It seems I am able to get a woman interested and get her into bed, however if something goes wrong, I make a mistake, show my cards or experience rejection, I have tunnel vision and the girl in question is at the end of the tunnel.

No other girl exists. Suddenly, if this girl doesn’t like me, or knows that I’m imperfect, then there is no point in trying for other girls, because she has set the bar so high, and I have failed, etc.

However when I’m in a relationship, suddenly I realize the world is full of women, some much hotter and perhaps more enjoyable to be around than my girlfriend at the time.

So I know this goes deep, and I’m working through my personal issues, but I always hear about this abundance mindset on forums like this, and I’m not really sure what that means to people and how they obtain it.

Thanks in advance