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This is kinda weird, sorry to be honest like that. I mean, why are you so invested in their relationship? Besides, this is just a tiny little bit of their dynamics and feelings for each other, it would be irresponsible to analyze them just based on what you told us.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/24 01:27 AM
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Must haves: Intelligence, physical strength, resilience, religious beliefs, desire to have a family, loving and capable of supporting me. Things I avoided like the plague: videogames, marvel, all this childish stuff. Religion is the most important element for me. Worked wonders. I’m married to a real man, who acts and thinks like a real man would. No mind games, no excuses, it’s great and shaped me into a better woman.
/r/RedPillWives10/03/22 03:10 PM
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For real. In the third time, my husband’s patience would come to an end.
/r/RedPillWives10/03/22 03:02 PM
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Never said they were.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/21 07:18 PM
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I feel the same, but it seems that this sub doesn’t agree with it and that’s ok. But in mu experience, HVM tend to not like this things. Could be because I’m in Brazil (cultural). However, as I spent many years in that “community”, I can see clearly that this is not a good environment to form HVM. Just my 2 cents.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/21 07:13 PM
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I can handle disagreements all right. I was just sharing my thoughts, no big deal.
/r/RedPillWives14/12/21 07:52 PM
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I knew this would be controversial. However, as I stated, this is just my opinion and I said I could be wrong. I admit I can be wrong about this, but the way people are so ready to attack me is surprising. I don’t own the truth, neither does anyone else. Sometimes I feel that one of the reasons this community doesn’t grow and evolve is because people are far too aggressive when they don’t agree on something. I’m talking about my life experience, never said I was telling the universal truth about…
/r/RedPillWives14/12/21 06:06 PM
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Curious to see the answers. My goal is to be a sahm one day!
/r/RedPillWives08/12/21 04:06 PM
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It’s a shame most husbands aren’t that romantic… Flowers and letters would be nice from time to time.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:52 PM
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Lol 😆
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:51 PM
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Hmmm you made me realize I could benefit from a new knife to cut meat! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:51 PM
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I wish we could afford this 😅 maybe in the future!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:50 PM
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Thanks, but being from Brazil makes it almost impossible to buy something from ebay! However, you gave me many ideas (: Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:49 PM
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I would love to buy a rice eletric pan, thanks for the insight
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:49 PM
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Nice perspective, I’ll buy some books about homemaking
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:48 PM
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Wow, it seems very nice, but kinda expensive for our family 😅 but maybe in the future! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:47 PM
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I've been there and when I got fired, even though our income decreased, our happiness increased. I was unemployed for 1 month before getting another job (part time and remote). It's night and day difference. If you can and if you want, look at easier jobs. Men will always rely on us to be happy, cheerful etc. They can be the "light" for some time. but they expect us to do this most of the time. I know how difficult it can get. I was fired because I couldn't do this anymore. My husband depended o…
/r/RedPillWives01/10/21 07:11 PM
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This is so sad, isn't it? I have three close friends. When I started dating my husband, two of them changed. After I got married, even my best friend changed. This hurts me, because to be honest, to be a good wife can be overwhelming and sometimes I just want to vent about me too. I'm tired of always listening their vents but the moment I want to vent, they go offline. One thing that got in a way is the redpill mentality. To be frank, I'm not THAT redpilled, I'm just catholic and redpill is the …
/r/RedPillWives09/08/21 03:02 PM
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Well, yes, I talk about my husband and my life a lot, since this is what matters the most to me. But I’m a very good listener (lately this is all I’ve been to them). I rarely get to talk anymore and this is the problem, I guess. They are always talking about themselves but don’t really want to hear about me. Once in a while I talk about something I know they like and this conversations hit off, however, when I talk about something I like, they stop responding or take days to answer. They aren’t …
/r/RedPillWives09/08/21 02:52 PM
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Oh my God, I totally understand you. I’m crying just to think it’s Monday again. I got a new job after being fired but to be honest, I’d LOVE to be a SAHM. I decided to cut back in helping the church so much… I’m going to donate more money instead. As for my parents and in laws, I’m going to cut back seeing them every weekend. Once a month to my parents and once a month for my mother. I just can’t do this anymore. My house is never really clean, I’m always tired, my husband works from 7:50 am to…
/r/RedPillWives09/08/21 12:52 PM
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Met mine in college, he was the first person I met there, actually. He saw me alone, started talking to me. We were friends for sometime, we were getting to know each other. If you are religious, I suggest churches, safest place to meet good girls.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/21 08:50 PM
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You aren't fat at all and it is completely normal to gain weight when pregnant, your husband knows that, so don't sweat it. Try to breastfeed, it helps to lose the baby weight. A healthy diet, like paleo, can actually help you to get pregnant. Good luck!!
/r/RedPillWives06/08/21 08:46 PM
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This isn't a HVM. I have a word that describes this behavior, but won't be using it. Simple as that. Women look for love and fidelity, if you are going to be cheated, he is not worth it.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/21 08:43 PM
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We believe that his body is mine as much my body is his. So yes, if he asks for something sexual, I’ll do it, and vice versa. Only sickness can change this rule. This helps with regulating low and high sex drive, and prevents resentment between us. But I know many couples wouldn’t want that.
/r/RedPillWives23/07/21 12:59 AM
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This here.
/r/RedPillWives23/07/21 12:55 AM
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These people may mean good, but they don’t understand what being christian means. If you aren’t in a redpill relationship, I’m sorry to say, but their relationship isn’t truly christian.
/r/RedPillWives21/07/21 05:09 AM
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When we show submission and softness, almost all men will treat you kindly. Of course there are exceptions to the rule. But men always seem eager to help. They love solving our problems. I think this is sooo sweet!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 05:06 AM
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After I met my husband, I deleted all my social media. I only have reddit, whatsapp and a religious instagram, but it isn’t personal. I’m very against it, because it is built in illusions. Texting or calling feels more intimate and have more value, besides being a private thing. Many HVM don’t approve of women who over use social media. It seems to rub them the wrong way.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 05:04 AM
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In college. I recommend taking advantage of apps, but personally nothing can substitute real life interactions, so if you are interested in someone, definitely meet them as soon as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 05:01 AM
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This is so real xD
/r/RedPillWives21/07/21 03:27 AM
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I knew he was the one when our friendship began to evolve to a romantic relationship and he asked to think about it before committing fully to me. We thought about it for a few days, he was single for 8 years before meeting me. He only wanted to commit if the relationship ended in marriage. He was very self sufficient and knew his value. This showed me how a real man behaves. He never played games, we were always straightforward with each other. After thinking about it for three days, he showed …
/r/RedPillWives13/07/21 04:10 PM
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You are being downvoted for telling the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 10:25 PM
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Exactly my thoughts.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 10:24 PM
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Honestly? She is obviously seeking male attention. She won’t stop herself from getting this just because your boyfriend is committed to you. Personally, I don’t believe men and women can be friends without any kind of sexual interest, at least for men. Your male best friend has to be your husband and your husband best friend has to be you. This applies to girlfriend and boyfriend, assuming you are looking into marriage. Don’t believe in this nonsense saying you can’t forbid things in your relati…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 10:23 PM
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I find it curious that we rarely mention that men have feelings too. They don’t need us to cook, clean, etc. that is true. We also don’t “need” them if we have high paying jobs (this is debatable though). However, men are not robots who are programmed to work, have sex and earn money. They have needs and feelings, although they aren’t the same as ours. To think that we as women are only worth to men because we cook, clean, have sex and children with them is very superficial. Men have feelings, e…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 06:03 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives17/06/21 07:45 PM
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But they already talked about this. She already expressed she wants to have kids and so does he. She changed her mind kinda abruptly. We have to pick our battles. I know that saying everything that cross your mind to your husband might seem a good idea, but it is not. She has to meditate about this. And again: he never said no to her. If she wants to express it to her husband, then go for it, but as another advice pointed out, this may lead to a breakup. Is voicing all thoughts and feelings real…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 09:54 PM
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Don’t bring this up for now. Maybe in a year, in a “joking” way, to see his reaction. But rest assured, he already said he wants to have kids with you.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 07:13 PM
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I’m sorry but I recommend you refrain yourself from doing this. You already talked about it and reached a common ground. You can’t decide in an unilateral way, it is his decision too. You will be young for years to come and such serious decision cannot come out of nowhere. Don’t be impulsive on this. Respect your husband’s wish too. Can you imagine if he said to you that he doesn’t want to have kids? You would feel betrayed. You already agree that you want kids, be patient. Don’t force this on y…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 07:00 PM
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Honestly I understand some men hating it, but the fact he never said a word about it makes it so wrong. He should have been honest since the beginning. Now it is very unfair to her to demand to shave like that, even worse, without wanting to pay for it!!! IMO he is being inconsiderate and selfish. She is his WIFE, for God’s sake... spending money to make her more “beautiful” should be pleasant to him.
/r/RedPillWives07/06/21 12:06 AM
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I’m sorry but how come this didn’t bother him while you were dating? He is being very rude. He knew that you have a lot of body hair, even if it is thin. If he hates that SO much, as his husband, he has to pay for laser treatment. If you had gained a lot of weight suddenly, I would understand your husband, but this is completely different and he accepted that when he married you. Maybe he is having other problems that he doesn’t feel very comfortable to share with you. Maybe the problem is in hi…
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 07:57 PM
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I started journaling again, after 5 years... I did this mainly because I feel lonely lately and it always helped me. My job and my husband’s job are getting more demanding everyday. No time to clock in or out. I wish I had more time to cook for him and clean the house. Honestly I’m kinda sad right now. It feels like we never have time for anything else. Wish things would be different, but for now we have to be thankful for our jobs. I wish I had the time and patience to be more feminine. I can’t…
/r/RedPillWives02/06/21 05:22 PM
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Trust me, he is only trying to destroy you. This is VERY weird. Do NOT trust this man in any way. He probably holds resentment for you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 12:15 AM
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I’m sorry for you. She can’t see that she is the one being racist in this situation. But the problem is she seems to be a little crazy. Good luck, I think you should move!
/r/RedPillWives26/05/21 04:56 PM
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To be childlike is different from being immature. Childlike means you are kind, generous, lusting for life, displaying happiness and innocence. When complaining, don’t be bitter. Things like that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/21 08:10 PM
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Be gentle, be ready to listen but not judge others. Be kind, positive, and try to keep an child-like perspective and innocence. Be meek and tame, don’t be a brat. When someone needs something and you can do something about it, do it, but in a humble way. It seems so easy, but it is not lol. But one can learn these things!
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/21 02:10 AM
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College. We were in the same classes over and over, so eventually it happened.
/r/RedPillWives21/05/21 10:01 PM
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Well, gym tends to attract people who like showing skin, for exemple. Although a high value person can be found there (most hvm work out) I don’t think it is a nice place to MEET someone. It is a great place to know that your SO wants to go, because it shows they care about their appearance. But unfortunately gym usually attracts shallow people, in my experience, of course. And those who go to gym to improve themselves don’t usually talk to anyone there.
/r/RedPillWives21/05/21 06:54 PM
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If you are religious, the church is the best place ever. “Innocent” hobbies as dancing, painting, singing, are a good way to start too. I don’t recommend the gym, though. And definitely not bars. This places are just not good to meet new people in 90% of the time.
/r/RedPillWives21/05/21 03:42 PM
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Modest fashion is so much more than just fashion. Modesty goes a long way. If you dress in a modest way, I guarantee that you will attract high value men. To be honest, I’m not a fan of showing too much skin. Never above the knees, no deep cleavage and showing your belly is a no for me. Of course this was my experience. I dress this way even when I go to the beach. This is a way of showing loyalty to your future husband and a way to preserve yourself, too. The advice of wearing more fitting clot…
/r/RedPillWives21/05/21 03:39 PM
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I’m mixed! Black and portuguese, but yes, I’m white for brazilians standards. But my siblings are all black. I won’t lie, there is some “machismo” but I never met a woman who made fun of a men’s tears. I mean it. But our men are not prone to cry and whine about every little thing in public, so that helps. There is a natural instinct to reject displays of lack of self control, yes. So if a man is always crying, putting himself in a bad light in front of everyone, I wouldn’t date him. But the core…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 03:49 AM
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Honestly, this is something I don’t agree with what RP has to say about this specific situation. My girlfriends think like me. Oh, I’m brazilian, so I don’t know if this changes things too much. But in my experience (from people I know from church and close friends) wives don’t automatically hate their husband when they see them cry. In my opinion, if a woman feels this way when she sees her husband cry, it shows that the love that the woman claims to have for her husband is weaker than she thin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 02:56 AM
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I’ll be completely honest with you, my husband doesn’t even use reddit so I don’t have to lie. I never lost respect for him when he cried or showed fear. He is a very private person, so he only cries in front of me and that’s it. And that is why I respect him and don’t feel “repulsed” when he shows weaknesses, because this is private stuff between us. If he was prone to cry in front of everyone and their mothers, I would surely respect him less. Of course I understand to cry in a funeral or some…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 01:45 AM
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It is true. I love to hear all my husband’s thoughts, complaints and stories about his job. Because when he confides such things in me, I feel that he trusts me and needs me as well. So he never annoys me with his questions, fears, dreams and vents, because this means he trusts me and can show his true self to me. This is very rewarding for me. I love to hear him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 08:35 PM
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Very insightful answer. I think my husband feels the same. Very interesting to see it in men. I guess that we women feel the same when men want us to show our love and dependence of them. Like when my husband asks for a hug or kiss or massage out of nowhere, it is NEVER a burden to me, instead I see it as a opportunity to be near him. Nature is truly perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 06:53 PM
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Sometimes I hesitate to ask my husband to help me with something (like math, I suck at it and need it in my job) because I don’t want to be a burden. But the joy in his face is always amazing to me. Men really want to feel needed by women and do better in masculine tasks than girls. Of course we should refrain from burdening them, but when they can help you, they feel so great about themselves that they don’t even care if you disrupted their routine a little bit. It can be as simple as opening a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 06:49 PM
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After I got married, I started to take my appearance more seriously. I go to gym 5x, cook and eat healthy, let my hair grow as long as a classic length, I don’t even own a single pant anymore. My marriage made me realize what really matters to me. My husband is a great man, so I want to be the best woman out there. I started to dress modestly, became much sweeter with him. By doing this, I noticed that he changed too. He treats me so gently, he is so respectful because he sees my efforts. That’s…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 09:43 PM
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Thank you very much for your reply!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/21 07:18 PM
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Sweet sub! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives09/01/21 07:17 PM
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Very nice recommendations, I didn't know this subs and loved them. Thank you <3
/r/RedPillWives07/01/21 11:06 PM
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Loved zerowaste, minimalism and cottagecore. 15 minute food will save my life, hahaha! Thank you very much!
/r/RedPillWives07/01/21 11:06 PM
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wooow, I LOVEEEE glitch in matrix! your recommendations are really cool, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/21 11:05 PM
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Thank you!! Old recipes is awesome, I was looking for subs like that one. I love family recipes (:
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/21 11:02 PM
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Thank you! Eat chep and healthy is a great advice, loved the sub!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/21 11:01 PM
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Thank you!! socialskills and selfimprovement are exactly what I was looking for (: Loved all the suggestions, though!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/21 11:00 PM
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Honestly, I don’t think it is creepy at all. Nowadays, a man can’t even flirt without being labeled as creepy. No wonder why people are suffering so much with loneliness and depression.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 07:17 PM
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Being an atheist complicates things a little bit, to be honest. I don’t think I have other advice for you right now, sorry ): I used dating apps for sometime, but I think that dating in real life is better. If such app existed, it would be great! I’m sure there are many redpilled women out there and they struggle to find the right men, too. Maybe you should try talking to women in redpill subs, maybe this is your best bet for the moment.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 06:14 PM
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I’ll make sure he always feels needed by me (:
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 06:04 PM
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Thank you, I’ll download it now (: very excited to read!
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:58 PM
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I actually read your advice yesterday, but only had time to answer now. While we were playing family games (board games), I let my husband choose and guide us through the game, even when I disagreed with him and guess what? We won every time (: After that he was so sweet with me. So I guess you are right about that. I was a feminist in the past too (not very active or radical, but I leaned to a leftist view of the world), so sometimes it is difficult to control our tongues, but it always pays of…
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:57 PM
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I’ll learn how to make more fitness meals for us, since my husband likes to take care of himself. If I could give you some advice about finding a red pill wife, I would suggest you look for christian women. I wasn’t always like this, but after my conversion, I became like this naturally.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:47 PM
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Home schooling is a great advice! To teach values when they are young is so important. I’ll have to work on my social skills, though. As an introvert, this one is tricky and so hard to learn! Do you have any book or YouTube channel about social skills? This would help me a lot! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:45 PM
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It really is! Do you have some book/YouTube channel to suggest me? This one is so difficult for me because I don’t know where I can learn it.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:42 PM
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Thank you for your advice (:
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:41 PM
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Wow, you are very talented! I never thought about baking, because I hate bread, but my husband loves it. Our status doesn’t require hosting abilities yet, but etiquette is always necessary. Actually, I might be wrong. Maybe I should learn about hosting even if we are struggling right now. Networking is difficult for me! Thank you for your advice, the skills you pointed are exactly the ones I don’t have yet.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:41 PM
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This is something that I already can do, but we can always improve, right?
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:31 PM
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Great advice here. But may I ask something? Should I always bite my tongue? Or some arguing is okay? I’m still young and he is older, so sometimes I can be childish. Would love some advice about what battles are worthy to pick.
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:30 PM
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I think this is a great approach to this matter, since couples are never the same, like you said! Thank you for the advice!
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:29 PM
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Hosting is something I need to work on. I’ll find a signature dish that our families like (: Thank you for the advice!
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:27 PM
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This is really useful! Thankfully I already have this skill, always loved to cook and I was the responsible for cooking even before getting married. My husband hates eating frozen foods (he only eats “fresh” cooked food (sorry for my english). So I have to cook everyday. But planning our meals is a great ideia, I’ll look into that, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives03/01/21 05:23 PM
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I love being a trad-wife, because my personality matches this stereotype. So this is not a problem for me. Gardening will be useful in the future when we move to a bigger house (with a yard/garden). Finances is a great subject to learn, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/21 05:20 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/21 05:17 PM
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I guess needlework is a great beginning for me! Sewing seems to be more difficult for beginners. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/21 05:17 PM
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Professional massage is something that interests me. I guess I can learn something through YouTube (my husband would love that). Thank you for this insight!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/21 05:16 PM
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