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14

That doesnt help the man though. Misery loves company I guess. I think reddit can actually be a valuable resource, but not when the community decides on a specific leaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:45 AM
12

That's what I thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:31 AM
21

Ouch. I half broke mine horseback riding. Had to climb a hill with it torn. Owwwww. Not that that helped me have penetrative sex though lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:24 AM
75

Did this for real at my mom's wedding lmao. Except it was thrown almost directly into my hands and I had to hot potato it to the little girl beside me. I can only assume my bf at the time saw it lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:41 PM
3

I do like that diamonds are the hardest stone. The symbolism of that makes a lot of sense to me. In a different world I would want one too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:29 PM
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I'm not a fan of diamonds, imo they are a capitalist scam and actually not that valuable. That said, I still have standards lmao. I still would want a nice genuine ring. Just probably a different stone. Whatever the fuck that is... it's actually gross. I cant believe she accepted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:19 PM
26

Super glue is awesome for broken nails actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:12 PM
2

Aka overacting it lol. I'm sure many of us have tried to psych ourselves into a stronger reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:44 AM
1

Even if she didnt fake it, or at least overact it, she could still just miss her vibe. If they are focusing on penetrative sex that just... isnt uncommon at all, even a little bit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:06 AM
29

Your better than me, my first thought was more...dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:44 AM
21

QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:44 AM
4

HELL YEAH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:47 AM
5

I wonder if it would help if we made the "girl code" as well known and cultural as the bro code if that would help. As far as I'm concerned, any girl I can see is one of my girls. I've shoved an overly pushy man across the bar before for someone I dont know. (I waited until I saw signals she for sure didnt want it of course). We gotta do something to teach young women how to protect each other, most of the known advice is super individualistic. Like, I can keep my keys in my hand all I want, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:42 AM
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Poor girl. Also, what the hell is up with her friends? You don't leave one of your girls with a strange man EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:27 AM
3

I love a story with a happy ending! Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:50 AM
14

Yep, count me as another person thinking that the quote meant walking like the Flash. It took reading the comments but I finally got my mind around the idea that he means...that in this universe your presumably trying to engage the men in some kind of mating ritual? But that can't be right, in nature it's the men who try to impress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:39 AM
1

Stay strong! That sounds just terrible. I wish you all the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:54 PM
7

While this might be good advice for the rare person who brings up the one time their partner brought them the wrong beverage at the Christmas party...it certainly isnt universal. And actually, can be quite harmful. How would anyone realize they were being abused if they didnt log the red flags they encounter? If you never ever keep score your walking yourself right in to a bad relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:26 AM
24

...they think a man who wants you to serve him is suddenly change when y'all are old and feeble. Girl please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:20 AM
18

My dude, you can by flowers at the grocery store. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:44 AM
5

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:53 AM
16

Women often make the best bosses. One incredible woman I met was in control of our entire branch/ building. Best place I've ever worked. Then it seemed they were requiring more and more from her, and knowing her worth, she left. That place went to hell in a handbasket when my male manager took over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:47 AM
6

Thank you for your service. It's important we keep tabs on them, but not everyone can wade through that refuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:07 AM
4

It doesn't help that those communities target young boys. Fecking hell Prager U has videos for kindergarten classrooms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:55 AM
27

What the actual hell? That's freaking scary dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:25 PM
11

Im not going to lie, the horror stories from this sub make it a lot easier! I do want a kid someday but I've decided that I would rather do it alone than settle for some asshole. Still, biological clocks are bullshit lol! If I decide to get out there again im definitely going to put into practice what FDS has taught me. Im getting too old to play games. It was fun for a while, I don't regret it, but that time of my life is definitely over now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:23 PM
5

I can attest, not banned here but banned on the other feminist subreddits I've come across for not being TERFY enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:44 PM
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Honestly, I would prefer a man NOT to worship my pussy. 2 years celibate and quite happy about it. Not to mention no UTIs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:40 PM
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God I hate gaslighting. Of all the abuse I've suffered in my life, that one screwed me up the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:32 PM
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Im curious as to what you would estimate is the percentage are veterans? I don't doubt what you say, but I also wouldn't want to ignore the intersections between poverty and the school to military pipeline to homelessness or even in some cases laying the groundwork for criminal activity. PTSD, mental illness, etc is never an excuse, but it is sometimes an explanation. The more we understand the root issues the better society can improve. But I really think that guys should get off their asses an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:46 AM
7

This. I've thought about it before and the logistics to try and protect my family are complicated. Im still fighting the good fight but I wanted to speak up that you are 100% correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:28 AM
56

Get that degree girl! And afterwards know that you don't owe him anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:59 AM
72

My lord. Good instincts obviously. I hope your out of there as well now, he sounds like a real charmer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:45 AM
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I really enjoyed birds of prey, I just love this iteration of Harley. I've heard guys complain about a particular action sequence bc it's not I dunno believable violence or something? The aesthetics are VERY HQ, and for some reason they think that in universe she's a reliable narrator and things are actually confetti instead of bullets. Then again they think the moral of fight club is that Tyler Durden is really effing cool so, what did I expect. My favorite part though is during a group fight s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:55 AM
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Do you mind if I ask your main triggers and why you kept watching?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:06 AM
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Ughh. I will say that in most media the torture of women isnt quite as awful. Probably its becuase getting too gross with us stops us from being sexy. I hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:05 AM
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Fair, I quit watching after the first season because it wasnt good for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:42 AM
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Was that in the first season? I was much more affected by the rape scene with the main (dead) character. Which in itself was awful. To their credit, they didn't sexualize it like Watchman did. That said the part that fucked me up was her going to the counselor and more or less being slut shamed over her rape and not getting help. I hate that show. I'm not sure but I may remember that scene? If I do, it was presented as something awful...but then it never comes up again really. It didn't make a n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:06 AM
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Just wanted to add that that glossy gaze is the most terrifying thing I've ever experienced. Maybe a bit stronger than this story describes, but it's the same. It's like they have completely forgotten that you are a person. Often followed up with abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:21 AM
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I haven't seen it, do you mind giving me the bare bones idea of what happens because as its written I'm really not sure what happened in the show that is comparable to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:14 AM
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I agree. He may have been shit testing, or he may have been trying to impress with his knowledge of Australian slang. But still, as someone said above, I wouldn't want to be called a "bad ass bitch" that soon either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:10 PM
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I didn't say it was never bad, I said that some people choose sex work, which has a pretty broad definition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:35 PM
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Fortunately, I'm not going to have to try it for a while. I'm "woman going her own way" atm, and not trying to date. And if I do, I will probably find a woman, I'm tired of men's shit. I am, however, putting this advice in a nice assesible file in my brain. It's too good, so I must remember it. Good luck to you sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:13 PM
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In a similar but very different vein, that exact thing came up in a discussion on gun open carry. I hate it because I want seeing a gun to trigger my survival responses. If open carry is a thing, I don't trust myself not to try and subtly reassure the gun owner that i don't find him scary. And if he turns out to be a shooter I would have put myself in more danger, and if he turns out not to be my reflexes will be worn down bit by bit. I'm a bold woman. But it's so deeply ingrained. Men's comfort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:10 PM
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It happened to my sister as well. He forced her to quit working, started cheating on her, planned a second baby with her and left just after baby was born. Of course, first he got a little physically abusive while she was pregnant. Fucking bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:04 PM
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This is an AMAZING tip! I can't believe this is the first time I've ever seen this framed in this way. Girl, you might be a genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:33 AM
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Congratulations! How's it feel to be 200 lbs lighter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:45 AM
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Thanks sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:43 AM
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Great to hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:00 AM
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I'm so sorry, you didnt deserve that and he didnt deserve YOU. I hope life is better now <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:35 AM
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In my limited experience, that is utter bologna lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:32 AM
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This is so true. I also see it as a response to the way a lot of boys are raised with heaps of praise and special treatment. When they grow up being given preferential treatment and adoration for being average that has got to do a number on their young minds. You see it all the time with men who think they have superior logic and math skills and spacial reasoning. Then you ask them to pack the trunk for a trip and they stand there for 10 minutes trying to shove the same damn thing into the same …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:55 AM
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I read that in George of the Jungles voice lmao. Its PERFECT!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:47 AM
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For sure. I hate seeing women punish other women for men's shitty behavior. They were probably both victims of that LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:51 PM
1

Those sound like very worthy ambitions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:19 PM
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I'd like to hear about these "weird life goals" of yours! Sounds interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:37 AM
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I'm beginning to get the feeling that that may be the future. I wont be surprised at all if a significant portion of women end up settling down platonically with each other. It even makes me a tiny fraction of hopeful that the younger generation will see that men are so shite that women literally just canceled them- and maybe the young people will learn how to do better. [Judy Tenuda: "It could hayppen!"]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:25 AM
3

Oh snap! This should be crossposted on r/preyingmantis I've never seen such a hot burn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:40 PM
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Oh girl no! He 100% needs to figure out his life himself, and you dont need to be there while he does it. Your going to go and live your best life and you'll both be better off for it. Stay strong sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:21 PM
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I dont think its feminist at all. I think you can compare it to "behind every great man is a great woman". It's still patriarchal, but gives at least some level of balance, some level of achievement for the woman. Also, sayings like this shouldnt be taken too literally. Thet are by nature metaphors/ similes. But of course, it is better to be a whole human, all by yourself. That's where I think the real damage is done in things like this, the idea that you aren't complete without a partner. Utter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:23 PM
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WHy CaNt I PuT mY PeEPEe iN mY wIfe a WeEk AfTeR sHe GaVe BirTh tO mY CHilDrEn? Reeeeeeeeeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:17 PM
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But is he even nice to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:15 PM
8

Oh gawd, I did not see that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:14 PM
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I think that was very loving of you. When your severely depressed it is a struggle to jump through the required hoops to get help. It sounds like he wasnt good for many reasons, but what you did was beautiful and I hope you aren't ashamed of it. Anyways, as women, it's hard to find our balance between enforcing boundaries and divine acts of care. My goal has always been to remain strong in both. One thing that helps me is to keep track of how capable I am at any given moment. If it will not take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:13 PM
8

Stay strong goddess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:06 PM
11

Awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:21 AM
15

Ooh! Teach me the look!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:20 AM
2

She is such a queen! I love how shes standing next to a man who is literally twice her size and she still looks 100% regal. She's the kind of woman who can look down on someone taller than her. I absolutely love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:16 AM
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Congratulations!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:18 AM
9

Just saw another post that called out FDS as being as bad as incels smh. Still, it seems like its a quality recruitment tactic for this sub considering how many of us girls have come here initially out of curiosity from posts like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:34 PM
8

I'm beginning to come to a very uncomfortable conclusion for someone who strongly strongly believes in equity for all people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:25 AM
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I worry that it will just help him get better at deception. If we tell them how and why we found them out, it's just coaching them how to be better at manipulating us. Then, after a while, he will be able to hide everything that alerted previous girls, and some new victim will meet him, and wont pick up on the red flags because weve already taught him how to not have any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:07 PM
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It's also so much closer to the goddesses honest truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:52 AM
3

Well, I think I would need a partner first lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:19 AM
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I'm so glad you posted this hear! My god what a baby! His whole post sounds like he knows what hes supposed to say, but in reality, he wants to have the right to dictate his wife's appearance. And then you've got people in the comments defending his anger. Like its justified to get angry because you dont like someone else's haircut. Its appalling. And the fact that she just carried and gave birth to his second child, for the love of all that is good, just support your damn wife. Are you really a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:14 PM
2

I have a rock solid foundation because I've put in the work to be the kind of person I want to be. Just keep on living the life you want, self reflecting and being awsome. You've got this babe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:57 PM
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That's true. I think it depends on the situation. Keeping it in mind is a good idea, and tracking red flags even if you choose to continue is important. I havent actually dated any single fathers, but I'm starting to get to that age where it's more likely to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:22 PM
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I find good dads very attractive. I would be ok with that, but they would have to be really good fathers. Not lvm that want someone else to raise their kids for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:24 PM
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I'm imagining being in the middle of a conversation and him bringing that up, hoping for some coddling and ego boosting. And me just saying "kay" and leaving 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:37 PM
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Smiling makes you gay? Just guessing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:52 PM
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While also demonizing the feminism that does look to deconstruct the systemic issues that prevents proper care from happening. Like, lads, we're trying to help you- stop digging your feet in because your afraid wiping your ass makes you gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:28 PM
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My theory is that it's based off of how they are raised. I see zero reason that men are incapable of having logical thought, an emotional IQ, or nurturing instincts. I do think that they are not raised with the subtle expectations that women are. We know we are supposed to understand people, care for them, act maturely, have few expectations, keep the peace, and honestly, to run the damn household/the world without so much as a thank you. I think that gets deep under our skin from a young age. C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 03:52 AM
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My problem is that nobody survives the vetting process lol. Well, either that or I realise they just dont have what it takes to be stimulating enough for me. My best bf was a lovely person, but... just not that much going on in his head. Thanks for the reply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:06 AM
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I am also political and nerdy. In my experience, it makes dating really hard. Not a lot of guys I've met really care much about thinking. The closest I've gotten was someone who just wanted to "play devils advocate " :( Have you picked up any tips?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:14 PM
1

I'm a girl, but when I was a kid I took my mom out for mothers day. I got her (fake) flowers and we went to taco bell. All for like the 7 ish dollars I had to spend. We had a really good time and she had that flower for years until it rotted. It was good parent child time. That's what I am imagining this is like. I could be wrong, but I think it would be unkind for me to make a different assumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:18 PM
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Thank God there are still some good men out there! Hallelujah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:07 AM
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I mean, it may mean that your past male associates have heard and respected your decisions. Which would be a good thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:19 PM
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Girl, I can't tell you how much I love that you simultaneously have compassion for this guys emotional problems; and also dropped him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:25 AM
2

Oh hey, I've got good news for you, you can stop making your shoes smell rank and having fucked up feet now- I found some socks for men. Wear your socks like a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 02:17 AM
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Check out the thread under JacobiJones7711 reply. He goes through an entire conversation in order to figure out the framework of what is being said here. It's worth the read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:59 AM
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As you get older these dynamics you are seeing will change. And, at some point I hope that your priorities will not be to just get some free sex. And please be careful not to partake in that sex if the girl has a different idea of where the night/ relationship is going. Being out a bit of money, having (hopefully) enjoyed a nice evening out with a nice person is no where near the same as being pumped and dumped and used by a guy you thought was nice. Casual sex is absolutely fine, but it must be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:57 AM
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Sis, that is awful. He wanted children but couldnt be bothered to have even an ounce of caregiving instincts in the face of life or death situations? So gross. Thank goodness your not with him anymore. Your point about your bf feeling that children are a go with the flow kind of thing, because he doesnt see it effecting his life much is super poignant. I'm not going to forget that one, ever. Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:48 AM
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Im relatively new myself, my advice, keep reading. Not every post is gold, but a lot are pretty good. I also think this place is the most beneficial for women who are in, or have been in abusive relationships. As for the finance stuff, it's been pointed out that this sub is for dating, not steady long term relationships. And, the more I think about it, the more I see the logic in it. Cheers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:34 AM
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Hygiene is gaaaayyyyy. /s obviously sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:51 AM
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I like the stache idea. It also wont be co-opting a word from a community but also pays tribute. Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:14 PM
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Not to mention that as we are raised we are constantly being told/ hearing our mothers be complimented in how pretty/ beautiful we are. Its reinforced almost from birth. So if we are pretty, its the number one thing weve been told our entire lives. But we are also supposed to be insecure? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:54 PM
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<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:25 AM
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No need to scold! Just redirect your thoughts. Remember, your first thought is what you've been programmed to think, your second is the one that comes from you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:21 AM
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Wow. What a jerk. He should be ashamed of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 03:32 PM
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Well yeah, obviously losing control to commit violence is ok because its manly, but losing control and gasp expressing emotion is what is truly horrifying. I mean sure, but your life partner in the E.R because your having a temper tantrum, but God forbid you...cry. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:22 AM
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Tpu do you, sounds like you've got it figured out. I do want to mention though that if I could give myself some advice in the past, it would be to lock down one of the nice boys who were in love with me. At a certain point , it seems like they stop doing that and things get a lot harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:10 AM
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The oldest man I've dated was also the only one I have seen throw a literal temper tantrum. So, theres that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 03:25 AM
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I'm proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:51 AM
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But, you see, war is MANLY. Edit: just want to make it clear that I agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:07 AM
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Oh, pretty good. My prehistoric fecal transplant went well so I'm just waiting for my microbiome to integrate the cambrian cells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:03 PM
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It should really be made into a PSA or I guess a meme to warn the young. Knowledge is power and no young man wants to have that issue. I was also glad to see that no fap exists and isnt toxic as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:22 AM
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What app is this? Fb?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 10:17 PM
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PREACH! I really do hope that men are waking up to the fact that they need to actually try and work on themselves and become better people. Surely since we are raising the bar, some of them will rise to meet it. Because if I have to be bad ass and single I will, but that doesnt mean I wouldn't prefer a good partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:02 PM
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Even our bodies are way more active in selecting which sperm will fertilize the egg than once thought. They are less like little warriors in a race to the finish, and more like bumbling idiots moving through passageways filled with booby traps. It's really fascinating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 03:16 PM
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