ValencePUA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
71	[Relationship?] What do you do when she expresses a loss of confidence?		ValencePUA	/r/seduction	14/02/14 02:35 PM
5	[FR] Three field reports in one, K-close, 3 #-closes	Field Report	ValencePUA	/r/seduction	07/09/13 11:28 PM
4	What did you learn in your day game this week?		ValencePUA	/r/seduction	06/09/13 06:15 AM
2	[FR] My Saturday Night		ValencePUA	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:35 AM
1	Hey Seddit, I'd like some input, or support, or something - haven't posted here in a long time. I've come a long fucking way, kind of stuck.		ValencePUA	/r/seduction	27/05/16 07:15 AM

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2	How do i seduce girl in talking dirty or sexting ? It can, but I try to avoid sexting women that I haven't had anything physical with yet. Not that I never do, but so many times it's lead to nothing for me so it's never a goal for me. I think sexting is best for maintaining a sexy relationship, not building one.	/r/seduction	29/05/16 04:08 PM
7	How do i seduce girl in talking dirty or sexting ? Have sex with her in person then she will sext with you later.	/r/seduction	29/05/16 02:32 PM
2	Tinder. Coming on too strong? I figured this wasn't going anywhere and said something along the lines of: "it was nice talking with you, take care". She responds with saying that I'm a cool guy but I'm coming on too strong and that a lot if girls would feel the same way. You posted a lot but let's get this out of the way. What she said is total BS. She was either using you emotionally because she was bored, was a catfisher, or something else out of the ordinary. Tinder is a medium for meeting other people in person, not for …	/r/seduction	29/05/16 02:31 PM
4	Scars and women So I'm normally a big fan of laughing stuff off, but if you can do it right, on this one I think you could consider suddenly growing thoughtful/distant, telling her that you'll tell her the story someday, and then cutting right back to playful/humorous banter. It doesn't hurt for a girl to know you have a serious, deep side, and she'll certainly want to see it if things so far enough, but when you're building things up it's not the time and place. I think a glimpse of that side can make you seem…	/r/seduction	28/05/16 06:22 PM
1	Self-deprecation – Good or Bad? Man, no no. Instead of self deprecating take that shit, flip it around, and run with it - be playful. You aren't giving us much to work with, but if you are really saying "haha check out my potato nose" I'd turn that into, "At first I always got annoyed being confused for Brad Pitt but it's starting to grow on me" or something like that. Bald? "I've been doing some men's shampoo commercials lately, I guess I have one of the sexist manes in America." Short? "Sometimes it's hard being the tallest …	/r/seduction	28/05/16 06:01 PM
1	Hey Seddit, I'd like some input, or support, or something - haven't posted here in a long time. I've come a long fucking way, kind of stuck. Yeah that is kind of the big hold up for me here, and I don't think it's just artificial or in my head. I think I've developed a fairly healthy abundance mentality, and I'd rather not fuck up a good thing (talking about my job). Sorry to hear about your story and if nothing else I'll make sure to keep it in mind when my emotions start to wander. Feel free to share more details if you're so inclined, I'd certainly listen up. I want to have fun and find something healthy and long-term without play…	/r/seduction	28/05/16 12:19 AM
1	Hey Seddit, I'd like some input, or support, or something - haven't posted here in a long time. I've come a long fucking way, kind of stuck. Appreciate the objective input. I think seduction is so successful because it forces you to abandon all the bad habits and preconceived bad ideas we pick up over a lifetime, and start over with something more raw, primal, and aggressive, yet at some point I feel like I need to be able to take what I've learned and translate that into a healthy long term/lifetime relationship. I'm not saying it's with this chick, but I think that's a boundary I'm approaching, or maybe even starting to walk parall…	/r/seduction	27/05/16 10:01 PM
98	I'm getting married today! Great FR.	/r/seduction	13/09/14 03:03 PM
9	Sedditors who have quit porn, how has it helped you? RIP comments.	/r/seduction	06/09/14 03:55 PM
54	Overcoming sexual anxiety as a virgin when shes ready put on a condom and put your cock in her	/r/seduction	01/09/14 06:14 PM
-3	Best bed sheets for sex? Any good recommendations? Get as high a thread count as is possible/within reason with your budget.	/r/seduction	28/08/14 07:32 PM
2	First time to a club, never even been to a school dance, what should I expect? can you give me some tips? If it's possible I'd recommend checking out the club some time before the night. Since you're 20 maybe this won't be a possibility, but if you can you should scope it out. That way you have an idea of the venue layout which is beneficial for so many reasons, not the least of which is just being comfortable being there. One of the rules I made for myself awhile back is that I'm not looking to get out of my comfort zone, I'm looking to expand my comfort zone. I want to be comfortable anywhere, in …	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:39 AM
2	Rock the Floor, Rock the Game (Part 1) I started hitting up a dance club about three weeks ago (never been to one before). I've really been having a lot of fun dancing, outcome independent, but this last Friday night this gal who was unfortunately a sub-6 started grinding on me. Initially I just humored her and tried to make the best of it but it was weird. What do you do in a situation like this?	/r/seduction	17/09/13 03:10 AM
1	[FR] Three field reports in one, K-close, 3 #-closes Hmm. Thank you. Noted.	/r/seduction	08/09/13 09:48 PM
1	[FR] Three field reports in one, K-close, 3 #-closes I thought that's what they were at first myself, but they were just plain round translucent bracelets. Do you care to give any insight into why not to keep trophies?	/r/seduction	08/09/13 07:27 PM
1	[FR] Three field reports in one, K-close, 3 #-closes Thank you!	/r/seduction	08/09/13 12:16 AM
1	Seduction is not for the impatient "In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually, what you wish for doesn’t fall in your lap; it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to it. This isn’t because the universe is cruel. It’s because the universe is smart. It has its own cat-string theory and knows we don’t appreciate things that fall into our laps." - Neil Strauss, The Game	/r/seduction	06/09/13 05:53 PM
2	What did you learn in your day game this week? Useful information to recognize.	/r/seduction	06/09/13 05:38 PM
2	What did you learn in your day game this week? Sounds like a good week! I'd like to hear how things pan out with Lecture Girl.	/r/seduction	06/09/13 05:37 PM
1	Debate: "Canned" Openers -vs- "Just talk to the girl and practice being spontaneous." Which abbreviations are you struggling with? The sidebar has a two part glossary found here and here. The only abbreviation I'm seeing in this thread which isn't on the glossary is MM, which is gonna stand for Mystery Method.	/r/seduction	06/09/13 07:43 AM
1	So, I can't even talk to people let alone women, can I do this? Start by smiling :) Seriously, if you make a goal of smiling at 100 people, you should have no trouble meeting that goal (note that the goal is smiling at other people - not getting them to smile back at you - what they do is unimportant). Then, you'll have something under your belt. From there you can start saying Hi or How are you?	/r/seduction	06/09/13 06:50 AM