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Blackcels should consider gaymaxxing if desperate enough. Tons of demand for BBC on Grindr Most of the time it's white men sexualizing black men rather than white women doing it too. Lmfao. So many white men are in the closet.
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 11:35 PM
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She's one of the few white women that is my type. What a lucky bastard. HOPE
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 11:31 PM
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I think sexual orientation is more fluid than society perpetuates. I don't buy into this "born this way" BS. I didn't have my first sexual experience with someone with XY chromosomes (a crossdresser and later a transwoman on HRT) until just before I turned 37. I lived as a completely straight man up until that point. My dad and older brother are homophobic and transphobic Conservatives. That probably didnt help things for me. I didn't like the crossdresser because she semi-catfished me. She look…
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 04:30 PM
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The point I made is that Grindr and Tinder don't have the same design. Grindr is more efficient for hooking up with locals. The GPS distance filter on Tinder is even faulty. What a shitty app. I get shown women abroad often even though I set my GPS filter to 20km. When did you do your Chadfish experiment? I don't want to get my Tinder Platinum account banned. I have it paid until July 1st 2023. So I don't want to attempt a Chadfish alt on the same phone/IP/phone number. Also Tinder gives new acc…
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 03:27 PM
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I would personally sooner consider gaymaxxing over transmaxxing. I get hit on by gay men plenty already because they like short twinks. Even top short twinks do well on Grindr. If the whole point of transmaxxing is to get dick, no point for me because I can get guys already on Grindr. I joined Grindr to meet transgirls and I get hit on relentlessly by men.
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 03:21 PM
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Not if they transmaxx or crossdress. I got ghosted by my fat Asian trans ex-FWB on HRT. lmfao. Transwomen and CDs are Chad only in 2022.
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 03:15 PM
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Grindr and Tinder have two very different designs. Everyone on Grindr who has been active in within the last hour is sorted in a cascade by GPS radius distance from you. And you can message or tap anyone within a certain radius from you for free. You don't have to match to message. You don't have to pray to the algorithm Gods to make sure that the woman you swiped right on will be shown your profile in her deck. Grindr allows you to share GPS location too. This all makes Grindr far more efficien…
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 03:08 PM
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Would my sex life bother you if I was talking about my exploits with cis women? I've done that many times before and it's never been a problem when I talked about sex with cis women. It's funny to see cis women say their preference to not date bisexual men is not homophobic. When it actually is rooted in homophobia. Most cis women think a man is not masculine if he is bi, especially if he is a bottom, even if he only bottoms for oral. Thinking a guy is not masculine for being bi is rooted in hom…
/r/AllPillDebate14/12/22 05:38 PM
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I get flooded by DMs by guys on Grindr too. There is a mute button. And a block button. Women are so fragile, shit. lol.
/r/AllPillDebate14/12/22 05:33 PM
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I can explain this one. It's because it's the easiest way to find someone who is gay/bi/trans. If I want to find a guy IRL, I have to go to a gay bar or a bath house. Because most guys I meet IRL are straight. And transwomen/cross-dressers are a small segment of the population. Grindr is far more convenient. All the people on the grid are sorted by GPS distance and I can filter by certain things. And then just message them. And share GPS location through the app. No need to match. Grindr is very…
/r/AllPillDebate14/12/22 05:17 PM
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Which lookism webtoon author is this? Eurasiantiger? If that is Eurasiantiger, I'm surprised. I never would have imagined he was so cute. He's such an angry man. I think I might be bisexual. I saw some pretty Asian guys check out my Grindr profile. And some have messaged me. But I'm pretty shy. And I'm 37. I've been completely straight until just before my 37th birthday when I hooked up with that Filipino cross-dresser and that Filipino/Japanese transwoman on HRT, whom I fell in love with. She g…
/r/AllPillDebate14/12/22 04:48 PM
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She's my type. But I'm 5'6" so she wouldn't like me. Since she says that she doesn't like guys who are 5'7". Brutal. I am white, blond and handsome but JBW isn't enough to westernized noodles anymore. I dated a Canadian-born Korean girl last (and this was cis, not trans, heh. I found her more physically attractive than the trans Asian girl I dated). And she was 43 (I'm 37 tho) and overweight. And even she admitted to sleeping with two other guys while she was with me. Women have tons of options …
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 05:02 PM
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I already slept with a slim hot woman I LTRd 6+ years ago. But like I said, that was like a One Hit Wonder. It may never happen again. I'm trying to bulk up now to see if that improves my prospects. I want to get up to 155 lbs. So gaining 21.2 lbs. And hopefully I'll gain mostly muscle rather than fat and not have a fat face. If not I'm going to have to do another cut. I think 160 lbs would made me look too wide and short at 5'6". Or at least make my face look too fat. I'll have to experiment to…
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 06:41 PM
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What do you rate Jihoon (also Korean) from 90 Day Fiance? I thought he was also pretty/cute. He's with Deavan, a hot tatted white girl. It's not like I think every Asian is good looking. I think lots of Asians are ugly. But I might rate Asians less harshly than the mainstream. Especially Asian men. I once settled for an ugly Asian girl (she wasn't fat tho) and regret it. Especially after I had sex with more facially attractive Asian women and transwomen on HRT.
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 06:21 PM
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I'm bi. They are looksmatched. He's pretty. This idea that East Asian men are undesirable is some racist shit. Men don't need to be stereotypically masculine. Different women can have different sexual preferences. I'm not a very masculine guy myself. I'm a pretty boy. 5'6" 133.8 lb white blond green eyed guy. Lean six pack abs. Some women like that. A lot of women think I'm too short and scrawny. It is what it is.
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 06:13 PM
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Were you thinking about me when you made this thread? As you know that I'm openly bisexual (despite being blackpilled. If anything the blackpill and female hypergamy pushed me towards exploring alternatives to dating cis women) I got lots of attention on Grindr when I was 147-149 lbs and fat (I'm only 5'6" and didn't lift much so I was indeed at least chubby at that weight). But I was attracting better quality guys after I leanmaxxed and gymmaxxed. Some gay guys who were chasing me in June when …
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 05:54 PM
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I used to have a no fat chicks policy. But one day this fat Asian chick (she's 5'5" maybe 180 lbs. I was 5'6" 130-135 lbs then) on an app contacted me wanting to make out in my car. And she was a very passionate kisser and I was unbelievably turned on and hard af. So I'm more flexible with that standard now. I think I might be a bit of a narcissist though so that might explain why I was so turned on and hard when seduced by that fat Asian chick. I like it when a woman makes me feel like I'm her …
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 05:10 PM
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What does 6 fingers on each hand mean? You mean like she literally has 6 fingers on each hand for real? Male thirst is a lot stronger than female thirst. So this is why you have scenarios like that. Chads are willing to fuck women significantly beneath them. So Chadlites like us have to also fuck significantly beneath us. My last three hookups/flings were all fat Asian chicks. And I've got six pack abs and a handsome face with a chiselled jawline. Though I am scrawny. And a turbo-manlet. I'd con…
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 04:46 PM
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Even as a Manlet Chad (my face is Chad-like and Ive got six pack abs and am building muscle but I'm a 5'6" turbo manlet), I am too scared to approach short women in public. Because I'm not going to be every girl's type. And some short girls want a 6' tall Chad too. At my local gym there was this short fit Asian girl who was bending over in her exercises in front of me. But I didnt want to assume that was a signal for me to approach. Because I don't want to get banned from my gym for making her u…
/r/AllPillDebate20/11/22 04:04 PM
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She explicitly says that lots of men desire her. But love is a different matter. What is love to begin with anyways? It's just a chemical reaction in your brain. And it feels good. That's why people, including myself, chase it. Like a junkie would. I knew a woman for a grand total of two weeks, we hooked up 5 times, and I had a similar chemical reaction going on in my brain with her that I had with a woman that I had dated for 8 1/2 months that I was sure I was in love with. Only for that woman …
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 06:32 PM
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She was very sexually seductive as well as nice, nurturing and sweet to me up until she ghosted me. She sexbombed and lovebombed me. I suspect she had BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). My ex (a cis woman) from 6 years ago had BPD as well and she reminded me a lot of my ex.
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 12:57 AM
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My dick was hard when I made out with her. Thats enough for me. I don't regret our sexual experience. I give zero fucks if that makes me bi. Woke SJWs say Im still straight for liking transwomen but I don't give a fuck either way.
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 12:53 AM
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I've been posting on PSL (Puahate) since 2013. There is a high statistical probability I was in the black pill scene well before you. I even had a gf I met off Sluthate in 2015. She was cis. In the early days of this scene, gaymaxxing and transmaxxing was widely discussed. It's just that the incel and masculinity forums of today frown upon that stuff and ban discussion of it. There is a transmaxxing subreddit. The incel to trans pipeline exists and has a long history. A lot of incels became tran…
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 12:46 AM
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It really depends on how successful their transition was. My Asian transwoman FWB had a nice feminine face and a seductive feminine voice. But she had small tits and her body had a high waist to hip ratio. She was fat. And the fat wasn't going in the right places for her. In terms of body type, she's like a refrigerator. She had nice legs when I fooled around with her in the car. I liked her in spite of her physical flaws. Which is why ghosting me was ever so brutal and out of left field for me.…
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 12:28 AM
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One man is not going to make a difference. But if we do like the Greeks and a bunch of men gaymaxx and transmaxx, it would take away a lot of the leverage that women currently hold in the dating marketplace.
/r/AllPillDebate16/11/22 10:59 PM
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I know this option is controversial in masculinity circles but gaymaxxing and transmaxxing is one way to combat the male thirst pandemic. After I leanmaxxed and gymmaxxed, got six pack abs only to find that there isn't much of a market among women for Manlet Chads. I do get lays sporadically though. I last fucked a Korean woman 18 days ago. We hooked up more than a few times. I hooked up with an Asian transwoman 5 times. Hooked up with a Filipina cross dresser twice. I'm trying to fuck this Fili…
/r/AllPillDebate16/11/22 10:42 PM
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Lifting weights helps with losing body fat. Which can absolutely improve your face substantially if you have the right bone structure buried underneath the fat. You would be shocked if you saw my facial ascension when I went from 27.4 BMI to 20.7 BMI with six pack abs. Fat Manlet to Manlet Chad. Right now I'm sitting at 21.8 BMI after 7 weeks of bulking. And I still have the Lean face and six pack. Because most of my new weight is going towards building muscle and water weight. My abs and obliqu…
/r/AllPillDebate16/11/22 10:23 PM
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I think Asian men are more feminine than men of other races.That's why Asian transwomen are the best and white transwomen often don't pass. Though the masc Changs like Simu Liu are hot too. I'm not quite sure why.
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 02:58 PM
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Women like you hate seeing men go bi. Because bisexual men take away a woman's leverage. Women get so many simps in their DMs because male thirst is far stronger than female thirst. Women generally only thirst for tall Chads and wealthy men. And most men have never considered going bi so they continue to simp for ugly, fat, plain Jane Women instead of getting with a pretty/hot guy.
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 02:52 PM
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A lot of East Asian guys are hitting me up on Grindr too even though on my profile I put down I'm only there for transgirls. There may be something to your theory. Maybe white blond Manlet Chads like me attract East Asians. Whether it's men, transwomen and ciswomen. I hooked up with a Korean ciswoman last month several times too.
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 02:44 PM
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If he was East Asian, I'd try him out. Since I think I might be slightly bi. I had a 5'5" Asian transwoman FWB on HRT whom I hooked up with 5 times and I really enjoyed the experience. I wanted to make her my trap gf but she ghosted me after I told her I caught feelings. I didnt expect that to happen. I felt like she took my virginity because that was the first time I sucked a dick and the first enjoyable sexual experience I had with someone with a Y chromosome. I didnt like the woman who took m…
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 02:28 PM
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I agree that casual sex is over-rated. I recently got ghosted by a FWB I had a fling with in September. It started with just sex but then things progressed into a more romantic direction. This was after my leanmaxxing and gymcelling journey. I used to be 160+ lbs for almost all my adult life. Now I'm very lean. Weighed in at 132 lbs yesterday. We hooked up five times. All that effort and investment in someone just for five lays? Really? Don't even get me started on the one-night stands I've had …
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 06:12 PM
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I like sex positive women. Unfortunately most of them don't like me back and want Chad instead. lmfao. It is what it is man. Go MGTOW or go gay/transmaxx if looksmaxxing fails for you. I've tried leanmaxxing. And it got me some pussy as I had a Chad face underneath the fat on my face. But I'm still an autistic turbo manlet. I am currently gymmaxxing. If that doesn't work, I'm switching teams at this point. Fuck it.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 04:06 PM
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no you're just a weirdo fetishist Why does consensual race play offend you? The last Asian ciswoman (Korean) I fucked last week made reference to my thick white cock and her yellow pussy. If that is what we both enjoy, why is that so bad? I fetishize her race but she fetishizes mine. And I'm cool with that.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 03:52 PM
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I’m just saying if the women you were sleeping with picked up at all on the fact that you don’t seem to actually like women as people (I say this based on the vile stuff you said) chances are they’d be pretty skeeved out. I dunno what to tell you here. You clearly despise women. You don’t seem to regard them with any respect at all. Your resentment might be sabotaging you in the long run. Considering how much women use men as human ATMs expecting them to pay for their tab on dates, including my …
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 03:43 PM
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There are a ;ot of cheap datingoptions. Especially for a first date you shouldn't spend a lot of money. When I invited my last ex out to coffee or bubble tea the first date, she said that she doesn't do drink dates. She insisted on dinner. And the tab ended up being $106.54 CAD for the both of us. lmfao. The reality is a lot of women will just say bye bye if you don't open your wallet for her. Because some other simp will. You are competing with a lot of other simps for her attention and affecti…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 03:38 PM
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I actually met one of my exes off sluthatedotcom back in 2015 and we dated for 8.5 months. And she obviously knew about my past. Given that the forum was like my personal diary. She eventually dumped me though because she couldn't really handle being with someone with the black pilled mindset though. I also really caught feelings for a transwoman in September. That was the first time since dating my PSL ex that I felt that way about someone. And maybe I am a bit bisexual, I really don't care. My…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 03:01 PM
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Are you one of those ethnik women who are self-conscious about your race and feel inferior to white women? I see this so often... I swipe left on plain jane white girls. And hot Instamaxxed white girls with lip fillers. White women are over-rated. I'm sexually attracted to some white women. But I do feel they are over-priced by the dating market. Also just because I am black pilled about female nature doesn't mean I have to deny my sexuality (in this case, my attraction to Asian transwomen). I'm…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 02:01 PM
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Your misogyny however is not cute, and is probably you’re not having much luck with women. Just a thought Again with the blue pilled Just World Fallacy. Assuming that if someone doesn't have much success with dating it must be because they are a bad person. The vast majority of the world's wealth is concentrated in the hands of the wealthiest 1%. Are the wealthiest 1% of people morally good and are the poor morally bad? Checkmate liberal.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 01:28 PM
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Why do white women like you keep thinking they are hot shit? Some of us have an actual preference for East Asian women. I'm not saying East Asian women are objectively more attractive. That's just my personal preference. And when you say these types of men, what's that supposed to mean? Is it because I'm bisexual? A lot of ciswomen are low key homophobic TERFs. Even the woke liberal ones. Women are one way publicly but another way privately.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 01:10 PM
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Women are my preference. It's their high standards that are pushing me towards bisexuality (though I did sleep with a ciswoman after I slept with that transwoman on hormones. So I am not completely incel to ciswomen even after I went for transgirls). But I get lucky so infrequently so either I just take the cold streaks like most incels do or expand my field so to speak.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 12:55 PM
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/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 11:18 AM
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And even if you did, if the main issue that causes your dates to ghost you after a while happens to stem from you, which it likely does, then there's no reason that it wouldnt apply to your new field of sex partners as well It's because the chaser:passable TS/CD ratio is way above 1:1. As you have noticed. So I imagine that transwomen/CDs are far more likely to ghost me than cis men would. Considering that in the gay/bi pool, we're all part of the same pool. It's a 1:1 game. A hot pretty boy twi…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 02:08 AM
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Now I am starting to think men are dumb lol It's because men are slaves to their dicks. I don't want to think about how much money I've spent on dating this year. I even spent money on Tinder Platinum, Bumble Premium, etc. It's depressing to think about. I was dumped last week. Been doing some self-care alone this weekend. Honestly chasing pussy doesn't seem worth the money. The juice doesn't seem worth the squeeze. It's actually dehumanizing as a man to pay for women on dates. Chad doesn't have…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 12:01 AM
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I have autism too. Probably ADHD as well. I know I have social anxiety disorder and generalized anxiety disorder as well. And of course depression. I might even have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Though pretty much every woman I get involved with has BPD. It could just be me mirroring their energy. Dating is a struggle when you have neurological and mental health issues like that. Only reason why I'm not a virgin is because I have a handsome face. And recently I lost weight and got gymc…
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 11:53 PM
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Restaurants and a lot of entertainment is expensive. And a lot of women expect you to pay for their tab still. It's bullshit. I dropped $106.54 CAD on all-you-can-eat sushi for me and my ex after tax and 15% tip. And I treated her TWICE. So I spent double that. I wanted to stiff them on tips. But my ex kept wanting to go back to that place so I don't want some Chang server to jizz in my food. I eventually put my foot down and insisted we go dutch. And she agreed a couple times and then dumped me…
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 11:32 PM
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Also, wtf are you even complaining about. You're literally getting laid despite being a complete turbo manlet. Yeah I fucked a woman a few times this past month. But it's not like I am enjoying that pussy now. It's not like the memory of feeling that pussy stays with me. I don't retain memories of how something feels. Maybe that's just me? I do have memories of her talking about how my thick white cock feels so good (she's Korean) and her making references to her yellow pussy. lol. So yeah I hav…
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 11:07 PM
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Tons of men have like zero standards yea. Male interest is cheap. Female interest is expensive. When women act like they are hot shit because they have offers of penis, its sad. Because its a poorly kept secret that a large percentage of men are desperate simps and bidding up the price of pussy. As much liberal reddit cucks deny it and pretend like men are not far more thirsty than women. Women are thirsty only for Chad and beta buxx.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 10:20 PM
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Hence why I said "straight". lol. I had a discussion about this with the transwoman I had a fling with after we first hooked up. I told her that being attracted to transwomen probably makes me at least mildly bi but I don't give a shit and don't care for labels. But she insisted that being attracted to her made me straight and that I wasn't bi. It's actually not woke for me to self-identify as bisexual for liking transgirls. You can get cancelled for that in 2022.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 10:11 PM
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As a passable CD, I'm curious, were you living as a gay man prior to becoming a CD? And have you noticed that your sexual market value and dating market value improved after you became a passable CD? Because personally on Grindr I find that I get an ungodly amount of attention from cis men. But I find that passing transwomen on hormones and passing CDs overwhelmingly do not reply to my messages and especially do not initiate conversation with me. Or eventually lose interest. You know the CD in t…
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 07:41 PM
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I think some Asian men are pretty, like keshi (Vietnamese-American lo-fi R&B singer/rapper) https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56c346b607eaa09d9189a870/5983cacb-29c6-4d41-b968-6dd415bddb9b/Keshi+%2841%29-SECONDARY+PRESS.jpg He probably qualifies as a femboy almost. lol. I don't have the desire to make out, cuddle and fuck him the way I do with the East Asian transwoman I saw though. Or the Korean ciswoman I fucked recently. There is this pretty Filipino man on Grindr who is near me wh…
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 04:49 PM
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I'd recommend to either lay off porn a little I've stopped watching porn for the past 3 months. I rarely ever jerk off solo anymore. Recently the vast majority of my orgams came from the last 3 women I saw (2 of them trans). I had friends attracted to femboys they turned out to be attracted to androgynous men or twinks too after they indulged further and lost their homophobic feelings I've never gone as far as hooking up with a femboy. Femboy =/= transwoman on HRT. Or even a crossdresser. The on…
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 04:35 PM
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Are you a TERF and homophobe? A lot of pink pillers tend to be. Honestly I think gaymaxxing and transmaxxing are good solutions for incel men who are sexually attracted to men. I don't understand the homophobia and transphobia in the incel community. Validation is not that important. I've been with 10 ciswomen, 1 transwoman and 1 crossdresser. I had sex with a ciswoman recently and it was nice to break my ciswoman cold streak. I got validation from that. But I didn't feel fulfilled anyways becau…
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 02:29 PM
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I'm not into these innocent looking Asian girls. They match with me on Tinder too. I like the bad Asian girls who love me long time. I like an Asian girl with some sex appeal.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 10:29 PM
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go slay on grindr! or get slayed whichever is your thing. Sadly I can't bring myself to have sex with cismen. That would be living life on tutorial mode. I'm just not attracted to them. I wish I was. I had enjoyable sexual and romantic experiences with a passing Asian transwoman on hormones. My cock was hard with her and I sucked her dick. Our dicks also did touch while we were making out and cuddling. That's as far as I'll go. I wanted to try fucking her anally but she was afraid to take my gir…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 10:24 PM
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i wonder if you could have the ''neo-colonization fetish'' if an attractive white woman looked at you I'm not really into white chicks much these days. Though it depends. I have a big crush on prime Nova Rockafeller (2011-2016) before she dated Tom Macdonald.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 10:20 PM
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If all I had to do was put on a skirt to get men to send me shekels, I would do it. But it's not that easy. Not every guy is suited to be a femboy. Even a handsome guy like me. I'm probably too masc to be a femboy or crossdresser. And going on hormones and going full trans is a huge gamble. I would lose all my gains in the gym and lose my masculinity if I went on hormones. And potentially end up not being successful on Onlyfans as a transwoman content creator.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 07:57 PM
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gay4pay is not as lucrative as women whoring themselves out. Because male thirst is far stronger than female thirst. So there is a power imbalance in heterosexual relationships. Whereas in the gay realm, everyone is on a level playing field. A handsome white twink like myself is Michael Jordan on Grindr. I get lots of interest from men, including hot guys. But I'm Ben Simmons with heterosexual dating. Because women are far more picky about who they sleep with.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 07:55 PM
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I do fairly well with East Asian women in the west (including East Asian transwomen). So it's not just about money. They are attracted to handsome white men like me. I figure why not go to the Philippines or Thailand where the cost of living is much lower and just live like a king and fuck my preferred type of women? (East Asian women). Instead of living in an expensive, cold metropolis like Toronto. And I can literally just walk into a bar in any city in the Philippines or Thailand and have wom…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 07:41 PM
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Men who have sex with men are going to be inflating the numbers of men who are getting laid. Grindr is the #1 gay/bi dating app. And Grindr is mostly a hookup app.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 07:30 PM
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I feel women should have the right to vote. But they should also have equal responsibility for the draft. Ideally the military should remain voluntary period. Except in extreme circumstances.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 05:45 PM
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It’s documented, for example, that 75% of women on dating apps set their height filter at 6’0 or over. Fortunately for us short kings, the most popular dating app, Tinder, doesn't have height filters. lol. Tinder has a pay-to-win business model though so I am not simping for Tinder or Match Group by any means. You have no chance of success on that app if you don't have Tinder Platinum. Or at least Tinder Gold. Unless maybe you are ridiculously good looking, your card does not get shown to women …
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 04:46 PM
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It mostly is looks. I am autistic af. I have social anxiety disorder, generalized anxiety disorder and depression. I'm taking CBD to help low-inhibition and NTmaxx because my anxiety issues are severe. And a NEET. And I just had a Netflix & Chill date yesterday. This was after 4.5 months of leanmaxxing and prettyboymaxxing. Going from 29% body fat down to 15.8% (my reading yesterday was higher than usual. I've seen it go as low as 14.2% 4 days ago). I've always had a nice face. But the facial fa…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 04:23 PM
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-1. The risk of rape. Men are on average, stronger than women. Casual hookups can easily become a dangerous situation for us. -3. The risk of kidnapping/murder. This kind of ties into the first point but its also worth a mention. A lot of women have went out on casual Tinder dates and ended up dead in a ditch somewhere. If you're so afraid of men, why even bother to date men at all then? I'm not trying to put you on the defensive. I'm just trying to understand your motivations. -2. The risk of p…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 03:36 PM
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There is far greater acceptance of curves now than in the past. I just super liked a thicc Asian girl on Tinder. And I'm a fit guy with 14.5% body fat. If you hired me as your dating coach, I could get you matches and dates off dating apps very easily. It's not that hard. It's just that women typically have lists that only a small percentage of the male population meet. And the guys who meet the list requirements usually have a ton of options.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 12:25 PM
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Sounds like a born again Christian. I guess she wants to do right by God now after she fucked up in the past. I wouldn't tolerate waiting until marriage for sex. But some Christian men believe in this and will accept a born again Christian single mom.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 11:44 PM
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Had plenty of it and it's nothing special, if anything it's a weakness. Sex itself isn't special. I would argue that love very much is special though. It's natural for humans to crave love. It's natural for humans to be depressed when they go loveless for years.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:30 PM
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And the lessers dont question bc they know he doesnt need her for status. Just utility. What utility does Chad need her for? I've fucked landwhales. Jerking off is more pleasurable. My hand can get me off faster than a pussy. The whole point of sex is oxytocin, not friction and ejaculation. Fucking a landwhale doesn't release oxytocin in my brain. I've fucked a lot more than one landwhale. I've tried it multiple times. Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. That I …
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:21 PM
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Basically women make their own money and don't have to prostitute themselves for survival anymore There are lots of women out there who are still looking for a beta bux. I got ghosted because I wouldn't be a transwoman's free taxi. Now imagine the entitlement of ciswomen in 2022. Lots of the thots you see on Tinder are wannabe sugar babies wanting to live the Instagram life.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 04:55 PM
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And yet men whose genetics literally violate female imperative are but hurt bc they are not interchangable with Chad for a cheap date and a one night stand. I want to bring up a point no one else is bringing up: Why aren't people mocking Chad for fucking 3/10 landwhales in the first place? When you date and even fuck below your league, especially significantly below your league, you are making the dating marketplace worse for every other man. As someone whose only ever actually enjoyed sex with …
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 04:47 PM
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I was diagnosed with autism (I think PDD-NOS) by an actual psychiatrist when I was a child. But most people on the internet self-diagnose for sure. 100%.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 06:37 PM
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I like some trans women. Don't yuck my yum. lol. You do you. More for me if you don't want them. I've tried porking obese women and it's not for me. Overweight, I can see myself dating if she had a nice face.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 06:47 PM
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But where are you finding women that want no foreplay, and straight action. When I think back to the women who ghosted me because I couldn't get it up fast enough for them: POF, OKCupid, Craigslist/Doublelist and similar sites like that (Craigslist personals and casuals is down) You could potentially argue Bumble to that list. But I think she ghosted me for a different reason because she did still seem eager texting after the date. It was something that happened while we were texting a few days …
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:44 PM
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I think the black pill worldview is too fatalistic while the blue pill worldview is too idealistic rather than realistic. I can't live in a paradigm where women are good for nothing but their warm, wet box. That's too depressing to think about. Casual sex is extremely empty. The only time in my life where I have felt fulfillment was when I was in a LTR with a woman I loved and whom loved me back. Unfortunately she left me. I want to hold out for hope of romance and love. However I also accept th…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:34 PM
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JFL @ being a beta cuckold provider
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 07:30 PM
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It's mostly women who have the picky standards from my personal experience. But yes there are some men out there who are picky. My situation is a bit complicated because I had a hot ex once. So my standards for commitment are high. It seems like the type of women that I want to offer commitment to don't want me. While the women who want me, at best I might want to date them short-term, even cuddle, kiss and romance them. But not want to commit to them in an exclusive monogamous relationship. I'v…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 06:42 PM
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I'm down to 14.7% body fat. 5'6" 139 lbs. I think my new physique helped me land a date (which went to second base) recently. But I find that overall my luck with dating is no different than when I was fat and 160+ lbs. And I wasn't muscular either when I was fat. I led a sedentary lifestyle. I wasn't lifting.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 04:24 PM
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Me personally, I tried casual sex because I consumed a lot of porn and I thought that was what I wanted. But porn is not real life. It feels really awkward to get naked with a stranger. It took me like maybe 15 minutes cuddling with my second serious gf in order to get hard. A lot of thots don't have the patience for that shit.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 02:15 PM
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I'm a dude and I have never been able to enjoy casual sex. It's hard for me to even get it up for a stranger. I like to kiss and cuddle first to get comfortable. A lot of these thots just want you to get hard instantly. And I've tried Viagra and Cialis. These pills are only good for blood flow problems. They don't correct for not being in the mood mentally. I've been with 9 women, a transwoman and 14 hookers. So I've tried casual sex. It never seems to work out for me.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 02:08 PM
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I found the CD who ghosted me on IG and Tik Tok. Her IG is private. But on her Tik Tok she has a bunch of thirsty simps gassing her up. No wonder she felt entitled to me being her personal chauffeur. IG, Tik Tok and Tinder are inflating the egos of women in 2022
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 01:45 PM
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It's harder for men to cheat than for women to do so. Unless he's a 6' Chad or wealthy. But men often do have the desire to want to seek out better than what they have at home. Which is why I get nervous every time a woman I'm dating talks about exclusivity and commitment. I have only ever been with one woman that I wanted to commit to. Granted a lot of men on this sub are virgins so they have never been in a position where they desired to cheat on their girlfriend/wife because they never had on…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 12:53 PM
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I'm a dude and I'm often times not comfortable with casual sex. I like affection, cuddling, kissing, etc. And if you are into that with a woman who just sees you as a jump-off, it's seen as "beta." But I really can't enjoy affectionless sex. It's hard for me to get it up for a stranger.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 12:44 PM
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but they still messaged more men than %20 Because women settle. Though if I was top 21% in the looks curve for men, I would be offended if my girlfriend thought I was below average in looks! It's ridiculous how women see 80% of men as below average in attractiveness. That is statistically impossible. Less than 50% of men are below average by definition.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 08:44 PM
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As you say, if I wanted that "entire package" deal with the intimacy and feelings, rubbing one out wouldn't cut it. But in my case, not wanting "all that other stuff" just keeping the itch scratched is all that is required. I'm still holding out hope that there is a unicorn out there for me. But I am losing hope every single day that passes. You know what it's like to feel like a woman really likes you when you went on a date with her and things may have even got sexual between you two. And then…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 08:04 PM
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Blackpill guys are often either autistic men I wonder how big of a failo autism really is. I was diagnosed as a child and I have social anxiety disorder, generalized anxiety disorder and depression. And while I do struggle with the dating apps and no one in my social circle (family or friends) even think to introduce me to single available women, I'm not a virgin either. A couple weekends ago a femme passing crossdresser grabbed my hand and put it to her bare legs within 10 minutes of meeting he…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 05:33 PM
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I compete for things that have value, and today, pussy is worthless. I wouldn't say pussy is worthless. But it is overrated af. I've been with 9 women sexually plus 14 prostitutes. Tbh I've only really enjoyed sex with 2 women and they were both LTRs. I've tried casual sex a lot and can't really get into it. I need to actually like the woman attached to the pussy in order to enjoy sex. At the end of the day, pussy doesn't offer as much friction on the glans as your own hand. That's why they have…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 05:19 PM
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The execs at Match Group have never promoted Tinder as a hook up app though. My sister is on there and she's looking for a LTR. Because Tinder is the most popular dating app in the world. Though personally I think my sister is more likely to find what she is looking for on Hinge or Bumble. POF is good too. But as a mostly free site, you're going to get some low-rent fuckboys on POF. On Bumble as a cishet guy, you generally need to pay for spotlights (or super swipes if you are dead set on certai…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 04:49 PM
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Yeah as a guy who used to be 29% body fat @ 168.2 lbs (I'm only 5'6") back in early February and who is now 14.6% body fat @ 138.6 lbs, having lost nearly 30 pounds, I can tell you right now that the vast majority of obese women lack self control. Calories in, calories out, cardio every other day, muscle hypertrophy strength training every other day works for the vast majority of people for losing body fat. My raw muscle mass now is higher @ 138.6 lbs (58.9 lbs) than it was at 168.2 lbs (58.4 lb…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 04:21 PM
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If obese women dating skinny men is a trend, then a lot of the skinny guys are unfaithful. Unless they are incel-tier skinny guys. Here in Canada there are 105 males born for every 100 females. But males die sooner than females. So as you go up the age pyramid the female to male ratio increases. So statistically, for every woman there is a man on a nearly 1:1 ratio. Worst case scenario, demographics are slightly skewed towards more men than women at the younger age groups.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 03:53 PM
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Fat women can usually tell if a man can't pull what he wants and if he can't, she is probably not interested in his commitment for the same reasons the other women aren't. Yeah I think women can intuitively sense if you are really into them or not. If you are settling, they can usually tell. Fat chicks are not blind. Unless they really are blind for real. They can tell that they aren't as attractive as the Beckys and Stacys. And they know that you'd rather date Becky/Stacy but you can't. Others …
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 03:45 PM
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I got a date off Bumble a couple weekends ago and managed to get on second base but got ghosted after the first date because I wouldn't be her personal taxi. Bumble markets itself as feminist and female-centric
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 02:56 PM
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It is so wild to read this as a young woman with dark skin. The amount of hate we get for existing would cripple the average male. Many of us have to earn it just to be told we are UNDESIRA LE for aquiring financial success. Imagine you having a profession worked against you There are plenty of white boys like me who are attracted to women of colour and have been in love with one or more in the past. Why focus your attention on the haters who don't appreciate your skin colour? I'm sure you have …
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 02:45 PM
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Yea if your happiness as a person depends on another person then that really isn't healthy mate. It's natural for humans to crave intimacy with romantic partners and friends. Unless you're asexual like a priest, a human can't be expected to be mentally healthy without romantic and sexual contact. And also good friendships.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 07:22 PM
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This idea that humans can lead happy lives without a romantic relationship and quality friendships is ridiculous. Humans are social animals. Unless you are straight up asexual. And even then, it's not just about sex. Cuddling, kissing, holding hands, etc. are the things that I miss the most. I went on a date 9 days ago with a passing crossdresser and we cuddled, kissed, held hands. And that was the first time I ever did that with someone in nearly 2 years and it felt nice even though ciswomen ar…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 07:15 PM
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I envy the power that women have in society. If I was a woman, I could sell my box on Onlyfans and be able to make a living off just that. Whereas as a man, you usually have to be born into wealth or earn it. In terms of envying women when it comes to sex, I have created a Grindr account specifically to look for trans/CD girls. And men have hit me up like crazy on there. So if I want that Chad dick, I could get it anytime I wanted if I really want it. You're not special if you can get Chad dick.…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:57 PM
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To becoming gay? And they said the gay agenda was a lie 😂 I'm not gay. There was this hot chick (a ciswoman) at the gym two days ago bending over near me and I had a really hard time trying not to look. Sexuality is on a spectrum, not binary. There is a large zone between gay and straight. You can be turned on making out with a passing crossdresser and you can be turned on seeing a ciswoman bend over in the gym. These things are not mutually exclusive. I don't believe in labels. I'm not going to…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 02:26 PM
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This is why grass eater men like how I was for *years* at a time are bad for society. As I gave up on dating women for years and just lived a NEET hikikomori lifestyle in my dad's basement consooming. The only reason why I am even bothering with the dating apps at all is because the only time in my life where I felt any sort of real happiness was when I was with my ex. I love her. And since she doesn't wanna be with me anymore for one reason or another (I think she still loves me but is afraid o…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 01:56 PM
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I'm confused - does she look and sound exactly like a woman, but with a penis? Or is she a man dressing as a woman? She looks like a woman. She's a passing crossdresser. She wears makeup, has long hair, wears women's clothes, shaves her legs and body hair, wears perfume. Has a penis. Her voice is feminine but it kind of is like a gay bottom's voice I guess. Since she is not on estrogen. No breasts because she's not on estrogen. But her voice didn't bother me even once and I've liked small titty …
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 12:54 AM
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I've seen women say that short men bulking up is "overcompensating". And having a lot of width when you don't have a lot of height doesn't look good physically. However when I expressed these concerns to my ex, she says, "no, I'd rather you put on muscle than lose weight. It would turn me on."
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 10:11 PM
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If you’re 5’6, keep those muscles. It’ll be your saving grace. My top priority is to get hard abs and I might have to go down further in weight in order to get there. And in the process of cutting, I might have to sacrifice some of my raw muscle mass. But hopefully not. And if I have to, hopefully not to much. I have more raw muscle mass at 138.2 lbs (60.5 lbs) than when I was 168.2 lbs back in February (58.4 lbs muscle) when I was clinically obese (29% body fat is clinically obese. Anything ove…
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 09:17 PM
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Yeah that's what I noticed. The girls he conned were plain janes. While he is wealthy and an attractive Jewish Israeli man. In fact one of the plain janes commented that he was shorter than what she typically likes. ROFL. Heightism yet again. Why is it always the ugly women and plain janes who care so much about height?
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 09:05 PM
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Ntpills the most legitpill That would explain why I struggle so much since I was diagnosed with autism as a child. It's not like I am incel. But I struggle a lot with dating and relationships. It takes a lot of tries for me to find someone I click with. Also women like prettyboy these days muscle doesn't effect much My muscle mass % is high but I am walking around fairly light these days. I weighed in at 138.2 lbs tonight after working out and 140.2 lbs yesterday on my muscle recovery day. My di…
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 08:07 AM
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My muscle mass % is in the high range for a man my age I think (apparently 39.5-44.1% is considered high for 18-40 men. And 44.2+% is very high). But I don't have a lot of mass on me. I'm lean. I could compete in the UFC Bantamweight division without having to spend a lot of time in the sauna. I'm that light. I'm 5'6" so I know a lot of people are going to say that is a death sentence. Muscle Recovery Day Stats Thursday night: 139.6 lbs, 14.5% body fat, 42.6% muscle mass, 60.8% water weight, 6.0…
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:29 AM
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With all the average NT men I see out there with gfs, sometimes I wonder if my gymcelling and leanmaxxing is actually hurting my dating marketplace value. Like maybe girls who are below my looks level on the dating apps think I'm just a fuckboy and so don't take me very seriously while the girls at my looks level either want Chad or think I'm too autistic and socially awkward/anxious for them. Because I find that the more I gymcel and leanmaxx, the harder it is for me to date. It's ridiculous. I…
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:06 AM
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Wanting to have sex with men as a male is gay, nothing to do with politics I also want to have sex with women too. And have. And enjoyed it very much with a couple women in particular. Sexuality is not binary straight or gay. There are shades in between.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 06:47 AM
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It's so classic how conservatives are like "you're gay bro" while the liberals are like "you're a bigot for focusing on her being trans so much! transwomen are women! You aren't sufficiently woke to date transwomen." If I get polarized reactions from both sides, I think I'm doing something right. I wish wokescold liberals would just shut the fuck up. I expect the bigotry from the conservatives. I have a higher expectation of liberals because they are supposed to be the open-minded ones. Not the …
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 06:34 AM
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I couldn't imagine being very low libido. Though my libido is kinda low at a base line to begin with. I feel like life has no meaning for me without love. Without love all there is for me is consumption and wage cuckolding. When my ex contacted me 3 months ago, I was getting morning wood almost every day for 7+ weeks straight. And my mental health improved (and my physical health too. Because my appetite decreased after the oxytocin hit my brain. Then I started consciously restricting my calorie…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 11:01 PM
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Perhaps people (regardless of gender) need to warm up to a person before they can feel sexually submissive to them? Maybe a bit of care is required before letting someone stick their dong into their orifices. I understand that. That's why when she told me that she is an anal virgin, I said that I understood. I am not really gung-ho on the idea of having anal sex to begin with because I've got girth. I just want to hang out with her, make out and do other sexual things with her. I'm a dude too, s…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 08:07 PM
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Personally I do see transwomen as woman. But it's not quite the same thing 100%. After all when the CD was talking about commitment, I found myself in a situation asking myself can I ever really give up pussy and commit to her 100%? And the answer is no. The equipment does matter to some extent. Also how many ciswomen grabbed my hand and put it to their bare legs within 10 minutes of a date? 0. Two ciswomen I met off Craigslist were jump offs who went straight to it. But never has a ciswoman bee…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 07:34 PM
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Saying I need to mature. From a pink piller who expects men to take care of her like she's some sort of child. As if women aren't grown and can't earn their own money in 2022.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 07:19 PM
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You tell us to grow up yet you pink pillers expect men to handle your shit instead of handling your own shit, paying for your own shit. I'm tired of your shit. Your pussy is not as good as you think it is. I've only ever enjoyed sex with two women and I've been with 9 women and 14 hookers. Not including the transgirl.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 07:05 PM
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Your correct about male thirst being the cause of hypergamy but I don't really see a solution other than some libido killing medication or a event that reduces the mae population worldwide. Unfortunately that might be it. When I got my T levels checked out in my late 20s, my T levels were very low. 90 year old man levels according to my endocrinologist. However back then I was an estrogenic sedentary office wage cuck who was overweight, 160+ lbs (at one point almost 180 and I'm 5'6") and a high …
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 06:35 PM
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They certainly behave like women when they expect us to be their free personal chauffeur and give them free meals, gifts, pay their bills, etc. If anything I find that transwomen on average are even more materialistic and predatory than ciswomen. My favourite ex, a ciswoman, believed in going Dutch. I loved her but she had BPD. lol. I feel gross now. I might never date another CD or transwoman ever again if they are just going to emulate the worst aspects of female nature like this. The whole po…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 05:30 PM
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TL;DR: Met a CD off Bumble. First Date went well. We went to second base in my car. She hits me up Wednesday asking if I can give her a ride to her friend's house for 6pm. I was going to swing over to her apartment after she was done work. But this would only leave us an hour before having to take her to her friend's house. So I wanted a raincheck. She agreed. Then I never heard from her again nearly 4 full days later. Male thirst is so bad in 2022 that even transgirls and CDs are using simps as…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 05:26 PM
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I would go as far as to say that simps are the primary problem with dating in 2022. Rather than female hypergamy itself. Female nature doesn't even factor into the equation with transgirls and CDs. This CD isn't even on estrogen! That's why she's a CD and not a T-girl. She wears makeup, perfumes, grooms and dresses like a woman. She lives her life day to day as a short effeminate Filipino man. That's why she looks so convincing as a woman. Asian men are far more effeminate than white men on aver…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 04:20 PM
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They were in their late 30s. Advanced paternal age is linked with autism in children.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 02:27 PM
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Women 30+ are having a hard time getting dates. There's plenty of older women sounding like incels, crying that no man will date them. I just went on a date with a woman in her mid-30s (slightly younger than me) last weekend. They can get dates. They just don't want to go on a date with a 5'6" guys like me who aren't Chads or sugar daddies. That was my first date in over a month btw. So it might seem contradictory when I say that women in their 30s are picky. But you have any idea how many women…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 02:23 PM
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My behaviour was very disruptive when I was a kid. The school made my parents get me evaluated
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 06:50 AM
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Yeah it is a grind to get laid. Every time I got laid, it felt so effortless. But those times where I got laid are so few and far in between all the rejections. Because I'm autistic so the type of woman who is into me is overlooking my autism. And they usually have BPD or some other mental disorder to be into someone like me. Vast majority of women approach dating with the mindset that she is the prize and the guy has to win her over and work for it. It doesn't come easy. With dating I find that…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 06:13 AM
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I was diagnosed with autism as a child. So yeah. And I've struggled with dating and relationships yeah. Though I've been with 9 women (and I fooled around with a trans girl). But man it hasn't been an easy road. I have a nice face though. And these days I'm in relatively good shape. If I didn't have looks and penis size going for me, I'd be in a worse position. Since autism and being 5'6" are failos.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 05:52 AM
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I knew I liked transwomen/CDs ever since a latina crossdresser swiped right on me a couple years ago during the pandemic. She was very feminine. But I didn't pursue it because let's face it, society is very homophobic and transphobic. Contrary to all the surface level wokeness. It wasn't until a transwoman matched with me and messaged me two months ago that I just said "fuck it." She lived too far but I had been talking to other TS/CD girls since. And then went on a date with one three days ago …
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 02:09 AM
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I'm in my mid-late 30s and have posted on PSL for nearly 9 years. What is the statistical likelihood that a random redditor on black pill forum is gonna be older than me? If you want to run the risk of getting cleaned out in family court because you want to marry a woman who makes way less than you, be my guest. I don't think it's good advice to tell men that career women are to be avoided. Tradthots initiate divorces too.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 10:02 PM
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Try again kid I'm older than you. Keep LARPING Mr. High Value.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 09:58 PM
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but women HATE house-husbands. https://athomedad.org/advocacy/statistics-on-stay-at-home-dads/ Yeah that's why there were 2 million stay-at-home dads in the United States in 2014. And that figure is rising. Sorry kid. Go to the gym. I go to the gym every other day. And that is only going to increase my chances of attracting a high income high net worth woman! lol
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 09:41 PM
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Those women who “achieve things on their own” tend to end up owning a lot of cats. Just an observation. I don't see how career women are a negative. But a positive. If I was a "high-value man" making lots of money, it would be more risky for me financially to marry someone of low income and low net worth than someone of high income and high net worth. Given how family court works. I'm immediately suspicious of women who want to be tradwives tbh. With inflation and housing costs being what they a…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 09:16 PM
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What happened with your folks? Did your dad fall for the "sow your wild oats" meme because he married your mom when he was only 22? What are the specific reasons that led to the dissolution of their marriage?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 09:05 PM
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You can use online social circles, idk why people don't do it What kind of online social circles? Like meetup dot com, online forums? I actually did meet my favourite ex off an online forum. She messaged me first too. I'm currently seeing a crossdresser that I met off a dating app. And crossdressers are not my first preference admittedly, I'm predominately straight (I did get hard though when she was massaging me in the car so its not like I feel zero attraction to crossdressers though. But I do…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 03:54 PM
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I also think blackpill mostly applies in online dating, in real life you can see average couples in malls and most people don't even notice the difference between 6ft and 5'10, maybe guys should try meeting from either social circles or online social circles, dating apps are busted and even manipulated imo and are not fully trustable. I agree with you that the dating apps are terrible and social circle game is better. Unfortunately I get zero opportunities to meet single available women through …
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 03:21 PM
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Not nearly as much as women seem to feel entitled to relationships with a dude out of their league just because they slept with them. This is a major, major problem with the modern dating scene. So many women on dating apps are oblivious to what their relationship market value/league is because they had casual sex from Chads. My favourite ex told me recently that she dated me because she knew that I would never leave her for another woman. She understood relationship market value very well. She …
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 03:09 PM
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Women's sex drive does appear to be lower than men's. During my first date with a crossdresser yesterday, she was massaging me in the car while I was driving her home after our date. Including even going underneath my shorts and stroking me bare at times. Within less than 10 minutes of meeting her, she grabbed my hand and put it to her bare legs when she asked me why I was quiet and I said I had social anxiety. It feels nice actually being desired and wanted. Most ciswomen think they are hot shi…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 02:34 PM
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I love Ben Chang in Community. He's great. In all seriousness, I think I might be bi (though I don't really care for labels) but definitely not gay. I kissed a passing femme crossdresser today and I liked it. We held hands, cuddled and fooled around a bit sexually, I got hard and liked that too. But I can't see myself giving up pussy fulltime. I might like chocolate and vanilla. But I prefer chocolate. If you know what I mean. I really miss my hot ex-gf's pussy in particular. I also like how for…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 12:59 AM
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crossdressers
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 12:18 AM
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I absolutely have thought about SEAmaxxing yes. Living in the Philippines/Thailand during Nov to Apr on a 6 month tourist visa during the Canadian winter months. And going back to Canada for the spring, summer and fall May to Oct. I can continue to get Ontario health care if I live here for at least 180 days in the year. And pay taxes to the CRA. And keep my Canadian bank accounts and trading account to earn some income, including passive income. And wire money to a Filipino bank account to pay …
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/22 06:02 PM
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Just because I'm not woke doesn't mean I can't be into biological males. I know a gay dude who is black pilled even. I really don't care. I have a date today with a passing femme CD. And if it feels right to kiss her and I like it, then I like it and may go further and see if I like that too. I know on looksmax forums, homosexual content is banned. I disagree with that kind of policy for this sub. Gaymaxxing and transmaxxing is a potential solution for incels. There is an incel to trans pipeline…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/22 05:08 PM
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Far better to go old school. But that takes a lot of guts and effort. The problem with going old school in 2022 is that you can easily get #metoo'd now cold approaching women. I saw a hot Asian girl at my gym. Did I approach her? No. Why? Because I don't wanna get banned. I NEED the gym to have access to the weights to improve my physique. So I don't want to risk doing anything that will get me banned from my gym. Six-pack abs and muscular hypertrophy are the most important thing for me to achie…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 09:41 PM
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Now imagine if a guy posted a poll asking if they'd rather date a fat chick or get monkeypox. Their IG account would get permabanned. There is a double standard in our society where women are allowed to get away with heightism. But we can't get away with weightism. Even though most people can control their weight. You can't control your height. I say this as a 5'6" guy who used to be 29% body fat and now I'm 15.4% body fat. For the vast majority of people, the way to stop being fat is: calories …
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 09:33 PM
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If I was a high value man, I would rather seriously date a woman who has her shit together than a gold digger who is just going to take half my savings in divorce. Think with your big head, not your dick. Career women are unironically better to date seriously than some chick who works at Dollar Tree or who is unemployed. Never, never marry, impregnate or even cohabitate with a woman who earns way less than you and has far less net worth than you. Or else she can go after you in court. Yes even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:05 PM
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The average male height is 5'9" in the United States. The fact that 75% of women who have a height filter on dating apps filter you out at 5'10" is egregious when the average American woman is 5'3.5"! lol. 6' Chads have lots of options. Women are dumb if they think a 6' Chad is going to commit to just anybody. A lot of women don't have the intelligence to understand that getting dicked down by Chad is not the same thing as getting commitment from Chad. My hot ex had the brains to understand that…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 08:23 PM
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My personal rule is, if I can get it up for her, PLAY BALL! However my cock is likely pickier than most men. I went to bed with this fat 5'1" Filipina and I was turned on when her clothes were on. I was roaming my hands on her legs. Grabbing her ass. But then when she undressed and I saw her gut and her gut was larger than her bust, I couldn't get it up. Same with this 5'4" white woman. I was turned on grabbing her ass. But then when her clothes came off, I saw all her saggy skin and couldn't ge…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 06:23 PM
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I dated a woman who was 5'4" (2 inches shorter than me) for nearly 2 years. While a 5'1" woman on POF demanded 6' minimum. It's not completely hard-wired. There is individual variance to some degree. The woman who was 5'4" told me that her only requirement is that the man is taller than her. I hooked up with a woman who was 5'7" once. If anything casual sex is probably easier to get with tall woman than a LTR. Because the 5'7" woman might actually be embarrassed to introduce me to her friends as…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 05:48 PM
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The paradox of choice is legit. Have you ever browsed through the selection on Netflix for like 30 minutes and still can't decide what to watch next? Meanwhile back in like 1996 when I had only like 35 channels on Cable TV, I just watched TGIF on ABC. I watched Family Matters, Boy Meets World, Full House, Fresh Prince of Bel-Air or some shit. And guess what? I loved those shows. I even bought the entire DVD boxset of Boy Meets World on the cheap 7 years ago for like something crazy like 70% off.…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 05:27 PM
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From my experience having spent time on heterosexual dating apps and Grindr, this is what the "demand hierarchy" is like in terms of the standard S,A,B,C,D,F-tier Japanese rating rating. With S-tier being the top of the foodchain and F being the bottom of the food chain. S. heterosexual/bisexual women A. passing femme transwomen/CDs B. ugly masc transwomen/CDs C. gay/bi bottoms D. gay/bi tops F. heterosexual men On Grindr I advertised as a 5'6" top (D-tier) as I was looking specifically for tran…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 05:07 PM
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Women are even more racist than men. Go figure. Yet it's the evil racist white man that is the cause of all the ills of society right? These stats are so true. I've been in three LTRs (8+ month relationships) and they were all women of colour. Indian from India (lived here in Canada for 2 years before we dated), Indo-Guyanese and Chinese. My Indo-Guyanese ex was my favourite. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DZ8pMW7X4AAprBc?format=jpg And I hooked up with a Filipina and I've been flirting with Filipi…
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 06:15 PM
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When was that interview conducted? These days it's not unusual for people to carry light because of the pervasiveness of credit cards, debit cards and ATMs. Warren Buffet carries $500-600. I carry $40. Because I have at least one Visa on my person and usually don't load more than $250-500 on my prepaid Visa at any one time. I don't even bother carrying my debit card on me usually. In case I get asked for my PIN at gunpoint. It's way easier to dispute a Visa transaction than a ATM transaction wit…
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 04:50 PM
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It's helpful for men to know that height matters to women because then short men can change their strategies accordingly. In the United States, gender height dimorphism is just under 8.7%. So if you are 167cm (5'5.75") tall like me, in the United States you should ideally message women on dating apps who list their height as 153.7cm (5'0.5") or less. 167cm/1.0867 = 153.7. In my country Canada, gender height dimorphism is a little less pronounced (<7.9%). So my gender height match is 154.8cm (5'0…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/22 05:23 PM
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5'2 R.I.P unless you are at an age where you are still growing. The average height for an American woman is 5'3.5". Dating as a 5'2" man is gonna be tough. Have you ever considered SEAmaxxing? You can get a tourist visa for up to 6 months in the Philippines and I think Thailand. South-East Asians tend to be shorter. So you'll have less stiff competition in South-East Asia. And the women tend to be shorter than white women.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/22 05:05 PM
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The way that our modern society is structured, our society can't handle even a 1:25:1 female : male ratio. The vast majority of men in society don't earn enough income to support a single family on their own and require the woman to work. Let alone support a second wife. The fertility rate here in Canada dropped to 1.4/woman in 2020 as is. Women are actively choosing to remain childless rather than settling for their looksmatch. Even in the USA, where the population is less urban than Canada's (…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/22 03:56 PM
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In the United States of America, the average height for a man is 5'9" and the average height for a woman is 5'3.5". So the gender dimorphism is less than 8.7%. In my country of Canada, where we use the metric system, the average height for a man is 175.1 cm (5'8.9") and 162.3 cm (5'3.9") for women. So the gender dimorphism here is less than 7.9%! So as a man who is 167cm tall (5'5.75"), which my doctor measured me at like 6pm evening height, my gender dimorphism match would be 154.8cm (5'0.9"). …
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 09:47 PM
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And oftentimes women at my level looks wise aren't even interested in a relationship, much less with men in her own league. They just want to engage in hookup culture and one-night flings. And we all know that attractive men absolutely dominate the world of online dating. I have a theory for why this happens. My ex has told me even as recently as May that casual sex is very easy for women to get but that women don't usually want that. They want a relationship. Thing is, my ex is the type of girl…
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 09:14 PM
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I'm black pilled mostly. But I'm a bit blue pilled when it comes to romance. Just to maintain my sanity. If I believed in my mind that the only thing a woman was good for was sex, I would cancel my gym membership and go back to eating like shit and living a sedentary lifestyle. Love is what makes life worth living. Otherwise life is mostly shit. Even if you are rich, what is even the point of life other than consumption if love doesn't exist? In terms of strictly physical stimulation, the grip f…
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 09:06 PM
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What percentile of men does 6'6" fall under? It's crazy. Very very few men are that height. That's like the average height of a NBA small forward in 2022. Michael Jordan in his prime might not even be 6'6" if he took off his sneakers
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 08:34 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 08:32 PM
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Rebecca Pope is saying what we all know. When women devise their lists, they basically want a guy that only 1% of men fit the criteria for. lmfao. If you are a top 1% man though, you have tons of options. If I was 6' tall with six-pack abs, square jawline making $400,000/year, why the fuck would I pick some ratchet ho working at Dollar Tree or some fat bitch with PCOS? If I was making $400,000/year, I would want to get with a woman who was earning that kinda money too and I'd want her to look fa…
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 06:59 PM
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If I was gay, I would get more Chad dick than most foids. lol. Women think they are hot shit because they can get Chad's penis. Two can play that game. Pussy is greatly over-valued in 2022 and in need of a market correction. As someone who has hooked up with 9 women (including 3 LTRs), I can definitely say that subpar pussy is worse than jacking off. Sex even for men is very mental. The grip from your own hand is going to beat the grip from a vagina 10 times out of 10. It's the oxytocin from mak…
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 05:13 PM
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Exactly. You don't get shadow banned per se but your card gets shown a lot less often if you swipe right on every woman. If you're not a virgin, on Tinder you should at the very least swipe left on the women whom are below the level of your best lays. I had an ex who was hot. But I don't only swipe right on hot girls because I had a one hit wonder with her. Dating and fucking her was like Jimmy Ray getting that "Are you Jimmy Ray?" song at the top of the charts in 1998. But I still make sure to …
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/22 04:48 PM
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I suspect a large percentage of men on reddit who mock or show contempt for incels are not being completely honest about their ability to pull women as well. I would consider myself above-average in looks (aside from being 5'6"). I even scored 6.7 on Photofeeler, which means I rate higher than 67% of men. I lift. I do cardio. I eat clean. Got a fat cock too (though this means fuck all with online dating because you'll get banned for posting a dick pic or sending women dick pics on the app). Now …
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/22 09:28 PM
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So according to these stats, as a 5'6" man I am filtered out by 85+% of women on Bumble. No wonder I get fuck all worth of matches on Bumble despite paying $199.99 CAD + 13% tax for a lifetime premium membership. I boost once a week and send 5 super swipes a week and I get fuck all worth of matches. I even tried buying a boost pack so that I can stack my boosts (2 boosts = 150 minutes boost while 1 boost is only 30 minutes boost). And I still get fuck all. The likes I do get are mostly landwhale…
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/22 08:42 PM
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I'm 5'6", autistic (though I have a nice face) and I was always overweight as an adult and managed to get 9 lays. When I snagged a hot gf, I was 160+ lbs (that's a BMI of 26+) with 23.8% body fat 37.2% muscle mass according to my digital scale. My body fat % probably fluctuated higher than that at times while I was with her. But I had to work *very hard* for those 9 lays. So I can understand why a lot of men want to give up. Particularly if they have similar disadvantages to myself or even bigge…
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/22 07:57 PM
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At least it looks like that poster's karma on that comment is either 0 or in the negative at least. Their comment was too on the nose even for purplepilldebate! Normies are not supposed to say the quiet part out loud!
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/22 07:25 PM
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There is a ton of male self improvement among the youth now. I'm an older gentleman in my late 30s. I joined a gym a couple weeks ago. I went there at 11pm+ at night and I saw that it was mostly young men in there, not many women. Especially in the weight room. So many young men are focused on self-improvement now but very few women seem motivated to lose weight. I can't count how many times I've been rejected by fat women on dating apps who think their pussy is made of gold and think they are b…
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/22 08:41 PM
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Google Voice isn't for Canadian numbers though right? If I live in Canada then I can't be using a US number to verify on Tinder right?
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 04:37 PM
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That was an interesting read. Hopefully you learned from the experience. You did a favor for a stranger because you presumed it would lead to sex. In the future don't go out of your way for people that are not family or close friends. She straight up tricked me. I drove to her campus to pick her up because I thought we were going to go on a date for real. Then she gave me the directions to her condo and I'm like thinking "alright so this is a Netflix and Chill situation, even better." Only for h…
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 04:33 PM
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Do they device ID ban you as well when making catfish accounts by any chance? My main account on Tinder I am pretty sure is shadowbanned I think for swiping right "too often". I keep getting shadowbanned from Tinder. What a fucking garbage app. Tinder ruined online dating. 2013-2014 Tinder was lit back before they implemented their shitty algorithm. But Tinder has gone to complete shit recently
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 05:30 AM
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The women are wonderful effect plays a massive role in this. People have a mental block when conceiving just how garbage women can be - especially men! I just mentioned the women are wonderful effect literally minutes before you did. LOL. LINKED! We were both thinking the same thing! It's so true though
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 05:25 AM
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I got screencapped by inceltears before for saying "misogynistic things." Thing is I don't believe that all women are shit. but do I feel that the vast majority of women on these online dating apps are shit human beings? You bet. That has been my experience so far with online dating. The worst of the worst. I can't run social circle game because I don't have much of an opportunity to meet single women through my social circle. I'm an autist with social anxiety and my friends are other misfits. A…
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 05:20 AM
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What's up with all the female mods on these incel boards? First board_gaming was the braincels mod. Then she stepped down and became the incelswithouthate mod. Femcels would probably call you a "pick me" for supporting chadfishing (trolling hypergamous sluts who feel entitled to Chad)
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 03:47 AM
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I am not trolling you at all. This literally fucking happened to me. I have the text messages https://lookism.net/Thread-Story-I-just-struck-out-with-a-Indian-woman-on-a-date https://lookism.net/Thread-Black-Pill-I-just-got-played-hardcore-by-the-Indian-girl-I-went-on-a-date-with
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 02:25 AM
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Do you think they act like that towards Chad? Or do they only do that to ugly guys? Damned if I know. My pictures were on my profile and I look like my pictures. I think she was literally using me for a ride. Because she gave me her digits pretty quick and when we texted, she was quick to schedule a "date" with me right away. I thought that she was looking to get bunker busted by a cute white guy (I may be autistic and socially awkward and I'm no Chad or even Chad-lite, but I'm pretty good looki…
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 02:23 AM
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I sincerely hope not all women are like that. I do too. My recent foray in online dating makes me want to rage quit dating
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 02:16 AM
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A woman I went on a date with literally just used me as a free Uber. She had me pick her up near her college campus. Then when I asked her where to? She directed me to go straight to her condo. I thought this meant I was gonna get it in. I try kissing her in the parking lot. She dodges me and comes up with a stupid excuse for me not to kiss her. Then she says, "we can do that on the weekend" and schedules a second date with me right then. Then she gets out of my car. And then when I texted her F…
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 02:14 AM
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