Whisk3yChuck Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Need encouragement		Whisk3yChuck	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/26 09:03 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Is divorced worth it? Sounds like you need to work on your own self esteem. Don’t take these things personal. Learn from what a lot of divorced men are telling you. Go to counseling, get yourself right in the head and go to counseling with your wife. Then make the grown up decision. Divorce equals pain. Make sure you are doing it for the right reason	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/26 07:31 PM
6	Is divorced worth it? You are 34, an adult. Go to therapy, go to couples therapy. See how you feel after a bit of that. Then make an adult decision. Divorce could possible hurt your son. That’s why work through your feelings and see. Ultimately you are a grown ass adult, you are going to piss people off all the time. People even might think you are a failure. Who cares, your family and friends should know you. Your priorities are not straight if a concern is meeting a quality woman when you are not even divorced. Loo…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/26 05:15 PM
3	Is divorced worth it? Sounds like you have made up your mind. You might find someone that is magical in bed from your hometown, that connects with you on all levels. I give that about a 1-5% chance. You will most likely be crawling back to your now wife when you get a little lonely after a year and haven’t found that up on a pedestal wife. Due your self a favor, go to counseling, swallow your pride, be open and honest with your wife in therapy that way she knows and it is a safe place. And after awhile if you still f…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/26 05:14 PM
2	In a sexless marriage Couples sex therapy? Or couples therapy? Things I wish my wife would have pushed for more/harder so I knew her true feelings on things before she emotionally closed herself off.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/26 02:45 PM
17	Do you think social media has a lot of influence on my future divorce? My STBXW would always bring up compatibility. Well we were compatable enough to get married, have 3 kids move our life along. But as soon as times get tough, or in cruise control, bam it isn’t how they see it from there influencers. These influencers who have nanny’s that clean up, make the food, watch the kids so they can do whatever they want. Social media is a cancer, sure some stuff is good, but some people can’t see the lies. Sorry you are going through this. My wife told me a little over a…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/26 06:12 PM
3	Running on empty Sorry to hear brother. My life is going to shit too. You’re not alone. No motivation just know you’re not alone.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/26 03:02 AM
4	Feeling real lost... My “wife” didn’t tell me anything until I found stuff on her phone. Said she wasn’t going to tell me until she finished school in 6 months, 12th anniversary is the end of August. It sucks man. Right there with you. I am sure there are men who have and are going through the legal stuff right now who might have better insight. Hang in there	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/26 11:49 PM
6	Cheating wife is divorcing me! Your story isn’t different. No you’re not alone. Going through shit myself just like yours. Thought about how I would punch my ticket. Couldn’t stand the thought of my kids not having me. I don’t know what to tell you besides you’re not alone. Every memory and future plan i had made had my “wife” in it. Now she wants someone else and i am the bad guy. Hang in there, try to do something for yourself. You are not alone.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/26 02:55 AM
2	Need to vent and learn to let go. Your not alone in this, going through about the same thing. It sucks	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 04:09 PM
2	How little people care Right there with you brother. Found a video my wife sent to another man a little over a month ago. She said she had given up on our 12 year marriage a year ago. Now has emotional attachment to another man, who she has never met, only talked and texted online. 3 kids 8 and younger. Thought things were going ok. Just had a nuke dropped on my life. And as much as you point out the red flags, friends or family point out the red flags. You still love them. It just sucks. My kids who I felt so much jo…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/26 01:37 PM