I have an escort addiction.

Worth_Supermarket348 · 2023-01-06T00:22:53+00:00

I used to have the same problem untill I started being more proactive and guarded with my spending. Take away / block all the things that would tempt you into seeing an escort. Put the majority of you money in savings. Basically do things that put you in a situation where you literally can't spend money on escorts until the addiction goes away .

JesusBloodIsFranzia · 2023-01-06T04:57:35+00:00

Sex Addiction counseling & groups.

Daily journal.

You need to learn your triggers, whether it’s time of day, day of week, what you ate, what you saw/read, what you were thinking etc…

Track your sexual processes and objectively figure out when and why - like deep introspection - A led to B led to escort led to pleasure led to shame or whatever it led to

Auto-deposit your money into multiple recurring investment sources using [insert investment source here] etc EDIT: PUT YOUR MONEY INTO WHATEVER IS A SMART INVESTMENT _ APPARENTLY CRYPTO IS NOT (?) BUT THATS UP TO YOU TO DETERMINE because I have no idea THE POINT IS TO MAKE YOUR MONEY USEFUL

Make it a pain in the ass to need to get cash out to see the escort

Don’t beat yourself up

Don’t worry about dating or anything right now. Just keep working and learning to observe yourself.

Read up on stoicism. Raja Yoga. God. Find a spiritual practice that is also physical in nature and thereby meditative.

Go outside daily for at least 30 min.

Eat healthier.

Go to the gym 5x a week.

Take a class in person at a local community college, whether it’s dancing or calculus or English 100.

And this may seem like an odd route or suggestion but if and when you lapse on an escort, instead of beating yourself up, just write down in your journal everything about it. And next time, if you are going to go through with seeing an escort….the last one you saw should be the one you see again. And the next time. And the next time.

Take your time with her. Get to know her. Do not expect more than the services offered but reveal yourself to her beyond sex. Talk about who you are. Your life. What you want.

It is therapy. And should be used as such.

With this in mind, specifically look for a healer instead of a hoe. If you have to use an escort use an FBSM provider and become a regular.

You need to detach the novelty of variety from your routine and learn to be vulnerable with someone.

Everything can be used to your advantage and even “relapses” should be from now on what you do right - approach it as a way to learn about yourself and your sexuality and to practice humanizing the woman you are objectifying.

Do not stalk or harass or develop feelings, and if you do develop feelings, journal about it. Figure out what you like.

Oh and if you watch porn or play video games you gotta cut that out too

whenth3bowbreaks · 2023-01-06T02:35:41+00:00

First to have to deal with your sex addiction

Worth_Supermarket348 · 2023-01-06T06:54:29+00:00

Also I wanted to add this too : post nut clarity while memes the high hell can be useful too. In other words if ya gotta rub one out to prevent you from seeing a sex worker then do it. Pull out all the stops, good luck

seeyouonthelanai · 2023-01-06T09:39:45+00:00

You're not a loser. You're young and figuring things out.

I hope you're using protection and getting tested.

Being introverted and having dark skin are not bad or undesirable traits. You say you have no social life, but is that because of introversion or do you also have social anxiety?

Take some of that money you put towards escorts and get yourself a hobby! Lift weights, paint, learn a martial art, etc. When you find something that you like, you'll feel better about yourself and meet people in the process.

You don't need a degree, but it is good to have a skill. Is there any area you like or are good at?

There's a video I think you should watch about when life just isn't going how you hoped. It's life perspective from an old cowboy. I'm a woman, but I like watching his advice. He's not "pilled".

https://youtu.be/U0-ttGGB7b4

ridukosennin · 2023-01-06T01:30:56+00:00

I work in behavioral health and it’s sounds like you are struggling with sex addiction and motivated to change. The good news is it’s highly treatable with standard addiction treatments. If you have a primary care doctor/GP I recommend asking them for a referral to a psychiatrist or addiction medicine specialist. Otherwise you can search for local providers in your area.

Treatment typically includes talk therapy with therapist as well medication management with a psychiatrist that can help with cravings and impulse control. Feel free to PM me with any questions

Title	I have an escort addiction.
Author	Farm_Efficiency_9768
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Date	January 5, 2023 11:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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