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Not sure it’s lol-worthy, but yeah that has been an issue of mine
/r/seduction31/07/19 06:49 AM
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Thank you this helps a lot. Need to work on what you’ve mentioned.
/r/seduction30/07/19 09:06 PM
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Thanks it does help. I think I need to work on my self-talk a bit and remind myself that I’m a catch. And other people have needs and desires that could easily be found elsewhere. In the long run, I’m interested in a meaningful connection. Casual sex is an interest in the interim, but it is new territory for me, so I’m not used to the idea that someone (me or her) could easily be discarded for whatever reason. So either seduction is not for me, or I just need to keep at it until something sticks…
/r/seduction24/07/19 09:48 PM
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Ok thanks. I need to be called out on this stuff so I appreciate it. And if she reaches out again (chances slim), I’ll do my best to make it clear that I have no interest in being strung along, and that we can be friends if that’s what she wants (because she actually is a cool chick and we have common interests).
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:14 PM
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Thanks. You’re right about the perfectionism and I appreciate you pointing that out in this instance. It is a defect of mine. The people-pleasing rings true as well, and is something in me that goes much deeper than dating and seduction. You’ve given me some things to think about work on. Thanks mate. Edit: also this is the sort of thing where if it didn’t work out romantically, which is what it seems to have leaned toward, I would still on some level enjoy being her friend because she’s a cool …
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:15 AM
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Thank you. Bah. Lol I have done this before but like I said the things that happened that day were miles of progress from where I was. Glad I posted about it here.
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:57 AM
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Thank you. I really appreciate your response. I kind of thought I’d post this and everybody would tell me I’m a fuckin’ dork and get lost lol I do remember feeling a shift in my mindset when I told her about my living situation, like because I live at home right now I’m less of a man or something, and I think she could see my insecurity as well as me seeking her approval. Up until then I was not seeking her approval AT ALL, and it was working. Since then I have of course come to terms with my li…
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:17 AM
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