I'm a loser.

tromp-et · 2023-01-28T16:37:14+00:00

You can change your outlook and you can change at least some and maybe all of your circumstances with persistence and patience. Do you have any sort of job at all?

Remandergrowth · 2023-01-28T22:53:40+00:00

First, get professional help. Suicide thoughts need a therapist.

Then tackle your problem from easiest to hardest.

Looking through the easiest problem to solve is the friend problem because you have roommates who can help you out. Ask them to invite you to the parties and other events they go to. And make sure to get the contact info of anyone you have a good interaction with at the party. Message them all the next couple of days after the party, and some of them will reply. Invite them to hang out doing something cheap. If you do this for 4 to 5 months you will develop a few acquaintances who can maybe grow to friends in a few years.

Naus1987 · 2023-01-28T19:27:44+00:00

I thought the ending was the Simpson quote.

“I tried nothing and I’m all outta ideas!”

But he said I’m tired, lol

Copperstoner · 2023-01-28T20:16:35+00:00

So? What are you going to do about it?

For starters I would ask your room mate to take you with him for a party. It sounds like you are students so it might just be some cheap party as well.

If you have the funds or if you live anywhere in western europe I would also try to get in contact with a therapist, because suicide ideation is not the road you want to travel.

Xx_SwordWords_xX · 2023-01-28T21:58:47+00:00

The thing about life, is that it passes you by while waiting for it to happen.

You control your destiny.

Nightchanger · 2023-01-28T17:03:32+00:00

if your roommate is l not an asshole ask if you can join him while mentioning you're low on cash. He might let you as it shows him in better light bringing a friend to a social event.

my_name_1 · 2023-01-28T17:48:56+00:00

Redpill is actually opposite.

I started going to gym. I stand now straight. I smile. I am positive. I don't give fuck to wars, economic problems, covidism, and all other shit. I find a job that is interesting. I read books. I communicate. I don't watch tv, sports, series, films. I go to live concerts, even alone. I go to a bar - alone. You don't need a career. You can work whatever is legal, everything is fine.

So everything you say that you are redpilled is actually wrong. You are bitter. Go out and run. Run when you are tired. If you don't have energy, run for one minute more. And one minute more after that, run as long as your brain says stop. Fight that shit out of yourself. Be a worth human!

sharedordaz · 2023-01-28T22:24:16+00:00

Think. What do you like to do in your free time? There is something you do good? (Even if you feel is irrelevant). Why you dont have all those things you would like to have? There is something you can do to have them?

Title	I'm a loser.
Author	Farm_Efficiency_9768
Upvotes	9
Comments	9
Date	January 28, 2023 4:17 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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