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It's not abnormal at all. When they're physically attracted to and emotionally connected to their partner it should be high especially towards that one person. I'd be questioning the chemistry or if the spark is dying out if the girl only wanted it once or twice a week
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:06 PM
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Yes, they were cool and I hadn’t had sex for a while, and the person didn’t live near so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:14 AM
1

Pick a day when she's free. Overthinking it big time. If you can set the date then set the date. Waiting it out a week you run a higher chance of her just moving to something else. It's ridiculous logic. You haven't even met the girl how much do you really have to lose by trying to set a date when she's free. It's a Friday morning, let's be realistic. Go for the night date.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:47 AM
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Red pill is a mindset. Simply being realistic about what's happening and understanding the reality of human behaviors. That's it. To be Red Pilled doesn't mean you have to incessantly plate and fuck women you have no interest in being with long term. If you find one you really like you should engage in the relationship and stick in it if it's something adding value to your life. For me, having hook ups and sex with women I care nothing for lost its appeal quickly. If I don't care enough to make …
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:40 AM
2

Tell her "I'll work on it." and trickle in a little more texting here and there, but not much. So long as you are keeping her mentally engaged you can text her whenever. You just can't ever be in a weak mindset or position. You have to text her from a position of strength, masculinity, and dominance. The whole brick wall alpha male might work but it could just as likely run her off, especially if she is attractive and has a ton of guys hitting her up all the time. You need to have verbal/text ga…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:06 AM
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Had this happen before around the same mark about 6 to 8 months. Honestly I don't know the logic of why it happens in their head, I do think it's sometimes because they're just not horny so they just coast on the attention. They start getting used to you and maybe it starts to just lose the hotness. Maybe you're getting predictable and boring. If you're good in bed you could have literally sexed her out and she has no drive for sex at the current time. I was able to revive the situation though. …
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:02 AM
1

Get re-grounded in reality and call her back?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:09 AM
1

Literally anytime I hooked up with a girl they ALWAYS texted me first afterwards something like "Good morning, I had fun" or "Hey, good morning" or "I had fun, let's do it again" or something like that. I feel like if she isn't reaching out then she didn't get fucked properly or the vibe wasn't there for her, wasn't into it, etc. So you're already likely swimming against the current, I'd text "Hey what are you up to today?" either 1 day or 2 days afterwards and just hope she gives it another go.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:58 AM
3

OH come on. We've all smoked one thing in our fucking lives bro! It's not about smoking the damned cigarette; if it's a HABIT then that's totally different. Smoking a cigarette once to see what it was like isn't a habit, that's just living life. It's all about if it's something this person is doing constantly, all the time. I've smoked a couple cigarettes in my life and it was never anything more than just seeing what it was like. It's not a habit and I hate cigarettes. Chill out.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:38 AM
1

Don't do anything. I'm sure you're fine. Stop tripping. Lots of overreaction; the girl was probably just trying to have a good time too she probably doesn't expect or even want to be a part in your life lol
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:35 AM
1

Then if she's not crazy or super immature then the age gap should be the last thing you're worrying about.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:04 AM
2

Is it legal? Is she hot? Let's ask the real questions
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:02 AM
6

At restaurants it's pretty common that everybody is fucking everybody. Unless you have some serious bills you have to pay, or you take this job super seriously I don't see why not. Just go up to her and start talking, ask what she's doing later than take her number. Make plans for outside of work. At worst it might cause mild to moderate drama but honestly I dated a lot of co-workers when I was 21 and truthfully the rewards strongly outweigh the risks. Risks are minimal at minimum wage jobs. I t…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:28 AM
3

She might not flake but you're definitely not the first in priority. Either prepare for the flake and ignore it, brush it off, ride it out. Or if you really want to get tactical and have the balls to risk it all, like the other poster said, flake on her; she'll either lose all interest and stop talking to you, or double her interest. Personally, if I get a low interest situation like this I'll just retract the offer and go out with someone who's really down with it. Making these flakey types of …
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:52 AM
1

The optimal way to lose your virginity is to do it with someone you half-way care about, who at least half-way cares about you. The sex is going to be awkward, no one is going to finish. The logic is that if you guys care about each other you can just laugh off the awkward sex and it can get better over time. You wouldn't want it to be literally just sex and bye. That said if you're horny and not having much luck I'd just go for it, but level your expectations, because this probably is going to …
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:45 AM
2

She will 100 percent cheat on the dude with you. Many times after a date with him she'll stop at your place right after. Hypergamy isn't everything.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:38 AM
3

Pretend it never happened and continue like before you got her number. Wouldn't worry much about it though.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:36 PM
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You met her on Tinder. There's tons of these types of women on Tinder who are always trying to "get to know someone" through texting, and you giving her endless attention. That's what she wants is attention, and she's just hoping to find some reason to disqualify you or next you. Whenever I hear this I usually just respond with "Yeah that's why I want to meet up." or something like that or I'll make a little small talk involving what places she likes to meet up at. Most of the time they'll fuck …
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:29 PM
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I read your last post. You have the looks to get the date. You got the date and you didn't escalate the situation. You acted afraid. She felt this lack of confidence and has pulled away and aborted the mission. Spark has burned out. You waited four dates and still didn't tongue kiss her, which tells her you have no balls. Tongue kissing should happen on the first date, with sex happening at the third date at the latest. Read the sidebar. You can have all the looks and money in the world, but if …
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:20 PM
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Just do what you want to do and don't make time for nonsense. It's not a break up. Just move forward.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:13 PM
2

If you're on a dating app the odds of you finding a non-damaged woman, without kids, or a broken lifestyle are slim at the very best. Not trying to tell you not to use dating apps, but I would advise you to have realistic expectations. You seem surprised that she was crazy but it's par for the course.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:08 PM
3

Why would she purposefully post pictures of her having coffee with another man, knowing full well she has an ex who still has feelings? Typical woman on Tinder; nothing but problems. Lots of posts here talking about ohhh, she has another guy wanting her and bla bla bla. But come on, let's cut through it all. Even some of the absolute sluttiest women won't make it known that they're going to meet someone else. She seems pathetic and very low self-esteem ridden. This is just another damaged goods …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 09:00 AM
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This too. If your body isn't together, man or woman, you're going to have a rough time
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:25 AM
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As if loving anyone is absent of risk or a rigid, final decision. "I love yous" have always started in a bedroom for me after a while of seeing the person. It's my experience that the time to be full on the emotional gas pedal is when it's hot. That said if you're the girl, I probably wouldn't say it first. Let him say it. But then say it back
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 01:54 AM
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Men are everywhere. If you're trying to meet guys without dating apps you're going to have to put yourself consistently in the position to get approached and give off the vibe that you want to be. That means dress nice, smell nice, do your hair, do your nails, do your makeup, and reel people in. Don't be intimidating and have your ass cheeks hanging out, and don't wear high heels to class because it's not high school, but definitely be dressed nice like you put effort into it. If you do none of …
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:17 AM
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Doesn't really matter who says it first but I would recommend saying it while you two are having sex. That's what I've always done. When the emotions are hot that's when you do it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 10:32 PM
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Then just ignore them
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:30 PM
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You're right. They're attention whores. They never meet up. I'd say try to ask them out twice and if they don't budge and they aren't trying to meet up then block/delete them. If a girl wants to meet up she'll be down as fuck and won't make up all these reasons not to. Just like sales you gotta weed out the tire kickers.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:23 PM
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When a girl asks if you have a relationship with God/Jesus, she's really asking "Can I use religion to manipulate you?" If you answer with a hard yes, your odds of getting laid in the first three dates is now nil, to slim at best because she's now going to run circles around you claiming she wants to wait and bla bla bla. Not worth the effort. In my experience they're too big of hypocrites. They're always saying one thing and doing another. They have done it for so long they don't even realize t…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:20 AM
1

That should be what you tell her. When she asks if she can hang out with a male friend just tell her what's in the quotes.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:26 AM
1

Sounds like a lot of wasted energy regardless.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:25 AM
2

She's either go to go out with him or she's going to bail and cancel on the dude. But you have to let her make the decision herself. You just have to be ready for either outcome.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:22 AM
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"Do what you want. What's good for one is good for the other though." Odds are when you say this she'll back down and say she didn't really want to see him anyway or something. If she goes out with him anyway just pretend it didn't happen and get some other girls ready so when you breakup you already have someone to go to. It's going to go one of those two ways. Telling her she's free to do what she is pretty much your best bet. She's either going to go out with the dude or she's not. Just know …
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:10 AM
2

Sounds like a lost cause to me. Probably shouldn't have lied about having sex with someone else. Women who are attractive will just next you a lot of the time if you fuck another. The women who stick around for this behavior would be women with little to no options, or little to no self-esteem. If she's hot she'll make a Tinder and next your ass in a flash. When you move on to then next girl, claiming you had sex with a new girl be prepared to see the old one go. You tried to run sloppy manipula…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:57 AM
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Move your life along and stop worrying about her. Get your job. Get your body together. Be more attractive. Move up in the world. Be better and be moving up. Make her feel like a fool for not wanting to marry you.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:38 AM
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It's ONLINE DATING. A number of them are weirdos, uneducated, poor time managers, confused, deluded, and usually live disorganized lives full of rubbish that clogs up what little brains they do have. Many are living in complete denial. Your experience has happened to all of us. There's no rhyme or rhythm to it. When you join apps like that you have to expect the bullshit factor to be amped up 15x. Even the best women on these apps usually have severe character flaws that land them on these apps …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:54 AM
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Ask her what she wants and definitely don't lie to her
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:49 AM
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Sounds like two betas but for different reasons. All I read was attention whore male socially cucks soyboy male One is trying so hard to be the social king in the room, and the poster who is bitching about it like a baby. To each their own, but there's nothing alpha, in my opinion, about trying to be the social alpha dog in the room. I really couldn't care less about my position in the social hierarchy in the room. Would never join frame of anyone trying to do it either. I'm there to put the mov…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:33 AM
1

You'd probably have to sleep with someone else to break it. I feel like any time a man is loyal to a girl it's almost impossible to not get oneitis. It only makes sense that if she's the only person you're investing time and energy to that you'd catch feelings and oneitis. I really feel that as men, the only way you really can't catch oneitis with a girlfriend is to be micro-cheating or full-on cheating. Just hold your frame and don't be all beta and wimpy and you'll probably be fine. Also be su…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:23 AM
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Agree 100 percent with everything you said. It's true. Any time I got a lay off of those apps was within the first day of making it, she saw me by luck and she just wanted it that one day and that was all it was going to be. One time her parents were on vacation and she just wanted it then and there. She went on and the first decent looking dude that wasn't totally weird she was banging. Another time I went from matching her to being at her spot within 4 hours. Like you said, escalate quickly be…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 03:27 AM
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If she texted you, then she knows you saw it. If you ignore it she's going to know you're ignoring her. My position would be to respond with something like "Yeah but I'm hungover as hell today" implying you can't meet up and that you were drunk during the encounter. Then just start responding slower and slower until it fizzles out. Basically do the complete opposite of sexual escalation. Friend zone it. I'd probably wait at least 8 hours to respond or something. Show low interest don't look like…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:55 PM
2

Bad strategy to show high SMV and preselection. My advice is always been to pretty much never take or post pictures with women unless you're having sex with them, or if they tell you post or take them, or even better is to let them post the picture. If you're trying to do the whole "high status via Instagram" and you're the guy, and you're just posting pictures of yourself with women, and going around asking for pictures of yourself with hot chicks, you're probably going to get laughed at. Bette…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:42 PM
1

Lol anyone that has ever worked at a restaurant or any bullshit minimum wage job knows people be going ham in those locker rooms.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:25 PM
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Be hot. Thanks for the applause. You're too kind.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:35 AM
2

Sounds like one of those manipulators you hear about. Meeting her on a dating app adds merit to what I'm saying. In my opinion, when you meet a girl on a dating app, any bullshit stipulation she gives you, such as "Need to talk for a bit before we meet up" is almost always going to lead to something bogus. Hard next this one is my two cents.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:33 AM
5

When she's adding good energy to your life and you don't have to worry about her bullshitting you around, then you'll know you found it. Some women, especially not in the West understand this concept. But if you're in the West, then good luck to you because I can bet that you're searching for the 3 percent of women at this point who haven't eaten the shit being fed to them.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:31 AM
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Don't over-analyze. Just got back from a Tinder date today. The girls on these apps, many times, are FUCKING WEIRDOS. PERIOD. Tinder takes the cake for the biggest collection of fucking weirdos of any dating app, ever. Some of them just like telling guys no. Some of them just like telling guys yes. Some smell funny. Some are annoying. That's why they're on the app. Damaged goods. She's a weirdo. Personally, I would have called it quits pretty early. Sounds like you were so horny you were down to…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:22 AM
1

Car sex? No offense but are you a teenager? lmao The other guy is saying that you displayed low confidence in the situation. I will disagree and say you probably did everything right and she was just unsure of herself. I have put the full court press on a girl before in a car when I was younger and she basically bitched out all on her own, maybe she wasn't as ready as she thought she was? A lot of these girls with these disorders are nothing but fucking problems and you really should try to avoi…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:14 AM
3

Some people really are creepy, and it doesn't matter how attractive they are. That said, attractive people generally will have a better first impression on anyone they meet, and anyone saying that isn't true is a fucking idiot. Let's not get it twisted, just because you're attractive doesn't mean you can act like an idiot.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:09 AM
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New York City needs to be on the top of your list. Literally a playground. Maybe not during the rona but before rona it's literally one of the absolute best places to learn game, to lose your fear of rejection, and to do as many approaches as you want without ever seeing the same person twice. You will pass so many chicks and you can literally just approach over and over.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:06 AM
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Right on queue, for anyone that read my post.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:01 AM
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>"I've kept my cool and told her to delete my number."< You're delusional if you think that's what "keeping your cool" means. Lol. Grow up and grow a pair. Keeping your "cool" would have been to do absolutely nothing and see what she does. >"Lately she seems to be more invested, want to spend her breaks with me."< Had this happen before. I would try to get her to hang out instead. Counter her offer with "I have to make a call on my break, but if you want to hang out after work, I'm down." Make u…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:46 AM
7

Take. Both.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:37 AM
19

Take some wine. She's literally inviting you to her place to and you're really asking this question. Girl invited you over to her house just lol. Take some wine. Rather have and not need, than need and not have. It's a sealed deal just show up with wine. She wants your D.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:36 AM
4

She has "Depression", --------depression -------keyword: depression ​ next her before her depression becomes your depression. Avoid problem people like this. You can hold your position but she's just going to start grieving and giving you shit and that's no fun.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:31 AM
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If you're a black guy and you're in any Asian country other than the Philippines, then I have no clue what the hell you're expecting with women. Those countries are some of the most white-washed on the planet. They're going to be really biased. And it just is what it is.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:29 AM
1

Wouldn't put much stock into these church girl types. Had the same situation happen to me where she got her head into church then wanted to bail. They're more fickle than average and constantly seemed confused and riddled with internal conflict. Don't worry about what's alpha or not in this situation. She's the one with the problem. You can try hitting her up for the hell of it and pretending that it didn't happen. Regardless don't put much confidence in the reliability of these types of women. …
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:25 AM
1

I'd always say to mind your own business in these situations. That's their problems. For all you know they both cheat on each other. Their relationship their problems.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:56 AM
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Just be yourself. Period. End of story. If you like relationships, as do I, just be content with what you like. I don't have trouble with women at all. All being red pill is--is to be aware. So long as you are aware nothing else makes a lick of difference. Want a girlfriend? Go for it. If not then don't. But getting caught up with it is insanity. Alpha males do what they fucking want. And for me that means finding one woman, and letting the love and emotions go as far as it can. If she leaves th…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:52 PM
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Just be yourself. Period. End of story. If you like relationships, as do I, just be content with what you like. I don't have trouble with women at all. All being red pill is--is to be aware. So long as you are aware nothing else makes a lick of difference. Want a girlfriend? Go for it. If not then don't. But getting caught up with it is insanity. Alpha males do what they fucking want. And for me that means finding one woman, and letting the love and emotions go as far as it can. If she leaves th…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:52 PM
2

You're better than them or she has no one else to talk to. You're the last source of good male attention so she's returned. When she finds a new guy who's half way decent she'll leave again.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:46 PM
1

Depends on who you ask. Not that it matters. Only thing you could objectively say is that one man and ten women would make a bigger population than ten men and one woman. But since we're not in he caveman days this is nearing irrelevancy.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:31 PM
1

This lol they'll send you their friends
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:39 AM
1

Find out when she's free and meet up and don't overthink things
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:38 AM
2

You should absolutely take the second date unless you've been buying her 100 dollar dinners. Just stop fucking up. If she shows up it's almost a guarantee of sexual things happening because she knows what you're trying to do. If you're buying her 100 dollar dinners then I would not go on the date, because you'd know she just wants the lobster tail you bought her last time.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:31 AM
8

More important is your nutrition and how hard you push yourself during the workouts
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:30 AM
1

Happened to me before. I honestly just ignored it and lived my life, but my rougher than average childhood has led to almost any smear campaign being negligible to my emotions. Eventually they'll move on to the next victim.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:10 AM
2

Hug her when you guys meet, but I would advise not to kiss to avoid startling her if she isn't warmed up. Sit down close to her and after a minute try to hold her hand. Then from there just escalate the situation, other hand in lap, kiss on lips, hands going down her pants, bla bla bla
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:07 AM
1

Not everything is a test. She thought you were hot and you blew her off.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:01 AM
1

Probably in the same league as any popular nightclub. The last time any of these venues were easy was probably early 2010s at the latest. Nowadays it's pretty much a crapshoot.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:57 AM
2

Yes. Lol
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:54 AM
1

Quite uncommon. Especially among the ones that are actually cute, or aren't banging 25 dudes at once. And I can't blame them. Real sex isn't porn. The best sex is sex that gets shit done before the situation outstays its welcome.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:53 AM
2

At the gym, the last time I tried was "Ohh so you like coming here at night? (The time was after 10pm)" and she was like bla bla bla I don't like crowds bla bla bla and she was obviously interested because she's going on and on and on and on driving the conversation herself. Then just be like ohh you wanna text each other and talk later? Keep it casual and not heavy. You can amp it up over text. At work I already knew the girl's name, I said "Hey (name), aren't you ready to go home? (the time wa…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:44 AM
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Lol I just had this experience. She just wants it when she wants it, otherwise you never hear from her. These people don't change. If this bothers you start getting another person to talk to. It bothers me because if I am having sex with someone there at least needs to be communication. If she doesn't respect your time then fuck it.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:39 AM
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I've found I get increasingly more flirty the hornier I get. Stop jacking off and you'll be the flirt master in no time. Also, chase hotter girls. You should be able to naturally get in your state where you're trying to seduce someone. If that's not happening then you have a logistic problem not a problem of needing to learn how to flirt.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:37 AM
1

Lmfao why do you have to tell them just say you aren't married, at least at first. ​ lmfao
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:36 AM
1

It's a high stakes game especially if it's a smaller gym, but it can definitely work. What I've found in life is the higher the risk the higher the possible reward. Nothing good comes easy. Cliche as fuck but I swear it's true. Anyone saying otherwise clearly hasn't tried it. I'd also advise going for girls at work, despite what others say. The rules here are don't go up to her completely cold hitting on her and talking about how pretty she is, and grabbing her ass, but rather making small talk …
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:28 AM
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It's online dating. Lol. You're just on a losing streak. It's like gambling. Online dating at best is a supplement to your dating life. If that's your main squeeze this is just what you are going to deal with. The best girl you'll meet on online dating is probably about half as good as you can do in person.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:19 AM
1

I would "slow ghost". Slowly pull back until you're in the clear. I wouldn't do anything harsh because then you're going to get 25 phone calls a day and ain't nobody got time for that. That was a terrible joke and she can go to hell. Slowly start ignoring her texts and calls, and inch your way away from her.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:14 AM
1

You're being insecure, and it can either be a shit test or just a girl opening up. It's irrelevant. I've never met a single girl that hadn't told me about prior sexual experiences. The way I see it is people in general want to tell the world who they are, but they only want to share it with people they have no fear of judgment from. You shouldn't react to it. Just act interested and be happy she's being honest with you. To me, this is a good thing. Would you feel better if she hid all of this fr…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:11 AM
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You're being neither. Since you had sex with her it's neither, you're just offering non-sexual benefits to someone you had sex with. It's just neutral/not treating her like shit. That said, she's 19 and probably confused as all hell so good luck with the rest of that.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:05 AM
3

Those things are habitual. Probably years of talking to rich people will force you into certain habits. If you notice how he speaks he has a way of speaking with salesman lingo as well. "The greatest economy ever, tremendous economy." All habitual as far as I'm concerned.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:01 AM
1

Never seen this before. All I know is that women on birth control most definitely seem to be less horny, but other than that I don't see much difference. Sounds like you're seriously going down a rabbit hole. Chill out.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:57 AM
5

Exactly. He says that social status is key to getting women. If his goal is "Get more women" you can literally just get your body into shape, and approach girls, or go on a dating app or whatever. He's tip toeing around the issue instead of taking a more direct form of intervention. Social status is irrelevant. He's been watching too many movies. Who's smashing all the chicks on Tinder? The attractive Chad, that's who. Not the rich guy; he's the one taking girls out for dinner and getting nothin…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:26 AM
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Social status does not give you access to women the way you think it does. It might get more women around you, sure. But do you want women around you, or do you want to have sex with women? Social status gets you nothing but surrounded by clout chasers. If you want to have sex with more women, hit the gym, and get your confidence high, and learn how to spit game. That's how you have sex. Not by being a boat surrounded by a bunch of people who don't care about you. The only time social status wil…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 03:31 AM
2

Yes go for it. Absolutely. You have nothing to lose. No don't be drunk at all. No do not invite her for a booty call. You can't sell it to her like that. Make up something like "Ohhh want to hang out and have a drink?" or "Hey feel like seeing a movie tonight?" then escalate by touching her on the date. Then invite her back to your place after all of that
/r/askTRP04/09/20 03:23 AM
1

Seriously this. All this talk about ghosting and blocking, that’s emotional beta shit. That’s what girls do when they’re mad. Be a fucking man about it. If she hits you up just say you don’t want to see her. You don’t even have to tell her why. Just say you don’t feel like seeing her. Do that a few times and she’ll probably stop calling. That’s all you have do. If you have to block a girl, ghost her, and all this other shit you got bigger problems to deal with. If you have to react like that the…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:06 AM
4

Basically this just move it further from tinder and closer to a meet up. She either thinks you're hot enough to meet up or she'll stop responding once you start steering it to a meetup.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:34 AM
4

Been there, done that. There is nothing you can do but move on and try to pick a girl that isn't so crazy next time.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:42 AM
15

"Yeah I'm trying to do that....." "I'm trying to do (insert anything here)...." "I've been trying to do (insert anything here)...." It's so weak; do or do not, there is no try.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:48 AM
3

I wouldn't commit to anyone if you have fear of missing out. Period. But I wouldn't tell her "yeah I'm not being your boyfriend" because she's going to next your ass quick. Just say you're down to see where things go and keep it out that. Simple. Not hurting feelings is easy so long as you're honest. Don't tell her you want to be with her if you have FOMO, just say "I'm not sure but we can see where things go and go from there". Any hurt feelings would be her own faults because you have not made…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:50 AM
2

There's nothing wrong with you having standards, but I think it would be a stretch to find an early 20-something woman today that would be all of those things, and attractive at the same time. Your standards are hard to come by and that's putting it lightly. So you should likely prepare for quite a journey ahead. It seems unrealistic and is probably a losing bet. So for starters, she's hard to find. My next point is I think trying to settle down with girls in their early 20s is fundamentally fla…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:27 AM
3

Because if you want to her to stick around for more than just one round of sex, you can't just be a fuckboy. You should not aspire to be a fuckboy. You have to have something appealing going for yourself and boyfriend qualities to offer her if she's going to stick around. It's the same thing as men more or less if you met a hot girl, but, she's broke, and has no other qualities to offer you; you would have sex with her a couple times because yeah she's hot, but then you go about your business. Y…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:00 AM
3

No I wouldn't do anything of that cheeky stuff. You're not interested in interacting with the guy. He's just being interference. Just ask her "Oh, you had a boyfriend?" and she'll put him in his place with her answer. If she goes "Oh no lol, he's just my friend." then his heart will sink and it will have nothing to do with you. You can't protect lays in environments like that no more than I can change lanes in Times Square; if you miss your turn you just have to go to the next light, I can't cra…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:54 AM
3

I doubt he stole anything. He seems like one of her beta orbiters, or her friend, but I could be wrong, and if she was all into you, then she was down for it. I wasn't there so IDK. Most of the times on vacations, or nightclubs, or bars, or whatever, they have friends there who will fuck the convo up if you wait long enough. I would not under any circumstances start a fight over some random woman, so I would have backed off. Not worth it. There's nothing you could do right there. The solution? G…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:21 AM
1

What kind of compass are you reading, lad?
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:15 AM
1

Do you want to have sex with her? That's either a yes, or a no. If yes, just make any move and it'll work because you already had sex with her and she's down. If no, which isn't a bad option btw, then keep it moving. I don't fancy everyone that fancies me, and I'm not banging them if I don't want to. You're really making this more complicated than it is.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:08 AM
1

If you base your life around "What is my SMV?" then you are going to have a defeatist mindset 100 percent of the time. Questioning yourself is part of your issue. "Am I good enough?" "Is my value high enough?" You should always be improving yourself every day. If you see someone you like, go for it. Go out with the idea of having a good experience, and believe that you can score with any girl. You won't win them all, but it's damn sure better energy to put off into the world than what you're doi…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:59 AM
0

Work out, buy some video games, and search for jobs/internships.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:52 AM
5

If you're trying to have sex with her, then make a move, because she's noticing you obviously. If you don't care about engaging her, then stop worrying about it and just be like "Absolutely, I've had six beers." She's not in limbo, but you seem to be in limbo aka indecisive.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:49 AM
4

Depends entirely on logistics and what she's looking for at the moment in time. Things like if you're hot, if you're rich, how old she is, etc. If her friends all have boyfriends, she wants a boyfriend. If her friends are being hoes, she will want to be a hoe. In the grand scheme it's really not worth figuring out. I don't. Just let it rock and play it by ear as a dude. She can see you as however she wants; if you get laid and have a good time, does it even matter?
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:46 AM
1

Sexual texting, sure, occasionally have a sexy text spree. It'll keep the spark hot if nothing else. Anything else, keep it to a minimum. The boring stuff kills a flame.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:49 AM
15

When you find a girl who treats you right, get serious with her. Until you find her, never settle for anything less. That is all you can do as a man. Spending energy worrying about it, is a waste.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:06 PM
13

Text occasionally and that's it. Nothing else you can do. This is life. Fuck the maintaining attraction nonsense. When this is all over hit her up to meet up; at that point she either comes back or dips. Who cares. Spend your energy on better things.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:04 PM
1

Lmfao you must be trolling
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:02 PM
3

First thing is to stop using smoking as a distraction from the problem at hand. You have enough money to make it. You'll be fine, but you should try making amends with your parents at this time. That's my opinion, but hotels are expensive. If you can find a friend to stay with for a bit, do that. But you should probably try to work things out with your parents at this time. If none of that works, go on Craigslist and Facebook and find a roommate
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:10 AM
3

Many people are outside going for walks, and playing outside. I haven't seen this many people outdoors in their neighborhoods in at least 15 years. Buy roller skates, go ride a bike. Buy some roller blades and fly up and down the streets. Maybe talk to some chicks out there doing the same thing; not everyone is actually scared of this. Many are bored. Buy some weights and do home workouts. Buy a pull up bar. Do indoor cardio. Maybe do some yoga. Buy a new video game, catch up on some old TV show…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:39 AM
1

I wouldn't double text her if that's what you're asking. If she doesn't want to respond then who cares. Talk to someone else. I would put your energy into this stuff when you can actually see her face to face.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:32 PM
4

This has been my experience: spinning plates, rotations, whatever you want to call it usually has those people drop off once they feel like they're just your sex toy. Any self-respecting woman is going to block and bye once they realize you're just taking them for a loop. I'm convinced the only women happy with long-term FWB are your ex-girlfriends, clout chasers, and women with no self-respect whatsoever. A good girl with good qualities being your cum rag? You can lie and tell me that, but I do…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:47 PM
1

Not worth it. Would rather take my ass kicking like a man. ;)
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:14 AM
2

Willing to bet real money that none of those people will ever meet you in real life. They're just bored, and their college Chad went back to his home state. You're the entertainment until all of this nonsense is over. Once this blows over they will forget about you and stop responding. It's bullshit. I've used my newfound free time to lift weights, lose weight, and work on things I want to work on, not waste time of dating apps. Cliffs: Unless you meet one of these people in real life it makes l…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:12 AM
1

I'll second this. Don't look for anything serious, but if a good one comes along your way of messing around and having fun, then take it. But no, I wouldn't seek out a girlfriend that this time.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:27 AM
2

No. That's the easy way out. Do the work, figure things out, be a man, and find a girl that actually wants you.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:24 AM
-2

Are you white and/or attractive? Sign up for all dating sites. All of them. You're doing fine just talk to people you are around. Stop smoking pot it demotivates you. Make friends who are trying to ascend and be better than they are today. Do not worry about anything else because they are no better than you.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:20 AM
1

It got said on some social media app and now it's mainstream. If this discourages the simp treatment women get for simply being women and nothing more, I can't complain. It should be called out for what it is.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:28 AM
1

Just ask her again. She's probably down with it. If she isn't down with it, then who cares
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:06 AM
2

With context, like she's doing something, and you ask her what she's doing, and after a little back and forth, just ask her if she's single. From complete cold with no context? -In club, nightlife, night venues "So uhh, you're single right?" This actually works, in places where people are drinking, if she thinks you're cute she will say yeah, I'm single. Then you go on. It's seldom that anyone here is completely sober so they're more open. -In normal places "Hey, what brings you here?" ---answer…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:01 AM
1

It could go either way. It's not possible to know. You should have tried to talk to her more and see if she gave in at all. She probably was into it lol. But again that's teenage weirdness phase that men and women all go through
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:54 AM
1

I read the whole thing and dude, like goddamn you act so beta and sensitive over the dumbest shit. This chick isn't even your girlfriend and you're acting all possessive? This really should prove to people that if you're a 6'4" Chad you can act any fucking way you want and the girl will be into it. Learn some self-control.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:27 AM
1

Is that really bothering you? She shows up and pays for the bills like come on dude. This is nit-picking to the max
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:37 AM
1

Then stop going to nightclubs altogether, stop drinking, and find girls in another venue that you enjoy. Do you like Reddit? Find a girl on Reddit. Do you like baseball? Meet a girl while doing baseball related things. I'm sure you see where I'm going. Honestly, I hate nightclubs. I only go to them when my friends drag me into them. And even then, I have to be drinking, because the environment is laughable. Guess what? Not one girlfriend I've had or girl I've dated has been from a nightclub. Tha…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:25 AM
0

A drink, or two And maybe some more therapy. If a hot chick is with you and you can't get it hard then I think you should get back to basics. Not every girl is like that. Get whatever help you need to get to re-balance your mindset.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:55 AM
2

Lmao so you're telling me you're piss faced drunk and can't tell a girl you think she's cute? Are you trolling me? Sober, I will be honest, I can't really approach women in nightclubs because let's be real, they're girls that go to nightclubs. In order for me to get on their level of average I need to be pretty buzzed. That part I agree with you on, it's tough to do it. But eventually you just gotta say fuck it and just go for it like someone was giving you a million dollars to say hi to some gi…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:52 AM
21

You're actually right, but I have dated some girls that aren't into that sort of stuff. If you're seeing a girl that never posts on social media, and doesn't plan on being a broke loser her whole life, and is young and cute, you can bet on it that some blockhead probably wouldn't hold her interest for long. But most people are average. So Chad does suffice for the majority of the normies. They also suffice for old women who have hit the wall that still want to pretend like they're 22.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 08:09 AM
49

There is a lot of truth in this. Most girls will have sex with those Chad types once or maybe even a few times, but if he has no depth and is a total idiot she will leave after that. That said let's not underestimate that these guys are the ones that girls tend to give the chance and time of day a lot of the time and they do get the sex. That is the issue. If you go on a dating app, the Chad looking fool will get all the messages, while the non-Hollywood looking male who may be intelligent, will…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 07:48 AM
1

You're being a wuss. Call the damn chicks over already. Sounds more like you're afraid of having sex than the neighbor. Toughen up.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 08:11 AM
1

Every country. Easiest in Asian countries where they worship white people. After that, any poor country, including anything in South America, although it might be significantly more dangerous there than in Asia.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 08:03 AM
1

sounds like she wants to do your laundry, if you nomsayin
/r/askTRP12/02/20 08:01 AM
2

You need to get out of this relationship and go back to banging all the bimbos. You sound like a Chad to be honest.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:59 AM
22

"Will it leave dye on my pillow?" Keep it playful and don't take it so seriously. Overthinking every little thing is what's really beta and not worth the energy. If she's slept with you already then you're good. With such limited time on earth, going "OHHH she sent me a picture WHAT DO I don't want to look beta" is a pretty bad use of time.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:51 AM
14

Lol you love teasing people too, what's your issue? I would say yeah grow a pair
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:08 AM
9

Start a thumb war to assert dominance
/r/askTRP29/12/19 06:00 AM
1

Basically my thoughts. The girls I used to get with would have low body counts and felt free to talk about it so long as they knew I would not snap about it and kept quiet about it. High body count women would weed themselves out and just say what was up. But I was never snappy or judgmental towards anyone. Most people will share things if you give them the space to. Be private, quiet, and be unshaken by anything and she'll tell you what happened. If you have a big mouth and/or a temper, then fo…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 10:38 AM
2

The other lifters and I pop our pecs on the trains now instead of just glaring at each other.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 08:57 AM
3

You and him are going to be riding solo for most average people you speak with because it's LDR. I'm honestly surprised to see any post about a "long distance relationship" on red pill anything. You don't have to tell him anything. It doesn't matter. This is already a rocky path you're on with him all the way over there and you all the way over the other way. Their input is just trying to steer you to what they feel is your best interest.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 07:44 AM
1

Sounds like she just used you as a distraction. Should definitely delete her and get the hell on because she’s trouble and I don’t see how you’re going to ever stick it in her. Obviously she’s a hoe but wants to play the good girl shit with you while she sluts it up with other men. Oh well. Go to the next woman who isn’t playing games. Just ignore her and go about your business.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:21 AM
3

I'm talking about going on tinder, getting a match, inviting the match straight over to a house for "dinner", then smashing. That's not a 3-pointer, that's a lay-up. That's not game. All you have to do is make sure you escalate when she gets there and it's a hole in one. I'm not talking about cold-approach or converting people who can go either way. Selling a BMW to a person who was loyal to Cadillac is game. Selling a BMW to someone who's bought a BMW every year for 10 years, who came straight …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 10:25 PM
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"I've never been a 'girly' girl." Then don't. No need to stop the presses now. Just be what makes you happy? Variety is the spice of life. What do you feel comfortable being? That's all that matters really. You pretending to be something you're not isn't helping you, and people will definitely sense you're "acting" so you want to avoid anything like that. Red Pill whatever, and I'm a dude, and I'm probably not the most masculine slug to crawl the earth, and that doesn't matter to me. I won't be …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 07:34 AM
7

Exactly. I get sick of the posts from people talking about their superb "strategies" and "game" when 9.9 times out of 10 the girl is down to fuck right off the bat if she entertains coming straight to your house. Fuck the food. Fuck the whatever. Could have given the chick a glass of wine and she would have fucked anyways. None of this makes a lick of difference. If a woman agrees to go over to your damn house right off the top, without even meeting you before, she is a hoe and she's already dow…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:22 AM
2

Agree. I'm from America. The women most open to my approach have been women who are from other countries, Asian, Hispanic, Slavic, Serbian, Italian, Greek, etc. American women are always halfway in halfway out, always giving static and complicating the situation. Always trouble. With them it's more just luck than anything; if you fit her mold of what shallow characteristics are attractive, or have tons of followers on Instagram, you're in. If not it's usually a bust or a string along. But agree …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 06:33 PM
1

Yes. Can confirm it is the best way to meet people. Even then though, it's still a tossup whether it will work. You just gotta get lucky. You really gotta find that one person who is just down with it for the person you are, because what I've noticed is girls pretty much all have 200+ options at a given point in time. Whether or not they're good options is another conversation, but it definitely isn't like it was before the social media smartphone takeover, at least in my experience, and if she …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 06:18 PM
1

I have no idea where to find women to date. Many women have turned to dating apps, and social media, two inorganic things that I want no part of. We can blame society if you want, because let's face it, dating is in a downward spiral at this point in time, and I would bet money that it will get worse before it gets better. My suggestion? Just find some hobbies, find a job at a restaurant or a retail job to work on the side or something, take a class at a college, and just pray someone has the gu…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 09:24 AM
4

She's shit. Get the hell out of there.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:07 AM
1

Totally agree. But dumb teenage girls can't tell the difference. The guy as beta as he may be will still have some sort of girlfriend
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:53 AM
27

Drive a Mustang or lifted Jeep or something :)
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:33 AM
62

In high school it's all status, nothing to do with height. If you play football they couldn't give a damn about your height. Likewise, you could be me, 6 foot something, and still get nothing because the girls in high school were all brain dead, and this was even before all the social media tinder shit that exists today
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:15 AM
3

It's not a risk of being dick-leased, IT IS being dick-leashed. My proposal is to take sex out of the question entirely. Let's say OP didn't have a vagina at all and observe from that perspective. Excluding a vagina, what other things are on the table that make someone want to stay? she'd have to control men's access to sex more and trade sex for commitment. It's never going to work, or work happily. If a person, man or woman, only had one thing to offer, then as soon as the partner gets that on…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 11:53 PM
2

Anything; it's specific for the guy. I'm just saying a man has decided if he's going to make this girl his girlfriend or not by date three, or if he's just going to bust the nut and take off. It's not like oh if she waits 15 dates I'll make her my girlfriend, because men usually can figure out a girl's hoe-level and they can tell if they feel girlfriend vibes. We can tell which girls get around a lot, which girls are picky, and which that are faking it. Some girls are picky, those I'll wait for.…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 11:46 PM
1

....so you have "kino" with your male boss at work?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:14 AM
2

Wrong. When she gives out sex is irrelevant, past waiting until date three, because if you fuck in five minutes it's just like lol how many times have you done this. After the third date the man has already decided if the woman is girlfriend-worthy or a candidate to be a girlfriend. If she isn't girlfriend worthy, he'll just grind the fetch quest out until he gets the booty, then he's gone. Most of the time dudes probably know within 20 minutes if a girl is girlfriend-worthy, but obviously no gu…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 07:48 AM
5

Every single quality you listed about yourself are physical qualities. Not a single thing like "I have a good paying job" or "I make good food." or "I play video games with him." or "I know how to make a man feel appreciated." All you said was "I have a nice body, a nice face, long hair, booty so round, oh and I ask questions and can talk, oh, and I go to the gym." Well, I mean, there you go. Think about it, those gamer girls, I'd say 90 percent of them have boyfriends and they're probably not h…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 07:16 AM
9

I call BS. They just find less attractive men easier to control, because odds are the dad bod has less options and a higher tendency to please the wife due to a scarcity mindset. Lots of women want to be with John Mayer, and he's a fucking asshole. What makes girls happy and what they're attracted to are usually different. Yeah you might be happier with Joe the Plumber but let's be real, if John Mayer were an option, Joe is assed out even though he buys her everything she wants.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 07:02 AM
1

What people find attractive, and what makes them feel good isn't the same for everyone, so whether or not she's settling down is often a tossup dependent on preferences and the lifestyle a person is living. What's certain though is the Chad cock riders, who never could make Chad her boyfriend, will most likely settle down with less than what she wanted just to not be lonely forever. But that's not every person.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 06:59 AM
13

NEVER EVER SHAKE A GIRL'S HAND. IT'S NOT AN INTERVIEW.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:31 AM
15

The first word I say is "Hey" Usually followed by direct eye contact (not staring her down but eye contact to show you're not scared) Followed by a question usually, notice how they're open ended and that they aren't compliments, examples: "Are you enjoying this bar?" "Are you here for the bla bla bla too?" I've used "Is your boyfriend going to be mad if he sees me talking to you?" and despite what some here might think, it does work in the right setting, maybe not in a library, but in a nightcl…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:31 AM
2

You're right, depending on the setting. But in certain bars, many guys are so beta that if they see you doing it they're ready to fight. So it's something to consider if you're in certain places
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:24 AM
1

Sounds to me like you misled and confused her. I wouldn't do anything drastic. If I were you I would slowly disconnect from her. Cold turkey might make her go crazy. DO NOT full ghost this woman. She is crazy. Slowly pull back from this girl. And be understanding of her feelings; it will make this go a lot smoother if you pretend you care about her feelings. She felt misled so play from that front. You played her, so I mean, yeah, she's going to be mad. I think most people would be. Imagine if y…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:15 PM
2

I guess I should say there is a difference between A girl trying to tie down a man for beta purposes, such as husband duties, beta provider that she just has for security and because he's a safe man. loving a man, respecting him, having "real" sex with him not barter/pity sex, etc, and wanting to tie down the Chad alpha to satisfy her want to keep him from other women. While I agree with you about that I do think there's a difference between the two, although they both would be called a boyfrien…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 03:43 AM
5

Disagree. I think a lot of this takes a far too cynical position on female emotions. If you're the casual sex guy, she is just using you for sexual gratification, sees you as not worthy of loving, and you're just the maintenance guy. I'd argue that you see a girl's true nature by having a woman, who clearly loves you, and is emotionally hooked into you, who is trying her hardest to sex you into a relationship. Because then you see the girl bring out all the big guns, she'll give sex whenever you…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 02:29 AM
2

If you are John Mayer, you could be like "Yo bitch" and probably accomplish the same thing. Calling her babe should be something you do after you've already asserted your frame, so she's sees it coming, and also know that she's somehow interested in you or sending you smiles. Don't do this to some girl giving you the coldest stare.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 05:19 AM
1

Don't tell her where you live yet. Invite her out to a date and see if she's crazy, then decide from there. Feel it out.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:13 AM
2

Sounds to me that she actually enjoyed it. If she blows you again it must mean she gets off on you just blowing in her mouth anyway. If she doesn't suck you anymore then that means she really didn't like it.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:56 AM
2

There is absolutely nothing wrong with relaxing, having a smoothie, or eating a damned McFlurry and just relaxing for a bit. Nothing wrong with relaxing. If you can't relax, that's because you have anxiety, or high blood pressure. Either way, you need to learn how to just sit down and relax, and do something that winds you down. If you're in a constantly wound UP state that's not good. Try finding a TV show to watch at a scheduled time everyday for your relaxing time. Have something that you loo…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:15 PM
4

About the sex, honestly, if she's having sex with you nearly every day, I can totally believe her getting burned out after a while. Having sex at this rate for a prolonged period of time can burn you out too so don't be surprised. The sex is a non issue to me and I wouldn't think much about this. I can totally believe you've pushed her to sexual satiation. Let her engage the sex a little more. Pretend to be a little bored with her or something. About the other stuff,........so what? If you don't…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:08 PM
3

I second this.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:43 AM
3

Can't force the dude to hang out. Maybe he has a girlfriend. Maybe he's become the doormat to her. Whatever the problem is it's his problem. Hang out with someone else or just hang out with yourself. Become your own best friend.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:22 AM
3

A normal girl isn't going to act like she was raised by baboons.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:19 AM
1

Giving her less attention, and acting like you're not interested would probably do the trick. But it's anyone's guess really. Maybe she'll be happy you left and just laugh at you. Maybe she'll send texts asking why you're not talking to her. I'd probably not waste more time with people who have that sort of energy but different strokes different folks I guess. I feel like if you tried to put a stop to it so late in the game it would not even be effective. That's like telling a girl to stop cheat…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:16 AM
1

Sounds to me like there is something wrong with this girl, to put it frankly. You're talking about holding frame with a woman who behaves extremely irrationally like she wasn't raised with basic manners. Just don't get mad with her and advance your moves on her. Honestly I don't see any girl with that mindset lasting that long as a plate. You've only hooked up 3 times, and my money is on it being a few more times at best because she doesn't seem wrapped too tight. Truthfully couldn't tell you ho…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:58 AM
3

Honestly, if it were my money, I'd bet that she lied lol. To me, that sounds wayyyy too coincidental. He's at least seen that pussy before. Maybe not been in it, but that plate of yours is not as pure as she's leading you to believe that is for sure. She's at least been naked around him before for him to know that. Or she's at least been naked around someone before. There's just no way your friend pulled that out of his ass on the spot. My advice for you? Don't get serious with her as she seems …
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:49 AM
5

I'm not a therapist, but seriously, I think you need to listen to him and stop with the "I have to pump some iron!" mindset, which is really what I believe he is saying. In another example let's say he said "Don't force yourself to play video games if you don't want to." I think it's easier to see the sense that he's trying to convey in this example. Working out is great for improving yourself and getting into shape and definitely part of growing over obstacles. But there comes a point where you…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:39 AM
1

I've not found that to work a single time, personally. I very highly doubt you're the best guy she has in the pool of 500 men in her DM's. If you cold approach her in real life, then out of the 2 guys that came up to her that week, you have good odds of catching her attention. But if you're one of the 500 men in her DM's you really are assed out, and the same goes for Tinder, when the pool of men grows even larger. The more choice she has in a given pool the harder it will be for you. The best y…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:05 AM
1

Well, see if she actually meets up with you. If she shows up, then you're probably right. If she comes up with any reason to not show up, then I'm probably right.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:01 AM
1

Leading a girl on, lying to her, or anything of the sort is pretty beta and reeks of a scarcity/needy mindset. Tell her the truth, be yourself, and call a spade a spade. If she doesn't want to be friends with benefits, no problem, because there's other women out there who would be totally happy to do it with you. If she's not fine with you seeing other women, no problem, because there are girls out there who probably won't even ask if you're seeing other women. If you gotta play, lie, hem and ha…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:01 AM
1

She's becoming possessive, so I'd say, she's projecting that she wants to be exclusive with you and it comes out as "Are you messing with other girls?" Not everything is a shit-test. But saying to her that "I am seeing no one but you, my love!" implies you've became clingy to her and this could easily run her away. If she feels you've clung to her she will think she has you by the balls. Just answer with "Occasionally." I think that's the best you've got here. It implies that while she is your m…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:55 AM
3

Do exactly as he said. Also, proceed like this didn't happen and stop fucking questioning her like you're her damned husband. She isn't your gf or a wife. So why are you giving her shit like "ARE YOU SEEING OTHER MEN? DID HE PUT THAT THERE?" like goddamn. She isn't wife material so stop checking up on her. If you catch her, you will catch her in time. Just watch the waters and stop digging for answers. If she's fucking other dudes you will eventually catch her on your own.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:50 AM
0

The girl is not your girlfriend. Understand that part. She can do whatever she wants. You confronting her about who she's messing with is a no-no. And you should not be telling her what you're doing either. When the woman asks you if YOU are seeing other women, answer truthfully, but this means she wants you to be her boyfriend and is becoming possessive. When you ask her, then that means you're becoming possessive about her. So you're fucking this up. You're getting oneitis. Honestly, if it was…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:47 AM
1

Look like Leo DiCaprio
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:41 AM
1

It's nonsense. Offering ass kissings and spoils to women in order to get them to meet you is bogus. That's just setting yourself up to get used. I mean, who would turn that down? You're basically saying you'd do anything for them at that point.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:39 AM
1

Find a BDSM website or dating site or hookup app. They exist I am sure
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:37 AM
3

She is NOT interested in you. She is interested in your attention. Just ignore her. Don't tell her anything. Re-initiate later asking if she wants to hang out soon. If she gives you static the second you ask to hang out then you know she's just fucking with you for attention. She just wants to talk to you about the dude she's fucking.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:35 AM
1

Sounds like she's a complete hoe, confirming the fact that she was met at a drunken party and made out with you. She's got other guys on the hook. Just stop texting her at this point. She will text you herself if she wants penis. But she sounds like a timewaster and you need to go get some other women lined up.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 03:01 AM
29

"I'd rather use MySpace."
/r/askTRP04/02/19 02:20 AM
1

Your friend gives them free shit, gets them in venues, and does all that, and they give them some of their pussy. You can be jealous of him if you want to, but for what it is, anyone can give girls free shit and get sex with hoes. That's really all it is. Sex is sex I guess but the way you view is like "Omg he just gets all the pussy and they love him, and I wannt to know how he does it." Guy gives club/bar hoes free shit, hoes give blow job. If that's your cup of tea, then hey what the hell. If…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:34 AM
1

There's something wrong with her. You're dumb for leaving marks on someone like that whom you haven't even vetted for crazy. Collect all your evidence and put it in a safe place just in case, in some sort of cloud storage. I'm not saying she is that crazy but a girl that asks for something then half panics over it might not be very stable. Be sure to comfort her until she heals and is okay. But you need to not mess with people like this.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:19 AM
6

Yeah, fuck that. If it were me, I'd advance on her through text message. If she's digging it, then yeah, you know it's not the friendzone. But if she's not feeling the advances through the text message I wouldn't drive 1.5 hours to find out.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:53 AM
4

Less is more. The guy blabbing incessantly and social butterflying is just friend zoning himself with everything in the room.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:48 AM
1

How far is the drive? Is it over an hour or something?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:45 AM
2

I'd try to escalate with her. Long distance relationships where you don't physically see the other person are a joke. If she doesn't give in to your advances just give your attention to women that actually want to have sex. It's not orbitering unless you're up her ass constantly, showering her with attention while she does nothing for you sexually.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:45 AM
2

When you encounter this scenario, walk up to her, and move her away from the hive. Not too far, or she'll deny. But go up to her, like a man, and just be like "Hey, what's up? Come here for a second." then just continue like the guys don't even exist. She'll forget about the orbiters. Just get her to reposition herself out of ear-sight of the orbiters.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:40 AM
12

Why not just meet up with her and find out? If she rejects your advances then just cut the date short where you see an exit and move on. What do you have to lose: an hour? Sheesh.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:38 AM
2

Just be vague and say you're just seeing what's out there and not making anything serious IMO. Unless she's divulging details there's no obligation to divulge your details.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 01:11 AM
1

Only a margin of the male population is that socially inept and the more attractive you are the more socially retarded you can be. This is a point that people need to understand. Some people think that good game is the sole factor in getting laid. Truth is, most Chads and Tyrones are straight aspies and STILL get laid. Be white, be tall, somewhat attractive, and somewhat in shape and you can literally have Asperger's for game and you'll still get laid because the hoes will deal passes to certain…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 05:57 AM
1

A few points I'd like to make: You said you weren't seeing anyone at the time, and honestly, more or less you were acting like person who wasn't seeing anyone. You were meeting chicks on Tinder, hoes that expected dates at that. You went on the first date and didn't kiss her? You've gotta be white and somewhat attractive if she entertained you beyond that and called back. Others would have gotten the axe. It's a chick from Tinder; she had 100 dudes trying to fuck her at any given time. You got n…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 05:32 AM
11

Some good points in here but if you seriously walk around high fiving people like a dudebro that's pretty cringe
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 04:08 AM
3

Lol play stupid games win stupid prizes.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 03:26 AM
0

Lmao, and some dudes think you need money for a woman to want to bang them.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 02:57 AM
0

Mate-guarding, married or not is beta. If you seriously married a woman, with no class or manners, that wears skimpy clothing, then the guy goofed. There's no way to mate guard without looking like a man who has no options and no mentality that she really is just one vagina in a land of billions. Mate guarding is putting the woman on a pedestal. Even in a relationship, I've not once found being possessive like that to be advantageous in any way. Yeah, if you want her to lie to you and lose her s…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:02 AM
3

The difference is in the mental approach of the man. Telling her what to do our of fear is just weak and every man that knows two plus two should know this. Telling her what to do just because Mr. Grey wants to be in charge is another thing. I'll pose another point. Many women have fantasies of being violently raped. But that's not to say that women really want to be violently raped when they walk outside. Sure, they might want to fantasize and let you choke them in bed, but fantasy is fantasy, …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 04:44 AM
7

The main character in 50 Shades of Grey, is depicted to be extremely DOMINANT, not controlling. There is a difference. It's fantasy, but it's like BDSM; the people participating like playing the roles. That's not the same as some rich dude being afraid of the mailman stealing his girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 07:33 PM
2

About one in every ten girls I go for, actually leads to sexual interest. Status or not. Status is also sometimes environment dependent. The manager at work has the status of manager and in that environment has the status. I'd set status to the side on the list of priorities. Just work on your charisma and respect your body. From what I've seen this yields the whole every ten girls I go for one of them is down for it.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 10:25 AM
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The one controlling husband was extremely beta, not alpha. An alpha male isn't worried about other men seeing the woman he is with. For him to be that nervous to make her wear certain clothes is a control freak rich beta male and he definitely isn't the only rich beta. Your perception of women is very obviously like this because of the crowd you surround yourself with. Make no doubts about it. Surround yourself with "religious" rich folks aka, hypocrites r us, and you wok absolutely find women l…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 10:17 AM
3

Had no clue religion even had its place in the Red Pill. Commitment and loyalty quickly becomes needy, beta stupidity when implemented in the way you speak of. Loyalty is not being sexless for 6 months at a time while a girlfriend who lives 3000 miles across the fucking sea. That's just being dumb. That is called having no self-respect for yourself and placing her on the pedestal, like you live to please her. What makes a man beta is to be a fool, that is so desperate, lazy and dumb to not drop …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:28 AM
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You guys consistently complain about women with boyfriends cheating.....BUT HOW FUCKING BETA AND DUMB OF A BOYFRIEND AND A MAN DO YOU HAVE TO BE TO BE IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH A CHICK WHO IS THOUSANDS OF MILES AWAY FOR AN EXTENDED PERIOD OF TIME, LITERALLY MONTHS? No fucking wonder they cheat! They have a bitchmade, needy, desperate male sitting at home who can't call it off even when it makes no sense. How can she respect a man who does not even respect himself? For fuck's sake women ar…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:09 AM
1

Lol I feel your victory OP, I had an easy lay come from a dating website. In my opinion though, it is never as satisfying when I don't have to work for it to win. I am sure humans value their victories by the level of difficulty and obstacles that they overcame to get to their goal. She literally just threw herself at me I didn't have to do much of any work at all. I had to to use maybe 50% of my game reserve to convince her. The girl that came before her, took 100% of my game reserve for a whil…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 02:41 AM
2

Not going to knock a system if it works for you, but trying to "prove" yourself to women, in general, and especially on social media is pretty weak "game" in my honest opinion. So you've got her instagram, you follow each other, and you waste your days trying to impress dumb instagram hoes by posting videos of yourself doing shit?! Lol. I mean come on what is the need for all that noise. Why complicate it to this extent where you're using 15yo girl tactics to try to appear intriguing?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 09:14 AM
1

Good information ITT. Never involve yourself in stupid social media where women just post pics of body and have guys pouring at them. Correct, it is beta. They're NOTHING without their stupid social media. Go get them in person and they're just a fucking person.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 11:07 AM
2

What's a beta male with money? A beta male, except with money. Nothing more nothing less. I've too seen this type of person constantly posting material possessions advertising himself to society as this prowess of yuppy success but the truth is it works for nothing. The only woman you can catch with that net is the most intense form of trash character. The woman who can walk away from losers with money and not use them show a hell of a lot more of character than those who stay and milk them for …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:47 AM
2

Not exactly. It's one thing if you're a fucking a woman all the time, and want to buy her a gift. It's another to just buy gifts for a girl, just because she's a girl. This woman gives him what he wants, whenever he wants it, so in this scenario if he gifts her a purse, it's so be it. As long as it's on his terms it's fine.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:36 AM
1

Literally what I would have done. FORCE her to see the man that you are, and force her to see that she can be dropped in a heartbeat for other vagina. Odds are, this probably would have straightened her up before any "therapy".
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:34 AM
9

Lmaoooooooo "Even though I was fine with her tits the way they were." I could just imagine the arguments.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:20 AM
30

Not so much once a cheater always a cheater. Cheating is an ACT, that is led forth by certain character traits that men need to be proactive in identifying: deceitful, dishonest, disloyal, insecurity, lack of self-esteem. If she tells you white lies, or big lies, or moderate lies, you know that you're dealing with a woman who has no issues lying to you. You need not get serious with any woman you catch lying in any way. Because prolonged time with her, and marriage, will lead to her fucking othe…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:11 AM
7

This is absolutely correct. The OP picked a trash woman expecting her to be some perfect wife. He allowed himself to be fooled by tits and ass. He ignored her shit character that she's likely shown for years.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:08 AM
1

Man picks trash woman, and wifes her. He tried to turn a hoe into a housewife by spoiling her. He failed to vet her character and was blinded by the vision of just having a beautiful woman around. Marries her, procreates, eventually woman cheats and he is stunned and shocked when it's very likely that all the flags and signs have been pointing to a cheap hoe for the longest time. But hey, at least she was beautiful, right? Another dumb ass male ruled by feminine beauty. Pathetic. Try seeing past…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:06 AM
1

The thing with asian girls is they're just so vapid that--that alone almost makes the sex dry with a lot of them. If an asian girl isn't at least a 8, I usually don't even bother approaching or doing anything with them. They try too hard to fit society's mold for them, that they end up just being batshit crazy trying to garner approval from people, and they really seem to have no problem lying to try and fit a mold either. A face for everyone. It doesn't help the parents try to steer their prett…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 09:10 PM
0

Yeah, they were in bad relationships and marriages where their husband likely fell to being sexually lazy, so she sought out something to revive her in you. Again, men do the same thing. The spark died and they found it with you. It's really that simple. Inattentive partners are the cause of cheating. Cheating happens for a reason not out of thin air. The fact that so many beta men exist to be eager boyfriends to women who really don't give a fuck about them, and just want his money, is the prob…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 09:34 AM
1

Never been asked this before in my life.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:40 AM
1

I've fucked women who had multiple rich millionaires chasing them, giving me all the cake, and making the other rich fuck work and wait, and of course never getting anything. They told me all about it. Showed me all the texts. Have plenty of screenshots of them being total babies. They're needy and pathetic and no money is changing a bitch of a male into not a bitch of a male. I'm not rich, or jacked. It's called knowing how to connect and communicate. I'm serious when most of it is just how you…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:39 AM
0

Lmao this sort of ridiculous justification for a man's cheating being any less emotional-driven, and driven by missing components in a relationship, is why I'm subbed to this sub. Lots of sour beta males in here who pick awful women who cheat, then just become bitter. Yeah, really alpha, for sure.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:36 AM
3

Men marry shitty women that look hot and wonder why they cheat. Can't help men's own stupidity to marry things that are visually appealing with awful character. Men cheat just as well, and guess what, it's the woman's fault for picking a shitty partner. "You picked him/her!"
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:31 AM
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