More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So Important

shockingupdate · 2021-11-11T04:20:58+00:00

Never explain, never apologize, just block and delete. You do NOT have to go back and forth with someone who’s already outed themselves as having no respect for you, and you do NOT have to deal with him popping back into your DMs three months later.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-11-11T06:00:44+00:00

Remember that you don't ever have to teach men anything, your life isn't a PBS cartoon.

_xyoungbellax_ · 2021-11-11T06:18:19+00:00

Ladies, it's never a mistake or a "Sorry, that wasn't meant for you". It's 100% meant for you, always. It's a common tactic to see how weak your boundaries are and how further you're willing to tolerate shit from men.

The fact that she let him keep texting her and that too, make her feel bad for what he did, is appalling. This is precisely one of the traits of emotionally abusive men. They are going to hurt you, intentionally, then go on a parade of how apologetic they are and make themselves the victim, instead and boom, now you are feeling guilty instead of angry and disappointed.

Don't ever give them an opportunity to apologize. Once, the words come out, just know it was meant for you. Immediately block them and never let them contact you ever again.

souredskittles · 2021-11-11T02:30:13+00:00

He acts like she’s beneath him but still needs a bump of coke to have a normal human interaction

2021-11-11T13:12:20+00:00

I love that the whole point of the article was that she should have just blocked him. 🤣

FuckSakez · 2021-11-11T08:49:20+00:00

Women are not rehabilitation centres for men! She should have blocked him at the first sign of disrespect. Him calling her a c*nt and doing a line of naughty salt is telling on himself. Low value behaviour.

Also the “I want to apologise and possibly more lol!” line- the more being get some ass and save face on his part. If men don’t respect your time or energy when trying to woo you-they will only get worse with time.

Vet aggressively ladies. They don’t deserve a justification or explanation. Block and delete!

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-11-11T03:56:50+00:00

I get a definite Barb the Builder vibe from her. The social worker in her wanted to "help him".

Now he will just double check his texts are going to the right person when he trashes his date.

All4Goldie · 2021-11-11T03:51:56+00:00

Absolute 100% the truth right here. This is why you never try to be the nice girl in this situation. Men like this just don’t give a sh!t and will continue on like this one did.

I’ve been there and this has happened to me. Either this or the rage responses. In my pick me days this is what I would do and I never understood ghosting, until FDS. Looking back, it makes so much sense and it’s the only way. 🚨

preppykat3 · 2021-11-11T07:45:00+00:00

It’s always a red flag to me when guys overuse emojis. It’s annoying, childish, and they always end up being immature and weird. (Weird pet peeve of mine lol)

dkwantsdk · 2021-11-12T03:46:25+00:00

I fell over when I got to the 3 months later "Hey." Incredible.

Bratsociety · 2021-11-11T02:47:49+00:00

That is absolutely utterly disgusting

thewetdog_ · 2021-11-11T03:06:50+00:00

iT’s gOd’S pLaN i GuEsS

I sure hope god isn’t real because if he is this scrote gave him a stroke 🥴

HottPinkSlug · 2021-11-12T05:05:52+00:00

His apologies are sending me flashbacks

They all sound the same!! Why do they all sound the same!?

Coconut975 · 2021-11-12T02:14:57+00:00

“Possibly apologize and more” wth he still thinks he’s going to get laid?

amorphouschemical · 2021-11-11T20:40:32+00:00

This poor lady is way too nice. Better to just block and delete. That guy demonstrated that he didn’t deserve an ounce of her energy.

Cel_Gabe · 2021-11-12T14:18:11+00:00

Wasn't there a post earlier that warned us against assuming that men think like us?

He apologized and not only she accepted the apology, but she also says "I know you didn't intend it in that way." Oh really? Then why did he write it?

Kimpractical · 2021-11-12T20:29:54+00:00

An HVM would never call a women he’s actually interested in a “cunt”. So why is he going on the date with her if he’s not interested in her? Cause he’s hoping to get laid. If she did have sex with him, the sex would’ve sucked. The whole thing would’ve been a waste of her time. This is why I just don’t even bother anymore. So many dudes out here who just want sex wasting everyone’s time. I don’t get the point in even trying with them anymore

Title	More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So Important
Author	Vervibes
Upvotes	240
Comments	31
Date	November 11, 2021 2:04 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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