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I am a feminist and I have nothing against traditional gender roles, or non traditional gender roles. You don't need to worry at all what anyone else thinks or does, because not everyone is a potential partner for you. Anecdotally, what I will accept in a relationship and participate in, depends highly on the partner I'm with. If I have a partner who is a leader and actually considers me, along with my emotions and needs (and protects me above his public image with the bros), then I would natura…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/26 12:23 AM
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Because he's considering them for himself, probably in sexual ways, even though they're not considering him at all. They probably barely notice him.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/26 07:53 PM
8

Then you should probably just stay away from them.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/26 07:49 PM
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You believe if the object of your attraction doesn't keep your initial level of attraction, there is nothing to continue binding you or your attraction, together. You assume that if you see someone who is more "attractive", the relationship no longer has any worth to sustain it. And I'm saying, you are too limited in your beliefs, to consider that which you do not know.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 06:45 PM
3

Like I said... You wouldn't even know you look foolish saying this.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 05:27 PM
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Dude, you're just letting us know that you're shallow and transactional, and this is why you can't fathom that other people maybe aren't all like that. You're also letting us know that you don't really have value for those that you are attracted to, beyond their attraction (or ability to keep yours entertained). For your information, the thing that distinguishes human beings from animals, is the evolution of our frontal-lobe. This is the area of the brain that is capable of learning about conseq…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 05:22 PM
3

You do realize that anything you're saying, you're just saying about yourself? Because you're only speaking from your own experienced point of view, and you're speaking about all humans, therefore including yourself. So if there is actually another perspective, you wouldn't know it, and you also wouldn't know how foolish you look/sound saying this (because of how revealing it actually is, about your own mindset).
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 05:07 PM
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A clear example of toxic masculine conditioning, brought about by other men.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 04:24 PM
2

Monk or priest.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/26 09:00 AM
7

Have you tried making actual connections with humans, other than lusting over them in pictures or from a distance? Or are you just sitting over there waiting to be chosen?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 07:57 AM
1

No it is not. Like men don't have standards? And haven't men always had standards, for the women they kept?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 06:02 PM
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We are humans. You think being nice to another person makes you weak? Why? Because women are lesser?
/r/ExRedPill09/03/26 08:16 PM
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Honestly, I solved this for myself almost by accident, through dealing with my traumas. Basically, I started developing a very deep relationship with myself. I had to do this in order to create a person that I could rely on so deeply, that I could trust them with my inner child's protection. The byproduct, is that I've never felt lonely since accomplishing this. Sometimes when I'm alone I smile with love for myself, and how much I'm enjoying spending time with her. 💞
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 06:42 PM
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Some women do care. Not the good ones. And some men care about how many partners a woman has had, but not the good ones. And I do want him to think about this and how much that hurts, so he can avoid being on the opposite side of this, and being hurtful towards others.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 05:14 PM
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Also, just so you know... a dude having his first everything at 21, isn't exactly first prize for women, either.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 02:03 AM
13

Have you tried just seeing her as an equal human being to you? How would you feel about yourself if you've had three partners?
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 02:02 AM
13

Porn. The possibilities it brings for their dick. That's it.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 03:44 PM
1

Who cares what they say? They say it, you run the other way. We need to keep these men as incels.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/25 06:10 PM
5

Why are you even wasting your time analyzing this, or posting this? Do you want to be married to this idiot? Do you not have any self-respect?
/r/ExRedPill07/10/25 08:02 AM
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Women are human beings.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 03:32 AM
10

We are 100% pickier because you've diluted your currency by showing little discernment, yourselves. That is both a genetic and safety risk to us, so our choosiness is pragmatic.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 06:58 PM
56

Honestly, their talking points are becoming more and more mainstream, even outside of the redpill sphere.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/25 03:40 AM
121

Dude this shit has literally happened to me so many times as a woman, throughout my life. You know what I did? I moved on. Once I realise someone is a dick, I immediately free myself from giving their opinions any credence. I think you're weaving stories in your head about what a woman's life is like, which is part of the issue.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/25 05:06 PM
4

Ownership of a woman, duh.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 07:41 AM
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We only get into a relationship for emotional connection, in the first place. To build a family and future together, and to gain unilateral partnership and support. When we beg and beg for it once he takes it away (and we're stuck with less earning power and children, usually), we spend years planning our escape. You see, we expect to be treated as an equal, whose needs have equal merit -- whether or not he agrees with them -- because he cares about us, and sees our issues as equally important, …
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 07:38 AM
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It does, the minute you start to complain it isn't falling into your lap.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/25 12:55 PM
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Good luck to him. They really think if they demand it, they'll get it... Don't they?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 07:09 AM
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You're acting entitled and lazy then -- in this process -- and that's not attractive. What's missing, is that you need to flirt and connect with people, to open up the natural opportunity to ask for a date.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 02:44 PM
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So how many women have you asked out?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 08:32 AM
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My dad is a smart, funny and witty man, who owns the room with his intellect. He is also 5'5". I married a 5'6" man, and we had a 6'3" son. Lol
/r/ExRedPill27/06/25 02:11 AM
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Read it until you understand it. Or, stay committed to your chosen, miserable outlook.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 11:08 AM
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It's not "discrimination" to have a personal preference in whom you wish to date or have sex with. PERIOD. Do you feel it's discrimination when men won't date "fat" women, also? Or is that just a preference?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 11:07 AM
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Nah. I've seen and heard this song and dance too many times. It's definitely a new "trend" to whine and complain about it, ad nauseum, while also shutting down any constructive advice, reasonings, or critiscim. I think the issue behind it is coming to terms with not being able to be the ideal you want to be and accepting being less. Every human on earth goes through some form of this. This is a self-esteem issue, combined with black-and-white thinking, fueled by anger/resentment, based in entitl…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 11:03 AM
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You know what? If you want so badly to defend and commit to your chosen misery, so be it. Nobody loses, but you. There is literally no incentive for anyone to help you. But I suspect that you can't find a partner because you're like this, and not because of your height.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 04:11 AM
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What this guy needs is a statistics course.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 04:09 AM
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Sure some women like taller, but most care more about other factors. This is the crux though, imo. The actual issue behind this angst, is usually that they feel they can't have any (of all) woman, they desire.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 04:06 AM
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No lies: I have always been attracted to shorter men.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 04:04 AM
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You can disprove that short men can't get with women.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 03:43 AM
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Regardless of what you have to say, I wouldn't listen to you after reading your vitriolic comments, here.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/25 05:31 AM
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This is easily disproven by going out in public and watching the couples who walk by.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 05:37 AM
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They said, "We don't give a fuck because she's a woman?"
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 01:17 AM
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He's generalizing women.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 01:16 AM
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Dude. You can't say it's "because she's a women". I have a family that chose to keep my MALE abuser around, after he was fucking convicted in court.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/25 05:20 PM
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Why are you comparing? Why are you not just holding space for one issue, on its own? If you are squishing in your story of abuse on the tails of hearing another's, that is likely the reason you aren't being "heard".
/r/ExRedPill06/06/25 05:17 PM
3

You seem like a shallow, hollow person who wouldn't be very interesting to spend time with, or compassionate enough to get close to.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/25 07:26 PM
3

You're the one spiralling. That's in essence, what you are saying with that.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/25 07:23 PM
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No. He is entitled to be alone, if he cannot find someone he wants, who also wants him back. It's simple. I'm sure you can follow along -- if you try real hard. Update: He tried, it lead him to the uncomfortable feelings of cognitive dissonance, and he blocked me. Truth hurts sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 06:08 PM
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No. I'm telling him to get over his entitlement. Women are not going to concede to your whining.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:54 PM
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No. I just said that women have the same choices you do, based upon their own individual parameters. Most don't want a whiney, entitled sex fiend, with low-confidence, who is emotionally unstable for a boyfriend, though.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:35 PM
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Precisely. You might be on to something, if you can manage to self-reflect on that.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:22 PM
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Many men and boys with those options, quickly find out that it's not for them. And that elevates them even further as high-value, to women. You know the secret? Be a good person, be interesting, emotionally and financially stable, have goals, ambition and confidence, along with good hygiene and a sense of personal style. That's it. I know you want so bad for there to be some formula, as if the world is made by design and everyone is an avatar in your personal "experience", but it isn't like that…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:19 PM
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And you'd go fuck her, right?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:15 PM
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You never have unlimited possibility, as long as a women's autonomy is a variable.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:14 PM
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A major part of being high value to a woman, is not thinking like this guy, or having a basic sense of humility.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 04:43 PM
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Power. Wow. You seek to have ultimate power... Over women?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 04:42 PM
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Because he wants his choice of all women, and feels upset he isn't entitled to that. He ignores the fact that this statement removes nuance and individual autonomy from women, thus dehumanizing them to mere variables for him to consume.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 04:40 PM
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Real question: if you read a "low value" woman saying these exact things in reverse, what would you think? Let's say she's fat, homely, or whatever you see as "low-value", and she is complaining online that she'll never be in the top 1% or get the hottest guys. What would you think, reading that?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 04:38 PM
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You know who you should trust on scientific matters? Scientists.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 06:22 PM
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No. That's the laws of chance and the variable of randomness. The world is chaos, including human relations. There is no one authority or system of design. It's a bleak and dystopian feeling once you realise this. But it's also freeing. Just go live your life and realise that you control the outcomes, and not everything is fair. No one is designing anything, so no one is going to come save you from your whines of unfairness, either. You might have zero success, but that's just life and how it pl…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 07:41 PM
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There is no formula. It's just human relations.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 07:35 PM
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Except the thing that distinguishes us from animals (specifically monkeys), is our prefrontal cortex. Do you have one? This part of the brain gives you reasoning and planning abilities,; it basically filters all of your animal instincts into the modern era, with all of the knowledge you have about living in this world as "not an animal", today. This part of your brain fully forms at about 25. So although you may find a younger woman more fertile, after the age of 25 you should be able to reason …
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 01:42 AM
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Go get you a fat woman then. Or should fat women only be complaining and whining on here too, asking for recommendations to sex dolls? Fat Woman: "Wahhhhh. All the hot buff guys reject me because they are so shallow! I have to starve myself and take out my ribs to even get a single man to look at me. Wahhhhhh."
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:41 PM
2

Dude I'll tell you right now, it's your shitty, negative, defeatist personality that keeps women away from you. You aren't entitled to anything you want in life, let alone access to other people. Get over your entitlement and work on being a person who has at the very least a personality others want to be around.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:39 PM
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Who cares?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 03:51 PM
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-Younger women are more fertile. I mean yeah true in most cases but wtf does this even mean??😭 Like they tryin' to be sowing seeds 🙄 The worst part is, when they do knock her up, she'll now have too much "baggage", and when they leave her she'll have "too much mileage". So the question begs... Why don't these men realise they are the ones destroying the women at the gate, and the reason we mature adult women with fully developed brains (now) have all this undesirable trauma? These men are angry …
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 07:10 AM
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For anti-redpillers, misogyny is a broad term that encompasses any false or negative generalization about women’s psychology or behavior. Because by the actual definition, the word encompasses that. For redpillers, misogyny is a narrow term that denotes a visceral and irrational hatred of women. Because they insist on making up their own definition and disregarding the parts of the definition which actually do align with their beliefs. Simple as that. Nobody should be changing their language to …
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 03:10 AM
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How about we stop placating men who are falsely triggered by a word, or by coddling the feelings of those who simply don't enjoy the label they deserve. Misogyny (/mɪˈsɒdʒɪni/) is hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women. By definition it's not just hatred of women, but also contempt or prejudice. "Gynoskepticism" based in misogyny, is still misogyny. Besides, this is a fucking made-up word that only exists in the Urban Dictionary, which then references its origins to MGTOW. 🙄 Would y…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 02:44 AM
8

I'll stay and do as I please, boi.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 05:49 AM
9

I have hatred against porn because it commodifies and objectifies women, and because it is intricately tied with sex trafficking, doxxing, coercion and a host of other humanitarian issues. I'm not surprised that someone who sees women as objects, wouldn't get it. But digging into my personal issues, is exactly what bros like you do, when called out. For the record muffin, I am merely basing my opinions off of your own words right here in this thread.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 05:41 AM
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It's not that I "don't like it", it's that I see you as the self-entitled predator that you are presenting yourself to be. I'm sure it shows up in other ways, and when you drop the manipulation tactics, it's likely even more apparent; this is probably the actual issue you are running into. Do you even see women as equal human beings, or are they just objects as a means to your own satisfaction?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 05:33 AM
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You sound entitled. "If I'm not toxic, then everyone I like should like me back." And then when you don't get what you want, you think the only answer is to go back to the sociopathy of gaming women, according to the redpill.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 05:28 AM
1

I don't have empathy for anyone "struggling with dating" if they blame it on anything where the root is based in resentment, over the choices women make. But I do think I thought you were someone else commenting, and didn't really mean to respond to you... You've made some good points elsewhere. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 12:08 AM
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You should address your own sociopathy, before projecting it onto others.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 11:12 PM
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Because we value human connection more than sex.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 11:12 PM
3

He is a nobody. Who is he? What are his credentials?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 07:20 PM
4

I live in reality and a lot of people DO turn online to watch people for advice. Yes, and look where that's getting all these bois. I also live in reality, where MOST people DON'T turn online to nobodies for unqualified advice.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:56 PM
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clearly some men have far more sex than others, and it's not always or even mostly based on the men's choices. Bingo. It's based on the choices of both the man and the woman. So you've found the secret... Women have choices. How does that make you feel? How does it make you feel that you have to deal with women as people, with autonomous choice over who they fuck? This shouldn't be a hard concept for you to fathom, since you have that same freewill in choice in who you fuck. Here's another secre…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:51 PM
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It's sad that you can't fathom a world where you don't turn to the internet to watch some unqualified person you don't even know. Therapy and socialisation are what is needed.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:39 PM
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Growing up, what do you feel informed your perception of masculinity and gender roles the most? Toxic masculinity. Literally. From boys on the playground, to my father, uncles, and cousins. It's the shaming and bullying that happens when you try and break any of the stereotypes.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 07:24 AM
0

Nobody is reading this word salad. Get a life. That's all you need.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 07:32 AM
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Stop wasting your life and time watching nobodies talk behind a screen.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 12:04 AM
3

Who cares???
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 12:03 AM
6

Let me help. I personally think there probably isn't a single incel or redpiller who isn't also an avid "gamer". I believe these bois are all busy living most of their time from a chair, playing out fantasies in their made-up worlds, that they now see real-life as just another "realm". In this realm of reality, they assume it must also have "rules", and strategies, where women are just an opposing "clan" with different "powers"; they think it can be figured out and women "conquered", by chatteri…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 09:03 PM
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I actually agree. What happened, is that feminism went a few generations and women began to adapt to their new opportunities, and they stopped relying on men for just support, protection, and breeding. Women now want an equal partner, and men have failed to adapt, instead choosing mostly to turn to fantasy instead (videogames, porn, social media, dating apps, etc). The disconnect between women and men right now, is a gaping chasm; men need to step it up and become more socially and emotionally, …
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 08:54 PM
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To make it simple: connection is key. You have to connect with others, as a whole, dynamic person; you also have to see her as a whole, dynamic person.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 08:24 PM
1

Because he's not as typically desirable by society, same as fat women. Your logic is lacking.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 01:30 AM
1

Skinny men can attract fat women.... The "not standard" of beauty for both.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:10 AM
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I'm a woman, you failed abortion.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 03:07 PM
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Even if you don't have an exceptional personality, you can meet someone equally as unexceptional. I think if you remain with a mindset of "I attract what I am", then you'll find what you deserve. If you aren't willing to accept what you attract (or don't), then you should probably get comfortable with yourself as being alone, or be willing to change.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 02:51 AM
4

That's a sociopathic, misogyistc statement, and likely contributes to your shitty personality that women don't want to engage with.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:21 AM
4

the only thing the "losers" have is the adoption of a scientific mentality, going out to the world like a scientist and prove different thing until they succeed. Correction: trial and error until you succeed, is all anyone has in life. The problem is that this angers people (like you), to even have to "try", which points to an underlying resentment born from entitlement. Guess what? You aren't entitled to anything in life; not sex, not women, not friends, not a job... NOTHING. they are also deal…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:28 PM
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Men need to examine why they are so lost, then fix that within themselves. Likely, it's a lack of proper socialzation and a withdrawal from hitting proper milestones in life.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:21 PM
1

I have nothing to offer a woman, broke af, ugly af, boring and no charisma, introvert, short, skinny and dumb. So I guess I’m wasting my time trying anyway. And that is all on you. Women aren't born beautiful, we spend a lot of time on the routines and skills that enable us to "glow up". If you're broke, only you can fix that. Only you have the power to become more charismatic. Only you have the power to expand your personality and knowledge to be a more interesting person. If you aren't willing…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:03 PM
1

My ex-husband didn't cold approach me. We started having a casual conversation simply due to proximity, and I found him funny and charasmatic. He went his way in the club and I sent signals by making repeated eye contact and body language. Later that night he asked me to dance with him, and the chemistry was there so I gave him my number. That's how it works in the real world with people who are socially adapted.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:00 PM
1

Yeahhh. Sure bud. There isn't a single lonely lady out there. 🙄 Your hyperbolic statements are outlandish. I've never had sex outside a committed relationship. You're wrong. Plain wrong.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:57 PM
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Oh yes I can. And what does fucking vs a relationship have to do with anything? You are cherry picking something to take issue with, which doesn't make a single difference to the overall point.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:51 PM
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I don't give a shit what rules you're referencing because this is life; there are no rules. You can't just cold approach women who aren't giving any signals or who you haven't established some sort of connection with, first. Just like with making friends, not everyone is going to be interested in engaging with you, and it isn't just because of looks. Work on your confidence, social skills and ability to read flirtations. If you can't do that because of deeper issues, seek therapy. Learn to accep…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:18 PM
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Do you have a fucking point?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:14 PM
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I'm not answering something that starts with a false premise or a leading statement.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:33 AM
1

I met my first husband in 1999, because he asked me to go dance, at a club. Believe it or not, before the internet, humans did just fine... And they can again. Just get yourself off the dopamine box, and into life.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:30 AM
1

Everyone in any first world country with access to YouTube, can afford to go to a doctor... Unless you live in the USA.... But that's not really a first world country anymore. If you really wanna google medical advice, try WebMD or an actual doctor on YouTube, not a fucking PUA, weirdo.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:19 AM
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It's not easy to see who is toxic, when men literally use tactics to game us. Unless you imply that all confident, well-groomed men with good social skills, are inherently toxic?
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:34 PM
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You can never know what a woman sees in her partner (that's not you), and you can never know what that partner is actually like. You are operating under a false assumption that you are the "good guy", in comparison. Jealousy in general is not a becoming trait, whether it's directed at the man or the woman, if she's with him, she (or they) should not even be on the radar for a mentally-healthy, stable person.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:59 PM
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Short story: I'm estranged from my father. One of the reasons I finally let go and never looked back, was realising that my own father was an oppressor. I remember him saying to me when I was about 13 or 14, "the problem with women since feminism, is that they don't know what they want anymore." This was something I internalised (among other toxic shit he fed me), and it wasn't until being free for several years, that I finally realised.... No Dad, it's men who no longer understand what women wa…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:54 PM
1

Exactly. It's sad that these bois are confusing "psychopathy" for "masculinity" these days. I can't wait for a day when being a man of integrity and compassion, becomes the pinnacle of "alpha".
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:31 PM
1

I wouldn't waste your breath as redpillers aren't really known for their ability to have linear, logical discussions.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:28 PM
0

Perhaps they "should" go to a doctor but there are a plethora of reasons why someone may Google it or YouTube it first. 1 reason: they are fucking stupid.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:27 PM
1

Talk to a fucking doctor. It's ludicrous to turn to a YouTube nobody, for medical advice. Besides, let's be REAL: he is presenting this information as a way to get women, not as a health issue. Women aren't animals or a different species, and we aren't lured by "high testosterone"; it's only an issue when your dick doesn't work, and if that's the case and you're young, then just lay off the porn.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:26 PM
3

Wrong. I can pull 10s, but I don't want them. They aren't a 10 for me, mostly because I value more than just society's opinions and "standards" for superficial beauty. I want someone who equally values me, for more than my looks. The problem with guys who whine about being "unselected", is that they are shallow and reject anyone who isn't what they consider a 10; they lack the ability to see women as people who have the same choice and same rights as they do, to decide who they want to be with. …
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 02:24 AM
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Fuck. YES. Look around you in the world. The western world. There are people of all shapes and sizes, with all variety of other people. Get your standards in check with real women, and you will find someone you click with.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 03:37 AM
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This isn't a debate sub about which bro-nobody to listen to on YouTube. Stop following anyone online and focus on building and living your actual life.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 04:48 PM
2

No, entitlement comes from a world that tells men that they can simply have what they want, and becoming a whole dynamic person wasn't part of the deal. The entitlement meets feminism in the modern world, and when realising they have to consider women as more than the sex objects they see in porn, the need to find a "cheat sheet" turns them to these toxic spaces. Most of these boys are videogame and porn addicts, with very little friends, and that's on them. A life coach can help someone take ac…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 04:08 PM
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Most people suffering from redpill and the like, are simply failures to thrive, stuck in entitlement.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 03:49 PM
0

A therapist will coddle the issue. A life coach can tell you exactly the steps to take to achieve your goals. Perhaps he should seek a therapist who also is a life coach.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 03:42 PM
0

Life coaches on YouTube are grifters. Actual certified life coaches are not.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 03:38 PM
-2

Honestly, I believe most redpillers would do better with a life coach.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 03:24 PM
2

Look it up, it's actually kinda debatable right now in philosophical and scientific communities. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 05:01 AM
1

Touche.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 10:30 PM
0

Technically true, it ignores that we have clearly separated ourselves quite significantly from the rest of the animal kingdom, and are at least philosophically not the same (but also in cognitive function). The only extant species of the genus Homo is the Homo sapiens (modern humans). We are definitely not in zoos, kept as worker-slaves or pets, nor are subjected to "testing" beyond our will, all for a reason.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:46 PM
-1

It's an issue to a lot of women; whether or not you care about women, is down to you.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:37 PM
-5

Are all women's issues, "non-issues" to you?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:13 PM
-1

What are you talking about? Those not interested in help come here everyday, just to debate us.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:13 PM
1

🤣
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:12 PM
-1

Nothing to see here, except a fEmAlE conditioned by the toxicity of patriarchy.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:11 PM
-4

Humans are mammals, not animals.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:08 PM
2

Most of us eat before going out.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 04:36 AM
6

What happens at boys' night out?
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 04:36 AM
3

Lolololol. No. If men weren't worried about quality, then fat Bertha wouldn't be alone on a Saturday night. The truth is, when men have no "selective standards" and throw themselves at anyone and everyone, this makes it necessary for women to become selective (otherwise we'd indeed be sleeping with almost any and every man). If women consider most men, particularly most men they have things in common like male friends, equivalent to ugly, fat "shitty" people it means women truly find most men di…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 05:13 PM
1

No.... But if you want an outgoing woman who is confident herself, then usually. People don't want to date "down" and have to coddle someone. So find someone who is equally not outgoing or confident.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:23 AM
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A "commitment and romance offer" isn't great either, when it comes from a man you don't have any mutual interest in. You act like women should be grateful for an offer at all, regardless of how shitty the source of offering. What if you had 1000 ugly, fat women offering you sex? Would you be pleased? To ignore that women should want quality over quantity, is to ignore them as human beings with the right to their own personal tastes and attractions.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 10:34 AM
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There was an almost complete lack of discussion around personal experiences with violence. If the point of recommending these subs was to highlight the ways in which women are oppressed, this omission was a glaring one. This was not surprising though, government data shows that men are significantly more likely to be victims of crimes than women. Recent CDC surveys also indicate that men are just as likely as women to be r*ped. Men are victims of rape and violent crime commited against them, mos…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 03:21 PM
1

Bwahahahahahahahahahahahaha!! 😅
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 10:38 PM
1

And if he's lying about his emotions?
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 09:12 AM
1

You're autistic, aren't you?
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 08:12 AM
1

How long?
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 03:28 AM
1

Agree.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 02:48 AM
2

how are men supposed to adapt? grow taller? rearrange our facial bones? Gain depth as a human beyond "how much you make", "how much you lift", or your videogame skills and anime collection. Be a dynamic, interesting, confident person, who shows emotional depth (including compassion and empathy). Work on your conversation and social-relational skills. When women started working and gained rights to own property or get a loan without a man, we no longer needed men for the basics we can now provide…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 02:39 AM
2

Keep up the histrionics and petulant demands, and see how far that gets you. You need psychological help in general, if you think you are entitled to what you want, simply because you demand it. You're delusional for demanding that women change to meet your needs at all -- a complete stranger.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 02:24 AM
2

This is not a "man's issue", unless you count "consideration of women" to be an issue for men. This is an issue for entitled, socially maladaptive men, who failed to adapt and thrive under changes that came with feminism and equal rights for women. That's entirely self-inflicted, and if all you want to do is whine (instead of take personal accountability), then likely not a whole lot of people are going to care, no. Women do not "hold all the cards" -- we hold half of the cards. The reality is, …
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:49 PM
6

I don't care what your opinion is of women, as I don't have to prove to some misogynist on the internet of my equal worth and rights as a human being. I have the same rights that you do. In contrast, you could go out and have tons of charity sex with women you deem unattractive, and your problem would be solved. Why don't you do that, hmmmm? 😏 That would be "equality" in your argument. really anti redpill when you tell men to either dance as women want, or go die And yes, learn to dance with wom…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:26 PM
1

If your sexuality is negative and toxic, and not aligned with what we want, then yes, it will be rejected. Too bad, so sad (for you). I want women to be as attracted to us as we are to them, and to not use their sexuality as a bargaining chip No one cares what you "want", get it? That's entitlement (and you're whining). As well, no one is "bargaining" with you, and that's exactly why you take issue; you aren't even a consideration, just a flat-out reject (especially with a viewpoint such as this…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:04 PM
1

Maybe your sexuality is actually "negative" for those around you, to engage with. How about some introspection and self-evaluation, where you look at how you impact others, rather than just lamenting over resentments in your perceived entitlement? Take some accountability and stop being a whining victim, and you'd instantly raise your desirability factor. Men who are confident in who they are, have good hygiene, goals, and ambitions, are desirable. If you are looking for women to be as intereste…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 06:57 PM
1

Desirability is only partly what you look like, and there is no "standard" of desire. Become your best self, and attract others who are genuinely attracted to the genuine you.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 06:48 PM
4

What's the endgame? Same as any RP talking point; use of women as objects, in anyway which benefits them (ego, sex, etc.)
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 06:41 PM
1

How do you vet men who are lying to you? I'll wait.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 06:11 AM
1

You're a judgemental fuck. How unbecoming. Good-luck with that. How is a person supposed to "vet" blatant lies?
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 04:07 AM
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I see so many Facebook reels about these guys asking girl’s questions on the street then the conversation getting sexual Dude, those reels are 100% fake and set-up. Either way, you're not going to find someone by watching like a lurker from behind a screen. The answer to more confidence and better chances, is to get a life outside of your house. if I tried to talk to them as a friend I freeze up because I don’t know what to say or do. You are acting as if women aren't the same species as you. Th…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 03:17 AM
1

Anger Management for Dummies (really).
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 04:21 PM
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Cool. So you blame women for being victims of shitty, lying, using men.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 04:09 AM
1

If it's a social situation, I usually just turn to engaging in the setting with the person I'm talking to.... "There's my friends! Come say hi?" "I love this song! Let's go dance?" Etc. I am a woman, but this really works in life in all situations in general. I hate small talk and forced interactions, especially when I suddenly find myself in those situations only because another person was interested in me. Engage with me and see if we click or connect... if it's not organic, we probably won't.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 02:58 AM
1

I don't understand why you think <I am> less. You likely don't, as that would take self-awareness.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 04:09 PM
5

I won't be answering you.... I'm just going to slowly back away, because you're weird.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:53 PM
6

Lol. Drivel.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 12:15 PM
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Using terms like "omega male" and refering to women as "females", are turn offs, yes. Being unstable is a turn off for most people (job, living situation, etc). It sounds like you prioritize "childish and weird stuff" before growing up and responsibilities; most people would not want to take that on, if they have their shit together in life (or even just appearance-wise). You'd have to go for a FeMaLe who is perhaps weird, unmotivated and unstable in her situation, for it to work... Because, you…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 11:29 AM
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We are not apes. We have frontal lobes which distinguish us from apes, and which correlates to our evolution of modern societies and family structures. Your frontal lobe specifically regulates long-term consequences and planning, and tempers animalistic urges. The male "animalistic" desire for promiscuity is as relevant as the human "animalistic" penchant for murder and violence; yet somehow we know that we have the capacity for self-control and regulation of our murderous nature, and even have …
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 07:03 AM
2

I'm in Canada. And most women in first world countries live outside the US. I'm just saying... The US is not doing well by women these days, which is one of its current factors contributing to its current, "2nd world country" classification.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 04:42 AM
2

We don't need to persuade; get on-board or be left behind. We are 51% strong ✊ Also, we have allies (like you've overall shown to be, throughout this discourse). ✌️
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 04:36 AM
2

feminist talking points like patriarchy, mansplaining (I might be doing a little of that lol), male privilege, consent, and toxic masculinity. I realise to men these may be nothing more than "talking points", but for women and our lived experiences, these are very real things. Men should listen to women more (about our own experiences) if they want to understand. If they don't, they'll be left behind. Most feminists don't have any intent of debating or convincing anyone that they deserve equal r…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 10:32 PM
2

1- The only controversy about it, is rooted in men who don't like it (equality for women), or who see this as a "loss" for them (which just means they wish us to remain oppressed for their benefit). 2- It is not women's jobs to appease or assuage men and their reactions or feelings (by tempering our thoughts, language or otherwise to suit them). These aren't buzzwords or "slang"; the words men are triggered by, also have definitions and are being applied correctly.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:38 PM
2

Feminism is not a "buzzword" and it has an actual definition. Feminism is equal rights for women. That's it. Any other connotation of the word is coming from men who either hate it or are threatened by it. Feminism is only "polarizing" for those who are opposed to women having equal rights, and the message certainly doesn't need tempering to appease men.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 07:28 PM
4

Sorry you're so upset.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 01:24 AM
3

What the fuck are you talking about? I don't think you know what you are talking about, let alone understand what I've said... And that's why you've been dismissed. Deal with it. I don't care about you, your argument, or whether or not you agree with mine.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 12:15 AM
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Dismissing you and your illogic doesn't make me "upset", boi.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 11:48 PM
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Lolololololol Please do stay away from women, and their children. Sometimes natural selection works by you not being selected to mate with.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 11:11 PM
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Take a look at how some animals treat offspring that is not theirs for example. You're wrong. "Animals that tend to have stronger social groups, including humans, seem to be more likely to “adopt” orphaned or rejected young. These can include troops of apes and primates, pods of dolphins or whales, elephant herds, wolf packs, bird nests and other tight-knit animal groups, as well as domesticated animals. It’s rarer for solitary-type animals to adopt. These would include wild cats, bears, rhinos,…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 09:55 PM
4

But most of these dudes are the same ones addicted to sissy and cucking porn.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 09:48 PM
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Basically, they can't admit how abusive a man could be, because they realise that's exactly who they are.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 09:45 PM
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My husband credits my son (his step-son) with being the best thing that ever happened to him (even over and above me). My son's dad is equally in his life, but that didn't stop my husband and son from becoming extremely close and bonded. Now in his early 20s, my son is still very close to my husband; body language and personality are even very similar, and they hug and share lots of bro-touch. Anyone can donate sperm to be a father, but it takes a lot more to be a good dad, and it takes an excep…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 10:45 PM
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Good work! The thing about redpillers, is that they are exceptionally bad at logic and stats.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 03:07 PM
5

No. You say you go out a lot already; you are likely missing ample opportunities to connect with people and feel-out whether or not to flirt, and to start reading flirting signals. Dating apps you should definitely stay off of. Shopping for people is not how it works.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 03:20 AM
3

Okay. Then how did you expect to meet women thus far (which you name as contributing to your current state of disappointment and malaise, about as much)?
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 02:24 AM
1

Do you often flirt or otherwise approach women? Do you connect with women and read their cues? Do you give your own cues? Do you have deeper conversations with people, leading to a read on chemistry?
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 12:12 AM
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Duh. You are what you think you are... And that is the ultimate truth.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 05:31 AM
2

What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 07:22 AM
4

STFU.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 10:26 PM
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You're confused. The context of the comment you are replying to, is that it is specifically about red-pilled men, not "all men". You however, seem to really be on a mission to stomp down me, a woman. Clearly, if you are following me around and randomly commenting on everything I say. Get a life, and stop stalking me. I am married, 18 years... So if you're going to bother stalking, do a better job.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 05:34 PM
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It all comes down to entitlement. In order to think like they do it requires 2 premises: 1- They are entitled to a woman of their desire. 2- Women are not equals, and they should not be afforded the luxury of their own desire.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 05:00 PM
1

Shut up, you bag of dicks.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 04:05 PM
1

You are just an idiot. Said nobody important. Women play games all the time (makeup, cloths, etc). That's called patriarchy, boo. You are whing about not getting the "hot" girls you want, yet those are the ones wearing all the shit you complain about, which caters to you're male-gaze. These exact opinions are exactly what women see in you that repell us from you. Your shitty personality and weak character, are what make you undesirable... Yet you cling so hard to them, and think you can brow-bea…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 06:19 AM
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You be real. I've been married for 18 years, and had about 6 serious long-term relationships in my life. I was always considered a very "hot girl", and none of the factors you describe really fit any of it. I am a very domineering, not nurturing, sassy woman. I have never cared about height (I actually find short men with big personalities the most attractive), and my current husband was a step above unemployed when I met him. Most women today can take care of themselves and are simply looking f…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 02:36 AM
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Majority of men do not have similar preferences, nor do women. The point of all the advice given, is that you have to look for a unique connection to unique individuals, as unique as you are. Redpillers seem really autistic to me, as they can't seem to grasp the nuances and grey in human relations, and always want something to be a mathematical formula instead. There is no amount of explaining the colour red to a person who is colour blind, and this feels a lot like that.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 01:22 AM
1

No. Playing, gaming, manipulating and lying is all just psychopathic, no matter how normalised you make it.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 07:49 PM
2

A self-help book by an actual PhD is a poor man's start.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 01:03 AM
1

No it's not. Because baseball at least acknowledges the fact that there are endless variations of the balls being thrown, wind direction, contact with the ball and directions it can go. In contrast, PUA is sold as THE answer and solution, as though women were all the same and will react in predictable ways. If that is the premise, then once you have the answers, you should be able to "win" endlessly.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 09:44 PM
1

It's all very predatory.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 09:41 PM
2

It's a simple as seeking an actual professional for mental help.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 09:40 PM
3

Become a man and then you'll find somewhere to fit in.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 06:51 PM
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Not my job to explain it to you, and I'm certainly not going to debate it with you. Look at the upvotes the comment gets and the other people who commented the same. Doesn't matter if you "get it", like it or agree with it.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 11:27 PM
1

"Date" to you seems to mean "sex", where as to most women, it does not. I personally blame porn, video games and the rise in autism, as all serious factors in the failure to launch epidemic we are seeing today.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 10:24 PM
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No, child. It sounds like they focused on becoming fully developed people, and as a result, found someone compatible to build a life with. Redpill is honestly for socially or emotionally maladaptive people, because it talks nothing about connection or love, and it simply deduces everything into a formula, or women down to objects of achievement. Redpill shows no value for emotional or spiritual growth within a relationship, and most aren't seeking anything more than someone to physically serve t…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 03:47 PM
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Are you here to change and be open minded to that, or are you here to debate?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 03:30 PM
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This seems like a challenge to debate, and that's not what this forum is.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 03:27 PM
2

I'm doubting you are even "with" her... You are likely just some dude she has chatted a few times in her DMs, and it sounds like you are now projecting and stalking her on social media. You call her your "crush", and then proceed to think her simply living her life, is about YOU and trying to make YOU feel some sort of way.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 02:07 AM
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You sound more like a stalker, to be honest.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 02:05 AM
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Women are human beings, not objects to play, game or manipulate, as we don't react like mindless robots. Most pillers who fail to find love, sex and a gf, can usually find that their root issue is a lack of social and relational skills in general (made worse when you're not treating the other person like an automous human).
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 12:48 AM
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Enjoy your hand.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 05:00 PM
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At the hands of other men, so again this is NO comparison. Women are at risk for being raped, far more than men. The point is that men are by-and-large the ones who commit the majority of violence in the world, and women must be much more cautious (especially when it comes to being as vulnerable as being naked with a man). As I said, you'll never understand what it means to be a woman, and especially when you debate the realities we tell you. Do you really think all women are going to change how…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 04:00 PM
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Stop ignoring what I said; you will never understand because you have zero context to our concerns for safety.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 02:07 AM
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Men put importance on sex and call it "dating". Women don't date for just sex, usually. Women have safety concerns with men, and therefore you will never be able to compare.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:12 PM
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We can stay home, but we don't need to. You realise that women were little more than property who couldn't even Buy a home in their own name, just 50 years ago? Men were never marganilised, so enough with the whining. You don't need "stuff like affirmative action" because men don't need it as they have never suffered discrimination and a lack of rights, based on gender (affirmative action is based on race not gender, so you're wrong anyway).
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:05 PM
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We desire men just as much, but we don't value sex above self-respect.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 03:28 PM
0

Well said! ⭐⭐🏆⭐⭐
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 04:54 AM
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Women have been on a path of evolving and paving our own, new frontier, for 50+ years. Men have had the comfort, expectation and promises of a patriarchy that has existed for many millenia. Basically, men have not pivoted quickly enough to the changing roles and dynamics of the new gender and dating landscape; inaction in the face of adversity, met with resentful entitlement, leads to stagnant inertia and self-pity. Most men who are failing to thrive, can be found whining and demanding (via ince…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 04:52 AM
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Yeah. Quickest way for me to secure that child support, is to ask for proof that you're the father.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/23 11:50 AM
1

This is an image, not a link. Either way, this is one person's list, not a set of standards for all women, or all women in FDS. In fact FDS is against online dating, so this doesn't really sound like someone following their "standards" at all.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/23 01:20 AM
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I don't buy that this post was exactly as described. Can you link it?
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 03:29 AM
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Redpillers are misogynists and sociopaths of the highest degree. As you explained, they let other men who are abusers, be the dictators of the worth of the victims (girls and women).
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 10:51 PM
1

Because we don't value casual sex as much as men. We can want sex but also want something else more than sex; I know, this is obviously hard for you to fathom.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 08:06 PM
1

Uh... No. I'm sexually attracted to plenty of people, but it is often purposefully quelled, if they don't seem interested, or a proper match (for connection). Men seem to lack self-control (mostly because they aren't expected to have any). Women are sexually attracted as much as men, we just don't see the point in indulging in fantasy when we are more selective.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 05:13 AM
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Attraction is about sex and chemistry is about connection; you don't need connection for sex, and you don't need attraction to connect. You keep missing that women like sex, but prefer to save it for those they are connected with, as this makes us the most safe in making ourselves vulnerable. In your "equation" you keep erasing the vulnerability factor of women, and therefore keep leading yourself into a nonsensical conclusion. Women who are looking for casual sex, rely more on attraction, just …
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 11:40 PM
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Holy fucking shit, you missed the point of "understanding things from a woman's perspective" (which you will never inherently understand unless you listen to women). You simply went off and explained how from a male perspective and point of view, it doesn't make sense; this is a big reason women will repell from you, no matter what club you meet them in (just like when they hear you like to "debate gender" on Reddit). Women are equals, and if you are constantly disqualifying our perspectives by …
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 11:20 PM
1

Not just Canada, friend.... 64 Countries But really, it comes from The United Nations.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 06:44 AM
4

🏆
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 04:47 AM
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And that has zero to do with what women want. One of the main issues with RP is its erasure of women and our voices, even about ourselves (and the assumption that we want and value what men do).
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 11:09 PM
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I don't feel "wanted" when you only want to use me for sex. Quite the opposite really. So your whole argument is based on an assumptive premise, which is false.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:37 PM
2

Sounds like the friendships weren't very deep or strong to begin with, if this happens.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:33 PM
3

And female friendships have a much higher tendency to also be deep. We'd also see less toxicity among women, if we removed competitive femininity, fed to us via toxic male conditioning. I don't have toxic friendships since I left my mid-20s (20 years ago). If you are still experiencing regular toxicity in your friendships, I'd start looking at the friends you choose, and how you are choosing to engage.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:31 PM
2

Maybe you should connect with people and see where it leads, rather than "go after" someone.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:25 PM
2

In this dating scene it’s almost impossible to skate by as an average guy unless you’re willing to date below your preference. Is your preference an "above-average" woman? You either become "above-average" yourself, or you get real about your preferences.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:35 PM
5

Well you already seem to know everything. So, good luck with that! Nobody needs to prove a thing to you. Why would strangers on the internet lie to you? What would the purpose be? Do you think we have a vested interest in whether or not you get laid? Have your 'theories" gained you success? Do you think spending all this time analyzing the dating and mating rituals of society has made you a more interesting person? Or have you perhaps wasted your precious energy that you could've spent actually …
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 03:53 PM
5

You don't build chemistry. You either have it or you don't, and you'll never understand it until you experience it by interacting with indivduals. Chemistry is individual and varies by person; it has nothing to do with either gender, and there is no technical explaination which can be given. And that's the overall issue as I see it; you can't treat individual human interactions or relationships like a field of technical study -- you have to get out there and experience life.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 03:45 PM
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Plenty of women are lonely too. Whining vs. Action. Accountability vs. Excuses (victim complex). Apathy + Entitlement = A Very Sad Boy
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 05:35 AM
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Because we don't connect with them in a romantic way. You are over emphasising attraction and friendship, while under-emphasising connection and chemistry.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 11:26 PM
5

And I've tried equally as hard to instill this with my own son ❣️
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 11:24 PM
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Are you male? If so, thanks for being an ally -- you really explained things well.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 08:11 PM
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Because that doesn't appeal to us. We want connection and we don't want to be used as another in a long line of women you "use" for only one purpose. I also don't need a stranger to get off, alone in my room.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 05:12 PM
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Women don't see men as a tool for sexual pleasure, and are usually interested in the whole experience of a person.... Your examples just prove that men like to objectify women for one purpose. Men could just as easily spend their whole salary on an actual girlfriend or wife, but because this doesn't guarantee her removing her clothes, they have no use for her.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 05:08 PM
16

All of this, but add the safety risks associated with casual sex.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 05:06 PM
14

You are missing key factors to being a woman, that unless you listen to us about, you'll never understand.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 05:04 PM
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Women like sex just as much as men; it's just that we have more safety and social concerns in society, tied to sex, which prevent us from freely seeking it out (especially with random strangers).
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 04:26 PM
1

And there it is. This is why women don't like you. Learn to deal with it and stop whining. Get a fleshlight, and save the world from this failure to launch.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 03:09 PM
4

He's like every redpiller -- punching above their weight. He certainly did just that, when he went for Greta.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 08:04 AM
3

No. The basis of this sub is that you already see flaws in RP and are ready (or trying) to change. This is not the place to debate RP logic, as though it may be correct.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:15 AM
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You can focus on what you can do for yourself in the hopes of having other people react, but you cannot focus on making people do what you want, by being inauthentic or deceitful (which is all PUAs). The latter is called manipulation and the former is self-improvement. You want more connections? Focus on learning how to connect. It's on you.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 02:06 AM
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No. You really need to listen to the nuance in what I've said. You need to focus on your own self-improvement in being noticed as interesting and desirable; you do not need to focus on making anyone else, do anything.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 01:56 AM
2

Life coaching was developed in the 1980s by a gentleman named Thomas Leonard. Mr. Leonard was a financial planner and he would find many clients did not necessarily need psychotherapy. These people appeared to be well-adjusted but wanted more direction to achieve goals in both their personal and or professional life. People who seek life coaching services due so at times when they have an idea of the goals that would like to achieve but don't know how to achieve them. They need structured plan, …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 01:55 AM
3

Usually by picking one with accreditation (and seeing them in person). You will know when they focus on your own personal self-improvement, and not "how to make girls want you".
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:56 AM
3

I've read other replies you've made, and I think this is coming down to a matter of skills when it comes to conversation and flirting (since you seem to have plenty of opportunities). I suggest seeking a life-coach or joining specific programs, which focus on honing-in and improving these skills, within yourself (and I'm not talking PUA). ✌️
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:50 AM
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Honestly your list of attributes doesn't sound interesting. You have to be interesting for people to have interest in you. Do you have any interests? You didn't mention any. What do you have to talk about, besides work and the gym? Do you keep up on politics, science or other topics? Have you worked on your conversational skills? The way to stand out, is to connect. Men who shoot their shot randomly, are not memorable, and the only trait we can associate with this is desperation. You need to be …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:40 AM
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dating apps are the primary way most people meet today. So that inherently makes it an excellent representation. You're wrong, but yet so sure of yourself in as much. This reflects more so that you need to get out more. Likely, you'll come up with some whining excuse about why you can't approach women in public, to justify being as lazy as possible, while sitting at home "online shopping" for women, between gaming and porn.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 11:34 PM
6

I think men are mostly shit, because most men have treated me like shit. This goes back to my grandfather and father, but also every ex I've ever had... Which the majority would be what you call "nice guys" or "betas". My bestfriend of life is an "alpha" male, whom always wanted me and I never ended up giving a shot (we're still friends 35 years later); he also has a ton of casual sex, but he actually respects women more than any "nice guy" I've ever met. My friend is honest about his intentions…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 11:29 PM
4

Exactly. This is a trash post.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 11:24 PM
10

Seek mental help.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 07:00 AM
5

Seek mental help.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 07:00 AM
9

Seek a therapist.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 06:37 AM
1

Fuck you. I was abused and neglected, dropped out of highschool, then ran several businesses before moving into insurance and finance. My husband was a pizza guy who I paid to immigrate to my country 18 years ago, who I supported through school, and later when he wanted to change careers entirely. I handled all finances and transactions related to every home and vehicle we owned. My husband will tell everyone that I'm "so much smarter than him", and it's true in almost every way when it comes to…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 06:35 AM
13

Stay far away from women.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 06:08 AM
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You disagree with equal rights for women? 🤔
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 11:11 PM
2

Not really... It's the 3rd wave feminists (we need to move on to the newer, 4th wave).
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 10:11 PM
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I just see the redpill as an angry misogynistic response to feminism; it's what happens when patriarchal entitlement is threatened. Basically, it's as though men have been eating 80% of the cake for centuries, always growing up believing they would one day eat that 80%... But then feminism gave women 50% of the cake (taking 30% from men to give women their fair share)... And then men respond with vile anger and hate towards the women who are now being given equality, simply because they themselv…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:34 PM
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Because women gain nothing from casual sex, which the majority of men on those apps want. Also, the way men shoot their shot so broadly (because it's easy), just leaves us feeling like a product being advertised for use (which is demeaning, especially since most are looking to be uniquely connected).
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 04:32 AM
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Ngl I’ve tried that and convo jus goes dry. And that's because you are responsible for being 50% of the "interesting" in the conversation. No one will want to talk to you or find you noteworthy among the sea of other horny dudes just "shooting their shot", if you aren't interesting, and alluring. That has zero to do with dating either, and also applies to making friends. you wanna create sexual tension but at the same time you don’t want to do it too early Honestly, if that is your goal (to inte…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 05:31 AM
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These women aren't out there looking for a "hookup" though -- they are just sharing their lives through social media. Go ahead and try to treat women like pretty sex toys, and see where that gets you. Unless a woman is advertising that she is seeking (or charging for) casual sex, any attempt at as much, will certainly make you seem creepy.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 05:27 AM
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You should never approach or text anyone, with the intent to "get" or "convince" them of anything. What you do is attempt to connect and chat with people and when natural connection seems to be happening, along with reciprocity, you flirt (not overtly sexual, as that's repellent), or ask them to take a next step (date, or whatever).
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 05:24 AM
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there is soo much significance being put on "masculine = big penis" When? Where? I've literally never heard this correlated. The only thing I've ever heard, is that men with small penises may feel a need to over-compensate in other ways, due to their own insecurity. it feels that only "the biggest of the big" men can feel secure, in terms of not being left for someone better. Lolololol. I am a 44 year old woman, and in all my life and conversations with other women, not ONCE has one told me she …
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 02:36 AM
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You're lost.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 01:19 PM
6

Because men aren't choosey and they shoot their shot as broadly as they can.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 01:21 AM
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Ted Bundy had a job and was in school. You have to be an actually interesting person, showing genuine interest in her. Stats show nothing about what type of person you are, and whether or not I want to waste 3 hours getting ready, to spend time with you and hope you're not a rapist or murderer. It's nothing personal, just how it is for me, on my side.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 02:48 AM
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And I can say personally, I don't put myself in the presence of strangers I don't already vet in real life organic situations, or online, first.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 02:45 AM
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Well there's your answer. If you don't remember then it was unmemorable. You need to build connection before asking someone out to meet. She left the door open and you showed little interest or weren't interesting enough, and she was likely confused why you even wanted to meet.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 02:39 AM
1

I got that. But did you talk between her saying she'd be around Monday, and then?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 02:37 AM
2

We made casual small talk about our lives, mostly revolving around our jobs. You didn't make a connection that was noteworthy, and then wanted to progress to occupying her physical space. I asked if she wanted to meet up and she said she was busy that weekend, but would be in my city this Monday. Did you talk after this? As a woman, I wouldn't want to put myself in the presence of a stranger, if I don't have undeniable connection or chemistry towards them, first.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 01:16 AM
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You want a "HV" woman... Are you "HV"? high functioning autism and OCD. I struggle with my self esteem and confidence and maintaining a job. I still live with my parents Why don't you try dating someone with some of these issues (or others, such as weight, etc)?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 12:38 AM
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Duh. Everyone and anyone can make a YouTube video or channel. Blindly follow unqualified opinions of strangers? Then don't be surprised when you land in a pile of shit at the end of the tunnel.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 05:05 PM
2

The thing about life, is that it passes you by while waiting for it to happen. You control your destiny.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 09:58 PM
2

I'll add... If you can't change it, accept it and accomodate it. Wasting time wallowing and whining, does less than nothing.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 04:13 PM
4

Stop focusing on getting women and start focusing on being a wholly functional, confident person.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 11:45 PM
2

How does youtube become this cringe? The simple answer, is that this is what happens when you give everyone a bullhorn, even those lacking qualified knowledge in their opinions. Think about it. Go outside and look around. Would you value what an unhinged, slovenly stranger on the street has to say about relationships, as much as a PhD in sociology? Would you want access to the thoughts and opinions of all people you see around you, at all times? The very basis of YouTube seems to be to watch oth…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 07:30 PM
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But then we grew our frontal lobes and caveman logic no longer applies.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 01:04 AM
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If I had coins, I'd give you an award for this blunt-sandwich.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 01:01 AM
6

Do you want a debate?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 04:09 PM
3

What is your goal in being here?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 02:24 PM
2

I believe this. I'll have to give it a watch!
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 01:58 AM
1

I mean... I hope he wakes up and changes, but I wouldn't wait. The only hope for society is the future children and how they are raised. No father is better than a bad father. it's just sad all around.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 07:23 AM
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Let me make this easier for you to understand, since you seem to be having a logic issue, rooted in your lack of ability to discern perspective (and female autonomy). Imagine a black person married to a white person, and the white person suddenly starts saying things that white supremists or racists start saying. Do you think that black person has a reason for concern?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 08:14 PM
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It's not just "one shitty view" when it's a view against part of her identity as a human being. Don't minimize the greater issue.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:55 PM
4

No woman should stay with a misogynist. He is displaying misogynist tendencies and talking about divorce. So let him.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:43 PM
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Yes. She needs to put his ego aside, and protect her child from this instability he's providing. Women are not property, not even after "breeding". If he wants to do what's best for his child, he should cherish the child's mother, and quit degrading her or worrying about other women.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:29 PM
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THIS. 👆 I have always avoided men with too many partners, or who were into hookup culture. But also, why does he have any further opinion on this? He seems to be negging his own wife.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:42 PM
1

Who the fuck cares? He's married. He has chosen his partner, so why is he concerned now, about how many people any woman has slept with?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:40 PM
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Let him. Start documenting all his blatant misogyny, as this will benefit you in the divorce.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:38 PM
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I'll tell you a little secret... My standards for a romantic partner are much higher than for a friend... Why? Because I'm not potentially going to procreate with said socially maladaptive friend who I feel sorry for, and I can end the friendship much more easily if their dysfunctions become a liability or burden. I will listen and try to help a male friend become a better person, but I don't want to do that with a partner, ever. That's the job of a friend, or mother -- not a girlfriend or a wif…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 02:56 AM
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Women don't have "harsher standards" than gay men; we just have completely different general desires, motivations, experiences, conditioning, and social issues that affect how we operate in the world, and romantic relationships. That's literally the truth. Read it over and over. If you want to date women, then get to know us as we are, and STOP debating with us, about us.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 02:20 AM
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No woman wants a man who won't listen toher, nor differentiate her, between gay men. For you to even make this comparison, you'd have to think that everything which makes a person, comes down to which gender they desire. It's so absolutely narrow, and you refuse to be open enough to hear what anyone is telling you. Straight women are nothing like gay men, and that is the only truth you are proving. You can learn to deal with this (accept it or do something to attempt to change the outcome), or y…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 01:53 AM
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Then go be gay. If you want a woman, stop comparing them to gay guys.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 01:42 AM
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Give it up with this guy. He doesn't actually want to be open to any other perspective; he's here just to debate this narrow point (over-and-over in multiple threads), and be "right".
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 01:02 AM
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Shut up and go be gay then.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 12:59 AM
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Women are the only group of people who have treated me differently based on my appearance throughout my life. I hold a grudge against groups of individuals who consistently perceive me negatively due to characteristics I cannot change. Therefore, I hate women. Cool. I'm a woman and I can say the exact same thing about men. MEN are the only group of people who have treated me differently based on my appearance throughout my life. By your logic, I should hold a grudge against groups of individuals…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 12:57 AM
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Do I? Please enlighten me. What exactly is the issue with what I've said?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 03:01 PM
2

There is one mistake you make in all of this... You qualify your opinion of me, as having any ounce of validity; I assure you, it does not.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 07:55 AM
2

Nah... "WRizz"
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 10:27 PM
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I don’t see anything about these type of interactions that would make a woman think it’s a good idea to meet up with that person. This is it. And the problem is though, that these dudes are stuck on the idea that these women aren't being charitable (servicing) enough with their time, and they are stuck on the idea that it "isn't fair". Basically, there is a lot of entitlement and misogyny going on in the background for men who approach this way.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 05:24 PM
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I'm not reading any of this. Any man who wants to tell women that he understands us better than we do, is not worth the time. Likewise, a man sending a random social media message is also not owed my time.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:58 PM
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Yesssss.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:40 PM
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So? Then they are below the average, basic level of human functioning. And because women can attain all basic things for themselves (career, house, etc), this makes it even less attractive to take on someone who isn't at this very basic level of adult functioning. Certainly all issues standing in the way of attaining a functioning career, housing and financial stability should be addressed, but once attained, these are still not anything more than getting back to a bare minimum baseline.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:33 PM
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You're just wrong, based on assumptions. Women find men attractive, but we are more choosy due to safety concerns and social stigmas, when we engage with strange men. Period. It's not up for debate. No amount of deduction you do with your limited knowledge of being a woman, will ever let you see this fact; not until you decide to listen to what we women ourselves, are telling you. My original comment is simply this: if you are upset about the competition men have to endure compared to the lack o…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:27 PM
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The kids aren't doing much these days... Sex or otherwise (compared to past generations). Probably because they are stuck spinning their wheels looking for love online, where it's rarely found.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:20 PM
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I don’t have any mental issues, no anxiety, and I own a house and have a steady career. So having women trying to get with me isn’t a total fluke. Honestly, this doesn't seem like anything but the bare minimum of an adult functioning life. I'm genuinely confused when these attributes are equated to a person's value (of either sex), because these are just general, basic milestones in life. In fact, at 44 years old, I've never known a single woman who also doesn't have these things going on, or is…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:16 PM
2

Blame your fellow men who create this competition.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:08 PM
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When you talk to her, make sure to also try to find things in her profile and build rapore with her. This is also what manipulators and narcissists do, and it's called mirroring. I don't suggest this at all. Instead, look at her profile to genuinely see IF you have anything in common.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:06 PM
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Hunting women is never a good idea. Your very premise seems suss. What do you know about this person other than that you like how she looks?
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 04:01 PM
1

If you have meds, take them.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 11:34 PM
1

Shut the fuck up. You barely make coherent sense, and the worst part is you clearly think you're saying something.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 11:29 PM
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Sweety, I'm married almost 20 years to an ally, feminist man, mother to a feminist son, and friend of more than 30 years to some of the best guys around -- think again. You are not a diety. You need to brush up on your reading comprehension, as that was never said nor implied. Women are marganilised from 1000s of years of being property under patriarchy; no one asked for worship, we are asking for basic, equal human respect. I don't have to do a single thing to earn that, and if you think I do, …
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 09:23 PM
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Yeah. Nice try bub. As women, we will know you aren't an ally, quickly by your words and actions (kinda like a black friend would suss a racist out pretty quick compared to the white friends). Maybe the first step women should take, since you so gloriously claimed on another comment on this post that men's help is really needed, would be to not straight up attack, spread misinformation and ridicule any place that is trying to help specifically men, while massively promoting the same for women. N…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 08:25 PM
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"Any man who must say, "I am the King", is no true king." Tywin Lannister I quoted Ghandi, and then you quote a fictional character. Lolol Not only that, but what does a man "being king", have to do with men supporting women, as EQUALS?
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 03:08 AM
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No. Real allies speak out and declare themselves, without ulterior motives, nor shame. "Silence becomes cowardice when occasion demands speaking out the whole truth and acting accordingly." - Mahatma Gandhi
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 02:49 AM
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It's not a label, it's a literally definable word, for what you described. Or am I wrong? Do you not support equal rights for women, based on the (human) equality of the sexes?
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 01:51 AM
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Thinking you know why someone is doing something is usually projection; you probably think they’re doing it to get laid because it’s the only reason you could imagine doing it yourself. Yup. See comments up above where he states that once he has a woman in his life, he will care about feminism (in relation to her).
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 11:50 PM
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hopefully someday when I have a girlfriend or wife, will 100% support them in their endeavors and also don't have to use a label to say that, would rather my actions speak for myself, know what I mean? I dunno, but this little gem sure does speak for itself. Why would you only care about feminism, in relation to the woman specifically in your life, romantically? That's not a feminist, or any better than the guy you described in your OP. If you are truly feminist, that should show towards all wom…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 11:48 PM
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Any woman who values feminisim herself, will very quickly be able to see the lie. PERIOD. Men lie to women to get sex, this isn't new information to us. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 11:46 PM
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You're fucking wrong. Women (me) absolutely need the support of men in the fight for equality, the same way BLM needs the support of white people, to stand with them in the fight for equality. Marganilised people (which women are), only have so much power under the oppressors, and that oppression is only lessoned when those with the upper-hand, join our fight.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 11:43 PM
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Alternative: therapy and hardwork.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 01:41 AM
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Why are you listening to men (with no degree of qualification), to tell you about women? Just this alone, is inherently misogynistic; disregarding women as experts about themselves. Women are individual human beings -- people. We are not a homogenous blob who acts uniformly, nor are we objects that can be decoded with a single user manual. I don't even care about discussing the details of what you've claimed, as the very premise of, "men say this is how women work", is so very flawed.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 04:47 PM
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What about friendships? Do you just "choose" whoever you want to be friends with, or do you need a mutual connection to spark friendship? Being in a relationship isn't like shopping for a new possession or toy; it takes TWO people, who both mutually have feelings for eachother.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 03:59 PM
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Enough. I'm no longer willing to engage with you, since you seem committed to not actually reading what I'm saying. I've said what I think succinctly -- no paragraphs required. I don't care if you get it, nor if you like it, and I don't like your tone nor aggressive nature.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 12:29 AM
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The true NoFap is no porn or masturbation, because of the need to break the link between the two. It isn't meant as "semen retention", and 100% encourages a return to sex after an abstinence period for reset. NoFap was never meant to be a lifetime thing. Pornfree has been born because NoFap on Reddit is overrun by idiots who conflate things just as you have, and people needed a place to graduate back to healthier habits, away from the mislead noise.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 03:23 PM
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You obviously can't read. I'm done with you.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 03:20 PM
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blindly conflating porn with fapping is wrong per se and feels very limiting. Yet so many attempting pornfree have conflated porn use with masturbation, and find they can't do it without porn or without imagining porn. Many users of today never even masturbated without porn NoFap is about taking a period of time to abstain from both, so as to unconflate the issue. The group here on Reddit however, has been overrun with nonsense that was never about the original NoFap, which is what you are likel…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:57 PM
1

care to link a study, which shows that porn (not fapping) releases more or "worse" dopamine, then literally sex, which can be oh so much better with the right partner? It's simply science my friend, when you consider that porn is a supernormal stimulus to your brain, and that neurological studies have shown that the dopamine receptors in a porn users brain appear the same as that of someone on heroin (blown-out from excessive, large hits of dopamine). It's not a matter of opinion that can be con…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:53 PM
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NoFap at its core, is about taking a period of abstinence for both (porn and masturbation), to detox your mind. It never claimed to give you superpowers or that masturbation was the enemy. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 05:02 PM
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Are you meaning porn by dopamine? Yes. Because having sex and masturbation should give the same amount of dopamine, right? Scientifically, neurologically, it does not. Porn contains supernormal stimuli which provides excessive dopamine hits which masturbation alone or sex, do not provide to the same extent. That's a fact. Porn hijacks our biological needs within our brains, hence it is "the new drug". Never heard a dude or a woman who has sex a lot should stop because of dopamine, that would sou…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 04:28 PM
2

You want stability in relationships? Then men need to evolve with feminism. Women are equals, not property. I would rather the human race die out than women be owned by men any longer, in this world.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 03:39 PM
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Everything you describe as being great about these cultures, doesn't rate well for women and their freedoms, autonomy or happiness.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 10:17 AM
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If social and relationship dynamics state that the man has to make sure the woman and child are safe, then he needs to at least be able to challenge issues that arise regarding her safety. If the expectation is that he has to put his life on the line to serve as protector (should the situation demand it), there's an expectation of trade-off for his (potential) sacrifice. The very premise of this is so very stunted, and lacking in ultimate perspective. No woman I have ever met, expects (or demand…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 10:12 AM
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This is the early stages of your brain detoxing from excessive dopamine and supernormal stimuli; it does get easier, once you start functioning like a normal human libido again. My husband is 2 years pornfree, and can fuck several times a day, but he prefers now to let it build over a day or 3 instead. This is because he enjoys the rainbow of intimacy now that he is no longer falsely heightening his libido with compulsive pornuse and masturbation (most users do this, when they start watching por…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 05:53 AM
4

Porn really does affect your brain negatively; quitting should enable you to live in the real world, enjoy real women and real dopamine. NoFap will not bring you any more or less opportunities than you already have, for a fulfilling and pornfree life; but if you remain a passive victim of your own life and circumstances, feeling entitled, while waiting for the universe to "magically" hand you something (just because you followed some ideology), you'd be sadly mislead. You still have to take acco…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 05:48 AM
3

Stop playing games.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 02:07 AM
1

💔
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 12:54 AM
1

It makes me not see him as long-term commitment, because unless he's been specifically saving himself for religious reasons, he'll eventually have a midlife crisis that he didn't get to "experience enough", and start looking around or ask for a poly relationship. I admit though, I may be jaded from experience.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 09:48 PM
2

This reply makes it clear that you are just here trolling for a gender debate.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 06:57 PM
2

1) that's on you, not her 2) yeah... If you think this is so common, just stay away (or walk away). 3) don't rape people or be sexually pushy, and no allegations will likely occur. You know what happens far more than false rape allegations (5.2% of allegations)? Rape.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 06:55 PM
1

Women don't approach because we can't guarantee our safety around men. Period. It's not some cake walk of being desired for women; most of us don't want the majority of guys throwing themselves our way. Take some responsibility and go after what you want... In life, in general. Or don't... It doesn't really hurt anyone but yourself. i live in Canada where we actively try to discourage gender roles What are you talking about? I live in Canada too, and we actively accept all genders of diversity, …
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 06:51 PM
15

I just wanted her to communicate with me like she does with the rest of the people in her life You have to accept that she doesn't want to, nor have to communicate with you. If you persist, you are entering stalker territory.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:31 PM
3

This isn't about "women", this is about one fucked-up person. Let this mentally and emotionally unstable person go. Chasing and lamenting makes you look desperate, and manipulators (especially immature ones) feed off of that.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:29 PM
2

Being a modern gentleman has nothing to do with opening doors etc, and more to do with being an actually decent human. Being kind and empathetic to others (no matter their gender or attractiveness), while upholding strong values and morals (regardless of religion), is what makes a modern gentleman.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/23 09:59 PM
1

It provides opportunities everyday, to everyone, in multiple ways, wherever they are at. Is life fair and providing the same opportunities to everyone? Of course not. Whining about it though, makes life far worse than if you made the most of the opportunities you do have. It's not delusional that life is not fair, and it is not delusional to say that whining over an entitlement to sex or companionship, does less than zero to help the issue. Make the most of your life as it is, and stop wallowing…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 11:45 PM
2

It really does, to all people. Not the same opportunities, and not the same amount (although this is highly influenced by how many places for opportunities you put yourself into). Self confidence can influence your outlook which affects your ability to spot, and take opportunities.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 09:33 PM
9

It makes zero sense for someone in a lifetime commitment, to suddenly start worrying about dating strategies, unless they are thinking about replacing you. To sum up what you are feeling (even if just to explain it to a lawyer): destabilized and unsafe. Your husband pigeonholing you into the giant category of "all women" and making you feel that the safety of your marriage no longer exists, is simply emotionally and psychologically abusive. The RP is full of games and rules for manipulating wome…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:30 PM
5

This is so amazing.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 03:42 AM
4

Probably hanging with all the dudes who also prey on vulnerable women (and generally encouraged by most men to do so), just laughing it up.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:47 PM
1

The universe provides plenty of opportunities to you everyday, whether you take them or recognize them as such, is another story. I had a TBI, and took the time I needed to recover and learn new ways of functioning, before taking on anything new in my life.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:37 PM
0

If you widen your expectations and definition of "perfect", while taking ownership of your role in a "perfect" union, then the universe will absolutely provide you with opportunities for potential "perfect" mates. What you do with those opportunities (or even if you see value in them enough to take them), is up to you.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:07 PM
1

And there's more evidence of why women find you creepy.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 07:07 PM
1

Keep blathering on, boi.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 07:02 PM
1

Almost 19 years. So yes. Cruel? Because a man's feelings got hurt? Lol. Hardly. Suck it up, buttercup.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 06:46 PM
1

You seem to know an awful lot about me. Yes. Your post and comment history shows that you need to lay off the porn and join the real world, then maybe women won't find you so creepy.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 01:09 AM
1

You should really seek therapy for your vitiol against "all women". 😏
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 01:07 AM
1

Maybe YOU should actually think about why you have so much anger for the opposite sex, and why you're projecting those angers on to all men. I don't need to think about why; men provide all the reasons we need, for why. Yes, posts like yours and others much worse. in the future please keep your vitriol contained to female-centric subs. No. I'll do whatever I please, and say whatever I choose, wherever I choose and you have zero power or say in the matter -- deal with it. How dare you try and tel…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 01:00 AM
1

I'm just gonna throw this out there, I could already push a button and get a woman to appear at my house and fuck me. It's not difficult to find, you just have to be willing to pay money and accept some legal risks. Any man who is on Tinder is there specifically because he has chosen not to push the button that is readily available to him. Not comparable. So many guys want a fantasy girl-next-door to fuck them for free, with no strings attached (except for the ways that benefit him), and that's …
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 12:16 AM
6

Okay.... I do think that is the crux of your issue, and I have the utmost empathy for you in this struggle. The truth is, dating and romantic partnerships are the least quantifiable or measurable (by equation) thing there could possibly be. I know your mind seeks a pattern or sequence that can be replicated, but that's just not really possible when it comes to human connections (they are extremely fickle). I suggest seeking a therapist that specialises in autism, and can help you navigate dating…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 09:16 PM
1

Yeah, actually, fuck yourself. Actually, fuck you. You have entirely missed my point, and then displayed a shining example of exactly what I was referencing. I'm saying, you types of men are just mad that you can't use tinder to summons a woman to your cock (and then you go on whining about exactly that). At no fucking point did I say to "improve yourself" or your "bio" to do just that; I'm implying that you get off the "pussy shopping" app and go out in the real world. Become a person who is at…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:39 PM
5

Are you autistic? Serious question.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:30 PM
5

I'm guessing it wasn't that you were unemployed, but rather that you weren't driven to do anything meaningful during your time off, and instead chose to play a videogame non-stop.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:23 PM
1

Then don't be frightening. Make friends without a sex goal.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 06:53 PM
1

Sure.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 05:38 PM
1

Only if you see women as not equal humans.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 05:36 PM
1

Okay. Then there is a socialisation issue, because then you wouldn't be able to make friends with men either
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 05:34 PM
1

It is completely true if you see women as just people.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 05:31 PM
3

Yes, it's difficult making friends. But it's required to learn how to interact with people for more than just seeking sex. Oh no! I have to try? I have to do something difficult?? So. Fucking. What. Welcome to the world.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:48 PM
3

Okay. And I'm here to say you're not helping any incel, by whining about how "unfair" everything is. What do you hope to accomplish? Women admit it's so unfair for entitled Bois? Then what? We start spreading our legs (ignoring our own experiences in the world), to provide incels with charity sex? Get lost.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:43 PM
7

You need to work on seeing women as equal humans beings.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:41 PM
4

Again. You just have it all figured out. Why are you here even asking questions then? Just to whine about what you already "know".
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:38 PM
3

Men die by homicide at the hands of other men. Straight males don't have to worry about their physical safety when it comes to dating and sex. Stay on topic.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:30 PM
2

There is something obviously about you, that doesn't draw women to you, as one of the good options. The way you see women and speak about our experiences, doesn't come off as safe, and no stranger owes you anything to stick around and sift through your personality, especially if there are always more options out there. It isn't the fault of women that we have more options; it's the fault of men who will indiscriminately throw themselves at almost any woman just to get laid. Pressure your own kin…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:18 PM
4

Options we don't want. I'd rather have 5 good things in a bin to choose from, than search for those 5 among 1000 poisonous options. If you refuse to hear this, then you choose to live in a fallacy, rooted in your lack of perspective and your ignorance in hearing the other side. Men are killed by other men. Men are the statistical danger to both men and women. If you want women to disregard their own safety to fuck men as freely as they are pursued, then crusade for men to change their violent, e…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:12 PM
3

And if women let ourselves interact with every man who wants to fuck us, we would be victims just as much. The point is, a large supply of something we don't want, isn't an advantage. Men are killed way more dude. By other men. Imagine being naked and even more vulnerable, around such a statistical threat. There's a reason women are more choosy about who they let in.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:06 PM
2

You don't have to intrinsically worry about your safety in the same way women do, no. Statistics just prove that to us; the majority of violence around the world, is perpetrated by men.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 04:01 PM
3

Well you just have it all figured out. Dating is easy for women, if we have zero standards and zero concern for our safety.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 03:55 PM
2

More like.... Every solution you were given, you ignored and said you couldn't do it, until you let yourself drown.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 03:35 PM
1

But next to that man is a cellphone, he refused to learn how to use himself.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 03:26 PM
2

Your insecurities are what make you most unattractive; being confident with who you are, and valuing yourself in other ways than just looks, is what is attractive. You need to work on your relationship with yourself, and address your own superficiality (which is making you project that others are just as superficial as you).
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:05 AM
10

Okay. Sounds like those are people you don't want around anyway. I highly suggest therapy.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:53 AM
2

Seek professional guidance, or date other people on the spectrum.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:52 AM
8

If you don't have boundaries, you risk attracting people who treat you poorly. Perhaps you need to work on yourself, and your own confidence. Maybe seek therapy. Life doesn't owe anyone anything, nor is it fair.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:51 AM
6

Why would you be worried about someone you aren't dating, or in a relationship with (proceeded by dating)?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:00 AM
7

What sort of boundaries have you experienced being crossed?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:59 AM
13

You're not ready to date if you don't have any confidence to draw boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:51 AM
20

There is no alternative to such outlandish "theories". It's not a math equation or puzzle to solve; it's two people connecting and interacting. Have you never made a friend before? Have you never interacted with another human being, so as to not be weird, but instead be interesting? Finding someone to date doesn't start out a whole lot different than finding a friend in 3rd grade (of any gender). If this seems really foreign to you, maybe look deeper at whether or not you have any socialisation …
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:47 AM
5

You're having trouble seeing women as equal people.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 09:43 AM
7

Based on your initial post, you need to study them more. You should understand that it isn't TRP that makes us scared of men, nor are misogynist thoughts relegated there. It is men being the perpetrators of the majority of violence, aggression and rape in the world, that makes us feel unsafe around them. It is the fact that many view us as objects of their own pleasure, and not as autonomous people, that makes us leary. It is the fact that we were property for the majority of human history, and …
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 03:32 AM
6

There is gender, and then there is identity, and then there is the living experience of being domesticated and indoctrinated. You need to study the history of feminism, patriarchy and oppression.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 03:00 AM
5

For someone that transitioned to a women, you seem to be proof that this won't actually, instantly help you understand what being raised as a woman is really about. We are more than lipstick and stereotypes.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 02:48 AM
1

Then they either aren't putting in enough effort, the right effort, or it's effort to the wrong places.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 01:48 AM
5

It's also the patriarchy telling them that obtaining a woman is a need/right/entitlement. Without that seed, there would be no resentment, and instead momentum towards attaining the attention or attraction of others.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 12:41 AM
5

People who don't understand love, can't conceptualize it.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/22 11:50 PM
3

What is the alternative? Reality. Reality as you live it. Reality that doesn't involve any theories -- only experiences. Work on yourself, decompress from social media, get off porn, excercise, go out, create a personal style, make good eating and grooming habits, read, take classes, and meet people.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/22 11:45 PM
3

Not all, but not all are supposed to. You'll find the right partner when you are your best self.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 09:03 PM
1

I see.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 02:34 PM
9

OPs issue is that he's looking at women as objects to obtain, not as real humans. This is why he only wants the "best", with all the after-market add-ons (as one usually does when selecting a new object to possess).
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 09:10 AM
8

Yeah. Just what every woman dreams of! Being a plastic fucktoy! 🙄 Maybe don't worship plastic women you can't afford, and look at natural woman, for a start.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 09:08 AM
4

If that's the case, OP should join a gym, invest time in grooming and skincare, and building self-confidence (not whinging on the internet would be a good start). Therapy sounds good also. Maybe a life coach.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 09:05 AM
3

Okay? And how does wasting your time lamenting this (rather than improving yourself inside and out), help you in any way?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 09:04 AM
15

Where is this mindset of defeat and jealousy getting you? Do you think this is attractive? You know what's attractive to women above all else? Confidence. Not fake confidence, but the kind that comes with actually being proud of who you are -- work on that.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 09:01 AM
5

And you want someone to love you as you are, right? So why is that such a concession to fathom reciprocating back to another "5"?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 08:59 AM
10

Yeah, coz dozens of weirdos to fight through is so much fun. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 08:57 AM
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Both are a state of mind. If all you value is status and money, then you'll resent life if you don't make it financially "rich". If all you value are superficial looks in a partner, then you'll resent life if you aren't able to obtain it (due to your own "averageness"). The truth is, you hold the power to your own happiness, and if you give it away to the world to judge by their standards, what does that say about the worth and value you hold in yourself, and your own judgment? Look at potential…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 08:54 AM
1

You are full of knowledge about "what I think", without me stating anything of the sort... 🙄 That's just plain delusional, boo. No one deserves special treatment without gaining respect first. Where did I say "special treatment", or where did anyone on this thread you claim is "white-knighting", say anything of the sort? I'm talking about basic human respect for others' rights and needs, regardless of gender, and not at the cost of others. Respecting women as people, costs you nothing.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/22 06:44 PM
1

You won't answer the question, because it proves my point: What exactly do you mean by "white-knighting"? Your drivel above, is exactly what I'm saying.... You treat women as lesser (subhuman), and you think you are justified in doing so, for whatever reason (see drivel). Why do you have to "get" something from women, in order to treat them as equals? You sound like a psychopath or sociopath.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/22 06:01 PM
1

at no point was treating people as subhuman brought up. I'm bringing it up. Let's talk this through, shall we? What exactly do you mean by "white-knighting"?
/r/ExRedPill10/12/22 03:31 PM
0

What does "getting played" by a person, have to do with half of the human population? Let's reverse it. Man breaks a woman's heart, so she then decides to treat all men as sub-human, forever. Makes sense, right?
/r/ExRedPill10/12/22 03:27 PM
3

Treating women as humans doesn't make you cucked.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/22 02:57 PM
3

Porn and social media have sold a lie to many people, and has lead to a lack of actual social skills being developed. Everytime it is pointed out to someone complaining that they can't find anyone online, to instead go out and socialize, it's met with a myriad of excuses about how "hard" that is. This is becoming an extremely self-focused and lazy society, where compromise and acceptance of another's flaws, are now considered to be too much of a concession. The best thing anyone can do for their…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/22 06:15 PM
1

you do not find men attractive for them, but only for the other things that they bring to the table No. I do not find men attractive for just their appearance -- that would be shallow, like you.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 08:35 PM
1

you need other compensation, he need to be high status, rich or extremely funny No. He just needs to value me for more than my body or sex, be interesting (talk about things that matter, not just videogames and crypto), self-sufficient and mentally sound.... How worthwhile is a woman's body in 50 years? To a shallow man, not at all. Do you think that's what we want? Is a shallow man? Just because it's "easy" to get shallow dick, doesn't mean we want it. Your lack of intelligence on this thread a…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 05:02 PM
2

Women are attracted to men, but usually not for purely shallow, sexual reasons, and we don't enjoy being treated in a way that appreciates us only for shallow, sexual reasons either.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 04:10 PM
3

No YOU didn't think that far. In order for your "powerful" woman body to mean anything, you'd have to value that sort of attention from men, right? Well now you do have a better idea of how little women value that sort of attention and worth placed upon them, by sleeze buckets who only want one thing from us, while refusing to see us for what we value and need.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:57 PM
2

It's not a troll, it's a solution to your perceived issues.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:44 PM
3

That's why you become a woman. Then you won't be a homosexual. I personally can't wait for you to experience it.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:43 PM
2

Take hormones and attract a man who fetishizes transexuals (it's becoming very common in porn watching circles). Then do your hair, nails, makeup, some plastic surgery, and buy expensive clothes and accessories. You'll then be "free" like all women. Then be gone from the orbit of cis-women, and our "powerful" bodies.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:32 PM
5

So become a woman then. Nothing stopping you. Once you're a woman, you'll see how "powerful" it is to be sexualised all the fucking time, when all you want to be, is appreciated for your mind.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:20 PM
5

It's interesting that the only interest you express outside of work and shopping, is drinking at a bar. You are completely misunderstanding everything I've taken the time to describe. Do not go out trying to find women. Go out to enjoy the world, and this will draw people to you, while doing so. Make friends with people of all genders who share your interests, and your social circle will expand enough to increase your odds of further interactions, and future connections. Learn to read signals, a…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/22 06:39 PM
1

You don't know that. Hahahaha. Oh, yes I do. I'm not. I told you this twice. Then why are you confused? If you act creepy, you'll be called a creep. If you read signals and respect boundaries, you may be rejected at worst. Stop acting "mentally impaired". Woman. Ah, a typical dismissal based on singling out each voice in the choir, individually. Good try. I wouldn't approach you if I was paid to do it. What a false sense of bravado you have there, pumpkin. Let's get this straight -- no matter ho…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 10:17 PM
1

You're the only one seething. I don't need to ask. As a woman, I am privy to far more conversations amongst other women (of all ages), when it comes to dating The fact remains, if you are afraid of coming off creepy, then it is you who doesn't comprehend how to not be creepy, nor do you show an understanding of what women are actually deeming creepy. Based on your "superior knowledge" stance against actual women here telling you otherwise (about how we do and do not want to be approached), I wou…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 09:43 PM
4

I’m no longer in school and have no other means of meeting women. This shows apathy and laziness, neither of which are attractive qualities. at this point I’ll just have to take what I can get. Gee, just what every woman wants to hear (or feel) 🙄.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 07:27 PM
3

YES.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 07:26 PM
3

You have described the "perfect game" for men to succeed with women.... Be a genuine, respectful, decent person who is looking for an actual connection, beyond sex.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 07:25 PM
5

My point being I was so overwhelmed with messages from guys looking for a hookup it was harder to go find the type of men I wanted to meet. So I can see why less aggressive men lose out. And this is what the self-proclaimed "betas" don't get: It's not the women that are the issue; it is the aggressiveness of other men en masse, that create the dynamic in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 07:21 PM
5

💫
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 07:17 PM
7

The real complaint is that they don't have an easy button (or app) to order-up women, and summons them to their cock. It's all just a bunch of whining when you explain the effort they could put in to achieve a connection, irl.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 07:14 PM
1

You should practice your "elementary writing skills", because you've done nothing but bemoan how "approaching women in public is labelled as creepy". I'm merely explaining to your limited self, how only creeps are perceived as creepy. If this is your viewpoint, it could only be explained by your own actions.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 05:34 PM
3

It's not an insult. If you are perceived as creepy so much that you think it's "typical", then you are probably coming off as creepy.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 02:14 AM
3

Why are you creeps so confused? Read my previous comments to get some clarity. It is still acceptable to ask people out in public, but what gets you labelled as a creep is asking or approaching cold, without any prior signals (eye contact, smiles, or platonic conversation with flirting overtones), as well as not taking no for an answer, if rejected. If you think your normal behaviour is constantly being judged as creepy, then it's time to look at how you're being an actual creep.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/22 04:09 PM
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Or behaving as "if" you were a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/22 04:35 AM
4

You don't seem to realise you didn't even understand what I said. You are looking for organic interactions with all people, while being only focused on your own life. This will attract people into your orb, period. The more people in your orb, the more likely you are to meet other people. This is how it worked in the wild, before the internet. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 04:39 PM
3

Okay. Seems you have it all figured out.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 10:46 AM
10

You only get labeled creepy, if you are being creepy. Cold approaching women in a world where most men are a threat to them until proven otherwise, is actually quite creepy. Don't go out with intent of fishing for or hooking a woman, go out with the intent of having a good time, meeting people of all genders and enjoying your life. This increases people in your circles to connect with, where you can read the opportunity to ask for more.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 08:37 AM
3

How did people meet eachother before dating apps? In fact more people were in relationships, and hookups at a younger age, before dating apps. You know why? No one looked to date, they just went out, interacted with others and made connections that organically turned into hookups or relationships.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 08:04 AM
-2

Stop watching porn.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 02:52 AM
5

Women are people, not dolls. You don't seem to have an appreciation for qualities beyond physical, and therefore likely have no context of a relationship, because it doesn't include connecting with a real person.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 09:57 PM
5

I did. I'm married to a person who hasn't watched in over 2 years. Have a nice day, muffin.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 12:03 AM
5

At the cost of another person's well-being.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 12:03 AM
6

Gross.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 10:02 PM
12

You shouldn't be "TAKING" anything. Focus on what you have to offer.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:47 PM
7

Do you want a women who is supermodel gorgeous to settle on your looks, just because you "treat her well" or are a "nice guy"?
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:43 PM
8

Because he's suffering from the "madonna-whore complex", which always fails to recognize women as whole, dynamic people.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:42 PM
11

No woman deserves to be "settled for" as the woman you weren't attracted to, simply because she fulfills some other needs for you. You talk about women like they aren't autonomous people with needs and desires of their own. You talk about women as though they are possessions you control, and that these decent women should be grateful for being second choice. These are all the reasons why even that "average woman", wouldn't want you.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:40 PM
20

He means "settle for someone on my same level of attractiveness, status, etc"... Which he immediately deems as less-than. Honestly I think this lack of congruency is the crux behind RP; men who refuse to accept imperfection in women, but feel persecuted when those partners expect the same. They refuse to accept a woman with as many flaws as they have.... He even says in his last line that men are the "losers" in this dating game, I guess simply because women won't lower their standards and expec…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:33 PM
9

What the fuck is this circular-going-nowhere, highly biased and leading question? A man should become the best version of himself to attract the best partner to match with him. A man should have consideration and grace for the imperfections in his partner, that he wishes that partner had for him. A man should become someone of integrity, who understands that he must give as much as he takes. Why should a man make this into an all-or-nothing, winners-and-losers, game?
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 06:31 PM
13

They are incapable of applying equal logic to women which they apply to themselves, because they don't think of women as people (equal to themselves).
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 12:06 AM
1

She did not. The bible did that all on its own, (and the quran keeps it going). RELIGION is what is behind all conservative politics, and patriarchy is what is behind the religions that influence conservative politics.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 10:17 PM
4

Feminism gave women access to more than previously; women now have greater choices than simply thinking about becoming a wife and mother. Along with these choices and greater access, came more power in selection of their own partners -- women were able to now expect more from their partners, and be more choosey. Most men have simply yet to adapt to this new landscape of independent, autonomous women, and some are being left behind when the challenge to step up emotionally or otherwise, is presen…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 10:11 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation... Dig deeper. They share a commonality that is the real issue.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 06:28 PM
1

Because it took that long for the movements to take enough hold; younger generations of men didn't keep up in evolving their own views towards progression of equality. As equality has evolved (sidenote, women are still not equals in society), resentment has grown in men.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 05:52 PM
1

there are some deep political views within red pill.... ... I'm convinced that it's politically motivated ie. If we can get more people to think like us, then they will vote for us, and we (the right) will be in power. You have failed to provide even one example of this. Correlation does not equal causation; just because a lot of redpillers and their misogyny aligns with a political group that is also full of patriarchal misogyny, doesn't mean they are enmeshed. The truth is that these boys were…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 05:46 PM
3

It's just a reaction to the feminist movements, that have left young men feeling jaded, in the patriarchy they (and women) still have to live in.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 08:14 AM
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If you think of your GF as part of a big blob of some other foreign species, you probably really aren't even connecting to her. Women are people. Would you like her to judge you with huge generalisations about how "men are"?
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 06:53 AM
2

Short answer: YES
/r/ExRedPill11/11/22 07:53 AM
4

i would like all top level comments to include scientific citations instead of speculation about my/others' thought processes & motives and also no anecdotes without citations. that means pubmed, sciencedirect etc. As soon as you cite these sources for your basis.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:48 PM
2

So I would say that we're at a period in history where it's uniquely difficult to be a man Is it difficult, or is it just harder to achieve the "masculine dream" patriarchy is selling them?
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 02:08 PM
5

I think it is red pill to believe a whole bunch of sexist nonsense, some of it which stems from the idea that it being easier to "get laid" somehow makes women's lives significantly easier. Exactly. "Oh yay. I can put myself in potential harms way, to get dicked by a guy who only wants to fuck me and leave me, then shame me for being promiscuous! Where do I sign up????"
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 02:05 PM
2

It may be easier for women to snag "a" man to fuck, but the key you miss is that most women don't want just any dick to fuck. The amount of dick coming at us is a burden when we are trying to find a man of value. You can't compare two people with opposing goals. Arizona to Florida: "It's not fair that you can get so much water, whenever you want." Florida to Arizona: "Dude, I don't want or need this much water."
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 02:03 PM
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It blows my mind how many men get confused when they can’t win over “any” woman of their choice. But on the same hand, can understand their own preferences. This hypocrisy is rooted in the fact that they see women as lesser than them, perhaps even a possession or property to be obtained, but not an autonomous person (like them). They don't realise that these little nuggets come through to others, and are likely the real reason women are repellent of them.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 02:48 PM
4

A medical doctor wouldn't have any authority in sociology.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 07:45 PM
2

There is no "Dr." In front of her name.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 03:37 PM
4

I think it's written by nobody with any credentials.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 10:21 AM
2

What's your fucking point though? Women and men are different? Fucking, obviously.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 01:53 PM
2

YOU never wanted a conversation. Here's the summary of your view: "Women and men aren't the same." (Thanks, captain obvious) "Therefore women and men aren't equals." Then when questioned, you back-peddle to: "Of course we are equal in human rights." So what exactly is your point? Where is the discussion? Are you just trying to inflame people so you can then circularly argue in contradictions? It's not an insult; you are a succubus of time (and energy), because you can't sustain a linear thought,…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 01:51 PM
1

Stay alone.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 01:45 PM
3

How about this... No one cares that you don't want to fuck women, especially women.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 03:42 PM
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I think it's a misconception that just cuz someone hates women, it automatically means they're a terrible person. Hating a whole group of people based on sex, religion or race, doesn't make you a "nice guy", that's for sure. You don't have to want to fuck women, but jumping to hatred is an aggression towards a marginalized group.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 03:40 PM
15

My lifetime of actual trauma and abuse at the hands of men, makes me no longer attracted to them either.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 03:38 PM
2

As I said, every Reddit account has to start somewhere. You looking on my account is irrelevant to our conversation. It's completely relevant. You have a suss account that looks completely designed to troll this sub.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 02:45 PM
2

Lol. Stop. "Emotional language". Get bent, little girl. No, I have no more rebuttals for the succubus of time, that is you.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 02:44 PM
2

I’m not sure what you’re even arguing at this point? Probably because I'm not talking to you.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 02:43 PM
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Please tell me the controversy with these very basic statements about human nature. Please tell me where I've shown issue with the statements that men and women have biological differences? First, I'm not even talking with you. Second, the poster I'm actually talking to, very much said men and women aren't equal. Men and women are absolutely equals and equal in our differences. The poster is also clearly speaking about how women's inequality plays into the value in redpilled ideology. So you can…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 02:41 PM
2

Now go apply that to the men vs women and equality, argument.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 02:38 PM
3

Your profile is 1 month old and the majority of posts and comments are in this sub. Please do tell me though... How does gender affect behaviour?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 11:23 PM
2

You seem incapable of any understanding beyond your own circular logic. I pity you.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 10:53 PM
3

There are DNA differences between races that definitely affect things you mention when it comes to comparing genders; average size for instance. Your logic absolutely flows to differences between races as well, but you seem to shy away from it because you know it's wrong to compare on such a basis. Somehow though, you seem to have internalised misogyny which prevents you from evenly applying your logic in this regard. Your whole profile is new, and basically looks created to troll this sub.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 10:06 PM
3

We aren't treated equally, you are correct. However, despite our differences we are equal, and everything you mentioned should be strived to be changed, as such
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 10:04 PM
3

Clearly we are not equal when institutions have different rules and requirements of women We are equal, and not being treated equal is the problem, not the proof. Different accommodations to accomodate different biological differences is the equity required to achieve equality.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 08:07 PM
1

The issue is that many divorces arise from when a woman begins to earn more than her husband. This happens a lot but people don’t talk about it because it’s “offensive” and “mysoginistic”. Cite a source.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 08:05 PM
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You are definitely getting rebuttals, which you refuse to address. Here's one I've mentioned several times and you've conveniently not responded to (because you can't): By your logic, blacks are unequal to caucasians, correct? I knew my post wouldn’t be taken well lol, I was ready for it. Sounds just like the description of trolling.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 08:00 PM
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Just stop. No one disagreed that men and women are different. You very clearly said in your statements that women are not equal to men. Those are two different things. Equality in fundemental human rights and value, doesn't require "sameness". I pity you.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 07:58 PM
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Different doesn't mean not equal.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 07:47 AM
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Whom is denying biology? I'm aware we are "biologically different" just as blacks are "biologically different" than caucasians, but I still fail to see how that makes anyone unequal as a human being. As for men being "stronger" overall, that's exactly the reason we were bullied into submission and became property until this last century.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 10:26 PM
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that 100% equality between men and women is not possible when we are biologically different This is some bullshit. How do my genitals make me less equal? You could say that not all races are equal from this same logic, as we have different DNA/biology.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 07:47 PM
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I've seen a lot of men and women who think any form of compromise in a relationship is infringing on their rights to do toxic things. Whether that be a harem, or cheating, or any laundry list of crazy stuff. Again, both men and women. Yup. This. I've noticed the current trend in society as well... Any compromise at all, is considered loss of self or equates to "being controlled". What seems to be lost on people today, is that we will never grow to our full potential as humans, if all we do is op…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 06:48 PM
5

Yes, you are. No sane person sits around contemplating specific measurements of a potential mate, other than virgins who think obtaining a partner is the same as shopping for porn. To even ask the original question, you have to start with a notion that this is normal behaviour.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 05:49 PM
10

He talks like this because he likely deduces women's worth in these incremental ways.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 09:41 PM
6

Women are people, and their tastes vary as much as men. Read 'Come As You Are' by Emily Nagoski. My last piece of advice is to stop watching porn, as nothing in porn looks like the "average" woman's sexuality.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 07:28 PM
1

Those "hoes" are mainly children or young adults who are groomed by this society to do so.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 09:18 PM
1

GTFOH.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 06:40 PM
13

It's almost as if women are people and not robots that respond in a formulated way.. However if it does work, it's only because you mentally and emotionally abused them... How, admirable.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 08:06 AM
2

Well, yes... But no. If it's a stranger, abso-fucking-lutely. If it's someone I know and am comfortable with knowing already, not necessarily.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 04:44 AM
2

It's not "gendered dating culture".... There is a factor men will never understand, and it is that strange men are and will always be a threat to a woman, so most will never put themselves in a position to approach one. The fact is that the majority of violence and violent crime in the world, is perpetrated by men. Overall, women are at a physical disadvantage, and sex is the point of our greatest vulnerability. Edit: Downvote this all you want, clowns; but just know that it's a TRUTH you can ne…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 03:52 AM
5

"Women", or just the women you are chasing?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 10:27 PM
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nothing I do to get likes ever works. I’ve been rejected so many times and nothing I do to get women to give me a chance ever seems to work. This says it all, really. Start being genuine and attract the genuine person that is right for you.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 09:04 PM
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Women on the apps don't think you're a bad person, they just don't want to date you, obviously. Do you not have standards? Would you date just anyone, simply because they are "not a bad person"? Well women are allowed to have their own personal tastes too. Usually people end up lonely when they focus on trying to achieve something beyond their means, or when they have unreasonable expectations. I'd argue that going to these marches and then coming on here wanting a reward for it (women who date …
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 08:52 PM
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Because you mention these things as "reasons women should like you" or why they should be "falling at your feet" (like the hired women in Andrew Tate's videos). If you were a true feminist ally, you wouldn't speak like this; you'd understand that women are people, not a status achievement.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 08:37 PM
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We don't want men that are fighting for our rights just so they can sleep with us. We don't want men that see us as an object, or one of a plethora to be achieved. We certainly don't want men who think that "refraining from abusing women" is somehow an achievement to be praised; this is actually the bare minimum and not something I'd expect a man to think is an exceptional trait. It is very possible that your nefarious intent is what is being perceived when you are talking to women, and preventi…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 08:24 PM
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No, they do not. The whole point of FDS is to prevent women from being manipulated by men, for sex. If you call a woman withholding sex and relationships from creeps, liars, weirdos and anyone else who has no value to add to her life, "manipulation". A woman wanting nothing to do with you, is hardly manipulation -- unless you feel entitled to her.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 02:30 PM
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FDS is RP for women. Please do explain this correlation, as you see it.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 04:09 PM
3

What are you "researching"?? Under which circumstances women would accept being oppressed??
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 05:54 AM
2

At least 51% of people.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:24 PM
4

Sounds pretty premeditated to me.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:23 PM
4

Right? And then when he gets banned: "This isn't helping their case against racism."
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:20 PM
3

Even this reaction to a a Mod doing their job, and the framing of it as "hair trigger", is just more of the same "women are so dramatic and sensitive" trope, I suspect you went in trying to illicit.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:18 PM
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I'm also trying to engage in dialogue in order to get a better picture, and if need be, change my stance and opinion Those subs do not exist to "debate with men" or as a challenge to "change your mind". It sounds like you went in challenging what the entire sub is about, entitled to their energy and time in debating a person who admits: I've been against Feminism in general for years, Sounds like antagonistic behaviour.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:13 PM
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YES. I think women need to start doing this en masse. And anyone who is bi, can say good-bye entirely with bothering to engage them.... Straight women could and should start forming communes to support eachother in life.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:33 PM
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The great majority of violence (of any sort) around the world, is perpetrated by men. Women are not the clear-and-present, immediate danger here.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:30 PM
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I feel like they’re tolerated quite a bit. I think you missed that I said they aren't just tolerated.... I'm saying of course they are tolerated, when that's what the factory is producing.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:28 PM
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Shitty men aren't just tolerated -- they are conditioned by toxic masculinity to exist as such.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 08:52 PM
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Redpill men are the epitome of toxic male conditioning used to support a world designed for their objectives, and their objectives alone. In this case, they would have to add the male perpetrators to the statistics of those committed against women, and in doing so would dilute the statistic they fabricate about female perpetrators against men. I'm not saying that women don't rape and molest, but the statistics clearly show that this is more of a concern around a man, no matter the gender of the …
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 08:51 PM
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It's also born from the fact that it is they who are projecting looks being so important, because it is to them. They are all chasing the hottest of women, complaining it's unfair that she wants a man just as hot. They won't lower their standards where they'd have a shot at success.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:58 PM
0

You will never know anything for sure, and that's why you choose someone you trust to settle down with.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:53 PM
2

Ah. So I think you are conflating things because of the word "settle" in "settle down". To be clear, to "settle down" does not mean to "settle"; it means to have gained perspective and make different choices (ones based on greater merit, usually).
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:22 PM
2

Just be honest about the good and bad within you, and accept it in others.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:10 PM
1

I can't help but think you are basing your entire negative view on this, on the idea that women are "used up" if they aren't a virgin when they choose you. Do you also plan to save yourself for the ONE (first and only)?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:56 PM
1

It's not "bad vs good". We are all imperfect. The goal to strive for is integrity.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:50 PM
2

How about you stop following ideologies online like they are gospel, and maybe you'll stop projecting that women are doing the same. How many "female gurus" do you see with a following online, that even compares to the level of following someone like say Andrew Tate, has? There is no secret code or "rulebook" to dealing with women; we are not some other species -- we are as human as you. Focus more on seeing women as human beings, and seeing them as unique as you see every other man from one ano…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 02:40 PM
1

How many times have we heard of the trope of men fucking women they "won't bring home to mother"? And how many married men settle down with the "good" girl, only to keep watching porn and jerking off to the "bad" girls? This book may be written for women, but the advice works for both genders. "Sow your wild-oats early, so that you never have to wonder if you missed out, and so that you have an appreciation for the one you choose in the end."
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 02:35 PM
1

Lol. I doubt it.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 07:37 AM
1

I'm not arguing with drivel. I don't owe you a response -- deal with it.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:31 AM
2

Also.... If you want to sit pretty and wait to be chosen by a dominate woman, then you better put in the effort to look your best while waiting (like women do) to be chosen. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:16 AM
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They do when you interact platonically first, and she can establish safety before a cold approach to a strange (and potentially dangerous) man. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:15 AM
1

Lol @ all of this.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:56 AM
1

Any movement that says women should be sought as young as possible, is targeting children; they may be of legal age, but they certainly are children in their minds, until 25.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 09:53 PM
5

I think Incels and pillers are a greater risk of making us extinct.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 04:40 PM
8

Yeah, it's not exactly ideal for the majority of women, to be approached by guys just sending out mass swipes and DMs. Men have to remember that women have a concern of safety that will always make their dating priorities different. RP and others admit to outright gaming women and lying to get what they want. Statistically, the great majority of violence around the world is perpetrated by men. Strange men are a risk for a woman and her safety, and this is why you can never compare the two sides …
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 04:39 PM
5

You have 3 choices: 1) Sit around and wait for a woman to approach you, (likely a dominant one, which will set the stage for your whole encounter), and continue to complain until that happens. 2) Give up, never try, never have success, and continue to complain forever. 3) Approach women, take a risk, possibly meet someone. Either way, the outcome only benefits you, or hinders you -- no one else. Here's a thought. What if the right woman for you, is also sitting around whining that no one ever ap…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 04:24 PM
1

The difference is in their responses. If they are completely closed off and only wish to debate all help offered, then they aren't really here for help.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 05:43 AM
1

I'm 44 years old married twice, and this last one is going on 18 years. I highly doubt you know what a "successful relationship" looks like, both based on your initial post, and the fact that you think you need to drop out of one if your life isn't perfect.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 05:47 AM
2

💞
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 05:44 AM
2

I'd say older women perhaps, definitely not most women in their 20s Because you are "punching above your weight", this is your experience.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 01:37 AM
2

The whole post is about men's "needs" as a reference to sex.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 09:56 PM
4

Well I guess the idea of both genders looking out for and understanding eachover sounds like a neat idea, All I see is you asking for "uNdErStAnDiNg" that you and your friend can't get laid, because you expect women to lower their expectations and charity fuck you.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 09:14 PM
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It's not a "men's issue" that you can't get sex... That's a YOU issue.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 09:11 PM
6

Do you need the group of women to care about "men's issues" for any particular reason? This is the crux. He needs women to care, so they will be motivated to give "charity sex" to fulfill men's "needs for self-confidence". It's pure entitlement, using the manipulation of empathy to get it. I have zero empathy when there is zero accountability to change one's own situation and simply blame "all women" for not caring about a stranger's struggle, in the hopes women will discard their own needs (for…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 09:10 PM
5

Men would be less lonely if they pursued a relationship more than just sex. Men would also be less lonely if they stopped "punching above their weight". There are plenty of single ladies that would date a less than perfect looking guy, as they are less than perfect looking themselves, but any RP or Incel I have mentioned that to, balks at the idea and feels indignant that they should "lower their standards"... Yet, that's exactly what you ask women to do. The ONLY way out of the catch-22 you put…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 09:04 PM
2

Lol "value" to a purpose they don't desire. Obviously these dudes don't value anything in life other than their dick (and sticking it in a manipulated child).
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 07:23 PM
3

Well... Just a bit of advice... SPEAK UP next time. Just because a woman has strong opinions, doesn't mean she isn't willing to consider yours (or shouldn't). It took my husband 15 years to realise this, and we exercised his voice in at least 50% of our last house-move and set-up, because he has finally learned how to use it. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 03:51 PM
5

"letting her decorate the other rooms"
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:56 PM
6

If RP is not concerned with finding a long term partner, why would they be concerned about fErTiLiTy?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:54 PM
3

And that's just some people... Not something attributed to the sexes.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 03:40 PM
3

I'm a woman, and I've had men distance themselves when I've opened up also.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 07:19 AM
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Imagine staying with this guy and having kids, and then being stuck while you have to constantly argue that you are in fact also human.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 05:35 PM
7

Please know that by "playing" us only in a sexual way, you are dehumanizing us and downplaying the real struggle to be a woman, and be seen as an equal human. If you lived as a woman day-to-day and had to go through the things we have (feeling unsafe around most strange men), then you wouldn't be so excited about so much sexual attention coming at you. I think this likely came from porn, which came as something you use to cope with whatever issues you are hiding from; that is also likely the sam…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 05:48 AM
2

Oh the experiences are more than possible... It's just not caused by what you think it is.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 07:24 AM
1

Cite sources, to back up your claims.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 02:27 AM
3

So there are no short, married men?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 08:04 PM
3

I am in my 40s, and you think as a woman, I've never talked to other women? Lol I gave you your answer: listen to women. And then you proved why you won't ever stop thinking these convoluted realities about women... You didn't and don't listen. Instead, you want to mansplain being a woman, to a grown woman.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 07:38 PM
5

You listen to women. I am a woman, and I never once considered height.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 08:28 AM
3

"The wall" only exists if you have predatory inclinations towards young women.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 05:32 AM
2

It's almost like doing unfulfilling things, is leaving men feeling... unfulfilled.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 02:05 PM
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I just couldn't be negged and bullied anymore.... This is just straight up abuse; I don't care how it's packaged or how "hurt" (entitled) the abuser. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill10/09/22 01:42 AM
13

More like that's the legal age up until their brains are fully formed. And it's disgusting to only value women for their body.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 03:50 AM
11

What the redpill suggests is mental and emotional abuse towards women, yes.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 02:50 AM
2

You're not a woman; you're just a boy who made an account to troll.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 07:42 PM
2

Is his name Bolo, and is he from Atlanta?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 03:02 PM
1

Women want a man of integrity; someone who acts as they say, good or bad. Which specific qualities each individual seeks in a partner, are as a varied as people themselves; the one constant you can be assured of, is we want honesty and integrity. The problem with self-proclaimed "nice guys" is that they aren't 100% "nice" (no one is), and so they are immediately deceptive.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 02:59 PM
1

Re-read my comment. I said these ugly women would be demanding the top 10% of men.... Why are you on this sub, anyway?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 03:02 AM
3

I've seen a lot of people (women, that is) getting pats on the back doing the stuff that you've just described. Lol who? Who is patting women on the back for being whiny and demanding???
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 02:28 AM
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Can you link to that? All I can find is the actual structure of the clitoris showing that it is wishbone shaped and sits alongside the vulva, and ends before the pubic bone. Nothing at all about wrapping around or ending in the rectum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/22 06:39 PM
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The orgasm isn't coming from inside the anus but from pressure to the other side, where the actual nerve endings are located. For me, I have no desire to be pleasured on the other side, and would rather just use the hole I have with the nerve-endings actually in it. No shame or disparagement to anyone who does enjoy this, but it doesn't have any pull for me to do it, other than for the "giver's" visual stimulation. The risks and genuine pain I'd have to get past to even enjoy this, just doesn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/22 06:19 PM
9

literally don't care enough to have this conversation anymore. Right. In response to me pointing out the harms to women... Seems you don't care about that, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/22 05:13 PM
8

Believe it or not, your comments came across as shameful to me. You're triggered, but it isn't because of anything I've said. Please link to my exact words of shame. I'm ultimately tired of cis women giving sexual acts the ick factor and acting like its gross and harmful Link where I said that (ick and gross)?? As for harmful -- it is; have you even read the original article? This isn't about "ick" factor, but about having zero desire to try something because it doesn't feel pleasurable, and not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/22 04:44 PM
6

The original post here is talking about women experiencing damage as a result of anal sex, because of our anatomy. Porn has normalised anal sex to whole generations, before they even have the ability to develop their own desires. Linking articles stating that 20 - 30% of women have anal sex, is simply undermining the original post, as well as the 70 - 80% of women who clearly do not participate in it. Not once did anyone in my comment thread shame you or anyone else who participates in or enjoys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/22 03:49 PM
1

Because he's stuck at seeing women as lesser, not equal.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:39 PM
2

To summarise: See women as people, not objects to own or use.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:38 PM
2

This reply touched me... 💞 Keep trying.... Have you heard of cognitive behavioral therapy? There are some great books out there on the power of controlling and changing your thoughts, to change your mindset and lead to more healthy thoughts and resulting feelings. Just think of this.... I as a woman you don't know, have no motivation to lie to you. Some people are shallow, man or woman, and those are the ones you have to weed out. The truth is that love and relationships are a risk of vulnerabil…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:30 PM
27

Your stats still show it's a minority, and say nothing about enjoyment vs conditioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/22 03:25 PM
1

Lol. How does being tall or rich provide emotional security?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:03 PM
1

I don't see a group of "ugly" women coming together to complain about standards.... I wonder why? Maybe because women themselves don't have such rigid "standards", that they are only worried (for their entire lifetime) about getting the 10% hottest, of the youngest men possible? I think it all boils down to a complete lack of introspection and self-awareness. Can they picture a woman-equivalent of themselves, who goes around whining and demanding that the hottest guys date them, or fuck them? Ho…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 05:12 PM
1

It's just a bunch of dudes treating us like a seperate species or animal, refusing to put any human qualities on us.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:51 PM
9

And no one said you were wrong or to be disrespected for your choices. Edit: and you downvoted my comment, which proves my original point... It is those of us who don't enjoy something not naturally designed as part of sex, who are shamed by the minority who do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/22 05:49 AM
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The implication is that the majority of women don't like it, or some are feeling social pressure to try something, which for how women are built, has very little to do with pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/22 05:36 AM
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This isn't about anecdotes and our "circles", there are literally stats on this. I am a woman in Canada and within certain groups of my friends, this claim amongst them might be higher than others, sure. Doesn't change the facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/22 05:13 AM
26

THIS. I can feel the movement and tide changing, just in the last few years. I've been making every effort to bring women the empowerment to speak their truth, irl also. No more silence, ladies. Bring women closer and let's stand guard over the destruction of society, as the mothers and creators that we are. ❣️✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/22 05:42 PM
48

Normal BJs are not about degradation, but about giving and receiving pleasure... Face-fucking, deepthroat and ejaculating on women by force (basically the standards shown in porn), are about humiliation and degradation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/22 05:35 PM
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This is a common comparison made, and I get it... But there are a lot of guys who enjoy as much (no matter their sexual orientation), and this can lead them to a false comparison, putting even more pressure on women. Men have a prostate in there and a different pelvic floor, so what they experience is often pleasurable, compared to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/22 05:32 PM
1

Well, I wasn't disrespectful. It is my observation in how he talks about women as objects, (still) that he hasn't dropped the redpill thinking yet, and I won't coddle it, as you can't move away from redpill logic, if you don't drop it's tenets.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 05:21 PM
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I don't even understand why these redpillers would want a woman that is selling herself for handbags and shoes? Or why they are so committed to whining about it, if they see it as the "norm".
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 04:36 PM
1

I wasn't mean. I was matter-of-fact. I don't owe anyone "nice". you're rudeness is against the sub's rules. Please direct-quote which rule has been broken.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 04:31 PM
1

I'm not responsible to coddle someone who still has massive disrespect for my whole gender.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 03:58 PM
0

The first step is renouncing the drug, the second is to actively confront the disordered thinking. My comment was matter-of-fact, and something he doesn't need to be coddled through; it needs to be addressed.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 03:42 PM
5

You really haven't dropped much of the redpiller "logic"....
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 10:06 AM
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Exactly. The majority has become silent in favour of "not shaming" the outliers. We respect you, but kindly respect that it's atypical, and not something every women or girl needs to aspire to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/22 06:01 AM
2

No. Women aren't leaving if you are a valuable partner (overall) to her, emotionally, mentally, safety, stability, etc, etc.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 11:23 PM
2

There you go. It's similar like that for most people..... People also value you for more than "just looks" or income. Believe it, or not.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 11:15 PM
1

On that, we agree.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 05:53 PM
7

I think it's just a bunch of humans with issues, who decide to frame the world with "rules" and "secret codes" (via these gag-worthy "pill" theories), rather than pick-up an actual self-help book and become introspective. The common theme, seems to be a lack of accountability, and a tendency to put everything bad on someone or something else... Some system or force outside themselves. There seems to be a lack of integrity also, as ALL pills talk about is presenting yourself one way or the other,…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 01:58 PM
1

You missed the point. THIS person has already decided what's right for HER. There are no flags, just a bunch of writing on the wall for you to read.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 01:27 PM
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This is your answer -- you are projecting your values onto women. Flip the question.... If you were with a girl and someone more attractive came along, would you just trade-up?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 06:20 AM
4

The reluctance to have sex after 2 weeks and the reluctance to call it a relationship. A red-flag of what, exactly? That you won't get what you want? Sure, that's a mismatch at times, but hardly "a red-flag". She doesn't want a relationship or sex, so I'm sure she doesn't give a fuck what she's "flagging"; she probably needs to be with someone who values her honesty and directness.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 12:11 AM
1

You said it -- you are not in a relationship. If you want to write someone off because they're exhibiting normal dating behavior of freedom, then please do.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 12:08 AM
1

The truth is, even with chemistry and compatibility, these will die without effort, over time. Marriage is a commitment to work together, constantly, and forever. Arranged marriages have less divorce because people enter into them eyes-wide-open to this fact; love marriages have higher divorce rates because people don't think they should have to work at anything, as Disney and porn have told them that there is a magical "perfect" match out there for them.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 04:29 AM
6

There's actually very little beyond physical traits and conditioning, which make us different.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 05:11 PM
8

It's just a matter of seeing women as equal human beings.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 07:41 AM
2

so the issue is...? Entitlement?
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 06:26 AM
1

I definitely think you should do it.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 10:35 PM
2

You need to just learn about women as they are..... Come As You Are - by Emily Nagoski
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 05:13 PM
2

To some people, the idea for them is gross. So?
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 05:06 PM
3

No one is "shaming" by saying it's "not for them". Go to any relationship sub where people "shame" monogamy all the time.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 04:10 PM
8

You should find a partner who values "provide and maintain", because not all do, and it sounds like you'd feel entitled just for earning money to feed and house yourself.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 03:48 AM
15

Your single problem is this: you don't see women as individuals, just "types".
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 02:34 PM
7

But you don't know why "rape is so stigmatised"? No, you do not see women as people.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 08:08 AM
8

So? Are you looking to procreate forever (and support all those offspring)? Women have more worth than making babies or servicing cock. If you don't think so, you are likely either a sociopath or psychopath by definition. Looking at your rape post, I'd say I'm bang-on.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:53 AM
5

Well it's settled; he definitely doesn't see women as people.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:49 AM
7

Say it with me: Evolution. Gave. You. A. Frontal. Lobe.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:20 AM
7

No. Your animal instincts also include murder, but evolution gave us a frontal lobe, which distinguishes us from monkeys (and gives us the capability to override "animal instincts" with long-term reasoning and consequences).
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:13 AM
6

It's contradictory to be worried about fErTiLiTy unless you intend to settle down and raise a family (basically, the opposite of hookup culture).
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:12 AM
7

But don't you see? They don't care, and that is the foundation of red-pillers; they see women as lesser.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:10 AM
7

Oh, so you are looking to impregnate each woman you fuck? Get out of here with this half-thought. This only applies back when people died around 30, and before evolution made our frontal lobes grow, to see long-term consequences and decisions.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:09 AM
1

I can make a statement with zero justification, and you don't have to like it or agree. I don't have a "job" to justify anything to you. Are you part of the Joe Rogan fanclub or something? "Throwing hate around...." LMAO.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 05:38 PM
2

How is he not?
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 02:27 AM
3

Too many people arguing here (about this), seem to lack the very basic understanding that women have any foundational rights to be threatened at all.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:20 PM
3

You could only have this opinion if you are not a member of the marganilised group being targeted. As a woman, I can tell you that spreading this rhetoric does absolutely infringe on our rights to safety among the masses, and at home with our partners (who suddenly believe we are property).
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:18 PM
1

They need intense therapy.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:15 PM
3

You're a very lost boy.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:14 PM
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Hate speech isn't protected speech as it causes harm to marganilised groups. I'm not debating this.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:12 PM
3

Yes. And it's real, but can often be written-off as a threat or manipulation tactic. Believe me, abandonment (even the slightest hint of it in a moment), feels just like your limbs are being ripped from your body. 💔 Death can feel like a logical solution to ending the very real pain.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 10:15 AM
6

Exactly. If he's not in jail, he's still FREE.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 10:10 AM
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So easy to say when it isn't your demographic being targeted, and left feeling unsafe among this rhetoric.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 10:09 AM
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And "freedom of speech" only exists in America. Most of the rest of the developed world has adopted laws around the UN's international laws against hate speech. As per ALL laws in existence; your freedom ends when it infringes on the rights or freedoms of others. But as another commenter said, this doesn't even apply here, as private companies can make any rules they wish, to allow you to partake in their product or service.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 10:07 AM
2

I actually argue in most cases, if someone can be treated but doesn't seek the help (medication, therapy), then compassion ends where your self-preservation begins . ✌️
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 09:58 AM
1

Hate speech is not just "disagreeing". As per ALL laws: Your freedoms end when they infringe on the freedoms and rights of others. I personally would love to murder people, but alas my freedom to do so would be at the cost of the freedoms of others. Again, seek help. Your ability to reason and think clearly, are greatly suffering....
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 09:19 AM
1

Seek help. You have more than pilled-logik to contend with it seems, as you can't seem to even have a linear discussion. You think “game” is based on lying to women? It is. Tell me how it is NOT? And using your logic of action and victim… Wouldn’t people you destroy be victims of your actions? You poor, mislead thing... This is illogic, not logic. Let's use your illogic: Mass murderer (serial killer) is thrown in jail. "Poor guy... We destroyed his life!" 🙄 No. This is called consequences and it…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 09:05 AM
1

If you believe someone is hurting others, why not engage with love, logic, education, positive energy? Why just try to destroy anything that isn’t like you? Hurting others and spreading hateful rhetoric while encouraging lying and manipulation, is not something anyone deserves compassion for. But there is that entitlement again, the very foundation of all pilled-rhetoric. It's not that it isn't "like" me, it is that it threating behaviour TOWARDS me (and my kind). -- learn the difference. Ok, so…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 08:52 AM
1

They share many ideologies. And if you don't think "gaming" is also damaging to women, you need to check yourself. In what other circumstance of life, would it be acceptable to lie to other people to get what you want? It's an action with a victim, as you are stealing another person's autonomy and choice. The only way you could minimize this as harmful, is for you to see women as less than people.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:56 AM
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I just want to say that BPD is highly treatable and is often a reaction to severe childhood trauma. Compassion, over calling them "shitty" for it, would be preferred ✌️.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:52 AM
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....a society which abandoned them. They abandoned themselves when they bought the toxic-male conditioning all the way back on the playground. A world which told them they could have anything they wanted, if they were real "men" (liars, manipulators, users and abusers of women). This same world also told them their biggest worth was how much money they could earn. And all we have left are outliers to those toxic-conditionings, ones that were likely created by those who easily "win" at playing th…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:46 AM
3

It's not about any pill. You sound like you have a fearful-avoidant attachment style. Pillers become pillers as a coping mechanism to dysfunction (whatever it may be), in the face of resentment which can only take place when there is underlying entitlement. I am married to a man with attachment issues, which has led to his own intimacy avoidance (which sometimes looks like sabotage), and is actually a response to feeling hurt or vulnerable. But he never swallowed any "pills"... The closest has b…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:36 AM
0

It's not an opinion. Listen muffin, where I come from, hate speech is not protected under the law.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 07:18 AM
0

Being taken off a private platform is hardly damaging, compared to the way redpillers are towards women.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 06:00 AM
2

I guess it's hard to understand when you aren't the ones paying the price for these views being spread.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 05:04 AM
2

Read: 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' by Dr. Robert A. Glover
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 09:01 PM
1

It's normal in our animalistic, "monkey-brain"... Yes. You are correct. However, the frontal lobe (which is the distinguishing factor in your brain over that of a monkey, and which caused us to become an evolved, civilized society) overrides the ancient animalistic urges. The frontal lobe enables you to think of long-term goals and consequences, for yourself, your community and society overall. This is no different than the urge to kill when angry; this is a very natural part of the human mind (…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 08:49 PM
5

Lol. They aren't public companies though, so you'd be mislead if you think it's a "public square".
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 08:59 PM
8

Exactly. It's not that the world would be better if men were like women, it would be better if men removed the toxic-male conditioning they are all subjected to.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:30 PM
1

Every redpiller playing "nice" to bed a woman, is actually being abusive from onset.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 10:10 PM
1

And the fact that you said this, means that you are being very one-sided about abuse.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 09:51 PM
1

You think "hitting" is the only form of abuse?
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 09:50 PM
8

Lololol The same reason you don't hold your male friends accountable for being abusive to women.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 03:19 PM
1

Nothing you've mentioned makes anyone objectively "better", or worth more fundementally, when it comes to equality. This is the basis of the OPs post; if we are asked to see eachother as equals (and disregard our differences), then why are gender stereotypes mentioned in the dating or relationship sphere. Now follow me here... My comments are speaking to the fact that the OPs presented statement is flawed, when it comes to the idea that equality is about "disregarding differences". Is that more …
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 09:45 PM
1

That's not at all what I meant.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 09:17 PM
1

Let's try again, answering direct questions doesn't seem to be your strong suit. What were you implying? The audacity of you to think that simply because you ask a question, that you deserve an answer. You don't have that authority or control over me, sorry. That men are the "boss", and women are the "employees" in this hypothetical scenario? Did I say that? No. I didn't. I said that just because one person has leadership in a situation, doesn't make the other unequal. To be clear for you: the g…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 07:13 PM
1

It doesn't matter what I think those differences are, at all. Whatever they are, equity doesn't require them to be ignored. I'm not going to be baited by you into an argument about my beliefs which are irrelevant to the greater point of equality for all humans.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 07:09 PM
1

What is it that you think?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 06:35 AM
1

Any you can imagine. What they are is irrelevant, ultimately.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 06:34 AM
1

Nope. Have you seen this meme before? Think about a workplace. Your boss is the leader, but they shouldn't receive more fundemental rights as an employee, over you.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 01:05 AM
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You aren't supposed to disregard our differences; just ditch those ideas that lead to inquality. Equality does not mean "same".
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 05:56 AM
1

Omg. So much, yes.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 02:58 AM
3

BINGO. The frontal lobe is the proof of them being "wired" this way.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 02:16 AM
4

Are you daft?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 07:38 AM
3

The foundations of Islam are not wrong, but the modern-day application... could use some work....✌️
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 07:36 AM
5

☝️👑
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 07:34 AM
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My disgust comes only from the pure mess, drama and chaos that it creates... I get an overwhelming sense of instability....
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 06:47 PM
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The red-pilled logic about "spreading your seed", only applies to us as cavemen, when our frontal lobes were not yet fully formed. It also crumbles the foundation of modernized, evolutionary society; who will look after all these children, which this "spread seed" creates? We already know that statistically, single-parent kids are more likely to get into trouble, live in poverty or commit crimes.... What kind of society are these people envisioning? Because it sounds like they just want to go ba…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 06:27 PM
0

I'm not interested in engaging further, sorry.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 08:20 AM
0

Women don't pair up for the sake of having a partner? Then why do they? There are many women out there still looking to have a partner and pair up, even if they're fine on their own because many people want romance in their lives Your reading comprehension led you astray... I said "simply" for the sake of having a partner. We may want a partner, but that doesn't equal desperation. In fact, you lot love to say how unfair it is that we have sooooo many prospects -- so why would we settle? I am cur…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 08:16 AM
0

I honestly think this is a social change that's happening where men will become dumber and women will become smarter, and I'm excited for it because it may pressure women into pairing up with dumb guys like me. How do you figure? If women get "smarter", we'll probably just figure out a way to keep the "dumber men" in a basement, hooked to a feeding tube, VR machine and sperm collector, and run the world ourselves. We don't "pair up with men" simply for the sake of having a partner. Many women ar…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 08:27 PM
2

You bombed -- get over it.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:33 PM
2

"humourous pushback" or "agreeing the whole time"....which is it?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:32 PM
2

Yes. If you are unattractive and expect to be accepted, then you must be willing to accept others who are also unattractive. Anything less, makes you an entitled hypocrite. It's not about "people like me"; it's just plain congruence of logic.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:16 PM
4

It's only detrimental to those who think like your comment, or that your comment is "funny".
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:51 AM
13

Well you seem to know women so well, for not being able to get one... Even BETTER than women seem to know themselves.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:08 AM
8

Ah shit. Well we all seem to have assumed it, after you decided to interject. My comments stand, based on original post and your original comment, back.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 12:11 AM
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You did. If you won't date those women that not every man is after, and not every woman is after you and you're whining about it... Then that is what you are saying.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 11:42 PM
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If you are indignant about being judged for things like your looks, or having to compete in this regard... Doesn't that mean you are the "uglier" dude in these situations? So let me get this straight... You want "hot women" to lower their expectations and standards to date you, but you won't lower your expectations or standards to date a woman rejected by the "hot guys"? Wow. So... Hot women must date ugly dudes, and ugly women must be alone and rejected, just so we can all coddle the feelings o…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 10:47 PM
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You don't think this works the other way around? 1 hot guy walks in and 5 girls fawn over him, competing for attention... He's going to choose whichever one he is most attracted to, for whatever reason. Try talking to the underdog woman in the corner who's being ignored, the same as your underdog self.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 10:20 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 07:24 AM
2

Those notions are based on a fallacy. Keep believing to never be receiving.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 10:20 PM
1

It seems no one agrees with you.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 10:18 PM
1

If women aren't looking back that isn't upon them. They don't know you... They don't look back for their own multitude of reasons. Just keep refocusing on you and keeping your feelers out; if you focus on odds, you're far more likely to succeed after umpteen failures, than never trying at all. ✌️ (It's about sharpening your game.)
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 09:06 AM
0

Stop mimicking. You're done here.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 06:32 AM
1

That's fine, but then you have to allow her to be just as honest, back; she may honestly tell you that she doesn't like you that way, if that is the case. Flirting comes in stages (no, don't touch them casually as a primary stage of flirting). First you must engage in gazing... Look at them from afar and show interest by holding your gaze breifly and then looking away like you are preoccupied... If she's interested, you'll know when you look back a moment or two later and she's also engaging in …
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 06:27 AM
5

I told him that if I did anything flirtatious I could land up in jail If you think this, you don't know what flirting is.... and if I tried harder then I would lose my dignity Then that is your choice, and speaks to not having confidence in yourself, giving too much weight to one rejection.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 08:27 PM
2

Confidence in yourself can be read by others.... If you get anxiety in "making a move", is likely reflected. It's about being flirty beyond making moves, and learning to read body language. Then there's also the confidence to face rejection. All of these things improve your odds.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 08:03 PM
2

Build confidence; this takes working on a relationship with yourself, first.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:52 PM
1

You are mansplaining the experience of being a woman, by trying to deduce our experiences to merely the logic of a statistic, regardless of what we are saying, otherwise. Having to raise a child in this world alone, can be much worse a consequence than death, for many women. But you can't possibly ever understand that, so you'd be best to listen to those who actually do weigh those risks and are telling you exactly why.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:50 PM
1

Stop trying to mansplain being a woman, to women. If you only want to write off what most women are saying here, about themselves, then you aren't debating in good-faith, and you won't ever find the answers you are looking for.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:48 PM
3

Okay, please mansplain to me more, how women feel about their risks.... Yes there are exceptions to everything, but we as women can never forget our risks, and understand or not, it does factor into the larger statistic, as to why men don't have women falling at their feet usually.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:18 PM
3

Oh geez. You've CONVINCED me. The math can't lie. I should roll the dice and spread my legs for the greater good of men and their feelings!
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:44 PM
1

I'd say, a lot of people don't scroll through secondary comments on comments.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:42 PM
2

Well, healthy love relationships, do require love. That is the subject matter at hand here.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:57 PM
2

Maybe get out in the real world then, where women prefer to meet men, overall. And don't get out with the intent to prey on women either, because that comes off as creepy and predatory.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:54 PM
5

Women can get pregnant only makes sense, if no form of contraception is involved Only a man could say something so daft. My son is the result after 2 forms of contraception failed. Let's not even start about the practice of "stealthing" that women also deal with, but no contraception is fullproof, nor does taking one override our biological need to pair bond for both safety and security.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:51 PM
3

Everything. You won't fall in love, if someone is just a mathematical score or unit to you.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:41 PM
2

women never want men as much as men want them Oh, I see your problem. You had a problem with reading comprehension here because I said, "Men want ANY woman, more than women want ANY man." That word "ANY" that you skipped over changes the meaning of my words entirely.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:39 PM
2

women don't feel emotions or love like men do Nope. Sorry. That was NEVER said by me. I never spoke about emotions. I will not debate with someone who creates paper-tigers to be torn down, instead of addressing what I've actually said.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:37 PM
3

You read it wrong. I suggest you go back on the whole thread, for full context. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:35 PM
2

I appreciate your take and how it doesn't come off as inflammatory. ✌️ With that said, I do want to let you know that women don't wake up looking attractive either, but MORE of us are socially conditioned to put in the effort to do so, then men. Everyone (male or female), can put in effort to be as attractive as possible. The difference in what I'd attract on dating apps or Omegle when I don't try, vs when I do, would be stark. Women put in a LOT of effort, time and money to get to the point of …
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:29 PM
2

I thought we were all aware that this debate requires a certain amount of generalising (especially when debating against generalised assumptions or statements themselves), and that it was a base understanding for all involved, that of course there are always exceptions to the rule.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:16 PM
1

Successful relationships never contain scores, ratings, or the word "fair". It is supposed to be a symbiotic give and take of acceptance and support.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:12 PM
5

how are men supposed to hear that and not feel shitty? Easy. How are you able to deal with the fact that you can't have a child? This is related to that very fact. Face reality and deal with what you can, and let women worry about what they alone are often left to deal with. It is just a simple fact, that due to our relative size, as well as our risk of pregnancy and responsibility for the resulting offspring (while assuming further risk of being abandoned), that we will never have the same prio…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:04 PM
8

I am a woman. every deviation from the perfect ideal male (both lookswise and personality wise) make the man lose points, loose value aka making him inferior to the better male This is projection. It is redpillers and incels I see "rating" people on a scale, when it comes to looks. Your "logic" is incongruent: Women shouldn't judge men against eachother, but men shouldn't lower their standards (there by judging women against eachother). And here's a question... If a woman shouldn't judge a man's…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:58 PM
5

I don't think you belong on this sub, as you aren't debating in good faith... Just the same old tired arguments, with no consideration to what women themselves are telling you. THIS is why nothing will ever change for those who are committed to proving they are right. Just go defeat yourself in a corner and leave us alone. THIS is why we aren't interested in fucking you.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:48 PM
9

The upvotes seem to show you have a cognitive dellusion. No one said it was "men's fault". But I did say (more or less).... Stop being so fucking entitled and do something about it if you don't like it. You can't make women value sex the way a redpiller does, no matter how hard any of them try to spin it.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:42 PM
30

...here's another way of putting it.... Because you all only value sex and throw yourselves at the same upper echelon of hot women, you create a market where women have more men coming at them for something that they don't want, then what they need. If you want to fix the system, then you can start by valuing something in a woman other than sex. Then your standards will become just as high, and you might attract more women to you, turning the market around.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:13 AM
13

Men want any woman more than women want ANY man. That's it. Period. You can't agree with my point and then discount it for no good reason (just an assumption), in the next breath.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:11 AM
0

This place is for people ex-pilled, not those who wish to indoctrinate others into their defeatist cult.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:05 AM
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It's very, very simple, and a perspective you are missing which would make the whole pondering moot.... Women can get pregnant, have to leave the workforce and generally put a higher risk at giving away their sex. Especially now with abortion rights going backwards in the US, you can bet that risk has increased. THEN, there is the matter of physical safety with men; we are generally smaller and unable to overtake men when attacked physically, so we generally don't want to get naked and vulnerabl…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:01 AM
0

It takes believing that women aren't autonomous human beings, or that you are entitled to something without any self improvement. It breeds contempt and hate for others that is then reflected back on yourself... Which breeds anger, seething in entitlement. It's based on false premises, and is hurting those it indoctrinates, as well as those it feels contempt towards.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 10:51 AM
0

Black pillers are to women, what racists are to minorities. Period. You have provided no actual examples to this "so much more" that blackpillers are....
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 10:42 AM
8

I would argue, it takes "not seeing it as an equation", to actually fall in love. It is the application of equation (or measuring of others, while unwilling to be measured yourself). What I'm talking about, is being open to accept others as imperfect, to reflect the acceptance of as much within yourself. This is an attractive quality, which will bring others to you, which accept your imperfections as they wish you to accept their's.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 10:40 AM
27

Many people don't put ALL or even MOST importance, on looks. There are people who identify as demisexual. Then there are those who are self-aware enough to know that they are not perfect, and accept other's imperfections as they wish their's to be accepted. I personally find imperfections (or unconventional beauty), attractive. The problem with redpillers, is they REFUSE to believe this, because they put too much importance on looks themselves.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 10:34 AM
0

I have no sympathy, sorry. Everyone needs personal accountability, and plenty of people have died for these ideologies that are based on "getting sex" while devaluing women. No, I don't have sympathy for racists either, regardless of how "different" their views.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:30 AM
4

Entitled men, who would rather fuck themselves than give an ounce of respect to a woman.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:49 PM
10

It doesn't exist.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:48 PM
1

I understood it to be a proverbial "war".
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 04:23 PM
2

Men are emasculating themselves.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 09:04 AM
22

Most redpillers can barely stop fighting battles in video or computer games long enough to even fight off a raccoon, let alone a sabertooth tiger. Lol
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 07:39 AM
8

Maybe work on yourself and becoming interesting, rather than trying to "game" "girls".
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:03 PM
9

Fine. I fixed it. I respect this bot.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 07:29 AM
5

Some? Maybe a bit more than men that age? We tend to value things beyond carnal, more so. You generalize... So I do also. The point is, there is mostly grey in life. It's not a videogame with some code to solve. Focus inward. ✌️❣️
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 07:26 AM
1

It comes from an idea of supremacy, or the inferiority of others. Same as racism, sexism is based in ignorance of differences.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 08:36 AM
63

He likes to think he eMpOwErS men; If men need to be men on the backs of women, that's power that is stolen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/22 02:43 PM
110

This guy makes my fucking blood boil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/22 10:43 AM
1

No one should feel they settled or were settled for. Okay... But isn't OP expecting women to settle for him, by no effort of his own?
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:46 AM
1

Be careful with entitlement and lower YOUR expectations in a mate, and you might just have success (with someone equally as unattractive as you).
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:40 AM
1

Okay. Then they should probably give up. But please also leave us alone. We don't care that you've given up. Stop whining. It only makes you more of an outcast than you already think you are. What else do you want me to say? Are you so delluded that you think a woman will feel bad for you and fuck you?
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:39 AM
1

Because doing anything else other than whine with entitlement, would be a step towards being a better person. Being a better person, is what attracts people. Do you think all women wake up being attractive? Do you think we are born with all that paint and accessories on us? Serious. Just stop.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:34 AM
1

Not everyone's attractive and that's ok. Yeah. Physically... So they should date other people on their level. And... They should work on having an attractive personality and character, because being a bitter, whiny, entitled asshole, is not attractive in the least. Believe it or not, many women don't place all of their attraction on looks.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:30 AM
1

But just doing anything else won't result in success. Ah. You're wrong.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:27 AM
1

The only thing he should do about his lack of success, is stop whining and go do something, anything else.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:20 AM
1

Stop being entitled and jealous Start listening to women about women when they are telling you by-in-large who they are.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 10:15 AM
2

🤣
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 06:31 AM
2

Men. - Fin
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 06:13 AM
3

That's not an argument, that's an unsubstantiated statement.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 05:39 AM
2

You aren't reaching far enough into yourself, peanut.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:01 PM
1

True feminists (in the very purest form of its definition), acknowledge that equality doesn't mean "same". ✌️
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:59 PM
1

Then stop replying if you're so bored. There it is again... Expecting others to do what you want, with zero accountability for your own destiny. I'm not virgin shaming you, but you could probably do with some shame about the state of yourself and your outlook. .
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:56 PM
2

since women don't have to do any of that to get laid but rather get it for free, there should be a price. You sure about that? What's your monthly skincare, haircare, nailcare, and clothing budgets and routines look like? You think 400lb, pimply, cross-eyed Bertha has an endless supply of D?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:32 PM
1

🏆
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:23 PM
1

This guy isn't debating in good-faith.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:21 PM
2

A broken condom is exactly how I once ended up as a single mom. That's what you don't get, that we as women do. You will never intrinsically understand women, and yet you refuse to listen to what the majority here are telling you. Look, if you want to be dense, that's a choice. And your choices always lead to an outcome; perhaps being a virgin is that outcome for you. Like right now... How is this mindset helping you date or sleep with women? How is sitting here arguing with people on Reddit abo…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:18 PM
1

So then, work on making your life better. Jeezuz. Fuck off with this entitlement in life.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:14 PM
1

They have to be better people to get what they want though.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:13 PM
1

men get insulted for being virgins but also no sex. Honestly dude.... What are you doing to attract women to want to sleep with you? It's as if real estate could talk, and the dilapidated shack is whining that no one will live in it (while ignoring the market research)... 🙄
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:11 PM
2

It's a prize for men who don't put in any effort.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:04 PM
2

You just contradicted yourself. Life isn't fair... So it should be made "fair" in paying a price? Sit down, boi. Life isn't fair, because you need personal accountability and effort in order to achieve, receive or earn what you desire. Suck it up, buttercup.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:59 PM
1

Keep pointing it out... Every time I point this out I get so much denial even in this sub. This is part of the experience women have every single day of our lives... And feeling this way means you are probably standing in solidarity with us. ❣️
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:55 PM
2

The problem with this guy is he won't listen to what women say about themselves. Ever. He has it alllll figured out and only seeks validation from other guys who have just as little success as he does. A waste of energy to talk to, debate with, let alone consider for mating.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:31 AM
3

I would date a single mother but I dont want to raise her child or provide for the child. Sick.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:27 AM
3

Okay, pissant.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:32 PM
4

Good luck getting laid, you'll need it.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:31 PM
4

"Tons of women" enjoy casual sex, sure... But not with angry, bitter losers.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:25 PM
6

No, because we want commitment, due to the fact that we are the ones who get pregnant, and need a quality person who will stick around. Every random sexual act is a risk to our future and the future DNA of our species. YOU men are just trying to shoot your shot into anyone who will take it, in the hopes your DNA is selected. That's just nature. We don't give a fuck about your sperm, we want your commitment, love and loyalty, because we are the makers of families.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:23 PM
5

Just specifically the slut shaming is not that big of a deal given that you get to have as much sex as you want. Women generally seek relationships, not just sex. Girls can be slut shamed for believing a guy who lies to her, thinking she's giving herself to him in a commited way... Then she's found herself used up and discarded, then mislabeled, because sex is not her goal, just an expression of love or connection between her and someone she desires. Also, it's the double-standard that women can…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:19 PM
1

Women don't value sex primarily 🙄
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:08 PM
11

Fuck right off with this. You lack entire understanding and insight into women, our motivations and desires. Not to mention our complete lack of safety in this world, among men who degrade and objectify us, and commit the majority of violent crimes against us. You will never understand, and let's face it... No matter what anyone says to you, you'll never believe it. You are needlessly entitled, because you sound like a shitty person; what exactly about you, is desirable enough to warrant any per…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:05 PM
3

He has to want it. You can't make it happen.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 01:21 PM
6

Please don't ever try and change a man. You are worth more than this.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:54 AM
26

You don't need to find someone into your hobbies -- they can still be yours in your own time. You don't have to share her hobbies, either. All you have to do is make space in your life to explore and do new things, together. Being in a relationship is about expanding and growing ourselves, not finding someone to sit by us as we carry on doing what we usually do, alone.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 03:22 PM
31

All you need to do, is focus on seeing woman as equal human beings, and life as having more meaning than sex.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 03:13 AM
392

Ah cucking. He's likely picked this up from being an excessive porn-watcher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 02:31 AM
28

Uhm.... No. He's a thief... Those aren't wildflowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 03:58 PM
1

Putting your head in the sand won't change the reality; this is becoming commonplace kink, as porn and everything in it is also becoming commonplace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:34 PM
57

I LOVE looking like a unhygenic, sad sack, trashy, depressed doomer Go find you an unhygienic, sad sack woman.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 02:02 PM
46

....if walking were pointless, then this would fit even better. I'd rather stay and teach a man to walk and get somewhere (literally), than watch him sit in one place like a fucking toddler I'm babysitting until his parents come home.... Even then, at least I'd get paid at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:39 PM
26

Being simple is not the issue; stating this, is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 10:53 AM
773

What they mean by this is: "Simple -- just do whatever makes me happy" "Simple -- I don't worry about anything that is outside of the very basic things I like." "Simple -- I don't worry about anything deep or complex, especially you and your feelings." "Simple -- keep me fed, fucked and undisturbed with anything contrary." Etc, etc. On another note, I've always found the statement that he is a "meat and potatoes kind of guy", to be just as much of a red-flag for similar reasons... This means he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:53 AM
6

Spend your energy on you, being the best you. Don't spend your energy on worrying "who has it easier". What does that add to your life, other than wasting time, while not working on yourself becoming a partner who attracts what they deserve?
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 04:25 PM
12

If someone has an easy life, that neat for them. Resenting them for it will hurt you. Right? All I can think reading this, is what a waste of fucking time and energy.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 01:13 AM
2

You took a cop-out, instead of dealing with your issues with a therapist or self reflection and accountability.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/22 02:15 AM
19

This is a case of the ends justifying the means, but being applied very poorly. The risk of becoming a danger to women along the way in RedPill, is far too great to see any value-added, beyond yourself.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/22 04:28 PM
58

Instead of developing a deep-seated enemy in women, I worked on my ability to spot the intense "red flags" (of both men and women) before they caused major damage in my current and future relationships. You can read many books about narcissists and gain just as much, without the toxic, misogynistic rhetoric to dodge. Using RedPill to spot a shitty human, is like using a blowtorch to shave -- it might work, but there are much better methods.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/22 03:15 PM
81

I would never hit on a strange guy, attractive or not. I like to get to know people, as personality and character are what attract me to someone romantically. I also would never go on a dating app, as I would prefer to have a natural connection and attraction to a person. Lastly, I've almost never had to hit on anyone in my life, as I've always seemed to have options in men who pursue me, so it hasn't been a necessity. But again, the most attractive male suitor to me, is one with a great intelle…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 03:47 PM
52

Oh, indeed. But isn't it shitty what the US is threatening women with ultimately, to stay in abusive or traumatic situations, by removing access to this option? Even just the stigma surrounding this option.... Ugh. This world is shit for women and I'm tired. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:03 PM
32

She should get out now and let him pay his alimony and child support by "working all day", and she can do (or not do) whatever she wants with her time, and he can do his part during his visitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:53 PM
73

They are aware, but they think that they have more intrinsic value than women, so looks don't matter for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:37 AM
1

I am active there, and I see plenty of people encouraging women to set boundaries, pointing out when multiple chances have been given and multiple promises have been broken; as well as many who have left their partners or encourage others when it's time to leave or not worth the effort. I also see posts and comments like the ones you describe (and sometimes roll my eyes), but for context, it is a support group, and some people do recover. ,✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:45 PM
1

I agree... But it's 91% of them (give or take). So sad what men have done to themselves, and by proxy, our future society. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:31 PM
52

This is a common tactic to turn shame into pleasure. It's the same phenomenon behind cucked men and women, or even people who like bdsm as a way of dealing with past abuse. They read the posts here and feel shame, and know they can never live up to being the opposite of what they are, so instead they start to get off on it, in an attempt to take back "control". The amount of men in various subreddits getting off on being a "pussy-free pornosexual" says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:14 PM
138

His wife found the account and blocked you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:09 PM
24

He should probably quit porn and talk to her about what she needs to feel desire and in the mood. It sounds like a chore for her to just fuck on demand, because he hasn't bothered to do anything to get her in the mood besides try and demand a higher frequency of service. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:32 PM
14

You're not married; you should be vetting partners and working on yourself. You do not need to work on anyone else.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 05:43 PM
10

THIS! 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:03 PM
4

It could help us get with and appease a dysfunctional man. What a prize 🙃
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 12:40 AM
5

No. This is a patriarchy, men have enough consideration from us. The redpill is born out of women finally starting to reject them.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 12:39 AM
10

if a woman is telling you what she likes and she’s responding well to it, why would you call her a liar? Because what she wants takes work, and usually ends with the goal of a relationship. It's easier for them to call us liars.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 10:36 PM
31

👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:31 AM
497

Imagine if we agreed and then demanded the same in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:28 AM
3

Why do I have start conversations with woman, or men for that matter, especially when they never did for me? This is exactly what entitlement is. So a random girl on the street owes you a conversation, because all the women you saw before her, didn't give you one? Look, no one cares if you are not approaching or trying to connect with anyone. Be alone -- that's your choice.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 02:26 PM
0

I'm picky, but in a way where I screen people over there personality, and if I would want this person as a friend or a lover. I don't believe in swiping on everybody, because I could match with someone who I don't get along with, or vice versa. And that is what women are doing also. Why are you allowed to be discerning, but women are just "playing games" if they are also discerning? Never had a woman my age past high school start conversations with me. Even in hair salons woman cutting my hair r…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 02:15 PM
0

Online dating apps should be the solution, but because I'm ugly, and women are picky. Never got a connection before. Are you swiping right on the "ugly" girls, or just being "picky"? I'm supposed to go around chasing people like a dog? No. However.... What do you want instead? Do you want women to "chase" you? Do you want women to just "give" you what you think you are entitled to (without any effort)? You aren't supposed to be chasing anyone. Just making connections, flirting, and reading signa…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 01:26 PM
4

I think women don't have this phase of freaking out that we aren't enough because we never do think we are enough and then discover we aren't later. I'm not sure what the dynamics are with this. Patriarchy. I'm not here to blame men for the patriarchy they are born under (without any choice, as much as women), but it is the reason for what you describe. The world seems like a place where anything is possible for men, and it caters to them in so many ways in society, that it is a bit of an identi…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 03:13 PM
9

You are so illogically wrong. Follow along, and maybe you can be enlightened? I'll try again... "Meet someone equivalent..." = If you want a girl that is fit enough to have to go to the gym to work on it, then why shouldn't she want the same? Why would a human being put time and effort into their appearance, if you don't? Do you have to go to the gym to find a woman? No. You can get a woman just as lazy and comfortable as you are. If you don't have aspirations to be a financial success, that's a…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 03:07 PM
7

How so?
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 06:20 AM
24

We want men, not boys. Just have your shit together like a grown human, and you'll attract someone of equivalent worth (in all areas). If you are not willing to accept what you attract, then you need to become the equivalent of what you wish to attract. No one wants any other person, who isn't at their level.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 03:58 AM
3

I'm happy we overcame the Reddit discord. We win tonight, friend. 🍸
/r/ExRedPill05/12/21 07:21 AM
1

Cancel culture didn't exist back-then. Sorry It could be said in many philosophical ways (most recently in "The Secret"); it holds. 😶
/r/ExRedPill05/12/21 07:15 AM
7

"Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right." - Henry Ford
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:25 PM
9

Unless you live on a ranch only accessible by horse and wagon, there are always people to meet. Even online, you can build a connection deeper than sexting, if you frequent communities that suit your hobbies or interests.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:16 PM
24

People were mating long before pubs and clubs and online dating apps. You sound conflicted between hooking up and "having children", since you say you'll resort to escorts. If you want more than sex, you will need to focus on actually connecting with people, where attraction and relationships grow. "Too expensive" makes it sound like you expect to take a girl out and then immediately get paid off in sex. Children are born from relationships, and those grow over time, and with effort and connecti…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:12 PM
59

Holy fuck. This sounds like my life. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:36 PM
92

they’ll have to ask, ask (like a child) their husband to do something to help her out, and he either complains (like a child), huffs (like a child), or half-asses it (like a manipulative incompetent child). Then, when they finally go to bed together, he pokes her in the back with his hard peepee and wonders why she doesn’t find that, or him, sexy!! This sounds like the bulk of my marriage. We are turning it around, but man did that trigger me. It probably would've gone on forever if I hadn't fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:34 PM
63

I'm convinced that his hygiene, porn use, pornified bedroom habits, are all contributing factors to a dead-bedroom epidemic. "Men" have no idea how to actually turn a woman on to even want sex, anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:30 PM
35

I've infiltrated these groups myself, and others much worse; I have a whole collection of screenshots. It's beyond sad or of "an opinion"... We are not safe, and less so each day. ✌️💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:47 AM
145

The world is no longer safe (was it ever?) for women. It is becoming increasingly unsafe, and what's absolute worst about this particular time in our long history of living in patriarchy, is that we are being lured into a guise of safety, in "freedoms"... Sexual freedoms, mostly. But who is free, in playing to the male gaze, desire, and competing with eachother (and porn)? Eating disorders are rooted in women competing with their inner-self (or others), to fit a perceived ideal. But who created …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:04 AM
14

YUS. 💍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:59 AM
95

Women ask men to grow up and be men (move on to the next stages of life), and it's "stealing his joy". It's so dysfunctional, it's not even funny. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:09 AM
86

Little bois who refuse to grow up. Imagine if you watched Jem And The Holograms and played with Barbies all day? Or if your bedroom was posters of My Little Pony? Real attractive. That's not what they want though, because irl they need a cooking, cleaning mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:53 AM
87

I just say no to gamers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:51 AM
2

Be smart, but not too smart. Have children, but don't gain weight. Don't sleep with too many partners, but be a pornstar in bed. Don't nag or have too many needs. Make yourself approachable to strangers, and put aside your need for safety, to appease his feelings. Dress sexy, be confident, even though you are constantly bombarded with media that tells you 100 times (at least) a day, that you are never going to be good enough. Give in to sex-on-demand with your partner, but accept rejection when …
/r/ExRedPill10/11/21 12:23 AM
10

THIS. It's not unlike only applying for jobs you think you have a shot at.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 03:12 PM
8

No one is a "nice" or "good" guy. No one. We are all imperfect humans and the goal is to be a man of integrity. A man who says what he wants, thinks, but always considers others (especially those he is indebted to care for and protect).
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 06:20 AM
13

Not intentionally, no. However, I am not responsible for a man taking my intentions the wrong way.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 06:06 AM
5

Enjoyed? Uhm. If they approached me then I wasn't seeking out anything. My response is a direct reflection of my desires, upon being asked to consider someone.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 06:03 AM
6

Give me a fucking break. You realise this illogical nonsense doesn't work on people with average intelligence? He is knowingly having sex with multiple partners, without protection, and hiding his STD past. Get out of here with your false-advocacy.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 07:42 PM
8

What the fuck are you talking about? How does a shitty STD-carrying, whore-of-a-man, prove anything about women's desires? All this says is that this dude is dishonest. You assume all women he sleeps with KNOW he's infected or sleeping around, and neglect to factor in that he could lie it all away to get laid under flase-pretenses. On top of that, the original poster stated "it's a secret"... So clearly this reflects nothing more than another anecdote, of a shitty person.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 05:41 PM
1

You become more accepting of flaws in potential partners, as they would most likely accept yours. It's called tempering your expectations.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 07:53 AM
16

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:51 PM
15

I don't want to hear their marriage life too. See, this is an issue. If you don't respect where they are in life, how can you expect them to respect where you are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:51 PM
18

I'm not sure we can make assumptions that this always happens by "force" of a LVM. I was pregnant young, well before most of my peers, and I could no longer be friends with most people I knew before. The reason? They didn't respect my new life and priorities. So I made new friends or spent time with my little family, where I only had him for a short time anyway (18 years goes by in a blink). I'm now in my early 40s, an empty nester, and have regained the social aspect of myself that sometimes co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:48 PM
32

It's just a primer for later; watching him watch other people fuck in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:58 AM
9

Maybe it's hard for men to believe since they aren't on the receiving end, but women see the looks from all men, hear the comments, and receive the advances. Believe us.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 02:32 PM
3

To be clear, I personally am referring to TRP-type-man, or one who sees nothing wrong with being fully grown and seeking out children who happen to be legal. The fact is that the part of the brain used for reasoning is simply not developed, and the girl who just graduated highschool is also very naive. I'd say the same if women sought out 18 year old boys and called it "natural" also.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 02:29 PM
4

they easily could understand but they don’t want to because it doesn’t serve their goal. Aka: cognitive dissonance This is a true sign of a feeble-minded person.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:18 AM
7

Well, we aren't human... So, it makes sense to them.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:16 AM
10

Do men really not realize how repulsive this mentality is? Women that age are not fully developed mentally, you are taking advantage. Simply put, no. No they do not. Why not? Because if she's developed physically, he can't grasp what her mental development has to do with the equation. Why not? Because it doesn't matter to him, or more specifically, to the end goal of getting his dick laid by a girl naive enough to be groomed into a sexdoll, competing with his porn.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:13 AM
7

Exactly. Such base logic.... She's a fucking child who knows nothing of life yet, and this is nothing more than a creepy opportunist, taking advantage. It's not far off from fucking a mentally handicapped person.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:03 AM
17

I have been hit on by creepy old men (late 20s to 80s) since I was 12 years old. Youth is prized because of naivety and the ability to manipulate and take advantage of those underdeveloped brains.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:01 AM
175

Any sex abuse survivor will tell you (especially those of incest), that their abuser didn't look or seem like a monster to the rest of the world. Does this women think he should seem more like a pedo on the surface? JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:06 AM
2

Are you a woman?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 05:25 AM
8

Answer: power in patriarchy makes it a feat of cognitive dissonance to accept (women's) the truth.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 03:20 AM
1

Flagged for "violent content" by Reddit. That's rich, considering all the implied violence on the porn they host. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:08 AM
46

"Oh, I'm good. I do that all the time and like to do it alone."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:11 AM
13

As women, we don't need a source -- we've all experienced this bullshit first-hand. Do you think we need to prove something to all the men who are going to deny this? Fuck that, and fuck right off with it. Your opinion and validation are not needed, nor valued at all in this matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:14 PM
1

Arguments won by twisting are a lot like street fights won by biting. No. Looks don't matter when you temper your expectations to mirror that of which you wish to attract. It's very simple -- apply your own logic towards women in reverse, and work backwards from there. Now I'm done with this; you are not engaging in open discourse.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 08:10 AM
1

Not everyone gets the same silver-spoon. You need to learn to be self aware enough to be content with what you attract. Look deeper if you expect others to do the same with you.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 07:53 AM
1

That's not what I said at all, but nice try.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 05:47 AM
1

Basic grooming is necessary, conformity is not.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 05:45 AM
0

It's not all about looks.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 03:47 AM
3

Asking and listening to understand is what is required, not dismissive retorts with only an intent to defend and debate (on this sub).
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 06:58 PM
11

Feminism is about equality for women. Second, this is for overcoming repill rhetoric, not debating it. I apologized below the comment you mention above, but you decide to make a whole new angry post -- who's the troll?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 06:22 PM
5

You are correct, so I apologize. The rest stands. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:37 PM
12

Women are incapable of love? Lolololol We are the givers of life, and are wired to protect life and humanity. Sure there are psychopaths among us, but by nature we are wired for love. Love comes from feeling secure in many romantic situations, and we also cultivate it in oxytocin release during mating (sex). So if you break or deny us a sense of security, sure... We won't love or accept you.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:34 PM
18

We take men as they are, in so many ways. We don't have crazy high standards of comparison to models and porn-gigalos. This is just one example. We aren't out there wishing you had pectoral implants or tighter scrotums. We are even conditioned to "accept men's primal nature" towards sex, and sacrifice our own needs for love and connection.... Yet we still by and large as a species, seek men out for life-long partnership. Just because a woman has a few dating standards or boundaries in behaviour …
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:18 PM
20

If we didn't "love you for you", our standards in grooming alone would be much higher for you. Just look at how high our expectations and standards are for our own appearance.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:13 PM
46

Translation: I'm just playing <with> you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:50 PM
12

Yessss. Take all my awards. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:49 PM
18

I’m also miserable that she has a “hypergamous” attitude. What? Because she goes out? She's not your possession. The problem seems to be your insecurities, and controlling nature.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 01:41 PM
1

Well I did a websearch and didn't come accross much, but I did find this article very interesting. Is this what you were trying to articulate? Autism & Feminism
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 06:57 AM
1

Autism has little to do with the fact that feminists aren't something to be afraid of. You can overcome this, by asking yourself what exactly you are afraid of? ✌️
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 06:32 AM
3

"Feminism: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes." What about this, scares you exactly? 🤔
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 05:49 AM
141

I honestly think that we are where we are right now as a society, because women's voices have been sidelined with fury on this matter, especially online. We were told "it's normal", despite the change in medium delivery (high-speed, then in your pocket), and the cries of women losing their husbands (watching them become walking meatsuits), we were ignored. With that said, I do feel the winds-of-change happening, and I think women are beginning to have had enough of the limp-dicks, and juvenile d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:33 AM
12

VJs before BJs. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:37 PM
45

At risk of outting myself, I'll keep this cryptic... Fatboys 🍔 before fuckboys. ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:58 AM
6

He can't perform in bed? I think he might have issues with who he is and doesn't want me to know that so he covers up with trying to be perfect which I called out several times and asked him not to try to be perfect, I like him the way he is. Girl, he's "nice guying" you, which means he's dishonest, and an actor. That's why he has trouble feigning interest. But on too of that, don't be his therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:47 AM
111

Holy fucking incel shit. She should run. Tout suite. Being alone is miles better than being with a narcissist, sociopathic, mysoginist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:15 AM
2

A man is a boy that has finally grown. There is nothing more to it in my statement, so how about you stop running around trying to censor this woman?
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 09:51 PM
11

I was surprised looking at your profile, how young you actually are. This is wisdom it takes some men 40 or more years to even begin to fathom, let alone understand. Godspeed, my man. ✌️❣️
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 04:03 PM
12

☝️ Listen up boys, the man is speaking.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 03:43 PM
4

She needs to feel connected. Talk to her and ask her. We are affected (good and bad) by interactions outside of the actual foreplay and sex. We need to feel loved, desired, and cared for.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 08:48 AM
3

No. I've explained it a few times. We NEED different things. Just as men want women to respect them for their "male instincts" (or whatever) this is one of those for us. I've also explained several times, that women should give as much as men do, and meet eachother in the middle. Push yourself and receive in kind.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 07:08 AM
3

We desire it without emotional connection, but we refrain from acting upon it at times, without the emotional connection.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 04:10 AM
6

We want connection, and sex we see as part of that connection. Yes we want sex as much and as often, but when it lacks connection, we don't easily engage. The very fact that this concept doesn't make sense to you, proves the point in where the difference occurs. The coming to the middle part for a woman, would be to engage in sex at times, in good faith for the relationship, understanding that it is a need on a different level for a man. He should compromise his view of sex at times as well, to …
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 02:57 AM
3

We want sex, just as much. We just have different goals in relations, so we tend to act out less (generally), and we also do this because of the safety issues we often face. We also act differently when it comes to sex in a relationship, as we again have often times different goals with the sex in general. Goals and motivations vs innate desire. Yes, we all should aim to come to the middle, so we can both have a cake and eat it too, together.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 01:44 AM
5

Women can have the exact same level of desire or sexual prowess, it's just that our motivations are different, as well as our priorities,needs and perspectives. Meet in the middle, means exactly as it sounds. No gender and their needs or desires, should be thought of as existing in a vaccum, or should exist to squash out the other. No side should have to manipulate, lie or play games -- all it takes is seeing the other as a human, with their own unique needs and desires.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 10:37 PM
6

No. There is a middle. Not either, or.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 05:29 PM
8

Yes men and women are different sexually, but we are meant to meet in the middle. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 05:22 PM
31

They've lost their way and meaning in life. The future is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:37 AM
157

I don't get it. It's literally easier than ever to be a stand out guy these days, and yet they just can't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:15 AM
1

🫖 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:05 AM
22

It's because porn and social media have given them the impression that they shouldn't have to date in their league.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:14 PM
-2

The point is, good luck in finding a woman that wants to dominate you for free, in casual sex. ✌️
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:41 PM
0

There's really no anger in having standards that identify and call out toxic behaviour.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 04:42 PM
2

The other men told him so. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:39 PM
1

Sex between two people that goes beyond transactional (presented as the "norm" in porn, but it's not), is something where mutual desires are explored and come to naturally, when both parties are interested in doing so. It is porn that is your problem, if you think it's a simple as finding a woman to fulfill your specific desires, like when you are searching for it in the hub. There is a reason women charge for that experience, and do quite well. So as I said, rather than expect the average woman…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 04:28 PM
3

Except he wants to find you, first. 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:50 PM
2

You seem to assume that women don't have a reason to be "angry". Maybe be less shitty, stop treating us like sexual objects for your use, stop "gaming" as sociopathic, manipulative liars, and maybe we wouldn't be "angry". Gee. What a concept. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 03:49 PM
2

Even being aggressive doesn't help sometimes. Because it's just another porn genre... "CNC" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:46 PM
1

That seems to be where they are stuck, mentally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:45 PM
2

Is it any wonder, if all they do is listen to men (and ignore women), when it comes to understanding women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:44 PM
1

Well since they are dead-set on seeing porn and hookers as exemplifying "real sex" and the average women as a "prude", it's no wonder they are so confused. No matter what we tell them, they have so much male-entitlement, that they won't even listen when we tell them casual sex is not our motivation, and never will be. Many of these waywards were raised without fathers themselves (and usually harbour resentment towards their mothers for this), yet they want to perpetuate a world where commitment …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:41 PM
2

Yes, because designing a whole "strategy" on how to manipulate us into agreeing to fuck them, just screams "I'm the desired one!" 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:30 PM
4

Yes. Nothing to see here. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:23 PM
2

The irony is in "archaic" times... there was no gonzo porn. LMAO. Come on now! That's just his NaTuRaL sExUaL pReFeReNcE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:22 PM
2

Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:19 PM
132

Creepy, right? It's nuanced, but it's there. Worst case scenario, he's actually one of the fuckers getting ready to commit violence against women they disdain.... Sadly a reality these days, more and more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:41 AM
273

"How do I avoid the women avoiding me?" S-M-R-T-doh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:23 AM
52

Literally sending themselves straight to blackpill, forming a human centipede of males with their heads up eachother's asses, as they circle-jerk their circle-logic, in unison. ✊💦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:21 AM
38

Plus, this theory would only solidify the other thing they hate: that a small number of men, are getting all the "girls". Which is it? They can never choose. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:18 AM
11

Don't worry, they are avoiding you -- don't get it twisted. Just because someone doesn't act like a paid hooker or porn actress, does not make them extremely conservative, it makes them normal.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:02 AM
70

The way I think of it, is never have sex with someone when your motives and goals in doing so, don't match. Knowing your worth to me, is about knowing that you are worth respect, and honesty; if what you seek is a deeper connection with someone, don't let him deduce you to ONLY the worth of your body by giving in to early, aggressive demands to do so (if that is not also what you want at that point). ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:47 PM
6

What about "Matt"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:28 PM
15

❣️ Randomly, a song was running through my head which always reminds me of what you describe... Projecting our fantasies and best traits we assume about another person, onto them, clouding ourselves from seeing who a person really is.... Fantasy - MS MR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:25 PM
34

💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:36 AM
166

So many women claim to have fetishes as well, that in some cases I can't help but think they've been conditioned towards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:15 AM
159

Some CEO probably didn't get "his money's worth" on his own SB. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:37 PM
1

When you are passive, sure. Love is cultivated, so if you find it turning to hate or violence, look inward to what you may have sown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:40 AM
1

How so? Love is not a passive feeling, it's an active verb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:47 PM
3

Second hand or not, it's what keeps many people together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:18 PM
3

Sounds like that's your reality, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:17 PM
2

Lol. If you remove love from the equation, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:34 AM
1

FIN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:20 AM
1

Transactional sex should also always be consentual, based in good faith. Disturbing that you don't know this. I wish you zero success in deceiving or coercing anyone into sex. FIN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:58 AM
2

If a woman states she was on birth-control, wasn't, and gets pregnant, the father could technically sue her for financial damages, if she chooses to have the baby, and he can prove deception. It's very simple. You just don't understand terms of contracts (such as 'good faith'), nor do you seem to understand the differences between civil court and criminal court. You do realise that people have been found not guilty of murder and then successfully been sued in civil court for the same incident?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:52 AM
2

What you think or feel about it matters very little. A verbal contract or non-verbal consent would be null and void if not made "in good faith". There is no debate here. The more you lie to take advantage of and manipulate someone into doing what you want, the greater risk you put yourself in, to be sued for damages which may result. There are several cases in precedent for example, where a person has been found guilty for knowing they had HIV/AIDS and infecting a partner through omission or dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:44 AM
1

Again, we are talking civil court, not criminal court. Totally different. Fetch. ⚾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:33 AM
1

If it can be proven that consent was based mostly on the lie, then it is a broken verbal contract. Thanks for playing. 🍖
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:37 AM
7

Or give up the cheap dopamine hits to be a leader with integrity and good character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:54 PM
1

If proven. If deceit can be proven, you don't have to be accused of rape to be sued in civil court. I hope that helps clear things up for you, muffin. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:33 PM
14

Men say women prevent them from being men... But when we call on them to be men, we often just find an entitled boi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:29 PM
44

His choice ended when he decided to put his sperm in a woman. If more men realised this, they might not think of sex as so transactional or women as objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:56 PM
1

Who said anything about rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:17 PM
1

We are speaking about women going out of their way to make strange men, which they have no desire to know, feel better about themselves. So yes, men should never do that either; trust me, we don't want it. Being kind and respectful to someone you wish to pursue a connection with, is a whole different story. If you don't want to do that, ok. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:31 PM
1

Consent based on lies, if proven, is not consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:27 PM
1

Said, Ted Bundy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:28 PM
1

If deceit is proven, and a loss sustained, then yes you could be sued.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:03 AM
2

Logical fallacy. Not being "nice and paying compliments" doesn't automatically equal throwing insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:02 AM
1

I know following along can be hard, but I was responding to the original post: Lots of men say that women should be more empathetic and friendly towards men, that women are often rude to men etc. So, try directing your hook at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:12 AM
1

Projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:09 AM
2

Oh sorry, I forgot the US has a culture of suing. Well if you lure a woman under false pretenses, you might just do enough harm to get sued one day. 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:08 AM
1

The thing about narcissists, is they will never be able to accept that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:28 AM
2

Great. A covert narcissist. DED
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:33 PM
1

When I was the "hot girl" in my 20s, I worried about the same things in the men I was dating. I know what you are asking, but I just don't think it's a unique problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:27 PM
2

The line is blurred on that one. It opens you up to coercion and rape accusations, and can often lead to greater crimes, if you disregard the humanity of others for your own desires. If you have no morals and you only care about "legal technicalities", go ahead; do not expect to be free from social judgement and fallout.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:14 PM
1

Every single person has concerns they are being chosen for the right reasons, regardless of gender. Even a fat woman who attracts a fat admirer, would have to be worried that their mate might only see them for their fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:06 PM
1

From the egoistical point of view it is more reasonable to lie than to pay don't you think so? Yes, but this is sociopathic. You mean that I am not given a right to have something if I want it? Well, I thought that my rights and duties defined by law and not in any other way. Women and their bodies are not objects, they are autonomous human beings with their own rights. Your "rights" end where another person's rights begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:04 PM
2

Perhaps that was worded poorly on my part, but allow me to clarify: We have no motivation beyond our own desires, to build up the ego of strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:02 PM
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minimum politeness is actually quite rare. If that is your experience... Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:52 PM
3

I did not say all men were toxic assholes, so you are arguing with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:51 PM
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What else will work here? Women agree to have sex without commitment only with a very small percentage of men. Others have to lie. No, you don't have to lie -- you could chose to pay for it, or do something different to attract what you seek, or you could just understand that you aren't entitled to something just because you want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:30 PM
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Yea. Just like if you were the victim of a scam, as an adult it's on you. Or if you purchased a car with the odometer rolled back, as an adult it's on you. Or if you order the beef burger and they substitute a veggie-patty, as an adult it's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:17 PM
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You are now arguing with assumptions though, and by debate rules, I'll not address counter arguments to something I have not said. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:15 PM
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Those who the OP describe, do. Why are you offended if you aren't one of those men we are talking about? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:14 PM
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Nope. Not when she's acting upon false pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:09 PM
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Not at all, you've been rather reasonable. 😘 I am a very direct communicator, with a large lexicon. Coming from a women, it is often read with tone. However often times when I point out that I speak in a matter-of-fact way, and they re-read my replies, the actual tone comes through suddenly. I do have a sassy streak, don't get me wrong, but it is also applied uniformly 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:07 PM
1

Some men are groomers and manipulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:43 PM
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Uhm? They also have sex. I'm not sure what you think you're arguing? I have imparted no judgement, only facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:41 PM
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At points, including right after birth. However, the prefrontal cortex on average for any human being, is not fully formed until about 25 years of age. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:37 PM
1

As is anything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:26 PM
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That has nothing to do with an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex which affects reasoning, the ability to discern consequences and decision making. This is why you don't see too many your age, drinking straight from a keg at a frat party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:24 PM
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Nice out of context quote. Don't quit halfway, read the following qualifying statement. It could be your personality and the fact that their younger sisters don't have fully formed brains yet. I'm not saying it is, but correlation does not automatically equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:18 PM
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It's not a sugar baby if you mislead by omission or lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:17 PM
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Okay, then: What’s wrong with trying to initiate an interaction with someone you find attractive? I never said otherwise, either. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:15 PM
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This might help answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:14 PM
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You would be completely wrong. I am an advocate for men. I spend hours a week helping men who seek me out on various forums. I want men to be men, not what women want, and not what those toxic assholes push on eachother, and not what our sick society has baited them into (dysfunctional gender dynamics, hedonistic media, etc). Just real, integral, confident, multi-dimentional men, who express their needs while maintaining respect for other's perspectives. I have compassion for men, as my longest …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:10 PM
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It could be your personality and the fact that their younger sisters don't have fully formed brains yet. I'm not saying it is, but correlation does not automatically equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:50 PM
1

It seems you are still struggling....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:04 PM
0

Waa, waaah. (The battle cry of the incels).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:02 PM
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We all do. I'm sure even men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:02 PM
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And it can. Reading comprehension can also be improved. And yes, everyone is replaceable, including you. Everyone is also up for judgement, including you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:00 PM
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We have no motivation to compliment strange men and build up their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:59 PM
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I didn't say lying was imprisonable. 🙄 But, it can lead to claims of coercion, unwanted offspring, and an entitlement attitude and hatred towards women, which can lead to even further crimes. In general, you show a lack of morals and insight. If all women are to you is a hole, then don't be surprised if they don't value you or your walking dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:56 PM
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And freedom can be taken when boundaries and morals are crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:43 PM
3

I mean, why should anyone tailor their reactions to appease a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:42 PM
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Nothing. But you aren't entitled to a certain mood or reaction. Women are autonomous human beings, and have all the same rights to expression as men. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:36 PM
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So much integrity. Women are human beings, not sex toys. To speak of them like this, and knowingly be misleading or avoidant, is manipulation at best, sociopathic for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:32 PM
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The bigger question is why do men feel strange women owe them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:26 PM
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Likely not. Lol And putting it through a hole in a sausage pizza, likely won't work either. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:20 PM
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So true. The worst is when he's been watching porn for years before marrying; the expectations and sexual exposure are far too mismatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:17 PM
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You won't get that likely from a virgin, who isn't a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:14 PM
1

And that is true, but he complained in the middle about her not being able to go on dates and he "just wants her back". This girl can still function and walk, it's not like he's burdened excessively beyond doing the chores, and he's concerned about it going on for 4 months..... This is a marriage, and he hasn't even been taking care of her long enough to have caregiver burnout. He's definitely latching on to a real issue, but it honestly doesn't seem all that genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:23 PM
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Either version, we don't want. If you are such a fucking expert on women, shouldn't you be busy with one now instead of bitching about a whole gender on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:17 PM
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No matter the comments, we each feel this on a micro-level, each time we so much as get the flu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:09 AM
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But rhe part about just wanting her back to go on dates with? What about the extrenuatingly long period of 4 months?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:07 AM
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Agreed. He just wants validation to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:05 AM
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I mean I can sympathise until he got to the part about just wanting to go on dates with her and "WaNtINg HeR bAcK". Nevermind that it could be 4 MoNtHs Or MoRe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:55 AM
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Lolololol. That's open to debate, not having your views changed. Stay in school, fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:45 PM
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No it is not. A man goes through with a year long wedding plan and a whole production in front of people getting married, and that's coercion, but a one off bang with someone larger than you, that couldn't possibly happen as coercion, nearly as often. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:43 AM
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You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:31 AM
4

So you admit pressure, coercion and manipulation can happen in things such as sex, porn or sex work also, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:52 AM
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It you can't really gain the power from a sex who doesn't value what you do. I think that's the answer to everything, tbh. We need to start appreciating our differences and how they work together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:52 AM
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You give us this power. Why not just go fuck eachother if you all want it so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:12 AM
1

Not sure why you think your tired, old song-and-dance routine is fooling anyone into thinking you're clever?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:23 PM
1

Thank you. We see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:21 PM
1

Yes. So essentially your point is men do what they want at all times, fuck women and their needs or lives beyond their vagina, entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:02 PM
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Said nobody credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:58 PM
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Typical response from someone that doesn't have a clue. Oh really? And THIS is a post you made literally about manipulating already drunk women, to pull them back to your apartment. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:56 PM
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Said nobody important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:51 PM
1

I believe this is true: Many surveys have also found that men 18-50 years old ALL prefer women between 20-24. Most men prefer young 20 year old girls even as they age.. However, this natural instinct comes from your animalistic side, long before our prefrontal cortexes as a species had formed. So although the preference is natural, you should be able to logically get past the instinct and reason that it isn't necessarily moral to act upon all desires, in all circumstances. Murder is an animal in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:50 PM
2

Yet you cite no source.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:41 PM
2

We reaching back to 1987? Lolololol DED
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:31 PM
2

There is a huge deal of variation in cognition and individual development. Many people will have an "underdeveloped" pfc well past 25, many people will score higher on measures of impulse control or other cognitive measures much younger than 25. But you don't know that by looking, so why not use your prefrontal cortex, and show some self control to err on the side of caution? That is, if being seen as a predator is something that matters to you. Maybe it doesn't -- and no one will obviously arre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:28 PM
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The prefrontal cortex handles reasoning and consequences. You do indeed start in the amygdala, and filter through your prefrontal cortex before action.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:26 PM
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I believe on one hand it could be. On the other, I believe the children are the future and maybe should have MORE of a say. I actually have talked about this year's ago on political forums, and I think there should be a voting system that operates on a bell curve. Basically, your vote would have a score attached to it, which reflects the weight of your vote. Basic information like age, income, special needs etc, would factor in to the weight of your vote being cast. 16 year olds and 80 year olds…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:19 PM
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Truth is not an excuse, unless you live in cognitive dissonance ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:15 PM
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It's immoral because someone outside of that range is taking advantage of someone without a fully formed brain, capable of full reasoning. No different than fucking a mentally handicapped person, philosophically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:14 PM
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Sure. If we apply logic evenly, why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:12 PM
0

Nah it's not men constantly making excuses or saying we got "gr00med" when was 18 Maybe because 30+ women aren't grooming boys en mass on social media to show their dicks at 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:11 PM
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Easier to manipulate, less inhibitions due to that underdeveloped prefrontal cortex... Sounds like FuN FoR YoU. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:08 PM
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Or men. Your brains aren't developed until then either. It's a fair argument I can get behind. However, your lack of accepting science probably means you'll likely die of Covid for refusing a microchip, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:06 PM
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Race has no comparison to development or maturity (and I'm not talking tits). It's gross that you compared minorities to teens with underdeveloped brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:04 PM
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It's not a third party, it's science. "The rational part of a teen’s brain isn’t fully developed and won’t be until age 25 or so. In fact, recent research has found that adult and teen brains work differently. Adults think with the prefrontal cortex, the brain’s rational part. This is the part of the brain that responds to situations with good judgment and an awareness of long-term consequences. Teens process information with the amygdala. This is the emotional part." Irrational Brain of Teens S…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:58 PM
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Hot guys can be integral men, so can ugly ones. Believe me, no one wants a "nice guy". We want a respectful one. Lying and manipulating to "appear nice" isn't at all what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:47 AM
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How's this all working for you? If you have all the answers, you should be so successful you don't need to be on here bitching and complaining like a whiny boi.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:43 AM
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You are definitely a wayward man who hasn't yet realised.... There. Now you've heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:42 AM
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The only reason women don't "value" it is because it comes so easy to them. Similar to a rich person not valuing the possessions and power they have because that's all they've known. That's just not true. Women value sex inside a relationship, mostly (of course there are always exceptions), because they are the ones who can't run away from the offspring that comes as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:39 AM
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My problems stem entirely from dating the kind of women I described & observing their behavior not to mention statistical data. Again, maybe the problem is you and your standards leading you to these women. Statistical data? Lol show us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:25 AM
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If women didn't value casual sex, they wouldn't be having it all the goddamn time How many of those casual encounters were with men who were upfront about it being casual, and not lying about wanting more until they got what they wanted? How many are not wayward girls who don't yet understand that men won't like them more and want a relationship, if they put out and show him how much they can "please him" in bed? Having casual sex does not mean we value it. But you are committed to thinking some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:24 AM
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Okay. So your answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:17 AM
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Hey, I have zero motivation to change your mind. You sound exactly like the type of guy I'm happy to let sit in his misery, and stay away from women. Whether or not your mother is an outlier is exactly the point. But, clearly by your own admission, you probably have "mommy issues". Are men all uniformity the same? If we apply the same extreme thought the other way, then I guess all men are rapists, mysoginist, and violent, especially to minors, women and marginalised groups. I mean statistics su…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:39 AM
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Ever think that if that is your uniform experience, that maybe YOU are the problem (or your picker), and not 51% of the population, including your own mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:30 AM
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It's all a big circle jerk of illogic, where they talk about women while excluding what we say about ourselves. Projection of their own values and needs upon us, with massive amounts of frustrated entitlement. Just watch them pile on me in their responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:14 AM
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If monogamy is the issue, who raises and aupports the off-spring resulting from a casual or open sexual encounter? How do we guarantee proper bonding to both sexed parents, to minimize instances of psychopathy and sociopathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:23 PM
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But how do you know what you don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:46 AM
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You'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:47 AM
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Since you are speaking about women as a uniform whole, then stated that your mother is the exception because she loves you unconditionally. You stated that ALL other women weren't like that, therefore you've basically declared that you see women as having no worth beyond sex to you, because they (not a single one) aren't capable of loving you unconditionally, like your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:18 AM
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Okay. Well I guess you're the one who said NO woman is capable of loving you unconditionally. Here's a start, try seeing them as having potential worth, and show common decency and respect until they show you they deserve otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:09 AM
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That's not the point. We don't come in one flavour.... But she has worth beyond being a sex object, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:23 AM
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Yes. That's clear. You came from a woman; do you have no appreciation for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:18 AM
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I don't. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:17 AM
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Nothing you'll ever find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:17 AM
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And that's why we don't care about you. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:17 AM
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My bad. Lol Yes. Then this is very excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:42 PM
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