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Look up average size by country. In Korea you would be a porn star, don't sweat it.
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:13 PM
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I would evaluate if you come off as a man or a boy, because in your writing you come off as a boy. Harsh, I realize, but if you take it to heart you can make a lot of progress.
/r/seduction15/08/14 08:55 PM
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Possibly, to commercialize something a person needs to sign a release.
/r/seduction15/08/14 08:23 PM
1

So there is nothing you can improve?
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:58 AM
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Livin the dream
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:41 AM
1

If you really want to succeed you need to photograph yourself and get video of you approaching so you can get real feedback.
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:25 AM
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Some girls are like that naturally. It doesn't mean they don't want an exclusive relationship, but you are probably in for some drama somewhere down the line. I would continue to try to meet other women but spend as much time with her as she wants. If you are seeing her 3 times a week for two or three weeks it is pretty appropriate to bring up if she is seeing anyone else etc. Don't be judgmental, don't try to control her, just understand what she wants, and communicate what you want. Manipulati…
/r/seduction12/07/14 03:00 PM
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She has abundance, you don't. She didn't have to earn it, you will. There is no reason to get jealous when you know you can get other girls, so this is the area where practicing and feeling confident in you abilities makes a big difference. If the guy is needy and the girl is not, most likely you are in for heartbreak. It's a difficult truth that when two people get together girls still get just as much attention, but it is inappropriate for a guy to cold approach (at least directly). This means…
/r/seduction12/07/14 02:28 PM
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Keep practicing and figure out the type of person you want to be. Instead of acting confident, actually being able to handle anything that comes your way. Instead of 'giving value' actually seeing positive things in other people.
/r/seduction05/07/14 02:43 PM
4

Two men not being repulsed by each other is, as we all know, very gay.
/r/seduction28/06/14 11:57 PM
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What's really interesting is that he didn't really read you, he cold read you and it made a big impact.
/r/seduction28/06/14 11:56 PM
6

The flip side of the coin is to figure out what you think makes someone awesome, and make sure to put effort into that. When people don't feel good about themselves, it can mean they know they would respect themselves if they did something but for whatever temporary reasons they don't. Don't do that, figure out what's awesome to you and go at it.
/r/seduction15/06/14 09:41 PM
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Yes he doesn't have to work as hard, get over it
/r/seduction15/06/14 07:16 PM
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Don't go to a movie and don't sit across from her for long. Also cooking with girls is great but there is usually a lot in between. Right now you need to work on getting the interactions longer. Go on instant dates, get coffee and then walk around or sit on a bench. They will give you their number if they are attracted but have a reason. We should go do this thing on this day... Then do it or not it doesn't matter, she won't call you on it.
/r/seduction14/06/14 11:56 PM
1

Step one, step two, then repeat
/r/seduction11/06/14 02:19 AM
1

Is this really the forum for stuff like this?
/r/seduction09/06/14 10:44 PM
0

I watched brad bransons 21 convention video on voice tonality and it was one of the things that has made the greatest impact on how girls respond. That being said, a lot of the videos Tyler puts seem to be pretty worthless for learning anything. They mostly just end up being entertainment and showing off. If anything they get inexperienced people in a very scattered uncalibrated state because he talks about so much that is not neccesary to learning and making progress.
/r/seduction09/06/14 02:01 PM
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I hate lifting weights and doing anything physically taxing, how can I build muscle?
/r/seduction09/06/14 01:43 PM
2

Any girl I've been friends with has been attracted to me and it has been my choice not to escalate or communicate any intentions to get sexual. But as far as I can tell attraction in some form is still key.
/r/seduction05/06/14 03:29 PM
7

The article is actually really good. This isn't your sister telling you to be yourself.
/r/seduction04/06/14 01:14 PM
3

Get them alone and take off their clothes
/r/seduction03/06/14 11:30 PM
2

The Game is technically non-fiction. People are made into characters and Tyler was made into the villain. Two real life people were combined into one character in the book.
/r/seduction03/06/14 06:23 PM
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A lot of girls I've been out with don't immediately want a drink, usually I try to do something fun where we can walk around and I can touch and flirt. Then a drink while sitting next to each other or getting something to eat that is quick and easy.
/r/seduction03/06/14 06:21 PM
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Your post is coherent and well written, if you have a mentality of trying to learn, you are certainly not beyond help.
/r/seduction01/06/14 10:10 PM
2

One thing I don't see come up a lot is a current state that has you thinking 'girls are like this' or 'girls do this type of thing' either positive or negative. Of course everyone is all over the map, but the idea that a girl would invite me out to ignore me somehow makes me think 'girls are manipulative and disrespectful' or 'girls are testing' instead of 'that girl is rude' etc. It's one of many things I've had to catch myself thinking.
/r/seduction31/05/14 01:31 AM
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You can have the mindset of 'I'm pretty awesome, lets see if they pick up on it'. Then towards them you can be challenging but also encouraging and positive (or 'value giving' as the terminology goes). Notice nowhere in these mindsets do you 'need' anything. You can think of yourself as a diamond in the rough, and if someone doesn't realize it, it would be like someone seeing the ring from the lord of the rings, a famous painting, or an ancient artifact and not realizing what they were looking a…
/r/seduction24/05/14 05:18 PM
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I can not recommend against all of this enough. These books are abstract and marginally helpful, and male fashion advice is very myopic and mostly useful for knowing how clothes should fit.
/r/seduction17/05/14 09:55 PM
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Just keep at it. This mentality will go away as your voice tone, smile, eye contact, body language, style, fitness, (and possibly hygiene) get better. It will go away because you will get better reactions, so you will clearly not be bothering someone. Your experience will start to override you current beliefs.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:48 PM
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People are challenging them, and you are fighting and resisting accepting a very different view of the world and relationships, which is very natural. If there is one detriment to your age it is this and nothing else. You've dug paths in your brain about how the world is and how people are, and those inset beliefs are making you miserable. Not only that, changing those beliefs is uncomfortable. So you have no way out. You can cling to momentary comfort in the fleeting satisfaction of being right…
/r/seduction20/04/14 07:29 PM
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You are making a lot of assumptions. Women aren't 'taken' and then owned by someone else for the rest of their life. Life is one long time line with lots of shades of gray. A quality woman has choice, and you need to become the person they choose. I get the sense you have lots of emotional baggage (who doesn't) and lots of limiting beliefs that you are allowing to hold you back. If all you want is to confirm your negative view of the world, you can do that on your own. If you want to challenge y…
/r/seduction20/04/14 04:49 PM
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First just by the fact that you keep emphasizing your age makes me think that you don't feel the skills here apply throughout your whole life, or that age is a limiting factor for men. It's as if you aren't aware that women age too. Are you wanting 20 year old girls?
/r/seduction20/04/14 03:00 PM
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Neither did I
/r/seduction08/04/14 04:14 AM
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Mystery actually didn't lose his virginity until 21
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:47 AM
2

If you stop a girl it will seem very disingenuous if you have some weird excuse. Saying over and over how beautiful a woman is needy and will destroy attraction that a woman has, especially if you can't articulate other reasons why you like her. Girls love the compliment though and it is even better if you can give articulate other aspects of beauty other than 'you're beautiful' on the approach. Go approach, you find many of your assumptions blown away.
/r/seduction03/04/14 11:32 PM
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You need to practice. First, practice by yourself and record yourself on your phone. Do it over and over, read an article in that voice. Then you need to practice it live. To do this you will need to approach girls and think only of tonality. Don't worry about anything else, just try to nail down tonality. Repetition, over and over. Refinement. Eventually you will start to get a feeling of 'OK I've got this down. Practicing this is like practicing driving, it isn't necessary any more.'
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:21 PM
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I feel like trying hard to be clever can come across as needy in itself. I would just say 'that sounds perfect' or something like that. If she's having fun of course she'll stay, she just doesn't want to commit to a 'date' which could be lame and take up a whole evening. I don't blame her since she doesn't know you yet.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:16 PM
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Thanks! Yeah for some reason once I would say something and get even a decent reaction I felt really good about the rest of the conversation. A big part of AA that is not usually addressed is competence. You can be nervous but still act in the face of fear much more easily if you know you can handle whatever comes next (and you can already). The only way to feel it though is to build up all these experiences of nothing you can't handle. I actually still have a slight fear of getting caught in a …
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:10 PM
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Thanks! Yeah I think a lot of very skilled people want to write a book about how to get to their level. In a way I'm doing the same thing although my level is lower, but I have a lot of experience teaching adults.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:01 PM
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You have to hear it really, but imagine comforting a wounded crying child, that's the opposite. Now imagine you are a teacher keeping an ADD child from walking away from a group on a field trip (with no anger or hint of being upset). 'Hey. William. Stay with the group.' That's a dominant tonality that doesn't get higher pitched while you are saying it. Most men are not used to ever speaking like this, because most men are not leaders, because not everyone can be. This might be why it works so we…
/r/seduction30/03/14 06:52 PM
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I think a really helpful mentality I adopted was that trying something awkwardly that might wreck an interaction was better than trying to make every interaction work (although most of the time it would go in my favor). This is what the Vision is about, the long term plan. I would ask for a number or try to hug a girl even if it was only 30 seconds in and the girl was still confused about what was even going on (language barrier), just so I could break through for myself. The thing is when you e…
/r/seduction30/03/14 02:01 AM
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Yeah, 8 months might be a little extreme, and only applies to an increase in muscle. In my case it was once a week with a diet that didn't help build muscle. It probably did take about that long before my shirt fell from my chest without touching my stomach at all while relaxed, which meant building muscle from scratch in my chest and working off enough fat that it started to noticeably come off my belly. The bigger picture is to not get discouraged of course. I'm skeptical that you could see si…
/r/seduction30/03/14 12:55 AM
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I'm glad it helps. When it comes to learning I find that putting negatives in people's heads should be used very sparingly. When someone has advice that says 'don't do this' it leaves a hole that needs to be filled with what you actually should do instead. Also various things that are advised against but have very different levels of importance can often mix together and mess with people's heads until they don't approach because they only have a list of what not to do. Stuff like don't approach …
/r/seduction30/03/14 12:47 AM
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Maybe we can figure out how to break that down in to smaller steps. The fundamental and abstract side is in my experience the same thing you have probably already read somewhere: leading the interaction. Girls rarely lead. They might if they are aggressive, if you have shown a large amount of value to them (and not negated it with anything), or if you have a lot of 'flash attraction' / 'buying temperature'. In my experience though the most they will do is be proactive about a text message or som…
/r/seduction29/03/14 02:52 PM
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Thanks! I'm glad you've gotten something out of it. I will watch every one of those .gifs individually.
/r/seduction29/03/14 02:25 PM
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Thank you so much, I'm glad something I felt was solid information is useful to you.
/r/seduction29/03/14 02:11 PM
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Thanks, I'm glad someone read through it. I can't imagine going through these steps without a significant positive benefit. I wish this is all I read at first plus a few cold reads and routines. Also most people have a small social circle. One of my favorite cold reads is 'I think you are the type of person who meets a lot of people but only lets a few people truly get close to you' It applies to most people but feels personal. Once I basically switched off last minute resistance by saying that,…
/r/seduction29/03/14 06:39 AM
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You sound so much further along than most people in your position. I guarantee with all your socializing there are girls in your life right now that want to sleep with you. 'The Game' is "technically non-fiction" and won't really help you except to maybe get you out there. Don't fill your head with too much information, most of it is re-hashed anyway (here comes the hypocrisy my own re-hash which is hopefully clear and covers only the most important fundamentals). First you need to be in abundan…
/r/seduction28/03/14 10:47 AM
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I have plenty of AA but I've also fought through it before and will again. It comes down to three main things, break it down, act in the face of fear, competence is confidence. Break it down. Too much 'just do it pussy' is thrown around and this doesn't work over the long term, because it takes an amped state that is not sustainable. I've told guys I've hung out with to not worry about approaching, just to walk over to a girl and walk back. Why? Because it is part of the action, and actually mak…
/r/seduction20/03/14 03:18 AM
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I'm still convinced of what he was saying. People do experience emotions, comfort, and pain in a time-relative fashion, but I think his point stands. People think of an experience with someone as an extrapolation of what they experienced before, so if you end with increasing positive emotions, that is what the future will hold in the mind of the girl.
/r/seduction19/03/14 09:47 AM
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In my experience, this happens when a girl starts to actually feel she needs you but wants to get more of an emotional response from you. Many relationships end with the woman trying to manipulate some sort of emotion from the guy, even if is negative, because they become desperate to break what seems to them to be apathy. The guy backs away to avoid the woman when she is emotional and the cycle continues. It sounds to me like this is past game and in to a relationship. Listen to the audio book …
/r/seduction09/03/14 01:29 AM
1

My current theory is that they would be better renamed as neediness tests
/r/seduction05/03/14 02:43 PM
4

Create an address and post it in bold in your post and as a reply here. Then people can send you money and pay you for your book with no middle man. What were you getting for a sale of the ebook?
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:28 AM
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Plenty of guys work around these obstacles. Stayed in? By the time I have a girl alone in my place, it's game over. It sounds like you need to get physical and escalate. Also, you can take walks, get involved with events at school, try some small class together... There are lots of ideas for cheap dates, and you don't always have to pick up the tab. I only pay when there is an obvious difference in the amount of money I make and the girl makes. You can make it work, but don't use it as an excuse…
/r/seduction23/02/14 02:11 AM
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What is the context there? Was is actually being able to meet up with them? I have a hard time believing a girl thought 'this guy makes me really wet, if only he had a used honda civic to call his own I'd drop my panties'
/r/seduction23/02/14 01:37 AM
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That is your own hangup and has nothing to do with women. Don't be ashamed of where you are in life if you are activly shaping what you want your life to be.
/r/seduction22/02/14 11:06 PM
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If you think there is a major difference between 'slutty' and 'regular' girls you still have some to learn, which at your age will just come with time and experience. The story of a guy getting close to a girl over time who then sleeps with a guy she just met is a tale as old as time. But you can be the other guy.
/r/seduction22/02/14 11:04 PM
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While that is the conventional wisdom, I checked out the article and it seems to be the same old core concepts with a fresh perspective, which I think is worthwhile.
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:12 AM
2

Have you ever asked yourself why you are spending your time in a nightclub watching your girl friends dance? Have you ever wondered why they go to nightclubs if this terrible scenario you describe keeps happening?
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:27 AM
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That's you rationalizing your protective behavior by forming a belief around other people's capabilities. How often does it happen that one of your friends says 'that guy was creepy, why didn't you jump in and protect me from him?'
/r/seduction31/01/14 11:47 PM
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Have you ever thought that your friends can handle themselves?
/r/seduction31/01/14 08:24 PM
2

Why would you brush off and ignore a compliment? When did a compliment become a 'shit test'
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:25 PM
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Tough crowd
/r/seduction13/12/13 06:37 AM
1

See you there buddy, well have a blast
/r/seduction13/12/13 04:01 AM
5

So Nelson Mandela and Paul Walker are getting high together and decide they need to have taco bell right away.....
/r/seduction13/12/13 03:14 AM
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This post doesn't actually describe how you get 3 to 5 numbers a day at all.
/r/seduction06/10/13 01:44 PM
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The first piece of advise I could give would be to not categorize them using porn terms.
/r/seduction27/09/13 07:43 PM
6

Injecting more male seduction into this you can touch a lot and get away with it, guys will love it. Become a hugger, get excited and drag him by his arm, all that stuff.
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:34 PM
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Everyone seems to be dancing around your question and giving you a hard time. Men are inherently insecure. If you want lots of guys around you be warm, friendly , inviting, and make guys feel good about themselves, but never be needy. The catch-22 is that this may just attract guys that you aren't interested in.
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:11 PM
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Its really not like that. I've stopped a girl that was with a guy and some other girl when I thought she was alone. I had a friend who approached a girl while she was with her mom and dad. You need to come to grips and own that you want to meet her, then you can't get 'caught'. Girls love to be stopped and told they look gorgeous. The prettier they are, the easier they are to stop and talk to. It's funny like that.
/r/seduction24/09/13 03:34 AM
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You understand it in your head for sure, now go out and approach until you really learn it.
/r/seduction22/09/13 03:40 AM
1

you're the cunt lord you tell me
/r/seduction01/09/13 03:45 AM
1

Everyone says 'no one does that here', It doesn't matter, it still works
/r/seduction31/08/13 11:32 PM
1

Start super small. First walk around and smile with eye contact. Do that a bunch until smiling is easy and eye contact is easy. Then move on to saying hi or even just grunting if it helps, anything to open your mouth and make a sound. The more you can break it down in to small pieces and get over those small pieces, the more you can take it as a smooth ramp up to cold approaching. If you can already approach girls you have something in common with then it is much more all in your head. If you wa…
/r/seduction27/08/13 08:54 PM
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you've broken through a crucial first step, which is getting a girls attention, even if for a moment. Yes it feels weird because it is weird, because it is dishonest to ask where you non existent friend is. You can though, work on getting comfortable with saying 'hey, you're cute, whats your name? I'm purecoconut' and going from there. That is honest. Need to transistion? ' you look like ..... [cold read] / blind assumption' Make eye contact, touch and you are off! Get comfortable with honesty a…
/r/seduction31/07/13 04:04 PM
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You have probably answered your own question. You can't find a girl that isn't like that, you need to both come to grips with it and have an honest relationship. Girls in a satisfying relationship are a lot less likely to cheat, have you been in a long term relationship since you got good?
/r/seduction28/07/13 03:45 AM
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I find getting over AA is a combination of a few things. AA comes back and that first approach cuts it down a lot so do it as soon as possible, you will feel better. Don't wait for nervousness to go away, realize that courage is acting in spite of anxiety. Don't rely on not being anxious, rely on knowing that you will build up the skills to know what to do. If your AA never decreases, your competence still will.
/r/seduction28/07/13 02:48 AM
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Got to approach those girls who look, you won't believe how much easier it goes.
/r/seduction27/07/13 03:13 PM
1

Do you have an example of this happening to you or friends of yours? I had a friend tell me he was immediately called out on a line from the game, and got the girls number later.
/r/seduction25/07/13 10:49 AM
1

The point is to move your feet and get used to taking action. I guess you don't have to run, and it doesn't have to be directly at a girl, just walking over to her or catching up with her will help with apathy and taking some action. And yes, it probably would be creepy to look at a girl, walk up, then say nothing and walk around. But after that saying hi should be easier because it is the more natural, less creepy thing to do. So yes you are right, but it has still helped guys I have been out w…
/r/seduction12/07/13 01:18 AM
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Starting at the seemingly insurmountable approach isn't necessary. First just smile. Smile to yourself and keep doing it until it comes easy. Then as you walk, make eye contact for as long as you can with any girl you find attractive. Then make eye contact and smile, you should get some smiles back. After all that start saying hi, I have to stop you I think you are cute, etc. If that still seems like too much of a leap after you are done smiling say hi. Opening your mouth and speaking is another…
/r/seduction11/07/13 11:18 AM
1

The original intent was for guys to estimate how a girl values herself and to calibrate to that, but we have gotten off track many times because it helps paint the picture of the interaction
/r/seduction09/07/13 04:05 AM
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Many would agree
/r/seduction07/07/13 04:04 AM
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Are you going to tell me he doesn't dress great, have great tonality, and overall a lot of solidarity to his his speaking? Don't go down that silly path
/r/seduction07/07/13 03:45 AM
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So true. And that repackaging is good in my opinion, but he did lay a very thorough core foundation down. The more I think about his stuff the more I realize it is all true, just not always the most intuitive.
/r/seduction07/07/13 03:42 AM
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Been there, they are not nearly as great as they think they are. Beyond the basics they Hurd towards clothes that make me want to take their lunch money.
/r/seduction03/07/13 04:35 PM
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The 21 convention has had consistently great videos, like the ted of pickup. Brad Brandon's video took me from getting blown out to opening consistently in day game (tonality + smile). James marshals video finally made qualification click more for me, get the girl to invest more emotionally by pressing her to qualify herself. Sasha's videos are fun and good. Doug Mcguffs fitness video is fantastic. Also look up sugar: the bitter truth. Then you will be all set. If anyone has a good clear video o…
/r/seduction03/07/13 01:47 PM
1

It really doesn't have to be. Sometimes girls are technically virgins but a combination of them getting horny from a dry spell of not meeting guys they like and actually meeting one they really like can make things happen like this, it is not the first time I've heard of it.
/r/seduction03/07/13 02:22 AM
1

Haha no. Give women some credit.
/r/seduction03/07/13 02:17 AM
1

That is exactly what he is saying
/r/seduction27/06/13 12:48 AM
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The thing I really latched on to is something is that it boils overall relationships with women to a few very fundamental concepts that rang true with me. The rest of the book is just fairly solid, clear advice that seems to be prioritized well ( not focusing on things that have little return for the amount of effort ). It overall just seems simpler and clearer without being overwhelming. Sinn's game acceleration doctrine is also a really good thing to read, it is just a couple of pages on major…
/r/seduction19/06/13 05:35 AM
1

I agree, my phone is filled with girls who will text me back, but don't text me first. It seems very cut and dry until we have slept together. Even then some girls will never text me first!
/r/seduction18/06/13 03:01 AM
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First women are probably not repulsed by you unless your body language and vocal tonality screams desperation. Second bootcamps are not a good way to spend money to learn in my opinion and they won't fix your problem if you can approach already. What might help is hiring a coach to work with you for a little bit of time each week over a longer period of time, if you can. The hardest part is probably letting go of unnattractive things that you feel define you. If you really want to move forward v…
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:59 AM
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I'm reading Mark Manson's Models book and about half way through it. There is almost no way you could read that book, genuinly work on every part and still not have more women in your life than you have time for. A couple of huge things. Stop eating sugar and do intensive weight workouts to keep fit. It is simple and doesn't take much time, ( but that doesn't mean it is easy ). Really evaluate your hygiene. Are you super clean? Do your clothes fit? If not, throw them away, burn them, don't ever …
/r/seduction17/06/13 10:07 AM
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If you are having flakes, you have plenty of space to improve. First try to get girls on instant dates, not just number close. Farming numbers is not nearly as effective as getting time with the girl. Try talking about sex and hinting at it ( don't think of a pink elephant ). The goal is not to open, the goal is have women in your life.
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:46 AM
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It is way more relevant than people give it credit for. Mystery was one of those people who explodes a skill forward, a true innovator. Many things I would say are not explained correctly or not emphasized correctly. Negs when thought of as teasing DO work. Teasing works. Only a super princess needs a real neg, and even then it is just to say they are human and no one is perfect. Vocal tonality, posture, speaking speed and smiling are huge too and addressed but not emphasized enough I think. The…
/r/seduction06/06/13 03:00 PM
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In addition to all the other advice here it is unlikely a woman will leave you if she sees progression. Start working out and learn about building muscle. Eat way less sugar. Learn fashion and get clothes that fit better. Wear clothes that are interesting. Do something cooler with your hair. Improve your hygiene, improve how clean you keep your place. Get a better place. Clean your car. Study for a better job. Start seizing opportunities and tell her about it. Learn to speak better. Make new fri…
/r/seduction05/06/13 10:31 AM
1

In addition to all the other advice here it is unlikely a woman will leave you if she sees progression. Start working out and learn about building muscle. Eat way less sugar. Learn fashion and get clothes that fit better. Wear clothes that are interesting. Do something cooler with your hair. Improve your hygiene, improve how clean you keep your place. Get a better place. Clean your car. Study for a better job. Start seizing opportunities and tell her about it. Learn to speak better. Make new fri…
/r/seduction05/06/13 04:58 AM
2

What. The. Fuck. Women try to be what men want practically non-stop. Why do you think you want them?
/r/seduction04/06/13 08:36 AM
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That will depend on whether or not you have an abundance of girls who are interested in you.
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:46 AM
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Twas worth a chuckle, but lest anyone forget, it does work!
/r/seduction28/05/13 02:30 AM
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Most powerful man in the world for 8 years and a net worth of 38 Million. http://www.nbcnews.com/business/10-richest-us-presidents-1C7100851
/r/seduction28/05/13 02:14 AM
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Pretty much, many times I will try to give a peck on the cheeks or lips even mid sentence and then just keep talking. Breaking that barrier down is always good.
/r/seduction28/05/13 02:11 AM
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'I've had many problems in my life, but most of them never happened.'
/r/seduction22/05/13 02:43 AM
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You have to take the lead. You have to. But that doesn't mean that taking the lead means you can't say what you like. A girl is not going to do everything for you, she probably won't do much of anything without you initiating. You can tell girls what you like though, stuff like 'I love aggressive girls'. When you get a girl in bed you can be more specific. Don't be selfish though, you have to give her everything she wants to get everything you want. Figuring out what she wants and how you can gi…
/r/seduction21/05/13 11:10 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction18/05/13 01:11 AM
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That makes a lot more sense, it threw me off thinking you got blown out like that multiple times in one night. My worst blowout was one of my first night cold approaches on a bootcamp when I tried to force an opinion opener and a woman screamed 'excuse me were are having a fucking conversation!'. I've never had that since, I'm glad you were able to clarify. Keep up the good work, I'm learning a lot from you videos, thanks! Edit: Also, what are your techniques for muscle growth? I do very slow, i…
/r/seduction17/05/13 04:33 PM
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I loved your videos and watched listened to a couple today. I love the fact that you do so many real in field videos, anything else pales in comparison. For the Asians blowing you out video, were those those what most of the interactions were like there, or did you just cut together the worst ones? Those were some super rude girls.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:10 PM
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You can wait for all your good things to come out of what is only enjoyable, but you will eventually be old and bitter. Bring a friend if you are that much of a bitch.
/r/seduction15/05/13 06:49 AM
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It is a great story of 'nonfiction' ( real events framed to make an exciting story ). I think two people were even combined into one character. Don't try to study it if you read it, just have fun. Then read some modern books. Probably the one that actually helped me the most was by mehow. Also watch infield videos, that stuff never even existed when this all started. It won't be like you imagine it. Neither will going out. Keep calm and approach.
/r/seduction14/05/13 06:13 AM
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A girl is texting you all the time and you have had sex before? What you are talking about isn't seduction, it is scheduling. Name a place, fuck her again, this isn't rocket surgery.
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:54 AM
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This is horrible. I've never said the word date to any girl. It isn't neccesary. You meet up, you hang out, you watch a movie and cook at your place.... You touch the whole time, you escalate, you fuck. After the sex has no resistance and you both have plenty of sex and like hanging out together, then have the boyfriend conversation.
/r/seduction12/05/13 03:37 PM
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Sure, I will be glad to help if I can. In return you can report back with how things went.
/r/seduction10/05/13 02:16 AM
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sounds good to me if you are 1 on 1 with the Frisbee look at it as teaching her, tell her 'good job' 'nice' etc. if you can get behind her and show how to throw at some point that is good too for touching and that sweet patient teaching tonality.
/r/seduction09/05/13 10:33 AM
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If a girl is willing to be alone with me, I will try to get her alone with me. If there is an event and she is already willing to come over, get her over, take a tour of your house, and leave some stuff there if you can. Go to the even and have fun, come back and have more fun. Another thing you can throw in (while out or in public) is something like 'I can't wait to get you all to myself' or something stronger like 'if all these people weren't around I would be doing naughty things to you' (sto…
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:58 AM
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Everything seems impossible when you look at a master. If you only saw the notes on the paper would you think this is possible? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVbuIZ-5-8o 10,000 hours of practice later, maybe it isn't
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:26 AM
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So you've tried it then?
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:23 AM
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His book talks about why he does that though. He gets numbers quickly to invite them over in bulk spaced a half hour apart and gets them to come up to his place to isolate them. He tries to invest the minimal amount of work until he sleeps with them. Some might say there are better ways to go about it but he has a method and very clear explanation for why he does the things he does. He is also very charismatic, especially there. When you watch other videos, even ones where the guys gets the girl…
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:22 AM
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If you are definitely at the stage where the next date should be when you guys hook up, make it dinner and a movie. Learn to cook, teach her to cook with her, work the kitchen with lots of touching and fun. Go to the grocery store with her if you can. Then cuddle up and watch a movie.
/r/seduction09/04/13 08:05 AM
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It's a text message.
/r/seduction25/03/13 01:36 PM
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Test and report back. OP says it works for him
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:25 AM
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Try
/r/seduction08/03/13 11:01 PM
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One thing that has made difference to me so noticeable I have a hard time attributing it to placebo is 5-htp. After feeling an emotional weight, I take it for 1 to 3 days and feel much more neutralized without heavy negative emotional investment in things.
/r/seduction01/03/13 04:32 AM
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It seems very unlikely to be your actual face structure unless you are the elephant man. Google for a brad Brandon talk on tonality. After I watched that I realized that during day game I could switch back and forth between girls making a face and walking away to them stopping in their tracks and taking out their headphones to talk
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:01 PM
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Clicked to see if there was a wall of text
/r/seduction22/02/13 11:04 AM
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Test your shit
/r/seduction22/02/13 02:33 AM
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I've decided to keep oppressing you.
/r/seduction21/02/13 05:41 AM
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It is fiction that needed a villain, pretty much that simple. The game is a book made for entertainment.
/r/seduction18/02/13 12:24 AM
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post them on the internet
/r/seduction04/02/13 01:00 AM
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People will try to give you simplistic advice but really the question is how do you break through, and I believe the answer is in dedication and taking things in steps that are as small as possible. When you take a step forward, feel good about your self for doing it. When I say small I mean tiny as in something as simple as saying, ' move over here for a bit out of people's way'. Then you can try ' come with me for a drink (at a bar) or a snack (at a mall). Then you can work up to saying 'we sh…
/r/seduction15/01/13 10:35 AM
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So what are you up to today? Its as easy as that, then start other threads from there, joke around etc. I usually introduce myself then ask that, then go from there. If the conversation is going well instadate. The world is yours.
/r/seduction13/01/13 03:14 PM
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In general it sounds par for the course. It takes effort and time no doubt. If I was to take a wild guess I would ask if you are standing out. Are these cute girls at a bar who gave up their number but you didn't kiss or have a phone conversation with yet? If so their investment at that point is low and you will run into more of this more often in my experience.
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:27 PM
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I think I've heard something like this and just said yes and physically picked her up.
/r/seduction28/12/12 09:21 AM
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But that is exactly what I'm saying. Even a snide 'douchey' comment like that was only reserved for the most extreme circumstance, light teasing and positivity work in practice and actually being a dick is off putting. Most people dont get that from just reading the game, so they write an article talking about pick up artists who insult girls, or go out and try it themselves, eventually figuring out what they already knew, actual negativity doesn't work.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:33 AM
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In the game, people don't consider the context, he asks a girl if her hair is real after she has been hit on multiple times in succession and is the hottest girl in the bar. I agree you can spot true amateurs when they don't realize that not only does this not work, it is all about doing as many attractive things as possible, not trying to do one to the extreme
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:32 PM
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Meeting people in general requires breaking through the social prison of talking to strangers. That takes emotional strength, and I think a quiet place and shy guys will make this way harder. If I was a cute girl.... I would get dressed up, go to a bar or club where people stand and move around and make eye contact and smile. In this case you can probably get people to approach you. The other part is the internet. Go on, sift through all the weird messages and find a normal guy.
/r/seduction14/12/12 10:37 AM
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There are girls like this out there, and yeah the rudeness is a difficult hurdle to get over. But that's what it is a girl being emotional and rude for now reason to do with you. I've had girls be super rude to me the most when I'm not actually trying to do anything but say hi (at a party or a girl that a friend had met). You don't want anything to do with a girl like that, consider it a filter. If you give it emotional investment, you won't have any left to emotionally invest in the positives!
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:16 AM
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Yes When a girl is madly in love she is heavily emotionally invested, and you still stimulate her emotions.
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:30 PM
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Its too cold and business like, which is the problem but not how to solve it. I love the flake preventer line, I might have to try it myself.
/r/seduction07/11/12 04:23 AM
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Try not to get emotionally invested in it. The best way is, of course to be emotionally invested in other things. Either your current goals outside of pickup or simply talking to more girls and gaining more attraction. Emotional investment above and beyond what someone else has invested in you sucks (just ask a girl!)
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:34 PM
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Sounds to me like you are just finding something to be upset about.
/r/seduction06/11/12 11:35 AM
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So they are making money through entertainment, and that upsets you? Not sure how Reddit, movies, books, pro sports or a hundred other things fit in there. Doesn't seem so bad to me.
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:15 AM
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If their videos weren't entertaining, they would also be gone.
/r/seduction05/11/12 02:18 PM
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