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You cab, but you will only attract women whom are also not doing well and will ALWAYS lead to a toxic relationship
/r/seduction28/06/25 09:04 AM
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Yea that was my reaction as well. I never would have gone for it but i got it as a gift. Since then I have been using it religously!
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:50 AM
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Not idiot at all! I didnt know beforehand either and i am a 35 year old man. 🤣 I actually have 3 lotions now. In the morning when i shower i have a face scrub, a blemish cleanser which i use in the shower. When i am still damp and out i take a big scoop of the scented lotion and just lathe myself with it. Then i use a proper facelotion and spf for my face only. Finally i have one more for the evening before i go to bed. To be fair the scented one doesn’t go much in the way of hidrating the skin,…
/r/seduction16/06/25 08:10 PM
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Short answer: yes. I have legitimately started a skincare routine and started using scented lotion on a daily basis with perfume because i have had so many positive feedback from women. When i first used the scented lotion (Jo Malone Myrrah and Tonka) there was a woman at work who cone up to talk to me and completely forgot what she wanted to say because of my smell. So yea, if you want to overall improve your dating prospects, smell is a great addition!
/r/seduction16/06/25 07:56 PM
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Hi! Is a great opener.
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:30 PM
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This :D
/r/seduction20/05/24 06:05 AM
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Username checks out
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:51 PM
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I really dont knkw what is an ascending man
/r/seduction26/01/24 05:14 PM
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Well he did answer when Gondor called! Can you say the sams about you? Where were you when the beacons were lit?!
/r/seduction26/01/24 05:13 PM
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One thing that works for me is this: Think of what Aragorn would do from Lord of the Rings. I think he is one of the best represenration of non toxic masculine energy in modern media.
/r/seduction26/01/24 06:11 AM
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It is okay to be angry and show that you are angry however it is immature and childish (and not keeping frame) if you are an asshole because you are angry.
/r/askMRP01/03/22 04:22 PM
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i like this.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 06:39 PM
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lol how the f did you guess my nationality?
/r/askMRP03/08/21 05:46 PM
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K.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 04:52 PM
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I am actually reading this book. Very slowly as its incredibly dense and im reading it in english which is not my main language (Eastern Europe repping) I never considered that work, status and influence were the key to my success. I work for an American IB and when I got promoted as the youngest VP of the firm i didnt give a shit as this was not something important to me. What I mean is that I have been following the tenets primarily in NMMNG and Rationale Male Year One + Subtle Art of Not Givi…
/r/askMRP03/08/21 04:13 PM
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Do you have a men’s group that you belong to? Very small but good ones. Friends that you go skiing/ hiking/ fishing etc with ? I don't. They can't afford it. Do you practice martial arts? No, tbh I have been gravitating more towards yoga during the pandemic from Muay Thai. Do you have an individual therapist? Someone to talk to who is qualified in basic mental health? Yes, I see him on a weekly basis. And thank you kind internet stranger.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 03:35 PM
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thanks. I needed to hear this.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 01:49 PM
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My whole life has been people telling what I should and should not do. (narc parents, toxic relations). Now that these people are no longer in my life and per see dont have to struggle to make ends meet I dont know how to operate in this freedom.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 01:42 PM
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yes. i tore a muscle in my right shoulder last year during early CoviD.Im not from the states and where I live none of the hospitals would take me for a surgery basically told me to sit it out - since then i have been phyisical therapy for it but my chest and my shoulder on my right side really regressed and still not a 100%.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 01:30 PM
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What do you mean by doing what you havent been told to do? I dont understand the context here. (sorry english is not my first language) 5 years ago my parents passed away, then my beta bux self was left by my girlfriend and reached rock bottom financially, mental health and from self esteem perspective. Ever since I have been alone hustling and getting my shit together - which I feel like now I am on cruising altitude and things are going really smoothly finally. I think you touched on something…
/r/askMRP03/08/21 01:16 PM
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Thank you this is enlightening. Can you suggest any materials that I can start consuming to be better at this?
/r/askMRP03/08/21 01:12 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I am actually living the life that I wanted to live. Or I guess I thought I do. I do volunteer. Once a month I help feeding the homeless and every other weekend I go to a shelter. My point is that im doing all the things I have learned from Red Pill and from the books and applying it into practice - and on paper im actually getting everything that I wanted yet it still leaves me felling empty inside.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 01:12 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I don't fully agree with not doing the work to NGAF. The reason where I am where I am is because up until this point my mission has been to free myself of the mental and financial shackles that were bestowed upon me 4 years ago. Now that Im free I dont know how to move forward.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 01:03 PM
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Toit!
/r/askTRP29/09/19 01:43 PM
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When I actually say it - (mind you my first language is not english) it comes off more as funny/ little ridiculing. Usually at that point she realizes that she is being a bitch/stupid and she either stops compliance alltogether or comes back with agree & amplify that goes even more over the top and we both laugh it off. I hope that makes sense or helps to clarify. :)
/r/askMRP05/09/19 12:03 PM
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My partner does something similar as well from time to time. Like im just about to open the drawer to get the garbage bag - and as Im reaching at it she yelps - Honey please take out the trash! When I get home and sit down to take my shoes off - Get your shoes off before you come into the living room! Very similar small shit like this. I find this incredibly annoying as well because I feel like she is trying to assert dominance over these little things to feel powerful. I dont think non-complian…
/r/askMRP05/09/19 09:38 AM
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Is there any way in your opinion to make the covert contract overt?
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:08 AM
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Never slept with her no. It has been insinuated by her that thats where this would go.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:00 AM
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Because I make six figures annually and she is an intern. For me the place is basically change. For her its half of her monthly salary.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:54 AM
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Your probably right and for the record I have read the sidebar. I guess i am catching oneitis on this bitch and dont really know how to deal with it.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:52 AM
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Time will pass anyway no matter what you do. You will get older, wrinklier and the number of days on this earth will diminish. What do YOU want to do with your time now? Do you want to grieve? Thats OK. Do you want to do something that is RP. You probably should. Ultimately RP teaches you that you get to do what the fuck you want to do, but if you do DO it at least be fucking deliberate about it.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 12:19 PM
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This girl is 15. She is a teenager. Think about how you were when you were 15 and how much you listened to older peoples advice about what was good and was bad for you. Unfortunately majority of the people (that I know) are unwilling to learn from others’ mistakes. (I know this to be true for myself in the past since im very headstrong). They need to burn themselves sometimes to change their behaviour or to hit bottom. (Think about your mrp journey and what triggeree you to change course for ins…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:08 AM
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Married Red Pill.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 06:22 PM
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Im glad we can see this the same way. And tbh I think that was the reason other people were telling you to stfu, keep frame and continue to lift. There is a saying - fake it till you make it. Keep faking the honest confident frame will eventually have the “faking” removed and you will be “just” honest and confident. You arent getting chicks now NOT bc of your nicer honker. You are getting hot chicks because you fixed your frame.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:34 AM
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Hey! I am reall happ for you and your success in the pursuit of your happiness, way to go brother! One question I have for you that I want you to think about: Would you agree that your honker - due to your own subconscious insecurities - was messing with your own frame? I honestly think that the two are connected and there is casuality between getting hb8 chicks and your mental block gone - thus being able to maintain an HONEST self confident frame.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:04 AM
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Hey, I am completely can relate to this. I know myself being over emotional at times in the past where emotions controlled my actions and I felt like there was nothing I could do about it. One thing that really helped me was meditation. Not only it helped me regain emotional balance but in time I was able to separate myself from the emotion itself and observe what I am feeling and why I am feeling in a certain way in a given situation. I have been using headspace and it helped me tremendously - …
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:27 AM
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TBH - I never really focused on being able to lift more in terms of heavier weights. Interestingly couple of years back my interests have greatly shifted towards yoga where about 2-3 years ago I made a switch about yoga being the main source of excercise with weight lifting only completing it. With regards to bodyweight % - I was around 10-15% last year. Not really sure where I am at now but I dont really give two shits. I am happy about where I am and am comfortable in my own skin. ​ Finally. S…
/r/askMRP17/05/19 09:48 PM
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Weird flex but ok. I guess you are right on the point that “lurking here for a while” and “going to the gym for a few months” isn’t something specific enough so here are the deets. Have been actively following reading and mostly STFU on mrp for the last year. Have been regularly lifting for the last 5 years but due to a shoulder injury I had to stop for six months - only been able to restart with any weights since Feb - so yes, my benchs, squats aint that good what they used be (bodyweight bench…
/r/askMRP17/05/19 05:50 PM
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I dont necessarily agree with this. ​ I usually say that she has to work for marriage as an answer to a shit tests she throws at me or in more serious discussions when we talk about our future explicitly stating what my expectations and needs are and where she is falling short of meeting said expectations and needs. I geniuenly don't want to marry this girl now or anytime in the near future simply because we are not there yet nor do I want to get married (with anyone) in the near future. I am co…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 06:00 PM
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To be frank, I do think she is a real keeper except this issue. Whilst sex is without argument a very important aspect of the relationship - even if it would be perfect would encompass about 5%- 10%of our relationship timewise. Based on my ethics and values I am not the man that hits next because of this but would rather build on what we have and fix problems. I fully understand the ramifications and consequences of my actions (unfulfilled sex life) hence me asking for help.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:30 PM
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Have been applying it for sometime and the changes are definitely there. Yes I did indeed sign up for it - with both herself and I recognizing the problem and willing to act ti improve. We are both at a point where we are lost on how to proceed forward specifically on this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:22 PM
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As in be more aggressive and controlling?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:13 PM
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Thats exactly my thoughts as well. What i told her is that marriage is something she has to earn rather than me giving her after a certain time
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:09 PM
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yes this describes her very well in some extent. Instead of intimacy she is pushing me away at times or have trouble even expressing intimacy. So what did you do?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:04 PM
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What can I make it her to be safe? What should I be reading?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 03:54 PM
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She does have geniune desire - though I think she doesnt know how to express it sexually. It comes down to mental barriers and blocks she has within herself
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 03:34 PM
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Yes it indeed does that I am not the most handsome person in the world - still trying to make the make the best of it by lifting and improved self hygiene and a well groomed beard and the point is that I never had such problems with other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 03:26 PM
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Redpill is about you. Not about getting women.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:37 AM
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Perhaps treat this as another type of "shit test" but instead from women, its coming from the woman like men - beta men. ​ Amused Mastery in this type of situation works wonders.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 01:40 PM
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If you feel like you are dependent on others to do what you like to do than you arent really doing YOU. I can give you one anecdote from personal experience. I was laying at home doing absolutely nothing for the same exact reason - all my buddies were busy on a friday night. At one point I just said fuck it and went to a bar and then to a party by myself. It actually ended up being a ton of fun, ended up meeting a couple of random people who I get to call friends now. Some of these things - doin…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:42 PM
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What usuall works for me: Would you like to come over? :) Being direct rather than beating around the bush usually works if the night and the mood is right.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:29 PM
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Look, most of the material here states that getting girls is a secondary objective to your ultimate goal - having a fulfilling and happy life. I would suggest doing things that YOU actually enjoy doing. Forget the girls; hobbies and past time are about YOU and what YOU love doing. I have had the issue of being ashamed/ shy about what I enjoyed doing because I was worried about how I was percieved from my peers and girls. It took a lot of soul searching and learning to realize that I shouldn’t gi…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:17 PM
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Exactly my point. The only reason at this point you are chasing is to boost your ego and validate your own frame. The validation needs to come from within your own values and self-confidence rather than from the admittedly exhilirating feeling of having something you are not supposed to/cant have. Perhaps a quick inner self evaluation is in order to assess whether you want to bang this chick because you are really attracted to her or to just to be able to say that you made someone else cheat [by…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:34 PM
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All in all... why? There are so many girls no matter where you look that are within your city and are available. Whilst TRP is amoral, why do you covet someone whom is already taken? Hard NEXT and look for a woman who actually is available to have sex with you my friend.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:16 PM
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