I am not sure what the hell I am doing. I (35) was asked for a divorce from my wife (32). we made it a month away from our 6th anniversary before SHE asked for a divorce. We have 4 kids, the youngest being 3. I have a union job that provides legal assistance for things like this at a discounted rate so when I brought this up to my wife, she asked me to make the call to set it up. I made the call, but now as I am on the phone talking to the lawyer I find myself angry and sad, and a whole list of other emotions over the fact that SHE was the one who asked for the divorce, breaking our home and family up, and I am the one making the call and starting the process. Why the hell should I make this process easy for here by doing this hard thing for her. She said a lot of terrible things to me during the months between her asking for the divorce and us selling the house, so there is no chance we are going to make things work. But I find myself WANTING to be petty in this instance. idk, man.... FML