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As long as you ask one girl in your school it should be fine. Worse would be to be known as the sleazy guy who hits on all the girls that tend to be encouraged by some PUA
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 09:52 PM
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Patriarchy as an old system of what?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/23 10:55 AM
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You don't have to. as much as show that it's not unreasonable to the people you date. It's a two way street after all.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 07:40 PM
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How long do you wait for sex?
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 09:26 PM
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Work on yourself ends up being unending perpetual if you are just surrounded by assholes.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 11:03 PM
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Listen only to the professionals. Mental health has a lot of misinformation about it.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 06:06 PM
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I read the follow of him being in rehab. Afaik they tend to give therapy sessions as part of the program.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 05:41 PM
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He'll start being more open and honest. So you'll see his true colors as to speak. And due to being ASD it's crucial he'll see a therapist about socialization when it happens.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 05:34 PM
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So except political beliefs is he at least good in therapy?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 04:02 PM
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People on the internet aren't equipped to help your psychological issues. Your best bet is to get a therapist to help you on that. Redpill especially.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 05:46 PM
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Marketplace value only works if you can quantify the transactions. Except the 1-10 scale which is questionable. Calling the dating scene a SMV is just plain wrong.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 10:38 AM
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I'm not a doctor as much as urging you to consult your GP. Check with a doctor if you don't have too much blood pressure or cardiac irregularities. Chances are your mental state is both the stress of engaging in political discourse and your sedatary lifestyle. In you case it may not be an RP thing. As much as literal, health issue.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 05:26 PM
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Glad you grew out of it
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 10:45 AM
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RP is not wrong, it's just toxic
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 08:01 PM
3

Wasn't aware of that. I used the interview as it seemed relevant. But in light of this I may reconsider. Should I remove the lines, or are the relevancy enough to keep them?
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 03:42 PM
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It's doomed to fail as a result :(
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 03:41 PM
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They do, the people in the blackpill community from what I skimmed through are virtually always had some exposure and lurking past in the seduction communities whether redpill or PUA's. In the case of incels the best thing is companionship, not even sexual or dating. Just good friends to hang out with. There's a famous interview about The columbine shooting when it blamed the music industry and Maryin Manson was heavily targeted: Michael Moore : If you were to talk directly to the kids at Columb…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 01:49 PM
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This dialogue in pulp fiction describes better than how I put into words: Jules: Well, that's what I've been sitting here contemplating. First, I'm going to deliver this case to Marsellus, then, basically, I'm just going to walk the Earth. Vincent: What'cha mean, "walk the Earth"? Jules: You know, like Caine in Kung Fu: walk from place to place, meet people, get into adventures. Vincent: And how long do you intend to walk the Earth? Jules: Until God puts me where He wants me to be. Vincent: And …
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 01:32 PM
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Single men are seen as less responsible and people in relatinships are excused regularly to put time in their relationships especially if kids are involved or marriage. I have no idea about lovers as frankly I'm terrible in it. The drama is that people either pity, dismiss, or ignore you. Your stress is immense but is just in no one's periphery to consider. When in a relationship you at least have the safety of having someone, and the freedom to have different interactions. When single out of ch…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 09:22 AM
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Now that there's alternative, the best thing to do is direct guys needing help to chatGPT if no therapist is available.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 05:33 PM
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It'll be counter productive, if you have no relationship or potential relationship the best thing is accept and not keep it in the forefront. ChatGPT can help you analyze your kinship with another person and if you give him some data to analyze, it'll give better results to have a good status of the situation. But it can't tell you beyond generic advice on how to get if there's no options to go. In both cases it'll give you the best trajectory to navigate your situation. Even if it's not ideal. …
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 08:44 AM
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chatGPT, not because it won't give good advice per se. But because it's functions to limit inappropriate questions (NSFW) will make it less the focus, and so dating will become less of a problem overtime as it'll limit it's answers so that you'll focus on human connections. I can a write longer answer, but it'll digress.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 07:09 PM
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Halo effect, it's in all interactions with other people. Unemployment does hurt men treatment badly thought. Regardless of status. It's a bias that most people like to ignore and deny. But it's still there. It's not a relationship thing, or a gender thing. But it's just a unconscious bias thing.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 07:21 PM
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You're talking about the Halo / Horn effect?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 01:00 PM
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Blackpill is very related to MGTOW in terms of being abandoning hope to change. While blackpill and redpill (But mostly PUA's) are focused on self improvement and seduction, MGTOW and MRA's are focused on gender politics. You're very accurate that the relationship is very close to each other. Unfortunately, there's not a real way to predict it. However it's a good idea to research it.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 07:24 PM
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Sounds like exhaustion lead to feeling numb as you didn't have the energy to feel anything by the time you got yelled. It's a weird feeling that can be mistaken for stoicism or control. In reality it's more of the feeling of tranquility or DGAF that comes from just being so burnout to the point of not caring anymore.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 11:16 AM
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Reading the comments the experience is different for guys it seems. This is not a redpill thing, or a black pill thing, or even any masculinity / self improvement thing. In the little relationships I've been, my experience were overwhelmingly positive, even with toxic girls, it has very pragmatic benefits socially. People much more respected me, they considered me more responsible and socially adept, the psychologist even said that being in a relationship shows maturity. (It's not, but people as…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 04:10 PM
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You're not looking for a disproof of RP you're looking for an alternative. No study will check the value (especially not relative) of people or demographics. Surprisingly chat-gpt is quite good at giving better explanations and insight on how to dewal with it.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 09:10 AM
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Fine, let's return to the original question. What is the balance between talking to a woman as a human being and just "one of the guys."?
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 04:57 PM
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validate - to check something is either true or false. standardization - to make a standard check. by your definitions do we need to rely on standardized tests to validate someones intelligence for example? It's cheap and has some validity.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 04:49 PM
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Everybody goes through their awkward phase. if overtly sexual alpha male act was the only symptom. You got off very lucky. Anyway congratulations.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 04:47 PM
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I was wondering what was the balance you were talking between not talking to girls "as one of the guys" and not differently because one's a girl.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 04:43 PM
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How can you validate anything without standardization?
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 04:34 PM
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There are too many factors for people to disengage from you to pinpoint not being biased as a noticeable factor. From my experience most people don't see what I'm trying to do. ex. you thought I was making fun of you. But really I was seeing knowledge gaps in a person claiming knowledge. Or ability to even define normalcy and natural. Never mentioned even gameify or standarize. And if standardization truly impossible, no claims can be true as no standardization exists ergo no claim is certain, e…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 12:42 PM
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It's a delicate balance but I think it just comes with being able to reject gender and other societal roles and talk to people like individuals removed from their physical or socio-economic characteristics.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 11:22 AM
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Stay far clear of these people and seek out actual psychologist advice. You already seem to have your head on straight, though, and that's good. You should just talk to a woman like any other human being and that's what I think as a woman I find to be most endearing when a man talks to me in a way that doesn't remind me of my sex but also not talking to me like 'one of the guys' either. It's a delicate balance but I think it just comes with being able to reject gender and other societal roles an…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 02:20 PM
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For those that are ND or physically repulsive. It is.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 02:19 PM
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Married men tend to get promotions and hired more often than single men. Edit : married men or men that are expected to provide for their wives and kids get privilege. Single men, don't.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 07:03 PM
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That's the neat part. You don't. You just choose not to add RP toxicity to make it more bearable.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 07:02 PM
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Right now Playne (meditation game) and Kind Words (saying nice things to peoples sorrows online) dominantly, when on summer breaks and holidays I have more capacity to play more intense games like BPM : bullets per minute, and Dawn of War. I invite friends regularly to play Skull girls and Tekken. And got a buddy who collects Arcade games I visit and bring beer with me.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 07:50 AM
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I've drowned my sorrows in gaming backlog and beer
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 06:06 PM
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Glory to pfizr23! The greatest amazonian leader!
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 03:55 PM
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When sent on his duties. Hand him his work tools and quote the spartan mom's famous phrase : "With it, or on it." (Either finish your duties, or die doing them.)
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 05:24 PM
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Teenagers generally don't date outside of movies afaik
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 10:24 AM
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The ethics about it, I'll leave it to the law. Not my business. All I'm saying is that the bigger the age difference (And the younger, the more it's significant) the less social groups both parties share. And that's why op won't see a lot of guys dating in comparison to girls as he's young, and girls will date outside his social circles.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 07:08 PM
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Haha ad hominem! My favoraite comment Who ever said college aged? just said one year senior.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 06:57 PM
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It's to explain why OP exposed stats might be biased. women dating men even one year older (especially in HS) means they date very far from his shared social groups. 3 years is not significant as you get older.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:35 PM
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Consult the local church, synagogue, mosque, or other religious figure. Ideally someone who knows the problems with RP.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 02:15 PM
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Is it the same for men that you avoid, or is it only women?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 02:14 PM
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Young women tend to date older men.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:26 AM
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Being influenced or full on act on the ideals?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 09:59 AM
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AF/BB? It's not kettle logic as much as just regigetating wife fucks the milk man, husband fucks the secretary stories.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 04:40 PM
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AKA dating isn't a zero sum game
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 04:39 PM
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Relatively to someone RP. Yes. As he engaged with women without shouting at them (Andrew Tate and F&F). But it's such a low bar that falling for him would still make damage. But it's better than the alts. there. At least he's encouraging you to ask and listen to women input.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 12:04 PM
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That's mgtow specifically. Alexander Grace seems to be more inclined with MRAs Edit: relatively to someone RP
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 10:32 AM
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Explaining what is confidence Confidence comes internally. Confidence happens because of success. (when pointed out 1 and 2) Confidence comes from expectation of success.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 01:25 PM
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They base male chastity being valued on the theory that the females will expect their son to inherit the same behavior of the parent that leads him to spread his genes further, in this case his promiscuity and preselection. It happens in some animals, the question is if it's valid in humans, which so far hasn't been shown the case even with genetic testing.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 01:06 PM
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A common mantra within seduction communities which include RP. Is "see what she does, not what she says."
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 09:49 AM
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RP success leaves you with a very bad reputation. I met I think 3 guys who implemented them with great success, one became a gigolo sleeping with 30+ women to eat, one when met a mutual friend refused to speak further beyond "He's at least alive." Another one is now a tattoo bulletin board who dissapeared from the world, I met more two but I had to cut them off after they tried to scam me. Than again, due to being ASD. It may be the type of people that I attract. As of now it's ironic that i fin…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 07:52 PM
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Read the full first paragraph. I touched it in the 2nd part.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah, CS is one of those things where you kind of need to have a rigid mind to learn the complicated structures of the system. It tends to need a specific "programmer" brain that ends up not as compatible with people in general if you have it. I met a senior dev. that told me one of the first things we learn to do is abandon perfecting our code. It's the same applied to relationships. I always thought that when I have a girl I will look for another one because of plate theory (Which is horrible)…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:39 PM
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I was going to say to try to convince OP, but he deleted the post. His data on his conclusion was very limited, so I can understand your initial comment. Just wanted to know if you had any good things to say to try and convince him.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:34 PM
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I skimmed your comments and post history, seems like you're pretty solid. I mean you workout and spending time gaming. Which is great to health in general. You don't have much in terms of talking about distinguishing good / bad dating ideas. as much as saying RP is bullshit. Which is true, that's why we're here, to get rid of it. So if you have a link towards one comment that explains in enough detail to be able to distinguish bad dating ideas fro good, I'll be glad to. As for me it was hard to …
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:31 PM
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They have scewed judgement abilities, and they can easily fall prey to those things. Best we can hope is they have a mature friend that can help them avoid it. Those that don't have someone to trust, will really need to fall to RP as it's part of their learning process of making a mistake they can learn from. Which will be their unique experience. Some people fall to RP, some to PUA, and others to black pill. Only thing you can do is be an open community that shows sympathy when they finally abl…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:20 PM
1

Anyway in terms of job search how's it going? Any personal projects? interviews?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 02:45 PM
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Good night. I was in the focus of the fictional work and it's original narrative.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 02:36 PM
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At first I thought you were actually speaking on my comment, but than you mentioned religion being abandoned, and hedonism being the core of Tyler Durden. Which is very untrue. Project Mayhem is the epitome of is being the case. And it's Tyler's cult of personality for his cause. Project Mayhem initiates people to wait 3 days while called slurs and fasting, their life is humility (shaved head, clean and work), only recieves their name when they die for the cause ("His name was Robert Wilson!"), …
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:34 PM
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Because you don't give answers, not even bad ones. You cop out while dismissing people trying to recover from RP efforts while throwing the burden of help soley on those who need the help, which is what lead people to the RP in the first place. This is not most people, this is just reddit.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:30 PM
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That's cool. I'm still studying and have quite a bit ability in OS optimization. I'm using it mainly to optimize my aging hardware. with how inconsistent the job market is. I try and avoid planning a career as much as develop automation to help me organize my finances and help me find corners to optimize savings.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:57 PM
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Tyler is everything anti-cosumerism. He's more of a reason why it's better collecting Ikea furnitures than going on a spiritually changing adventure where you spend a fortune on health treatments.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:52 PM
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What's the situation OP's describing and it's good choice applied?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:30 PM
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The imagination can be something worse than RP, like black pill.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:28 PM
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What good choices do you offer?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:27 PM
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Distinguish 'em.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:26 PM
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RP gives solutions, the solutions just suck. What's the alternative?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:26 PM
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The salt consumes the water liquids making hydration nullified. It's actually a good metaphor for dating advice in general.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:25 PM
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I saw heavily researched RP material, I saw heavily research psych research on pub.med. I saw fun youtube vids made by certified psychatrist (they mostly do fictional charectar analysis and simplified explanation of mental phenomenon). As you said, the only way to learn is through experience, and that experience is falling to RP and the likes. As OP said, some people really need it.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:24 PM
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So is starving
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:18 PM
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Value isn't inherent.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 11:52 AM
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Assume personal experience.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 11:49 AM
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Struggle's interesting.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 11:48 AM
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CS degree, oh nice. What do you like to develop? Do you have any cool gituhb projects?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 11:45 AM
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Yes. As an open option without expectations.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 11:19 AM
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TRP originated from dating advice sites, before them there was PUA, and forums you could ask question. It just turns out everybody's dating advice, pretty much sucks. RP just takes it to a whole new toxic level.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 06:20 AM
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Find what it is, and tell OP
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 06:19 AM
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It kind of is, there's always the low chance you're immune to a poison and can use the poisonous food as nutrients. It's a very terrible situation to be in, but it's a survival situation.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 06:18 AM
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A lot of people in the 70s-80s due to hippie and free love culture have the same issues. Anyone 60+ that can shed a light and find some guidance to help the guy?
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 04:37 AM
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Buy a rubber ducky
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 10:51 AM
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Only date people from your friends group.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 05:21 PM
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We should also ban the word males as dehumanizes men to mere animals who want sex
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 11:34 AM
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Pretty much the equivalent of a guy who's repulsive to a girl being dumped because her friends are saying he's ugly or desperate.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 11:18 AM
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Youtubers need views, it's clickbait tactics
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 09:22 AM
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Better dating advice than 99% of the internet.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 03:34 PM
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PUA - seduction community of people trying to analyze sexual conquest attempts stories. MRA / father rights - former feminists and gender politics activists focusing on men issues MGTOW - self-isolating men looking for online company Incels - post-PUA who developed traumas manifested in hatred refed in an echo chamber purple-pill - married menosphere members menslib - male feminists with a focus on male issues while staying consistent with feminist ideas They all have a commonality of online men…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 11:03 AM
1

Here! Here! *raises glass*
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 10:44 AM
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Men mature later than women.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 02:01 PM
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You never mentioned anything about having a social circle
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 09:19 AM
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With my eyes
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 09:14 AM
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Toxic people tend to make lots of shows and seem like a larger demographic than they actually are.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 07:41 PM
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No more mr nice guy vs how to win friends and influence people?
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 12:55 PM
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Encountering people with grandiose delusions kind of does that to a person.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 08:33 AM
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It depends on what was the marriage agreement.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 01:52 PM
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*Jurassic parking intensifies*
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 12:45 PM
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Short you can't. Long answer is that PUA tries what to do as long as it is sucsessful without asking what they should. If you prove a method works PUA will adopt it with little oversight.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 09:51 PM
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If you're not good at something how can you judge accurately if the information is good, to begin with?
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 07:40 PM
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Cold approaching just means making conversations with strangers. It's creepy because every conversation with someone new is scary. It's as much as just going to a cinema and asking one of the people waiting in the queue which movie they recommend and why.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 07:37 PM
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They originally came from PUA and seduction communities. Their principles are reddit analysis of it.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 11:08 AM
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I noticed redpillers to be traditionalists mainly and often have their fantasy "of going to good old times" mentality. Didn't think about their agnostic stand tho. I know that PUA and seduction communities are often very atheistic and not religious (not even supporting Islam). But redpillers tend to support old-school religions (gender segregation, no divorce marriage, father family representation... etc')
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 05:02 PM
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From your argument it sound like they're at least correlated. Your statement is just not true because there are plenty of douche bags who don't get girls.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 06:13 AM
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Doesn't matter to the original that if you fell to the redpill the chances are your experiences are in sync with it's theories.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 02:46 PM
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Doppelgangers have different experiences from each other as well
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 02:32 PM
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Your experience is different. That's where I'm going with it.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 02:12 PM
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You need to be a real psycho to feel okay with meeting people just to get laid.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 01:37 PM
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So he is a womanizer?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 01:28 PM
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I have a suspicion that your flatmate is just a womanizer that his whole life revolved around sex. You only had experience with one girl who was your crush. While your flatmate talks about women enough that his opinion is loud and telling is misogynistic. Just by probability alone him having more sex than you is just a guarantee. I won't recommend doing what he does unless you find out he's also well-respected and not just people / girls around.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 12:15 PM
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It's not that women want assholes. It's that most people in general are just not really nice.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 11:34 AM
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Problem : I have no social friends, and I can't get a girlfriend. Immediate environment : I met a lot of douchebags that get girls. Red pill : Douchebags get girls. Oppositional argument : Not all women are like that. Which one has more merit or substance to help the problem?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 11:33 AM
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The guy is either exceptional or delusional. Read this more relatable post.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 11:27 AM
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The redpill pill has lost influence due to the fact they were banned.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 11:23 AM
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If somehow they show that the redpill is wholesome. Then it is yeah as small as that chance is
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 05:59 AM
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Literal definition but sarcastic
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 04:21 PM
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Welcome to the internet
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 10:06 AM
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Men right activists and Father rights activists mainly.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 04:00 AM
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We don't know anything about him. The comment just reeks of entitlement, or inceldom as that pinned post mentioned.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 03:36 AM
1

Talk to a therapist. Ruminating like that is not good even tho it's true.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 07:40 AM
1

I think you mistake confidence with being content.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 10:55 AM
1

Worst. She lies to you for not sleeping while cheating. RP literally tells you to only have FWB's via plate theory.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:44 PM
1

Same as PUA coaches. They make money on their cult of personality.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:39 PM
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Also there's r/menslib that are men centered community based on feminist ideas. You can check them out. Issue with feminist communities is that they're female centered and men need their space to discuss. So check them out if you want a friendlier male space.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:33 PM
1

What's your stand on Warren Farrell and Erin Prizzey?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:32 PM
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Every guy thinks other guys get pussy. Check the pinned post. There's a post about redpill detox and a good one if you think redpill gets you results.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:29 PM
-1

Feeling lonely vs being abandoned
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:23 PM
0

Even if the redpill is completely right. It'll only make you stuck in a loop of misanthropic rumination. It's better to accept humility and move on.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:22 PM
1

Did that confidence pay up in the end?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:18 PM
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They're only wrong on the "every" part.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 06:23 PM
1

I know, right! I started convos with 100+ women and I'm still waiting for my confidence to pay up.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:39 AM
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Go to the pinned post
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 05:53 AM
1

Now you know why it's important to have a partner to gain more social security. I.e trust and friends. Edit : close friends. Hobby shops are not close friends.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 06:13 PM
1

It's basically saying, insomniac? Have some sleep! Instead of like, get a doctor to look at it when you have enough money or insurance.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 06:08 PM
1

It's not a lack of friends. Even at the times where I did have social circles and was regular in a hobby scene. People only started inviting me out of that confines when I had a girlfriend. Lack of trust isn't the same as having no friends or more accurately. Acquaintances.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 06:06 PM
1

It's not trust in others, it's others trusting in me either in school or workplace. It is, they treat kids kindly, they try and help loved once and closed ones. And if they make friends they can even go out of their way to save you out of sticky situations. Issue is that men less have friends in general. May have a ploretha of reasons but I honestly don't know. You were unto something, I was suprised how in the right direction except it's less subtle. And it's not we think wer'e coming off creep…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 05:16 PM
2

It doesn't. Due to the nature of the internet he seemed to actually mistake the two.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 03:52 PM
5

I met more women talk about sex than men. I met more men who like to do shitpost humor than women tho.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 03:19 PM
-3

Redpill doesn't reference the film except when discussing etymology.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:18 PM
3

If you're still detoxing. I'd suggest going monk mode for a bit. It's more for the detaching focus from relationships than self improvement.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:15 PM
1

They see themselves as sigma
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 08:10 AM
1

Doesn't matter. He wants results.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:44 AM
3

1-2 matches a day is quite significant. You're only going to meeting centers 5 times a month. I'd say with the money you make, go to a match maker.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:37 AM
4

Sounds like a cop out. You want to date and can't? What's the problem? Just find someone who wants to date lol.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:33 AM
1

But yeah. Dating sucks. And guys need to have a romantic partner just to have the trust of others.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 06:25 PM
1

Different demographics different standards.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 01:19 PM
4

Journal. Write your thoughts to reflect better.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 06:19 PM
1

It's about being heartbroken is the worst thing. When the worst thing is you need to leave the group because she feels uncomfortable
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:41 PM
1

In an honest manner of "what is dating really like for guys?"
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 06:31 PM
1

Ask the guys you're comfortable with "what dating is really like for guys?" that can answer honestly.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 06:19 PM
1

I'd say I'm a good, kind person, I'm hygienic and well-groomed, go to gym 6-7 days in a week, eat well. I try to be funny as much as I can, am into soccer, critically viewing movies and shows, writing, read a lot, am taking Spanish class to learn the language. I'm friendly and willing to talk to all sorts of people. I'd try the library, as you seem to try to appeal to the more intellectual side.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 06:09 PM
1

Go over the pinned post. There's a link for a post for that
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 06:06 PM
1

People that get the positive benefits of the RP don't stay their for too long.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 05:51 PM
1

I'd suggest you bring this to guys you know (close family or friends) you feel comfortable with. This is something you won't believe from me, but guys experience it far worse. There's a reason why the linked post in the pinned post advocates to not put your sucsess on getting laid. The context is the same for realationships as it appeals to men making romantic gestures with women.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 05:40 PM
1

It was gradual progress as it was getting into RP in the end. The nail in the coffin was getting a new medication that helped me recollect old memories.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 05:25 PM
1

How many dates do you think a guy gets usually? e.g getting to have some coffee just to know each other. Edit : And you mention risk a lot. What do you think the rist is? i.e what happens if doesn't go as planned?
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 05:20 PM
1

read the title
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 10:56 AM
8

Beta orbiter is defined as being friends solely for the hope of having sex. It's often used with simping. If you're actually enjoying your time with her and she respects your accommodations whatever they may be, and even better. She actually helps you, the same as a good friend like moving, or studying. It's not beta orbiting by definition. RP is quite toxic as they can't fathom the idea of helpful women in our lives.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 10:23 AM
1

When talking about RP don't shout
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 08:06 AM
1

Spot on. would add that the toxic culture actually corrupts the good advice that do get into RP.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 03:13 PM
3

MGTOW does as they support going ghost or "monk mode". RP mentions at times, then again they don't seem to act on it and focus on seduction and PUA. Most people aren't minimalist. And so far the r/simpleliving and r/minimalism are quite welcoming communities. Do suggest you take a look at them as they're quite wholesome in general.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 11:38 AM
3

Why is it important for you to find love and relationship in the 1st place?
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 01:26 PM
1

Yeah. Not even wrong is used to say pseudoscience. Redpill has no basis so it can't be even disproven. A lot of people give examples of RP being wrong in certain claims. The issue still comes back, RP is not wrong, it's pseudoscience that assumes too many things with no basis, so it can't be even disproven or validated. So, not even wrong, just toxic.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 09:59 PM
1

You tell her you think she's pretty and accept the risks.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 08:38 AM
-5

The redpill is not wrong it's just toxic. Also those coaches give very shallow run of the mill advice. You'll do better in dedicated groups for each of those disciplines.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 06:23 AM
4

Case by case situation. Glad your friend knew you and cared enough to help you.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 06:45 PM
5

The endless self help cycle.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 04:14 PM
0

Anyway. My answer is basically you can't know and best is to come to your own conclusions and judgement and hope for the best. Any advice you'll get online falls to survivorship bias. They hit on many girls and make many attempts but you'll only see the successful ones. Those that fail are buried in criticisms and ignored like black pillers (Incels). There are guys that get their highschool crush and sweethearts, there are those that try their best and never get any and are blamed for anything t…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 04:07 PM
3

MGTOW and incels do. RP is an iteration of PUA trying to be intellectuals. Never saw them actually generalize this statement.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 03:49 PM
2

Women don't tend to approach, so it makes men have to initiate. In the past it used to be the parents and family making arrangments.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 07:18 AM
3

Do you confess to guys you like often?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 05:38 AM
1

People fantasize on random things. Doesn't mean much tho.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 03:54 PM
1

I think you mistake redpill and blue pill. Which is awareness. Alpha beta is mainly a model of seeing male interactions as competetion of domination. It's weird to say the least.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 08:53 PM
3

RP content is constantly generated that it's flooding the internet regularly, it used to be seduction material. There are 60+ yo couples still together after 40+ years. If men only saw women for their beauty, those couples wouldn't exist.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 09:50 PM
1

If you're not putting value on sex what do you value else?
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 09:20 PM
1

if your roommate is l not an asshole ask if you can join him while mentioning you're low on cash. He might let you as it shows him in better light bringing a friend to a social event.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 05:03 PM
2

The Bible is not science per se?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 08:22 AM
-4

Hating Jordan because he interprets the bible is a bit discriminatory if it's not against his discipline
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 08:03 AM
-3

Isn't that discriminatory?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 07:54 AM
4

PUA believes that if you act like you have girls you get girls. "Abundance mentality." RP being to support stoicism call it also DGAF attitude. Issue is that you're not true with yourself and reality.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 06:43 PM
2

It would've been pathetic if you were delusional and tried to play "abundance mentality" to fix it.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 06:18 PM
2

Survivorship bias. Most men don't stay long on MGTOW once they mitigate the situation enough.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 05:13 PM
8

Survivorship bias. People in loving relationships are busy maintaining it, building a family, getting their life together; than to do youtube vids and spend time on reddit. The dating market is diffrent, not unfair. MGTOW are actually make content on workout, saving money, and investment. One's faith in humanity unfortunetly (unless delusion) is relient on other people just as much on one's self.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 04:59 PM
2

Not really, as it's based anyway on PUA forums and the ideas of "the game" by Neil Strauss. The book itself is a Mish mash of ideas with not much in-depth explanation beyond statistics that their relevancy is questionable. It's not even wrong, just ungrounded and lacks substance.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 10:43 AM
1

Date shorter girls than. Women avg. height is 5 feet 4.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 12:21 AM
1

Women are more open about their romantic and sexual issues. You can ask a female friend about it if you frame it in a romantic way and she'll more than be glad to tell you as a friend, the alt. Is if she likes you more than that she'll try to hint about her desires to get closer. Either way it's a win win situation where you either learn about women struggles in that department or you get a partner who knows you're willing to listen.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 03:02 PM
6

I never met a girl who cares for my money as much as just not being a NEET
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 06:19 PM
5

At what age did meeting with new people expect you to introduce yourself with your job title?
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 10:35 AM
14

Rollo Tomassi. The rest are more clearly trying to imitate reality shows like Oprah. Rollo Tomassi is working hard to brand himself as an intellectual alt to academics. Which is deplorable. MGTOW do the same as a form of advice but don't use honorary labels or claim to be educated in a field like evolutionary psychology.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 03:58 PM
1

First of a. Great you workout!nice job keeping the routine. About being shallow. Therir too many factors to account for. And I'm givin the paragraph for you to think about before concluding it's people shallowness. Workouts can affect people in different ways. You said you do push-ups which increases upper chest muscles. This workout has a more visible result but only practical at punching and striking. Does the attitude show during summers mainly or winters as well when you're covered in layers…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 12:23 PM
0

Deny AWALT, agreed it's very toxic in general. Just wondering if you agree with NAWALT? And if so how do you differentiate?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 04:50 PM
1

Natural enjoyment and what they are can also be the way RP acts.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 12:27 PM
2

So men should strive for stoicism and self improvement to be masculine?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 11:54 AM
1

I would consult friends who know you personally. Ideally a mutual friend. As you said you don't know her. So it's better to know another source than what someone posts online.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 11:50 AM
1

Being able to believe women are faking being gamers and geeks for the vast majority of my youth. I'm an avid gamer and geek, and couldn't fathom a gamer girl. Looking back, I had so many missed oppurtunities to make friends with shared hobbies.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 08:30 PM
1

Hopefully your reputation is not irreversibly damaged as a result.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 03:04 PM
3

The comments are sane and great rid as a form of faith on humanity. The post itself is a good representation of RP
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 08:09 AM
1

It's wednesday today. If she's interested I would expect her to send a message during today till saturday. I can't suggest anything as I don't know the issue and people tend to have survivorship bias according to how tp help. I just wonder one thing. In general how do girls treat you?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 10:44 AM
1

Damn, you have close friends. Not acquaintances. But actually close friends. You have a tribe you can cultivate. Check if you can hang out with them more often instead of just a few venues every once in a while. Forget about girls, you said yourself it's harder to make friends after college. And you basically hit the jackpot without even noticing. I can't promise it'll bring girls, but at least it'll ease and mitigate the feelings of loneliness.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 04:36 PM
1

For example, I’ve given my number to women, one of them was a girl I met who we talked for like 3 hours. Great conversation, she said yes to a date but i don’t think it’dll go anywhere because i forgot to get HER number and usually those things end with them never texting me. How long has passed since that event?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 04:33 PM
3

How's your social life in general?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 11:17 AM
0

I remember, OP asked for why to get off RP. She responds with "RP bad." without giving a reason as the reason for RP appeal is the need for navigating social conventions with the other gender.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 01:28 PM
-2

It's meta-political at least, lol. I'm asking as when you said originally that RP is toxic as the reason to leave I asked what are the alternatives. Since you brought feminism up it sounded like kind of a recruitment to a political identity.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 12:01 AM
-1

How much of the RP community is there due to politics? I'm asking as your referral to feminism is very politically oriented ASFAIK.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:56 PM
1

Which one is cyanide?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:08 PM
6

Sounds like the wife cheating with the mailman / milkman stories. edit : not really except taking time off reddit to have time with your GF. Her opinion is more important than the advice of random guys on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:04 PM
-1

Huh. Do you think people get into RP because of political opinion?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:00 PM
-2

I know RP is bad. What other accessible choices are there?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 10:53 PM
8

You can say the opposite as well. "Leave the RP and find out for yourself in a few years."
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 10:09 PM
2

Why are you in the RP in the first place?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 10:08 PM
-2

What other choices are there?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 10:07 PM
3

Good idea. Back to the point. You said absolutely. Which is end up that you need to say if the choice of approach is true for every situation, if not what are the limitations? Complicated shade of grey means very little in substance. If I do have a choice, what are they? ​ Edit: Thanks for the clarification. Unfortunately writing the post I want had issues of it as every time I'd give I would often get a literal "missing info" without saying what info is needed. For that to make a post of discus…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 05:48 PM
2

So you were isolated, had no friends whatsoever, family was distant, and you fixed your mental health despite of it?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:42 PM
3

That's true, you won't feel special. Just wonder if it devalues the love, support, and loyalty you get just because someone is willing to compromise with reality.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:40 PM
1

I never heard that analogy before. care to explain, would love to hear it elaborated.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:37 PM
1

During times of drought and food shortages you don't have access to anything in a grocery store. What's available can be nothing as well. You made a choice to take nothing because nothing was available.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:36 PM
2

You can choose who to approach, when and how. Are there any limitations, or are you sure it's true in every scenario?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:34 PM
2

"I need to meet better people" There are cases where you won't. "I won't put up with being treated badly". It can result in just being ignored in the end of the day
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:30 PM
1

You can choose the small options of pool you get, in some cases the only option you have are a toxic person or being alone.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:29 PM
1

You can ask her out if you're distant enough if the fact that you asked her out won't be detrimental on you if she becomes cold towards you.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 03:13 PM
2

For certainty it did doing it for that long. Can't pinpoint on what exactly due to the duration and amount i've been in it.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 03:01 PM
2

I did. Men do have it, can't tell for women as IDK. You only experience the energy after 90+ days when you developed the tranquility and deicipline to adjust to the new state.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 11:26 AM
2

Health if you're stiff and are energized. You're healthy. Than again no one here is a doctor or knows you personally. I'd suggest see a urologist or sexologist to consult with.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 11:24 AM
2

I did for 2 years during covid Edit: just found it didn't add what I wanted to. NoFap on itself is a great spiritual tool to mentally enhance your energy and be able to buildup for better mindsets and mental states. It doesn't improve you as much as immensely discomfort you from the basic stress release which is sexual release with no partner available. The self improvement is only good if you're addicted to porn. I.E you can't build a better life because porn is sucking you. Unfortunetly for pe…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 11:22 AM
4

NoPorn is more important. NoFap is not stable due to the amount of material we have acess to without effort that can debautcher a simple leisure.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 11:21 AM
1

Even if he treats and supports homeopathy? I don't know what it is. But I'm assuming it's the medical equivelent of RP
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 02:11 PM
1

This is the original attempt of MGTOW and incels. A place to comfort and help in giving up / moving on. It didn't end well for those who stayed or are now joining
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 12:26 PM
1

Therapists are plural and varied, some support RP.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 11:34 AM
1

Indeed, the reason I originally asked about the alternatives, is the need for a convincing idea to give an RP that takes little effort on their part. As a person that your expertise is psychopathology which is the science of behavioral disorders(which is what I found here), what would you say is the cause root of people deciding to make theories with 'sexual conquest' being the main end goal in mind?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 09:39 PM
1

Okay cool.I read the crowd by gustave le bon in full, and read mainly works about autism and ADHD per my diagnosis. psychopathology is fully alien to me, so pardon my ignorance. As you're an expert, the biggest concern in psychology is the uncontrolled and sometimes unaccounted factors in psychological behaviors when doing experiments. How do you minimize the error factor? And better yet can you give an article in concern with 'meeting women' like the podcast touches on?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:54 PM
0

I read a few articles. I'll list them when the proper time comes. I assume you did as well do such research.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:41 PM
-1

But ultimately, if red pill makes claims to be able to help, it should be demonstrating that it can deliver. If no alternative exists. It can still market regardless. TRP offers an intellectual sphere to speak of sexual conquest as a form of science which would be considered a taboo goal. (And for good reason)
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:32 PM
-2

This is an hour long podcast his linking to. I'm going to listen to it, so thanks. About the need to learn proper psychology, is that it's not properly researched like other fields such as medicine (psychiatry and neurology) or biology (animal behavior). So thought I agree it's a better alternative, psychology is often becomes flanderized by people to become a parody of itself. You need to point what field of psychology, or sources you're speaking of. TL;DR saying do your own psychological resea…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:30 PM
1

What's the alternative?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 07:45 PM
2

Thanks for the internet, the attractive guy / girl becomes a celebrity due to them being spread via memes until a modeling agency signs them up. Assuming that is what the guy wants. There was that famous mugshot guy that came out of jail.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 05:15 PM
3

That's basically how I got out of it. I still have no friends. I'm seeing a therapist and psychatrist to test plethora of meds and treatments. I may never be able to have a relationship and well never be able to have the social skills to get people good side to get our of RP fully. But at least I'm on bay with having experts to help me from dwelling to RP too much.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 10:49 PM
1

The redpill is not wrong, it's toxic.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 10:23 PM
6

It's more said as an insult as it hurts the ego, same as commenting on a girls age. Unless it's a micro penis (Real disorder) I don't think you should worry.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 10:21 PM
1

I don't know. Had it 4-5 times already. The vast majority just ignore.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 01:42 AM
1

Can you give an example?
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 01:13 AM
1

they make a date, cancel last minute and reschedule, do it again, and reschedule. third time I just give up.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:58 AM
1

It’s much more efficient to approach, then get a conversation going, exchange phone numbers, and set up a time and place to meet up, it’s simple and right to the point, I wouldn’t even exchange social media handles, save that for another day when you get to know her Vast majority of girls that I did that with would ignore my texts to make a date, or worse linger me along for three dates to cancel last minute. If they actually did agree. My sample is around 100, so I can't say it's a big enough s…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 08:27 PM
3

Redundant if there's no way to quantify. Quantify not measure. Thinking about it now that I'm out of it, It says more about RP than anything else.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:49 PM
10

There are men rights groups, r/menslib among them. Also you desribed a general maskinh that is a virtually constant behaivor to adapt to a group. The issue is that autism makes it hard to make it appropriate or well enough. Or worse. Not at all. Chances are more you're not autistic sue to rarity and are juat aurrounded by bullies (unless it happens in virtually every group you take part with)
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:52 AM
1

tolerated, not expected. Insecure people end up lashing at other people as the fear grows bigger. Some tend to be distant, or be overwhelmingly attached, some even cheat, others get into debts as well. Insecurity can cause many misfortunes as we don't have the mental fortitude to react to social threats.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 07:44 PM
2

They're very cult like so they literally built a hierarchy for red pill. Rationale male MGTOW levels
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 01:32 PM
1

If you going to paint others in a way that's grounded in nothing I can't discuss further. I don't know you. For all I know you may be a troll. Yet we still discuss. You brought I am biased. It means nothing if it has no substance to any of your claims. I have no idea why you need to bring stereotypes and bias as being the same as harming as they're concepts. The question of an extreme scenario you copped out the question from saying to let go to giving a diffrent interpertation. "Would I ask an …
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 07:50 AM
1

It's clear you don't want to learn from anecdotes. Dismissing things from happening due to them being influenced by bias isn't productive. The reason you don't let go from the memories is due to them being a way to not repeat past mistakes. Biases and stereotypes are byproducts of learning of the past whether cultural stories, or personal experiences that are productive, if a certain culture commits more crimes than others it shouldn't be a reason for persecution while at the same time shouldn't…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 09:31 PM
1

She said she lost attraction without further elaboration. There's nothing to do except make assumptions about causes while respecting her wishes. If you were in my shoes what would you do?
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 06:40 PM
1

No. I meant Correlation. There's a possibility the reason for both is the same source, or because she lost attraction than i quit my job. It's unlikely they're unrelated. As one would often be a factor even when miniscule on the rest or vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 05:59 PM
1

it was during the time I was working 2 min. jobs. I never played for more than 2 hours, and during my semester I don't as well. The summer I had more free time that was unusual so I seized the opportunity.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 12:08 AM
-1

Not of you don't act like one, which you may not since you don't know what else there could be aside from working. You need to be an actual partner and companion , you need to offer more than a paycheck, especially if you don't want to be seen as a paycheck. What does it mean to be a partner and companion. It is complicated, but i think a good place to start is offer her what you expect from her. She will likely want things you don't, and as her partner its importsnt to understand that and act a…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 11:57 PM
1

I think the word you're trying to say is that it's not "predictable".
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 09:54 PM
2

Yeah. I forgot MLMs are a thing.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 09:48 PM
-1

I am seeing a therapist. They're not good to help social situations as much as helping mental issues (not health just issues). Also there are social patterns, I'm just exhausted most of the day to be on the lookout for them. Romantic is a fantastic element. Most of it's patterns relies on what people consume on media. I mean BDSM became a focus in dating when 50 shades came out, and many women were infatuated by men dressed as vampires and pirates for a time. Dating I have no idea, most dates th…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 09:47 PM
2

never said anything about gold digging
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:50 PM
3

yes
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:34 PM
2

I studied at the college prepping for pursuing a comp-sci major. It was material I learned in the past that I took the time to play Bioshock as a mini break from working 2 jobs.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 07:26 PM
0

If we did we won't get sidetracked. Nor TRP would even exist. We aim to be able to differentiate, but not always can.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:31 PM
4

Well, how many hours a day were you gaming and how frequently? at the time 4 hours a day after lectures and assignments. If you are a heavy gamer I would be on the lookout for a girl who shares your interest in gaming, otherwise this could be an issue. I actually found one, not looking to date. Just glad I found someone to play sundred and moonhunters.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:26 PM
0

Ask the subreddit, you'll be surprised how people find solutions to those looking to transition.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:21 PM
7

Yeah. I think it's due to the depression of being fired that is overwhelming to those around.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:20 PM
2

I pay here 700$ a year for top tier insurance. Come to Israel.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:19 PM
1

How much do you pay for health insurance?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:07 PM
1

IDK how it's in the USA due to health insurance and taxes.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:02 PM
1

Surprisingly, most people are, they just don't want the lifestyle that comes with it. r/simpleliving are the people that speak on how to achieve it. edit: you were speaking of having lots of wealth. I thought you spoke on having enough to live comfortably.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 05:00 PM
1

You're using the definitions, so I'm glad you looked into them. I'm going to use reductio ad absurdum. It's not a strawman, as much showing that your definition can be interpreted in false ways. A scrooge can be the interpretation of accountability, a scammer can be the interpretation of emotional intelligence, a doormat can be the interpretation of humility, suicide or mercy kill can be one way to be proactive, and even a lot of political extremists have integrity due to them acting in their ho…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 04:45 PM
1

Any of them
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 04:33 PM
1

But still, if you seem to have a pattern of spontaneous unemployment, that's not a great feature for someone who wants to build a life with you in the future. Living together or not, if you're often getting fired or leaving jobs and your income is sporatic, that's not someone I'd want to be committed to. Independent of financial state?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 04:32 PM
0

After I got unemployed she lost attraction. Thought it's possible, it's not unreasonable to see there may be a correlation.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 04:27 PM
-1

I can see them being interpreted wrongly, can you elaborate them so it won't lead to a wrong conclusion?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 04:25 PM
-6

Give a specific example.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 03:55 PM
1

Agreed. what if you're not living together.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 03:52 PM
-8

What are things beyond being a provider that makes someone be respected?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 03:49 PM
12

Was working 2 min. wage jobs to save money for college, gotten into a prep course for ADHD students in the edge of the country so I needed to quit as well prepping for the load of my major. During the time I had more leisure to play while learned learning strategies and how to navigate the school system. I'm studying now comp-science. Her reason was "I'm no longer attracted to you." My gaming sessions never exceeded more than 2 hours a day. And even that would be on my days off. So she didn't mi…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 03:47 PM
-12

Beyond being condescending, is there a specific thing you can say that gets someone's respect, in this case your partner? If you're saying to read upon this, I can go back to end up reading RP or RP influenced material as there's not much of a way to validate the info out there.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 03:22 PM
2

Sorry to hear that. Does he have access to his kids at least?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 03:01 PM
-9

What do you mean? What else is there to offer that she can respect? Am I not a partner and companion if I'm not working?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/22 03:01 PM
0

I'm asking, as the mental state deteriorating from RP comes from amassing large quantities of rejection. PUA tries to make a game of being rejected, however it's fairly traumatic, one or 10 rejections is fine, but hundreds and hundreds can really leave a dent.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 03:51 PM
1

How many girls did you hit since you found RP or PUA? And how many times were you rejected?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 11:38 AM
2

Sorry, been in RP for way too long, and had to cut a lot of friends that I found were PUA later on.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 08:07 PM
1

What's not a work in progress? As you said my experience is very biased due to abuse and predators. And so nothing I learned was wholesome, even grimdark to an extent. How did the ASD guy you grew up with build his social circle?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 07:37 PM
1

What makes you think I didn't?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 07:11 PM
1

It's to break the argument of no one owes you anything. Life doesn't owe anyone anything, nor is it fair. ​ A loner isn't likely going to die from me not engaging with them socially. It's not just you. It's everyone around the loner. If someone wants friends they have to make themselves available and approachable. That's where RP hooks you. People aren't going to chase you. That's how cults deflect and ignore criticism.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 07:10 PM
1

TRP is not wrong, just toxic.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 06:02 PM
1

love that story, still not seeing the message of "nobody owes you anything."
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 03:37 PM
0

or "doesn't deserve life" would be more accurate
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 03:30 PM
0

But next to that man is a cellphone, he refused to learn how to use himself. A man who knows not how to use a cellphone, deserves death. - wise words on reddit
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 03:29 PM
1

I don't care about dating, as much as having kinship in general. A person isn't owed friends, however a man isn't owed to be saved when he's dying in the streets. Yet if you heard of a person who abandoned someone dying who's begging him to call an ambulance and ignored his pleas I doubt you would see it in good light.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:19 PM
0

And If I don't find them?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 08:14 AM
3

my last therapist would shout at me due to being frustrated that I just didn't read the person. I met way too many people who fake their interests to be appealing. My current therapist is more understanding in this regard as the issue is not the loneliness itself but the stress and paranoia that comes with prolonged loneliness.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 08:13 AM
1

I'm seeing therapy. Perhaps you need to work on yourself, and your own confidence. Maybe seek therapy. Life doesn't owe anyone anything, nor is it fair. r/wowthanksimcured
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 08:09 AM
1

Romantic, or general friendships?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:22 AM
0

sexual harassment, gossip, got punched in the face a few times.Phone prank with death threats. They stopped once I stood up for myself, with the dismay and rebuttal on my reputation as I found most of my "friends" liked them more.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:06 AM
1

Because I have little to no friends, unlike you. I can't just cut people out if friendships are so rare.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:04 AM
2

I am diagnosed ASD. What's your solution?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:01 AM
-1

Also, I said nothing about dating.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:56 AM
-2

I am, it just ends up being very lonely. I never met people that don't cross boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:53 AM
-3

when will the good friendships with women come than?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:53 AM
1

What's it about?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:15 AM
-3

Isn't feminism against generalizations?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:13 AM
-6

And if she's abusive?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:11 AM
9

If you're going to want to be able to "Pickup" women. You're going to inevitably be sucked back into RP. There's no alternative in this regard. This is one of the cases that all desire leads to suffering.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:10 AM
0

If it's good friendship. Met girls (and guys) that would use me as an emotional dumpster and would abandon once I showed boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:08 AM
10

Are you an amazonian warrior by any chance?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 09:46 AM
-2

Tall women find it difficult finding someone attracrive. Short men find it difficult to attract someone. One is a problem of needing to compromise, the other is a problem of nobody is compromising for you.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 09:45 AM
1

Good looks has the halo effect which makes it possible for you get high earning positions and financial favors. There are parents who remove disabled children, let alone ugly kids from their will, or worse, disown them. You can't be born to wealth. You're born to wealthy parents. There's a difference.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 08:01 PM
1

If a girl says she's not interested, you walk away.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 07:57 PM
1

How close are you to him?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 07:53 PM
1

huh, 5'7" here m8. I'm 26. If it's an issue for you, and not just a self conscious thing. Just date shorter women.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 07:38 PM
2

You have OCD. It's expected for you to feel this way regardless of what's the situation. Biologically humans are adaptive due to our neurons able to make connection understanding of our environment and better yet learn it from others expressing those "fictional" environments and how to deal with them via stories we tell each others over time to learn from. About you sex drive, most sex drive loss in young people is either due extreme stress, and porn overuse, the rest are less likely but if you'…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 07:35 PM
1

Oh. I got out of it by moving out of the city, got diagnosed for ASD and using my benefits to pay for a therapist and a psychiatrist. Something I never could before I don't have friends, and it's no longer a goal of mine. I'm okay being isolated. Even thought it may risk another mental breakdown.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 11:23 PM
1

Undiagnosed autism (my dad hid it from me), and needing a way to get socially better. Everyone always tried to tell me how to act by shouting, and physically abusing. Unfortunately, there are regular systematic biases towards women when it's combined with men. When on trips women get the preferences for better grooming products like shampoos, conditioners, and body wash, and the first to get hot showers if the situation is limited. I'm expected to pay for the bus fare regardless of my standing w…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 11:16 PM
1

He's both RP and can't make a date. I wonder how so? RP has an issue of toxicity that is manifested in delusional confidence. So not being to arrange a date seems to be counter against the ideas of RP.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 10:25 PM
0

Did the women you encounter were kind people? It's not unreasonable if that was the case. Women do turn men hate after mingling with the wrong men or when they live in very bad neighborhoods. The similar can happen to men who got abused as little boys. Incels are also an example, albeit, they shouldn't be sympathized with as much as be understood. You did get it with men, with all the regret you have. At least you can be glad you're attractive :). About how to break this behavior. The better que…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/22 09:02 PM
1

If it's relevant to her. definitely. Even if it's not common, it's realistic due to necessity. At least it won't end up exploding.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 04:10 PM
4

Oh wait, you're asking if you should workout to get a six-pack to be more attractive? Well, if you hate working out, change your workout to a more suitable type. You should workout for health and mental reasons. But not for beauty appeal or six-pack per se.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 04:05 PM
1

Yes, please snu snu me, amazonian warrior goddess!
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 04:03 PM
0

Imagine if a girl was disgusted by a man's spending habits or excessive workaholism or drug use. Being slutty is another form of defense mechanism. As advice, I would keep track of what's going on. It may be early signs of a depressive episode. It's not her that's the problem, it's your mental health.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 03:24 PM
2

Circle of lonely bitter man desperate to improve their situation getting targeted by scammers. Seems likely
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 12:37 PM
6

can they? I mean a lot of successful streamers are women for the same reason of onlyfans.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 01:07 AM
1

Yeah. I realized that love means often intimacy or friendship. In this case I was actually talking about the same love as saying "I love humanity" Or "I love animals."
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 03:26 PM
2

No, we have the same mind just a different interoperation of love. I was talking about love as in benevolence or "loving humanity" so to speak applied to men's demographic.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 03:21 PM
1

Traditionalists make a huge bulk of RP unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 12:24 AM
1

I read your post. And I have no idea what you're talking about? You know good and bad men, that's expected like everything else. You make selective choice of liking some men but not others. That's reasonable. But as a demographic, do you wish men to go die in trenches for your country? Denied safety measures usually reserved for women (Spouse shelters, cancer research) you assume men's needs to mean something specific. As you said, it's human needs applied to men. Nothing more than that. So I as…
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 12:23 AM
1

That's an honest answer. You were dodging the question if you like men / women in general to say it's only on an individual level. The only Attitude inferred to fit is general indifference.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 12:15 AM
0

This sub has mixed feelings about men?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 12:13 AM
0

Thanks for the source. Journalism it is. Did you check the researches this article relies on?
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 01:40 PM
0

Honest answer, I actually liked it because of that. The concern is to help both victims and exredpillers to heal and get off the damage RP did. RP unfortunately uses the gender divide that a lot of people experience to make it appealing. The only way to get people off from cult mindsets is to let them have a social structure that supports them. And if your attitude towards people is a representation of the sub as a whole. I can see why men here would return to RP forums. But than again. I hope I…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 01:37 PM
-6

The opposite of misogyny and misandry.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 01:11 PM
1

Jordan Peterson used to be a professor in psychology.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 01:09 PM
-2

As much as I agree with this statement. RP uses quote mining to facilitate their theory of dread game how can I be sure this doesn't do the same?
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 12:56 PM
2

Menosphere subgroup based on forums dedicated to analyzing dating and seduction data to have political, sociological, behavioral and psychological theories with only the use of case studies of internet users field reports. field reports - Detailed personal anecdotes related to dating theories - conclusions based on data and field reports with no scientific method conductions TL;DR Menosphere forums under the proclaimed banner of "redpill".
/r/ExRedPill05/11/22 11:35 AM
1

Your self worth isn't depended on relationships or hating/disliking women If your self worth isn't dependent on your relationships with others, than what it depends on? Also I must say, you're painting a horrible strawman, if you're implying what I think you are with what you said in the latter.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/22 08:53 AM
1

Can you summarize it or add a TL;DR?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/22 08:50 AM
-1

I don't meet girls much in general.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 10:14 PM
1

are you attracted to every good women? With all honesty, I did so far up until now.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 09:53 PM
-1

There isn't, it's a political identity based on ideology. There's no core beliefs as much as dogma. People call each other redpill as either insult of comradery depends on your side.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 09:49 PM
-1

Is the being awakened to reality. Leftists have the term "woke" for that same matter. Religion use something along "seen his light." etc'. everyone uses it to mean. You believe in our doctrine.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 09:39 PM
1

Asians are attractive in Europe and Israel, Europeans are attractive in US. US and Europeans are attractive in Japan but not China, South Koreans are attractive to most ethnicities (Plastic surgery does that), Black guys were attractive in UK for some reason, would have imagined them attractive in South Africa and LA. And it changes all the time, and gets more complicated. Yeah, racial fashion is changed via it's geography. It's weird to follow it. You can try looking up those things and change …
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 04:10 PM
19

Saying there's a correct way is the main issue of RP.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 02:53 PM
1

Unfortunately it's not a few. That's why it's a concern.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 03:26 PM
1

Right so in the RP there's the concept of women giving the talk. Women who don't want to be plates give it in order to not be taken advantage of, or to solidify their guys. Because RP considers women as unstable they avoid it as to not be committing someone who's likely to hurt them. So guys avoid giving a label, and girls can lie having sex. Both sides give deliberate confusion to have plausible deniability. Now imagine this, you invest in a girl. Can't read the social cues of what the situatio…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 08:41 PM
1

And women find this sexy. Consent is hot, and required. It doesn't kill the mood at all, that's some shit redpillers made up. Wanted to quote this part, as it's misleading as consent is as hot as it is locking your door or offering someone a cup of tea. You have to for safety reasons, but it's not necessarily hot or exciting.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 08:32 PM
3

I'll get ro my desktop and give a fuller answer.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 03:38 PM
6

You can always give the "What are we?" talk. Redpill try to make it as confusing as possible to give her an emotional roller coaster. Which is by itself abusive. Break the cycle, stop the train wreckage in it's tracks and ask before you become too invested.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 03:35 PM
0

"Every girl is different" is often what is said to those questions. How come this time is diffrent?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 03:31 PM
5

Same as the "Wife is cheating with the milkman".
/r/ExRedPill18/10/22 06:50 PM
1

Based on ratinale male. Alpha means strong confidence Beta means weak confidence You can see many situations where both are destructive or productive in their place. The first can be due to grandiose delusion, and the latter cane be due to concerns.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/22 09:38 AM
1

Do you have friends now than?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 10:14 PM
2

After you self developed, lift, and improved you looks and finances fairly. What do you do in a case there's no girl who shows interest?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 09:04 PM
2

How dis you get out of it?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 09:00 PM
1

So what's the right approach to get romantic?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 08:55 PM
0

Women are happier single and childless?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 01:57 PM
1

Do you have a solution to her situation?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 12:31 PM
8

RPW - redpill women Redpill subreddit for women, it's still active.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 12:30 PM
2

So celibacy or abstinence?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 11:11 AM
0

So you've visited, awesome. Did you watch any of them?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 10:25 AM
-1

How?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 02:56 AM
-2

Which one?
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 10:10 PM
-1

As much as I'm against the redpill. Your old posts indicate that you come from a poor war torn country. Those places tend to be a hostile place where you have to be a doormat at times. Your upbringing seems to be traditional, so you'd have fallen to an RP like mindset anyway. You didn't find "keys" through the RP, you were painted a reality of cruelty, and the RP just validated it for you. That's something way too common for men who go through abuse that than fall to the RP. The worse route is i…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 06:40 PM
-14

I don't know, I watched quite a bit of MGTOW content, most bashing videos direct at society as a whole. Women, feminism, governments, dating apps, simps, PUA's, RP's... Etc. Anything that society does to harm men. Take an incel and remove the self pity, and being bummed from not getting laid. And you got a MGTOW. MGTOW it's by it's definition men disconnecting from society as a whole. The issue comes in the algorithm works. If you're a MGTOW you'll often get videos on finances, work, and getting…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 04:23 PM
3

Wait, you met someone who you showed interest in them and they said "I'm in a relationship."?
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 10:30 AM
2

Saw your brother is autistic which is crucial. Meltdowns are stressful, you probably made the lady uneased because you were panicking.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:15 PM
3

Feminism is an umbrella term that used to promote a group of ideologies to that support gender equality that's often tainted with gynocentric perspectives. The closest equivalent in a male perspective is the manosphere as a whole that were once called mennists, don't know if it was a parody or serious term back than, but it was what it was. The RP is a small but very vocal part of the manosphere. If one part of feminism has banned you because they interpreted what you said as anti feminist. Just…
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 02:21 PM
3

Yup, sounds about right. Met a guy like that, ended up being kicked out of most of my social circle due to sexual harassment. He had most of the girls I know charmed by him. But when talking to me he'd cry about how cruel the world is towards him. Turns out the guy is manic depressive. He would come to me to talk for beer sometimes due to my cold exterior when he was depressed. And when he was manic he was so energetic that most people were excited around him. Girls would fall to that, and guys …
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 10:19 PM
1

I don't mind him answering. I think it's a good idea that r/MensLib would participate here in general.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 09:51 PM
2

First of all, I agree with you. Everything you said is solid. especially this quote: Free speech has always had limits, and the people on the wrong side of those limits have historically often been the same types of people who are now - those who want to whip others up into a nonthinking, potentially violent group rage. The popular sense of what those limits to free speech could or should be, or why, largely has not caught up to what the research on quality of information flow online has shown t…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 07:04 PM
21

RP is centralized on social hierarchies on a macro level. The basic idea of hypergamy is that a woman won't want a man unless he's better than her and being seen as an equal means that you're not better than her. It translates that being friends with a woman means you're beneath or equal but never better.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:49 PM
1

The question is who decides where to put the line?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:42 PM
1

It's admirable they're doing it if it's to protect guidelines and make a kind community. And not due to general disdain to RP per se, RP do have a lot of channels that are hateful and break a few of the guidelines. Guidelines often broken : vulgar language, harmful or dangerous content, hate speech. If they're one siding to destroy RP content, without destroying man hating feminists for example, than that's deplorable. I think them getting banned is good because their toxic messages can’t hurt t…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:33 PM
1

You mean the dark mysterious type
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 11:20 AM
1

Its my whole quote in the original Sexuality in general is taboo, any time the academics was to research about it. It met the same fate as research on drugs during the war on drugs. It had to have predetermined results as not to hurt the researchers standing.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 10:45 PM
1

predetermined results How can I know it's honest?
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 10:36 PM
1

Sexuality in general is taboo, any time the academics was to research about it. It met the same fate as research on drugs during the war on drugs. It had to have predetermined results as not to hurt the researchers standing. The RP(, PUA, and Incels for that matter) is the result of this need, however due to not being part of an academic circle, and just intellectual bubbles on the internet without the oversight of the scientific process, it turns dogmatic. Making a new sect of a different philo…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 03:48 PM
5

Are you diagnosed with anything? Asking because if you have a baseline for long enough you think that's the norm while for other it may be unnerving. Just saying, check your sleep, or routine, stress level. And consult your GP.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 03:33 PM
1

Spoken like a true dogmatist.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 10:22 AM
1

I'm not going to the rape cases as I don't know enough. I just know that they are rarely report in it's nature of the crime due to the many reasons you also listed. And that raises an eyebrow to the reality of what it is. All I know is this: The crime is very mentally straining in the long term. It's a very enticing crime that is used politically It's very hard to prove, and the accused is released ​ My last point will be that I think you’re coming at this from a RP vs feminist perspective, whic…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 10:32 PM
1

In most cases when show evidence it doesn't work in a case. They'll make an exception or claim it's a rule or thumb.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 10:04 AM
1

Gish gallop, and self contradictions in the RP theories. I.E Too many theories to tackle, and most have their own theory that contradicts another RP theory.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 10:03 AM
1

I think you’re confusing dissociation for repression, and while they can happen, it is a lot more rare than you think (what sources did you use to find this info? These concepts are less common in more modern psychological research). And this is not why most rape cases aren’t reported fyi. However, you are correct that sometimes it does take time to realize what happened was actual assault (like your example of a child thinking the act is a normal way of a parent showing love until they grow up …
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 09:59 AM
1

I think you should find a good psychiatrist and a good therapist who BOTH have experience with ASD. Super important. There are parts of socializing that are just naturally more difficult for people with ASD, and it helps to have the right team to work with. It’s kind of like taking silver bullets with you if you are going to be fighting Werewolves - go with what works. Easier said than done
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 09:27 AM
1

I'm in college. I'm just doing my comp-sci degree to get a job.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 09:26 AM
1

​ You make it sound like your social life is some sort of an artificial construct that needs constant attention not to collapse. Should it be that way? Usually, those who have low self esteem tend to present an artificial mask to others. As a means to hide real vulnerable self. Yes, this is tiring, so such people tend to avoid social situations. Are you one of them? I'm diagnosed with ASD, masking is part of the condition. Don't wait, impose yourself on them. I meant that they see me only in the…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 07:03 PM
0

First off, sorry about what happened to you. Being abused in such a malevolent depraved way is not fun. And shouldn't happen to anyone. Your story sounds really rough. I would give you my full sympathize, as this something I never experienced to empathize. That being said. I need to point some things. You're right that redpill will care for male survivors when they attack feminists. As their core of the ideas is to be the mesosphere's version of gender studies. The same when feminists will not a…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 05:33 PM
1

In summary the red pill is bad but to me it seems like a necessary protection mechanism.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 11:42 AM
2

I always imagined it the opposite. If a girl can't pair bond she'll end up with a high n-count. High n-count could also result from very bad circumstances.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 04:53 PM
1

I get social interactions, not a social circle
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 12:07 PM
2

They than are enclosed in that activities. And will only see me in that context. It's no different than joining subreddits in this regard.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 12:07 PM
2

I just want a social circle and not be abandoned, or isolated on the regular.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 12:02 PM
6

gambles fallacy refers when chronological events are independent. It could also be the case, if I toss a coin 3 times, the 4th time would be what came out the most.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 10:10 AM
2

Due to rarity of people that could give an LTR of decades, dismissing someone suitable due to promiscuous past reduces the pool unnecessarily further. If you have that issue, you can always ask her "What makes you think you can make this last considering you didn't up until now?" Before dismissing her. Who knows, she might surprise you.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 10:09 AM
3

Also read the rest of the comment
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:52 AM
9

Gamblers fallacy
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:50 AM
1

but in reality, people have noncommital sex all the time, and over enough time people rack up body counts. I don't, traditionalists don't, my siblings don't. The only people that do are those that are both social and seek it regularly. It's not the norm, and can be arguably quite rare. But it does happen enough and gives cool stories that it's noteworthy to be remembered to be heard frequently.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:48 AM
2

People change over time. Due to rarity of people that could give an LTR of decades, dismissing someone suitable due to promiscuous past reduces the pool unnecessarily further. On the other hand if her past effects her current life to her determent; such as ended up being on the registry, made a career in adult entertainment, or is sick from uncurbable STD's. That's something to legitimately consider.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:43 AM
2

Lol, It's toxic. Neither side made me happy. That's the issue
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 10:36 PM
1

Whew. That's rough. Brothers, cousins, uncles, male friends?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 10:33 PM
2

I'm not happy even when detoxing from TRP. Does that mean I should return to TRP?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:57 PM
8

Redpill does talk about love, It stems from the idea of hypergamy. Women can feel love for someone's better than them (the way is arbitrary). The reality is love is irrational, and the redpill is built on the idea that everything needs rationality.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 02:27 PM
1

there is no specific ideology or trend in feminism that is about not mourning or showing empathy. If anything it's one of the few mainstream ideologies that promotes that. Ex feminist Erin Pizzey was targeted by Scottish women's aid when she opened the first men shelter. This doesn't address anything I said. Oh really?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:57 AM
1

There's some subreddit out there that's mostly just dudes trying to present positive, healthy masculinity while being sensitive to how what feminism would call patriarchal norms affect men, ie. bullying boys for crying, treating men as inherently violent, etc. Any social sphere online that has men's issues in focus is part of the menosphere. "The redpill" film touches on how they usually end up perceived in the case of MRAs.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:54 AM
1

Used to frequent r/menslib as they're part of the manosphere alongside r/TheBluePill. Didn't know it was a feminist space.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:06 PM
1

TRP does break internal consistency due to the amount of theories it has. F&F I noticed take the stand of Rollo Tomassi which is a pseudo intellectual book and Muslim traditionalism. Andrew Tate takes the stance of making money and building influence regardless of morality and adversaries. You'll not be able to argue with him even if you had good points. As it seems you need to have man you know who can talk to him. Even your father would be great.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:59 PM
4

Try to maintain a good relationship so he learns how to interact with women in general. In my case, it was basically lack of social guides that don't fall under. "You should just know." As of the rest. I don't know. The internet changed my views of social interactions in general regardless of women. I saw crying men as pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:47 PM
2

In the wise words of ATLA Uncle Iroh : It's time for you to look *inward* and begin asking yourself the big questions. Who are you and what do *you* want?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:40 PM
1

Yeah. I don't even need to vent with my friends vast majority of the time. Just share a beer and share how our lives is going. I don't particularly like touch, but I often allow friends and family. Sex doesn't worry me as much as lack of intimacy. I'm already preparing to get accommodations to my mental health so I don't need to worry anyone else until something else happens. My concern in the subreddit is avoiding from falling to toxic ideologies.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:22 PM
1

Yeah. Once she said she has friends. I stopped arguing. I was just desperately hoping maybe she knew something I don't. To my dismay. I think there are ways to open up without overwhelming your friends first. It feels dorky, but you can actually ask "hey dude, I'm going through something right now and I just want to vent for a bit, is that okay?" and imo most men are fine with that. I mean, fuck, in my experience the dude you're venting to will join in and blow off about whatever's bothering him…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:50 PM
1

I don't have any friends. Just worried parents.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:45 PM
0

That's okay. I have many friends that form my social circle, reinforced by mutual support. Let them eat cake. ​ If you're an ex-RP guy that comes across here. Don't take this as an AWALT proof. It's just one girls out of many. Keep on trying to detoxify.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:37 PM
1

Ex feminist Erin Pizzey was targeted by Scottish women's aid when she opened the first men shelter.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:22 PM
0

So until you get a therapist you have no emotional support from your partner.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:17 PM
1

You don't have to try to "both sides" everything, it usually won't apply. I'm not. I just know there's toxicity in intellectual communities that end up being ideologies.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:12 PM
0

never have I mentioned she should be your sole emotional support. I'm saying there are times where it's inevitable due to long waiting times for therapists. How would you feel if he said "I'm not going to be your sole emotional support. See a therapist."?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 08:57 PM
1

I ended up withdrawing from everyone. Some of my classmates thought I died.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 08:46 PM
1

The RP can't be wrong unfortunately. They're just toxic.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 08:44 PM
1

I'm talking about friends. When no therapist is available. How would you make sure it won't spill on them while waiting for help?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 08:42 PM
1

I agree with both sides while staying aware of the toxicity.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 07:44 PM
0

How would you feel when you asked your male friends to vent, and they told you "Not your emotional tampon"?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 07:19 PM
1

With the comments I saw here, I'm scared of the opposite as well.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 06:25 PM
1

No. My wife trusts me. I trust her. Having conversations with strangers is not threatening to either of us. r/wholesomecomments “be a huge goofball and be friendly to everyone” is not in keeping with any redpill advice as I have ever heard. It's mainly how users will interpret the message. The subreddit is reagitates the ideas ad nauseum to the point they lose meaning because it encompasses everything. In your case it touches on the idea of what mindset / attitude you need to have. From the post…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:51 PM
1

I'm fucking getting *flashbacks* Lol *sob*
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 03:56 PM
0

Men also do it for the same reason. Met guys fall for BPD girls.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 03:53 PM
1

I have observed that this is quite problematic in my relationships. Being stoic or showing vulnerability?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 03:45 PM
1

Thanks. it's a great read. I'm actually ASD and it's true, most people can not fathom the idea of chronic isolation. Thought, covid made it easier as people had an idea of a months period of isolation from lockdowns as reference. It's scary how they forget what it was like now that it has ended. The issue with my therapists is that they insist that I instinctively know how to socially read situation if giving time to think. Which ends up not to be the case. My argument was that there are times w…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 03:43 PM
1

The more extreme the slogan, the more widespread it gets.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 03:22 PM
2

Thanks for the clarification. I just hated the RP theory so much, that when I encountered this concept it struck me to be the same exact as "emotional tampon" that I despised it. The friendzone is seen as the worst due to the existence of girls using the besties as such. I forget that men do it as well. And RP is against it with the stoic ideation.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 02:38 PM
1

told him my traumas that kept me at night. He tried to explain that if I knew of my diagnosed condition it'll make sense. to my answer which "But I didn't. I could'nt do anything." "But now you do." "But it wouldn't help if there wasn't anyone." "But now you know." I stopped as it came to a loop. Another one I told him that I'm scared to talk to people in my campus because I often say things that make them mad. To which he just shouted "Why are you making stories!?!" He even made comments that w…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:12 PM
1

My last therapist
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:04 PM
1

general practitioner, family doctor. The regular doc you visit who makes the reg. checks, and refers you to the specialist as needed.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:58 PM
1

What would be the mental health equivalent of a GP that is more available?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:42 PM
1

You're a good person. Did you get her help before the problem grew?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:35 PM
-1

I was in 3 waiting lists for 3 months calling on a weekly basis. By the time I got him. I was so broken with intrusive thoughts I couldn't even get out of my room for more than half of my semester. You can see the potential suffering of the partner, not of the man in agony.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:37 AM
-1

That's how it was with my therapist. Trying to analyze the situation.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:25 AM
-10

Family member dies Therapist : "And how does that make you feel?" Partner : "That's rough, I know you were close. I'm here for you." The 2nd will heal me more.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:23 AM
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Thank you. The slogan is just used out of context that I met actual girls not willing to give a phone call to talk because of it. Fuck It's not the validity of it. It's the flanderization of it.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:19 AM
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Sole relying on you indefinitely, and no sign of trying to get help? Been there. Been there.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:16 AM
-1

I sure wish I had your privilege of easily, immediate, accessible therapy sessions.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:14 AM
0

I've been on both sides. If you ever loved someone, you'd help them on your detriment.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:12 AM
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So you're okay making her sit on a wait list for months to address the mental health difficulties that are the result of absorbing your trauma, but it's not okay for you to wait? She sees her partner in agony. You think her passiveness will not traumatize her? ​ No. Read a fucking book on managing difficult emotions. Go to a library. Attend a group therapy session. r/thanksimcured
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:08 AM
-1

You really missed the point. I'll let my mother do what she can.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:04 AM
-10

Mental health, trained or not. Is more complex than that. A trained professional doesn't necessarily able to help more than a loved one who's there for you.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:02 AM
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waiting lists can last for months and even by than the therapist might not be trained to help you so you'll find yourself waiting extra months. addressed previously
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:50 PM
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I don't think there is. You give them your full support, whether helping until they get therapy. Or letting them be healed just through venting.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:48 PM
1

Me. Because I love her.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:44 PM
1

The problem is where do you put the line between what is emotional support and therapy.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:43 PM
1

I will let her take a look to see if it looks rotten or chipped.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:34 PM
3

tho, books are valuable. One thing that helps mitigate the effects of trauma. Is settling the crisis by knowing that you have a friend who wants to help.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:33 PM
1

For the same reason that you don't have to be fully trained to know how to patch a bandage until you see a doctor.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:32 PM
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In dumb dumb language?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 10:41 PM
1

Go to therapy. waiting lists can last for months and even by than the therapist might not be trained to help you so you'll find yourself waiting extra months. What do you do until than?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 10:33 PM
1

There is a massive difference between being a good, loving, and supportive friend and being someone's therapist. How easy can those differences be confused?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 10:26 PM
4

PS5 and porn gets old quickly
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 09:22 PM
3

NAWALT. In this case it's relevant. Not all women are like that. You can't always avoid, you can just move on when you notice.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 08:42 PM
3

yes
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 08:37 PM
2

Therapy, internet communities aren't good to detox in general. You can't empathize with text boxes on a screen.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 08:34 PM
2

Did you try something else aside from dating apps?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 08:31 PM
1

Link to old post https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/xoew4o/does\_society\_and\_most\_women\_not\_understand\_or/
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 09:04 PM
1

TRP does say not to brag about your conquest rather than make her witness it. What you described is part of dread game. You've acted in what is called being natural in the menosphre. It's when you're already successful without the need for PUA advice. Unfortunately, the existence of the menosphre shows that there are way too many exceptions even if it's not the majority. If anything this post proves TRP. And the worst part is this: When I went home, I didn’t use the encounter to make my wife fee…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 07:58 PM
1

Yeah. ASD, the reason I got out of TRP was I could actually afford therapy.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 11:37 PM
1

"we don't have friends as much as acquaintances" — this is not everybody's experience, and certainly isn't mine. i'm moving in about two weeks or so and i so far have four friends and two of their girlfriends coming to help out. we play D&D on weekends and i'm godfather to one of their kids. i haven't slept with any of them to achieve this social connection, i've just made an effort to be kind, open and sensitive to their own issues. of these six people, only two of them are people i've known si…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 11:25 PM
2

If she's attached to you, there's no reason why she won't be reliable. I'm not worried you'll date mentally ill women, lol. It's to give an image for why that ideal is depraved. But since you fixed it now. It makes more sense. As now she has consciousness to act accordingly. Which begs the question now. I believe there's something deeply wrong with my personality that makes connecting with other people past a superficial level impossible. I've never been on a date, and I haven't had any friends …
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 11:02 PM
1

Asked because you're a girl on your profile. It's often girls need to build a form of trust on a person to sleep with him. This ends up from a guy's perspective, that if a girl sleeps with him, she's already invested emotionally. Not always true, because apparently there was a girl who slept with me for bragging rights because I was Asian. ​ hence my comment: are you seeking out women to satisfy your sense of loneliness and isolation because it's the right solution to your problem, or because yo…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 10:48 PM
3

I don't generally like women. The only thing I like about them is their bodies. The reason why is simply because they're different from me. They don't think like me, they don't like what I like and dislike what I dislike, we don't value the same things. I don't even like femininity. Personality-wise, my ideal is someone who's stoic, modest, conscientious, has no insecurities, unemotional, unempathetic. I've never met a women like that. they only exist in fiction. The kind of person who wouldn't …
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 10:22 PM
4

Women who go through traumatic childhood (sex slaves, neglect, brutal beating) have the possibility to disconnect from the trauma. One of them is mental detachment. Another one is schizophrenia that it's negative symptoms include lacking any feelings, and emotional expression. This also happens in depression where you basically can't even move, let alone feel anything. Those girls are basically empty shells that won't express emotions, not joy, not sadness, anger. They'll won't react much even i…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 09:37 PM
1

Text him : "Hey, I downloaded tinder. Now what?"
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 08:36 PM
1

TRP is an ideology movement, they're making countless theories, ideas, and concepts that some of them are bound to stick. Originally it was a group that tried to make theoretical sense of what the manosphere discussed, at the time it was MRA's, and PUA's. Prominent figures like F&F, Rollo, Andrew,... etc'. Have enough concepts that they can use it in the form of gish gallop.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 08:29 PM
1

Could you have sex with a guy you don't find appealing?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 06:15 PM
1

Women who don't have good relationship with a man don't / can't care. The rest care but can't understand due to survivorship bias on which men they choose to associate with. I bet your mom cares for your loneliness but just don't know how to help you. Men due to brainwashing from online communities like the seduction, traditionalists, and improvement gurus tend to resent lonely men as justification that they either don't try hard enough. Old men do tend to give better advice. Unlike us. The vast…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 05:56 PM
8

self centeredness
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 10:35 AM
1

Thankfully, I never had to deal with living with RP men. This is something you should address in the women RP subreddit. Take into account, they're as brainwashed as most RP guys so take their words with a grain of salt. Edit : I'm not advocating you going RP, I'm just saying you should talk to those girls to see where your future is most likely heading.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 07:44 AM
1

In terms of what?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 12:24 AM
1

We aren't our physical appearance?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 12:23 AM
3

In the OP I'm dating a girl with OCD, and it tends to happen quite a bit. So when it happens my RP rewiring start happening again. It's easy for me to fall again to being toxic. And I'm trying to not allow it to happen again.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:52 PM
2

oh, that makes more sense :D lol. I referred to the issues women face I noticed when talking about dating with guys. self-absorbed entitlement was an attitude where she feels that she deserves things for herself without the concern or acknowledgment of others.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:50 PM
1

Is this a response to the guy friends situation or my personal deal breaker?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:46 PM
1

what personality?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:30 PM
5

I keep seeing glimmers of changes Push - pull , roller coastering. Yup, we have those in our arsenal as well. The worse offenders are those that do it once you're almost getting out.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:29 PM
-1

I just escaped the brainwashing of the mesosphere political gender issues machine. I don't want to fall to another one just because it's feminist.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:14 PM
-10

Can't blame you. In general you don't hit on girls in your social group. They tend to approach you regularly without being clear on their intentions. And than someone tells you from the side.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:10 PM
-6

And learning about political gender issues will help it?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:06 PM
5

I like that advice. What do you do to attain it?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:02 PM
1

Hey, your friends and family give out useless advice like be confident, say you'll get someone, or change the subject without helping you. How about you use out super complex 50+ unrelated system theories to help your life. Oh, you didn't succeed? Well buy our course that explains it better. You don't trust us? Will than you're a beta bucks bluepill cuck loser. Oh you did buy it and it didn't work? Buy another one! oh you don't trust us now! What's over there! a new coach unrelated that sells a …
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:01 PM
1

are you advocating depersonalization or pride in progress?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:52 PM
5

How does getting into political gender issues helps one person find romantic /sexual partnership?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:48 PM
2

I hate the comments here that give presumptive advice. Height matters to a lot of women, looks matters, even being sociable matters. You're not going to get confident as it's definition self-assurance or certainty to rely. Which is far from your situation at the moment. It'll basically say either be delusional or "you're wrong" about where you are. It's approaching a girl because you know she'll go with you, and when she doesn't your reality shatters or you ignore reality altogether. as you're c…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:44 PM
6

How's your social life in general?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:00 PM
1

Indeed. but it's this quote that concerned me. When I tell my friends about his expectations from me and explain his behaviour, mostly everyone has said it's controlling and manipulative. The only suggestions I've received are to leave him, however, I really care for him. I just don't know how to help him. That leaving him, and heeding him won't be possible. It's only after her attempts that she finally gives up, she'll leave. One of two things need to happen soon : he'll change his ways through…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 06:48 PM
6

In the novel he wanted to destroy a museum rather than free people from credit card debt. In the novel Tyler basically has no redeeming qualities except being a charismatic loony. Read the comic Fight club 2. Chuck Palahniuk even address it.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:35 PM
1

I was officially diagnosed with autism, got recognition by social security, and could afford therapy, and psychiatry.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:08 PM
3

The redpill advocates "Don't listen to her words, listen to her actions." There are many issues here: [1] "Do you want to be in an intimate relationship with a woman you can not trust her words because of her gender?" [2] "Can you be confident when the closest person you have is untrustworthy because of her gender?" [3] "If a crisis falls and you can't work, how will I be able to support us both until you recover if I can't work for us?" I'm a strong man I can overcome any crisis for us both. "B…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:02 PM
1

The issue with the redpill isn't the fact that it doesn't help to take action to those who don't try because they're shy or lazy. The issue of the redpill, is that it feeds dogmas to those that take action and can't tell what's right or wrong socially.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:13 AM
1

I know, RP programming since age 14 is hard to rewrite at 25.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:56 AM
2

I pray for the day that I'll be trusted enough, that she'll tell me that herself.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:55 AM
3

Can imagine, had my guy friends give non related deal breakers for relationship. Family feuds, mental illness, high n-count. The real deal breaker is self-absorbed entitlement.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:52 AM
2

Makes sense. Can I consult couple councilors alone, or do I have to bring her with me?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:44 AM
1

What is it with you and offering to lurk the purple pill subreddit?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:16 AM
1

And the girls don't flake on you last minute? Fuck man, I wish I was in your shoes. I mean I get flaked just from inviting reg. friends for a drink.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 12:50 PM
1

Yup, how is your sensory sensitivity?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 12:32 PM
1

would you go on a first date with a texter?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 10:51 AM
1

The "good" PUA advice is mostly common sense as it relates to their target audience (i.e. improving your fitness, self-confidence and social skills). PUAs know that a big percentage of guys who seek out their advice are lacking in these, so these are essentially Barnum statements (i.e. they are "cold-reading" their audience). PUAs are grifters and they are good at it. They want money or influence over others for some reason or another. A successful grift takes the bullshit and wraps it around a …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 06:04 AM
1

So the core issues with PUA and redpill is some of their theories yet some are good? How do you choose which ones are good? From all I know, I might be delusional, grandiose sense that I'm a beauty god and everyone wants me no matter what, and the way I treat other is the way I would want to be treated by someone like me. PUA has this sense ingrained with "you're the prize".
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 06:20 AM
1

Just wondering, but what do you suggest a young guy who wants to get a date?
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 04:46 PM
1

Except impulse control (that also overlaps with PTSD, Anxiety, ADHD...) I don't know many symptoms of cluster B that overlaps with autism.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 10:13 AM
1

By getting them women that will be part of their regular social circle without flaking on the regular or distant. One of the reasons why I fell to RP was due to people being abusive and ostracizing me on the regular. Later found my dad hid my diagnosis as autistic.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 06:35 AM
4

True, they don't advocate dark triad per se. Just through PUA.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 08:09 PM
8

ohh. The best way to find redemption. is to be a good role model with the next people you meet. Come after also means be a good role model for the new generation to educate. Or to those that come after the "truth" the redpill provides.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 06:43 PM
6

Those who come after what?
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 06:33 PM
7

They idolize them. It's scary true. But they mainly advocate PUA ideas more often than dark triad. What I described of giving girls ultimatums against "let's be friends" is not dark triad per se as much as PUA protocol practice.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 06:25 PM
1

Fuck, that's rough. You don't have PTSD as much as CPTSD. So yeah, your story is harsh, really harsh. And I can't blame you for not talking about it. The reactions and dissonance is an understood mechanism. I can relate as I had issues with bullying (physical mainly had a kid try to crack my skull once). The trauma was more from not knowing who I could talk to, teachers would ignore. And parents thought it was my social ineptitude (I'm diagnosed PDD). I'm seeing a therapist about it to go throug…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 04:18 PM
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In those cases you mentioned above you build the foundation so that she can speak to you openly and honestly and avoid those issues. The 2nd might not be a real issue, for ex. in a scenario where you default to Z frequently, and she used to it being the default when you choose the activity, and takes that when you give her the option it's a message to try something else. With all my grievances with PUA. They don't do that in order to get what they want (in the short term) as much as to influence…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 03:11 PM
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How's that a great advice? I do listen to people words to determine how trustworthy they are.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 02:34 PM
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Those issues stem originally from the PUA movement. Their motto was "watch what she does, not what she says."
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 08:28 AM
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It's worse. Much worse. They deny women's words believing them being hypocrite (watch what they do, not what they say). Sexually harass (make sexual jokes in order to see if they see you like this). And justify dating younger girls because they're mor compliant. You end up that the only girl who'll want you is unstable.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 08:17 AM
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When sex drive is low other aspects have more importance. Is usually the root of the argument. Rollo specifically uses testosterone for that matter. It's the same mentality for cougars, who because they're more mature and experienced would see young men attracted to them
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 05:30 PM
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Once I got diagonsed to being autistic and got social security to afford therqpy. That's exactly what happened.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 03:42 PM
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They make claims and theories of morality. So they don't lack it per se. The issue is that they use anecdotes and data (which shouldn't touch it) to give negative charectaristics of opponents. Every women is a AWALT, guys that don't follow us are blue pilled, skeptics are in a rage phase. Making it easier to justify any form of denial or wrong doing.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 03:37 PM
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Thanks for pointing out the error, edited
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 11:09 AM
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Blackpill movement exists since 2016
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 03:26 PM
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Women have 1/4 testosterone of men. That's a major diffrence in behaivor overall. Women have more sexual sucsess because of that sexual drive ratio in comparison. And have a greater physical risk due to sexual body dimorphism. Edit: wrote body dysmorphia which is a serious mental condition, with sexual body dimorphism. Thanks u/chemifiyed for pointing that out
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 03:10 PM
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If they're there to witness the event upfolding and aren't jealous to assume you'll leave them once you find someone. Than absolutely. They're good intuiting other girls social cues, and to an alarming rate.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 10:50 AM
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Attitude as what they think or what they behave?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 02:11 PM
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What do you mean by human?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 12:36 PM
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everything you said is on point. their ideology is basically making claims without the consideration of women online. They pinhole the need for place to express their concerns and find solutions because they notice women lie and give bad advice so they make their own ideological bubble. What they don't take into account is that women often don't tell their thoughts outright because of the gender dimorphism, women are in danger near men and must act in not to anger them. (I don't need to mention …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:39 PM
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can you say it in your native language? I'll try to translate it
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:16 PM
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agreed, it's fucking toxic. They take taking responsibility as their motto for justification for their ideas and belittlement of who doesn't follow them.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:12 PM
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redpillers pretty much take responsibility of their shortcomings as validated by others. it can be summed as : "Whoever doesn't lift, approaches, in order to becomes alpha, is a fucking beta loser." The issue is that when it doesn't work the rationalization of someone who follows it ends up blaming the other person while also losing some self respect because of failiure.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:07 PM
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dating coaches, therapists, you can even say porn are there to exploit those people
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:02 PM
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that's blackpill and incels
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:01 PM
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menosphere movement with emphasis on the pursuit of romantic / sexual relationship centered self development. yeah, it's basically that, it sounds good, but you also need to read about the manosphere as whole as well to know it's origins and nature.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:01 PM
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Being deaf, and speech impediments aren't genetic disorders as much as birth defects if it's since birth. Being a person who dated ADHD girl, and an OCD, while having autism myself I can tell you the advantages of them. ADHD / ADD has the advantage of creativity by being able to move from one subject or aspect and another thus leading to a creative mind and a jack of all trades type of person. Add the fact that most have hyper focus and they can specialize as needs be. In theory they make incred…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 06:38 PM
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If that was hardwired evolutionary as you said, than by conclusion dark triad personalities should have died out. But they didn't.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 05:31 PM
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hmm, interesting do you have something to refute the dark triad attractiveness theory? I.E psychopaths, narcissists, Machiavellianism are attractive per se.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 04:43 PM
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Do what?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 04:34 PM
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It's a noble approach, however I must ask you. What's going to stop your from one day falling to the incel mindset of "Because <certain demographic> dislike me, they're terrible because of my experience of them?"
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 06:21 PM
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How long has he been in the redpill?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 08:58 AM
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Expect interrogation questions from all sides. Her friends will help her screen you out and it will be more brutal than if she was alone. Tell me how you deal with it.
/r/seduction12/12/21 03:45 PM
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I run 2.5 km in 15 minutes. 1.5 miles in 15 minutes. I want to increase but I vomit during run, going to get checked tomorrow for that.
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