01 AM
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It is often said that the carrot of sex for drives societal progress. Often said by who? It probably is not sex but power that drives most people on. Sex comes with power, but is but a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:00 AM
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Yes it's a doubleplus good idea. All jews and homosexuals should be sterilized, and only unsterilized when they have fully converted to the cause and have sworn allegiance to Big Brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:57 AM
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Well it takes all sorts. I do not regularly see rich guys hanging out with big ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:50 AM
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Who gives a fuck? Am I supposed to be envious of women because they might have a better orgasm than me? What impact does it have on dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:46 AM
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There are plenty out there that I wouldnt do sober. Also plenty that I would have to leave very quickly after shooting, cos I couldnt stand to be around them once Id done. Theyd also need to be literally on a plate for me, because Im just not going to go out of my way to fuck someone who I know I wont want to hang out with or ever see again. It's not worth the effort. Must be quite humiliating if that happens to them. The guy she went home with didnt want to spend any time with her after he had …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:41 AM
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Ive had a few rough relationships in my time. My longest LTR ended with her cheating. We were living together and I noticed something was off. I found out she had been sleeping with someone else. The worst thing about this was that she was planning on keeping this little situation going for at least another 6 months as she wasnt sure what to do or how she really felt. My first big LTR was with someone who had some mental issues. Basically she was abusive, I was too young and dumb to realise it q…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 03:02 PM
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Although having reread your orignal post,I do agree to some extent. The way you carry yourself is very important and effects your looks quite a lot. I just dont think it's that much about hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 11:09 AM
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It's probably a number of reasons. some people cant handle the thought that many of their partners have been with lots of people. I remember one girl I was dating who revealed she had been out on a lot of dates recently looking for a new partner. She admitted to sleeping with "some" of them. It was enough to put me off her, thinking that that was her recent behaviour. It just sort of shattered what I thought of her. Some people use it as an indicator of future behaviour. This seems reasonable as…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 10:50 AM
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At the core of the red pill ideas I dont think that women are thought to be what is wrong with society. It's focused on being more successful at dating so it is useful to focus on the negative - what to watch out for - common traps people fall into. In a wider-world sense then yeah, it isnt women that are causing all the problems. In the sense of me having the kind of love life I want, focusing on the wider world doesnt help me much. Focussing on what I need to know about women helps me a lot. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 10:36 AM
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The beautiful one who falls in love with the normal a stage guy cos they have the same hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 02:08 AM
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If only. Having stuff in common is the criteria for being friends. It's probably healthier to have some different hobbies than the same one if you ask me. As time goes on, the benefits of having your own space become more and more important. If you have the same hobby, you have the problem of not having enough me time. Similar social skills and standing are perhaps as important as looks, which gives rise to nerds ending up with nerds I guess. But having shared hobbies is drastically overrated . …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 01:51 AM
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I know plenty who have. Usually it starts off casual and builds into a relationship. In my experience, peopl don't usually go out saying "hey I wanna find a partner", they play it cool. Hobbies can get you and introduction but if you have reasonable social skills you can meet and talk to people with a range of hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 01:43 AM
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Each to their own no? Anyway, I've only done it when approached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 01:40 AM
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Men need to stop projecting their pathetic sexual desires onto women. That wasnt my sexual desires I was talking about projecting onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 04:14 PM
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Right yeah, I forgot about couch surfing. I take it all back. That's fucking out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 04:12 PM
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That is cos women put a price on every sexual thing. Men do not do this because we are not in it for the money. If a cute girl asks me to shit on her, I lay her head gently over the bowl and muster up all my love to curl out a poopy onto her face. Then, if I really like her, I dotingly smear it into her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:31 PM
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Yeah? You know a lot of women on the fringes of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:28 PM
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a barely pubescent young lady who looks like your mom? Oxymoron to end them all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:22 PM
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Women are more pure mentally since they don't have disgusting fetishes and kinks. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:20 PM
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this is cos women dont dare to live outside of society's boundaries, they dont take any risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:03 PM
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Well I suppose we can see clearly that the demonization on both sides doesnt endear many people to their side. I think it is probably frustration at being able to tackle the real problems that cause people to lash out at easier targets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:00 PM
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The Manipulated Man was written by a German feminist though. I guess from the point of view that traditional marriages were incredibly cynical and restrictive. I think this is probably true, but what is interesting about this book is it also criticizes the female role in a traditional marriage being stifling to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:57 AM
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Guys want casual sex more than girls do, so it's more difficult for them. It isnt hard to understand. As for the average guy. It actually isnt that hard in some senses, as long as you know what you're doing and you play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:54 AM
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He's drawing the correlation that most women don't seem to care about men nearly the same way men care about women. She It was written by a German (?) woman. Part of its apparent impact was that it was written by a feminist. In the foreward she states she got a huge backlash from feminists over it. It looks at humans from an almost alien perspective and ridicules both men and women alike. "The man, so desperate for sex puts up with woman's nagging and childike behaviour and in effect becomes a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:41 AM
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What does emotional labour mean? The examples you gave are miscellaneous grocery shopping and buying presents for family members. Both are usually more of a test of memory than anything else. You might as well have asked "do you have a better memory than your partner?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:36 AM
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Class is something that I feel gets ignored in all this, so well done for pointing it out. It's probably no happy accident for the rich and powerful that the general population resorts to infighting when they become discontent. For me, the sort of thing that I dislike is getting asked to check my privilege by a white woman who has obviously had a much better start in life than I have. This I where I feel feminists need to be more aware. I could ask you in reply - if the majority of oppression ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:01 AM
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I think that whilst this kind of thing gets sily sometimes, common sense is winning out overall. If you read certain parts of the internet then it appears otherwise, but I think in general most people want to have a fair outcome of such disputes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:56 AM
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I dunno how much SMV I really have but I started reading TRP just after a nasty break up, just trying to get my head together really. When I started dating again I realised I didnt have a clue what I was doing so I stuck around a bit. There is some useful advice around that you can use to your benefit. This sub is a bit different IMO, it's more of a discussion about gender issues where red pill is advice. I think this sub is taking on a life of its own even. But for those of you who are above av…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:33 AM
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Less of sstigma of turning away from traditional roles? This could be naive though, let's not pretend women are not under a lot of pressure to marry and have kids. The other answer could be that they just love cock too much to turn away from it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 04:53 AM
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The problem with all this is you dont account for people being taken. Where I live there are probably a million young women, but quite a few of them are paired off. Also, it doesnt account for the number of homosexuals about, and etc. Im with you that it's a numbers game, and Im also with you that things start to turn around a bit as people get older. But Im not sure what you posted has any value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 01:18 AM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 01:10 AM
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I think less to be honest. There's always been casual sex but it's like your birth right now. But my impression is that people didnt place quite so much of their self esteem into sex. Even when I was growing up in the 90s, it wasnt such a big deal. People didnt boast about it as much, and if you couldnt get any then that wasnt the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 01:00 AM
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Behind their backs of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:56 AM
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If they get it wrong, they look foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:55 AM
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I dont wanna blow it out of proportion, but Ive seen women call a guy 'creepy' just cos they dislike something he said or did. They use it sometimes just when they dislike a guy and it is pretty harsh, a real defamination of someone's character. Ive had women being overly familar with me when I didnt want them to, and there is little recourse. If you speak out about it people just laugh it off. From what ive seen, it isnt as endemic as people perhaps like to make out. It isnt everyday that I hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:43 AM
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Oh yeah, as a woman I assume any guy who goes out of his way to talk to me is hitting on me Im sure youre nice, but I hate this. Im generally friendly, I try and talk to lots of people so it puts me off that people would take it as flirting just cos Im a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:32 AM
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Yeah of course. It isnt unusual for this to happen. I also manage to misread flirting as niceness regularly. My friends tell me some girl was totally flirting with me and I thought we were just having a chat about whatever. I also get misread quite a bit. In the same way. Sometimes I try and flirt and come across as just friendly. Sometimes when Im just friendly they take it as flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:30 AM
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I got a masters and whatnot, to be honest I was never that impressed by the studies I read. As it relates to my job, what works works what doesnt doesnt. Sometimes what has been totally discredited, is just what you need to turn things around. Sometimes what is lauded as the latest breakthrough discovery doesnt help you at all. The value in research for me is ideas. I can use them to think about my own situation, play with new ideas and experiment to see what works and what does not. I rarely ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:19 AM
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Martial arts, football (soccer), loud music, getting wrecked. My partner likes getting wrecked, she doesnt pretend to be interested in the rest. Im glad of the time to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:10 AM
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Would you prefer it if red pill was banned? Should I not be allowed to read about certain things and then evaluate them as I do? Seems like people have a problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:07 AM
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Yeah I agree. The people here do mental acrobatics but still dont offer much in the way of alternative advice. What works works. Got a source for that? Any evidence? The thing is, when you realise what works in reality then all the theoretical gymnastics in the world doesnt stop it from working. But it's fun to watch them try
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:02 AM
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I don't know what to say to you. Then dont say anything. Easy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:58 PM
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You dont need to go in for all the bullshit, just take what you want and when it is done move on to the next one. Save your marriage and living together for the young and naive. Most of the people who I know who got married are stressed out and miserable. You can have it. There are plenty of women about who have missed the boat but stll want to dream. Im going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:47 PM
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Just like in the movies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 12:22 AM
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Ok yeah, it's always correct instinct. Women are wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 12:10 AM
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Well it's not for me to judge, it's up to the judgement of whoever the woman is. I know lots of nice women, who have good judgement and it's fine that they have that call. They use it wisely in fact. Unfortunately, there are just as many stupid women as there are men, and I dont trust their judgement with that call.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:36 PM
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Last night I was out with some female colleagues who, misreading drastically that I was on 'their side', were indulging in calling quite a few of my male colleagues creeps for no real discernable reason. When I get the news back about it to my colleagues, they might be in some trouble. Creep shaming is not going to happen to a guy that is shy or doesn't talk much, it will only happen to guys who are very aggressive in pursuing women. The thing is, lots of women have very poor judgement. You have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:30 PM
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Yes, it's men that cause all of this. When are we going to get an honest representation of this problem, which is that women play just as much of a part in repressing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:09 PM
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Well they could try having a brain and thinking independently then. If they cant recognise that porn is bullshit, then they dont deserve to have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:01 PM
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You might have a point but it's very popular isnt it? It isnt just pressure that makes people want to do it. If people acted on their sexual instincts then yes they would be more free, but people need to feel safe. What you perhaps fail to realise is that the chance is there to fall in love with whoever you sleep with. If your boyfriend sleeps with another girl, what is to stop him from falling in love with her? Eventually, he might just prefer spending his time with her rather than you. Then yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:54 PM
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It doesnt matter if they lie about it, cos I know the truth about it. They can lie all they want. In fact, I want them to keep lying, it's fine with me. Blue pill betas believe the lies, and I can get laid more by knowing the truth. There's no point trying to get women to be honest, and we can get more pussy from them lying and us seeing through than if they were honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:43 PM
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Some kind of obssession with getting lots of sex. Back in the day it didnt mean that much we just got on with it. There is evidently a lot of people who place their whole worth in sex. This goes for women as well as men, watch on here how the women go on and on about their sex life whilst claiming that red pill guys are disgusting. Ive aways got laid, and it doesnt make you a better person. People need to reevaluate what makes for a good life, and people need to start thinking how theyre gonna l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:38 PM
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more than that probably,it's just the trendy thing to be into now. If you dont like it youre boring
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:34 PM
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I was exposed to it from a young age,back in the 90s, and I quickly realised it was fake and shit as fuck. Then when I started sleepin with people I also quickly realised it didn't match reality. And I'm not that smart . Porn is bullshit but we don't need a cry baby moral police like you to help the youth. The common thing that people seem to think is that young people are fucking idiots who believe whatever they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:23 PM
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Using sex to barter for stuff. If youve ever had a gf who thinks she should get bought stuff for sex, youll know wat I mean. "Youd get more blowjobs if you were more romantic" was one I can remember well. I pressed her a little bit on it and she said I'd be getting more head if I was taking her out to expensive dinners and whatnot. Women who cause all kinds of shit but then fall back on being the helpless woman is toxic as well. I think this falls under not taking responsibility. For example, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 02:47 AM
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It is immature to worry a lot about people being better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 02:18 AM
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Maybe we underestimate the things that drive a man's desire though. Perhaps reducing it to sees something hot - gets horn is too simplistic. I dont get a boner every time I see a hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 02:14 AM
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To be fair, in the LTRs I have had, my desire has dropped each time. Ive lived with 2 girls and there were periods during both where I was less interested in sex with them. Perhaps the difference for guys is we still get a build up that we need to release quite regularly to break the tension so we still need sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 02:11 AM
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You deal with all of this by not being a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 01:58 AM
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Very good superhero names. Would make a good set of enemies for Wonder Woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 01:33 AM
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Im glad you have an interesting sex life. My point is that such kinky stuff is rare in reality. Most people are not doing it in real life. They might be watching it, they probably are not acting it out. Theyre doing regular piv. Im willing to bet that in most of those sessions, the man is leading the way. Do you think this is because most men will accept even horrible starfish sex, whereas most women can't even imagine having a passive partner? Possibly. This is because men need to make an effor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:18 PM
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It can be a good idea for plates but not a good idea for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 01:04 PM
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Boundaries are vital Definitely An understanding of female nature is vital. If you don't understand how women work, you will never succeed and she will never respect you. Most likely Sexual attraction is vital. If she is not sexually attracted to you, it won't work. You cannot make her attracted. You cannot reason your way into attraction. I think so. You dont wanna spend a year trying to figure out how to rekindle attraction when it is done. I make it clear that sex is very important to me. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 12:52 PM
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TBP is not a movement in its own right it is a collection of people who dislike TRP. They dont seem to hate men, although a few seem to hate men who disagree with them. Blue Pill people are primarily visible on this sub, and to be honest I think most of them just like sparring with people who have different views.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 12:28 PM
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There are many times when he simply wants to be passive and just lay there, being the recipient of pleasure rather than the giver, especially after a hard week at work. Yeah, that is true. We dont have to be active all the time, but that is how it pans out most of the time. I agree as well that most men would enjoy being ravaged aggressively like that. The point is that isnt going to be happening a lot for most. Maybe more women should look into getting aggressive. Ultimately, even if it goes bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 12:06 PM
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What effect does it have on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:22 AM
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The point is that that where men dominating women in bed are concerned, it is absolutely standard. We have to control the pace and thrust of it, so usually we are in control. To me, that is all dominant needs to mean. But with the silliness of BDSM at the moment everyone takes it to mean women are all wearing collar and leash. The man taking charge in bed is pretty standard isn't it? He has to more or less, for physical reasons. It's not about who controls the whole relationship, it's the way we…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:08 AM
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Interesting. It gets blown way, way out of proportion I agree. You also touch on what I have been saying for a while, which is that BDSM play is a tiny proportion of sex and it is getting far too much attention currently. The way people waffle on about it any time it is brought up youd think it was commonplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:22 PM
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Spinal arthritis and she makes him sleep on the couch? I hope she feels guilty.
/r/MGTOW11/07/17 03:07 PM
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Porn is boring crap, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 01:00 PM
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Why does she have to be 17?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:36 PM
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Men watching porn leads to unrealistic expectations and negative consequences for women Women watching porn leads to exploring their sexualities and positive consequences for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:32 PM
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This is the part I disagree with TRP about...they take temporary sexual desires and try to expand them to fill each aspect of life where it doesn't belong (unless you're the kind of woman who does want her SO to be in charge, I suppose). I get where you are coming from here. You see that in posts quite a lot. However, recommended reading is The Sex God Method and that quite clearly outlines that dominance is only a part of it. An important part, but not as you might see in the posts. I recommend…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:22 PM
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Women get an easy ride because theyre wonderful. They can just be nice and polite to people and be thought of as charming. They just need to drop a few compliments and pay attention to people. Guys have it quite a lot harder, they need to be more than just nice to be seen as charming. If they are too nice to girls then they can come off as creepy, if theyre just nice to other guys then they can come off as beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:13 PM
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It's usually the men in positions requiring dominance that fantasize about golden showers and whatnot. It's because their personality aligns more with being a domineering person so submissive fantasies are a way for them to relax. This is possibly a cliche? Ive had submissive fantasies at many different points in my life. I think that it is the rich guys in power that can afford it is probably the case. Regular women dont care that much for dominating guys, so in a standard relationship it is ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:00 PM
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Put simply: Women desire male dominance. Hate to say it but this was a hot topic of conversation a few months ago. I remember it well cos I was off work and spending too much time on Reddit. I think I even started a thread about it. So, whilst it remains interesting it isnt something that hasnt been covered. Ill try and summarize what my conclusions are on the topic:- Yes, most women do enjoy some form of dominance over them sexually. This is mostly down to them being on the receiving end of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:55 AM
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Why do you think business execs are paying tens of thousands of dollars to fly over to South America to get the shit kicked out of them by some 17-year-old girl with ponytails and clad in black leather? Why cant they do that closer to home? Would be cheaper. My local place is about $150 an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:40 AM
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1: Does a relationship necessarily stunt sexual growth and therefore necessarily incur a sexual opportunity-cost? Not necesarilly because (insert humblebrag about me and my partner here and how kinky we are!)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:37 AM
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If they dont find it fun then it isnt worth it. If they like it then it is worth it. Personally I thought it was a nice addition to single life. The trick is not to take it personally. It's a game. You get better at it the longer you're on it. but for average men their time would be much better spent approaching IRL for struggling guys time is better spent working on themselves and getting out of the mindset where sex is that important. Getting to a place where someone would wanna spend time wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:23 AM
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Are you sure about that? Seems to me there must be something deeper to it or else why are we talking about all this? I dislike extreme racists but I don't spend my days discussing it with them, trying to convince to be more accepting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:17 AM
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I think there is truth in this yes. It is mixed in with other issues (right-wing leanings, vastly overblown importance placed on gender issues and being right-on) but it is easy to imagine that people would view the growing number of people expressing their contempt for the way things are going with unease. If I say I dont want to settle down and start a family, it generally gets a negative response. "Why? Isnt that a waste though?" When I get a negative response from women, it isnt because Im h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 03:15 AM
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Putting them on a pedestal, as discussed in the other thread. I guess the value of the meme is dont do that. Relationships are always conditional, and quite often vulnerable in lots of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 02:48 AM
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I just read that there is a term 'ambivert' in which you have traits from both sides. That is me, and probably the women I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 02:32 AM
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Do you have to be one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 02:15 AM
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I was saying something similar recently. In any one community there must be several pairings waiting to happen, but due to all this online dating now people are finding people who are outside the community to date. I guess the question is the quality of relationships degrading now? Youd think with more choice and easy introductions it would be getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 01:47 AM
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Yes, I agree. That people are meeting at first online doesnt mean they are falling in love online. It's just another tool to meet people through. I met my gf online and we must have exchanged all of 20 messages before the first meeting. It's hardly replacing real life. However, some people I met online do seem to be treating it as they might a date. They go in with pointed questions and seem to be waiting to be swept off their feet, to catch real romantic feelings........online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 01:42 AM
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I once read that men are more constantly ready-to-go whilst women are more cyclical. This is based on their period cycle. Men have testosterone driving them whilst women get a bit of a dump of it around their ovulation time which will make them want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 01:35 AM
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When you get pedestalized people are projecting qualities onto you that are not necessarily there. Obviously it isnt a great idea to do this because whatever it is you're wanting from that person isn't there, so eventually you'll be disappointed. When I've done it, it has lead to relationships that didnt end well. I thought that women were the answer to all my problems and that everything would fall into place when I met a good woman. Those relationships were doomed from the start, as the proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 01:23 AM
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This rings true. The majority of people are actually all right really. It isn't hard to be nice . That's why betas fail - they're ten a penny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 09:29 AM
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I'm quite well acquainted with Japan. Plenty of jobs going around there, lots of people having sex, lots of chances to start a family. 'Japan happens' means "I read some shit about Japanese virtual gfs and I believed it". No offence but the media regularly do a very poor job in representing Asia to the West (I live in Asia)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:17 AM
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IPorn is shit and boring, almost without exception. I guarantee that the incest stuff they watch is just some more boring shit, totally unbelievable and badly acted. Nothing to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:10 AM
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I e had one or two really good HJ in my entire life. The advice here is just ride it out and next time stick it in her mouth. Or get some lube
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:04 AM
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That's quite a list. Especially for someone under say 35. Perhaps the guys are overcompensating by being nice for the other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:02 AM
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They're all basic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:01 AM
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Breathing and has a vagina. The first one is negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:00 AM
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I fucking heard it plenty growing up in that house. Traumatised
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 04:34 AM
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Not really. The wonderful left BP types who espouse individuality and free thinking and speech also seem to be amazingly repressive and groupthinky. I prefer to judge each person on their own merits. How one person came to his own conclusions is likely to be different to mine, so even if I agree with someone I won't give credit to some online forum .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:45 AM
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With the strategies that really work, there's no "catching on" about it . They work cos women like them so they're not gonna change to something they don't like. The stuff that really works isn't a trick, they're internal changes that make you a better person .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:15 AM
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So women don't want a nice guy as a partner then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 03:33 AM
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Im sure it has been said but you do it by not making getting girls your goal in life. I work solid all week, do different sports, have to keep my place clean and whatnot. Go out for a beer with my friends at the weekend, keep up with the family and friends back home. There isnt any time to really give a fuck, and I cant reel it back even if I really want to now. Everything is in motion. Simply put - if you want to be the woman in my life you have to fit in with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:40 PM
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There was a comment under the article by a French person saying the same thing. Age differences both ways are not unusual, nor do they have to be a head turner. More and more Im starting to think that the Anglo-West (?) is totally obsessed with sex, to a point far beyond healthy. Not only that, but whilst people around wear being liberal and our personal freedoms as a badge of honour, the rest of the world probably thinks we are uptight losers. Even where I am in Asia, with real problems of sexi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:29 PM
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To me, it is a desperate attempt to try and equalise the market for people of that age. Guys go for younger, women dont like that they dont have options from all sides anymore. We better shame the guys and try and redress the balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:24 PM
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There have been 5 or 6 outraged responses saying women get worse slung at them, but no one has linked an article yet. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:21 PM
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Maybe it's the tone? I'll do that thing of editing it a little as if it were written by the other gender "You know what it’s like. You walk into a bar. You gaze around the room. You try to hide the embarrassment that’s written on your face. And then you spot a woman in the corner. She is sagging. She is wrinkled. She is grey. She looks up. Her eyes light up. Your heart sinks." I wouldn't bother giving "advice" (complaining?) to 40yo men chasing 20-somethings if I were the author. If I really wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:18 PM
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Depends on the time and place really. If Im feeling it, Ill respond to someone clingy in a paternal sense. Makes me feel good to feel needed. Reassurances, comfort and so on. If Im not feeling needed to be needed, then yeah it is annoying. Also, Ive had some clingy gf situations that spiralled out of control before and you dont want to go through much of that. I dont recall ever really falling for someone emotionally distant from the get go but when your partner becomes that way, that is a bit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:06 PM
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It's just the patronizing tone that gets me so much I think. It starts off by calling out older single guys as being deluded for wanting to....date???.....feel attractive at their age?? To be fair, aybe it just got me in the triggers - which it was meant to cos it is clickbait. Glad Im not the only one who feels this way though. I have seen worse articles aimed at women. Care to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 12:52 PM
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Let's have a look at some of the articles then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 12:45 PM
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What do you mean dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 04:13 AM
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What I dislike most is the way she takes swipes at older men. You're unattractive, marry someone your own age. There isn't even a logical point to it. The research outlined says something like - before you're 40 you're good to go, after that you'll need to try harder. The conclusion - date someone your own age. Wut? What use is that? I don't know how attacking guys' lifestyle choices will resolve the fact that some women are missing out on having kids .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 04:09 AM
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You don't have to read it no, it's short enough that I think I covered it in my summary. Perhaps more interesting are the comments. Pretty much all of them say similar and the guardian is not a very red pill place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 04:05 AM
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It's not even that they really got screwed in my eyes. The average woman can have a much more pleasant and happier youth than most men and then still be happy when she settles down. What gets me is the "men, you're not attractive anymore stop pretending" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 04:02 AM
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They are particularly bad for it yeah. Normalish girls will get up to that shit though if theyre drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 02:14 AM
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Probably. Im not very picky when it comes to looks. I mean I recognise the differences in hotness and Ill always go after the hotter one but still. I dont need to have a really hot girl to be satisfied, if we are going to spend a lot of time together then personality probably wins out. Some of the less attractive girls Ive been with have won out by being filthy in bed. A big imagination can go a long way. I suspect that some less attractive couples get up to some absolute diabolical shit in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:54 AM
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They dont need to be gamed in a cyncial way necessarily. They just have to want to have casual sex with you. It doesnt mean that they have low self-esteem either. For my entire teenage through adult life, about 20 years now, girls have been sleeping with guys casually. Sometimes they're horny, sometimes just drunk. You dont need a game per se just look good and like a fun person. My 'game' when I was young was - get a bit dressed up - go out with a group of friends - get drunk - get a bit lairy …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:40 AM
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They get a bit lairy when they're drunk there (the girls). They're not shy at all about cat calling or even shouting abuse at people .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:55 PM
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When I lived in England I experienced if quite a bit. Violent attacks, verbal abuse and the like. Got chased through an Asian part of town and had a bottle thrown at me. Another time nearly got dragged into a park and God knows what. Had some shit off women too. Sometimes had my dick touched or my arse fondled in pubs or clubs (non consensually of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:10 PM
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You haven't been to England have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:04 PM
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It's not a bad rule though. The benefits often cited of getting married are lofty and intangible. It's a good counterweight to real society pressure as well - which is often along the lines of - well you're not getting any younger and all your friends are doing it so you better hurry up. Also, "works out " is another flakey idea. Not getting divorced doesn't necessarily mean that your life is great. Any married person will tell you it's not easy and sacrifices need to be made. So, it's not a bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:56 AM
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I don't wanna read two articles. Why not find a balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 02:45 AM
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For the second time today (why not just post this in the other thread?) you're taking this in far too literal terms. All it means is that your commitment is valuable as a guy, and that you shouldn't easily whore it out just to get laid. In my mid-30s now, and my commitment is really worth quite a lot now to women of the same age as it represents perhaps their last chance for a traditional family life. At the same time, sex is less important to me now , as I have a career to work at and cos of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 02:44 AM
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That sub is full of guys who went along with women who wanted commitment, and then stopped sleeping with them after they had locked it in. C'mon! You know this man ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:01 PM
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This is the mindset we need to break out of if we want to be happy. If we roll along with whatever just for sex, we will inevitably end up in some kind of shitty situation. This is where you have to realise the value of your commitment. It's higher than sex. Sex is not that hard to find after all. If you know what you are doing you can get it semi-regularly with girls you dont even know that well. Perhaps my first LTR, I entered that largely cos of the idea of a lotta sex and romance. Since then…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:45 PM
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The gatekeepers of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:26 PM
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I think I have quite a low attraction threshold, so I think Im ok with all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:16 PM
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Ive rarely if ever gone out looking for a commitment. Ive always been out looking for fun and then ambled along into a commitment. The problem has been I didnt realise how much that commitment was worth. Commitment = time and sacrifices. A man needs to realise this and not make the commitment just for regular sex. This is when you start to see the 'gatekeepers of commitment' idea. For me, I dont want to just give up all my free time and miss out on things for someone who isnt worth it again. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:14 PM
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We pursue them for sex not commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:02 PM
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Feminist women and red pill women are far from the only two categories of women though. Feminist women depends on how you define feminist, most women would express that but the level of it varies wildly. I date Asian women in Asia, and I support them being feminist as they often end up getting treated like crap in some way. "Red pill" tactics work just fine on them. I've never met a red pill man in person, so I have definitely not met a red pill woman. The tactics I got from reading the red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:21 PM
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i can't have fun or enjoy my life with a partner that makes me miserable, much less want to jump in the sack with him Nothing in this housewife shit about having fun or enjoying life. Which I pointed out .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:40 AM
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2 - what if she hates animals , should I date her? Nothing about sex in here I see. That says a lot about how low women value sex in a marriage. 15 long and boring points about commitment and nothing about fun or enjoying your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:45 AM
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In this world, it usually does. In a world without the pressure to settle down it might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:48 PM
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My aunt lives a life most MGTOW could only dream of. and indeed, a life most other women do not live either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:47 PM
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If you are talking about the kind who posts on Facebook about being single, you're probably right to suspect they arent too happy. That they have to broadcast themselves means they might be a bit miserable or that they deserve to be a bit miserable at least. Unfollow them is a quick solution, unfriend if they seem beyond redemption. My theory is that most people would be happier single but with decent access to sex and cuddles when they need it. Possibly with different people. But people tend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:41 PM
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Online dating is a game. Some people use it to find someone seriously but you need to treat it just like a game. It isn't the same as real life dating. People are able to find serious partners through it but if you treat it too seriously itll make you miserable. Even if you get a match, you still have to be worthwhile for someone to want to spend time with you beyond one or two dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:27 PM
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I had read a bit of red pill just out of boredom really, and was interested in it a little bit. A while after Id become aware of it, my LTR went south and I needed something to prop me up. It was useful after years of not being very aware of what takes place in relationships, I found it was the best place to read stuff as I was making sense of the break up and coming to terms with all that. After the worst of that was done and I was dating again, it was helpful in making strategies for dating. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 11:49 AM
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I dont support a patriarchy but now women have an equal shot at things they need to start raising their game. Theyre mostly slack, trading on their looks and they always have to fall back on feminism to prop themselves up. Men still dominate the world, cos women cant compete without support. I think theyll start to raise their game eventually but maybe not in our lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:03 AM
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Because women want equal rights but also no responsibilities, so that is what they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:57 AM
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I guess all this pill stuff is American-based, and it's no secret that American women are the easiest women on the planet. They might as well dress accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:56 AM
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It's not inappropriate, that's some jealousy SJW shit. Expect that if you are on your game, people will take shots at you. Bitches gonna bitch. I dont care about age gap much. Younger the better. The other way though, looks weird. I mean some guys go after older women. I tried that and I think theyre pussies. Older women are only good for sex. More than 5 years older than you, and it makes you look bad. "But but but theyre more mature and better in bed." - is the cry of the loser. If you cant ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:51 AM
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I'm confused. Fancy clarifying this a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:50 PM
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So what youre saying is "it's easy for women to get dates"? Cos yes, that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:41 PM
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I wish I was especially hot. Im a bit overweight and hairy. In one of my Tinder profiles, I had been using it for 3 weeks before some girl pointed out people could see my laundry drying in the background. I do have baby blue eyes though and get a lot of comments on them. I think Im more of a "he was really funny and friendly so I went back to his place" kind of a guy. I do have good character and I think it comes through in my writing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:35 PM
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Well, dont do yourself down too much. If there is one thing Ive learned over the last 20+ years of having a love life it is that no one is irreplaceable and no one is unique. The qualities you have (can you name them?) are almost certainly present in a number of other guys, but at the same time will be attractive to a number of other girls. It doesnt really come down to that after a break up anyway. It's not a race to get back into the dating market. People who race back in usually come a croppe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:31 PM
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OLD and Tinder have been pretty successful for me though. Ive had many a fun meet up from it and a number of memorable nights. It multiplies my options tenfold.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:21 PM
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And what you have to realise is that I am instantly replaceable. I am fully aware of this. Thankfully, we have something quite special, and I don't think she is going to find someone else like me that easily. Well that is a big contradiction there just one sentence after the next. I am more sensitive and aware than the average male PPDer, and I therefore realise that not all of these things are positive things! Right, Im starting to sense a bit of false modesty here. Gassed up much? "She would l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:14 PM
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Let's be honest - it is the internet isn't it? The thread the other day got me thinking about it. Even though now it is much easier to get a date, there was a lot more honesty in dating back in the day I think. In the 90s and early 00s, dating consisted of going out and talking to people whilst drinking. You probably had to have a bit in common to start with to go to the same places. If you were a student you;d meet another student in the student pubs. If you were into rock music youd go to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 03:59 PM
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You probably idolize your friends relationships somewhat. Do you take them at face value and ask really cheesy questions to reach your conclusions? What lurks beneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:15 AM
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Men talking about women has always been around. It's not really a surprise. People want to talk about their interests. The question is why it is seen as such a thought crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:11 AM
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Don't spend all your free time with her. Keep a good circle of friends and be active. Focus on your own life first. Keeping your options open here could be just as much about keeping your own life while seeing someone. In reality, if it's a serious thing then you won't be ready for another one for a good while afterwards. So it's about making sure you won't be so devastated if this one goes down the shitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 12:09 AM
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Women are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:59 AM
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It's kinda cute if it's mild but if it is strong then it's creepy. Your number 2 example is a bit creepy if done wrong, when I see that kind of thing it makes me cringe. If it gets too much then youre into psycho territory obviously. One ex of mine used to go through my texts. Several have tried to shame me into not going out with my friends on account of there being other women about. So it depends on how much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 04:36 PM
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I dont know many Greeks but Italians and Spanish, like that. They seem much more secure in themselves sexually and open than other Westerners do. Italians I know, they are fine being friends with girls but wouldnt get stuck into the same friendzone type situation necessarily. Theyd just out and out tell them they wanted to sleep with them or make the move. Then again, they might get rejected but the girls would laugh it off as natural and not make them feel like a loser rapist. I've got quite a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 04:16 PM
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Beta orbiting means when women use betas to buy them gifts and give them free shit, while the women never have sex with them, right? Is that even that common? Not so much this as they use them to lean on emotionally. They start a close freindship, leading on the guy a little bit and let them get nice n close to them. The guy (usually he is foolish yes) gets his hopes up, and the girl has new best friend to lean on for support. It's common with young people, say 16 - 22. After that, aint nobody g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:42 PM
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Absolutely not the same. Women tend to like guys who look after themselves but think more along the lines of goes hiking, jogging, swimming, plays team sports type
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:40 AM
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Ive done some posts about living in Asia before. Yes it is somewhat different. Muscles are a talking point, because some believe women view them as primarily something that gay guys have. Boobs are smaller, non-existent at times. Fat guys do alright. Tastes are different. When you first come here, you see white guys out with hot-looking girls and think that you are king cos youre white. After a while it becomes apparent that the premo girls dont date otuside their race. But still nearly ANY fore…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:30 PM
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Obviously it'll be viewed as weird and creepy by society, and will never become acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 02:53 AM
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The resources a woman gets from a relationship are minimal Remember that they get status and companionship as well as cold hard cash. Access to new circles. Also, they can see the wealth of his parents and in this sense it often isn't minimal at all in the long term. Also they get access to shared costs of living and someone who can share the housework with them. Maybe someone to ferry them around in his car. They get a future. The reason AFBB makes guys bitter is that women claim "what we are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 02:32 AM
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Are they? Probably cos they have more and more ways to ignore each other in bed. When I started dating, I didnt have TV in my room, so it was the radio, some wine and getting down to it. So yeah, in that sense you could be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 04:21 PM
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With online dating it is certainly a lot easier to get dates now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 04:05 PM
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1 She shuts down during foreplay and does nothing more and says nothing. You tripped a circuit or something. I get this sometimes, I just take a breather and then have back at it. 2 The woman who believes the only thing she has to offer a relationship or man is her beauty and sexuality. I am/was possibly the opposite of this. For a while, I wasnt satisfied unless I had my girl climbing the walls. I was relentless. Ive seen quite a number of posts by guys proudly proclaiming to be the same. Perha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 03:47 PM
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Nah, Im not good with Tinder as such. I was getting matches and dates and so on but meeting hotter girls in real life. Maybe Im not very photogenic, maybe I didnt put enough thought into my profile, I dunno. Your Tinder profile can be misread any number of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 12:53 PM
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I guess because it is usually implemented in covert ways. As you point out, it's a taboo. It will always be as well, because it means that as a guy, commiting to anyone is a big risk. If my woman has always got an eye out for someone better, then what is the point ? All women are a pain in the ass at some point and I can have fun on my own . To commit means sacrifice, and what's the point in sacrificing large amounts of my life for nothing that gives me long term benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:47 AM
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I define people who are unsuccessful as people who are unhappy . And mostly the people I know like that are people who are married to women who are not very nice. So I'd say people who are a soft touch and give away their commitment ie give away their life too easily are the unsuccessful ones
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:41 AM
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Do you know why she doesn't want more ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:31 AM
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Both probably indicates high value. If she wants to commit but isn't that into me then she is out of luck..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:14 AM
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I feel a bit sad that so many modern people place so much of their self worth into getting easy sex. I don't associate with Incel types really, so many of the betas I know are already married. Raising anything outside of listening to them moan like fuck about their lives can cause them to get aggressively defensive, so I keep it mostly to myself. Even if, for example, I outline my reasons for not wanting to cohabit for a while (in polite terms) they either start complaining about their own situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:26 AM
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Expensive dates just are not my style, sorry to say. I don't set the expectation of that early on so my girls aren't disappointed. It's easy to decipher that im a bit tight, and I use it to vet women. It's in my nature. If my own experience is anything to go by, it is younger guys who think they need to impress that do it most. That, or older guys who have the cash to spare. To be honest, it was never the culture around me to go on expensive dates. Buying them a drink at the pub would do. Curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 11:18 PM
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The third. I hate wasting my time and I hate going on dates. The third you're getting played. Friends zone you can just withdraw your attention. The first sucks a bit but if youre doing it right you didn't get very invested anyway and got some sex on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 11:08 PM
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1) probably about 6 or 7, depending on my weight . But I live in Asia so I get a point for being white at the moment. So probably 7/8. 2) Yeah a bit 3) including hand and blow jobs more than 30. If we are just counting dick-in-muff about 15. 4) 3 that were serious 5) Drinking. Martial arts. Football. Music 6) yes 7) no 8) they might be more attractive yeah 9) yes. More attractive guys get casual sex, less attractive guys have to pay for it with something . 10) I used to resent them. Not really n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:43 AM
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Well it makes sense that if you are going to date someone, that they should bring something to your life that wasn't there before no? Otherwise what is the point? I've got lots of friends, lots of female friends even, what does a girl I'm not attracted to give me? I don't need a lot of emotional support, I don't need someone to hang out with all the time cos Im busy enough. So generally, what I need is intimacy that you cant get from a close friend. So I choose an attractive woman, cos I'll enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 02:33 AM
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Hey, I think you made a mistake with the quoting or something, it has gone a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:47 AM
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Seems like you're living in a bit of a shallow world, where people lack intelligence, subtlety and tact, and the women are lazy with a massively conflated sense of self-worth. So I'll hazard a guess that you are American :). At the core you have a point. Women tend to choose the man with the higher status, whilst men tend to choose the sexier woman. If a truly egalitarian relationship exists where both man and woman are in it ONLY for each other's personalities/looks, I've certainly haven't seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:30 AM
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The problem with them is they are trying to expose the nature of women. This collides with woman's need to maintain the allure and mystery they have been able to build up over a long time. With the mysteries of woman in tact, they are able to manipulate men and keep them guessing, so they hate seeing people trying to figure them out and expose them. I'm not a fan of 'PUAs' at all, but if it works then I dont think they can really be blamed for it. They just go after what they want. There is noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:01 AM
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Most older married couples depend on each other, but red pill men eschew love marriage and seem destined for a lonely, isolating existence. Why are we necessarily going to be lonely and isolated? What makes you say this is our destiny? I suppose for me, the goal is to make sure I live my life on my own terms, romantic relationships included.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 12:49 AM
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When I was at school there used to be a rhyme said, by kids and adults alike "Sugar and spice and all things nice, that's what girls are made of Slugs and snails and puppy dogs tails, that's what boys are made of." I suppose that is the sort of gender stereotyping that many women dislike, but it sort of connects to the women-do-no-wrong effect. I think that for examples of society colluding to it, look at things like criminal sentencing. Women seem to be often let off lightly for similar crimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 12:33 AM
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Sounds like victim-blaming!!! Check ur privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:42 PM
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Ah no wait a minute, should be more like 40 cos I answered the last lot wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:20 PM
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On the buzzfeed one I got you live with 35 out of 100 points of privilege. And Im a straight, white, middle-class male from a first-world country. Just goes to show you that half of the shit the SJWs complain about are not exactly clean-cut one-sided. But they dont wanna hear about the time I got assaulted (nearly raped/murdered) because I was white, how we have to watch out for attacks on us cos we are in the wrong bar and not women, getting groped by the big monster woman in the club or at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:14 PM
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nah, my gender is male. Dont force your labels on me thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:53 PM
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I cant complete the survey cos my gender isnt considered. The genders are only trans variants and cis, neither of which I identify with. So I think I must be rather oppressed, as my gender (male) isnt recognised in this survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:35 PM
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That's a beta mindset. You do see mean, vicious and untrustworthy people doing well but loads of women are fucked in the head. I think that the truth is that good people who have done nothing wrong are ten-a-penny. There are honest, decent people everywhere. Being a good and honest person isnt a high barrier to touch. You need something to stand out. People who are entitled like that sit there bitching over nothing a lot of the time. "How can Dave get a date? He's such an asshole. And I get noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 12:02 PM
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It might depend on what her motivations were for moving it on like that. If she convinced herself to be attracted to him then there must have been some carrot at the end of the stick. You don't paint it out as particularly romantic but it could last. Attraction can build up like that. Just by being around someone a bit longer usually changes how you view them. So it could be for real. It could also turn into a disaster-area. She might not have ever felt lusty towards him, and as I said she might…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 11:32 AM
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Is it just a convenient excuse to blame men for not committing instead of admitting that they may just suck themselves? This era might well be seen by future generations as the age of entitlement. Everyone thinks they are entitled to a happy married life with a couple of kids, even if they clearly shouldn't get married or have kids. Men are quite bad for it too, aren't they? "I'm a good honest guy, I treat people right, I never be violent, why can't I get a date?" "I'm a good, honest worker. I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:06 AM
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The idea isnt to hound the forums everyday anyway is it? You're supposed to get the key ideas then go off and do your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 04:37 PM
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They're just saying all this to wind up red pill people. There's no real uumph behind it. They're trying to disqualify them. Obviously you won't be in good shape without doing the requisite physical activity. And there isn't such thing as someone totally natural socially. Either you pick it up or you learn it explicitly, the outcome needn't be different. How to Make Friends and Influence People has sold a bajillion copies, and that is basically learning how to manipulate people. There is a massi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 11:53 AM
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In my experience they can get it quite wrong though. They perceive a guy to be more into them than he is, they use it to signal status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:18 AM
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I don't know how common my experience is but I'm rarely out looking for commitment, it just happens gradually. If im single and have been for a while, I'm busy doing other things that I've been building up. Sports, work, studying to improve my career, maybe seeing some girls casually already and/or taking advantage of the free single time to go out or explore places. Then I meet someone who I like spending time with and it goes from there. "Commitment" is open to interpretation anyway. If you me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:07 AM
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Are you dating some kind of exotic animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 01:05 AM
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Worsening economic conditions, worries about the future job market, lunatics in positions of power, that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 03:42 AM
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Women usually get with someone equal to or above them. Men usually with equal to or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 02:18 AM
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The world is set up in women's favor, as the comments above illustrate. We live in a "gynocentric" society, in other words. What bothers me about this post is that you seem to be focussing very hard on the SMP (or getting laid in other words) and how that equates to a gynocentric society. It's no use being obsessed with sex all the time, it's unhealthy. There are lots of other things going wrong today, that girls get a lot of offers for sex is trivial. TRP is never going to wake up all men, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 02:11 AM
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That's the key takeaway from this sub. Basically the constitution could be " Red Pill is very useful, just don't let it make you into too much of a prick and remember the PC world outside." Good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:37 AM
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Is it that uncommon ? That kind of look can be achieved by kissing and petting, basically with anyone you hook up with. Besides, I live in Asia so I get stared at a lot by people. It loses its novelty after a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:25 PM
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Yeah, you need to be very diplomatic implementing that one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 05:23 PM
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Yeah, they dont seem to be left on the shelf with no hope is what I mean though. I do agree that guys get a bit more power as they get older, and they get more stubborn and picky so I could see that being a problem for women who have usually had their way in dating. Basically though, they adapt. Being hot doesnt matter as much when you get a bit older, and they probably have kids, jobs and homes and so on to keep them occupied. Sex drives are much lower all around. Plus, if youre over 40 and can…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 05:15 PM
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Just take the core beliefs and make them more PC in language. That'll do it. All Women Are Like That = Women tend to do this (sometimes) AFBB = Women like to have fun when theyre young, but then settle down with a more friendly chap to have a happy family (sometimes) and there is nothing wrong with that but just be careful. The Wall = Women get less attractive with age (sometimes) but theyre still happy. LIFT! = SWIM, DO YOGA, OR DO SOMETHING ACTIVE SOMETIMES! It's just your turn = Remember wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:58 PM
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I didnt get with any with kids. Would you have considered actually dating one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:37 PM
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That goes against my own experience, lots of older women seemed quite keen to date me when I was single a little while ago. Even if it is true, it would have a direct effect on the dating pool wouldnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 12:35 PM
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A lot of guys didnt have a good time when they were younger though, so dating when youre older is noticeably easier. It is more hazardous, as a lot of people are getting keen to settle down but it is now very easy to find a girlfriend when ten years ago it was pretty tough. The way I see it is that a 40 year old guy could find a younger woman to settle down with easier than a 40 year old woman could. And a guy with his shit together who looks good at 40 is a little bit rare so he will have lots …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 12:18 PM
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I mean feminism is already facing a big backlash. Lots of people are turning their backs on it. People are becoming more vocal with their dislike to it, and they keep banging the same old tired drum like "muh wage gap". People are tired of seeing it. I think there are worse enemies around anyway. It is difficult to blame feminism for the real ills I myself face. And besides, once you become aware of how gynocentricism actually effects you it is easier to navigate. It doesnt have to be the end of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:40 AM
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Your edit has made it into two separate issues . The first - yeah it is gynocentric but it's nothing we can't handle. It's like a shit test. Let them moan and cry about being women. There's already a big backlash. Just let them hang themselves with their own rope, it's already happening . The second one is more of a nature thing no? Not really anything to do about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 03:45 AM
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Definitely, and this is a more extreme example of an orbiter, you could say. He agreed to fund this woman's lifestyle wholesale before she has shown any sexual interest in him whatsoever. He gets no sympathy from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:23 AM
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For men Keep control of your time. Dont feel obliged to hang out with your gf just cos it's Friday night and you usually hang out then. Do more of what you want to do. Don't give up stuff you like to spend more time with her. If you wanna have some me time, send her off home. If you dont wanna go shopping, dont go shopping. If you dont wanna eat out, dont let her moan you into submission. Don't let her book up your weekends weeks in advance - I got sick of making plans with my gf weeks ahead and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:06 AM
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You can slim down/bulk up to take care of your looks. Sort out your hair and clothes etc. That's a good start. You have a great deal of control over having an attractive character but it is harder to actually get a hold on. You can work on stopping being a goofy nerd though. You can look great but if you act like a child you wont be attractive. Easy ways to control this are to be more serious, quit moaning about how shitty your life is, shutting up once in a while (works for women as well)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:00 PM
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The Red Pill is biased against women in favour of men? You dont say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:43 PM
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What kind of situations do you mean here? You mean they have orbiters?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:37 PM
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Im gonna come clean here and confess I got Hindus mixed up with Sikhs. It's his own fault for getting involved with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:36 PM
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A more extreme example, but plenty of people around who might do similar. There are more reasons to be with someone than they're really into you, convenience is a big part of things. Im sure lots of people stick together because it suits them rather than they are wildly attracted to each other. In this case, it's his own fault for getting into something with someone who claims to be asexual. How is that a good idea? What was he supposed to be waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:25 PM
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Okay let me start off by saying I am a Hindu and this is beyond ridiculous. What kind of middle age household did she grow up in? This is not just a religious problem, it's much more than that. I have always been under notion that Hinduism is like the coolest religion because there are absolutely no restrictions whatsoever and you can do whatever the fuck you want . Lol we have even have a god and goddess of love,sexual pleasure,lust and passion. How can sex be impure? She seems to be making shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:18 PM
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A hot girl with low confidence is a winning fuckbuddy combination. For a relationship it is trickier, because it depends on how the lack of confidence manifests. If it is in a cutie way then it's good for a relationship, but if it comes out in a possessive way you best run a mile. A decent-looking woman with low self-esteem will still be getting sex and boyfriends, and decent-looking guy with low self-esteem will have much more trouble. Remember that a lot of guys are just looking to get to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 02:43 PM
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If you call someone a white knight, you're basically saying they need to act the hero to impress women so they don't have the skills to find one without cheap tricks .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 02:32 AM
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It's definitely got a negative connotation to it. Not only that but it is also a swipe at their mating credentials which puts people even more on the back foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:39 PM
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Id definitely have a think about that. There's just no way you could have a prolonged period spending that much time with someone without them taking it as a serious thing. It's like the kind of pattern that is a pre-cursor to moving in/marrying. Remember we are the gatekeepers of commitment. Time = commitment. You spending that much time with someone = a big commitment. So theyre going to be confused when you back away. I think 'just sex' 3 or 4 times a week is wishful thinking. Some things you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:29 PM
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It sounds like youre doing the same things and expecting different results. I just want someone to eat, sleep, watch TV together. How much time do you spend with a gf? With my latest gf it is once a week, twice at a push and it is quite fresh and we're getting along well. The annoyances seem to happen for me when Im spending excessive amounts of time with someone. I work hard, do sports a lot and have a good social life. Once a week with her keeps a good balance for me right now. My ego soaks it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 04:47 PM
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Red Male A lot of times it has been a matter of a few hours. Usually this is from the club/party to somewhere private. Right the way from when I was a whippersnapper going underage to rock clubs to last year when I was going out far too much drinking my way through the seering Asian summer. Get myself into the right place and with a bit of luck this can happen. My current SO took about a month of once-a-week dates. I tried to instigate it earlier and she knows full well I wouldve done it the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 03:35 PM
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It's ok advice to make you feel ok about being an average chump so there is a use for it. It's not of any use to someone who wants to improve themself. Through my career, I had a lot of feel-good, carry on youre doing great advice early on. I guess this was because people thought I needed to build my confidence in the field and that worked. However, when it came to stepping up there was so much in the way of bad habits and so much I didnt know about myself. The real improvement didnt come until …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 01:29 PM
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I've been to them before , and most girls claim it's a red flag and they wouldn't go out with a guy that had used them. So I keep quiet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:59 AM
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I moved to another country for a woman once. Not a good idea. The problem with big sacrifices like that is the one benefitting from it feels like they owe you a debt, and if there are negative consequences they are burdened with guilt when it wasn't their fault . Wouldn't do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:54 AM
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I live in a very big city, and cos I'm white here I get stared at a lot and strangers come and talk to me quite a lot. It gets very tiresome and annoying when you just wanna be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 12:22 AM
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Well then you should definitely tell your friend, they've set you up for a shitty one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:28 PM
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Did you meet her online? If so, did you vet a little ? "What do you do for work? Where do you live? Do you live alone?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:03 AM
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Right, that is what I mean. We are out of touch with young people today. I've read many article threads about porn and I always think this kind of rant sounds like hysteria. "Porn is corrupting young men and giving them unrealistic expectations". It sounds like my parents when I was starting to be sexually active. They got together as teens, and to them realising that young people were hooking up freely was a sign of the downfall of sexual relations in society. It just sounds like "kids these da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:54 AM
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The trouble is that you have trickle truth, so you dont get an idea of their n count until you have committed, usually. Im over all that pretty much as nearly without fail all the women Ive met since turning 30 have had a few ONS and a few serious relationships. Extremes are rare. The girl I had with the lowest N count cheated on me anyway. I've slept with enough women now that I dont feel jealous about their N counts, and now Im a bit older it is almost inconceivable that Id meet a woman around…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:35 AM
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You sound like all the other people who have been out of the dating game for too long and get paranoid about what has changed. Porn is brainwashing guys blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:17 PM
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I just realised a few things here (im a guy) I dont think about vaginas often at all. Boobs, asses and blow jobs yeah but not vaginas if I never had to lick another pussy in my life, I wouldnt miss it. I dont hate doing it but I wouldnt miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 04:02 PM
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I think that a lot of them are not full of sex, because marriage is often the pre-cursor to children and etc, a bit disruptive to sex. My picture of the average marriage, say after 10 years or so, is one of not that much sex but they are more fulfilled from being in a legit family. Few people, when asked, will tell you it is easy or even an enviable way of life. They seem both happy and unhappy. Happy at having some kind of stability and some kind of goal to focus on, unhappy that they are no lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 03:45 PM
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Because they are vague platitudes very open to interpretation, and perhaps not at all easy to take on board. I dont want to dump on your lovely sounding relationship with your wife but you make some good examples of the vagueness of such advice... Example: my wife asked what I was passionate about when we first met I told her the Green Bay Packers which is true.............. What you're saying is be yourself but a moderate version of yourself? Im not sure what you're saying. It sounds like you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 03:08 PM
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Perhaps not but you can change your looks somewhat. You can get ripped and work on your image.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 04:28 PM
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Well if you live in a very populated area this is one of the problems. Essentially there are loads and loads of people all with about the same level of achievements, personalities, pasts and futures. It is a lot of fun but you realise that you arent anything unique. Few people are particularly unique or even better than the next man, so things like looks are the deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 02:29 PM
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This might be a good book for gettting girls to break out of that. But it's bad advice to tell a guy to break his girl out of that, rather than work well with the material at hand. I agree unless you can communicate in a sexy way. For example, you could show her how you masturbate via some kind of scenario/role play. A bad idea is to say "well, I read this book and it says we should watch each other flick off in order to learn zzzzz" Communication is always a good idea, but doing it that explici…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:27 PM
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I disagree with this unless you are surrounded by shallow people. Women will respect your achievements the same as men do. Typically, the next person's achievements are not as impressive as they would like to think. I have a friend who always used to talk about his 2 master's degrees thinking they'd impress everyone, when clearly no one gave a shit man or woman. Half the time, people cannot even relate to what you've done so they cannot understand it properly. What you might be talking about is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:20 PM
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1: What do you think that all the top TRP guys actually look like? The ones Ive seen have all looked pretty decent. 2: How much ass do you think they actually pull? They talk a big game. My brother made this comment: Given that successful people with 59 girlfriends don't have time to write 4 page daily Reddit rants, I recommend taking everything you read on there with a grain of salt. It feels like quite a lot of posts are exaggerated or embellished. I dont pay too much attention to the field re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:03 PM
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Yeah you're confusing it with something else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:39 AM
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Well don't take this the wrong way but I don't think a comparison to red pill will be worth anything if you haven't read that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 04:23 AM
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From the examples you have posted, this seems like advice for women on the nuts'n'bolts of sex. Fair enough, doesnt seem to contradict red pill. The more feminine you are, the more masculine your husband will be... To do this be as feminine as possible when you're together. Make an effort to be soft, gentle, delicate, and receptive. The more you act like the woman you are, the sexier you'll feel and the more attractive you'll be to your man. [W]hen a wife relinquishes control of when, how, and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:27 AM
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Women provide fun and relaxation. Massages, blow jobs, something nice to look at. Sometimes they smell good. Boobies are nice to feel. I enjoy the trivial and banal conversation sometimes, it helps me to unwind after long days of difficult work discussions and endless meetings. Sometimes they cook well, and I definitely enjoy eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:37 AM
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I used to hang out with a group of guys older than me, so I had a bunch of mentors. It was really good, cos I was out and about when most people my age hadnt even started. We used to do the wing-man and the common goal was for everyone to hook up before the night had finished, which we usually achieved. The result was I had quite a lot of action with women older than me. I lost my virginity to someone nearly double my age, and had girlfriends older than me throughout high school and into college…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:09 AM
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Probably, but they arent any more gossipy and judgemental than others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:55 AM
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Old enough to bleed old enough to breed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:54 AM
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We met before so there isn't much of a chance of embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 01:34 AM
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I'm a guy and recently started a new relationship. I've got 4 or 5 girls who I met over the few months before I started it who message me every so often flirting and asking to meet me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 01:30 AM
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Generally people will go for someone in the same economic bracket. This will make their lifestyles compatible, they'll have more goals and ideals in common, they'll be maintaining a similar status quo. They probably had a similar education and likely enjoy similar things. The difference is men dont realise it, therefore it is less on their list of demands. Without exception Ive always gone out with women in a similar socioeconomic bracket. I didnt realise that until quite recently, as it just pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 12:49 AM
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What is attracting you to it in the first place? For me, I got stung once too many times and wanted to think a bit deeper about relationships. Having a bunch of friends in happy relationships wasn't helping me. Is there a particular reason you want to evaluate this aspect of your life? Also,what age is your general social group? You offer little context for your examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 12:44 AM
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The SMP is swung in women's favour yes. The bigger picture though is a little bit bleaker. For as much freedom as women have gained, they now have a harder time getting true commitment. If that is what they want, then it must suck. Single women my age are approaching the final period of time in which they can start a family. There is a noteable amount of them, and it doesnt look hopeful. The SMP is better for men though too. In the 50s picture you paint, Im not sure where you get the ideas from,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 05:53 PM
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I was in a relationship in which she tried to get me to pay for stuff but I wasnt having that. She was making more money than me. She was a young feminist who was confused about lots of things, also she was out for what she could get. That was akin to temper tantrums though, like she would get agitated about something then go all feminazi. I've pretty much always been quite firm about spending money equally, because the women around me have always been on an equalish financial footing. I have ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 02:55 AM
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This is exactly what I've been saying. Tons of advice for women out there that is equivalent to red pill, and it is fully accepted. Guys trying to advise each other is shamed and dismissed unless it is acceptable to the female narrative. Free speech - on our terms only
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:52 AM
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Now you're stretching. If you routinely pump n dump through lying then you're probably a bit of an ass but it's only if you're boasting about it that anyone need know. It's only in the way you frame it that makes you look bad. It's only when you get to stuff like cheating on a long term that you're being a real ass. Maybe it's a cultural difference? People from the US seem to have a bigger hangover from Christianity and are more conservative than Europeans. If I went out tomorrow, got laid and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 04:07 AM
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I think the point I was tryng to make was that attractive people can "routinely pump & dump and lie to get women into bed" and still not really be considered as bad guys. Cos let's be honest, it happens with both guys and girls. Doing that doesnt make you a bad person. I could go out and pump and dump someone tomorrow and it'd all be forgotten in a few days by both parties. I've been led on many times by women who just wanted a bit of an ego boost or something. Fuck it, it doesnt make them a hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:34 PM
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Ive seen plenty of talk disparaging playas and fuckboys. We emotionally trick and abuse women or something.You guys certainly dont think chads are nice cos you spend lots of time explaining why they arent worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:00 PM
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Ok, you read more of this shit than me, well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 05:46 PM
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I agree with this but the thing is it isn't hard to be a 'good' man. The majority of people I know are ok. Polite, stable and sane. They have their own strengths and weaknesses but I know few true cunts. It's a blue pill way of thinking that most attractive guys who get a lot of action are not good people. Somewhere along the line they end up thinking that the guys getting laid the most are assholes because they aren't as 'nice'. The truth is that there is quite a bit of leeway in real life to n…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 12:44 PM
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Screen them for what exactly? If, like the title says for 'leading you on', then don't give away your time too freely early on. Dont spend more than a few hours with her before she puts out , keep the texting to a minimum, dont give her an open end on when you meet ("Im free every night this week, when is good for you?"), dont be available at short notice, don't get drawn into any elaborte dates before she has put out. If she passes this then congrats, she probably isnt leading you on. Ive been …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 01:04 AM
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It can happen but I think it is more common to be seeing someone casually then make them your partner. It's how it has always happened for me. It's always a slow build.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 05:41 PM
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Maybe it is a cultural difference but most of your points seem to go against my experience. I'd like some input on this but a lot of the time a timeline for an LTR would be Friends/acquaintances/met somehow online - FWB - dating - LTR I've never gone out to find an LTR straight off the bat, it's always built up from getting to know someone. Furthermore, I've never met a girl who made me wait for she committed, it has always been like let's see if it's good first. And for heaven's sake, if AF isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:05 AM
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Mike needs to lift more and learn some PUA. Neg don't beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:22 AM
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Good, Red Pill line of thought there, it's kinda healthy. Unfortunately, lots of people dont have such awareness of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 05:35 AM
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Ah, the 'I am more chilled out than you' fallacy. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:56 AM
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I think I outlined quite clearly that I have financial standards regarding relationships. Perhaps try reading a little closer and trolling a little less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:06 AM
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Good god. I dislike watching 10-minute TED talks so Im not going to sit through 2 hours of some twat with his hand in his pocket complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:28 AM
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Of course they are not worthless, just look at this sub. Lots of women are getting humanity degrees and then using them to find jobs which are so easy that they can spend all day messing around on the internet pontificating on ideas they pretend have no value to them. Having just put in a 50 hour work week full of stress and high stakes, that sounds pretty sweet to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:25 AM
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Ive found it quite a few times but it always wears off. Isnt there some kind of famous study about it? We are chemically built to fall in love but to have it wear off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:22 AM
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It is just a subreddit. If it influences small-minded people then it is up to them to change. People who cant think for themselves will find whatever they can to latch onto. It is a deeper problem than a subreddit. America could try educating its children more honestly and train them to be open-minded for starters. They clearly have many problems in this area. It isnt on me to change the views of someone I will never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:19 AM
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I had a kind of experience that was like this. I lost quite a lot of weigt over a few months. I went from being a little bit desperate to having a wide selection. Yes I changed my habits accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:16 AM
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'Players' in itself is a derogatory term. It means someone who fakes it to get sex no? There are guys who are able to sleep with lots of women without faking it. I have done quite well in the last few years and quite a few of them still contact me on friendly terms, and I have lots of female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:14 AM
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There are few people are through and through alpha to the core. This rarely works, and youll see this often talked about in the red pill. So it is a redundant question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:09 AM
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So your point is what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:59 AM
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Often people want to go for something exotic. In the UK, lots of girls like fucking guys from a different ethnicity. I live in Asia and Ive lost count of the amount of girls who are interested in me simply because I am white. They want something different. The guys do too though, although it isnt as easy to get access. Muslim girls are by and large repressed and would get/have been murdered by their family for sleeping with white guys. Muslim males are left free mostly. It is still quite rare to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:57 AM
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Im not MGTOW, but Im quite vocal about not wanting to get married or have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:43 AM
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Put your money where your mouth is? You and your boyfriend go on a wank abstinence for a week, and then you report back on how sex changed (if at all)?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:42 AM
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That could be a side effect to it although like you seem to be saying, it would be futile to say that this will bring feminism to its knees. It is more like marriage doesnt have any worth anymore, it causes a lot of unhappiness in men, the laws and odds are stacked against us, we are not really equipped financially as the odds are stacked against us that way, and on top of all that there is a constant stream of casual sex to be had if we know how to go about it. So what benefits are there? But p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:39 AM
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My parents tried a bit but I think by and large they thought it was better to learn it from experience. They often say that life is very different from when they were young so most of the pickles I have been in they cannot understand anyway. My life would've been a lot better if I'd had better sexual guidance. Sounds like youre blaming your parents for your own failures. They cant hold your hand through everything. Imagine your mom saying to you "well, I like it when your dad pulls my hair and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:35 AM
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I would class myself as red but I think this is paranoia. I have options as well, but I did not realise it when I was blue. I was terrified of change. You need to realise you do have alternatives to your current relationship. More or less options is not important I think, but that you have them. I know for a fact my current thing could go under and Id have something new very fast, wouldnt mind it in fact. Embrace change and realise life is always in flux.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:32 AM
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They both seemed to think it had an effect. They could both climax from piv but I had to bang away like a mofo. The tongue worked better yes. Most guys don't seem to consider this a problem, from what I've read... 😉 Read more. There is the nofap sub, dedicated to stopping jerking it. While I cant honestly tell you about my ex-gfs, I can most definitely tell you if I jerk off a lot then my dick gets numb. If I dont jerk it, sex gets multiple times hornier and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:11 AM
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Exactly. This is why we are turning away from having children. You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:33 AM
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For me and where I come from, it is usually white knight faggots who are vocal about being a feminist. It isnt a badge to really be worn. However, I dont know any guys who really oppose the ideas that women should have rights and be free, they just hate the fucking dickheads who go on about it all the time. Most women as well, dislike people who mark themselves out as feminists because they seem to be addressing insecurities and a chip on their shoulder. Most of the normal women I know realise t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:29 AM
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I didnt always know that was nonsense, I was sort of hoping for it for most of my life. Red Pill helped me to shatter that nonsense, to see reality if you like. I do think however that it's possible to have satisfying long term relationships and marriages under certain circumstances. So you're comfortable knowing that your partner could stray under your nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:21 AM
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LTRs are fine and can bring a lot of emotional satisfaction. Marriages can be fine too depending on the couple. It's also nonsense that ALL marriages are ruined the moment a woman starts thinking of someone else, if that was the case, there would be no happy marriages and we know they exist no matter how few they are. But thinking that your partner will never, ever think of someone else is nonsense. Of course a woman isn't yours, what the hell does that even mean? It means dont get dependent on …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:20 AM
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It's an internal lack of confidence in some way. He wants something he can't get and has taken it to heart. Usually, instead of addressing the problem he turns to sulking and desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:06 AM
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Desensitization? Im not working with a large sampe size admittedly. I had 2 exes who used vibes a lot and I had to bang them hard to get them off. Current gf doesnt use them and is very sensitive down there. As for myself, there is no doubt about it. I used to jerk off a lot and it would take longer to climax. And how would you really know if they're using toys to satisfy themselves when you're not around? I lived with the two that did, and they were quite open about it and I somewhat encouraged…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:00 AM
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They do - but perhaps not particularly explicitly. For men it is rare to settle with someone who is abovr your economic/class bracket so we arent thinking along those lines. "I want to marry a woman who is better off than me so I can be secure in the future" would sound ridiculous coming from a dude. From a woman I dont like to hear it as such but it is accepted in society. But you don't see guys dating down in terms of class all too often either. Personally, I havent ever. But Ive never (until …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 01:37 AM
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Normal. Bit easy to push over. Thought I should dedicate myself to one woman. Thought the world owed me a living. Since RP days, I got good at standing up for myself, got ahead at work, learned to take blame for my own errors, stopped being passive aggressive, doing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 12:31 AM
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I watched this when someone posted it before, very interesting. The West Germans were under the moral rule of the (catholic?) church and repressed. East Germans (or at least the government) wore their liberal sexuality as a badge of honour. I'm not sure how much you could believe everything that they announced though - it did seem like a bit of a propoganda war. Although Im not well-read on the topic I was surprised at how nice the East Germans seemed. It seemed good in the way that people as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:03 PM
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It depends more on the individual woman usually. Some view themselves as being some kind of prize that men should have to work for, some use sex as a barometer for their self-worth which is why you don't buy drinks for a girl. Thankfully, some don't have such hang-ups and wanna have sex because they enjoy it as it is. My sister then also gives me a hypothetical scenario that imagine I buy drinks for a girl at a bar and then she goes off to snog some other guy, that it's me that apparently has a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:43 PM
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Nah. But I will say that women who dont use sex toys are far more easy to please than women who use dildos. My current gf doesnt own one, and she is rather easy going to bring to a climax. So I think in future I will demand they do not use sex toys. It works both ways as well, if I am beating off a lot then it takes ages to get off in sex, so I cut back on that. Morally, no arguments from me but I do think not using sex toys makes your sex life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 04:34 AM
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Yeah and I wish him all the best. I think it's a valid point that thinking too much about this stuff could have a negative effect on you, it all depends on the person. If it IS helping though, keep going! If you feel uncomfortable reading it (and OP seems a little) then go ahead and read something else!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 06:34 AM
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Going for a single stroll doesn't make you fit and healthy. Understanding your body and food, and spending a long time forming positive habits does. You don't go for a single stroll and then hang up your walking shoes. It COULD be the start of something positive, it isn't cause to say you've changed your entire life around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 06:04 AM
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Well my idea of the big picture might be skewed but I get the picture that most men and women view sex as being something the woman does to reward the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 06:01 AM
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Why do you think we want your sympathy? I don't want women to apologise for anything, I don't really blame them for anything , in fact I rather like them. Real red pill is realising your past problems were mostly on you, cunt mothers aside. My problems were caused nearly entirely by own stupidity and my future problems will mostly be as well. Understanding women's nature doesn't mean making them apologize for what they do, it is realising your own flaws and changing accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:56 AM
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Any where the woman slaps the man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:40 AM
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Its huge when he has actually banged one. "Talking" with women is nothing, and won't make you any less of a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:21 AM
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Yes, but again, most men are pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:20 AM
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I'm hardly Chad anyway. But talking with 3 girls and having one date arranged is hardly reason to feel like you've made it. That would be false optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:19 AM
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They could be because they might not place their entire self worth in how successful they are sexually, which would make them well balanced and decent humans. Too many people judge themselves on how hot they think they are, and how much attention they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:14 AM
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You're talking with 3 girls and have a date tomorrow. No offence but that isn't exactly Chad. I've slept with 6 girls so far this year but have just made one a gf. The others keep contacting me for sex. Get off your computer and out into the real world, then come back and read when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:11 AM
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Well we have birth control these days, so parentage doesn't need to factor. If I were judging the women I've boned on how good a mother they would be, I would have only slept with a fraction of them. Why should it be up to the woman to decide what is best for society? Lots of women are shit mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:06 AM
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It all comes to this "sex is transactional" shit that is not helping gender relations. Most of the women I've been with have loved sex and been back for more. The ones who feel like it is a reward need to be hard nexted. Women for the most part just lie back and enjoy the ride. It should be up to the men to decide if they deserve the effort we put in. Alas, most men are pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:56 AM
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Well it is a case of me being blamed for nothing me or my ancestors took part in. Where I'm from there is a long history of men and women being fucked over by the establishment, and bonding together for small but significant victories. Feminism tries to put a divide between us where we need to stick together. . And it is consistently striking how badly read the Blue Pillers and feminist types in general are about history. They swallowed their college gender studies theory whole. It is a little b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:49 AM
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I mean, to just like and support women would not be very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:13 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:12 AM
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Its not for them so I'd be surprised if they found anything interesting. I don't read womens magazines, cos tips on how to do my make up and how to give a good blowjob aren't my area of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:12 AM
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If it's affordable then go ahead. There is no compromise to your RMV because no one ever need know. I've slept with a few prostitutes and I just tell girls I'm dating that I would never do it. It doesn't make any difference. There is no way they could ever find out . Having been single for a while, quite often it winds up being cheaper anyway. And it is highly convenient as most girls you need at least a few hours to get to bed, and few girls are ever interesting to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:06 AM
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At some level I do hate them to be honest. But it's part of the passion I guess. It would be gay to just like women and it wouldn't be very interesting. Guys like that are cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:03 AM
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There really is no winning in helping people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 11:27 PM
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Well you actually did something useful. You didnt just sit on your fat ass taking the credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:55 PM
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I've been a Project Boyfriend before and it was a bit of a fucking nightmare. One thing I cant stand is when someone tries to take the credit for something I did, and women after that kind of thing love doing that. Even if they literally did nothing to help, they think their just being present and sucking your dick occasionally was motivation to push you to the next level. Retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:13 PM
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'Mansplaining' pisses me off because I work with some egotistical type people who do that shit to everyone. A few are women. It's a ridiculous word but thankfully respectable people dont seem to take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 03:53 PM
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They fucking constantly interrupt people and cut into decent discussions with humble brags or inane babble if that counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:07 PM
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College isn't really real life , so don't go too hard on yourself. This type of emotional thing is a luxury that you won't have time for when you get into the workforce. Just learn from it, move on, look back on it in a few years as some dumb shit you did when you were still just a kid.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 02:38 AM
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It won't return because it never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 11:09 AM
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Bigger cities attract more hot women, so it should be balancing out. I think it does in the way that everyone can be more picky. Guys get more picky as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:16 AM
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She punched him, stabbed him with a bread knife (not a butter knife - Google it!) And threw glass jars at him. She was attempting to seriously injure him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:08 AM
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There are lots of cases similar to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:06 AM
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She absolutely should get some time, or the equivalent sentence a man would get. This isn't just a punch. Its a punch, stabbing and also she was throwing glass objects at him. What more needs to be done? Not giving her jail time does promote this idea yes. Not that I mean it will increase such attacks necessarily, but it is a clear bias. I think rich white women are so privileged now that they all know this upper hand they have. My view is they all have this privilege in the back of their mind. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:03 AM
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This is exactly the kind of women's POV writing that has taken over how society thinks. It is fine for women to blame men for their troubles but men blaming women is sexist. All of the examples given could be interpreted as the woman's fault but no, let's blame the men. There’s 34-year-old Kate, who works in finance downtown. “She’s beautiful, smart, talented . . . everything going for her,” her colleague tells me. “But her boyfriend doesn’t feel settled in his career, so she spent thousands of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 02:20 AM
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As far as I can see, this is true enough. In the US the average age of marriage was 22 for men and 20 for women in the 1960s. Now it stands a full 6 years higher for both sexes. You could argue that it is a worthy trade off though, as if you marry a woman in her early 20s then you are marrying someone at their sexual peak. But it seems difficult to disagree that there was a lot of sexual repression. Britain was famous for it. A few months ago I claimed that BDSM is a fad brought about by the int…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 01:54 AM
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They are no better judges of character than men. Don't fall for that mythologising of women as having extra senses and abilities. They can only judge you on what they know about you, and it is up to you how that is distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:48 AM
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It seems to change with age in my experience at least. Young guys get very dedicated and oneitised quite easily, and are very romantic. Women seem to wisen up about relationships earlier on, and become more pragmatic at quite a young age. Guys get burned a few times until they become more pragmatic. But "love" is a dodgy concept anyway. We experience it in a lot of different ways. The strongest I have felt, for example, was when doing a LDR over about a year. I would see my gf once every 3 weeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:17 AM
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I think that many see men as servants to the family, which in turn could be interpreted as being servants to women. Women are not all vindictive tyrants though, and half the time a guy getting into a mess like that brought it on himself. There are certain expectations on certain roles in society, and sometimes they are not for you. In that case, avoid taking on the role. For example, if you meet a woman who puts unreasonable demans on you, find one that does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:37 PM
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I think the more common situation is the attraction fades but people stick around because they committed. This is not an easy thing to deal with if it happens to you, and causes a lot of resentment. It seems fairly regular for women to have a strong attraction to a guy, only for it to fade and yet they hold onto the relationship because there are other things they want (friendship, a certain lifestyle, an LTR for the comfort of having one). Essentially going AF to BB. What a lot of women seem to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:29 PM
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Muscles get a better reaction in bed. They are aesthetically pleasing and feel good to touch, so they are likely to get a positive reaction. Id say more women like them than do not. Lifting gives you other benefits as well, increased testosterone being one. A nice chilled feeling after is another. You get more confident. On top of that, if you are serious about it you will start to look carefully at your diet so this will only improve your overall well-being, so it isnt bad advice. It definitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:19 PM
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Nothing wrong with having sex with objects, as long as you're careful about it. http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/queensland/tweed-heads-firies-use-angle-grinder-to-free-mans-penis-from-ring-spanner/news-story/b402fab06cf3585381292379c98f947e
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:38 AM
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We have sex with humans, not objects. Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:40 AM
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Reap the rewards of it, I say. If this were a more patriarchal time, Id be married with a bunch of kids by now. There's a high chance I would have married one of my first girlfriends, so id have an n count of about 3 or 4. Had this happened, Id have been tied into the job I had in say, my mid-20s, which was a soul-destroying office job. I probably wouldnt have travelled, I definitely wouldnt be living abroad. These exotic women Ive had the pleasure of getting to know would just be a cliche on my…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:15 AM
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There are pros and cons to both situations, like most things. Fwbs once they know their place, are far more honest and filter less things than a girlfriend would. They practice less deception and manipulation. This is true, cos they dont have any stake in lying. You do have to realise that they could be having sex with other guys though and that they would lie about it. Also, a negative point I found with spinning plates is the effort. You do still have to spend time with them even if it is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:26 AM
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You may have found someone who'll be there even in your darkest hours. "may have" being a very important conditional here. You are equally as likely, if not more likely, to have found someone who will piggyback while the going is good then run away when you get to your darkest hour, leaving you fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:18 AM
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10 bucks ? Where do you go for dates ? Burger King?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:21 AM
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Women don't often exchange dinner and drinks for sex. They might get them paid for but it isnt wise to expect sex because of it. Very naive in fact... There are lots of women around who expect men to buy things for them, they are best given a wide birth. They have a whore mindset and will likely just piss you off. But "Most women exchange dinner or drinks for sex." Isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:19 AM
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Americans generally don't have any clue what is going on in the outside world beyond the vague caricatures they are peddled on their TVs , so it is well outside of their radar. In Europe it is dodgy to say anything that isn't pro-multicultural, as the OP indicates. The Rotherham issue was especially creepy. Firstly it was covered up, then they inverted it to say it was racism, then went to saying "we shouldn't focus on Muslims here, it is MEN that did it ". They tend to go for the easier picking…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:51 PM
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When I see the arguments, they're usually like "kids these days think anal sex is the new PIV, they think choking is normal, they expect women to have bleached assholes, they think it's normal to blah blah blah." I don't believe it, it just sounds like more "kids these days" jibber jabber, the same as when we were kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:06 PM
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It's inevitable you'll be angry from time to time. The best advice I have seen from these parts though is make yourself your life's mission. If you're sitting there stewing in anger, then you aren't doing enough to improve. Sorting out your career, getting in shape, pursuing a couple of rewarding hobbies will leave you with not even enough time to spin a few plates, let alone to sit there stewing in anger and regret. Sometimes I'd fucking love to wallow in it, to get all bent out of shape over a…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:01 PM
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Nonsense. Mainstream media has been pushing the ability to make the woman orgasm as the holy grail for years now. Not that I'm saying women shouldn't enjoy sex, but you're a failure if your woman isn't having huge multiple orgasms these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:24 PM
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Ah yes, the golden times of being engaged. There were many highlights to my previous engagement . My ex's father interrogating me and openly questioning.my intentions, going to meet her distant relatives even she didn't know, the financial planning, the "discussions" about how much the wedding would cost, the way she pushed me into being a better fiance by complaining I didn't spend enough money on the "relationship", how she wanted to stop me going out, the eventual slow meltdown - that took lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:14 PM
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Who gives a fuck? Havent people got anything better to do than witch hunt? Get a job where you dont have to spend your days getting worked up about stupid shit people say on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:59 PM
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Id say it is a little bit mean-spirited yes. But it would be fun to see how angry they got after you told them you had been lying all along. It'd be one hell of a Candid Camera video.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:52 PM
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So pretty much like when women started to enter the workforce en mass then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:47 PM
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How uninteresting it is to go shopping for stuff, except for food. Women always wanna make a day out of going to fucking IKEA, why not just order it online and stay in bed? Also, they always wanna go out for walks. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:28 PM
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I don't porn to make me feel inadequate, thank you very much. I don't buy this "porn gives unrealistic expectations" jabber though frankly. We used to watch porn when we were 14, on VHS, and we used to laugh at how obviously cheesey and fake it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:26 PM
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It's rare, in my experience, for women to really be disgusted by porn like this. They'll mock it and make jokes about it but they don't really act that prudish about it. If you get down to chatting about it, plenty of them watch it themselves. Either with boyfriends or alone. Its usually based on the appropriacy of the situation. If it's inappropriate, they will make a disgusted comment , obviously. By no means is porn a male-only habit and I've discussed this many times. I haven't had a girlfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:21 PM
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This could all be true, but what are they getting at? Call me paranoid but it seems that this is all aiming towards a campaign to get women to be paid more than men for the same work. I dont see what the argument is if women are being paid fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:59 AM
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Im sure lots of guys would do the same. Your first instinct for being with someone with a career like that might be "better just support her in that. She will have a nice future and she will surely appreciate a lot of support ." Being in a powerful role at work might not translate to being powerful outside of work. You might expect she knows what she wants and is driven in all areas. Reality is, both men and women who are high-flyers are equally prone to vulnerability and weakness as those who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:20 AM
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women like 'fifty shades of grey' because it gave them permission to openly desire sex and orgasms. (I personally hated it and couldn't get far into it, but I understand that basic thing). It's hard for me, as it is for a lot of women, to expect for a man to take the time to get me to orgasm. Sex is so often all about men and their orgasms. It's the porn is set up, too - men's orgasms. Fifty Shades was a fight against that mindset. The right for women to have an orgasm has been with us for a lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:34 AM
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A sense of entitlement can be destructive in surprising ways. What I hadn’t known was how destructive it can be to love. I felt as if I was a big deal as the new chief marketing officer at my company. Surely, I had thought, my firefighter boyfriend would wait an hour or two for me without complaint. But if he had, would we still be together today? It has been said that we teach people how to treat us. That night, Derrick taught me how to treat him. And by doing so, he also taught me — perhaps fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:42 AM
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You've semi-internalised some ideas and now you're moving on. That's probably a good sign. You're looking to try flying alone. Will you still come to this sub too? I haven't been reading it a lot lately. Sometimes it is motivating but it is repetitive. It is probably meant to be. This sub was engaging at first but now it is tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:30 PM
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Yeah, at least they're getting it hey? Unfortunately, it is often not great quality and with people they arent that attracted to, and who are attracted to them even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:11 PM
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If it were in this current sociocultural context? Women would probably just be sucking more dick or getting it in the ass. There was (is?) a stereotype about Greek girls who were saving themselves for marriage - they just take it in the ass instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 12:42 PM
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Sometimes they have have body for TV but a face for radio. We have different tastes in what we want as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:21 AM
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This is genius. I'm cucking myself with my alter-ego. Is there a subreddit for people with split personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:36 AM
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There's likely some cultural differences. If that is what you see then good for them. I think the idea of the wall being the end of the good times is pretty vindictive and misplaced. Its a sign of something you Americans seem to love to do - place far too much emphasis on sexual success as overall personal happiness. Men and women into their 40s for the most part are not tying their whole identity up with being able to get laid, surely? Therefore the idea of the wall being a crushing blow is mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:24 PM
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It's a skewed interpretation of an already dubious concept. I've slept with older women and they always come across as a bit sad and clinging onto their youth. They're not in their prime like women in their 20s are and they know they'd be ditched quickly if such a girl were to come up against them. Its not the same as the cock carousel. They get an ego boost but it is temporary, they won't have those same young guys chasing them anymore. Showering them with attention and spoiling them. They're f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 07:07 PM
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You'll probably never live that lifestyle again but there are still lots of chances around. College was a great time for me , I drank like a fish and took lots of ecstasy. But I hardly had any money (worked shit jobs all the way to get by) and I got sick of hanging around with nerds. When I started working, I was going out 2/3 times a week, meeting lots of new people and could afford nice holidays and lots of DVDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:41 PM
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Women have the morality of rats. They band together when it is necessary but they'll eat each other's eyes if it gets them ahead. Men are held to higher standards, because otherwise society would fall apart
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:56 AM
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Men moan a lot but women take it to another level. They manage to drone on and on without humour , long past everyone obviously has stopped listening. There's a big fat woman I work with who actually drowns out your thoughts with her whining. Even if you actually resolve whatever pointless petty problem she has, she still manages to turn it into a moan. Women are brilliant at finding faults. Men are starting to catch up, cos most men are being raised to be pussies these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:47 AM
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The post was about women, not you dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:58 AM
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Women need a hobby. These days they are mainly working in dull office jobs after their uni career failed to deliver the life they really dreamt of. So they have to do something in between taking customer service calls. They all have internet access now and they miss the heady days of debating in University when people in the real world actually listened to what they have to say. So feminism ticks all the right boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:10 AM
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And never get tired of telling us about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:07 AM
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Women who go on and on about feminism are boring as fuck. 9/10 they're misunderstanding the point or just misdirecting their anger. Very often they're selfish about it and dont give a monkeys about people outside of their own little world eg - dont care about muslim women being abused etc. But more boring than that is men who go on and on about feminism as being some kind of cancer. Learn to own your own shit. It isnt a fucking excuse, get some balls and live your life. Every instance of someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 04:29 AM
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More trolling. What youre saying is not related to the question being asked, and is off-topic. Try paying attention before you start ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:24 AM
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I did it, it doesnt work out if you dont have something good lined up as well. It marked the cards for the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:02 AM
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I've been used for sex a number of times. Usually at parties and whatnot when the girls were drunk. More recently when I suspect the women were just bored and lonely or something. A few times with married women, I guess just so they could scratch an itch?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 11:32 AM
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It's fine as far as I can see. High-value people tend to go for a period of fun during selecting a new partner before settling in with a new partner. There are plenty of benefits to having a stable thing. You dont have to put anything like the effort into seduction as when you are single, and you can build up a good sex life. Mommy doesnt figure really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 11:30 AM
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It's very easy to make friends but I dont have a lot of free time, so unless they are particularly fun or interesting (which is very rare) then I dont want to make the extra effort. Still, I manage to pick some up along the way. I have to say it is admirable how much better they take to the friendzone than men do, obviously not as thirsty and ego-driven as us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 11:24 AM
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There are more than enough! I can go out most nights and find someone who would enjoy it for its own sake. The thrill of it is exciting for many people, doesnt have to be just for the satiating of the sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:47 AM
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My regrets mostly come from the fact that I chose to be tied down for large parts of my twenties and early thirties , because a few times I thought I had found The One. My idea was to find a true friend in a woman and settle down in that way. So it rankles that I used some of my peak years on dedicating myself to women who in the end, didn't care as much as I did about them. Red Pill came along after a nasty break up, and I became aware of the relationship game outside of the kind of bubble I us…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:51 AM
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Some women fall hook, line and sinker for an act. I have fine tuned mine. Its all about how you explain things and present yourself. Then again, that you put thought into how you frame things is a kind of art, so maybe worthy of kudos. You see women getting caught up in obvious bullshit sometimes , but dont we all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:42 PM
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How much of red pill is confirmed truth by a lot of anti-red women. Volatile language is the big no no these days, you just have to be careful not to be blatant about it. how they just don't understand a male perspective is often a little bit exasperating. Its not even their fault really they've been raised that way. Posts from women are always from their point of view, from their idea of life. how bad they are for trolling. My picture of the average PPD woman is 25 - 30, bored and frustrated at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:37 PM
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The point of sex is to lose control, get lost in a fantasy. That's why people talk about trust being key so often. Its also why sex with a regular is better than a ONS. Women react to us, that's how they get off. So seeing you go out of your head in a fantasy shows them that you're into them so it's all good. Not all of them want it to be so volatile though, so use your better judgement.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:50 AM
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https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/that_would_be_telling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:39 AM
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That'd be telling. Approach them romantically of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:58 AM
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Sounds good, but still a poor second to running IMO. If you dont immobilise them with the kick then you better be quick to follow up and knock them out while theyre down, or theyll be back at you and probably determined to carve you into pieces.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:30 AM
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Predictably, this thread is a dick-waving "my martial arts is better than yours" fest. If you do take a martial art, remember not to be a cunt about it ;) . People are already suspicious of martial arts because a lot of people do it to 'make up for something' , and you dont want to push that by going on about it. Imagine your gf telling you the nitty gritty details about her aerobics class. That is about how interesting you are to people who don't give a shit about MA.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:24 AM
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Something along the lines of "women wont be interested in sex if you act like their friend" could have saved me some trouble. Also, paying more attention to my looks would have helped. Furthermore, getting a master's degree earlier would have made me better off by now but whatever. To be honest, I probably received all of the above advice many times, but just didnt listen to it. The joys of youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:08 AM
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It's definitely not common and somewhat stigmatized. There are some stats going around saying that SAHF will end up being divorced more than working ones. I know a few though, and they seem good with it. Ironically, they are doing it because they are far enough advanced in their careers that they can take a few years out without worrying about employability. Their wives are making bank at work. In reality, I imagine this is more the case. Dedicated SAHParents these days need financial and career…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:55 AM
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Best - Kinky sub Asian woman Worst - mouthy feminist American woman who talked a lot about kinky stuff but didnt have the bite to match her bark and was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:50 AM
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Im not convinced women need a lot more though! They need dick, money and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 02:56 AM
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Exactly! "High level". The average Jiujitsu guy maybe less so? Although Im not an expert, and it is perfectly possible that they address this in their training. It seems most serious MA people cross train. I definitely think ground work is important. I'll tell you the biggest advantage BJJ might have - you can end a skirmish without hurting your attacker too much. That is a skill that could save you a lot of trouble.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:54 AM
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But there is a whole magazine industry for women based around how to look good for men and keep them happy. Women talk about that shit all day long. It is very recently that men have had any forum at all to discuss it and it is still very much demonized and looked down upon to even think about relationship strategies if you're male. I don't think it indicates complexity as much as it shows that there is a dominant female narrative in our society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 02:30 AM
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Different yes, but not more complicated. Most guys are a lot deeper and have a stronger sense of honour than girls do, for example. This is not simple. 90% of great art has been produced by men, and continues to be even long after women have had an equal chance to make it. We are by far more creative and romantic.Don't do men down !
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:41 PM
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That is bullshit you've devoured whole from being force fed shit about the Mysterious Female. Wake up. When you start to realise women are no more complex than men, your life starts to get a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:34 PM
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We mythologise females . "They're so mysterious and complex ". This cascades down into how we raise them which gives an intense bias and large amounts of favouritism towards girls over boys. We are starting to see the fruits of it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:32 PM
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This is just more "back in the day" bullshit. Your ancestors were probably beta to the ruling classes, just like you are. They were worse off in so many more ways, and lacked so many skills that you possess now. Its just nostalgia for something you will never understand, so I advise not dwelling on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:30 PM
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Because young girls have to be protected to the point where we don't have time to care about young boys. The boy always wants it - but most of the time so does the girl. Basically we are overprotective of female sexuality and don't care about male sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:24 PM
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I lost some weight a few years ago. I got a better job and since have had the pick of women. The difference is profound. The respect I can command is so much more now I'm in shape, and people defer to me far more often. Its actually ridiculous. For women, it is possibly even greater. A girl I work with just got promoted to management for no other discernable reason than she is hotter and more confident than the next girl. Other girls more talented than her have been passed over several times . I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:17 PM
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I read a Krav Maga blog about knife attacks, realistically you are going to get stabbed a few times before you halt the attack. You'll live but you'll catch a few. A common denominator from MA experts seems to be fighting is actually a foolish game. They know that in a real situation anything can happen. I treat it as a hobby and hope I'll never need it....but a bit more confident if a situation does come up. But I've lived in some bad areas and not got into too much trouble, because I'm big, ug…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 11:08 PM
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I think you're misdefining needy. Needy means that she has a core need for attention and comfort beyond a normal healthy amount, which means she is going to be hard work. Non-needy people still appreciate these things but they don't have a deficit to make up. A needy woman puts excess demands on your time . If she prioritises you over family and friends would she not expect the same from you? Would she not expect undying loyalty in return? Needy implies attention whore as well, so she could be o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:57 PM
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Same with girls though probably. 99% of the time the underage girl actively wants sex with the man, probably pursues it and reacts at every step of engagement. Enjoys it. Then her protectors find out and suddenly it's trauma. But we have to protect girls, don't we? Boys can deal with it themselves and man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:51 PM
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I'd say consent is implied,.Look after yourself better in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:30 PM
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I think jiu-jitsu is quality stuff, but if you watch MMA you see those guys taking a lot of punches before they get the submission locked in. You're talking 5 or 6 good digs at least, which would be enough to fuck the average man right up.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:17 PM
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Speed seems to pay more dividends than strength in fighting
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:11 PM
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I do a Krav Maga class with sparring. You need to get past the first level test but any good institution will have sparring. This is a common misunderstanding about Krav Maga. When you get to sparring though, you realise the difference between training and actual fighting.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:09 PM
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I'd also be weary to take at face value every guy with a very violent rape fetish as being "strictly into the fantasy with zero interest in the real thing" Except with this, usually it is women having the fantasy. Which makes it acceptable and therein lies your rule for feminists. If it is kink that benefits the woman it is fine, if it just for the man's pleasure it is weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 04:30 AM
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Dating women tends to take its toll. My last LTR aged me about 15 years over about 4 actual years. When I walked in on her having a shit I went gray overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:53 PM
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Interesting advice here, red pill-esque but not all the way red and more balanced and humane. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:49 PM
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For me the proof is in the pudding. If someone starts reading and applying red pill stuff and sees an improvement then they are going to invest into it more. You can say there is evidence for this or that, but when something actually works for you then that becomes more salient. The thing is there isn't much of an alternative. People enjoy sparring with the ideas but don't offer any other solutions, so therefore I'll stick with what is working. Maybe you guys could do some alternative solutions …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:53 PM
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This is assuming high n count women just have one offs and such though. Which is bullshit most likely. If a woman has sex with a lot of guys then she probably has numerous fuckbuddies who she goes with multiple times. If you've ever had a fuckbuddy, often it does get a bit kinky because you both know youre just in it for the fucking , so why hold back ? Whilst things do get kinky in an LTR sometimes, I think discounting high n count women for this is a bit silly. If they want wild, kinky sex the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:46 PM
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Well yeah, if they're deluded then it's not going to work . If they're just being realistic it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:33 AM
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When I was dating a lot most older women (talking mid 30s to early 40s here) seemed to be accepting of anyone who isnt mental and is decent company. Their dreams of finding Mr Perfect have long gone so they're looking for a companion. They get a bit more realistic . Some, though, don't grow up and still expect the same treatment they got in their early 20s. On top of that , they have a long list of standards built up from previous failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:31 AM
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Nah. If they will go and date anyone then they could be getting into LTRs that don't go anywhere with people who it will never work out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:26 AM
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Much like n count , it depends on the level of honesty you think you're getting from the woman. Most guys are not going to be able to tell a girls n count, nor are they going to be able to gauge a woman's past relationship behaviour. You quite often get trickle truth, which is where for example she says "I never cheat ", then when you get a while down the line out it comes (usually indicating she isn't so excited to be with you anymore). This goes for men as well I guess. No one entering a new r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:03 AM
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You come here on your own initiative. And you do mind it existing. Saying 'I dont mind it existing as long as it doesnt influence people' is off, because it is supposed to influence people. Again, Im not sure where you get Red Pill = Tory voter from. The majority of the readers seem to be American. Also, Tories are very often middle class wealth hoarders. A lot of the working class areas are Red, look at Liverpool. In my mind, a lot of the people who vote Tory are doing so because they are alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:49 AM
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It's just another mating disqualification. Using Red Pill only works on 'damaged women' so it is invalid. We don't like Red Pill guys, so anyone who dates them must be a mess and have problems.They only date low-value women, I know this because I am a high-value woman with zero baggage or issues and I don't date men who I imagine to read Red Pill. Please provide peer-reviewed research on the high-value of your dating if you claim to do so, otherwise it is invalid. I'm bored at work and miss coll…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:34 AM
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Again though, these are not difficult skills. Most of us acquire these skills early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:13 AM
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This is not because women are less capable, but instead for other reasons, such as workplace discrimination, women being more likely to pick lower paying jobs, the "motherhood disadvantage" (can't work as long or network as well due to motherhood expectation), women being more likely to pick lower paying majors, etc. Yeah pretty much. I'm sure there is some discrimination at play but mostly it isnt because women are not capable. It also isnt because they are being held down. It's because of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:06 AM
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At 25 I was trying to settle down and made a series of very bad decisions which led to some hard times, with long-lasting consequences. Your view seems to hinge a lot on the idea that we can all find our "ideal" partner. The clue is in the word ideal. Ideals are hardly ever reality and to be called 'idealistic' is usually to infer that you don't have a realistic viewpoint. Usually it is connected to 'young'. Whenever I have thought I have found my ideal partner, it usualy turns out that they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:00 AM
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For this reason, I do not mind the Red Pill existing. You clearly do mind though or you wouldnt have written out this. Which is mostly waffle about your own personal preferences and superiority complex (why do you go on about yourself so much?). You seem to be using this as an outlet for your disgust at the more right-wing people as you make that stretch between red pilers and right-wingers quite a lot. I'm glad you have an outlet for that, but it is likely a bit misplaced. The most ruthless of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:44 AM
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I can do both so it's hard to imagine which side would be better here. Depends on me at the time. If I'm busy with work and other stuff then it's less trouble to have a decent partner. If I have a lot of free time and energy then it's better to go on some escapades and sleep around .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:05 PM
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Also keep in mind, a guy's dream woman MAY be into the kinky stuff he is into, so they could casually hookup with other couples or have threesomes. This throws a wrench in the gears of your either/or scenario. Yup, snookered him there. My dream woman encourages me having multiple sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:00 PM
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I'm in a job where the pay is low relative to the prestige, and women definitely regard my job title as a positive. Mine too until they realise that prestige doesnt always bring fortune
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:51 PM
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WHat is interesting about this is the generation gap now. Most of these things have been somewhat addressed :- I wish I had let myself be happier We've become entitled happiness now more or less. We are much more aware of what makes us happy and what doesn't (or we are supposed to be). I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends It has never been easier. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings. Cant say people are not good at this nowadays. I wish I didn’t work so hard. Whilst the wor…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:42 PM
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It's probably along the lines of "I wish I had spent more time with my kids/wife/old-aged relatives than working".
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:36 PM
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The reality is that now they are absolutely bog-standard. The push to make men more beta has made those men so, so replaceable. Imagine putting that on your OKCupid profile:- "I want an equal partner. I think women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. I value fairness and expect and want to do my is share in the home." That is about as normal as guys come nowadays. In fact, she sounds about ten years out of date. Again, the trouble with beta guys compared to alphas is that they are so rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:21 PM
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Maybe because of the aesthetics? Compare : it was long , fat and throbbing it was juicy, wet and slimey and smelled like an empty sardine tin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:50 AM
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Nah I think that's a bit of a red herring he is throwing you there. Lots of complications with abuse that aren't related to employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:30 AM
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Uh dude before 30 they dont care as much dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:17 AM
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I suppose it depends on what you had invested in the relationship, so it must vary wildly between people. If men are getting more upset that means they had more invested in it and they need to stop being that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:04 AM
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I did it last summer with a couple of 20-somethings. We were all a bit drunk. Was nice, would do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:02 AM
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'Now' meaning after 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:01 AM
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We learn more from doing it maybe. As a guy first being single after a long time, every date pushed me out of my comfort zone and pushed me to develop something socially. Women just have to wait, we have to carry the procedure (usually). So that is a plus. I suppose as well if we make sexual advances then that is 'just being a guy', but women are judged more if they make the move. I have a friend who didnt get a second date cos she offered sex to a guy on the first. So I guess women have their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:10 AM
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For a guy older than 30, being unemployed is pretty much unacceptable. Women now value your career very, very highly as they are looking for someone to start a family with. Guys who get fired, also get dumped regardeless of the woman's employment situation. I went on dates with a number of women who were taking 'a career break' and they didnt seem to think it'd matter to guys at all. At the same time, they felt comfortable quizzing me on my own ambitions. As a guy, being unemployed would pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:53 AM
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Essentially I am probably repeating what has been said already but the thing is to be clear about your expectations. If you don't want to be that kind of beta boyfriend then don't tolerate behaviour that puts you in that situation. If it becomes apparent that that is the way it is going, walk away .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:12 PM
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Most people are about an average level of interesting. It is unusual to meet someone and think 'hmmm, what an interesting person'. I meet lots of people who I get on ok with, we can chat and drink a beer. But not many who stand out as particularly interesting. There are a lot of women about who don't stand out whatsoever personality wise, and probably that is for the best cos when they do it is usually for the wrong reasons. If you can just get along and have some common interests, can have a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 03:41 PM
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It is a good idea if you are using it to troubleshoot. Of course you have to enjoy yourself otherwise what is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 04:53 AM
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If a woman likes a guy then disqualifying another woman as a slut makes the guy not want the other woman. Its not difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 04:50 AM
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It got easier by far. I look better now and am much more composed than I was, on top of this the women are starting to get a bit desperate. Plus I have money now. I've doubled my n count in a few years. On the other hand, I'm not as horny as I was in my 20s. I can't fuck 5 times a night like I used to. And the quality of women varies (but I've never been that picky). At the peak of summer last year I slept over at a ropey 45 year Olds house, had a shower and went to the pub and wound up taking 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 04:48 AM
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Mid-life crisis is a sexist term used by people who are betrothed to the feminine ideal that men should be slaves to their family. They're not supposed to have fun or their own life outside of this realm so anything new is a mid-life crisis. Notice how we don't use that for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 04:42 AM
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Women don't give a shit about what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 04:40 AM
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Most of what you say is true, largely because of the world we live in. It seems TRP rages against this but at the end of the day most might need a woman to be earning. So I agree with your view, but this is a case of reality jarring against idealism. Many people would love to have a parent stay home and raise the kids and whatnot , it's a luxury these days no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:01 PM
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Well then it doesn't because it doesn't hold much influence over others. Keep it up though if you enjoy it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:55 PM
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Are you published?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:27 PM
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I take betas as being like the helpers for people who have a plan. So in this paradigm I see : alphas as being responsible for creating, having ideas and making them happen while betas help. alphas making the decisions whilst betas offer support for those decisions. Through this, alphas have more power and are in control of their own lives. Betas are along for the ride. Therefore alphas are able to satisfy their own needs before betas and this leads to them being happier. This can course through…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:11 PM
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I could think of a lot of things that could be done before this to fix society. That you are focused on this as the number one priority demonstrates how distracted people are. You can go on about masculine and feminine all day, it doesnt solve the problem of how I am supposed to afford a decent life in the future. And I am not even doing that badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 03:45 PM
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Not particularly. Political correctness seems to be more for the public sphere than the private. Being PC in public just shows you are socially aware and you can play the game. In private I can still be myself more or less. It does make general life trickier. Things move on so fast that you cant keep up. In a lot of ways it just means you have to adjust your mask more often. That is where we are going in the polite public realm at the moment, people are masking themselves more and more to fit PC…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 03:39 PM
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After a long stint being single I have drifted into something. The factors are thus :- chasing women was taking time and becoming a chore. Im sure some of you can relate. It's a bit of a numbers game for me and I got a bit sick of sinking the time looking for new girls. My job got busy and with trying to keep fit as well as read and whatnot, going out on even coffee dates started to become something to dread rather than look forward to. Even juggling regulars was draining and I ghosted out of a …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:33 PM
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Zzzzzzzz
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:35 AM
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Women like hanging with men much more than they enjoy banging them. This is why we have to be careful we are not marrying women who see us as BFF with not much sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:34 AM
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And many women are focused on career and hence do not date, and when they do date they struggle to find a man who meets their standards. What I am getting at here is that Japan is quite a bit behind the West in terms of gender relations, not ahead. This is something they are starting to change now. There are no laws against firing a woman if she gets pregnant, for example. This is not going to last much longer, and in coming years Japan will probably experience something like we have over the la…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:24 AM
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Japan is a tricky one although it does seem to mirror a more advanced version of the West sometimes. Some issues though it is only very recently that women have really entered the workforce. They have big issues with lack of access to childcare and mechanisms to get women back into work after child birth. A lot of women quit their career when they get married still. For a lot of women it is a straight up choice - kids or career. The lack of sex thing is, and has always been greatly exaggerated I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:07 AM
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None of them seem to be aware of it. They have social and work lives and don't seem like they'd hang out on Reddit a lot. When you get to a certain point you get a bit too busy for all this . Frankly, we all have a bit too much time on our hands so my big lie is that I have a busy, full and rewarding life away from the net too. However, some women are more explicitly aware of dating and etc so sometimes you get thrown a shit test related to that. For example, you might for some reason do some ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 04:25 PM
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Nah, shit happens. Im not buying into this sort of shit because as much shit women get from the Red Pill, we shouldnt be excusing the shitheaded men there are out there and there are plenty of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 04:12 PM
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This is just a tactic for scoring. If you have no fear of rejection it is pretty easy. I wouldnt say it makes you alpha, but you do have to respect the balls to be able to do it. I know some people who do it, they know it's a numbers game. However alpha most might get, there is always plenty of rejection going on behind the scenes if they are getting it on the reg. Im well over the sting of rejection, wouldnt say Im especially alpha though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:14 PM
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Man up? Unfortunately that is how life is. Big fat women get the media on their side to shame men into accepting them. Big fat men get laughed at and ridiculed from all sides. Men who sleep around in their late 30s and 40s are branded as children who cant man up. Women doing the same are leading the feminist charge for smashing the patriarchy. Middle-aged man starts lifting and takes up a hobby in a desperate bid to get some of his own life back - mid-life crisis, a man-child who cant handle res…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 12:29 PM
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Remove contraception from the equation and you will see what the original comment is getting at. The idea is that it's hardwired in us through evolution. Men want to sleep around to ensure the survival of their genes, whereas women can only be pregnant with one or two children at once and therefore have to look for the best genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:49 AM
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Id say it is usually more economical dissatisfaction or something like that. Jihadists, however much you hate them, are usually reacting to a long and ferocious Western assault on them. They've seen America and co bomb the shit out of their countries or countries nearby in a ruthless pursuit of their resources. This is clearly more why they are becoming more extreme. White Supremacists are worried that all muh jobs will be taken by immigrants or jews or whatnot. Radical Leftists worried that Big…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:36 AM
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from what I can gather most of our posters here are people with college degrees who work boring jobs, and they use this forum to get them through the day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:28 AM
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Agree with the challenge to be honest. There hasn't been a time in history where people haven't got overexcited about the antics of this generation. People that are successful, happy and fulfilled in life do not spend their days analyzing life strategies and screaming angrily into the void on the internet, they are out living life. Same goes for the anti-red surely? People who live busy and productive lives don't need to slam on a group of alienated men, unless something is up with them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:04 AM
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teenage years - fumbled into a few relationships and fumbled out of them almost without knowing what was going on 18 - 21 - university years - was drunk for 3 years and met different women. Can't remember half of what happened , I fell in love a few times when I should have been having FWBs. 21 - 24 - post University darker days. Lots of drugs and women started drying up. Didn't have any money or direction just wanted to get fucked up 25 - 30 started improving but had just a series of ill-fated …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 02:17 PM
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You weren't spinning plates you were cheating ? You need to be quite clear about what you're doing if you're spinning plates, don't fool yourself. The long shot of both spinning plates or cheating, is that there's going to be a chance they won't want something long term. I think the key is that if you go enter something serious, don't go into a soppy meltdown. Make sure you're strong enough on your own first to not need someone, but look for someone who complements your life as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 12:05 PM
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3 is annoying because a lot of guys have a hard time during their 20s whilst women are out fucking higher value men. However, in our 30s men become more valuable and women need a man to have a baby. So it swigs in our favour, coincidentally when a woman tries to trap a guy into commitment. So RP is being aware that as you get older your value increases, but women will try and pin you down - just when we are able to meet higher value women... If you want to understand RP more, the trick is that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 04:34 AM
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Today I went on a date and we talked for 2 hours about how we probably live in a computer simulation. Each to their own, but jesus that would not be my idea of fun . You have a point though, once you have internalised some of the ideas it's time to ween yourself off
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:28 AM
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Have you seen cuckold porn? Its pretty sick. Dudes need to lay off their porn habits most likely. Another thing might be that it's a way for guys to experience dominant women. Like we have discussed here there aren't many of those about cos they still need alpha dick, so if they can still go off and do that then they might be more willing to put up with a submissive pervert dude. Anyway, it's a fetish and fetishes are a minority concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:29 AM
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The only thing I need to know is if a girl suggests an interest in it, you need to next
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:21 AM
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The first time I've seen this thread so some of these are more recent developments than the last week: deleted my Tinder for the time being. It had become a habit and I think I was getting addicted to the validation of it. started making my own food more so I can save money. found a new place to live in a nice area. sparring starts this week so I'm prepping for that. I'm proud that no matter what has happened I've kept up this MA training. I'm now definitely quite a lot stronger and physically m…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:07 AM
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That's not what I'm saying here. It leaves a bad taste that women want to accept it but it's MEN who are popularizing it. The actual number of people who act this fetish out must be pretty small, we would have no cause to even hear about it unless enough men were getting off on it that it is becoming widely known.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:29 PM
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That reality is that feminism and gynocentric activism seeks to change men to suit the female imperative, whatever form that takes, and neglects whatever men would consider to be in their best interests. I agree, but Cuckolding wouldnt be on the map if guys didnt enjoy it as a porn fetish. I dont think this is one of those things, there seems to be a lot of sub men around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 11:38 AM
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The thing that gets me about all this is - who really put Cuckolding on the map here? You say it is the female imperative, but go to pornhub and see how many cuckold videos there are. It's a popular fetish - for MEN! I am interested in what the female imperative is doing, but this doesnt quite fit. If men werent so into it and acting out on it with porn, we would never have fucking heard of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:16 AM
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Either I'm very confused, or you are very confused , or both!! :) Anyway, I do have normal goals , and red pill isn't a goal in itself - it's a set of tools to be used in certain areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:16 AM
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Well that's ok, but it wont make any difference to women. The best you can hope for is sympathy Im afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:35 AM
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Yeah, that is what I mean but they do still feel it. In my career, I have worked my way up a little bit. Last year, I got passed over for a promotion which was a crushing blow to me. When I complained about it to people I know who have not yet worked their way up then they just said "well at least you got the chance to apply" and dismissed it as Ivory Tower problems. But the disappointment was still there for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:17 AM
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They have a different concept of loneliness. Society protects women from loneliness from early on but cares little about men. This means we are raised with different ideas of what loneliness is. For the average guy, having a couple of friends to see occasionally could prevent him from getting lonely. For women, not having anyone to hang out with on Saturday night or having to spend Sunday afternoon alone makes them feel lonely. I've ehard this quite a bit from women near 40. Their friends are al…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:11 AM
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The problem with cuckolding as a fetish is you are asking for your woman to find someone better and dump you. It's sanctioned branchswinging. Now I am sure that for some couples it could be a healthy fetish, and enough guys are into it on the fantasy level to have spawned a genre of porn, but for most it would be a disaster. Question, we have already had swinging for a long time. Why is this now needed? Further to all this, is that like most fetishes it is a fringe activity and will never become…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:52 AM
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In reality, sex works the exact opposite. Sex, sexuality, and attraction work off of feelings, urges, emotions, all of which operate outside of systems of reason and objectivity. You can't understand someone's sexual feelings through a lens of reason. There probably isn't a logical reason why some women like to feel protected with a muscular man when we have police officers with guns to protect us. But they do. This doesnt seem true to me. I think you can well understand sexuality through studyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:41 AM
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Well you have an economy in decline, with China and other sleeping giants well on the way to surpassing it. A man who could probably be certified just got voted into the White House. Not sure where it is all heading, but things dont seem very stable at the minute. Women's happiness is down in the last 20/30 years. Perhaps they will be the ones to rise against their own liberation in the end. People are pulling out all the stops to allow women to breed later on in life, but it doesnt seem like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:30 AM
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Have you seen an anime convention late at night? Or seen the people that attend midnight screenings of the rocky horror picture show? Seen LARPers play Vampire: the Masquerade next to a graveyard and then fuck? Unfortunately I have. These people are not intellectuals, they are morons seeking refuge with other morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:23 AM
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No, you should read a bit more. A dominant male/slave female pairing is seen as desirable for sex, but not the other way round because, as we have discussed at length here, most women dont enjoy that much. The Sex God Method is required reading, so Id have a look at that if you want to learn more about a Red Pill stance on sex. Personally I think fetishes are not central to self-improvement and improving your SMV, so I think they are not particularly relelvant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:19 AM
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Being single in your 30s is a good.place to be for a guy these days. You can go and do those things and know that there are lots of women waiting out there if you want to commit. The ones near 40 make up half my Tinder matches, and they're fucking dreaming if they think they're getting a commitment from me. They know that yet they still try. They're lonely. I could quite happily wait til I'm 40 or later to cash in, unless I suddenly become broody. They hate this state of affairs, and you have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:13 PM
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Women are not one and the same on the socioeconomic scale and never have been. So as mid-level women rise, lower-level ones rise to take their place. So if you squint maybe you wouldn't notice a difference. I've not noticed a lack of women around , just that some are getting more picky and or less willing to commit until things are tight enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:34 PM
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Exactly . What's the point in asking this if he is just going to say "oh well it could have happened anyway, so I'm discounting it". Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:21 PM
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Well it might have coincided with a certain point in my life but as I said it helped me get past the quickly developing feelings for someone part. For all I know I might have swung blindly into the next ill-fated LTR way before I was ready. I did some bad(ish) things during this time too, and you would probably put that down to me reading Red Pill rather than just coincidence if Im reading your bias correctly. The crucial part was that it offered a criticial model to use against my experiences p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:00 PM
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I was prone to falling in love very quickly and getting oneitis with women I hadnt had any romantic thing with. Since all this started I've not developed strong feelings for anyone and kept it all good, clean fun, and through dating a lot I've got quite a lot better with women. It has been a snowball effect almost, as it builds and multiplies the longer you play the game. The more you date, the more abundance you realise you can have, the more confident you become, the less shit you put up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:36 PM
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You do have the right to say no, but it's reasonable to end a relationship if you arent satisfied with the sex life. You need to communicate what you expect clearly, and stick to it. I personally think women should decide how much sex their partner needs to be content with their relationship and themselves, and try to keep that quota even when they lack interest. I think that they should probably discuss this with the man rather than just decide themselves no? If they see it as a 'monthly quota'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:25 PM
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Arent you saying a different thing from your title in your post? You claim that women dont need to get married anymore, so really they are the ones not adapting to save marriage. If you mean that men arent trying harder, then that is a bit silly when you say yourself that women have become much harder to please. Anyway, I think you're very wrong about the women not needing men to start a family thing. You throw that out there like it is an everyday thing for a woman to decide to head to the sper…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:17 PM
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Overall it'll probably just end up like Japan where the women just become incels as well. Lol no, this isn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:16 PM
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Well, what you do is who you are. Perhaps a better way of putting it is people rarely love you unconditionally, just for being you. They love what you do. I think a lot of people get complacent after finding a new partner, and they think "ok well they love me now, so I can relax". This sort of unconditional love doesnt exist outside of (some) families, so it pays to be aware that you arent being loved for you but for your actions. If that makes any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:33 AM
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Who the hell wants a girl who will just do what a guy says? In reality, girls like that ghost and are very hypergamous. Probably cheat more as well given the chance. It sounds boring, but well-negotiated expectations and boundaries are probably more realistic to happiness than having one person controlling the happenings. To me, a submissive girl is easy and a non submissive girl still does what I want. This pretty much. In any kind of partnership one will want to please the other. Someone who n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:48 AM
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Yeeeep there is some truth in this. "I've got problems being assertive with people so I need someone to make me feel better" rings true. I think that confident and assertive guys will be able to meet non-submissive women who want to do things just to please them. No real need for a submissive unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:45 AM
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Me too, I had a serious health issue that caved me in and that was the beginning of the end for my LTR. She visibly went off during that time and it was irreparable. I also can understand it though, we were not married and she was younger than me. Also, I didnt handle it too well and I was a different person. I was quite a bit more volatile and miserable. It goes against my principles somewhat but I do think people should have the right to walk away if they want to. After ten years of marriage t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:30 AM
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Your wife gets breast cancer. She loses both her breasts, goes bald, and loses 30 lbs. Id support her fully through this, the thought makes me kinda emotional actually. Your wife quits her job which pays $100k a year due to extreme bullying and harassment bringing her depression and anxiety. Id have caught it long before she had to quit and had her log the incidents and so on. There are not many companies that pay that much that cannot be held accountable for this kind of stuff. Lawyer up. Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:16 AM
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I'd agree up to a point, Im not sure if people who say they want someone submissive actually know what they mean or if they are indulging in a fantasy. My fantasy like that is a sort of very feminine woman who understands all my needs and caters to them. One who offers feminine pleasures after I've been manning it up outside the house. I've dated some submissive-type women, quite a few actually cos I have lived in Asia for quite a long time. They make you feel very good about yourself as they pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:59 AM
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Well alright, since you put it like that I guess I do care about career and status. They need to have some kind of career and roughly the same status tends to work better. Maybe a lot of guys do care about it, but are unaware of their personal needs/types.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:36 AM
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This sort of implies that "low-status" women are going to be an easier ride, which is not necessarily the case. There would be more conflict. You don't necessarily subdue someone because you are more highly educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:28 AM
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This is a very college/small town point of view I think. That someone would accumulate a pack of haters. When I go out I can hit directly on women, piss a bunch of other guys off and I probably will never see any of them again. Also, people are more forgiving than you make out anyway. It takes quite a lot to get people to actually hate you, and they're likely to give you some more chances if you have to spend time with them again. Finally, outside of the small town/college mentality; or at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:23 AM
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Because we can't date up. Most women who have a better career and have more status than me, I don't have any chance with. If they were available to me it would become much more of a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:11 AM
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That things I always felt valued for like "being supportive" or "being a good listener" are in fact easy skills that nearly anyone can do, and are not particularly useful anyway a lot of the time. Morals/how good a person you are come a distant second to looks/hotness to most women. being idealistic about relationships made me miss out on a lot and caused me a lot of trouble when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:04 AM
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I'm two weeks from becoming 25 and I've denied myself so many experiences throughout the years because I was afraid or insecure or depressed. You're very young in the grand scheme of things. I had a fun youth but things started to get going properly more towards my late-20s, so you still have LOTS of time. Another, perhaps even worse one, is that I can't coast on potential or innate ability. For all one's intelligence or aptitude in the end what you put in is what matters most. Yeah everyone nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:53 PM
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People who dislike people wanting to learn and improve are usually failures
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 06:36 AM
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That Mary gave birth to Jesus but she was a virgin has always seemed a bit off. Give me Allah raping children anyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:31 AM
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I've realised that the boundaries for what is considered sexist and mysoginistic are actually a bit looser than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:19 AM
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You just realise what real life is like, you still enjoy the same shit. If anything, my life is better because I dont fall in love every time a girl shows affection and shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:15 AM
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Im British so American girls are very easy for me, so no I wouldnt need to fuck a fat one. And no it isnt pretentious to not want a fat one. Although havng said that, I genuinely enjoy fucking fat girls, them titties :) Fat girls can be hot, it's just that you have to deal with the stupid social shaming of dating one. Im glad I have a high shame threshold and I can stick up for myself, and dont care much what people think of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:11 AM
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I would bang him the fuck out, or sue the cunt when he posted the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:05 AM
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meh. It is what it is. I've seen lots of people do it and remain friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:01 AM
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and if a girl did this to me, id think she was trying to rob me or something, Id break her wrist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:54 AM
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When I was 14. She used to come over and give me a wank once a week. I dumped her cos she was too boring though and promptly regretted it. I had a lot of action between the ages of 14 and 18. Id say having lots of sex early on has satiated me somewhat, I dont feel the need to nut about all the time. But the need still arises sometimes. More than sex though, all the acid and pills effected my world view. In a positive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:52 AM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:49 AM
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there is one with a guy doing it to other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:44 AM
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Because women lie to look more innocent and men lie to look more studly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:41 AM
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There's no value to submissive men . They can be supportive but it is very easy to be supportive. A strong guy can offer support and also isn't a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 04:26 AM
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What seems to happen is someone posts something interesting about something (say n-count), then someone makes a good point and decides to turn it into another thread. So we end up with a cycle of a topic that goes on and on for longer than it should. Not sure how to prevent it but it by the 15th thread it sucks. I think there is a big problem with ill-defined terms around here. People throw around 'submissive', 'alpha', 'slut' and so on with little consensus on what the terms actually mean. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 03:52 AM
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They're unconvincing but they do have value in that they make you think. I get a bit annoyed by people who want to have everything proven by science, and who worship it as the final truth. In my job, I have read a lot of peer-reviewed research and quite often it jars with the common consensus. Sometimes it is just ignored. Science progresses quickly and 'proven' ideas 20 years ago are now defunct. However, it also makes you think so it does have value even if you think it is incorrect. What I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 03:17 AM
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Yup, it's as old as the hills. Less of a nag, easier to please, more grateful with what she has got, more eager to please in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 03:09 AM
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It's noteworthy because if she isn't letting you rail her hard and passionately, and is turned off if you want to get a bit kinky then it's a good sign that she doesn't enjoy having sex with you. It's a red flag - you are probably in trouble with this one and you might be better cutting loose. It isn't rocket science - if she doesnt seem passionate during sex then she probably isnt that attracted to you - but beta guys who are trained to react to a woman rather than have their own feelings seem …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 02:54 AM
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Yet another discussion where the terms should be better defined. Are you seperating sex and general life, or are we accepting it that someone submissive on the outside is submissive on the inside? If we are talking solely sexually, then it is men who like dominant women and it is not even close. I have had a look into it a little bit and there are very few women around who like that idea. Some will experiment yes, but they would rather experiment with a guy who can also dominate them and that wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 02:36 AM
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Most of the time it doesnt come to be and remains a fantasy. Unless they are very very into it and go out looking into the BDSM communities or luck into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 02:21 AM
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Why don't we ever see the reverse? I see it quite often in real life. Good looking guys date slightly less good looking girls often. Its probably because they're less hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 01:05 AM
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Yes they do call out everything (if it's on the internet). These are keyboard warriors we are dealing with here, I'd be amazed if they went off like this for real. No time to backtrack, no edit button and no Google to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:37 PM
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Have you ever pushed your boundaries and tried dating outside your sphere of comfort? I guess you wont now youre married, but I wanted to meet lots of different types of women, and my 'type' has changed many times as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:23 AM
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Reddit is a godsend for whiny SJWs who miss the "intellectual high point" of college (when people used to listen to their shit) and now work in shitty admin jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:04 PM
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Well imagine you're managing a sports team. You could win some games just by having some talented players and through the process of trial and error. But you're going to be better off practising a lot and studying psychology and tactics. At the moment you don't care because you have a girlfriend, but in the future you might find it more difficult and then you will need to think what to do. Even those 2 times you were successful you did have some kind of pick up skills, you just are not aware of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 10:23 PM
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If she is American.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 10:14 PM
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Well , reality bites I guess. Since about 25 years old I've not found a woman really worthy of being close friends with outside of already existing social circles. The ones I have made friends with are either colleagues, friends of friends or living in very close proximity etc. By that age I had already made enough good friends and knew how to make more if needed. Unless you're particularly lonely then there is no need to make friends with someone who rejects you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 10:10 PM
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What if most guys have "romantic feelings/attraction" towards a woman and she genuinely wants to be actual friends, not interested in "using" him like an orbiter? Women overrate their own company. Most of the time they aren't worth staying friends with after the embarassment of being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:12 AM
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More effective is communicating early on that you prioritise sex in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:08 AM
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Yeah they basically win, that's pretty much the red pill consensus. But I'm open to hearing about ways you think a hot slut wouldn't achieve what they want in the sexual market place. If they leave it too long, most of the better guys are already settled and it gets more problematic having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:39 PM
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In history, when men had more rights to sleep around than women (which is basically almost every culture), it was because men were expected to attend to public life, which would allow them to see other women to sleep with. Men had the power to travel, woo women and enjoy their bachelor days while women just cooked and cleaned and trained for wifehood. This is a lot of waffle, isnt it? Historically most men would not travel far from their hometown. Maybe richer ones, certainly not a majority. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 11:21 PM
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Is your experience of rapid escalation to no-commitment sex (alpha dating), or of dates then commitment then sex (beta dating) ? Both, and quite a lot inbetween. Alpha sex is urgent and passionate and "I can't wait to go home, let's do it here in the parking lot".... beta sex is reluctant and "make me feel special and the candles had better be scented and you have to make me feel relaxed and like a queen and I'm not even sure I want sex anyway". My point is that passionate doesnt necessarily hav…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 11:10 PM
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Wealthy man because women are never fucking content with themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 04:40 PM
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Full sex is somewhere in the late 20s/early 30s, other stuff would put me into the 40s/50s. I'm not counting making out cos that is a headfuck to try and tally lol. I'm a man. I'm ok with my sex n count but it could have been higher. It was much lower until I broke up with the ex, and that was 5 years with just one woman. For the last 5 years though the quality has been excellent, and quality trumps quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 04:25 PM
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Sure, but I am not sure why one gender should be grateful enough that they should automatically feel safe. Getting hassled like that is pretty stressful, and I could imagine how women could feel unsafe. As a guy, I've lived in places where guys also get hassled in the street sometimes and as a recipient of some pretty nasty violence, I know that when you are being bothered by someone in the street it is just a few steps to things getting severe. So I can imagine why a woman feels unsafe if she g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 04:13 PM
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You're sailing pretty close to the revenge fantasy wind here my friend. When a woman rejects a guy, do they care if they later find out that he's able to do better than her, but doesn't care because he chose to approach her? Most of the time how the fuck would they find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:33 PM
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It is vitally important. I have a situation at the moment where due to a few stupid things I did and a few people who enjoy making others look bad, I have a bit of a dodgy reputation. It's nothing serious but let's say I'm not the king of that situation. The difference between that and other situations I have is huge. The women damn near enough avoid me in that situation, whereas in others it is game on. It is vitally important.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:05 PM
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I just made a comment on a thread here that relates to a theory of mine. I have read a lot of threads here along the lines of 'women all love rough sex, they love being choked and spanked and.......' It doesnt really correlate to my experience, and I think it isn't very good advice, or rather it is misplaced advice. The idea that women love domination is true though, but I think that saying they all love kinky BDSM shite is off. And here is why most of the time we control the rhythm of sex, we a…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:56 PM
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Seconding Sex God Method. I need to reread myself actually but in it he introduces a paradigm to work with. It is something like Domination Emotion Immersion Variety Essentially these are the 4 pillars of a good sex life and you need to work out when to turn down the dominance and turn up the immersion etc. Dominance is good, but to really work it over more than a few fucks you need to understand these ideas as outlined in the book. Girls dont seem to just want it rough every single time, and on…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:42 PM
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I'd probably go along with what some other people are saying. It is like some guy went "Well I'm not Alpha, because I don't dominate the social situations like they do and I'm not making much money or anything. But I can't be Beta cos I don't suck like them. So there must be a special category for awesome guys like me." Effectively they just sound like Alphas anyhow, but ones who dont much like all the social games.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:08 PM
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Its called a tab. You are in for a shock when you return there .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:07 AM
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I had a partner who went on the pill, and it fucked her up. Didn't mix well with her, I quickly decided I'd prefer a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:06 AM
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Women get a lot of low level harrassment from the dregs in cities though. My ex used to get hassled every time she walked through her Arab-majority neighbourhood in Paris for example. That must be creepy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:33 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:45 AM
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I know that most people will eventually wind up settling down in some way but it gets a bit tiresome matching TRP up to how a fucking marriage works. A lot of TRP is anti-LTR or it is about improving yourself enough before you set off on that cursed road again. Theres more to it than that. The problem with this sub is that we debate everything through a feminine viewpoint and whatever the topic, women wind up thinking about marriage and babies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:26 AM
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This is a very indirect link to the child support argument. At no point does she say she is struggling for money. She lives in "the best place in the world" to be a woman and the guy is only off the hook for now cos he is a student - he will be paying up when he starts working. This is a story of emotional hardship, not financial
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:14 AM
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Why is every thread in here about LTRs and marriage? My reading of TRP makes both of these undesirable at best, and yet every other thread refers to these themes as the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:37 PM
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Yes, the focus in here is nearly always on the woman's wants and needs, her journey through life and the implications of what she chooses and her actions. The fact that nearly every thread is about LTRs and marriage shows us that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:34 PM
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Seems like women have a bigger problem with the media than men do. They insist on having strong female leads everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:07 PM
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Why am I looking for an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:04 PM
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If I work with them yeah. If not, not really as long as they know how to switch it off in their downtime .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 09:59 PM
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Surely values change and what might be important to a woman in her youth may not be as important to her now? Why are women shamed for this? I tend to think it is just jealousy. Nothing wrong with it but men should consider their own happiness and put it first. If that means you don't like the thought of being "settled" on, then it means you don't opt for that. She can go find someone else . We shouldn't shame women for trying to settle on beta guys , they shouldn't shame us for not wanting them …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 09:42 PM
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Exactly. I've been there, the romance dies. Why do people want everything wrapped up in cotton wool?? Give me the raw ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 12:13 AM
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Google "make your boyfriend jealous" and you will see lots of mainstream advice. There's a wikiHow on it!!! I can understand if someone wants a safe and soft relationship, but not everyone wants or needs that. Lots of people get kicks from seeing their other half flirt , if you don't make your partner jealous anymore then the desire in them might well be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 12:08 AM
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Right, we need to ban this type of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:21 AM
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It seems like it cos the way the article spins it, to attract readers. I think in the right hands such a course could be very beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:06 AM
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It would probably have a great deal of benefit in our class-based society, for anyone looking to mobilize upwards. It sounds a bit dumb, and something that you should learn anyway but with the access to information we have now, such a course could probably do wonderful things for a person in the long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 02:55 AM
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