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When women are the mission, bad things happen Pretty much all the negatives you describe with women are second and third order consequences of not having an actual crazy mission like becoming a billionaire that’s driving you Having a mission will inherently solve any problems you have with paying more and getting little in return because you truly wouldn’t give a flying fuck about the petty things like that. You’d be focused on bigger things like how to overcome challenges with the mission
/r/TheRedPill22/03/24 04:02 PM
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Lmao get outta here Loser
/r/TheRedPill31/01/24 07:59 PM
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Yes, what you have to realize is that as a man, the material world has zero correlation with your happiness. Making a certain amount of money every year living a life of material comfort, these are all female concerns. As a man your happiness will come from overcoming obstacles, and pushing against resistance. All happiness as a man is psychological, not material. It’s why I think gratitude is so gay. None of the truly successful people in history were grateful for what little victories they had…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/24 02:03 AM
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Self sabotage and lose all your money and start over again with more wisdom the second time around That’s what I did and it’s the only thing that worked for me. None of the meditation or gratitude stuff worked long term. The human mind is infinitely intelligent at coming up with shortcuts or justifications on not doing something until it’s absolutely necessary. Gotta go back to that time in your life when you were lean, hungry, and fighting against the world. That’s already been proven to bring …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 06:20 PM
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I personally think the redpill idea of screening for virgins is outdated Unless you date a super religious girl like hardcore Mormon or Islamic, you’re not really gonna find N count under 7 women anymore that are still socially intelligent Fundamentally I believe that in today’s world if you want to date a virgin for non religious reasons it’s because you subconsciously don’t think you can compete with all the other guys she’s been with so you’d rather leave your mark on a virgin so you don’t ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/23 05:55 PM
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This is how almost every healthy relationship starts nowadays it’s a much more natural transition to go from fuck buddies to girlfriend and boyfriend It just doesn’t work anymore to go on three or four dates without sex because attention spans are too short
/r/TheRedPill29/11/23 12:44 AM
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The fact that a lot of celebrities are miserable enough to the point they want to kill themselves is proof that positive thinking and gratitude is NOT a necessary component for success
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 02:12 PM
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Could not have said it better myself Excellent well thought out reply As a man I find it best to live life in bursts. Bursts of grinding followed by moments of reflection. Similar to a lion or other predatory animal
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 10:24 AM
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That's a great point. Being grateful for what you have while going hard for what you want also helps cultivate a positive vibe that helps get others to like and trust you more, which is important for sales or team building. People like hanging out with chill relaxed people, not people on edge all the time. Excellent points
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:38 AM
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When you look back in life, the happiest most memorable years are the years spent in struggle. We barely remember the times spent in luxury, they just fly by. The struggle is what truly adds meaning to existence.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:36 AM
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This is exactly the kind of attitude that leads to a "happy" middle class life, which is fine if that's the end goal, but for me, I would never give up on ambition, even if it killed me
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:34 AM
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Self respect comes from achieving lofty goals after struggle. Doesn't matter if you build a successful business only once and lose all the money and go into debt again. All you need to do is have the memory of success to have a consistent swagger and self respect that no one can ever take away again
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:32 AM
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You will almost certainly encounter the darkest aspects of your personality if you truly go all in on an endeavor and try to achieve it no matter what the cost. Simply the way life works. Happiness is NOT a requirement for success but consistent action is. Does not matter if the action comes from a place of joy or a place of insecurity/anger/hatred. Often, channeling the darker forces produces significantly more powerful results than positive happy go lucky emotions.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:30 AM
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This is absolutely correct. There is nothing more beta than prioritizing your parents' needs and wants over your own internal desires
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:28 AM
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To be fair, the people who understood the concept of gratitude the best thousands of years ago (Buddhists) never achieved anything great. Tibet used to have a strong martial culture and ever since Buddhism became the state religion, they've been getting cucked by stronger cultures. Would 100% rather be Genghis Khan or Attila the Hun, angry, hungry, always looking for something to kill/loot than some Buddhist monk with a smile on his face happy but weak
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:27 AM
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No doubt it pays to be grateful and show gratitude to people who helped you in times of need
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 08:23 AM
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Health > All is a very good core philosophy to have
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 04:10 AM
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For a man Respect is more important than being liked
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 03:54 AM
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Bro is your username a combo of Artanis from StarCraft and Ax from Animorphs? That’s fucking awesome
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 02:32 AM
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This is a very well thought out response. Seems like from the way you describe gratitude it's more of a defiance mindset than typical gratitude which is focused on accepting outcomes as is. This is the kind of gratitude that gets results, focused on conquering the day, not on accepting your fate
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 01:33 AM
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That's actually a really good point that one day you'll bury parents you ignored your entire life if you just go after your goals all the time but in my experience life rarely works like that. You'll always have periods where you made it and are now coasting and can afford to repair past relationships
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 01:26 AM
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This is correct, the post is for guys who haven't accomplished anything yet but are told by therapists to be grateful for what they have
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 01:25 AM
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This is an excellent, well thought out post on fundamentals that aren't often discussed here anymore. u/redpillschool +1
/r/TheRedPill24/11/23 06:02 AM
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Thanks I agree it needs refinement
/r/TheRedPill20/11/23 07:06 AM
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We’re all different, good luck bro
/r/TheRedPill18/11/23 05:50 PM
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I respect this response. Very well thought out, good points
/r/TheRedPill18/11/23 08:58 AM
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Sorry to hear that man Anything involving physical pain is hard to deal with
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 12:16 AM
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Yeah it’s me ForeverKarlMalone
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 08:06 PM
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appreciate the kind words brother
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 10:36 AM
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I sincerely hope you’re okay bro. I agree they have the vindictive emotional level of a 3 year old. I know cuz my first business partner had those traits Also one of the highest performers I know The world is ugly, just because someone is horrible doesn’t mean they don’t get results
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 10:35 AM
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Summarized things better than I could have said myself. It’s true in western society a lot of the hottest women will have classical traits of the narcissist How can you not think you’re better than everyone (yet still be so insecure on the inside since no real accomplishments) if you’re a hot girl that was mostly born with it, unless you live in a society that places such a heavy premium on sex?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 10:33 AM
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You win 🥇 🤣 This is the autistic version of “just be yourself”
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 10:27 AM
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My honest take is narcissism is a superpower if you want to reach the highest levels. A lot of top performers in history had it
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 07:21 AM
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Yeah that was my post originally. I’m the same dude lol
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 05:39 AM
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That was me. I’m ForeverKarlMalone lol
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 05:39 AM
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Thanks man appreciate the kind words
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 09:45 PM
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If I could pin your comment I would
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 01:33 PM
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It's so true what you say about an unconquerable soul man. As a man, pretty much everything is just a huge mental battle. In New York or DC, I was perfectly fine sleeping on an air mattress with virtually no material comforts because I was actually achieving my mission. I think that material comfort is strictly in the realm of feminine energy. Women are the ones that are truly into material things like a bigger house, nicer car, fancier clothes, etc. Men would be fine living in a cardboard box i…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 12:55 PM
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Local small business development center is a crazy underrated resource. They will assign you a mentor for free and the advice they provide is way more valuable than I expected. They have lists of potential businesses, what other people in your city are doing, etc. I actually learned this from the show Undercover Billionaire lol
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 06:38 AM
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Yep, she's neurotypical. ​ Do you feel like your autism holds you back in any ways with your emotional relationship? Yes, I'm laser focused on my mission at the expense of emotionally connecting with her and my friends
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 06:23 AM
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Excellent question. The answer is that there was simply too much comfort when I had someone to cuddle with every night lol. This is going to sound absolutely absurd if you haven't experienced it, but based on my experiences I've realized that a man is not going to truly change until his back is against the wall and there are no other options. This is going to sound fucked up but having that nurturing presence in the face of failure was a double edged sword. It made failure way too comfortable. I…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 06:09 AM
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Thanks for the comment bro. My opinion is that if you win all the time, you're not really building strength because it means you're only tackling easy goals. Growth = failure after failure before success. There is no way to shortcut this or circumvent that process. That's the masculine imperative
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 05:02 AM
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Nope, I have zero distractions in DC, which is probably why I'm making money there compared to Texas lol
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 04:58 AM
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Yooo long time no see man! You're the boxing guy right?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 04:57 AM
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Definitely bro, hit me up whenever you get to DC
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 04:56 AM
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Haha it’s me bro foreverkarlmalone, I’ve returned
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah man I’m foreverkarlmalone. Friday and Saturday are the best nights because that’s when everyone else is out. Thursdays are good if you’re in a college town but if you want consistent volume you gotta hit Friday and Saturday. No reason you can’t do both
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 05:24 PM
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What I found works best is if the girl is receptive and laughing at your jokes or super engaged in the conversation, sexualize and move things forward. Grab her hand, start making subtle sexual comments. Keyword on subtle. Something like this: “What do you do to keep in shape? Yoga? Oh I can definitely see the effects of... yoga, you look very... flexible” If she is not responding well, tease her to open her up. A tease would be something like “It’s great that you’re xyz but something is missing…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 04:42 PM
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Glad to see you’re on the path to success bro. If you’re in college I highly highly recommend taking an actual door to door sales job over the summer instead of signing up for a random course like Grant Cardone. You will learn 100X more in an actual job vs just watching a bunch of advice videos
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 03:04 PM
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Haha great question. This is not even a joke answer. To some extent Yes. I’ve noticed that every time I finally got what I wanted in life whether it’s women or money it was always at times where I was under the most stress and going through the most hardship every day. In my opinion, as a man, you have to choose between whether you want to be respected or whether you want to be happy. You can work towards a “healthy balance” eventually but I think most guys severely underestimate the amount of e…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 02:26 PM
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Glad you liked it bro, thank you for the kind words
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 02:12 PM
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Thanks for the kind words bro
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 01:01 PM
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Appreciate the thoughtful comment bro. ​ So, by your experience, cold approach on train stations is the real deal? Yes, there is no better place to cold approach during the day than the train station. Key is you have to be at an extremely busy stop where there's a new train dropping off and picking people up every 5 minutes so it may not work in every city.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 01:01 PM
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The number one reason most guys do worse in a club environment than daygame is because they are not talking LOUDLY or slowly enough. Clubs are loud. You ever get a phone call from a telemarketer and you can barely understand them because of their accent? What's your natural instinct? To hang up, right? Same thing with girls. If they can barely make out what you're saying at the club, they're going to autoreject you. Simply by talking way louder and slower than you usually do, your results will g…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 12:21 PM
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It's one of the few things in the modern world along with sales that simulates the feeling of the HUNT, which used to be your main job as a man in the prehistoric world. Of course it's addictive because you're genetically wired to like hunting
/r/seduction24/10/23 11:19 AM
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Good post. The number one trend I noticed in my own life is that the fatter I was, the lower my T is. Science shows this is because fat cells produce estrogen. So if you're low T, don't hop on steroids or TRT right away, lose some weight and cut some body fat first and see how different you feel. Lowest hanging fruit for everyone struggling with testosterone is simply cutting fat from the body
/r/TheRedPill23/10/23 04:37 PM
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Yep in my opinion the number one reason so few people climb out of poverty is not because of lack of talent or lack of effort but the inability to escape their past. Lord knows someone who has tasted poverty should have a burning desire to get rich and never feel that way again compared to someone who grew up in comfort… But that old friend group… always that old friend group keeps people down. That and thinking too small and fully believing it’s possible to get to a certain financial point.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/23 05:47 AM
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Thanks, love your posts too man Partially placebo effect, partially who knows what.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 10:51 PM
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This comment is gold. +1 u/redpillschool
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 02:03 PM
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That’s so rare that it’s not something you should even worry about. If that happened to me I would immediately disengage. Not worth getting into a physical fight with a drunk dude over a random chick you’ll never see again
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 12:40 AM
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That's a really good fucking response man, I love it!
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 06:32 PM
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This is actually a very well thought out response with good points that Ferraris don't need to prove anything. I'd say it's important to remember that not every guy is on your level. If you really are better than 95% of guys like you said, then you really can walk away and either get another girl or have her chasing you back. But the problem is most guys in this sub are not in that top 5% lol
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 12:56 PM
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Hey man, appreciate the question. My opinion is that any time you come up with a new idea with girls, don't ask people like me for my opinion. Simply go out at night and test it out with girls. If it works for you great, if it doesn't, now you know it doesn't work. That's how all progress is made. I personally have tried the walking away approach or the excuse me approach and none of them really worked for me, but they could for you so don't dismiss them.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 12:52 PM
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In a perfect world, men would be laser focused on their mission, on adding value to the world And women on nurturing and taking care of family life while the men are on their mission. It's true, men are shapers of the world and it's weak, soft men that led us to this point.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 12:36 PM
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You've just learned a valuable lesson on relationships that can only be learned through experience: Whoever cares less in the relationship wins. Ultimately, the person who is willing to walk away is the person who has all the power in the relationship
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 12:25 PM
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Correct, especially in a club environment, boldness is rewarded. You will NEVER see her again, regardless of how good the interaction was. I can count on one hand the number of club approaches that actually led to a second meetup.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 11:56 AM
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Every single night, I had to cry myself to sleep due to my soul-tearing obsessive negative thoughts. Images of me killing my pets and my family, my then girlfriend getting fucked by someone else (it did happen, so lmao) and so on. Don't let anyone tell you that these thoughts mean you're a loser or a weirdo. We all started somewhere and we all thought about hurting people during the anger phase. In fact, I'd argue that if you haven't been angry enough to want to seriously cause physical harm to …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 02:19 AM
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That happened to me sometimes too when I was approaching. I’ll write a post about it
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 05:28 PM
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It’s different for everyone but what worked for me and is kind of a fail safe for everyone where you can’t go wrong is a navy blazer with rolled up sleeves, beige chinos, and a white t shirt
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 02:02 PM
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My personal sticking points were fashion, just wearing what I thought looked good versus what girls actually like. And not talking loudly or slowly enough, which meant I sounded nervous when talking to them even when I didn’t feel that way inside. Always had killer instinct to go for sex, just didn’t have high enough value so kept getting rejected over and over again despite going for it with every girl. Took many many trials to finally figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 12:22 AM
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Talk louder and slower than you think. Everyone’s natural instinct is to talk too fast and it’s low value Talk louder than normal because when girls have a hard time hearing you especially in a club environment they will auto reject you and you won’t even know why and will attribute the rejection to something else… when really they just couldn’t hear you. Get a clean faded haircut and figure out what fashion you can pull off best. If you don’t know you can’t go wrong with a navy blazer with roll…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 08:03 PM
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The club is harder because there's more "in your face" rejection where the girls will blatantly ignore you or tell you to go away. In day to day life (daygame), there's social pressure to at least maintain a polite conversation even if they're not into the guy. I would say that the club will show you where you actually are with women, more so than any kind of daygame. Because in daygame, it's easy to get lost in delusions of thinking women are into you because you're getting tons of numbers and …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 05:22 PM
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If brought a date along who was on the fence about fucking me-- she saw the girls we hung with and I innocently flirt with... she would get jealous and want to fuck me that night Sounds like you did have sexual interest from the girls in your group already I ended up in a fling with two girls from our group, including the 10... which kind of ruined our friendship... and then everyone got married or pregnant. Fun times tho... Yep, you're doing it right man. I was talking more about the dudes you …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:40 PM
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It's worth it man. Only way to climb up
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:33 PM
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Yep, that's usually how it is. The less power and freedom you have over your own life, the more you envy it in others. As soon as you said "I have a really important client at 8 pm" the envy kicked in...
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:32 PM
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Permission from a lesbian before proceeding lol… Grats on getting out dude, sounds like you’re seeing some success
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:24 PM
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100% agreed. Making friends while on the improvement journey is where all the juice is at
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:21 PM
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Cold approach is one of those things where everyone has a different bottleneck preventing them from getting the results they want. It’s a very individual journey but sets you up with confidence for the rest of your life once you figure it out. For me, my sticking points were not dressing well/having a nice haircut, not talking loudly enough, and talking too fast. It’s impossible to say what yours will be but the very fact you can cold approach in a club setting already puts you ahead of 95% of t…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:17 PM
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Actually having done two steroid cycles altogether and having gone balls to the wall at the gym in the past, I don’t entirely dismiss this post. Guys who build their entire identity around the gym without actually having any other hobbies, talents, or interests don’t really get pussy above 6/10 in looks.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 11:10 PM
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