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| 2 | Building attraction over text and snapchat? Help please [19M]Ive tried this but apparently people my age lile to talk more over social media | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 05:37 AM |
| 2 | How to Write a Killer First Text that Always Gets a ResponseHahaha i was watching that again today, and im like fuck it im going to do it, wish me luck | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 12:21 PM |
| 32 | Where's a job or place where I can meet a lot of older women? (50+)Retirement home | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 12:15 PM |
| 2 | How i got over my oneitisI did the same thing, it was just on my mind so much i just had to tell her how i felt. She said she wasnt really interested in having a relationship with me. 2 months later she asked me if i liked her still when she recently became single. Its weird its lile im free haha so good. And now i have a true friend im not waiting secretly for something more Good luck man! | /r/seduction | 14/02/16 11:19 AM |
| 2 | When a friend of a girl asks if shes okay and she says no?I just dont get why she would say that? Maybe it could be so she didnt look like a slut to her friends? Or true she couldve been sarcastic. Hes the biggest white knight! Thats pretty much what he always does, he spends all night looking after girls hoping that he'll get something out of it. Im just surprised that he did it with me, its not like im some random guy | /r/seduction | 14/02/16 11:14 AM |
| 1 | What do I do about this one chick?If you dont know the boyfriend or if you dont like him, you could go and see what happens, just make sure you could handle any possible comsequences | /r/seduction | 14/02/16 04:04 AM |
| 2 | I’m getting obsessed when attractedIm in a similar situation as OP, any chance you could read my post? I found this really helpful and thought your advice for me would really help ahah. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 05:24 AM |
| -1 | Ask her her plans for the weekend or set a specific time straight up?Cheers i have two free blocks of time so i might do this | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Ask her her plans for the weekend or set a specific time straight up?I prefer doing it similar to your way, because that way she knows i have a life and i guess makes me seem interesting to her. Or that was my thinking. Just seems that with this girl the last two times she been busy and i feel when this is my last go before i move on | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 10:22 AM |
| 1 | So I suck at "closing". Looking to improve.Maybe if your problem is that you struggle to continue conversation, you are going to slow when it comes to escalating. This type of kino stuff should go from the outset. Eg handshake or even hug as a greeting and make excuses when talking to touch her. Then over time get closer to her. Just the basic escalation ladder type stuff. This will obvisiously lead to closing more sets. Goodluck | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 08:47 PM |
| 27 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)Youre fucked then 😉 | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 06:55 PM |
| 3 | a few questions about smoking and its use in seductionFuck yes playa stardom! Thankyou sir for your guidance | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 03:09 AM |
| 1 | a few questions about smoking and its use in seductionI know it wont attract but i was womdering if it could be a good way to isolate at a club or party | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | a few questions about smoking and its use in seductionNo to question 1? | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 06:17 PM |
| 2 | 12 Action Oriented Tips That Will Instantly Raise Your Social SkillsDayum son, teach me your ways! | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 12:18 PM |
| 2 | When to stop chasingHey look guys! its da real MVP! | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 12:15 PM |
| -1 | 12 Action Oriented Tips That Will Instantly Raise Your Social SkillsIf only everyone here was just trying to pull dumb hoe's like you aye? | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 12:12 PM |
| 2 | For those lacking confidence, smile in a mirror as much as possibleI have actually just started getting into meditation about a month ago | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 12:02 PM |
| 1 | When trying to pull a girl with a bf, how do you deal with the "we shouldnt be doing this" type questionCheers! | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 12:31 AM |
| 1 | When trying to pull a girl with a bf, how do you deal with the "we shouldnt be doing this" type questionCheers, Could you explain why its a good thing to make her the sexual aggressor? | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Is everyone here depressed anxiety ridden, socially awkward, sexually frustrated guys who hate themselves nut are too lazy to change?No offense taken, im in the perfect position to grow as theres heaps changing around me and i have few responsiblities so im taken as much advantage as i can while it lasts and hopefully it will make it easier when im older | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Is everyone here depressed anxiety ridden, socially awkward, sexually frustrated guys who hate themselves nut are too lazy to change?Im sorry to hear that. I love your attitude though, ii have this same feeling to be better, not sure why or where it came from but it drives me to improve. People could learn something from your attitude | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Is everyone here depressed anxiety ridden, socially awkward, sexually frustrated guys who hate themselves nut are too lazy to change?No wonder people like you dont post on here more often, lots of people reject your advice because its easier than accepting the fact that they need to change. Its a shame because i try to eat up all of you guys advice. Im only 18 so im hoping to be better than those around my age who are just cruising | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Is everyone here depressed anxiety ridden, socially awkward, sexually frustrated guys who hate themselves nut are too lazy to change?I met this girl that seemed perfect for me, we had/have so much in common. But i was too inexperienced to escalate it with her and finally when i went to ask her out (pathetically i might add) she said that she really liked me but liked another guy more ( in a longer slightly nicer message). I know that she didnt mean to say it in a way that would hurt me, but the fact that she did infact like me, but i didnt compare to this other guy really pissed me off, not at them at myself. This was the ins… | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Is everyone here depressed anxiety ridden, socially awkward, sexually frustrated guys who hate themselves nut are too lazy to change?Usually there is a singular event or an event that pushed them to the point of posting here. This event was the moment i realised i needed to change, then i came here | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Is everyone here depressed anxiety ridden, socially awkward, sexually frustrated guys who hate themselves nut are too lazy to change?Change doesnt occur overnight but the realisation that change is needed can happen in an instant. And i swear some of these people are incapable of coming to such a realisation | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:47 PM |
| 3 | For those lacking confidence, smile in a mirror as much as possibleIve been doing this for like 6 months now everyday and ive been smiling subconsciously a lot more and its really boosted my mood, and smiling is contagious so people loke being around me more now | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why the hell can't I just be myself on dates? For the love of god, someone please help me.Nice job on getting your life together, reading this id say its pretty much just a confidennce issue, so dont get put of the process of dating. What i'd do is try ways of increasing your confidence, i know when i decided to really try and be more confident that the advice just seems so simple and superficial but honestly some of it does work, one that helped me was just smiling into every mirror i saw (when appropriate) this sounds simple and stupid but i noticed a real difference within 2 month… | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Reminder about the importance of psychotherapy.Its better than just talking about stuff to strangers on the internet who are unqualified and honestly dont give two shits about you. But again dont take our advice, just wallow in your own self pity because it helps you deal with the shit life that you currently have, and is easier than the alternative | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Is everyone here depressed anxiety ridden, socially awkward, sexually frustrated guys who hate themselves nut are too lazy to change?I did, but i worked on myself. The type of people that i had in mind here where the guys that just come here and post about how shit there life is and then critisise the people who comment and say things like " its just not that simple". 95% of the time it is actually that simple, where most of there problems could be solved by learning to value themselves more which will then lead to an increase in confidence. So yes i did have some of those problems but i was WILLING to change | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think its bad to pull taken girls? DiscussTo me it is yeah, i guess im somewhat saying i'd like there to be more intermidiate and advanced ( im mot even close to this but i do enjoy reading it and can sometimes pick up some things). Ive noticed it more recently since ive gone cover to cover on the side bar a couple times. And i have noticed alot more needy frustrated people lately | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Reminder about the importance of psychotherapy.This. I dealt with depression and anxiety. I focused on improving myself and the value i placed on myself first, then everything else followed. If you dont value yourself, why would anyone else | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think its bad to pull taken girls? DiscussI totally agree with this. I think it might also be because im young, i have a more "fuck it,why not" attitude to things like this and am a lot more short term focused. Ive been reading and asking questions here for seven months, and im not going to lie i initially was a whiney bitch with a woe is me attitude but i quickly learnt that this attitude is pointless and extremely unattractive. I have read this type of stuff all the time trying to learn form experienced guys, whilst ALSO actually appl… | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think its bad to pull taken girls? DiscussHers was an emotional connection and physical i feel that ive come to terms with the fact that i will nkt be in a relationship with her but i am still physically attracted to her. Ive been with a few since then but nowhere near 10. But havent had an emotional connection on her level ever | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think its bad to pull taken girls? DiscussI could apply this to me personally, however i am also curious "maybe you even got oneitis. GFTOG" dont have oneitis, i did quite like the girl 6 months ago while she was single. Shes moving states soon so wont see her again. I easily moved on though. Also what does GFTOG stand for If you did that she most likely wasnt as invested in me as i was in her so i should be with someone else | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep.As long as they dont sense this and it comes of as natural confidence then i guess its fine, i dont tend to go far enough in a relationship to feel this relaxing but i hope when i do want to i can and still be confident | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep.Same. Surely its not just an aussie saying though? | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 03:47 PM |
| 10 | Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep.Major bullshit salutes I'll grab my coat.... | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep.Haha i cant believe youve never heard of this saying. It just means that ive had a little to drink so im feeling a bit braver | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep.Im not sure if youre being serious or not | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 01:11 AM |
| 22 | Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep.I need to adopt this attitude 100%. I always worry what people think and and shy timid etc. With pretty much everything. Approaching girls isnt one of them for sone strange reason ( a little bit of dutch courage helps at night but even during the day im pretty much the same). In my head i adopt this "fuck it im going to do it attitude" and i just do it, but the weird thing is i feel almost emotionless and numb like i dont give a shit what happens, is this how you feel, its really weird its perha… | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a girl interested whilst you're overseasCommenting so i can see the responses easier. Im in the same position right now aha, talking on fb can be awkward if youre like me and dont really know her that much before you left. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Are redheads at an instant disadvantage when it comes to seeuction etc. ?I dont buy that, i know a few south east asian guys and they definitely! arent at a disadvantage, they are ripped as well aha | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Are redheads at an instant disadvantage when it comes to seeuction etc. ?Haha i would like to say that i break the stereotype, i put a lot of effort into my hairstyle and clothes. Can you describe a stereotypical ginger? | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Are redheads at an instant disadvantage when it comes to seeuction etc. ?Haha no way im dying it. I dont give a shit if some girl doesnt like it. If she wouldnt even give me the time of day because of it shes not worth my time. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Are redheads at an instant disadvantage when it comes to seeuction etc. ?True. Ive had heaps of girls say to my face i hate redheads (when talking about looks not personally), red hair is discusting, id never date a redhead and heaps more similar things, i usually just look them up and down and say "ok mate." Yeah it pissed me off but ive never had someone say that to me when im trying to pick up though or been rejected because of it | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Are redheads at an instant disadvantage when it comes to seeuction etc. ?Interesting | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Are redheads at an instant disadvantage when it comes to seeuction etc. ?I think it hasnt made a difference for me personally, but was wondering how you could see me using it to my advantage | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 07:51 PM |
| -1 | Are redheads at an instant disadvantage when it comes to seeuction etc. ?Im not, i personally havent been affected at all by despite people always saying things like "i hate red hair etc" so i wanted to know if some people have been | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why Is it so much easier to pick up strangersWell no, because the whole point of this post was to figure why i struggle to even make a move at all | /r/seduction | 09/01/16 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Why Is it so much easier to pick up strangersIt does seem easier when you write it like this, but i feel like if i fuck up people will judge me more and possibly gossip. Is this irrational? | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol, the Game, and Unapologetic LivingIm young so taking the edge off (not stupid drunk though) still works for me | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why Is it so much easier to pick up strangersHow can i go about changing how i view this? | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why Is it so much easier to pick up strangersThats probably part of it, most people think im really shy, i usually am and its like when im with people that think that i act that way, and when its a stranger i dont get nervous at all and dont really care about what people think. Its weird. Sort of annoying though because if i get to know a girl organically i'll struggle to make a move and ultimately miss out on being with her | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Picking up a girl whilst inbetween first and second dates with another. Is it appropriate?Cool, but it would be a good idea to get my friends at the concert to not mention it right?(both girls so they probs wouldnt banter like my male friends so they probs wouldnt if i asked them not to) | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Picking up a girl whilst inbetween first and second dates with another. Is it appropriate?Yeah, im not planning on taking the original girl too the concert. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Has Ted Mosby from How I Met your Mother taught me all wrong? [19M]If you actually look at teds stats they are actually way better than most guys plus he ultimately wanted a wife in kids and too settle down but still had a shitload of fun while searching. So no regrets there its just that in real life im starting to realise that a guy with teds style might not actually be anywhere near as successful EDIT: but true barney is a lad and i envy his life in a lot of ways | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with a girl over text/facebook who you havent spoken to in like 2-3 months?If im inderstanding what you mean, your saying that the time i spend sending a message to this girl is potential time is should be spending on a more realistic option, then i think you are wrong because the time it will take to type the message will be less than it takes to tie my shoes, plus ive been really busy so havent met anyone else | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with a girl over text/facebook who you havent spoken to in like 2-3 months?Im thinking i'll remove the "hope we can catch up soon" bit if i decide to go through with it. I'll most likely never see this girl again if i dont approach so im losing nothing by trying, and theres a small chance it could work, thought it was worth sending a message | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 10:54 PM |
| 2 | How to start a conversation with a girl over text/facebook who you havent spoken to in like 2-3 months?Thanks, i know its a long shot ahah, just thought i might as well give it a go. Just noticed her details and was thinking i might not totally waste them. Though i think this might be the wrong subreddit for this because this seems greatly squewed towards short term hook ups ect. Id be happy to get a date with this one haha. Thanks for your time though | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with a girl over text/facebook who you havent spoken to in like 2-3 months?Would a message like " happy new year! Had fun meeting you last year, hope we can catch up this year! something personalised " be alright or really lame? | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with a girl over text/facebook who you havent spoken to in like 2-3 months?To be honest i would like to take her on a date, is that what you meant? | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 03:46 PM |
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