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That's so wonderful
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/23 03:07 AM
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This one I love! I've read it and it's my guide 100%
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/23 03:07 AM
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I think I am in the same boat
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/23 02:06 AM
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Oh I like this. I haven't read surrendered wife. If I'm honest I find the title triggering lol
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/23 02:05 AM
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He was acutely unwell - this is more of an ongoing issue. It was just an example of his behaviour.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/23 01:05 AM
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I have 4 children and I don't have any money that is just mine. It's easy when you're not a mother and you move away. You move on with your life a lot easier. When you're older and you have children, you are tied to your partner in so many ways. It's been a long 20 years of marriage for us. Something needs to happen to shock the marriage for it to change I think.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 04:42 AM
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Absolutely men who unfortunately grew up without their fathers can be lovely too. It's an excuse I make for his behaviour, not to say all men are like this :) I don't think it was my husband with the porn addiction. He has done many things (lol) but that wasn't it. My husband has been unfaithful.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 04:34 AM
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You had no way of knowing the complexities of my marriage and I can only tell you my story. The question regarding how to address talking to an ex was purely hypothetical. This is not something that has happened in our relationship, however cheating, only fans, accepting unsolicited photos under the guise of "they were just drunk, it meant nothing" while continuing to talk to said person is something that has happened a handful of times in our marriage. I'm played off as being insecure and jealo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 01:38 AM
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I excuse these spats as I know he had a troubled childhood without his father. I make excuses as if he doesn't know better and I try not to take it personally. But it does feel like walking on eggshells.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:58 PM
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I would absolutely question it. But I am also female and I think it's in our nature to be more empathetic. I do feel he lacks empathy and I've made excuses for it in the past. I'll continue cleaning up my side of the street and if no improvements come to the relationship I'll seriously have to consider leaving. It cannot be one sided anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:53 PM
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This is something I think about too 😔
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:51 PM
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I'm 42, so yes I am quite old. Lol. I do have some fond memories but nothing extreme. It's so sad to admit this.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:50 PM
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We've gone through a lot together. This one moment I've let known is a very small snippet of our whole marriage. There's been infidelity, lies, betrayal and a whole host of issues in the 20 years we have been together. Having only recently adopted RP teachings I've come to acknowledge and accept where I have gone wrong and start the process of repair. This included seeking therapy for myself. At one point in our marriage we were separated. The agreement was that we get couples counselling and hi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:38 PM
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Had I seen your post a year ago, my energy to help the relationship improve would be exponential. I have come to a stall. Of course I'd like to remain married. The changes required for our relationship can't be one sided and yes of course there needs to be an element of care. I question if my husband cares; or even cares enough. At this very second in time I am looking for self care until I am ready to combat what lies ahead.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:02 PM
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Thank you for this really constructive feedback. I'll have a better read and see what I can implement. For now, you're right i need to consider if this is worth fighting for.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 10:19 PM
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I'm so sorry you and your mother had to go through this. My husband in our 20 years of marriage hasn't gotten physical to the point I've been hurt. I've been contemplating to stay or leave for a long time. As we have children it makes it difficult too
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 09:06 PM
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I don't doubt I've come here for validation. I do feel like I've struggled on my own for a fair amount of time to get to a point now where I feel numb. Unfortunately I don't feel my husband is receptive to change so I need to make that choice for myself. Thank you for your input. How do you suggest I confront him?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 09:04 PM
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It's paying off. You're an asset to this sub ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 09:00 PM
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I think it's gotten to the point where to avoid a fight I just shut up and don't say anything. It's not worth giving a piece of my mind or thought to it. And then I look elsewhere for the kindness I seek. I can't find it in him so I'll go somewhere else. My parents are extremely loving and so this dynamic with my husband doesn't suit me. Someone else may find it comforting or lovely but for me maybe we're just not matched. I think I long for something he just can't give me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 08:56 PM
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I love that you're such the bookworm lol! Thank you. I've actually started reading this one already. Perhaps I saw it from one of your previous comments on another post? 😜🤔
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 08:54 PM
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When I think back before our marriage there were signs that he was this way. I remember making a passing comment about something and he said "no shit, sherlock". Never in my life had I been spoken to that way. I look at it now and realise I didn't take it into consideration before accepting his proposal. We married around 10 months after meeting. We've been married for 20 years. I am 1 year older than him. That ping ping noise is my favourite so I completely understand what you are saying. The t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 08:49 PM
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Wow, thank you 😘
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 01:31 PM
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He refuses therapy. You're right, he doesn't respect me. Thank you for this clarification
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 01:26 PM
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This is interesting. Thank you for your perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:43 AM
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Yes. 100%. Because it meant he valued what he wanted over his partner. He has shown to be selfish when it suited him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 01:03 AM
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Meh. I'm not plastering myself on instagram. I don't really mind what I look like in photos. I'm confident I am not unattractive. It's not worth my time worrying about. I'm 42 and I wasted my years thinking I looked bad. I look back now at when I was younger and don't know why I even worried. I got asked for ID to enter a casino last year. A police officer stopped me and asked for my licence. He thought I was on my provisionals (under 25). I'm sure it he saw me in a photo he would think again lo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 11:28 AM
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Thank you for suggesting this!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 03:27 AM
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I don't think I look particularly bad in real life. I get compliments and looks etc
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 01:17 AM
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I am not photogenic. At all. I look so ugly as a still. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 11:46 PM
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When men are stressed sometimes sex isn't as important (it just takes a step back). While I completely understand your need to be desired, it might be time you looked after yourself. I don't mean masturbation. Maybe it's time for self care. Instead of smothering your husband, look for ways to make yourself feel better in spite of him. This might mean getting your hair style changed, or going out with friends for coffee, taking up a new hobby, finding a part time job, etc. Feeling desired is so i…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 11:41 PM
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This. Or keto at least.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 03:18 AM
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Are you married? If not, I would take it as if he's saying it's going to be 50/50. But you won't know for sure without asking.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 09:16 AM
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You're so welcome. I know what you mean about the happy streak too lol! You care that your husband feels off and that's really endearing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 05:38 AM
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Okay just so I understand, You felt like he went against your wishes and in doing so you felt disrespected by his actions. You felt embarrassed and ashamed because the time had lapsed. you clearly voiced how you felt after it happened and he understood how you felt like that he expressed guilt and remorse for doing it he acknowledged that he fails to be considerate I think you handled this very well. I think you expressed to him why you didn't want to mention something and he went against your w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 05:21 AM
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Could you give an example of something that you want to bring up?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 04:52 AM
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Thanks. Didn't realise you'd edited the mod post :) didn't see any other comments
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 05:55 PM
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This makes no sense. The whole thread is about helping OP deal with the feelings of inadequacy. She asked a question to me on her own post and I answered.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 05:42 PM
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My husband cheated on me with women with figures he preferred over mine. I got through it by learning to love myself. And it's cliche and it's really hard but I promise you it's the only thing that will make you truly happy. Your husband likes slim frames? But what do those women he's looking at have to offer over you? You love and adore your husband. You intimately know more about him than any one else. My reaction at first was of upset obviously. But slowly I realised that these women he likes…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 11:56 AM
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I am not my husbands type at all. He likes women with a booty and that's not me. I've learned that I can offer him more than the shape of my body and me focusing on that ends in me becoming resentful and questioning his love for me. It's not worth your time thinking about. I would suggest doing loads of self care to love YOURSELF the way you are. Nothing is more attractive than confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 11:50 AM
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This is my husband. There is something else bothering him unrelated to you. You need self care at this time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 11:00 AM
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I agree about the flirting. That's just how he is. It used to upset me but being upset about it is being upset at a part that is who I love! I more mentioned is as a way of describing how this other girl took it the wrong way :) bu you're right the photos were out of line and he really shouldn't have continued to speak with her. I'm glad that there is no double standard here really.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 05:34 AM
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He blocked her after telling me she sent it weeks ago. It was only after he told me and I said it was bizarre and him getting defensive that he blocked her without my knowledge. It wasn't she sent me a nude and now I'll block her. I told him. The woman that propersitioned me was drunk at the time. Obviously I did not pursue it and told her I was not interested. I told my husband immediately that it happened and he immediately told me to stop talking to her which I did. On the other hand, this wo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 01:52 AM
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Thank you for this perspective. It makes so much sense!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 12:11 AM
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You're so welcome. It's good to know you're thinking ahead ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 08:34 AM
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You've agreed to marry and you're right it's inevitable. Now would be the time to do it. I would mention to your man that you'd like to make sure that you're both being looked after and you'd like to know his thoughts on providing - don't just go straight into money maybe start off talking about children if you want them, if you're a stay at home mum or if you're expected to work and what happens if you're at home does it mean that he provides all finances, talk about household chores, religion,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 08:20 AM
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That's a really interesting comment. It's true I didn't voluntarily stop seeing her! But the moment he asked I blocked her. No complaint no discussion (when I told him about the behaviour of this girl being bizarre I was met with defensiveness. Obviously I duck taped) And it's not so much digging anymore. I was more curious about double standards and if the aforementioned would be a double standard to this community or is it that my husband can do somwthing like this, but as a wife I couldn't?
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 04:37 AM
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I just read the blurb for this and so excited to read it. Thanks for the recommendation!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 03:35 AM
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You're asking this community? I think we all pretty much breathe Laura Doyle lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 12:37 AM
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This is a LDR and as much as I would like to think it's exclusive, I highly doubt it. Men have physical needs. You say he is emotionally intelligent, but what you've expressed shows otherwise. The idea of him demanding you call him Sir does not come naturally to you as you don't see him in this light. It sounds less like a relationship and more like master/slave. If you're not comfortable with that, move on. He's a lot older than you and I fear you're just being taken for a ride.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 12:19 AM
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While I myself don't work, I am responsible for the household. Do you and your partner both work full time? Are the expenses in the household shared between your partner and yourself? Have ypu agreed to do everything in the house and provide financially? Because I am fortunate to be a stay at home mum my responsibility is the home - cooking, cleaning, kids etc. But, my husband also knows it's overwhelming and tells me to get a cleaner. Not because I am incapable, but because he can see that I wa…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 12:58 AM
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It's interesting to see this post. I also feel the MRP is disrespectful toward women. My husband is not necessarily red pilled and I actually am grateful for that. I feel like that community is misogynistic and treat women like meat. It is hugely unfair. I use RP as a way to get what I want and maybe that's manipulative. I do think men are easily swayed by their partners opinions, it's just knowing how to go about it. And that's what I do. For a long time I was unhappy in my marriage and it's on…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 07:29 AM
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If the OPs husband is anything like mine, doing this would make him defensive like I'm just joking you're so bloody sensitive etc.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 09:24 PM
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It's so hard to relinquish control when you feel like you know you're capable. But can I say this.. I found it so hard in the beginning, but now I realise it means I have to think less and enjoy life more! Decisions for the family are not up to me. And now even if my children ask me for something and I say I'll have to talk to dad, whatever choice he makes is what goes and it means that I don't have to think about the pros and cons (mostly). Once you let go, you'll love it!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 12:15 PM
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Okay.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 12:11 PM
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I don't recommend this. This can come across really masculine!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 09:56 AM
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Well, when he's very serious a lot of what he says and the way he says things is really harsh. He'll conflate things like saying "you always leave stuff in the sink, you don't appreciate the massive house I bought for you" for example. I'll always just agree "aww you're right! I'll make sure the dishes are done" (I don't get up to do it right away I know he's just having a whinge cos something else is bothering him, not the dishes or him feeling I am ungrateful.) Disagreeing with him when he's i…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 09:22 AM
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He won't change. My husband is exactly like this, he either doesn't take my seriously or he is ultra serious - there is no in-between. I've worked my way around this but do wish sometimes I didn't have to worry.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 02:35 AM
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This might sound counter intuitive and maybe I'm wrong.. But it sounds like you're the nice girl that people are walking all over. The people pleaser. Sometimes holding back can make you come across as a woman who shouldn't be messed with. If it's happening everywhere you go you are the common denominator.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 04:56 AM
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If this was a scenario between your husband and yourself, and you said "oh no, dear I was just saying it's frustrating to me" or something like that? Or is that emasculating? Hrm..
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 02:56 AM
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I used to feel manipulative absolutely. Given the relationship issues we've had, for him to step up like this means a lot to me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 10:26 PM
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100%! This was so well put.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 12:48 PM
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I used to feel thw same about other beautiful women and it's hard. But slowly I realised there is only one me. She might be amazing in looks but really you only have a good 20 years of your life where you look so amazing and youthful. Don't waste your years worrying about how others look and look inward instead. Go to the gym because you want to be healthy and strong.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 09:51 PM
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Please really consider if this is what you want from a man. Please. You cannot change him. It will continue to drain you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 10:47 AM
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What is the point of this?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 12:08 PM
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Let's see how he would have taken it. "our anniversary is coming up I really want to get her something special she can adorn herself in. Oh I know I'll get her a beautiful necklace so when she wears it she can be reminded how much she means to me and she will look so beautiful. I wonder where to get it from? Oh I know a place. I'll choose this one she'll look amazing and she will love it. I can't wait to give it to her. I can't wait to see her face. My darling wife" "man, I've had such a shit da…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 03:33 AM
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It's so nice to see you're both willingly making adjustments for each other.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 03:24 AM
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So beautiful
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 02:04 AM
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It's good you can express yourself without name calling
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 02:03 AM
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I love this even more :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 12:23 AM
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This is so sweet! It's really endearing to hear you have such a strong relationship
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 11:39 PM
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I love this. Sometimes when we speak in person it can come across in the wrong tone as well. My husband takes issue with the way I say things and I have found that voicing myself through text seems easier. It's also easier for me because I give him the benefit of the doubt when I read his messages; I think of him talking to me in a calmer tone. Thank you for sharing this with me
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 11:39 PM
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He has cheated multiple times. First time was opportunity. The other times it was paid. The last time he was a sugar daddy. I asked multiple times about a certain person to which he confessed about what she actually was. With the sugar baby, that was the worst for me. It was 6 months. Others were sprinkled over maybe 6 years. Being traditional meant that sex before marriage or commitment was a big no for me. During our courtship he cheated on me with a girl once. She messaged me and that's how I…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 09:08 AM
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He does call me endearing names. Thank you. Maybe that's his way of saying it
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 08:58 AM
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I obviously don't want to directly ask him to say it, that wasn't my question. Of course I want him to mean it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 06:31 AM
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All the best.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 02:25 AM
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It's apparent he wasn't serious about you then. For your own sake and your own well being - leave him alone. There is nothing he needs from you now. You come being a single mother as well. Do you really feel if he couldn't commit then he'd be willing to let go of a relationship he is happy in now and to commit to you and your son? Please. I'm sure he has a lot more dignity than that, and so should you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 09:32 PM
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No. I'm talking about infidelity.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 03:11 AM
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You broke it off with him because you didn't see his potential. He grew without you. It hurts to hear this, I'm sure.. But you can't just say you want him back now after you left him and he grew to be better. He became who he is in spite of you. It's better for you to move on. Appreciate who he is now and be happy that he has found happiness. He doesn't need you in his life and I'm really sad to say that he seems to have found a woman who meets all of his needs.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 01:16 AM
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Do you only want to get back with him because he's familiar and becuase you're not having much luck dating? It seems unfair to uproot his happiness now because you're not happy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 04:45 AM
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Empowered Wife, Laura Doyle. I know I keep pushing this book but it's really helped me. I say "I want" more often than I used to. I even say things like "whatever you think" when I really don't know or don't really mind either way. Saying ouch when something hurts me without direct blame. It's all so helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 01:43 AM
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Rose prick Tom Ford
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 08:03 AM
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How do you feel about midi skirts and boots? Leather ones are nice with black boots. You can wear warmth underneath?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 06:54 AM
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Oh I just didn't put in those parts 😉
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 08:58 PM
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Amazing. Thank you so much for explaining this. Moving forward it makes sense to talk this way. Thank you thank you thank you
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 02:03 AM
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Any critisism, even when it's just him and I, he gets defensive. I've slowly tried to make it less about him and focus on myself when I feel upset about something. I feel like I take on so much in the way of trying to understand him; but he makes little effort to understand me? I give him the benefit of the doubt. I think in this case I was upset and so that's why it came out that way you're right. I see how he might feel. I didn't know if he moved them or not because the child told me she think…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 11:07 AM
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Thank you for explaining this. I had spoken to him away from anyone :( if I had gone behind his back and put the eggs back he may have considered that disrespectful because hw made the choice to move them? I told him I wanted to move them back before I did it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 11:02 AM
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Thank you. I really needed this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 08:37 AM
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Don't worry darling? I don't know some of it applies I think.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 05:33 AM
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IF and very low carb did it for me. I never felt hungry, my brain fog lifted and I had a lot more energy. Carbs really do turn to sugar in the body. Your body doesn't need sugar.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 09:59 PM
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I actually did end up starting the Empowered Wife and it's been awesome thank you
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 03:48 AM
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You will! If you feel bad that you doubted him, tell him. Being in a previous toxic relationship will bring a whole lot of triggers. Try to remember he is not your previous relationships. He is his own person with a very different upbringing and family life and values etc. Even though it was last minute doesn't mean she can't quickly grab the book and make her way there etc. If you think about it she could have easily have not taken the book and deliberately organised to give it to him on her ow…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 08:47 AM
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The fact that he is not on his own with her is great! It could be that he had organised to catch up and his mate that has a thing for her asked if she could tag along. It's a positive sign she took the opportunity to give back the book as well. I get that you can feel insecure because she's pretty, but your boyfriend CHOSE you. Take comfort in that. When I feel insecure about what my husband is doing I deliberately find something that fills my bucket. Maybe I'll watch a movie with popcorn and a …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 07:14 AM
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It really is time for you to do some self care. It's clear he's moved on and maybe every now and again he wonders about you but he's made his choice. You dwelling on it or pleading with him only makes you look silly. Guys don't want desperate women. If you can't get over him, do whatever you can to improve yourself. Take a short course into how to be a receptionist or something like that and work. Meet new people, enjoy your life. When he sees you're fun and enjoying yourself maybe he will want …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 10:22 PM
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I'm sorry you are sad about what happened. 20 hours is such a long time and really does show how tired he must have been!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 01:19 PM
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I'm a total grump when someone wakes me. When I first got married I was so surprised at how sweet and calm my husband was when I woke him in the night. I'm so aggressive when I'm woken!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 01:18 PM
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Perhaps he genuinely was really tired and wanted to sleep but felt like you wanted to talk? Maybe try to express to him that you were upset by it?
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 08:58 AM
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Not at the moment, no. He sometimes does trading but nothing consistent
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 09:21 AM
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the large majority of that I was a stay at home mum so I get what he is saying that I didn't earn it. I guess he thinks that being a stay at home mum isn't worth the stress he felt while working. Not that he works now.. I'm left with the housework and parentingl.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 08:55 AM
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I like to think I supported my husband into wealth. When we got married he was in debt. I worked to help pay off the debt. I bought his first TV before we were married. I'd fill his fridge with food when we were not yet married. He worked at the same place I worked and didn't think he would be able to get a different job in the company. I did his resume and applied for him. He had ended up getting the job, and was paid twice as much He got a better paying job and came into some money. He now loo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 08:49 AM
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You make a valid point!
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 08:36 AM
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I'd like to add: Emotionally available/mature Wealthy
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 02:59 AM
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This is so constructive thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 02:46 AM
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My husband unfortunately is not responsive to communication and expressing my needs. It's been a battle for me for some time but I've come to not take it personally and find work arounds. Even me making comments like "I love when you do this" etc are seen as a critisism to him. You're right in everything you've said. There I no point being childish.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 02:19 AM
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You're so right. I think I have been up in his business and focusing less on me. Time for a new hair style and an manicure I think!
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 01:17 AM
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This is a fantastic idea! I never thought to do that
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 01:11 AM
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Could you mention how much you love when he does initiate? Initiate yourself and say "I love the way you turn me on when you xyz" or "you make me feel so desired when you xyz" hinting about him initiating..
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 11:54 AM
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I love this!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 06:41 AM
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I'm so pleased you're happy with your progress! I'm sure the confidence in that helps with attractiveness too
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 06:41 AM
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That's a good point. There is a lot that controls what signifies beauty too
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 06:40 AM
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I love this. She sounds so earthy!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 04:50 AM
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Confidence does seem to be key. I am a lot older now, but when I look back at my photos when I was younger I think damn I was actually pretty!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 04:42 AM
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Don't feel cringe! I asked the question and you answered it beautifully! You should be able to say whether you're objectively attractive or not. You sound a lot like my 16 year old daughter. I'm starting to notice people looking more at her than they do at me (I'm older of course) particularly men both her age and older. She doesn't notice it cos she's still a bit if a ditz lol Do you think most high value women have the same level and above attractiveness as you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 04:41 AM
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How are you going to meet this person who is better, being in a RP relationship? You won't be going out on your own to bars or clubs and you won't be on dating sites?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 01:01 AM
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He's giving you all the room in the world to leave because he doesn't care about you. He's using you because you are a doormat. He values himself and if you don't like it you can leave. There is no compromise or consideration of your needs. You're trying to defend him because you love him, but at every turn it becomes more and more apparent how much he doesn't love you. I'm sorry to be harsh. I am in a similar situation where my partner doesn't love me. Please consider yourself because he isn't …
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 12:53 AM
5

Is that what he's doing? Fathering children? Or using this apparent drive as an excuse because he has an inability to control himself? I'm a Muslim woman. In my religion, yes a man can have up to 4 wives. But there are conditions and requirements for this that very very few men can uphold. Nowhere in my religion are they allowed to commit adultery, lest they be stoned to death or condemned to hell. I'm not trying to belittle you. You've just been forced to believe something that is completely un…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 02:56 AM
5

"has to".. What in the brainwashing has he said to you??
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 12:08 AM
6

He's using RP as a way to get you to comply with cheating. He is telling you "hey it's just sex" when you've voiced concern and that you are struggling to be okay with this.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 09:35 PM
24

Best. Response. Ever.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:28 AM
30

Rpm do not lack self control? You're being manipulated. I'm sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:27 AM
2

Have there been times when it's been a long intimate conversation? Like the conversation flowed easily and you spoke for a long time perhaps an hour or so? I ask because I HATE talking on the phone. I'll avoid it if I can. I will deliberately not pick up a call and message to say "oh sorry I missed your call" etc. Do you think this could be your boyfriend as well? Phone calls in general might seem laborious?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:23 AM
1

Denying reality is gaslighting. OP knew he said something and he continuously denied it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 01:46 AM
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Firstly, I commend you for breastfeeding at this age. Thats amazing and the bond between mother and child during this stage is very strong. Please be proud of what you are doing for your child. Secondly, the fact that he denied saying anything repeatedly and you knew he said something is borderline gaslighting and hence is very disrespectful. Thirdly, to answer your question about why you feel annoyed he has a lease on an apartment for you both could be your gut telling you you need to walk away…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 12:46 AM
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