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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 111 | A HVM will make you like your own personality MOREVery true, and we wondered why we didn’t feel like ourselves while dating all the LVM that we did. I always felt my true personality failed to come out with my exes. I’m naturally goofy, funny, and talkative around those I’m comfortable. Their actions or words always brought out my anxious or paranoid side. That gut feeling doesn’t lie, if you feel the need to keep your guard up or not be able to be yourself around a man—he’s not the one. Even if vetting is forever, you shouldn’t have to suppres… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 04:51 AM |
| 4 | Valentine’s Day Is Coming UpThank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 08:53 AM |
| 18 | Valentine’s Day Is Coming UpCovid is really bad, and healthcare workers are having a very hard time with being understaffed and in close contact with infected patients. I would say we can both get tested if he decides to initiate another date, but I can’t even trust results coming back in time or being accurate. Thank you for your response! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 04:25 AM |
| 9 | Anti-Seductive Qualities to AvoidI was so confused myself lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:22 AM |
| 120 | Do not refrain from running a background check, snooping his phone, or showing up uninvited — trust but verify. Which tactics have you used to check his credibility?Truthfully, no matter how much you ask or what you do—it may never be enough with the type of men this planet has. Then again, it’s one of the several ways we can vet. • Snooping through phones should include thorough social media check, message history check, group chat checks, gallery/deleted/hidden section checks. • Noticing patterns of who he’s talking to and finding out what their history is. • Watching his dynamic with others and his circle. Seeing the type of friends he has and what they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:16 AM |
| 4 | I Hate My LVM FatherI’m sorry to hear we’re in the same boat, we’ll definitely get out of this shitty situation soon 🤞🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:56 AM |
| 62 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!The ignorance echoes through everything they say against FDS. Sometimes leaving it alone is better—there will always be plenty like them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:31 AM |
| 143 | I’m disgusted but I’m not shocked at all. It’s very common for families to shield abusers and put their young children at risk to be abused. You’re not safe from male depravity even when you share blood.Disgusting. Yet another example of how you can’t trust anybody when it comes to the things they do/think and what they find acceptable— aka: porn. I’d be hella uncomfortable too if I was in her position, just knowing her father is a pornsick piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:39 AM |
| 78 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickI’m wheezing 💀🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 45 | A Little Humor For Y’all :)By the mental disorders, I’m referring to when these men use them in order to gain sympathy, to manipulate, or use it as a reason to justify the bare-minimum and other unacceptable behaviors. Of course mental disorders and depression are not a joke, but there are plenty of men who make them into one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 04:31 AM |
| 44 | I Put My LVM Father In His PlaceIt’s not necessary but I want to take advantage of not having to pay rent. I wouldn’t be able to work either starting the end of august because I’ll be student teaching (unpaid) full time. The house is under my mom’s name too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 06:10 AM |
| 324 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨Oh, you always gotta keep screenshots/recordings and anything else in a separate place. But sometimes, even with concrete proof they act deaf & blind. Either they lack common sense and empathy to understand why something they did or said was unacceptable, or they pretend and justify it some other way. Just gonna end up “gaslighting” themselves on fire 🔥🚶♂️⛽️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 07:31 AM |
| 58 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹Even with access to sex work, men still use multiple ways of getting off, whether it’s— watching pOrN, OLD with ulterior motives, strip clubs, “fwb”, incest, rape, sex toys, fucking animals, random objects, online (video) chats, images/memes/thot-pages, social media, you name it. Sex work is just another boat riding the same wave, each breeding lust, psychological issues, poor habits, and plenty of other things amongst its consumers. Nothing makes sex work “important” or “necessary”, just subjec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 88 | If you want a "traditional" woman...“while I continue to watch porn.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:28 AM |
| 43 | Dozens of women sue Pornhub - alleging explicit videos were uploaded without their consentCan’t wait for all porn sites/sources everywhere (even in the deep web) get taken down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 153 | I found my underwear in my brothers room, I am seriously paranoid & starting to think the worst. Just Why. Perversion needs to stop invading my life.I would confront him about it, and also make sure you know every one of your undergarments well enough to tell if one is missing or has already been used. If he in fact took it for pornsick reasons, then I would consider having a lock on your bedroom door. What would be even better is if you invest in a hidden room camera that you can view through your phone anytime (Amazon has many). Who knows what he else does when he’s in your room, and when you’re not home. Also, he can buy his own lighter a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 31 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.I’m gonna go further on this and mention their body count in terms of watching porn and mentally fucking the women they get off too as well. Probably over 100 for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 01:40 AM |
| 139 | This 👇🏼Sex is not a need, men won’t die without it, nor will they die without porn, prostitution, sex-workers, etc. They know this very well, yet consciously choose to involve themselves with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:43 PM |
| 20 | Pickmeishas Reinforce LVM Behavior, and Vice VersaYou are absolutely right, and that is something I learned during all the reflecting I did after the breakup. Definitely cannot change someone who doesn’t see an issue with how things already are, and it’s not in our position to enforce that change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 23 | Spot OnOh btw, I never liked this show (but my LVM ex and his friends did). Eric Andre is overrated and so not funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 50 | Want kids but dread raising them?I’ve thought hard about this, and considering how painful pregnancy/delivery seems—it’s truly a risk with any man. Mostly being that we know ourselves better than any other person will, and vetting men is a constant thing because new scenarios arise and people can change anytime. Pregnancy is one of those things that triggers change in so many ways—even in men. So if it happens with a “FOR SURE HVM”, then I wouldn’t mind either gender because we will have the values and knowledge to raise them w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 69 | You shouldn’t have to teach a man how to be in a relationshipIt’s unfortunate how the bare minimum in terms of a serious relationship, and basic self-care are things that most men need instructions and reminders on. Because of the enabling that mommy-bang-maids, mothers, and world conveniences create—the slacking gets more intense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:01 AM |
| 140 | Spot OnFor them, therapy is: smoking weed, hanging around low value friends and pickmeishas, movies, shows, video games, drinking, partying, and porn. Can’t expect anything from people who don’t even prioritize themselves in healthy ways. All things reinforced by patriarchy and “culture”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:48 AM |
| 166 | It's the edit for me ~~~He says he loves her, and knows she likes nice things. He’s aware of both of their annual incomes being above $100,000. He is aware that this ring would mean a lot to her and somehow has a hard time comprehending whether it’s coming across as selfish to lower his budget??? I mean, dude, she’s perfectly capable of buying that ring herself in the price range she wants. She definitely doesn’t need you for it, but if you can’t meet her at the level she’s already at—love can only keep y’all happy for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Porn & It’s DependentsIt’s the easy access and either the norm for men/boys to talk about this great porn/pornstars are amongst each other that pique the curiosity of the innocent, or self-discovery and curiosity knowing that it may be out there on the internet. Parents are also to blame to not monitoring their kids and their own possible porno/sex-item stash. In reality, there are numerous different situations that can lead up to a child getting hooked on porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 49 | Caught Red-Handed (Literally)There are many instances of men masturbating in public, especially on trains, in subways stations, or practically wherever they feel like it. Some have zero shame of being seen, some do it subtly, as if it makes a difference cause they’re all equally disgusting. It’s sad we can’t even live like a normal human being without having to think about how many perverts we pass by every day, how many porn-sick men we interact with or come across, how many live/have-lived on this planet, and the many mor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 111 | Ask him to name 5 women he admires, excluding family membersGreat tip, cuz most men wouldn’t be able to. Ask them there 5 favorite pornstars and they’ll most likely have an easier time naming those 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:41 AM |
| 105 | Porn Addiction Is More Common Than Anyone Wants To AdmitYou organized this post so well 👏🏼 porn is by far definitely a drug. It doesn’t matter how frequently you consume it, what genre it is, or however you justify its use/existence— if you can’t stay away from it, you have a problem. Porn is just one of the many toxic man-made creations. Porn, rape, prostitution, sex-work, hookup culture, etc..all fall in the same toxic spectrum. More often than not, the use of one branches off to the use of others. It’s disgusting, and people who can’t see that thr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:10 AM |
| 41 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.Men have so much to say and believe about women while dissecting every one of our behaviors and patterns as a collective gender, but find it absolutely crazy when things don’t go their way or when they aren’t getting what they want out of us. So much so that they go around hating on their own gender over desirable qualities they could be developing on their own! They honestly ought to work on themselves and work on growing positively rather than following all this RedPill bullshit and getting gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 63 | Some good. Some bad.Don’t fall for it. Men tend to get too comfortable with how things are and forget to appreciate what they have while they have it. Don’t forfeit a golden opportunity for a fresh start just because he’s changing his behavior temporarily. He would’ve never started acting like he cared had he never known about the lease — that says a lot. You can perhaps plan ahead on leaving while he won’t be home. Pack up accordingly, and perhaps even have a friend or two come over to help so that you’re not alon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 44 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.People who have the time and energy to judge others negatively (especially scrotes)—have issues within themselves that need serious fixing lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:20 PM |
| 31 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Some of them can’t even maintain their own beards properly, let alone the hair on the rest of their body 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:47 PM |
| 10 | Check his battery usage and downloaded apps while you're snoopingAbsolutely check everything, especially if it’s possible during the early stages (“honeymoon phase”). It’s a great addition to the continuous vetting that is needed in order to make sure your boundaries and values are not being violated. But if it’s to the point where you find yourself constantly doing it because there have been red flags/intuitive-feelings, then might as well drop the dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 93 | In case you had any remaining doubts about the male ability to devastate women for their own convenience and pleasureThis is sick. And sadly, attraction, love, and a lack of knowledge can really be blinding for some so much that victims of non-consensual acts may “let things pass” or may not know how to handle the situation. I hope she finds it in her to realize how wrong this was and how much she needs to leave before his pornsick ass continues with his fuckery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:24 AM |
| 49 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!Meme pages are also another red flag. There are tons with inappropriate posts (like women dressed in very slutty clothing) that are sponsored. Any page sponsoring ads like that or posting misogynistic memes is a red flag honestly. The fact that you have time to keep up with this shit when you could be using that time to learn a new skill or new information 🙄 that’s what happens when you’re pornsick and get your humor and happiness from constant unproductive distractions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:04 AM |
| 249 | Preach it, sis!The fact that he “nEeDs” a woman in general just shows how “self-improved and self-sufficient” he really is. On top of that, “nEeDinG” a young woman. This isn’t online shopping where you can treat women as objects and filter out the results to your specifications. Men like that are such a waste of oxygen and resources lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:06 AM |
| 37 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common arguments (Part. 2)A great way to humble the effects of someone’s attractiveness onto your ability to stay logical and safe is to remember that they may be a porn user or have countless negative things about them that have yet to be discovered. To remember that no matter how good a person looks, how polite they seem, how nice their voice is, etc...—you don’t really know them all too well and don’t know what you’re getting into. Additionally, they’re just another human being—it’s not that serious. Great tips on bot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know who this man is but he is gorgeous 🥰🥰 if any of you ladies know who he is please comment! [SPOILER]Definitely an Indian man, I can understand the music 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:30 PM |
| 13 | Vetting for rapistsGreat strategies! Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Why You Must Vet Men Carefully & ContinuouslyGood points! Considering the amount of LVMs out-number the amount of HVMs, it’s always a good idea to trust your instinct and awareness of how to proceed with men. I think both of our points apply depending on the guy and situation :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:03 PM |
| 65 | Don't waste any of your time on people who watch porn.This 👏🏼 they really got all the time in the world to watch porn and objectify/disrespect women, yet they can’t function without us or find it in them to spend that time towards self-improvement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 39 | Interesting read 👩🏫It’s sad to think there is more porn on the internet than anything else. It’s even worse knowing there’s an incomprehensible amount of people who consume/make porn everyday, or do sex work/prostitution/deep-web-videos/rape and many other undocumented instances of all the things mentioned above. Let’s not forget the amount of people who simply dwell on the thoughts of engaging in those behaviors too. It’s a disgusting world out here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:34 AM |
| 63 | Porn culture and Only Fans promotes the dehumanization of women everywhere.He had perverted intentions way before he approached you—probably stared at your body and face and thought he had a chance. Goodness knows what other intentions he carried if you actually said yes to dating him. Just another pornsick scrote 🤧🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Always had pickmeishas in his circle, lots of distractions & bad habits to kill time, friends who shared his habits/tendencies, no plans for his future career... my LVM ex. I could add more to this collage, but I didn’t wanna spend more time on it :)Exactly my thoughts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 11 | Always had pickmeishas in his circle, lots of distractions & bad habits to kill time, friends who shared his habits/tendencies, no plans for his future career... my LVM ex. I could add more to this collage, but I didn’t wanna spend more time on it :)🤦🏽♀️ what a useful hobby huh? He used to spend $20/$30 occasionally on these games too 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:58 AM |
| 84 | Is Buzzfeed Actually... Not Supporting Porn????Not surprised with those facts, porn is disgusting on so many levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:52 AM |
| 31 | Always had pickmeishas in his circle, lots of distractions & bad habits to kill time, friends who shared his habits/tendencies, no plans for his future career... my LVM ex. I could add more to this collage, but I didn’t wanna spend more time on it :)Sometimes I wonder how much better this world would be without social media, porn, and the addiction to technology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:05 AM |
| 14 | Always had pickmeishas in his circle, lots of distractions & bad habits to kill time, friends who shared his habits/tendencies, no plans for his future career... my LVM ex. I could add more to this collage, but I didn’t wanna spend more time on it :)Loll thank you!! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:04 AM |
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