https://youtu.be/IgdIrOzxSy8 <---------check out the video for in depth explanation!

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If you want to get instant ATTRACTION, ATTENTION and RESPECT from a girl when approaching, you have to communicate the appropriate signals.

Generally, one of the hardest bits is deciding on "what to say". But as soon as your problem is "what", you're already on the wrong track. Your strategy is to solve the problem of "what" and then keep solving problems of that nature, until some time in the future, through what you've done and said, the girl is attracted to you.

However, this is asking the wrong question. Because the things you must communicate to a girl to result in attraction are more ancient than language. So the right words are the least of your problems at this point.

Girls are primarily attracted to status. Which is your perceived rank among a given hierarchy.

Now, you could tell the girl with words where you think you rank but you could be lying or you could even be overestimating yourself. This is why girls look at behavioral cues. If you're reading this post, chances are you already know that.

If a girl feels you rank high in whatever hierarchies you're a part of, she'll instantly will be interested in and attracted to you. Now. Not some time in the future.

Here's 3 tips to incorporate in your behavior to communicate high status right off the bat. They all have to do with your speech. (And yea there's tons more besides speech)

  1. speed - people of high status don't have to "get their line in" quickly. They can afford to take their time to express themselves, because everyone will allow them to. And that is self evident. They don't question that. So take your time and speak at HALF SPEED, while still maintaining 100% conviction in what you say. Assume that they'll sit and listen to you.
  2. enunciation - people of low status mumble a lot. Speaking clearly is something I discovered years ago working amazingly in loud nighttime environments. If you speak up, slowly and clearly, you will be perceived as high status. So enunciate by opening your mouth way wider and making those mouth movements very deliberately.
  3. projection - this will allow you to speak loudly without yelling. Take a belly breath and have your diaphragm exert pressure. Stand or sit UPRIGHT. Start speaking out of that pressure. You will notice that your voice reverberates off the walls and is very loud without you having to put a lot of effort into generating amplitude.

These tips ALONE, if done correctly will skyrocket your results. Operative word: correctly.

Don't forget to check out the video for technique on these tips and thanks for reading this post! Try them out separately and feel the difference they make in how you are perceived.

Cheers and let me know if you have questions.