So I was friends with benefits with a girl for 2 years before both agreeing to be exclusive.

Shortly after we had the exclusive chat she kissed 2 guys at 2 different nightclubs. One on Wednesday and one on Saturday. She did this in march.

However I didn’t find out until last week.

She said that the reason she cheated was

  1. she was drunk

  2. she had always been told that the start of a relationship should be this amazing honeymoon period. In her opinion the beginning of our relationship was horrible as she still felt unloved like it was a fwb situation and we argued and fought a lot. She thought that the whole relationship was bad. So she was unsure about it’s future at that point in time.

  3. for 2 years we had sex and at the same time she could go out to clubs and kiss guys and it was no issue. She said she was used to this routine and so at the start of our exclusivity she just fell back into the routine.

However I agreed that it was horrible, from there the relationship got a lot better and she says if she knew the relationship ship was this good she would not have done it at the time.

I do enjoy fucking her and would like to be in a LTR for convenience sake alone.

I have broken up with her but I could probably get her back.

Question is should I forgive her and get back with her.???