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I found the husband and I did verify that the dude was an x marine and beat the shit out of her. Her story matches. She comes from a catholic family and she says she hung in there for as long as she could but after the cheating and the physical abuse...she had to tap out
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 11:56 PM
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Good point...I never asked who’s house this belonged to.
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 11:49 PM
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Babies rabies age. I like that. She’s got 3 dogs and says she’s not interested in having any kids. I know that this is just shit “she is saying”
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 11:48 PM
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That’s the spirit lol
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 11:47 PM
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I salute you, brother
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 12:37 AM
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I will brother
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 04:29 PM
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I feel you sir. My GF of 8 months broke up with me for the whole “it’s not you, it’s me” line. Was there for her everyday when she needed me, loved her, showered her with affection. Openly proud that she was dating me. She Call the other day and said she wanted some alone time. I figured that’s normal since everyone likes being alone from time to time. She calls me on Sunday and Asked if I would like to go grocery shopping with her. Of course I don’t want to but I do it anyways playing the good …
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 02:33 PM
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This is four days worth I think
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 02:29 PM
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Thank you! I slaved over it all day /s
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 02:27 PM
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Put the yeast in the fridge.
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 10:47 AM
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Damn. I really like this photo op .....see what I did there?
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 01:04 AM
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Still working out soup though....it just falls through the grill when I pour it on
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:51 AM
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Days of trial an error. I mean I knew instinctively...like I was born to it, how to turn on the grill. Was I using the right type of foil, because parchment paper just lit on fire....as well as the construction paper. I have a solid idea, I’m going to write down how I do these things and the ingredients I use...like salt and pepper, and put them into a book! I’m going to be a millionaire boys!
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:49 AM
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Okra....it took me at least 4 hours to plop them down on a piece of foil and set them down on the grill. Just so extremely exhausted Edit: spelling
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:44 AM
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You have a local spot?! That’s awesome!
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:41 AM
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Amazon
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:38 AM
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Yes...yes I can!!
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:31 AM
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Fucking jealous....damn I miss living in GA. This west Texas shit is for the coyotes
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:09 AM
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Go check out r/mead Interested stuff Edit: fuck it I’m leaving it
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:03 AM
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Yeah but have you made your own booze yet?! I’m getting into mead making. Wine of the gods. So damn easy to make. 3lbs honey and add it to a gallon jug...fill the jug with water and add a lalvin d47 yeast pack to it (0.20 cents) and put a $2 air lock on top. Boom! Let her go to town and ferment. Tastes amazing!
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:01 AM
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Dude. I’m 35 and divorced. I have two kids that I hardly get to see. My GF dumped my ass for the usual “it’s not you it’s me” routine. I feel like you almost every single day. On top of that half of my fucking paycheck goes to the x wife and the IRS. I don’t bar hop...I’m not very social, but I do make GOALS. However small. Today’s goal was to do a 15 minute weight lifting session for dummies. It kicked my ass but I made t through it. My goal currently is not to burn my fucking grilled chicken. …
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 11:53 PM
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This is the type is shit that kind of makes me wish for the apocalypse
/r/MGTOW21/08/18 07:42 PM
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Do not Leave!!!!!! They can get you for abandonment
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/18 01:17 AM
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Hey amigo, I’ve been divorced for one year now and only get to see my kids for less that 72 hours every two weeks. Here’s the shit truth, you’re going to be ok. My daughter just turned 8 last week and I have. I clue what she likes or wants anymore....so it’s very difficult for me to throw her a party. Like everything that comes with divorce, you’re going to adjust and be ok. It still hurts like hell, but you’re strong. My kids don’t hate me or show any resentment for me not being around as much …
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/18 11:51 PM
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Great choice!
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/17 04:08 AM
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But you need to make A choice, sir. I feel for you sir.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/17 12:54 AM
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Hobbies....I bought a DJI Mavic pro drone and I keep myself busy with aerial photography and videos. I only see my kids every other weekend and it kills me sometimes. Honestly I’m enjoying being by myself...it sounds fucked up but I’m learning a lot about myself
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/17 10:39 PM
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This sounds very much like my marriage. Divorce, as painful as it is, is the RIGHT choice. I’ve been down the “I’m dead inside” road and brother, it doesn’t get better. Staying with a woman to keep your children from going through pain is wrong. I’ve been divorced coming up on one year and my 7&9 year old have adapted admirably. I still love my x wife, and I miss her dearly, but I could not live or have my children around that type of atmosphere. You know where this is heading and you as a fathe…
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/17 08:27 PM
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Not a bad deal sir. I pay 1250 a month and only see mine every other weekend. Texas courts and dads....nasty
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/17 07:35 PM
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Very true. I’ve been getting back into the dating game and just recently broke it off with the girl. I have this amazing talent that involves dating what appears to be amazingly beautiful woman (both inside & out) and they all turn out to be psychos. Something about me screams “hey, I know we’ve been seeing eachother for two weeks but I think we should talk about the wedding and what kind of furniture we’re going to pick out for our house!”.......Jesus. Losing faith in dating apps for sure as th…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/17 07:32 PM
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I love reddit and all the material I can use....”calculus to a cat”....I do it for “shiggles”....shits&giggles
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/17 07:28 PM
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I see what you did there ( ° ͜ʖ °)
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/17 12:25 AM
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Been there my friend! The anxiety is really earth shattering and it feels like it's constant. If you need advice, you can always DM me
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/17 08:53 PM
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Yeah, that pain will eat at you every time you think of her. I can testify that IT GETS EASIER. Getting right with yourself is what I would suggest. Work out, eat healthy, don't self medicate in booze. Know what you did to contribute to the situation that resulted in the separation and then you need to forgive yourself. Forgiving was the hardest part for me sir. Reach out to me if you ever need to vent
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/17 03:26 PM
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Don't leave the house. Once you do, Se can legally keep you the hell out for "abandonment"
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/17 07:34 PM
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Prepare yourself for the financial kick the balls. I had 125k in my 401k that I worked hard for....half that shot went to her. Jesus!
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/17 07:32 PM
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This man mapped it out perfectly! My x pulled the same happy horse shit. Once they get around the friends who influence them...they feed them all these ideas. If your woman cheated on you, then it is over! There is no getting past that transgression
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/17 07:25 PM
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Brother, you're going through some Times that I've never had to. I'm the non custodial parent and see mine every other weekend, but my x and I are on good terms. Do what you have to for you kids. They may be young but they will understand the effort you put forth when they get older. I love being a dad to two beautiful kids. My daughter is 7 and my son in 9 and they have adapted reasonably well...but it's the simple moments I treasure. I have them actually this very moment and I'm watching my so…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/17 07:19 PM
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Oh, if she just now served you with papers, I'd definitely stay away from dating for the time being
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/17 07:10 PM
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Don't rush it man! It's different for everyone but I was constantly looking on dating apps and on the hunt for a new woman. Through counseling (awesome idea btw) I figured out that I was just seeking the attention/affection to serve as a crutch. I was trying to fill a hole she left. You have to be 100% cool with yourself and understand what you did wrong (divorce has two sides) so that you don't put the same issues on the new chick. That being said...I'm seeing someone on a off for beers or for …
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/17 07:09 PM
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You need live for you, mate. If you're going to forward with it, get it over asap. They promises and excuses will open like a flood gate. Anything to keep you to stay.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/17 06:51 PM
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Holy shit! I think I need this right now. Hurting bad at the moment
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/17 02:18 AM
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Wow I'm really glad I pulled up this post. I was about to ask the same question about getting over your ex spouse. Today seems especially hard, as I'm up obsessing over my ex-wife. Today I started writing in a journal and listed out all of my flaws and the things I think contributed to the failure of my marriage. It helps me understand who are used to be and who I now want to be. I guess the problem I'm having is that she's always been emotionally cut off, and she seems to have no problem whatso…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/17 02:16 AM
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Why would you go through it again?!? At least sign a prenup. That's my plan
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/17 10:21 PM
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Absolutely correct about how things are better once you get over the emotional bits. Today is my 2nd day living apart after being stuck for 6 months together under a lease. Things for me are picking up as well. I moved into my new place with my clothes and one tv. As long as she didn't screw around with my ability to see my children I have her everything she asked for. Very thankful and feeling good
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/17 11:25 PM
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600k?!? Jesus! When was the divorce finalized and how are you doing since?
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/17 11:16 PM
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Plus I'm in Texas....they show no mercy here to fathers
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/17 10:09 PM
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Right!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/17 09:47 PM
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I agree with Hammer. Thanks you need to bite the bullet and go though with it. I waited it out for 10 years hoping it would get better. It did not!
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/17 12:03 AM
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Hey brother, you need to do some research online about your state laws regarding child support. I live in Texas and child support is generally mandatory. I was hit with 25% and ordered to pay 1220.00 a month. These are my kids so I'm cool with that. Every item you two own is considered community property and you'll need to figure out who gets what. That includes any 401k that you have. My X got $50,000 from my 401k. Now if you had any 401k before your marriage she doesn't get any of that pre mar…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/17 05:27 PM
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DOCUMENT EVERYTHING! You need as much ammo as possible. Fathers tend to get fucked....I did
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/17 03:20 PM
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Oh and don't stick it out. You'll hate yourself later for doing that and could possibly hurt the kiddo more by doing so
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/17 03:11 PM
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Hey brother. I'm a father of a 9 year old an and 7 year old daughter. My X and I were married for 10 damn years when she hit me with the divorce. It was finalized in February and this has been without a doubt the most stressful time of my life. She refused to go to counseling and became just an robot that lacked all emotions. The worst part for me was having to tell my children that mom and dad would be getting a divorce and that we would not all be staying under the same roof. Through this whol…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/17 03:10 PM
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Started the process in October and the divorce was completed on feb 3rd
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/17 01:36 AM
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It's been a month since my divorce was finalized and I can PROMISE you that everything you are feeling and doing is NORMAL. My last hurdle was coming to grips with the fact that I was no longer in control or had any say so in her new life. Now I'm working on becoming a good friend for her. Plenty of hiccups along the way and it used to eat at me every second of the day....hit me up if you need to vent
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/17 01:17 AM
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Stay strong. For me it got a whole lot worse before I saw some light at the end of the tunnel. Hit me up if you need any advice or someone to vent to
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/17 10:47 PM
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I'm in a much better place now. I've gone to alcohol counseling and that's been a life saver. 20 days sober now. I dabbled in dating and then I realized that it's just another crutch. Got to stay away from crutches and just focus on improving myself as a human. The divorce was finalized on February 3rd and I'm just now getting over my x and am feeling for in control. Cheers!
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/17 10:42 PM
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Yes. We have a son and daughter together ages 9 and 7.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/17 01:00 PM
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I'm going with their catty ass girlfriends, younger dudes that they think will make them feel younger and more desirable. They can have her. I'm sure the 27 year old dude is going to want to get into a serious relationship with a single mother of two and has the emotions of the terminator. Good luck with that shit
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/17 10:50 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I'm currently on Clonazepam 1MG and Pristiq 50mg. The crappy thing that I need to get better at is taking Clonz with me. I always end up with panic attacks with no pills on me to take. I caught my STBX in a lie when she told me that her friend was taking her to Lubbock for her birthday and that she was going to be spending the night there. (Lubbock is over 100 miles away). She came back home the next morning and I checked the mileage in her vehicle and she had only clock…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/17 12:09 AM
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My first court appearance is February 3rd...have no idea what to expect as she is the only one to have lawyered up. If I can answer any questions or have any advice I will send to you
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/17 11:47 PM
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I know in Texas the 401k is considered joint martial property. My wife gets half of anything i accrued from the day we got married going forward. Let's say I had 2k in my 401k before we got married...she doesn't get that 2k.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/17 09:58 PM
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Man I feel your pain. How much to you have in 401K? She's legally entitled to half so if you have t already, I'd suggest lowering your 401k contributions to the lowest possible amount until the divorce is finalized. I'm Losing 50k here in about a month. I'll throw some more suggestions your way when I have a few spare moments
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/17 08:00 PM
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