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That’s your opinion. We’re all welcome to them :) have a great day sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:18 PM
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Unpopular opinion: I liked bumble most because I wasn’t being bombarded with gross messages. I could interact at my pace and with whom I wanted. Yes, most men on there are trash. I did meet a guy with HVM traits and we are now engaged. But never stop vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:57 PM
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I never changed my name back after my divorce 8 years ago. It was such a pain the first time. And I worked in customer service at the time. A coworker who was also recently divorced spent the next six months on the phones “oh nooooo. I didn’t get married ... I got divorced.... oh thank you.... it’s okay...” I refused to participate I never had a good relationship with my dad or his first family to desire changing it back. Now that I’m remarrying this year I can’t necessarily keep my first marrie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:11 PM
12

Same! I would love a women only gym. When I go, I don’t look at anyone and don’t make eye contact. A guy that went to my gym also went to my church and told me he noticed how I was unapproachable at the gym. That I should ‘smile and make eye contact’. Uh, no. That’s the point Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:39 PM
51

I don’t know her but I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:11 PM
17

Are you me? The sheer thought of gathering with my family puts me into a full panic. They cannot allow anyone to feel enjoyment and complain about everything. My fiancé and I were talking about getting married and I just want to elope. No way do I want my family ruining anything else for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:33 PM
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Like others have mentioned, I was fully expecting some awful story. I am so glad I was wrong. THIS is exactly the type of man we deserve. Never settle 🙌 Congrats on the new place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:47 PM
78

In my experience, I would feel this way (thank them for putting up with me but never post that. Yuck) because my mom raised me as though I was a bother. I don’t feel this way in my 30s but for most of my life I felt people just put up with me because my mom made me feel that way. Thank you therapy 🙌 ETA: just the other day, my mom asked my fiancé how he stands me 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:55 AM
90

He would complain she doesn’t have a real job and since she doesn’t make much then she still has to clean, cook, and fuck him. This guy is the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:50 PM
10

I told a friend of mine that I did not enjoy giving BJs. So of course when we were in a large group she repeated this and added “you’re just not doing it right!” We haven’t spoken in six months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:52 PM
8

A guy I saw a few times told me my pancakes were dry and the chicken tacos were cold. He was blocked shortly after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:29 PM
76

Yes yes yes. I have been with my guy for a year and a half. He does display HVM traits but that doesn’t mean he is a HVM. Never stop observing and noting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:45 PM
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Dude doesn’t need eyes 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:29 AM
9

I’m in the middle of my cycle and on BC. I got my first dose Tuesday and omg my nipples are extremely sensitive. Not sure if related though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:31 PM
18

I don’t like sharing my apples either. Get your own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:43 PM
23

I have been reading an array of disappointing comments on social media from men saying if that’s the law the they should then force women to carry and not terminate. What the actual fuck. And the standard “women should keep their legs closed” comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:40 PM
10

So THAT’S what I’m doing wrong 🤦‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:45 PM
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I’m not sure why but reading these comments gave me a good chuckle. Probably because I went through the same experience. My ex husband packed on about 100lbs in his early 20s from heavy drinking, fast food, and a sedentary lifestyle. Thank god he ran off with his bartender!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:10 PM
6

This isn’t funny but I about spit out my food when I read this due to a chuckle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:23 PM
23

And grab-them-by-the-pussy-man is a rapist. Don’t forget that tidbit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:33 PM
9

Omg I hope you’re joking 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:00 PM
7

This and all the responses make me so sad! I’m in IT and my entire team is men. It is so frustrating working with them. Most days while in a working session, they will blatantly ignore me. Steve “what do you think about that, BOB?” Bob “oh, I dint know. What do you think, ALEX?” at times I just interject. Others I am defeated and stay muted and cry later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:57 PM
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I work with all men and similar applies. Stay calm cool and unemotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:08 AM
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Ash from Before the 90DF, is that you? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:45 PM
7

Is this why my exes dump me and then try to come back after realizing the grass isn’t greener
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:05 PM
4

Pretty mature for a 42 year old woman. Am I right? 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:47 PM
9

She just tells me to shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:01 AM
3

Oh no. They’re onto us! Shred all the evidence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:48 PM
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My sister is all over OLD right now. Meeting men left and right. A man drove about 3 hours over the weekend to meet her and stay at her place. She’s in the camp that covid isn’t real 🤦‍♀️ she drives me mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:46 PM
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What a catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:21 PM
20

This! I have had a number of men break it off with me for these reasons and then come back a year or more later thinking I’ve just been waiting for their return 🙄 I’ve been seeing a guy that has been a “HELL YES!” since day one and never once made me feel less than. Never settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:17 PM
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Going to a field is not a date! It’s a crime scene https://fox59.com/news/police-find-person-dead-in-field-on-indys-northeast-side/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:29 PM
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Same. I fell for future faking a few times before I wised up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:53 PM
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But I thought I could get her in my bed to spend more time if I spent $5 on her /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:46 PM
11

1+ 2 = he’s an asshole rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:31 PM
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“I respect women” but also “striptease and lap dance for me” 🤦‍♀️ throw the entire man away. Can’t believe she reproduced with this douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:06 PM
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We have to have a higher pain tolerance so we can push out their damn watermelons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:12 PM
8

Peepee debate 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:33 PM
3

Maybe that’s why they are lacy. Mommy and daddy pay for everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:32 PM
11

Probably his parents Netflix account too. This douche pays for nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:56 PM
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And make him dinner 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:56 PM
3

BYOB baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:55 PM
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He probably hates she’s not begging for his approval
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:31 AM
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This ^ 🚩 he mentions sex the first night talking to you 🚩 he hyped you up and excessively compliments you He tried to bait you with dinner and seeming like a nice guy. He would have most definitely pumped and dumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:07 AM
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He came at least five times but bet you she came 0 times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:03 AM
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Wtf. Nooooooooo. 🤦‍♀️ it hurts to read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:57 AM
2

Set that table on fire, queen. We don’t need these NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:33 AM
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I kinda feel like I’ve seen lives messed up without a prenup and their net worth wasn’t 1mil 🤷‍♀️ I’m thinking I’ll get one and won’t ever be worth a mil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:30 PM
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They want all this plus huge tits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:29 AM
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Omg 🤦‍♀️ and she reproduced with this dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:25 AM
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I take BC for me because I like sex without making babies 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:11 AM
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Ugh, tale as old as time. You are a queen. Please cease these behaviors with all men until they show they are high value and committed 👸 Food delivered to the wrong house and you can’t come get it? Not my problem. Do not be nice and take food when he’s sick. Men do not deserve this king treatment until he has proven himself as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:00 AM
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Yes 🙋‍♀️ same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:53 AM
2

It’s been working pretty good for me so far!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:50 AM
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YesNoMaybe87 waits on no man 🏖 byyyyye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:14 AM
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I.... love this. Thank you 🙌😂👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:11 AM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:11 AM
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If it’s not a HELL YES from both parties, then it’s a no from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:29 PM
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Agree with all this 👆🏻 It really pushes my buttons when people have kids and expect their parents to help raise them. Without pay. Their parents already raised kids, why should they be expected to do it again 🙄 when I retire, I am not raising kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:49 PM
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Vent away queen 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:29 PM
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You don’t have to be nice 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:03 PM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:02 PM
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...... no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:43 PM
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Always! A few guys I regret giving my actual number 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:27 PM
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Mine did the same thing and all I saw in his contact attempts were the “I”s “me”s. Nothing asking how I am or what I’m doing. Don’t reply, it’s a trap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:38 PM
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Same! I find it very unappealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:35 PM
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Nuh uh. Men know within 3-6 months of dating if they want to marry you and will not wait 5 years. He doesn’t want to marry you. In my experience, the couples that wait 4+ years to marry end up getting divorced anyway! Because they weren’t sure about it so they held off. They knew it wasn’t right but married anyway and wasted everyone’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:55 PM
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I use to give out a google number
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:32 PM
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Gross! Just means it’s easier for him to use and block her once he got what he wanted. Men suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:32 PM
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It’s 2020. You don’t need a man to do jack shit any more. You do you boo ❤️ If you do children via donor, then that really takes the pressure off of finding a man to procreate with and allow you to really take your time. Be as picky as you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:05 AM
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This never works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 01:23 AM
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But it’s perfectly fine to sex and ditch us 🙄 hate men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 01:21 AM
17

Stop it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:19 PM
71

Geeeeez. Someone is butt hurt. Ignore this trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:05 AM
6

Exactly this ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:13 PM
158

Omg I’m stabbing my fucking eyes out 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:09 PM
63

But this original post is marked NSFW 😂 am I missing something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:39 AM
8

Ewww why do these termites come out of the woodwork 🤮 an ex whom I’ve not spoken to the past three years emailed me and then sent me flowers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:17 AM
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Guys are gross! One replied to my initial message with “want to go to snap for some fun?” I noped right out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:19 AM
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Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:16 AM
3

I second the list and the why! I also made a list of specific characteristics in a partner and would not budge when dating. Took me a while but my guy has it all. Granted it’s only been ten months so never stop vetting. Since we met on bumble, I joke with him that I can’t believe I found such a great catch in a sea of trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:16 AM
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True on their entitlement but might see that everywhere. I tried match once and I don’t remember much about male profiles. I just remember being bombarded with messages and some dudes were butt hurt I didn’t reply back right away or at all. You know, because I have a life and not simply waiting for their stupid messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:11 AM
25

This can be the only logical explanation. No way she’d not notice otherwise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:07 AM
21

I found my guy on bumble and we’ve been together 10 months now. Though bumble goes against the principle of women starting the conversation, I really liked that I did not get bombarded with unwanted messages and could decide when I wanted to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:03 AM
12

Spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:30 PM
249

How many times is she going to let him humiliate her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:30 PM
18

Nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:02 PM
26

This just ruined my egg breakfast. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:10 PM
22

So she’ll cook and clean up after him 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:07 AM
13

He wants it for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:06 AM
23

There’s a dog?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:48 AM
28

This ^ I dated a guy who would not let me forget: - he made more money than I - he was debt free while I carried student loans and a mortgage - I could not afford vacations It wasn’t a balanced relationship. Since we broke up, I’ve taken several vacations and really enjoy life..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:27 PM
18

A friend will only make plans to see me if her new husband is out of town. They’ve been married a year. He’s been out of town once. And she was surprised I didn’t jump at the opportunity. Or I can come to their house and hang out with them both. They are co-dependent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:22 PM
4

Limp* dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:32 AM
29

Isn’t That what abusers do. Isolate and make their victim dependent on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:47 AM
71

Omg I love this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:40 AM
25

My first thought was he turned off notifications for the weekend because he’s probably still in a relationship and didn’t want to get caught. A guy who turns off notifications is a 🚩 to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:49 AM
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I hope he’s being sarcastic otherwise 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:33 AM
19

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:32 AM
1

The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:30 AM
1

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:54 PM
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Delusional! I never stated I was involved with someone else because my mindset of a reasonable person thought it shouldn’t matter and that I’m not my new guys property. But I guess dealing with an unreasonable person they don’t think this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:53 PM
18

Sound advice 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 11:29 PM
40

That’s a good idea! Yea it’s been so long. And he sounds so entitled. He wants to talk. He has been thinking. All about what he wants (no change there). No consideration on my part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 11:05 PM
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I was thinking I’d ignore this and if he reaches out again somehow... then say it’s harassment and that I’m contacting the police. Ugh. I don’t know. Wish he’d just go away 😂😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:47 PM
9

Ewww who told you it was your fault?! 👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:03 PM
17

I would lose interest at “send me a picture”. Uh who are you to demand shit. Bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:40 PM
9

This ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:35 PM
3

You forgot “... I never said anything about hooking up! dOn’T bE a bItCh?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:13 AM
3

One time my friend asked me why I made out with this guy if I wasn’t going to sleep with him 🙄 like the only reason to make out is because of sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:11 AM
10

Oooof he’ll probably ask for reliable references too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:51 PM
2

Mmmmm what?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:12 AM
6

I love it but I hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:11 AM
1

Omg throw this man away, sis! I met my ex in HS and during that time he’d pee in jars even though the bathroom was 15’ away. Several jars stashed around upstairs and it smelled awful. I didn’t think much of it at the time. When we moved in together, he started peeing out the backdoor onto the patio while he had his morning smoke. The smell was phenomenal when the summer heat came... He was one hell of a man 👎🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:06 PM
24

Oh FFS this poor girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:13 PM
23

Ooof this poor woman. She deserves better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:09 PM
40

🤦‍♀️ throw this man away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:22 PM
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And wants someone who doesn’t wear makeup but actually wants the natural makeup look and calls her ugly without makeup on 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:21 PM
6

This made me chuckle 😂 thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:02 PM
37

“I just think you’re kind of stupid” 😂 I’m dead. Love this response. This man probably never cooks or cleans and is looking for a mommy gf/wife. No thank you, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:41 AM
19

Idk. I’m like a 4 and still have to fight them off. All you need are lady parts /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:37 AM
9

I struggle with this argument. When I put on weight, I didn’t like it when my bf at the time would make comments about how he wanted someone who could keep up with him. After he dumped me, I lost like 60lbs and lived a healthier lifestyle. On the other hand, the ex before that put on like 100+ lbs from not exercising, eating fast food, and drinking heavily. I was extremely concerned about his health. When I was single after this and lived a more active lifestyle, I would not get involved with an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:31 AM
21

The great thing about these craptastical pics used on OLD (assuming that’s where you met him) is that it’s an instant giveaway that he’s an asshole and it would be a hard no from me. Huge red flag saying “I’m going to treat you like shit, but’s it’s okay because I’m so honest!” No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:16 AM
18

This is why they don’t want a women with student debt so they can leech more out of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:11 PM
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What’s this “buddy” nonsense? Boy bye 👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:01 PM
21

This ^ I married a man thinking he’d do better once we were married. Nah. Got much worse. Thank god for divorces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:02 PM
10

Drugs are bad, mmmkay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 12:13 PM
2

You left off where he goes to her house the following day with a letter and then bad mouths her for not being warm and welcoming. He also makes a comment about her bad attitude is the reason they aren’t together. This guy sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:45 AM
39

I was with my ex-hubs for ten years. He did things that drove me absolutely insane. By the end of the relationship I was suicidal. Since we haven’t been together the past 7 years, I realize I’m not a crazy person. I haven’t yelled or wanted to off myself since either. There’s some sort of saying: Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes. 💯 agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:15 AM
43

Whenever I meet a guy who states anything like this, big 🚩 and drop them immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:27 PM
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To probably get her to stop nagging about getting married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:59 PM
13

Even though it’s illegal, is it easily prosecuted or do the men usually get away with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:31 PM
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Ugh I’d never live with someone under those circumstances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:08 PM
2

He’ll keep bothering you as long as you keep responding. Stop responding and block him. If he calls you from a different number DO NOT ENGAGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:01 PM
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If you mentioned/questioned pet names once and he does it again... definitely not overreacting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:32 PM
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I’m going to go out on a limb here and say.... bet he was also selfish in bed. Wam bam thank you ma’am DiD yOu cUm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:12 PM
18

Love the idea of investments in her name only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:20 PM
4

He sounds like the worst 👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:17 PM
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I’m not convinced I’d still fund this much if I was married. I didn’t make the kids. A man who expects me to pay for his kids? That’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:55 AM
5

🙋‍♀️ you failed to mention her comment about about putting him on tinder to find his own big tiddies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:20 AM
36

“I need to let her calm down” just means “I’m going to keep coming back and ask her to accept me being a shit human until she caves”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:27 PM
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Thank you! I’ve heard nightmares where it gets embedded, punctured, or is extremely painful to remove and it scares me too much to try it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 09:30 PM
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I heard about this! It’s fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:52 PM
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I’ve researched getting sterilized and read the recovery is 3-4 months. I dislike the experiences I’ve heard about IUDs and condoms break. So I will stick to hormonal BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:07 PM
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I legit don’t want to get pregnant 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:55 PM
41

Nah, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:31 AM
9

Maybe that’s his sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:37 PM
45

I saw this a lot. I think they put they want kids so women don’t filter them out. And maybe the women that see the men want something casual will think he’ll change his mind when he meets her (he’ll change for her).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:27 PM
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Omg grosssss. This is a big fear of mine. Moving in/marrying a man that meets my standards just for him to regress when it’s harder to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:26 PM
3

How lovely! I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:59 PM
2

The legal fees mention is just below where the screenshot ends in the OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:54 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/stepparents/comments/gf9mi3/its_a_constant_onesided_compromise/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:47 AM
3

Ah I love this! I Should have done that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:01 PM
1

My bf makes my bed for me while I’m feeding my dog. And he’ll insist on washing dishes if I cook. I may keep him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:20 PM
12

In the fall, one man messaged me on OLD at like 6p asking that I drive nearly an hour to meet him for a drink that night. No thanks. I told him I don’t see this working out byeeeee 👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:26 PM
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Guaranteed if the tables were turned he’d seek a lawyer to keep her from touching a penny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:51 PM
9

Nope. They all have ulterior motives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:29 PM
1

My mom always told me that if you start getting raped to act like you like it and they’ll stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:09 AM
4

I love it with my favorite subs collide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:03 AM
13

And lube. He’s trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:03 AM
30

Omg 😱 he definitely would!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:10 PM
25

Hell to the no. He’d be single after the first time I stepped in it. When I was in my early 20s, my ex (also early 20s) would regularly get shit faced and PISS THE BED with me in it. And occasionally puke AND piss the bed. I hung onto that relationship far too long hOpInG hE wOuLd cHaNgE 🤦‍♀️ never ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:09 PM
6

🤦‍♀️ kill me. My dogs are better than most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:05 PM
5

Yes thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:04 PM
30

Why would anyone want to reproduce with this absolute TRASH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:02 PM
11

He sounds like a catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:01 PM
3

Ahhh noooooo. I hate all of this 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:48 PM
12

I’d like to use the “she’s young and dumb” excuse but.... she’s 31
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:37 PM
25

If he’s into you, he won’t do it. This is just the trash taking itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:24 PM
8

It would be a hard no to moving in together locally. No way would I move states for a piece of trash like this. He’ll dump her the first time something better comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:23 PM
7

This never ends well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:22 PM
31

I cannot tell you how times I hear this. “He’s my soulmate. My twin flame. It’s complicated but I love him!” Bitch that’s not love. That’s trauma bonding. If it’s that hard, get out. You shouldn’t feel bad about yourself and cry daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:21 PM
4

If that’s love, I don’t want it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:53 AM
54

My ex would say this all the time! Our dog had seizures and I’d call him freaking out. Same response. Then he’d spend all evening at the bar after work before he decided to come home. Then he stopped coming home at night. Never again will I pick this type of man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:50 AM
27

Negging at its finest. Make you feel bad so then you feel the need to prove yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:28 PM
15

Ugh the worst. My ex would pull this shit and it would just get worse. My current guy is always early and never makes me wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:06 PM
46

What the actual fuck 🤦‍♀️ This convinced me my body is so gross that I’m going to give it away for free to anyone will accept my disgusting body. It’s going to be a busy weekend, hopefully crosses fingers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:48 PM
45

It’ll only get worse. Run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:18 PM
20

How could anyone resist this?! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:05 PM
2

Oh I think we are different in that aspect. I don’t desire to have a family and children and I think that’s why I’m okay being single. I don’t hear that clock ticking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:00 PM
4

I stayed because I was dumb and had no self-esteem. Luckily we never lived together so it ended up being a clean break and I have grown so much as person since then. I can understand falling for the idea of someone rather than the actual person. Not sure if this helps, but before I met my guy, I decided I was completely okay if I was single the rest of my life and I am complete already. This changed my mindset on what I would date and cut people out immediately if it did not meet my standards be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:47 PM
10

I can only speak from experience so take this with a grain of salt and it is not the same for everyone. I dated a guy where I wanted a commitment early on. He wasn’t sure so I backed off my stance because I didn’t want to pressure him. He strung me along for three years because he was never “sure”. Fact was he was sure I wasn’t for him but I was convenient until something better came along. Once a guy is done, there are no backsies for me. They end up just wasting my time. Also speaking from exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:25 PM
10

Two months is still in the probation period for me. He’s on probation for 90 days. We are on our best behavior in the beginning and it only gets worse as time goes on so if this was his best, byeee! If the guy isn’t doing something I want or does something I don’t like, and we’ve been seeing each other a short time, then I don’t speak up because I don’t want him change him. I decide he’s not a fit and cut him loose. Sounds like he wasn’t a good fit and cut you loose after two months, which I’d m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:38 AM
16

Keep looking, they’re out there! Not as common as LVM but they exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:35 PM
14

And he’s debating with everyone because he desperately wants validation that he’s in the right lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:58 PM
24

I hope he breaks up with her so she finds a guy that’s not a fucking douche and treats her like the mother loving queen she is Edit to note I re-read his trash and he’s talking hypothetically. Good god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:51 PM
25

Dang it. Now we have to come up with a new code
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:47 PM
8

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:16 PM
19

Let me send you my address. Do you do overnight delivery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:11 PM
9

bUt iT iS DiFfErEnT! MaH dIcK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:22 PM
43

It’s sad a lot of women are financially dependent on these scrotes. Not sure about her situation but if I had to guess I would bet she is too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:19 PM
18

And he gets a free maid and cook. And free child care. He gets a mom and a side piece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:28 AM
36

Exactly. Guarantee he never thanked her. He’s trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:17 AM
147

I hate this guy.... never thanked him?? 🤦‍♀️ Poor woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:09 AM
6

I need his number immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:31 PM
14

Hoping it was a joke tattoo 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:30 PM
19

Only a matter of time when this happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:29 PM
9

I love the responses 😂👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:25 PM
8

These scrotes are coming out of the woodwork during the rona. Don’t engage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:34 AM
8

He’s prematurely aged from smoking? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:08 PM
59

“She tried to trap me with a baby!” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:03 PM
63

I’m glad this guy is getting roasted in the comments. He’s trash. She needs to throw him away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:48 AM
97

I can’t believe I’m shocked how often I’ve read this on this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:09 PM
83

Omg yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:53 PM
75

Problem solved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:52 PM
2

Several of the HVM behaviors listed on this sub. Pays for dates. Doesn’t expect sex. Treats me kindly. Wants to do things I want to do. Does the dishes if I cook. Cooks for me. Makes sure I’m comfortable at his place. Opens my car door. Treats me like I have a brain. Talks about a serious future with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:52 PM
32

After nearly every EX bullet I had flash backs to my own since he did very similar things. After we had been dating 2.5 years, he started saying he did not know if he had a future with me. He was lucky enough to have parents who paid for his college. I have quite a bit of student loans. One day, he asked I login to all of my accounts (checking, savings, loans) so he could see my state as it made an impact of our possible future. Like an idiot, I showed him. He then told me he needed space so we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:18 PM
21

Guy #1- asked me out for ice cream so I suggested Stone Cold but joked about DQ. He loved the DQ idea... He was also five minutes late and pulled up as I was about to leave and later told me he lived eight minutes away Guy #2- Who I met once wanted me to pick him up the following Friday so his friends could have his vehicle and made it sound like he’d stay at my place all weekend After meeting a lot of duds, I met a gem seven months ago who treats me like the prize that I am. Otherwise, I’d be h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:19 PM
9

I can’t take it back 😂I watch 90df and he’s disgusting. Every thirty seconds I’m screaming at my tv “I hate these trash people! Why do I watch this?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:06 AM
20

Smfh 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:46 PM
3

There’s nothing I love more than these words of wisdom from a man with a face tat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:06 PM
33

It’s mayonnaise 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:46 PM
60

It’s because men gain pleasure from causing women pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:06 PM
50

Doing whatever I want and sleeping like a starfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:48 PM
6

Ugh I hate it when they open like this. Men aren’t entitled to my time like this. This would be a “that’s a no from me”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:55 PM
38

They do not seem original in the slightest. They take FDS content and change the gender perspective. LVM at their finest........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:34 PM
54

Throw him away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:25 AM
47

Next up, he sends a dick pic and asks if you like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:26 PM
61

Living the dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:20 PM
18

Never works for me haha. I always think it’ll deter me but...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:49 PM
28

Troll. 4 days ago he was crying over not having a gf and being a virgin. No way this actually happened. He’s 4’ 11” and hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:21 AM
3

I like how this took a turn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:34 PM
2

Yahoo? Are they still on MySpace too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:29 AM
20

“Hvw is young and fertile” 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:27 AM
8

“He has given me no reason not to trust him now” smells like bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:24 PM
31

Particularly from men who beg for or feel entitled to sex. But I hate it in general too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:08 PM
58

tHeN sHe sHoUlD hAVe kEpT hEr lEgS cLoSeD! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:57 PM
12

Last year, the man I was briefly dating made day of plans for Vday and brought me a gas station rose and chocolates. I already wasn’t impressed before this. He thought he was entitled to my attention due to his effort but he didn’t get any affection from me that night. Dumped him a week later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:52 AM
6

The wording in the OP leaves something to be desired and the tone is off putting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:56 AM
15

.... how about instead of pitting women against each other, we help these ladies to not tolerate LVM....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:23 AM
3

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:58 PM
20

Aside from his looks, he appears to be in his moms basement. Why women aren’t all over that, we’ll never know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:37 PM
64

I think there are a lot of unknown factors in these unhappy marriages. For starters, did they marry a man child to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:57 PM
16

Or “I have to ask my man first...” hard no from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:15 AM
7

Was not expecting that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:57 AM
80

Exactly this. I no longer waste my breath trying to tell someone how to treat me. I observe and if it’s not what I want/need then byyyye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:15 PM
4

I loved the halftime show and was shocked to read all the hate. SHOCKED! They both did a great job and looked great doing it. I kept repeating “they are killing it!” the entire time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:40 AM
49

To get you to stop lousy sex 😂 no more faking it. Kick him out 2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:01 AM
68

“I’ll make a girl cum 10 times better..” no. Just no. She’s been faking it mah boy 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:32 PM
6

Can’t the trolls follow over there now too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:55 PM
19

This guy I saw briefly told me my calves were squishy. Then told me to feel his flexed calf since that’s how mine should feel. He didn’t make the cut shortly after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 02:49 PM
130

These guys can fuck right off. No one wants a man child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:16 AM
26

What’s going on here? Are they all giving blowies? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:51 AM
3

I second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:20 PM
12

Was it the only way for you to contact him though 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:18 PM
36

Not that the break up was not justified but I agree this should not have been sent to his work email
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:08 PM
24

Men are trash. At least he’s your ex and you’re not still entertaining that mess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:43 PM
8

Why do people stay in relationships like this as if they are being forced. Good Lord, drop that man! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:40 PM
11

If you’re manipulating and lying from date one, then you’re just as shitty as men who do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:25 PM
24

If my intuition says that, I skip checking his phone and just dump him. Boi bye 👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:00 PM
143

My ex husband was a man child. When he was unemployed he’d be lazy all day and then have the audacity to ask me what was for dinner when I got home from work. Even suggested I get a second job while he drank beer all day. Fuck that. My current boyfriend takes me out to eat and we cook meals together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:07 PM
22

This is exactly my first thought. He shaved a uterus into his chest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:25 PM
34

Because men are gross scavengers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:21 PM
50

Exactly this. We’re conquests to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:06 AM
16

My panties dropped reading his messages...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:21 PM
9

Thank you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:46 PM
27

My ex did that. Made me think I was crazy but I was right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:09 PM
45

I missed the part where he cheated Found it Fuck that guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:01 PM
5

You could avoid “what marriage actually is” by not living together and not joining finances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 03:47 PM
80

OMG 😂Men would probably move to make vibrators and dildos illegal if this were the case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:33 PM
14

This man is a total shit bag. I don’t understand couples who act like this or women who put up with such behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:29 PM
18

Exactly! Spending time like this with someone is just asking for trouble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:22 PM
13

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:05 PM
23

These type of men usually go for the young inexperienced women who put up with it in their twenties 👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:04 PM
1

Personally I wouldn’t see these as red flags but more as an annoying behavior. I’d keep a close watch on his behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:39 PM
80

Not long ago I read a post in AITA from a woman who refused to hire an attractive nanny and most (mostly men) replied said YTA. Men are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:30 PM
1

“Who hurt you” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:21 PM
99

It’ll only last so long. He’ll go back to being a lazy sack while she’s still giving him blowies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:35 AM
11

He 👏🏻does 👏🏻not 👏🏻care 👏🏻about👏🏻 you👏🏻. Please do not give it to him. I’ve been there, done that, and regretted it. You have no upper hand here. The letter looks like an act of desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:30 AM
18

One guy was five minutes late to our first meet (I was starting my car to leave when he pulled in) and told me he lived eight minutes away. We didn’t go out again. No way would I have waited an hour haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:22 AM
7

Maybe all his women friends fake it and he thinks he’s gods gift to women LOL but yes, he should definitely google!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:15 PM
20

Isn’t this why we don’t fake anything? Don’t tell him you came and enjoyed it when you didn’t because he’ll never try harder 🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:37 PM
31

This ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:19 PM
6

I hate it when someone tells me it’s ok to cheat on my diet and that I look great. I look great because I don’t cheat on my diet. It’s easy to fall back into unhealthy habits. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:24 PM
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