| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Being Social | alwaysthrowmeaway | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:27 PM | |
| 9 | making friends | alwaysthrowmeaway | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:43 PM | |
| 8 | Gym Advice | alwaysthrowmeaway | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 09:17 PM | |
| 5 | Not Happy | alwaysthrowmeaway | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 06:54 PM | |
| 2 | Self Respect | alwaysthrowmeaway | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 03:30 PM | |
| 1 | Good body language books? | alwaysthrowmeaway | /r/askTRP | 01/03/15 08:25 PM |
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| 1 | Gym AdviceYou need to take the remote out of your girlfriends hands and turn off the TV. If she doesn't like it she can leave. I think you hit the nail on the head -- I still have beta tendencies. When a girl shit tests you with the TV to see if you can handle your shit, she is really wanting to know if you can handle your shit in the real world. This tells her that you can take the lead when you want/need something real and you are not going to get pushed around. I am failing the “real world test”. Me sa… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Gym AdviceStop letting him lead you Agreed. I think what happened here is that his job is to lead, but he is doing it wrong. I came in saying I want to do strength training with barbell and he started do something different. I questioned him - he explained -- I questioned him again -- and on it goes. Its easy to let an "expert" suck you into doing the wrong thing -- "You need to work your core more before you can do that" or "we will get to that". I told him that I am reading SS, and I asked him for book … | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Gym AdviceAll this can be changed if you had the balls to tell your trainer you don't like his workout routine I have talked to him about this multiple times. He is some kind of master of doing a little bit of what I want and going back to the endurance exercises. It's not so clear cut either, if I knew exactly what I needed I would not be using a trainer. I am glad that I am now going to gym and know how to use some of the equiptment. I just need advise on how to move forward without this guy. Yes I will… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Why are they called plates?Not sure if it is related, but Spanish has an expression that is basicly plate - "segundo plato". If a girl knows you have other girls, she will get mad and say that she does not want to be your "second plate". I think this refers more to like a dinner plate, maybe like leftovers. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 12:12 AM |
| 1 | making friendsThis is actually a great idea. I will never enjoy watching sports, but I do like to play sports. I could join a team, maybe through work. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | making friendsThanks. I am at a loss for ideas of events that I could invite a guy to do. maybe other groups that I go to? Maybe going to a casino -- but I am very focused when I play, not social (I like to count cards) Could I just ask them what they are up to? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | making friendsAnother guy at my spanish group exchanged numbers with me today. he has like 1 week in NYC. He seems like cool guy. But really I don't know what I could invite him to do. I don't know any bars -- I rarely drink. I think it would be lame/awkward to do things that don't match my interests. FIND a reason to contact What could be some examples besides going to a bar? I can think of tons of date ideas for girls, but really most of that I wouldn't invite a guy. Don't like small talk? I do like it -- b… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Being Socialit's in my massive queue of trp books to read. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Is learning to pass shit tests a form of insecurity?I thinks it's more that you become aware of your own insecurities. It's not always possible to hide your own insecurities. If a girl's shit test affects you, you will have a tell and she might see that (or other girls will). I don't think it is all just pass/fail. I think you can also be in between and they will just give you more shit tests. I use to know this girl that would always ask guys if they would go sky diving with her, it was some kind of shit test. I told her about about my coworker … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | What's With Girls' Obsession with Studying Abroad?I thought about doing it when I was in school, but I knew that it would of impacted my degree plans. If you are studying abroad, you have less time to focus on your classes. As a man you have to take this shit seriously. Girls have less accountability for their actions. What would you do if your actions didn't really matter. Go on vacation. Well they can't tell dad they want to spend a year on vacation. They have to do this indirect study abroad thing. Not much studying happens during this, they… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Ways to channel anger besides the gym and running?Anger happens because of upsetting events/thoughts. You might be motivated by this and have "energy and purpose", or you might feel hopeless and get depressed thinking you can't fix it. Both can be normal, at times. In either case, often the root cause is distorted thoughts (illogical hamstering) that cause the initial anger. There is absolutely a link between depression and anger. Depressed people tend to have a ton of anger built up. They are not opposite -- anger is a primary symptom of depre… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Ways to channel anger besides the gym and running?Anger is similar to depression, some would say depression is anger turned inside. If you have an excess of anger to the point that exercising is not enough, perhaps there is deeper issue? There is an exercise in the book "Feeling Good" that is very good at helping you identify you thoughts that are upsetting you. They book is based on identifying your inner hamster and replacing these thoughts with more logical ones. you can get it for $.01 used on amazon, or $0 pdf bit torrent. Buy the hard cop… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 02:08 AM |
| 9 | For your own sake, don't consume shit that's not designed for you.He also stated that websites' targeted advertisements will let you know what advertisers think of you. I keep getting ads in spanish and things for home depot because I listen to latin music and chat with a lot of Hispanics. They think I am Mexican or something! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Girl flakes on her own plans?soft next. I have found that sending a confirmation message before a meeting time helps a lot. If they are going to flake, they can do it early -- before you are waiting at the door. Don't say you want to "confirm", say something like "I am excited we are going to do xyz." Often girls forget the plans that they make -- like others have said, you are not really that important to her -- yet. I always give a girl one flake, cause you never know what is actually going on -- issue with her brother co… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 12:28 AM |
| 4 | maintain frameit's your friends girl. why are you offering her weed, but only her? that seems lame. you can offer it to everyone and be friendly, but you know that people might bring along other friends. If you don't like this behavior find new friends? If she had walked up alone to the side of the vehicle, I would have opened the door you sound both butt hurt and over eger. a rock would open a door no matter what -- you showed her that she affected you. why my mind had changed you don't want to be incongruen… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Not HappyFind a hobby that encourages social contact I like my dance classes so far, but I am really bad at it. hard to ever think that I could contribute to it. these people do it as a full time thing. I am not trying to "half ass" it. I started also taking private classes when I saw that I was not keeping up in the group, and I am taking them with the male instructor because he is better at explaining things -- yea the female one is hot, but I want to fucking learn something. I feel like doing spanish … | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Not HappyNo idea how to make guy friends. no idea how to not care what girls think of me (i care less than before). no idea how be better in social situations -- I am doing social activities. no idea how to control my emotions? lift more? approaching more is a valid action. I think that lack of friend/social life is hard. I am willing to make changes. am I on track? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | How to walk properly?charisma myth, talks about this a bit. imagine you are a large gorilla slowly walking down the sidewalk. try to give a look such that people will move out of your way. if you do this right you will be like moses parting water. NYC street are fun for working on this. Also look at other people. you know who the big alpha guy is. now think about how he is walking. another trick is to always look up focus on tree tops, not your feet | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Any good posts about male fashion?models, the book, has a good section on fashion. what colors look good with your skin tone and such. I think it's a really good start if you know nothing. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your worst shit tests?Most of this was when I was just starting to read TRP. I started to understand how fucked up I was. I don't really spend time with them any more. I almost hung out again with one of them recently -- because a mutual friend was in town. But she started to give me shit, and I told her that I don't have time for that. You are right though, I should just drop them. Something in me wants to go back and say that I can hold frame even with these people. But really that is being a masochist. We all have… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 11:56 PM |
| 3 | What are some of your worst shit tests?The worst come people that really know you or knew you from before when you were BB. They know your weak spots and use them against you. Example a 'friend' knows that I an introvert and have a hard time with going to dance clubs. She did a lot this one night to try to make me feel like I was out of place/awkward. including: telling me that I was not talking enough with the group. However, the conversation was in Spanish, I am fluent, but it is hard for me to follow with all the noise of a club. … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 11:58 AM |
| 1 | What should I buy/invest with my money?I don't know you so this might not apply. For me traveling was good, but it gets to a point where going to another place is not going to say much. If you travel do it in a way where you really connect with the culture (ex. I stayed with a friend in costa rica for a month we did things that locals do) -- not just a I went to the normal spots. Dance classes can give a big return. Not many guys in the US know how to dance. I think this can be a big win for the money! I don't think photography will … | /r/askTRP | 11/10/15 12:13 AM |
| 9 | Neil Strauss, author of "The Game", prostrates himself before womankind and begs for forgiveness.There was a video that he did not long ago. The "man" has no frame. He could not stand in front of people that want to learn from him and talk with confidence! It was the most pathetic thing I ever watched. He knows a ton of tricks -- yes. but his core is empty. This is like the RP version of skipping leg day. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I escape the anger phase?I started with lifting free weights in my room. I have very serious depression (at age 17 I drove a car into a concrete wall tried to kill myself). On bad days I have to stop lifting and I lay down and cry for no reason (yes I finish my damn sets after this BS). This happens much less often now and I am starting to go to a gym now with a trainer. Start with small steps. They will get bigger over time. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I escape the anger phase?This is the one book that we never seem to recommend, but it is very important: "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy". It teaches you how to deal with your emotions in a very RP kind of way. I do these exercises twice a week to not let things build up. over time you will change the way that you think and see things. You can find it on bittorrent if you want to preview it. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Psych degreesA lot of people go into psyc cause they have issues. I think this advice applies of LTR? It sounds like a rule of thumb -- as always check under the hood before you buy it. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Only guy at a party, good/bad?Why is this a down voted. At one of the meetup groups I go to I gave more attention the first day the "3". Next meeting when I was walking out an attractive girl timed her leaving with mine and asked me to walk with her. Got her # and she has an very high level of interest... Examples 2 - at a party with mostly girls I was being fun and social but really I was ignoring the most attractive girl in the room (cause she was the married to the party host!). well she could not take it and just came up… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | What should I buy/invest with my money?I am seeing a lot of good investment advice here. I am 30 and just realizing that I should of been investing in myself more before. If you want to save the money /r/personalfinance is a good place to ask. some ideas for spending it on yourself: private dance classes personal trainer photography - camera and classes new clothing? -- you can always do better language tutor (maybe not good idea as a student you don't have a ton of free time) Travel -- go somewhere cool while you are young! | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 10:31 PM |
| 6 | RP Example: Amazon.com makes women and betas cryI interviewed there. it was the first place to ask me a lot of non-tech questions. I wrote some code in c++ and the guy clearly did not know c++. he also misread a tech question and failed to clarify when I told him this was very simple. the other guys were all smart. One was a real asshole, but smart. developer salary did not seem that low. This is a place that you pump and dump. leave after a year with a good resume. most jobs a "beta" . save your coins and make your own company. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 12:16 AM |
| 2 | RP Example: Amazon.com makes women and betas cryI live in NYC and make 150K/yr -- I think that first link is crap. My yearly costs are <30K I live in Manhattan water front with a great view. People are dumb -- this guy spent a lot on rent. I spend 1500/month, he is paying a lot to not have a roommate. you can a studio here for 1800/month. or even less if you leave if you commute like 90% of my coworkers. subway is cheaper than a car. no questions. I could find a cheaper place, but I love the view here and I can afford it. people will find a w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 12:01 AM |
| 6 | Choose one of these degrees or don't go to schoolAs a software engineer earning in the top x% for my 3 years of experience. I would say that people should read "millionaire fastlane". These are all slow ways to gain wealth that require trading time for money -- my self included. I am focused now on finding a business idea and putting my free time into that. This book is very eye-opening. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 01:28 PM |
| 2 | What books does TRP recommend for Pick Up/Game?(4)magic bullets bang(currently reading) day bang(need to read) (2)models the game(fun read not good info) sex god method -This is more post game -- the last step (3)the rational male the art of seduction (still need to read it) introducing nlp(i did't like it/finish it, but i found it useful -- i will go back and finish it another day). (1)feeling good - the new mood therapy(very good for dealing with depression and your emotions) -- This is a must read. Very TRP -- help you get rid of your mal… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 12:47 AM |
| 1 | TRP and "emotional vulnerability"His book is very good. I found it very helpful. just take the good part from it and move on. Another example like this is charisma myth. It has great exercises. I modify them a bit -- for example I will visualize a girl sucking my cock when I look at her. it is written by a female and obviously not RP, but you should know how to filter out the crap parts and keep the goods. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 01:47 AM |
| 2 | "...And Candy Cheats Again"yea. I remember telling this girl that I was not gonna commit with her. I felt bad, in my mind it was like "i don't love". She was surprised, and just wanted to know if we could still be friends with benefits. This was pre-trp, and a moment things started to click in my head. I later went full beta. gone gone gone. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 03:49 PM |
| 1 | "...And Candy Cheats Again"I find past very hard to undo. Girl knew me when I was very beta. She now shit tests me constantly. I soft next'd her for a while. I had already invited her to something a while back and I figure whatever. It was a full day of shit tests. We get back to my apartment and I make it clear that she can't spend the night (she wanted to, but I knew she wasn't gonna fuck). ok. several weeks of very limited contact. Now my friend is in town and he made plans with her cousin. I ok, we can all hang out to… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | TRUE STORY = GF on vacation has threesome with two guys as her drunk BF passes out on the same cruise (FR)Reminds me of the time I was laying in bed with this girl. We were talking after sex. She was complaining about this 'friend' back home that wanted to sleep with her, and how he knew that she had a bf. What a bad guy that he wanted her to cheat she said. this as she sat there in my bed cheating on her bf with me telling me how much better I "understood" her. Or my friend in costa rica that wants me to come fuck her for a week. She says that we have to plan it so that we go some where else so her… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 01:25 AM |
| 2 | You guys are very experienced and know your stuff. What career should i choose?I am going to answer this from a trp perspective. I did CS went to a 10 ten CS school. I earn top X% salary for my years of experience. My brother is a doctor, he went into general practice (that was his passion, he had the numbers get into specialization). Salary: My brother makes more than I do. hands down. Though I think he works more hours (working hours could go both ways). When he had 3 years of experience it was easy for him to get more than what I am currently making. I had to push hard … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 03:26 PM |
| 4 | How to build your career: Just like there is an untalked about rules in relationships, there are also untalked about rules to a career.I have been reading 48 laws of power. He seems to quote this book, but really I think we should all just read it. It talks about when to break the rules and when not to. I think if you want to move up, you need leadership qualities. Charisma myth is good too. Honestly, I am working my way through a big list of books that were recommended on an old RP thread. Frame, controlling you emotions, is also good. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Feels like my height is keeping my SMV near 0, no mater what I improveI noticed that I get more attention with a higher income, but its girls wanting a BB kind of guy; I try not to talk about my job. Maybe you should do more monk mode. Focus on your self. search old book recommendation threads. I have a stack of like 20 books to read. each gives me insight. I had a friend in high school that was short and looks like he is 12. He was good at being confidante and had a lot of attractive girls. You are full of shit if you think, "it cant be done" sure it will be hard… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/15 12:58 AM |
| 1 | What to make of being hit on by gay men?After focusing on dressing better, I have noticed more gays interested in me. I am mostly following the tips from the book models. The day I bought a necklace, a gay guy asked me out! The other day my neighbor was very excited to get to know me. I found out later that her roommate is gay, and I think she is also. A coworker at work, that I am 99% sure is gay, started to flirt with me. This is frustrating because I want to fuck women. But women also take note of me now too. I see them turn there … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Machiavellian Bodybuilder/Miscer has faked high status on Facebook and is now reaping the rewardsReminds me on how I have my skype friend post over the top things on my fb. Then I see many other girls asking about her and getting jealous. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | For beginners, one simple tip.I knew a cute girl that liked to talk about her bf's spider collection. Then again she opening told every one that she was cheating on him with me(and that was before I started the RP path)... I think that any thing different about you make you stand out. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Cutting out negative people from your life no matter how "close" you are or whatever "ties" bind you.I have been removing a lot of toxic people from my life. For example, I started to set more boundaries with a female friend. The relationship is gone now. I liked spending time with her since she is from Guatemala, and I love speaking Spanish. Not long ago her scholarship ended, and she was about to have to return to Guatemala, or find a job. She asked me for a loan. I gave her a gift of 1000. She then found a job just in time, and now she is applying to a graduate program at an ivy league schoo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Good hobby for 19 year old in collegedance, improv acting club, learning a new language, | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually go on "running errands" dates?Seems like the advantage would be that you really don't put her on a pedestal. Most girls are use to guys spending a ton of resources on her, so you would stand out (she would think: why is he not fully invested in me... he could do this shit on his time). Does inviting a girl to go shopping (for your self) count? That worked out pretty good for me. | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 05:25 AM |
| 3 | The skill of self confidence - TedX TalkThere are a lot of members who are still in the "angry phase". I find it easy to ignore these people. I would say that it is important to make generalizations(http://therationalmale.com/2012/10/25/generalizations/). Personally, I interpret AWALT to mean "the overwhelming majority of women are genetically predisposed to be like that". Like you, I don't like to use the word all. Rollo Tomassi makes his generalizations based on evidence from scientific psychological studies. I use to have an equali… | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 11:30 PM |
| 2 | The skill of self confidence - TedX TalkThere is a lot of overlap with /r/seduction. The book recommendations on trp are a súper set of the books recommended here. I think they touch more on the issue of inner game than we do here. It takes months to read all of their side bar material and all of their books recommendations. Because of this amount of content, I am always surprised how many people proclaim to know what trp is all about! I have been spending a lot of time reading and working on my self betterment, but still I don't clai… | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 05:26 PM |
| 5 | The skill of self confidence - TedX Talkhttp://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2yxw0o/trp_primer_verbal_and_nonverbal_communications/ Same post, but the comments have a few more links to checkout. | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I think I look good on paper, but not in person. How can I change that?I read some where that words feel stronger in your native language. I feel almost nothing when I am rude or abrasive in Spanish. I am less outcome dependent. I think is also because I have learned from listening to other people talk. so I have picked up phrases that social/confidant people tend to say(since they are the ones that tend to talk more, and more clearly). EDIT: Also my voice tonality mimics these social/confidant people. I don't really do it as a game; I enjoy practicing and tend to … | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 07:46 PM |
| 17 | There are TRP messages everywhere in music, yet BPers don't listen...Agreed. You hear what you want to hear. I am starting to dislike a lot of my old favorite songs. I listen and want to vomit all over myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I think I look good on paper, but not in person. How can I change that?If you feel like your life is boring. You are projecting that to the girl. How could you change this. Can you travel more. when you travel do you just do tourist BS? What are your passions? you make good money, but is your job really boring? join a skydiving club? learn a new language, learn to card count at blackjack, go hiking, go camping, can you skateboard, what books do you read. Why do you care what this gold digger girl thinks, next her. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I think I look good on paper, but not in person. How can I change that?I have read some books on body language. Some times it is helpful. Also fun to be able to guess how girl is feeling. It can help you know how you are feeling too. Often we don't see our own emotional state very clearly, but girls see it 100%. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I think I look good on paper, but not in person. How can I change that?When you speak your second language are you more likely to say anything that comes to mind. If so, you could try to mimic that behavior in English. Some times I will think of how I would act if I were speaking Spanish, and then try to do something similar in English. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I think I look good on paper, but not in person. How can I change that?What books have you read. Models, magic bullets, no more mr nice guy? Models is really good; read it. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 03:40 AM |
| 3 | I think I look good on paper, but not in person. How can I change that?Yea. This sounds like me. Except when I speak in Spanish it is like I am a different person. I had a girl tell me she only wanted me to talk to her in Spanish because she liked that personality so much more. I am a lot more social in Spanish and I don't give a fuck; I will say any thing and I joke and flirt a lot. I want to be that way when I speak English, but I find it really hard. My advice is to learn a second language. When you are good at it, you can use it to let go and say anything(it he… | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Why I think it's so important to give up porn.You stopped watching porn a few days ago, and somehow think you know something! I have nothing valuable to share, and I have 2 weeks in the process. So please stop reading! I stopped watching porn because I could see how addicted I was to it. I went to masturbation only. Masturbation only was really hard because I have a limited number of interactions with women. I noticed that I was masturbating less frequently, and would cum a lot harder. I started to go crazy again masturbating to this girl I… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions for bringing girls home when you live at home and a bloody long way awaysamething in latin ameraica. Fucking awesome! | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions for bringing girls home when you live at home and a bloody long way awaybuy a truck with a big bed | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 03:11 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/27/14Should I just be clear and ask her out, the 2 of us. or keep doing groups things? I would be cool with just being friends, but If I have a move forward, I would like to take it. she keeps saying that she wants to introduce me to her friend. | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/27/14I feel like it is an issue that I am turning into "the guy she goes salsa dancing with"(especially since I am not great at salsa dancing, and I am more of an introvert). I think we should do other things, but I am not sure how. I don't think she is open to going out just the 2 of us again. Last time we were out I held her hand for a short moment while we were walking out, but she did not respond at all (not positive or negative). Kino is good since we are dancing and when I am speaking Spanish w… | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 10:29 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/27/14Meet a girl that I really like (meets most of the things I am looking for). I got her # even though she has a bf. We went out together once, at the time I had a gf, and told her that when she asked me. I think she lost interest after that. Later we did not chat much. then, out of the blue, she added me on facebook(we had 0 friends in common). Now we have since gone out several time to go salsa dancing(as a group of friends). She never brings her bf and never talks about him. At one point, I was … | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Act like she already likes you.I agree with this. Take a girl that has a bf for example, at one point she might give a lot of IOIs, great. But later she is thinking about her bf and starts to give you IODs, no matter how much fun she had with you before. You can't keep thinking that she has the same feels for you as before. It is important to try to guess their state of mind. Really, it should not matter to you if she is attracted to you or not. You should be outcome independent. If she seems not interested, move on the the n… | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Act like she already likes you.I am not sure why you are being down voted. Your link seems like a valid point of view. | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Self Respectyou acted like a little bitch about it Yes this is exactly what I did. I think I have learned. Thank you for you responce. | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Self RespectI agree. You are 100% right. I have moved on to other girls and broke up with my gf. I sent her a message again on facebook and told her I fucked up. we agreeed to take a break from talking. Just the other day, I sent her a message asking if she can help my (female) friend find a job where she is working. she has been responding, and told me thanks for giving her some space. Really I think I am just lucky we are still in contact. I know I really fucked up. I have learned from this. The girl I am… | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 02:02 AM |
| 5 | Tinder has given me 3 #'s...0 dates. Help please.Meet in person. not over text/phone. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Tinder has given me 3 #'s...0 dates. Help please.List 5 things you want in a girls, and be specific (not just generic things like smart, intelligent, funny). more like: i want a girl who is : a nurse, short, red hair, green eyes, left handed. And have a reason for wanting a nurse (like I think nurses are XXXX or left handed girls are good in bed...). If you know what you like. List that, else make shit up. cute girls will contact you and try to convince you that they are good enough even though they are not <BLA>. Pick better things, look at w… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Tinder has given me 3 #'s...0 dates. Help please.Yes. Ask pointed questions. like "what are you studying?" or "what color are your nails/hair?". List what you want in a girl in your profile. You will get less responses but they will be higher quality. After doing that many girls would text me first with like a 4-5 sentences. They will start off qualifying them self. I put that I want a Hispanic girl with speaks Spanish. Really cute white girls respond saying that they want to learn Spanish (they want to pass my qualifications). Before I had a … | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:11 PM |
| 7 | My friend made this tinder account and we posted it to r/funny. He actually got more girls talking to him than ever. Someone explain?He is qualifying the girl. I list several things I want in a girl, and they respond a lot to that. One girl went out of her way to tell me that she has black hair, but had died it another color and now regrets doing that. All because I listed that I wanted a girl with black hair! It makes the girl feel like she has to impress the guy. Plus it is good to stand out in some way. My profile is all in Spanish. I get a lot of girls messaging me and asking me to teach them Spanish or "just hang out". I… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Self RespectAfter more thought. I think I should of just deleted her number and not made a big fuss over everything with my final text. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Self RespectYou seem very emotional in the way you respond. Maybe try pausing before you act. I agree. I think showed myself to be very needy. But I still think it was best to end contact with her. She flaked on my twice (with good reason). I just wanted to know that I could walk away from her and be ok. I think next time I will feel more prepared. I just felt like I should of made choices to put myself in more control of the situation. Like driving my car to the park. It was cool that she knew a park to go… | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Do any PUAs give flakes another chance?The article seems solid. Play it cool and reduce interaction as a function of flaking. It might be real or a shit test. Either way all you can do is play it cool. I guess if you don't have other plans you need to curb your expectations, and always be ready for the possibility of a flake. Honestly, it seems like a better move to just cut it off after 2 flakes. You can play cool over the first, but if you continue after 2. Wouldn't you just be feeding her ego and start to look weak/needy. Always p… | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 04:21 PM |
| – | Girl flakes on her own plans?cool. I swear by the confirmation text though -- forces her to flake early or reminds her about the date she may have forgotten. no response to the confirmation text == flake. Now you have time to make other plans. I have been outside of a girl's door before to find out that she is not home -- it sucks balls. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Does hooking up with an ugly girl lower your SMV?I don't know. But one time I went out on a tinder date with a very ugly girl. It was fun cause I like to practice my Spanish, and she agreed to speak with me in Spanish (she was Hispanic). Anyways, while we were eating, the cute girl at the table next to me was eye fucking the hell out of me in front of her bf. she turned some weird way to get her body closer to my table (put her hand on my table). And another very cute girl was constantly turning around to check me out. I think the whole "I don… | /r/askTRP |
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