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| 0 | You usually mess this up: Timing!I disagree. I don’t think the girl has decided if she wants to kiss you or not prior to the date. And even if she had, this might change according to the vibe | /r/seduction | 15/03/21 01:17 PM |
| 2 | How to GET HER BACK - 4 steps (the ONLY way)Thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | How to GET HER BACK - 4 steps (the ONLY way)Lmao | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | She begged for it but I didn’t do itI don’t delete stuff | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How to GET HER BACK - 4 steps (the ONLY way)exactly. in fact the last sentence was the whole point of my post. | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How does masculinity relate to boundaries?Nice | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 07:05 AM |
| 3 | How to GET HER BACK - 4 steps (the ONLY way)Try telling this to the guys I’m addressing in this post 😜 | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How does masculinity relate to boundaries?Absolutely dude!! It’s about knowing what you want and knowing how to communicate it | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | She begged for it but I didn’t do itTap in bro | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 0 | The key to BOUNDARIES!Well maybe so. I just think that creating a genuine connection and having it culminate in sex makes the sex incredible and that alone has immense power. Much of which a lot of people never “unlock”, even with their long term partners. When I have sex with someone, this would be my ideal. And that makes the sex incredible. This girls character has elements that drive her away from that status and make it unlikely that she will experience these kind of states. Which is a shame no matter how you cu… | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 0 | The key to BOUNDARIES!Haha well maybe who the fuck is to say. And yes I was definitely nice to that one. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:52 PM |
| -13 | The key to BOUNDARIES!You need to understand that there has to be a certain maturity in the interaction in order to accommodate the escalation. Most people’s mistake is that they don’t calibrate to that. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREAmen | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREYo that's literally part of the exercise in the video! Let's not forget social awareness and the value of the feedback we get from other people, but other than that I completely agree! | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREexactly, someone above said something along the same lines. It's so much better to do that. Honestly, telling her she has nice boobs might seem thirsty af if it's not in the right moment with the right ppl! | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREexactly, like I said above, a well-put compliment can take it to the next level. (I have a video on buying temp and escalation that connects to that.) But done improperly, it will diminish your perceived value. But yea, when you deliver a compliment, you increase the connection, investment etc. Escalation always connects to buying temp. Someone above said that something about push/pull, negging. It's cool to look at compliments from the perspective of technique, and beyond that, there's also the… | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 11:09 AM |
| 2 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREhehe | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:48 AM |
| 19 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREabsolutely, especially off the intro. If you want to start a conversation with a compliment (always in a way that doesn't work against you), choose things that are choices, not natural features. Very well said. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:47 AM |
| 2 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREyea, that's the first bullseye. And beyond that, like I said in the comment above, you can compliment in a way that shows you completely understand her. That's one layer deeper and it creates an amazing connection! | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:45 AM |
| 5 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREtrue. Compliments are a double edged sword. If you do them the wrong way, they diminish your perceived value. Especially if you do them in the beginning. But deliver a sincere compliment, and you build an insanely strong, real connection with the girl. It's compliments that show that you understand her beyond most people, and maybe even beyond herself. Who wants to see a video on this topic? | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 5 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREhahahaha. dead. and thanks. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:42 AM |
| 7 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCEREthat's a super awesome idea ngl. But ultimately it's a boundary issue. And it might seem a stretch to get from compliments to boundaries, but the thing with having solid and healthy boundaries is that the answers come to you automatically. You never have to think about the right answer. Likewise with compliments. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:42 AM |
| 13 | How to give COMPLIMENTS without coming across as CREEPY, TRYHARD or INSINCERE100% brother. How would you get someone from being insincere to becoming sincere? | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?Most appropriate reply | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?yea, with text sometimes nuances can get lost in the sauce :) I'm glad we're on the same page | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?This "hypermasculinity" you talk about doesn't sound like actual masculinity. There's nothing "hyper" about being masculine. It just is. And it's never a turn off. What you're referring to is someone who tries to act masculine by emulating something. Someone told them how to act masculine and they unconsciously try to replicate that. This has nothing to do with what I'm talking about. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?Facts | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?I think that's even better!! To me it's a matter of the mechanics of becoming who you want to be. I believe the first step is the recognition of the fact that you're currently NOT who you wanna be. Most people have a lot of trouble with this one, that's why only few make it even past the start line. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?hahaha savage answer | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?Speaking of fish, never ask a fish to tell you how to catch fish. But nah, kidding aside I understand your point of view. And ultimately that’s the correct answer to the question. However there’s a little more nuance, as the advice “be yourself” often times does not work for some people (who are being themselves but can’t get results). | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?I'm with you almost 100%. I think there is a time and a place for a man to express emotions and be vulnerable and that can even add to a mans masculine frame and status. In fact, if at the critical moment, a man does not do it, it will take away from his status. But that's very tricky business. Mostly a stoic response is best. Especially for guys who are beginners or intermediate. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsAlright brother | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 10:22 AM |
| 0 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsBro your behaviors betray what you think about yourself. Where you think you fit. After one video and 3 messages, if you still don’t understand that, if I were you I’d pay for some coaching. | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 10:13 AM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsso when I say status, I don't mean social status in today's world but rather the perceived position on a given hierarchy. How high or low you are. Of course, people of social status exhibit social anxiety. Throw them in the wrong environment and poof, there you have it. If you want to change the level of success you have at dating, it's time to do 2 big things. Start changing your habits and start understanding yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 08:21 AM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsand thirdly, project. For HOW-TO, CHECK OUT THE VIDEO | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsI see your point, yes a lot of people want shortcuts that's true. So what challenges are you facing in your dating life? | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsWhile this is true, it's not the best advice to give to someone who faces challenges in their social life. You will find that if i throw you in a high pressure socially challenging situation, your projection and enunciation will absolutely start suffering. (if your brain is wired correctly) Those are just some of the markers (or honest signals), that non-verbally convey how high you gauge yourself in the hierarchy structures you're a part of aka your status. One of the ways you can improve if … | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 07:14 AM |
| 0 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsbro, the closer you look, the more shades of grey you find. There's so much nuance. Thinking in absolutes hides so much of the truth from you. I inboxed you | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsman, how motivational is this! thanks a lot for your comment brother | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsNope, this advice works on anyone. There are countless examples. Did you watch the video? | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | 3 Tips for INSTANT STATUS when approaching girlsman, I read that book like 10 years ago and loved it. I'm sure it's buried deep in my unconscious mind hence the video :P what's shilling? | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Here's me getting IGNORED at first, but then TURNING IT AROUNDThank you so much! Yes, in this case, it turned out that this girl was genuinely waiting for her boyfriend, so that might have been another thing making her apprehensive at first. However, after we started chatting we hung out for about 3 minutes and there was nothing interesting to show really. I said bye and left after that. I see guys being ignored and giving up immediately so the interesting bit to me, was to show that there are indeed ways to turn it around before having to eject. I'll be m… | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Here's me getting IGNORED at first, but then TURNING IT AROUNDAbsolutely. Never take anything personally. You never know where the other person is coming from. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Here's me getting IGNORED at first, but then TURNING IT AROUNDThanks for your feedback man. The rest of it was a super chill interaction, but I should have put more of it in the video. But the whole point is that there are ways you can get a girl to stop ignoring you before you have to eject. If I had ejected early we both would have felt awkward, but by insisting WHILE having fun with it we hung out for another 3 minutes and when I left we were both feeling super chill. In all honesty, this interaction actually didn't go anywhere, it turned out that she h… | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Here's me getting IGNORED at first, but then TURNING IT AROUNDI got 2 tips for anyone who’s trying to stop getting ignored off the open and how to get a girl to talk to you. Stop being so damn quiet. I know this without even having met you. If you’re quiet it’s the equivalent of giving a girl your IG but not posting any stories. It shows that you’re not comfortable with putting yourself out there and that’s a big red flag for girls First be loud as fuck, even more than normal, hold that for a while, and then calibrate back to what’s an appropriate amount o… | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | WHAT TO DO IF SHE IGNORES YOUR APPROACH - HOW TO TURN IT AROUNDHahahaha comment of the month let’s go 💪🏼 | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 09:08 AM |
| 0 | How To APPROACH women SUCCESSFULLY (WORKS EVERY TIME)sucks that you didn't enjoy my new video buddy, and thank you for your feedback. Let me know if you have any questions and i hope you'll like the next one! | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 10:37 AM |
| 0 | How To APPROACH women SUCCESSFULLY (WORKS EVERY TIME)did you use the 2 tips at the end? | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How To APPROACH women SUCCESSFULLY (WORKS EVERY TIME)There's one method that works every time. No bullshit. (and ironically, no bullshit is also the actual method.) the only way to successfully approach a girl EVERY TIME is to do it with authenticity. authentic energy is so rare in our time that everyone is extremely thirsty for it. So if you approach anyone like this it is almost guaranteed to work every time. the reason is because when you are being authentic, your non-verbals are automatically on point. I explain more about this in the video.… | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 0 | How did you broke through your approach anxiety?https://youtu.be/XGYl--a1_pU I posted this here the other day, exactly how I managed to overcome approach anxiety. There are 3 different strategies, the 3rd one is more advanced | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Where do I even start?is it truly a habit of yours to talk to a "fresh" girl every day? is it part of your daily life? | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Where do I even start?having contact with girls should be something you do literally daily. At most, in the 7 days of the week, you should have 1 or 2 days, be days where you didn't talk to a girl you haven't met before. Start by just saying hi to one girl per day. As a bare minimum | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.hahahaha deadddd | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.I think I might know what can give you a little boost in this situation - i sent you a message bro! | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.mucho appreciado mah dude! glad to be of service! lemme know if u got a question | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.there's probably gonna be fitted masks mark my words lmao for more tips don't forget to sub hahaha | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.hahaha i swear i've seen a commercial for this jaw clencher thing that supposedly chisels the shit out of your face. Not my line of business tho :P | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 09:44 AM |
| 2 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.haha absolutely! I think the same thing here and there (the tiny specs on a planet thing), and in fact I believe this is connected to the 3rd tip from the video in some way. Yes, I agree, more infield coming soon, and not just as b-roll! Stay tuned! It'll take a couple of weeks but I promise it's on its way as we speak!! I'm in Greece and 2 out of 3 days I head out for whatever chore, I end up insta dating some girl I just met, looking for a decent filmer to capture all of it. Thanks for the lik… | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.This is literally "intro to authenticity" which is one of the 3 main dating strategies I teach. If you're absolutely authentic the "coming up with something to say" task becomes automatic and not something that is even in your control. So a guy that has mastered authenticity would not have that problem at all with "coming up with something to say in 3 seconds". Here's a good exercise for that: Put 4-5 reminders on your phone at random times during the day. when the alarm rings, you will find tha… | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.hahahaha I'm dead. Yes you and all the rest of us too buddy :P | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 09:16 AM |
| 2 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.I agree with you. The way most people explain it (and even how I explained it in the video) is rather simple even though the matter is a little more nuanced. Here's what I can say on this briefly: Yes, expecting failure makes approach anxiety worse. I completely agree. But this is because *secretly* your desire in that moment is still to succeed. The secret is to counter-intuitively desire to fail. Try this: pick some random Tuesday (or any other day lol) and declare this as the one day that doe… | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to handle and get over nervousness when trying to approach a girl? Nervousness I get not her specifically but people around us.bro I literally just posted a video about exactly that. check out the forum, it's got its own thread. here's 3 tips: 1) don't think, approach within 3 seconds. also, make it a point to intend to fail. try and see how you can fail the most spectacularly and hilariously. 2) external leverage - give your buddy 50$ and tell him to burn it if you haven't approached 5 girls by the end of the day. 3) pause and take some distance. start feeling your body. as ridiculous as it sounds. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 08:24 PM |
| 6 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.fuck yea bro! in the video I say try to see how you can fail with the most flair! Happy you like it! | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 16 | How to approach WITHOUT FEAR but instead with masculinity and authenticity.Approaching without fear is key especially if you wanna project authenticity and masculinity. You can break the fear down into 1) fear of success 2) fear of failure 3) deep beliefs and self image here's 3 tips I and my bros use consistently: 1) don't think. approach within 3 seconds. In fact approach with the intent of being ridiculous. take all the pressure away. 2) create external leverage - maybe use one of your friends to assist you with that. 3) pause and take some distance. let me know… | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | So here’s the 3 step method I use if she’s hot but with her mom!!tested on US soil. works. | /r/seduction | 19/08/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | So here’s the 3 step method I use if she’s hot but with her mom!!i agree | /r/seduction | 19/08/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | So here’s the 3 step method I use if she’s hot but with her mom!!I guess the big difference here is the 3rd step | /r/seduction | 19/08/20 11:15 AM |
| 2 | So here’s the 3 step method I use if she’s hot but with her mom!!So many times you see a hot girl but she’s with what appears to be a definite older relative - probably her mom. You can either take the shot or conveniently use the excuse and never find out what would have happened. Here’s the 3 steps I use - 60% of the time, they work every time. (jk) 1) talk to the mom first. Give her a compliment but obviously you’re not trying to hit on her. 2) talk to the girl second. yes. Hit on her. Don’t be vulgar but be serious about it. 3) ask the mom for “permission… | /r/seduction | 18/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to Verbally Sexually Escalateelaborate as to why please? | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 02:06 PM |
| 0 | How to Verbally Sexually EscalateHere's how to verbally sexually escalate: look out for "hooks" - under some circumstances that are explained in the video, a girl might make it easy for you to segue into a more sexual topic. Or you might throw out your own hooks so she can escalate if she chooses to. after leading the conversation and making sure you maintain a 50-50 ratio in what you're telling her about you vs what you are learning about her, ask yourself if it's time to share some of your own sexual experiences or if you'd… | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 12:59 PM |
| 2 | How To Be Attractive To Girls If You Look Too Youngyea but the question is what do you do now and until it does | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How To Be Attractive To Girls If You Look Too YoungIf you look too young, can't grow facial hair and/or are too short here's what you do so girls are attracted to you despite your baby face: 1) whatever you can't fix, you feature: understand that girls aren't really looking for facial hair, they're just looking for the boss that lives behind the facial hair. It's just that experience has taught them that more testosterone (facial hair) equals more bossness. But don't trip. Just make it your brand to be the boss with the baby face. That's you. … | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO LEAD A GIRL - and why leading makes you attractivedo you think a man that leads is attractive? | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO LEAD A GIRL - and why leading makes you attractivelmao | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 10:45 PM |
| 0 | HOW TO LEAD A GIRL - and why leading makes you attractiveIf you don't like men who lead, who are assertive and take control, you might be in the tiny minority of women who are more on the masculine side. The polarity is then built with a man (assuming you're still heterosexual) who is more on the feminine side. (I don't believe this is what's happening here tho) Moreover, there is a way to interrupt a girl and come off as a rude asshole and to interrupt her and come off as charming. Even using the exact same words in both cases. It's a matter of where… | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | HOW TO LEAD A GIRL - and why leading makes you attractivelol in what way? | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO LEAD A GIRL - and why leading makes you attractiveHow to be a Leader with a GIRL so she is instantly ATTRACTED TO YOU. In this video, you'll learn how to sharpen your leadership skills with girls and women so that you become irresistible and that they are instantly attracted to you. This way you will have more intimacy, sex and romantic relationships with the kind of girls that you want. If you are a leader you will find that not only will you have more success with women, but you will also feel more grounded, relaxed and happy when talking to … | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How to Beat Depression by Flirting with Girlsself love is very important. You should watch the video | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How to Beat Depression by Flirting with Girlsyes, the rabbit hole goes pretty deep | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 09:29 AM |
| 0 | What To Say To GirlsYo check out the video! It's about what to say to a girl and why you're having trouble with it. If you're asking what to say to a girl, you're really asking "what to say to her, in order for her to like me". If you want her to like you, you should be concerned more with the "how" than the "what". We operate on unconscious signals that influence how we perceive the other person. You can use either a bottom-up or a top-down approach to figure this out. However, one of these strategies is way simpl… | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 6 | How to get her to open up and connect with youcheck out this vid I found on how to create connection: girls are reluctant to open up because they don't wanna be confronted with truths that will hurt them. So there needs to be a payoff for that risk. The payoff would be connection with a high value male. 2 prerequsites: - you have to genuine want connection yourself - you have to be high value other than that there's 3 steps: a) go first b) create trust and show non-judgement and acceptance c) let her talk and LISTEN! let me know what you th… | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Exactly what to do BEFORE and DURING your date!Let me know if you have any remarks on how to improve! Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:14 PM |
| 1 | POLYGAMY vs INTIMACY the reconciliation of 2 important needsI guess - maybe the most important takeaway is to not actually define it as something | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 10:48 PM |
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