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The study rooms are for "women and disadvantaged minorities" u/bravely_default. Not all minorities. :)
/r/MensRights02/10/17 02:09 AM
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The point - men are being pushed out of colleges and have no support. All because of SJWs.
/r/MensRights30/09/17 05:20 AM
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Most people don't gain muscle drop fat as quick as you think. The people that post had faster than normal gains. Think... why would you post shitty gains? Just stick with what you are doing.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:32 AM
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Lol, very common when girls become overconfident.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 10:17 AM
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Focus that energy into exercise. Having a short fuse isn't always a bad thing. Know when to show it and when to refocus though.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 09:49 AM
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Been there u/daddy1235. Most on here and the other subreddits have as well. Why else do you think so many men want and look to change?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:23 AM
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The fact you dropped her from your life means you are on your way. That was a HUGE step in the right direction.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 04:03 PM
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Such garbage..... Had this happen plenty of times too. Girl wants to pay to be "equal" then I get chewed out for it later.
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 03:53 PM
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How about trying r/bodyweightfitness? Then going out?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:12 AM
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It's taken 7 years for me to unplug. It's taken 7 years to shift my belief system away from hoping things will work out to actually taking charge and making the changes I want. Thanks for admitting this. I'm in about 1 year and just starting to see real change. Completely unplugging and becoming natural will take a long time. It is a constant process but it is happening.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:07 AM
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CLASSIC chick behavior! They will say garbage "I don't know what I want." and then "Can we still be friends?" FUCK NO!
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:03 AM
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Clubs aren't for everyone, especially not me. Quit drinking, stopped going to them a long time ago. Good places listed. Gym (work at a gym), improv classes, art classes, social sports, coffee shops, beach, pool, etc. Most important thing is to be active. I don't even really try to meet girls when out now, it just happens naturally. Gaining a lot of muscle helps.
/r/seduction05/08/17 01:49 PM
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KDV?
/r/seduction05/08/17 01:36 PM
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Ohhhh, that is good.
/r/MGTOW05/08/17 01:33 PM
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Women will say whatever they want, then claim "I don't know what I want to justify behavior."
/r/MGTOW05/08/17 10:03 AM
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You need to stop worrying so much. Have you considered taking an Improv class?
/r/seduction05/08/17 09:53 AM
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Everyone is different so there is no book that will be the end all. The Rational Male is very good.
/r/seduction05/08/17 09:30 AM
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Thanks, maybe I'm overthinking it?
/r/seduction05/08/17 09:24 AM
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Non-pua books? The Faraway Horses by Buck Brannaman. This book is by the real "Horse Whisperer". He had a difficult childhood but is now the most famous horse trainer in the world. Hard to keep in mind... but no matter what happens to you your experiences let you grow. Also recommend seeing "Buck" on Netflix. Brannaman's horse skills will blow your mind.
/r/seduction05/08/17 05:20 AM
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Thanks for this, makes me not want to waste money on RSD.
/r/seduction05/08/17 05:16 AM
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Will checkout these books u/redpillschool, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 05:51 AM
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It's perfectly natural. Relationships take a lot of work and commitment. If you aren't mentally and spiritually in a good place, a GF is not going to make your life better.
/r/seduction27/07/17 07:17 PM
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You mean daughter. :)
/r/MensRights24/07/17 01:55 AM
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Why is this always framed as a problem with men? Can one author in the mainstream media ever point the finger at women?
/r/MensRights23/07/17 02:06 PM
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This is true if you are not who you want to be or working on who you want to be. See what I wrote here.
/r/seduction22/07/17 11:20 PM
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Maybe... I'm not trying enough. Several months ago I stopped trying so hard with girls. I'm focusing on myself, my goals, my interests, my hobbies, my needs, etc. What happened? Ironically girls started becoming more interested in me, without me trying as hard. Because girls like guys that are confident, know what they want, and are not concerned about pleasing them. For instance I've had a hard time not drinking, but I won't bend what's best for a chick. Tempting? Sure, but that's not good for …
/r/seduction22/07/17 11:15 PM
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She's blaming men for basic biology and instincts? Classic feminists BS.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:49 PM
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Depends on who you are. "No More Mr. Nice Guy" is a great book. Will help you think through a lot of things. r/nmmng You should read all. Our solutions may not be what is best for you.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:12 AM
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Have you tried /r/bodyweightfitness? How do you think gymnasts get such toned bodies? :)
/r/askTRP13/07/17 09:34 PM
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I always and automatically replace "eligible" with "gullible". Makes it more accurate, and entertaining, for me. Best comment on this I've seen from u/grasshopa! :) Discussion about it here.
/r/MensRights05/07/17 07:21 PM
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Some other subreddits are having interesting discussions about this too. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/6la8ww/shortage_of_eligible_men_has_left_women_taking/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6le25x/women_graduates_desperately_freeze_eggs_over_lack/
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 07:16 PM
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Can you explain further? You mean that men and women are waiting too long to have kids? The way I see it... in my circle of friends I've heard people say countless times, "She broke-up with him... why? She won't find anyone better!" The next relationships she has are disasters. These girls are playing the field, exercising hypergamy and SMV. That's what they want and what they've been taught by feminists. When they hit a SMV decline or The Wall we hear about "Where are the eligible men?" AND get…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 07:04 PM
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There are not enough education opportunities for men these days. Are we going to see the media cover that ever? Highly doubtful.
/r/MensRights05/07/17 03:13 PM
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Best comment I saw! :) In truth there is no shortage of eligible men - just a shortage of those willing to deal with and marry women of this day and age.
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 03:11 PM
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This isn't an issue of "missing men" it's an issue of women choosing the wrong men to shack-up with during peak fertility. Then when they are ready to start a family they say, "Where did all the good men go?" and "How come nobody every told me?" More importantly TRPers know not to deal with these women. In truth there is no shortage of eligible men - just a shortage of those willing to deal with and marry women of this day and age. It's crazy how the media frames this as an issue with men. What …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 03:03 PM
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Great advice u/colonialfs, this should be in the sidebar. Improv I started to take improv classes. It's been a daunting, uncomfortable, but an extremely valuable experience. It makes you get out of your head and focus on whatever it is you are supposed to in the moment. With so many external distractions these days, it can be challenging. Improv makes you comfortable, being uncomfortable. You will still have fun doing it. You also learn to roll with it and keep moving. Made a mistake? Said somet…
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:01 PM
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True, had not thought about this. So the girls you dated drank less?
/r/seduction19/06/17 11:34 AM
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I stopped trying to date as much. Right now I just do activities I focus myself. I've had several opportunities to be with women but I put me first. Again, this makes you more attractive and attracts more girls. Bit of a mindfuck.
/r/seduction19/06/17 11:31 AM
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It is a personal choice. It is hard to be sober when everyone else is drunk. Focusing on yourself makes you more attractive to women.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:46 AM
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Everything I've been able to do and accomplish in short period of time is crazy.
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:47 AM
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You write a PUA site and you stopped drinking? Interesting... Do you feel pressured to drink ever when out?
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:42 AM
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Thank You! How long have you been sober? How has it affected your dating & social life?
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:39 AM
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Yes, I need to do what is best for myself. Well done for taking the decision to improve yourself. Yeah I agree, alcohol does loosen you up in social situations. I've been working on techniques to do it without it. Honestly clubs are not going to happen. Talking with people in the program that's how many people relapse.
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:38 AM
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The closer related a women is to you, the worse the advice is about girls. :)
/r/seduction14/06/17 09:04 PM
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We all have emotional baggage. It's the way people deal with it that is important though. Sounds like the women you've dated haven't learned to deal with emotions or past well. As you know from lifting, people can change their bodies including girls. Have you seen r/progresspics? :)
/r/seduction14/06/17 07:44 PM
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I recommend checking out r/improv and taking a class. One thing they drill into is "You don't always have to be funny." Typically actors, stand-up comics, etc. have a hard time with this in improv.
/r/seduction14/06/17 02:19 PM
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You need to show interest in her hobbies, activities, lifestyle, background, family, etc. She does in yours. if she talks about how much she loves ballroom dancing... be inquisitive about this. If you know some shit about ballroom dancing, try to sound informative. Maybe your cousin teaches it. If not, ask questions, "What makes you go to ballroom dancing each week?" A good open, "I've never done ballroom dancing before, maybe you can teach me? Do you teach guys with two left feet?" Perhaps you'…
/r/seduction13/06/17 09:19 PM
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Sucks man, but onto new girls. It won't be an easy journey but we will get you there. Did you live with your ex?
/r/seduction13/06/17 08:15 PM
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No, live your life and care about what you do. Not proving what good times you have on social media.
/r/seduction12/06/17 05:17 AM
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Ahh, just realize many us know the feeling. How long was this relationship? Hope you stay and share more FR.
/r/seduction12/06/17 04:52 AM
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:)
/r/seduction14/02/16 07:31 PM
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Yup, exercising and trying to break out of my shell. How did you deal with seeing her? Abundance mentality helped you move on?
/r/seduction14/02/16 05:18 AM
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Wow 8 years! Are you still reeling from that? I am pursuing new intetests and different memories.
/r/seduction13/02/16 12:46 AM
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Yes, I am a great catch!
/r/seduction12/02/16 11:07 PM
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Thanks I blocked and I'm working on myself.
/r/seduction12/02/16 09:49 PM
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I mean with women and in life.
/r/seduction25/01/16 03:11 AM
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This will be the ebook and print book?
/r/seduction24/01/16 07:38 PM
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Wise words and I appreciate it. I definitely need to make some supportive friends.
/r/seduction20/01/16 12:17 PM
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True, but it is still hard
/r/seduction18/01/16 03:39 PM
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Mmm, not great to read this but it was what I was thinking.
/r/seduction14/01/16 04:18 AM
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Lol, maybe. Have you had a similar experience?
/r/seduction13/01/16 05:04 PM
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That's kind of how I interpreted this. I told her she can figure out what she wants on her own.
/r/seduction13/01/16 05:03 PM
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Sheep's get eaten by wolves!
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:23 PM
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She's given a lot of mixed signals, and has been really confusing.
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:48 AM
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She wants to see me but has been flighty.
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:47 AM
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With an ex, you should definitely do NC.
/r/seduction12/01/16 10:39 PM
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Girls like to be chased. They should still initiate sometimes and be engaged in conversation.
/r/seduction12/01/16 03:57 PM
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Excellent advice! I needed to read this as many others have.
/r/seduction12/01/16 03:43 PM
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I don't ask, I hate these types of questions from women.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:29 AM
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Lol, very true. I said "claim"
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:03 AM
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Depends on the girl. Was out with a 19 year old and she said she wanted a family soon.
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:02 AM
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Clubs or activities on campus helps a lot. You'd be surprised by the amount of club activity on CC campus.
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:06 AM
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Great idea!
/r/seduction15/12/15 03:59 AM
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Thanks for this.
/r/seduction13/12/15 01:44 AM
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Totally agree, I've shared emotions and they are not received well.
/r/seduction13/12/15 12:22 AM
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Definitely. Letting a girl know what you will and won't accept.
/r/seduction12/12/15 04:40 PM
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Appreciate you sharing ministry. What did you learn with the blonde fail?
/r/seduction12/12/15 04:21 PM
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Good advice, something I needed to hear.
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:21 AM
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Realness is important. Too bad about the girl. You've read Models?
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:45 PM
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Yes, be straight and upfront as early as possible.
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:44 PM
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Excellent example and I just went through this.
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:42 PM
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Asked a girl out the other day, said she had a bf, but I acted nice and it's fine.
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:40 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:40 PM
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So true...
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:39 PM
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Improve yourself and read "Models."
/r/seduction28/11/15 05:34 AM
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Excellent advice.
/r/seduction25/11/15 03:31 PM
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How do I not? :)
/r/seduction25/11/15 03:08 PM
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Thanks, yeah I just need to keep pushing.
/r/seduction25/11/15 02:54 PM
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Just need to keep it up, which is hard.
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:42 PM
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:)
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:42 PM
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You should definitely do some of the exercises, even w/o a support group.
/r/seduction24/11/15 12:17 AM
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This is just what I need to hear, thanks.
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:16 AM
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How should I pursue w/o seeming needy? I have already reduced the texting. We were talking about serious relationship stuff but she is leading me on I think. The goal is NC.
/r/seduction20/11/15 02:34 PM
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Yes, I need to keep working on myself.
/r/seduction20/11/15 09:54 AM
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I can't just be friends with this girl. Guess I'll have to do NC.
/r/seduction20/11/15 09:40 AM
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Listen to it too. I found that helped me understand it even more.
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:06 PM
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Trying to right now, but it is tricky since she has a new squeeze.
/r/seduction17/11/15 10:53 AM
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Yes, great advice.
/r/seduction16/11/15 12:02 PM
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I've seen the 6 Pillars recommended other places, will probably get that.
/r/seduction14/11/15 04:05 PM
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Just bought Models! :)
/r/seduction14/11/15 04:01 PM
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Think you will ever get over her?
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:55 PM
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The pain sucks but you do grow.
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:54 PM
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She has no right to check on how you are doing since she initiated the break-up. You have every right to ignore her.
/r/seduction12/11/15 07:18 AM
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I had a similar experience recently. Want to prove you are changed? You need to initiate no contact so do not text with her and DO NOT have dinner with her. This is her way to figure out whether she still holds the cards. This won't be easy it might take time but you have to do it.
/r/seduction11/11/15 04:46 AM
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I saw that video awhile ago, good reminder.
/r/seduction08/11/15 10:34 AM
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Listen and Read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/seduction24/10/15 04:00 AM
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Nice, take those steps.
/r/seduction24/10/15 03:52 AM
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Removed her from phone. Got rid of pics. This was a semi LTR. I thought we were great... until it wasn't.
/r/seduction04/10/15 04:56 AM
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Yeah. well put.
/r/seduction03/10/15 07:57 PM
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It cuts both ways, so I make a concentrated effort to be present.
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:53 PM
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Excellent tips. Many girls say my dogs are beautiful. Any other good transitions you use?
/r/seduction19/09/15 02:58 PM
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Good question, junior colleges?
/r/seduction19/09/15 02:54 PM
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Nice advice, i have tried this but not as effectively. I might try walking 1 at a time.
/r/seduction17/09/15 06:42 AM
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Yeah thought of doing that.
/r/seduction17/09/15 06:37 AM
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This has always been my opinion.
/r/seduction09/09/15 03:39 PM
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So you think this probably means something?
/r/seduction09/09/15 03:36 AM
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I hope so! :)
/r/seduction04/09/15 04:25 AM
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Definitely
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:00 PM
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Interesting, hadn't thought of this angle. This has happened to you?
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:00 PM
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Why are girls so friggin confusing?
/r/seduction02/09/15 10:38 PM
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Sounds like it worked out for you! :)
/r/seduction02/09/15 10:37 PM
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Asked how I was, no mention of getting together.
/r/seduction02/09/15 10:37 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:55 AM
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That book is on my list! I'll read or listen to it soon.
/r/seduction14/08/15 02:21 AM
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Tried texting her and she has responded.
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:23 PM
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Young hot girls do! :)
/r/seduction26/07/15 03:20 AM
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Yeah... I guess
/r/seduction26/07/15 03:03 AM
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