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| 3 | I'm short, ethnic, unpopular in college and have Asperger's. Should I even try to game girls or should I just focus on my studies?Canadian here... this place's reputation for warmth and friendliness is either out of date or wholly unearned, but that is no reason to give up hope. I frequently see asian dudes pull girls well out of their league and there is no reason that can't be you. Usually campus hunting grounds are easy pickings, but if that is not working out for you or you have poisoned the well with your apparent weirdness, it is simply time cast a wider net and look elsewhere... better still though, invest your spar… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 05:36 PM |
| 2 | I live in a shitty-ish place and I'm insecure about bringing girls overOr better yet... make some goddamn art and get ready for the wet season | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 02:46 PM |
| 47 | I live in a shitty-ish place and I'm insecure about bringing girls overGet a plant. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Constant Anger PhaseI am not sure that a thinking/feeling man ever really gets both feet out of the anger phase, but if you endeavour to surround yourself with women who have actually accomplished meaningul goals/acheivements in their lives, it can dull the edge somewhat (as they are often more down to earth as well). There is a difference between a chick getting her Masters or something and a chick who worked three jobs to get it done... find females who weren't handed everything they have. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | It scares me to potentially watch my partner grow old!We all live to be proven wrong. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 03:09 PM |
| 7 | It scares me to potentially watch my partner grow old!Respectfully, I beg to differ... it doesn't even matter about the beta percentage in her peer group(s), all it takes is one 20 year old gym hero with great genetics.and three inches on you to open the flood-gates - he doesn't even have to be rich. You have to plan for the outlier. Trophy wives frequenty slum it with younger dudes and trust me, they aren't all going home to Danny Devito. Charisma, funds and fitness are nice (crucial) tools to have at your disposal, but you have to understand that… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 02:41 PM |
| 8 | It scares me to potentially watch my partner grow old!Only problem is you can lift and lift and lift, becoming the best 40 something ever, but ultimately she will still have peers in her age group and well, AWALT, right? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 02:30 PM |
| 6 | It scares me to potentially watch my partner grow old!This is where the old joke about meeting a fine looking woman and then checking out her mum for a glimpse of your future comes into play (especially relevant to italians, porkchops and jewesses imho)... I am in my 30s now and some of the hottest girls that I went to high school/uni with have cankles! Where before there was only a lithe, atheltic, toned frame... FUCKING CANKLES! It isn't just this spectre that troubles me, but how many of my contemporaries settled for a soft 7 only to watch her s… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Facial and voice expression, looking for helpThere is not too much that can reasonably done about the timbre or register of your voice... but you CAN (and probably should) consider your elocution/pronounciation. Figure out what kind of accent you have and then start focusing on properly pronouncing your 'ing's and 'ed's... often this is more than enough to set you apart in someone else's mind because very few people actually speak properly. It will sound stilted at first, but will become more natural with practice. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Job interviewed by two femalesExactly. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 12:23 AM |
| 35 | Job interviewed by two femalesI have spent an unfortunately long period of time in the civil service and as such have often been interviewed by panels of women... When it is a job I sort of wouldn't mind (versus need) or I am applying either on a lark or just for the experience, I am myself... assertive, open, direct and lots of eye contact. Sometimes this works out, sometimes it doesn't. When it is a position you really need for advancement or personal gain, consider limiting eye contact to responding to questions and actin… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What is an HB10? Does it exists?Great answers all... this is why the /rateme thread is such agony... how can any of these lobstrosities be 8s in the same reality as Sofia Vergara or whoever | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | The way reddit makes it sound... no one dates anymore.. Is that the case or is asktrp full of..Sounds like you need to increase the weight, bro | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 11:59 AM |
| 2 | What is losing your father like?10 years ago this October... it was like the bottom fell out of the world. Affection and companionship are sorely missed of course, but the worst casualty was certainty. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl in flat below - don’t shit where you eat question?If this was a larger building with multiple floors of tenants, the usual risks would be somewhat mitigated... but as it stands, please do not roll the dice. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Fucking girls I dont like/find attractive?What no one here is allowing for is the x-factor... girls you aren't attracted to are a veritable goldmine of unexpected treasure. For instance, you haven't lived until you have experienced the unbridled enthusiasm of an extremely grateful fat girl. They act like you are doing them a favour. I am also put in mind of this freaky Jewess I knew during undergrad... she was plain in every way (as opposed to the plain girl with a bangin' booty or a crazy rack). She gave me exceptional head... oral ple… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 10:03 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know what to do with my spare time.Some of these responses - while valuable - are reading around the question... Whenever you have real time to expand your horizons, try to play to your weaknesses and your aspirations. Perhaps, like myself, you suck at math... pick up the textbook that last destroyed you and take another run at it. You want to own your own business... read some books about that. We all think we know what we are in for, but learning from pracrtised entrepreneurs is useful. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I have so much trouble holding frame.Well said... also, I think OP said he was lifting on the regular, which adds a whole other dimension to that same category too. The 'busy' factor is a favourite cop-out for anything physical... I know that the whole OMAD philosophy has its adherents, but I prefer your way of doing things. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:33 PM |
| 13 | I have so much trouble holding frame.Here's a thought... consider charting these 'lapses' against other elements in your life like blood sugar, caffeine intake, diet and quality of sleep - parse the pattern and maybe find a clue (because there are so many variables that can affect our general 'sharpness' - some we are aware of, others we seldom suspect). If that doesn't bear fruit, don't panic... as long as your wins outnumber your losses and you aren't totally miserable, then carry on in earnest. Part of the reason it is called 'h… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is getting fatThis isn't a shit-test... it may manifest as one for all intents and purposes, but there is a difference and this is just the poison of complacency - it is just as likely to be the dude in a relationship letting his carcass expand (was me twice). Important to note that this happens to people of each and every social echelon... for instance, that dude who founded Gymshark and looks like a demented marsupial, he bagged himself a Canadian 9 and while she has not exactly imploded since they got toge… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Cooler friendsTake a fucking break from social media... disable/delete that shit. It is not real. Cut it off cold turkey and do it tonight. It is poison. You do not need it. Some people are wired so that they see someone else's fake, wonderful life and it actually INSPIRES them to go out and get theirs... Some people feel like they are on the outside looking in and other people's hollow glories only serve to upset them. We know which one you are. Forget that shit... real life is more than enough to worry abou… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to become more “Masculine"Fuck team sports... how many of your high-school classmates or gym contemporaries could run a marathon tomorrow if they had to? I am going to post on the importance of homo-social/fraternal organizations later this month, but in the meantime, find a cafe full of grand-dads and just listen. If you are lifting and moving in the appropriate circles, the rest will honestly take care of itself in time. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Sick of being surrounded by losers. Advice?Time for a change of scenery. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.I understand the urge to deplore the status quo. I somewhat admire the desire to rail against it. I vaguely sympathize with the impulse to castigate the independent operators who embrace the 'decline'. That said, like Thanos and Stark we are all cursed with knowledge and this knowledge is dark and unfathomable... if we don't make our peace with it on some level - however temporary - well, let's just say that paralyzing cognitive dissonance is the new best case scenario. Do you want to be black p… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | To the women who wonder “where have all the good men gone?”So would you then agree... that EVEN IF OP's list was addressed to ACTUAL women - as opposed to basically just being a polemic aimed at like-minded dudes - that it wouldn't even be intended for one such as you anyway? One imagines that there is a cross-section of men out there (be they blue-pilled cucks or red-pilled zealots) who will actually give a sweet fuck about your 'accomplishments' on some level... hence they're your target audience, right? I don't crash inner-city basketball courts and … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 12:16 AM |
| 9 | To the women who wonder “where have all the good men gone?”Hear, hear... also, if you ever have the chance to bang a single mom from a non-western culture, odds are quite good that you'll be reaping some damn nice home-cooked meals whipped up from scratch - a pleasant upgrade from cheese, crackers and their boyfriend's Coors Light. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 12:01 AM |
| 2 | To the women who wonder “where have all the good men gone?”Thanks - you have reminded me of a larger point that I keep meaning to put before you guys, but I haven't had a chance yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 11:55 PM |
| 6 | To the women who wonder “where have all the good men gone?”Thank you. I regret I have but only one upvote to give... the basic 'activities' that these harridans trumpet as pillars of their identity would be hilarious if they weren't all so trite and pathetic. They all might as well read "I am a decrepit bag of meat and my interests include slowly decomposing and occasionally shitting " | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Needing some tips about taking a much younger girl out.Girls of that age are easy to dazzle... you just have to take her somewhere (or plan something) a 19 year old girl has never had a chance to go - this will also reinforce the mystique of you being older than her (which I promise is front of mind for her). I read of your financial circumstances, but depending on where you live this can be done without breaking the bank. It is also a chance to show imagination/originality. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you build a personalityPlay to your strengths... if you do not know what those are then burn some time taking a few personality tests (the 'real' psychological ones and the girly internet ones ripped out of the back of cosmo)... when you hit upon something that seems to have a kernel of truth, confirm with a trusted friend or relative. If the trait in question is a positive one, then build from there. In terms of banter, I am not sure you can teach someone to be gregarious, but on the other hand we can all improve. St… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 11:13 AM |
| 5 | Given TRP why would any guy fake a vulnerability?Guys, you have heard that chicks love a fixer-upper, right? It is called 'broken wing syndrome.' Some girls have a soft spot for a perceived wound (physical, emotional, spiritual or otherwise). It awakens a perverse part of the nurturing instinct - and just like the rest of their instincts, it can be exploited... You shouldn't need it to get your dick wet, but it is there if you do. That said, it can come in handy if you are running a longer con or need something extra up your sleeve. Not only d… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 02:14 AM |
| -1 | Need help, my ex(who cheated) gives birth soon and refuses to speak to me.If you have universal transferrable job skills, move to another jurisdiction and change your name. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 11:19 PM |
| 7 | How do I stop myself from clamming up around people of higher perceived social value?There are those that think that most team sports are nothing more than glorified circle-jerks and that the only really worthwhile physical pursuits are the extreme and solitary ones (ultra-running, triathlons etc.)... man against nature, man against self, shit like that. Now I don't personally espouse or deny that, but the lesson here is just to play your own game. Half the time the 'alphas' on your radar haven't even registered you one way or another, so don't get dragged down into that. You ca… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Asking girls for coffeeSurprised at some of these answers, fellas... but coffee dates are actually great and are an important tool in the arsenal. When you are juggling multiple plates (or y'know cheating on an actual gf), you will find there are only so many hours in a day and only so many days in a week - subtract a few of those evenings for solitary pursuits or non-pussy related duties and all of a sudden you could find yourself trying to juggle Jane, Sheila, Cynthia and Lisa in a three day window. This is where a.… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Advice on mastering social skillsPardon me... stay away from chicks that are into any branch of the service. Sage counsel. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Advice on mastering social skillsGood... read against the grain of your schoolwork then, even if it is physics or fucking botany. And stay away from girls that are into soldiers. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Advice on mastering social skillsI want to steer you back to the core of your question... I don't know if you have the kind of military career that is endless work and wiping other people's asses, or if it is the other kind where you have a lot of time to kill - if it is the latter, then you have your homework cut out for you... on one hand read everything about everything you can get your hands on. One of the keys to advanced conversation skills is to know a little something about absolutely everything - basically read beyond … | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How would you respond if a close friend fucked your oneitis?You are overthinking this shit... summer is just starting. Get out of your own head and out of your own way... if you need to cut ties to make that easier on yourself, then get at it. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 03:16 PM |
| 3 | I did allow myself enough credit. How does one gauge SMV?Maybe don't tell them that lol | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:29 PM |
| 5 | What is the most valuable thing to do with my timeStart researching bursaries, grants and scholarships extremely thoroughly... it will slowly help you coalesce your aims one way or another. Familiarize yourself with whatever studying abroad opportunites may be available to you. Volunteer with the homeless... listenting to their mistakes will assist you somewhat in avoiding same. The redpill mission is a noble one, but all too often our brothers neglect community service. Hurry up and get your heart broken... get that shit out of the way and abo… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Cooler friendsLearn how to be alone... go camping by yourself or something. Only whole persons can inflict their expectations on others and even then it is a fool's game. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:23 PM |
| 3 | What are some great examples of guys' instagram accounts who "do it right?"This is a great question... I generally fall into the camp that has declared social media antithetical to the traditional ideals of manhood. You don't need it. You shouldn't need it. I don't know anyone personally who is getting laid via Instagram, but I am a bit older than that demo probably... However, here are some important considerations: if you have a brand, service or product to pimp, then you have a viable excuse to bother with digital bullshit. Secondly, while most women I have encounte… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Forgiving a cheaterAbsolutely forgive her... to forgive is divine. Then help her pack her shit, call her a cab and sincerely wish her well. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics when bulkingI like where your head is at... the loss/diminishment of the visible traits you mentioned matters more the shorter you are - which isn't in and of itself a reason not to bulk, BUT if you are just starting Uni, then my suggestion would be to go in as a lean swimmer for the purposes of first impressions and then start a proper bulk much later on. I basically did a version of this (albeit by accident) and was glad of it later on. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:09 PM |
| 2 | How would you respond if a close friend fucked your oneitis?Is this close friend fully aware of the exact extent of the torch you carried (start using the past-tense, fake it to make it) for this bitch? Is she in turn aware of the closeness of your friendship with him? It goes without saying that you need to cut her for your own good... if she was a bridge to her fuckable friends, then that eventuality would have presented itself by now. As for him, well unlike most of our compatriots here, I don't know if I would be high-fiving him over her freshly fuck… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Wrong pantiesYou're on fire, don't sweat it... the only mistake you made was squandering your time second-guessing yourself with this post. It may be worth considering, however, that there has never been a bitch born who ever 'accidentally' left her gear anywhere... sometimes this is a basic shit-test, sometimes it is merely base territoriality. Regardless, in the unlikely event that she turfs you for your 'sins', this is exactly the kind of shit that makes her friends want to fuck you. Victory. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 12:51 PM |
| 3 | How to stop catching feels for plates.Get a rescue dog | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Gives Only Cheek Kisses - BUT TOMORROW COMES FOR A MOVIE. What 2 Do?When the next one wanders along, don't touch her hair until intimacy is established. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 07:04 PM |
| 3 | What to do with my beta friend who holds me back?When our group of high school friends split up to different universities, I somehow got stuck babysitting the baby beta of our group... (a dude who made it balls deep in his 20s before having a first kiss) Long story short, I didn't abandon him, but instead made a project out of him. I dragged him to the gym with me and even though he was short, he was the poster boy for beginner gains and packed on some decent progress. The deck was stacked against him, because he was a shrinking violet with ze… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Stuff has ChangedIgnore incels at your own peril... and theirs. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Do You Even Lift?I lift again... but still waiting for the not hating it to kick in | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | BulliedAs defined in the example... the old adage of bringing a gun to a knife-fight. If you retaliate verbally to a bully or punch back when you get pushed, those are more or less proportionate responses... chucking furniture at dudes? That is a disproportionate reaponse and it paid dividends for the kid I went to school with. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I whined like a bitch, how can I make sure I don't do this again?It can be difficult to ramp down your passions/appetites when you are hard, hungry and ready to go... women are wired differently and are better at delaying physical gratification. Taking sex off a pedestal is not easy, but sometimes increasing the frequency of getting laid or the quality of the pussy can help - both of which can be side effects of growing up. Or conversely, you can start disciplining yourself across the board in all areas of your life and it will have spillover effects. Deny yo… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?Relax... this is called 'post-coital remorse' and it is totally normal and natural. You can either accept it and endure it or you can wait for that first magical bitch to come along who you don't want to kick out of bed as soon as you bust - they are out there, but you could be waiting along time. Here is a coping strategy... as soon as you pop, start cooking something in the kitchen (hers or yours) - it occupies your mind, makes you look like a hero and gets you out of your own way until your p… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | BulliedEveryone telling you to lift is correct... everyone bitching about that advice is not appreciating that anyone telling you to lift no doubt understands that it is merely a starting point. Martial arts is good advice too, but don't expect miracles... if it at least improves your confidence and bearing, then that is 'win' enough. That said, never write off the potential of a disproportionate response... I went to high school with a little guy who was tortured mercilessly and when he pushed back, i… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Women honor strong frame.Glad you endured and triumphed, but that would never happen in a unionized, public sector environment. They would give her a medal for enduring the cold of the air conditioning. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 01:13 PM |
| 11 | Women honor strong frame.I don't know if the civil service elsewhere is quite the gynocracy that it is in the province that I live in (I imagine it is), but I used to work in the bureaucratic end of the 'justice' system. I was there for over a decade, holding down positions that had been traditionally held by men a generation earlier, but were now basically women's work. I reported to women nearly the whole time and it was quite typical to have about 4 different female 'supervisors' at any given time - needless to say, … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 02:13 PM |
| 10 | Leg day ruined by just one female.Lol the things we do for gains... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Leg day ruined by just one female.Sometimes I catch myself longing for the days of the men's only gym, but even if by some miracle you could actually open one without a legal massacre, anyone who has ever been propositioned in a sauna knows exactly what it would turn into. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 12:20 PM |
| 52 | Leg day ruined by just one female.Apologies for the tangent, but being a bigger dude myself (husky, rugby-build etc.), I find I attract a lot of unwanted and unwarranted attention from fat chicks wherever I go, but especially the gym... it is as if fat broads feel a gross sense of entitlement to my attention (something about Mike & Molly, idk). I have combated this by camouflaging myself as a fucking clown at the gym. I wear neon socks, feminine colours and ill-fitted attire (often with offensive slogans emblazoned on them). It … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 12:16 PM |
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