Little talked about but so high-leverage!

It’s not that you can improve it. YOU CAN’T. But you probably don’t have it at all.

I was making a video about escalation. And it’s generally good to raise the vibe before you escalate. But most people will hear that advice and will mechanically do steps “one” and “two”. If you just do this, step two is inevitably gonna be out of sync.

Because you didn’t let step one transpire and run its course. If you raise the vibe, in this instance, you’re supposed to actually enjoy the raised vibe once it’s done. VIBE with it. Let it sit. Let her be a part of it. On her own time as well. You’ll know when the moment’s over. THAT’S the “slot” for the next segment of time. The next beat.

Only then do you escalate.

Exactly. Courtship or flirting or seducing is like music. There are beats. Timing. Let that …sync in. (Ah yes, your boy got puns. @ alex.vmnt)

Try to catch the rhythm and feel it. Become aware.

Don’t just execute. The magic is between the lines.