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It isn’t this person. I try to make encouraging post to others. Then they just say I am just trying to get something. I get sick and tired of it. Over and over again it happens. I try to be kind then people treat me like I’m the asshole. Makes me not wanna give a damn about anyone if their gonna have that freakin attitude. I am angry at this point.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:38 PM
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Yeah…I’ve noticed. Happens all the time where I try to be positive and cheery, then they are just assholes. I hate people. I am so done. So done.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:35 PM
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Oh damn I didn’t know people did that
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:58 AM
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Yeah I know the feeling. But hey we still got others in our lives.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:42 AM
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Yeah. I am just curious now why the other account is a troll? What did they do to earn the label?😂
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:39 AM
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Your welcome. And your definitely right gender has nothing to do with crappy people. Honestly that betrayal was my first heart break. It hurt so much, I really loved her (she was my family) and now I don’t even know who she is.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:33 AM
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Baiting? What else have they done?
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:30 AM
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Idk what to tell you. Even we struggle to be friends with one another. Finding a genuine friend amongst women is hard. My friend I called sister sent anonymous text messages to a mutual friend harassing her then she told her I did it. When me and the mutual friend confronted her about it she said I forced her to do it (now that friend asks me every time she sees me if I did it because she is still hangs with the other girl. I can not be friends with someone who thinks I would terrorize someone l…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:28 AM
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I do, but the majority wins. And sadly I live in stupid California. My mom and me tried to pass out flyers and get people to recall Newsom. Did not work to my disappointment.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 09:48 PM
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If the person is a people pleaser who believes everything told to them then yes. My sister says tiktok is a valid place to research information. Imagine saying a social media platform is a research engine. She also makes fun and belittles me for wanting to homeschool my kids. Though your right that my parents do have some part to play in it. That deep down underneath her facade we can tell she disproves of them if not hate. It might be a strong word and not entirely accurate, but the way she tal…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 03:58 PM
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I have never taught anyone hate, neither has anyone I have been around. My parents are in a loving relationship. My sister respects her husband. My other sister I have no idea, she refuses to talk to me because she is woke feminist. She became a feminist because of college and she has always hated anything my parents agree with. She does anything that is the opposite of what they believe. She is also very disrespectful to them, I don’t know if her husband agrees with her. I honestly blame the co…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 03:40 PM
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That’s true. I was also thinking about homeschooling. I was homeschooled till I was 13. But that would force my husband to work more. There is always private school. They don’t shove that stuff down your through and the education is actually good and well rounded.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 03:33 PM
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And with that can I volunteer too?
/r/MensRights11/11/23 03:30 PM
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No
/r/MensRights11/11/23 03:22 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights11/11/23 06:26 AM
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I am sorry, I worry a lot. A little too much maybe.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 06:24 AM
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Oh that’s what you meant. I was confused for a minute. What’s the statistics of male to female teachers? I always had half and half. Normally my male teachers were science, math, history, art and theology. Women were English, Spanish, and sometimes Anatomy depending on the year. For me I had a female teach Anatomy.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 05:24 AM
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Are you a teacher?
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:50 AM
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I wish I had been the school dean. Would have freakin expelled the girl for lying like that. Also it is inappropriate to talk about such subjects WITHOUT the parent involved. Also she could have asked witnesses. Not treated you like you were guilty till it was known for certain. How freakin annoying! I am sorry that happened and that you have PTSD from it. I hope you are doing better.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:49 AM
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No that someone would…🤢have sex with animals
/r/MensRights10/11/23 10:24 PM
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Oh…well what the other person makes sense now at least…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 10:23 PM
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Wait…WHAAATTT?!!! Did you say what you I think you said!?!
/r/MensRights10/11/23 09:53 PM
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What is bestiality?
/r/MensRights10/11/23 09:44 PM
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Thank you🥰
/r/MensRights10/11/23 05:04 PM
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So then why are you on this sub if you are not?
/r/MensRights10/11/23 07:55 AM
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You know the woke movement? You know what that is right?
/r/MensRights10/11/23 07:41 AM
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😑why..why do people have to be this way? 😮‍💨 Oh well guess no matter what it’s gonna happen.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 07:24 AM
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Are humans really that moral?🤔 Always a pondering question. I would like to have more good women in my life, specifically friends. Why is finding friends so hard? Maybe it’s just me, I never seem to be able to have female friendships unless the women are in their 40s or older. All the girls my age don’t seem to be able to connect with me. At least with men we can talk about cars, do outdoorsy stuff, and deep philosophical conversations, talk about nerdy things. Also I have not had luck with wome…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 06:54 AM
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😭😭your poor thing! Your not a douchebag, you sound very sweet! I swear why are women so bad at taking rejection most of the time. I liked my best friend at one point, he didn’t have feelings for me and I was okay with that. He is still my friend and is a sweetheart…maybe too sweet for his own good, it scares me to be honest😅. I can’t imagine doing this to someone, some of my best friends have been men. They have been like brothers to me and family. I would never let anything happen to them. This…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 01:32 AM
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I didn’t know that. I didn’t think there would be, I can’t see why women would have that mentality.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 11:37 PM
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Wwhhhaaaa! There is a group like that for woman?!
/r/MensRights09/11/23 09:57 PM
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Oh dang. That’s tough. I suck at understanding medical stuff.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 09:07 PM
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I (21F) have been told to man up. Honestly all it has done is make me not trust people with my emotions and just because someone says you can trust them with your emotions doesn’t mean you should.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 09:05 PM
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What’s wgtow?
/r/MensRights09/11/23 08:52 PM
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As a woman I do care. I am waiting till marriage. I would prefer my man to wait to. But if he was not always religious and became religious halfway through his life and recommitted himself to waiting for marriage then I understand. He is human and can not control the past. If he claims to have been a Christian his whole life and has sex before marriage then no. Going back the him becoming a Christian, if he continued doing it after then I would still see an issue in it. This article is great by …
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:25 PM
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I don’t think you understand what a contradictory is😐
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:13 PM
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You literally just contradicted yourself💀
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:07 PM
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Yeah sorry about that. In my head it makes sense, but sometimes what we have in our head doesn’t always translate over to others.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:44 PM
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I see. Well thank you🥰
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:39 PM
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Haven’t you heard of awkward and uncomfortable laughs. It’s not necessarily a laugh, just someone who is uncomfortable. Can’t explain it too well. Also I didn’t notice I was being downvoted, why does it matter if I am?
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:36 PM
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I meant by not happen with me is I don’t do that. Also my guy friend comes to me with everything. It was not meant to be an insult. Also I think it is kind of funny that women do that because its stupid. If your gonna ask someone to open up expect it to be unpleasant. Not that it is happening to them. Just funny because the irony of it and also women do that to me all the time. They do it to each other. Which is why it is hilarious that they say women can more easily open up to each other then m…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:31 PM
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That’s not laughing. That is a sweat mark on the forehead.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:29 PM
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I just read the article. Damn that’s funny as hell😂🤣. Gotta laugh at stupidity guys!
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:54 PM
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😂😂
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:52 PM
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That’s what I am thinking. This is not even an argument 😭
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:51 PM
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😶I agree with a lot of things on this sub, but not this. They are animals, it ain’t that deep😂. Animals can not be sexist towards each other, they function purely off of instinct.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:50 PM
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Yeah. There is honestly a lot. I felt a lot of shame after that relationship. I told myself I would never get into a relationship like that and of course my very first one was exactly what I said I wouldn’t get into. I blame myself for it most of the time. I knew I shouldn’t have been in a relationship, but I still did get into one.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah. I normally said it like “what your doing makes me feel ____” or “I feel that the way you are treating me isn’t right” things like that.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:44 PM
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Microcosm? What’s that?
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:31 PM
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Yeah…I didn’t fight back. I hate confrontation and I was worn out from everything I had to go through. And at the time he was all I had, I had distanced myself from my family and my best friend backstabbed me by spreading a false rumor about me that was pretty bad. He also would say he was the only one I had, I really believed him.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:30 PM
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It wasn’t just in that situation. He used to call me a child all the time. He said he meant it as a good thing, but he always did it to dismiss what I was opening up to him about…it didn’t feel like a good thing. Also anytime I said the word feel he would get angry and say “stop being emotional and use the word think”. I could never say anything to him once we were a few months into the relationship.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:22 PM
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Ssooo….is it bad he called me a child. I told him I didn’t like it and it felt demeaning. He said I was just being to in my emotions and childish.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:16 PM
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Cause those are what my family calls gold diggers😂. Stupid on their part, but oh well🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:14 PM
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Wow I never heard of that. I feel like that is true because honestly that describes a lot. I guess I just have a hard time calling something abuse if it is not physically happening which probably isn’t good. He would start fights over little things and I just wanted him to stop. He told me once he only dated women with abusive childhoods…that was a red flag, but I was afraid to leave.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:12 PM
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Thanks 😂. I guess using big words pays off sometimes.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:08 PM
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Personally I wouldn’t say a lot of men. There are plenty who handle emotions well. He was like that for his own reasons, but those are too personal to him to share.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:07 PM
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Yes. It is context, most words are. Anything can be said as an insult or compliment depending on how you word it in your sentence and your tone. Personally I’ve never said it as a negative though feminists definitely do. Hearing the words “men dominate” don’t really bother me because to me that is normal. It is natural. It has become a trend to bash on what is natural and I am honestly sick of it. If men can not dominate then how do you think they can lead? In order to be a leader you must domin…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:05 PM
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He has multiple wives?! Oh hell no you just made me not like him more. Also I can’t stand arrogant people like him who think their better then everyone else. I’d rather be stabbed to death then be near him. I don’t really like many rich people. Some of the guys who are rich and nerdy are okay because the nerdy makes them likable. But the arrogant pricks who act like their money defines them, nah. Unrestrained sexual opportunities?😶 So he sleeps around? And how in the world does he make so much m…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:56 PM
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I actually have been wanting to ask someone this. But I used to text him Good Morning everyday. There was one day where I didn’t because I was very busy. He didn’t text me either. It wasn’t till evening till I talked to him and he was mad at me saying “oh now you want to talk”. I was very confused and he said “you didn’t even bother to say good morning”. I told him if he wanted to talk he could have said it, but I had been very busy trying to find another job before I became homeless. I basicall…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:51 PM
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It’s okay😂. I just saw it and it is very hard to offend me.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:35 PM
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If she is a real woman no. If she is a girl still stuck in high school with her pants in a bunch then yes.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:51 AM
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Oh my gosh! RUN! If a woman does that to you run! That’s abusive. SCREAMING at someone cause they asked if you can go fetch them water is impudent and mortifying behavior.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:50 AM
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😅 my ex used to get mad if I asked him about himself so I would just end up talking the whole time. He would get mad I was talking about myself too much. I’d get mad, but hide it because getting mad with him was pointless. I would try to engage him to talk more then he’d get mad…I eventually just gave up. He was very hot and cold. Lovey dovey one moment and cold to me the next. Honestly still can’t believe it happened because it was so surreal to have someone switch up like he did. Sorry about t…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:28 AM
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Thank God this does not happen with me😅. Sorry you have to go through that.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:22 AM
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😢I know the feeling
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:21 AM
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I just beg for sushi EVERY SINGLE TIME. It drives my dad nuts, he says all I ever want is Asian food and he is right😂
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:20 AM
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I feel like this is my dad. He doesn’t open up to anyone on that level. My mom sort of, but not to the point we’re he will cry. Me and my guy friend are the opposite though. He comes to me for a lot. I didn’t know this until he told me, but he said I was the only person he could talk to about his issues knowing I will not judge him. I was touched that I was able to be that because it is important to me that I am always there when you need a shoulder to cry on. But I fear I fail at it a lot of th…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:17 AM
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Yep makes him sound like a dog that was trained.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:05 AM
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I mean I say male dominated industry, but I never see it as a negative. It’s just a fact because men and women tend to favor different things. I do want to go into a male dominated industry just because I feel like I’d fit in better and it would be less of a head ache.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:57 AM
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I don’t really see him as a part of anything. I just think he is a bad person who takes advantage of people🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:29 AM
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Thank you. And that’s awesome!🙌🏻
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:17 AM
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Oh and I know men are three times stronger, but I am as stubborn as a bull and am still gonna try to protect them. If I die trying that’s okay😂. I did once ask God if he could use me as a shield onto others when I was in high school. I promised God that, I will not break my promise.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 02:32 AM
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Same to you☺️
/r/MensRights09/11/23 02:27 AM
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You are more capable of protecting them then you think😉. Believe in yourself. We are all in this together.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 02:18 AM
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Yes!☺️
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:53 PM
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What’s sweet of me? Talking about my church or men and women? I agree. I know I am going to do my best to support people around me. The more I can do it the more inspired others will be to do it too.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:12 PM
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You are very level headed, sir. Thank YOU. ☺️
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:06 PM
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It’s really sad though. I actually once made a community for men and after getting responses like this guy on my private messages a lot I deleted the account and made this one. So the community is still there, but I have no control over it anymore. I hate being told I am just looking for a sugar daddy when all I am trying to do is help (very demeaning). You can’t expect someone to keep trying to help you if you go after them for it. So thank you for acknowledging what this woman is trying to do.…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:03 PM
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Do you ever wish you could protect them the way they protect us?
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:57 PM
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Ma’am I agree with you. I posted something like this on another account I deleted so it went away. There is a lot in our lives men do and most people do not take a step back to see it. Or even care. So thank you for caring. I admire the men who do the hard jobs. Men are so strong, it is amazing and a marvel to me. Sometimes I wish I could be one just so I can feel that amazing strength they have😂. But they are always there when we need someone the most. They always want to feel helpful and neede…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:55 PM
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I wish they were. I grew up in a church where men and women would call each other darling and sweetheart. Men would kiss women on the check as a greeting and women would too. I saw couples all around me who loved each other with everything they had. Men and women who talked about each other with adoration. It wasn’t till high school and becoming an adult that I saw in general men and women do not treat each other that way anymore. It disturbs me. I walked by the construction working and smiled a…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:35 PM
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Yes your right they don’t. I also think everyone here is misunderstanding what I am saying. I am talking about you as a human being being valuable and irreplaceable, not that a crappy person is not going to try to find someone else. The women dating while their husbands and boyfriends are in war are revolting, that is cheating and no real love. Love unlike what our world loves to say isn’t feelings, it’s an action. But even though these women are leaving them, does not take away their value. The…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:19 PM
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Wow….this is very sad. All I have to say is I am sorry this is what you believe and have experienced.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 04:16 PM
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😔yes that is the sad despairing part of this generation. The love myself. When the real answer is love others, be kind and put others before yourself. To not be selfish and arrogant. To recognize your flaws every single day and work on them. When those flaws are fixed new ones will come. You will never be done working on yourself, but you do not do it for this so called “self love”. You do it because it is right, selfless, and for those you love.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:26 AM
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Those are not good women. I do not agree with what they are doing. I think there are a lot more people in this generation that do not care for each other anymore like they used to and the old values have been replaced with crappy ones. The world is falling apart, people are losing more and more morality. But not one is actually disposable even if another human believes them to be. All people regardless of gender have the capability to be loyal and morally strong or unfaithful and immoral. I do n…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:23 AM
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I am sorry that is your experience. That is not what I believe, but I understand you have probably gone through things that make you see it that way. So I respect what you believe regardless if I agree or not.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:44 AM
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Limited to a role?
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:39 AM
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I am so sorry. You should have never had to go through that.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:38 AM
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He does not need to be turned on. The body responds naturally even if you don’t want it to. Many women orgasm during rape. It’s the bodies defense mechanism. I learned this with research and SCIENCE because like you in high school I did not believe it. But I was not willing to ignore an entire group of people and their experience if it was true so I did the research. Saying a woman can not rape a man because he can’t get hard unless he enjoys it is like saying a woman enjoys being raped. It’s ju…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:37 AM
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It is not wishful. It is true. They can try to replace you, but they never actually will. They will never be able to find a person like you.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:30 AM
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Your ex beat you?😢
/r/MensRights08/11/23 06:52 AM
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No I’ve known about it for a while. Just never been able to fathom why…I do get emotional about this stuff because it bothers me. Not right now cause my stomach hurts from hysterically laughing.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:59 AM
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First time for what?
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:48 AM
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You can’t replace someone. We are all unique. There is no other person on this earth like you.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 04:16 AM
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Also as someone who love psychology myself, Peterson is awesome. He is an amazing psychologist and intellectual man.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 03:41 AM
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Andrew Tate is not right wing….he exploits men and honestly he is just a scammer.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 03:40 AM
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On social media it normally goes to hell😂. Pick me girl is the nice insult. In person people are more afraid to say anything and I am for the most part very calm and articulate so it doesn’t go too far. People are normally just surprised, maybe a little weirded out by it. I’ve gotten some good responses. If I were to tell my sister who is feminist she would start screaming at me probably 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/MensRights08/11/23 03:33 AM
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My parents never liked feminism. My uncle and aunt (my dad’s siblings) do not like it either. On another not my parents are not for activism. They feel it can go too extreme to fast, I have the same feeling on such things. But even so my parents would agree with a lot of the mras. The only thing is he doesn’t believe men can be raped or assaulted by women. He is also against showing emotions. So there are some things that mras and him would disagree on still.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 03:20 AM
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If you can escape like that and your husband/boyfriend is back in war fighting then you should be worried as hell. Instead this guy within a few seconds of the video implied that it did not matter and now they have to find someone different. What a heartless thing to say and how could they…are you even human if you act like nothing bad has happened and your loved one is fighting a war or possibly dead.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 03:13 AM
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I lost some brain cells watching the lady talk about all straight people being misogynists😂. Your definitely right the first black women is racist, she needs to shut it🤧
/r/MensRights08/11/23 03:02 AM
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That tends to happen when we forget to have a more open mind to our experiences. Best of luck to you.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 02:40 AM
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Wow, that’s messed up. Calling you weird and a creep for something SHE accused you of and said you did. I am so sorry. I can’t even fathom what it is like to go through this, I am just in disbelief. I really hope the best comes to you. I hope you get to see your daughter and that your ex doesn’t put gross lies in her head. Your not a creep, you did nothing wrong, pls don’t feel bad. I know you cared for that woman, but don’t let that mess with the perception of yourself.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 02:36 AM
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That’s so messed up🥺
/r/MensRights07/11/23 11:56 PM
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Surround yourself with good people. Men and women. Create a community of support. Having real genuine people around you is more important then anything else.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 11:54 PM
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Oohhh! I am straight and I am white. I like straight white males😂. Do you get it?😃….ya I know that is a horrible joke😓
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:45 PM
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Good. You tell ‘em.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:42 PM
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Are you okay?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:41 PM
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It’s okay, you can let it out. I am here and your not alone. I understand your stress. It’s going to get better, you must go through a storm to get to the rainbow I used to say to a friend. I believe in you, this story shall pass. That strong will to fight will help you keep going, keep telling yourself that. Remember your self talk goes miles. You are more capable then you realize. And I know even though your angry right now and tired your going to get through it. We all get angry, we all get w…
/r/MensRights07/11/23 07:30 PM
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I am sorry you are going through a hard time. I am going to guess talking to her about it hasn’t helped. Your son is young and still has a lot to learn from life. If he does not listen to you guys sadly enough he will learn the hard way. I do hope that you do get better and your son finds better influences in his life so that he can do better. I also hope your wife is able to work on herself to. We all need that in our lives. I wish the best for you.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 09:01 AM
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Why does child support exist😂
/r/MensRights07/11/23 06:47 AM
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Eye rolls? Dear lord what women is this person around. I don’t know any in my life that are like that. They have proper manners. I agree with you. Being kind, forgiving is essential for everyone. It can be hard to forgive the ones who hurt us at times, but it is much needed. I am an example of that.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 06:42 AM
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That could have been a huge contribution. I am sorry to hear about this. The fact she never had a father probably gave her a skewed idea of what a father should be. What you did was perfectly normal. When someone like her grows up with no father figure she has no example of what is normal. I hope you get to see your daughter. So she just said you molested your daughter and they believed her? No evidence?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 05:10 AM
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My sister and her husband are ten years apart, my parents nine, and my aunt is ten years older then her husband. Your adults. Huge age gaps like 40 years can seem wrong for most people. Though even with that some are good with it. In the end I would say just ignore it. However you feel about it people will bash you for having a different opinion anyway 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/MensRights07/11/23 04:39 AM
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You were just bouncing her and holding her. How in the world does someone think pedo with that? Did she not grow up with any men in her life or what?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 04:33 AM
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That’s so disgusting. Evil and sadistic by definition actually.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 04:23 AM
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I am a lot like my father who has always believes in always seeing both sides so in this I agree with you. The problem is you have to look at mainstream feminism and what it is causing, not the individuals. The mainstream are bullies to men and women who dare think differently or not conform to their standards. They will ruin your life if you don’t play along with them. They also do not really support other women as a group. Sure individuals do, but not the whole movement. Plus mras and feminist…
/r/MensRights07/11/23 04:17 AM
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I agree on everything you said. My healing journey starts with God and my family. My family is very broken. It took 21 years for my parents to finally get it, but they are trying now. I really thought my dad hated me, but my mom told me today my dad is distancing himself from me BECAUSE he doesn’t want to cause more damage and he is hurt that I feel scared of him. It made me reframe how I thought of him today. I hope I can forgive him and I hope I can get to a point where I trust him and feel sa…
/r/MensRights07/11/23 01:26 AM
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Sweety, you just said men deserve to be treated like idiots in the movie. These people are justifiably hurt and angry at you. Learn to have more compassion and see how you would feel about someone telling you you deserve to be treated like that.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 12:58 AM
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I am a woman and how I view is two wrongs don’t make a right. The way they portrayed men as lumbering oafs was offensive, immoral and downright unjust. People can try to justify it as much as they want, but punishing an entire group of people for something only some did throughout history is sickening. I will not stand for it. No men do not deserve some of that. No one does. No man or woman should ever be painted in such a distasteful humiliating way.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 12:55 AM
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I’ve never had “I am the prize” mindset. I am a human and messy just like all of us. That would be quite arrogant behavior on my part. Also I am very much into traditional roles, but if he needs me to help provide cause he can not do it alone I am okay with that. I told my ex if there was ever a time he was struggling and could not find a job I would pick up for the both of us. Traditional marriage is about serving each other and being there through thick and thin. Sometimes your gonna have to p…
/r/MensRights07/11/23 12:48 AM
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It actually does confirm in psychology that it has a bad effect. Other then that is only fans like a porn site or something. I keep seeing that a lot of normal people do it. Is it a organization, a app, a website?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 12:37 AM
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For fun? What the-. How is that fun? Is everyone this fucked up in the head that they think doing something so heinous is fun?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 12:29 AM
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Agreed. My sister has a girl friend who took a year to find a job. To be honest the job market is crap right now in the US. We have Biden to thank for that. Also the stupid Government I have in this state sucks. I got an interview once, they called me back and said I was too good for the job, they couldn’t hire me. How the HELL ARE YOU TOO GOOD FOR A JOB?! I was infuriated it was costumer service and they said I was too detail oriented and costumer focused. What? That is what costumer service is…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:22 PM
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That’s perfect 😂
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:12 PM
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If we worked together I would have loved to have you on my team😭
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:09 PM
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😂oh yeah that is why I left my last job. The lady was nasty to me. She always had to talk down to me. She would also treat me like I was her child, very unprofessional. I have come to hate working with women, so much drama and headache.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:05 PM
1

That’s horrible
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:03 PM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:00 PM
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What’s swm?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:59 PM
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Well thank goodness I am not the only one who saw it. Yes I agree. Plus I feel like those videos are negative and just bring more depression into their lives. It focuses on the negatives and bad women rather then ways to improve your mental health and meet kind good women. I feel that a lot of men have not been taught how to find good kind women or what to expect from them. So they are listening to these stupid podcasts that are selling materialism and exploiting them. I just watched a video wit…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:52 PM
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That’s awesome. I am happy you found that. I hope you have found the one and are happy.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:36 PM
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First off can I just say that I am so proud of you. You have come so far. So many people learn to bottle up their emotions, myself included, because no one wants to listen. Yet you have learned to deal with them. Your working hard on your body and who cares if it is not like the man’s next to you, it is beautiful in its own way and can not be compared. You are very manly. Just cause you like stuffed animals and know how to show your feelings doesn’t make you less so. So many people in your life …
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:35 PM
2

That’s awesome.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 06:36 PM
2

I actually had my brother in law tell me to walk out on a man who wouldn’t pay. I am traditional, but regardless of being traditional or modern is it not good to do something for someone you love? Or simply out of kindness?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 06:34 PM
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Am I the only one who is down to pay for the man 😂
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:52 AM
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Well I have very traditional values. Feminism hates that and demeans it. So no I do not like feminism one bit. Two things about me is I would love to take care of a husband and children, another thing about me is I would give my life to protect my country if there ever came a time it was needed. I do not live for the “success” of a career. The only true success in life is protecting and being there for others.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:50 AM
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I agree. I wish we could all be childlike, we would be better off that way. Society crushes people as they become adults and it is heart breaking to see. If adults took the example of how children love you unconditionally we would be so much more further. I used to work with kids. I saw more love and forgiveness in their hearts then most adults. It’s insane how some adults put kids through so much to the point that they grow up to be like that. Your never born that way, you become that way throu…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:46 AM
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Yes and it annoys me because half them have absolutely no idea what incel means, just like they have no idea what misogyny is. They just hear a word and run with it.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:09 AM
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Well that’s kinda his problem. There was one time he got in a confrontation with a lady. He went silent and stared at her. He had frozen up so it looked like he was staring her down, but he was not. He just struggles with that type of stuff. When we were at the mall together my hands were messy from eating fingers food and we forgot napkins. Well I asked him if he could get some for me and he said yes. He walked around the food court and ended up back at our table. He said “I couldn’t do it”. I …
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:52 AM
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😧wow, she does not look like she is 24. I thought he was 24 and she was maybe 18 or younger before I clicked on the link. How does she look so young and he looks way older? That’s it, I am never assuming someone’s age ever again😤. Why do I keep seeing so much of this anyway? The whole teacher and student thing seems to be getting worse and worse. Is it just me?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:43 AM
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There is no such thing as fatphobic. They just made that up as they do with everything. If you wish to not date a fat woman then so be it. Nothing wrong with it. As someone who is overweight I understand and it does not offend me.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:04 AM
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Oh I understand. Well men used to have power, but now it has flipped. For a very short time we we were actually equal then the stupid feminists had to get power hungry and they are ruining it. I’d say it is going toward the matriarchy if not already there. I am just happy my guy friend doesn’t see it, he is such a sweetheart I don’t want that stuff in his head. He struggles enough as it is. It has been pissing me off, why can’t they just leave us alone. I am honestly scared for him. He is going …
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:00 AM
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I do have to disagree a little on this. If they are bullying you because of your height this is wrong. But everyone has standards. I mean I am 163lb and there are plenty of men who do not want that, but I do not feel shamed for that. Because it is reasonable for people to have things they are attracted to. I mean technically I discriminate as they put it against tall men, it’s a preference. Just like my chest might not be big enough for some men or my hair is too short or too long. We all got th…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 06:43 AM
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I am kinda confused about how that is worded. Can you reword it for me?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 06:31 AM
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What is wrong with being a incel? There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you are, darling. Being nerdy is just like having a passion for something. It is what makes you unique. You don’t always need to be with the opposite sex to not be alone. Find a good community of people and expand on that. Find a men’s group that share your hobbies. Your not alone, we are here for you. Also the closest friend I got is nerdy, there is nothing wrong with him for that. He is a smart bright young man an…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 06:29 AM
1

Then there is my parents who threatened me if I cried😅. My dad said the reason he did it all those years growing up is he believed I was trying to manipulate them. Honestly I feel like that is a lie because half the time it had nothing to do with them. Oh and don’t I dare be angry, as a child I have no right to get angry. And when I was happy I was a nuisance. So basically I wasn’t allowed to be human and show any emotions (people think I am stoic and at times have very little emotion, but it is…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 05:43 AM
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😰how manipulative
/r/MensRights06/11/23 12:01 AM
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🤬what the actual hell?!!
/r/MensRights05/11/23 11:58 PM
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Nah I disagree. NEVER stop saying “not all men”. Generalizations are not okay in my book. Like hell I’ll just leave it alone. My favorite thing to say to feminists when they say “it’s not all me, but it is always men” is “oh right and it’s not women who rape, steal and kill too. Sexist much, darlin”. At this point they start vomiting words at me😂, but I don’t stop because I am a stubborn pain in the ass.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 11:12 PM
1

May I ask you a question though? What do you feel about gen z women?
/r/MensRights05/11/23 10:34 PM
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Yeah I actually do. Sweetest lady, a lot of men who come into her shop call her mama (her nickname) cause she has such a lovable personality. She helps run a business with her friend who is the main owner. She has worked there for years. She is the type who is very happy with little and very cheerful. I hope one day people see me the way they saw her. Everyone always got so excited to see her including me. She was the first one to encourage me going into car mechanics. She had a close bond with …
/r/MensRights05/11/23 10:31 PM
1

Your a grandma?! I only ever had one grandparent. She was schizophrenic, but she was a sweetheart and I loved her. She passed a while back. I never got to say goodbye.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 10:06 PM
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Thank you. I will keep fighting✊🏻
/r/MensRights05/11/23 09:57 PM
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That’s awesome! It’s so nice to hear there are other people who are waiting too!
/r/MensRights05/11/23 09:43 PM
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You know I will never understand why people shame being a virgin. I get it constantly and I am only 21, but I am saving myself. There is nothing wrong in it. You are one of the few that can live all your life without getting married and having sex. Most people don’t have that kind of self control so if you can do it great on you. I still believe in love and marriage till death. I know that sounds stupid with how this generation has gone, but I believe in the beauty and hardship that marriage off…
/r/MensRights05/11/23 09:21 PM
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I wanted to go into Coast Guard or Navy. I couldn’t because of my weight (currently trying to loose it😅) and I think it is admirable to want to defend our country. This is our home and on the battlefield are our brothers and sisters. We might have some issues in the US, but this is still MY country. It’s a honor to defend your own if that is what you wish to do. There is also nothing wrong with not wanting to do it. Choose what you believe you should do.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 09:10 PM
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So then it actually was helping people. I’m sorry.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:28 PM
1

Do you want the old one back? The way the uplifting one was before?
/r/MensRights05/11/23 06:49 PM
2

Thank you. I looked and it is a hilarious page😂.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 06:47 PM
2

I live in California, US. So to say the least feminism is popular in this state😂, as all bad things are here. When I first started going to college I did not receive hate for talking about men’s issues, but one of the girls was telling me her stories in classes and I was appalled and shocked. She told me a TEACHER talked about in a class that man are trash and worthless. I wanted to smack the teacher at that point, told the girl the teacher was lucky I was not in that class. I wouldn’t actually …
/r/MensRights05/11/23 06:34 PM
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😅yeah. Sometimes I wish I didn’t. Life would be a lot less lonely and hellish if I didn’t. Then again isn’t that why it was bad in the first place. Idk. How am I supposed to help others while I am falling apart?
/r/MensRights05/11/23 05:53 PM
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Oh that is a different one. It must have been made after deleting the other one by someone else.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 05:50 PM
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I am sorry what you have gone through. I hope that whatever it is that happened you heal and that it never happens again. May your life be something that one day you can smile at. I wish the best for you.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 05:48 PM
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That’s good. I am proud of you. Keep going.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:22 AM
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No. It’s an illusion 😏
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:19 AM
1

What does give way in doors mean?
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:18 AM
1

ChatGPT?
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:14 AM
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Well I’m 21🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:14 AM
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Why does this even have to be a debate? This is so sad and disappointing. The whole idea of saying one gender can not experience sexism is sexist itself. It’s like grabbing a huge red flag and yelling out I hate men, but I deserve to hate them. I’m just so done with this stupid generation. Why can’t they have common sense? Why must the fight over the most irrelevant non-existent crap ever. And don’t get me started on the “white supremacy” and “you can’t be racist to white people”.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:12 AM
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Oh, sweety, wow…just wow. I am sorry, I wish I could bring you out of this. But I can’t. I can give you my hopes though and prayer. That you will heal and be better. I hope God does something for you (I will pray). Also have you tried recovering centers or have they not been helping? I heard from someone getting off of chewing tobacco that they replaced it with gum and carrots every time they had an urge to get it. You could find something like that. For the alcohol I am not quite sure. Also add…
/r/MensRights05/11/23 05:08 AM
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🤮I can’t. How vile and disturbing. To think there are actually people who can read that title and agree with it. It makes me wanna kill the author💀. That might sound brutal, but I don’t give a damn. If your gonna act like a monster you get treated like one.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 04:58 AM
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Sorry Kinda vented there😅
/r/MensRights05/11/23 04:41 AM
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They’ve told me that they hope I get raped and to go kill myself. Pick me isn’t even nearly as bad. But I am used to the bullying I guess. Growing up I struggled with girl friends, I would get very angry with them for shaming others. If they were mean to someone else I called them out or straight up say I was disappointed and left the room. Never made me many friends as you can imagine, I believe true relationships is holding each other accountable. I told them if I was ever disrespectful to som…
/r/MensRights05/11/23 04:05 AM
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Oof I am sorry to hear that. Honestly I get misunderstood a lot too that’s why I got confused😅. I also overthink a lot, constantly nit picking at every single mistake I make. But I am happy we cleared that up.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 01:05 AM
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Oh I am so sorry! My bad…I need to work on that😅😓
/r/MensRights05/11/23 12:46 AM
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I never said you guys were children. I am saying childlike, it has nothing to do with immaturity. Being childlike is good. If I meant it in a negative way I would have said childish. Those small differences completely change the meaning of what is being said. Also for the women who do call what you guys do for fun childish and immature, I disagree with. Which is why I said I love that part about men because they can let out their inner child. Most women can not do that and are very rigid.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 12:35 AM
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Oh that’s a good idea. I think my videos are also very unstructured so redoing them should help me out. I wish I wasn’t so awkward, it is starting the video because I stutter and I’ll get so nervous I’ll mispronounce words. This unfortunately happens in my everyday life too and I don’t know why.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 11:10 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights04/11/23 11:06 PM
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Oh sorry…how do I build confidence in myself to be able to make videos about this and leave them be. I feel when I talk on social media I am very unsure of my speech and it comes out wrong. Or I will start repeating myself because I’ll suddenly blank.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:45 PM
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Advice would be appreciated.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:08 PM
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