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Yeah so there’s two solutions: 1 - Dont post dumb shit. If you take the snap and think that you could put it on your story so other people think you’re cool (including girls) don’t post it. Only post it because you genuinely like whatever u took a picture of or think it’s funny. 2 - don’t post anything. Posting can cause loss of attraction but you will barely gain any from it. If you keep overthinking it, it’s better to just not post at all
/r/seduction29/01/20 07:29 AM
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I think ur overthinking it big time. I used to be all like this and would care if someone posted a dumb video of me on my story (if I was playing a dumb game or something) and would get upset about it. Since then I’ve realized that no one really gives a shit about you; not in a bad way, but what is on your story doesn’t really affect anyone else. If I were u I would forget about posting shit to be cool. Post stuff that you think IS cool and you think to yourself, “that’s kinda funny” or “that’s …
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:49 AM
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What would you say
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:51 AM
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Glad to finally see some real and relatable problems on this fucking dead subreddit. I’d say something like No way is this Jada from summer school? or Hey, remember me? Remember that it doesn’t matter if the ice breaker is dumb; most ice breakers are dumb. It doesn’t matter because the whole point is to break the ice and after the ice is broken it doesn’t matter how stupid it was. Just get to the point where you can say something like “we should catch up sometime”. I guarantee she’ll agree
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:15 AM
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Sounds like you’re being a “nice guy” and expect girls to fall in love w u over ur nice and genuine behavior. Too bad girls don’t work like normal fucking people
/r/seduction22/01/20 06:25 AM
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Could u dm me some of these groups? I joined one and am trying to find more
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:03 PM
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Maybe he’s good you never know
/r/seduction19/01/20 03:25 AM
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I’d just wing it and keep that on the down-low. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age, but in a woman’s eyes it sadly lowers your value. She will start to question you and think to herself, “what is so strange about this guy that no woman ever wanted to have sex with him,” despite the fact that past sexual history should be irrelevant
/r/seduction19/01/20 03:24 AM
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Why do I keep seeing people commenting shit like this. What are y’all even doing on this sub? Find something better to do
/r/seduction16/01/20 06:34 AM
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They gotta stop taking down every post cuz there’s like one detail
/r/seduction10/01/20 09:58 PM
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He’s doing shit that lowers their interest in me
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:11 AM
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Yeah but her thinking I’m doing weird shit with weird kids lowers interest
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:11 AM
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No so like basically I didn’t think it was annoying what he or any of us were doing. But then I went to this math class I j switched into and there was this group of kids who j kept talking loud and laughing at dumb shit like we were and I thought it was weird and annoying. The problem is my friend being too loud and obnoxious and shit cuz if he told the jokes just quietly then that would be fine
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:10 AM
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Finally, about point 3: Women’s looks are not 10% genes; probably closer to 50% or even 75%. However, even if they were 10% genes that point is irrelevant. You’re thinking of “we need to appreciate how beautiful women are” is the nice guy way of thinking (and not in a good way). First of all, girls do not find this attractive at all and it puts you in a mentality where you praise every girl you meet. You should actually focus on game - based on these points it seems like you have a lot to learn.…
/r/seduction09/01/20 07:14 AM
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Also at the bottom of point 2: You stated that there is a lot of insecurity masking as confidence. I do not think this is true. I think there is a lot of open insecurity in this community and it is openly talked about. It is much harder to openly talk about insecurity in public as it makes people uncomfortable, but this community supports it. I had severe anxiety and insecurity after have a serious dependence on weed. I was depressed and lonely for weeks until I started focusing on this communit…
/r/seduction09/01/20 07:07 AM
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About point 2: I would strongly disagree. In fact, most of the time the WORST advice you can get about women is from women. Women don’t know what they want. Ask a woman what she wants in a man and she will say “nice, sweet, charming, does things for me” shit like that. However, as countless guys have shown this is NOT what women want. In fact, it is so much the opposite of what women want that the phrase nice guys finish last was invented. Women can be brutally honest and give good advice. They …
/r/seduction09/01/20 07:03 AM
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Incorrect sorry, girls to not poop
/r/seduction08/01/20 02:08 PM
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Thank you that’s what I needed
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:55 PM
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Bruh I ask specifically and then u take it down. Broaden it up and it’s too broad. Cmon man. Anyways, I clarified in the last post and asked if there’s anything to do BESIDES cutting contact
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:28 PM
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What skills do you have. Are you good at cooking or like magic or something
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:21 PM
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Bruh can you stop
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:20 PM
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Yeah I’d do it over text just so you’re not changing plans last minute. Just text her that instead of watching a movie at the movie theatre you could at your place. And give her a reason, be like “I make the best grilled cheeses ever” or “I have the strangest cat you have to meet him”. Make sure this reason is actually true and it doesn’t make you look like a loser (don’t talk about your Rubik’s cube solving skills). If she says no because she’s so cautious, just tell her that it’s fine and stic…
/r/seduction06/01/20 07:51 PM
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Yeah bro idk about you but I like to move a lot faster than that. I try to kiss by the first date. I would go for it if I were you. Also that’s why movie theatre dates suck and if you could I would recommend this. Say that you’re feeling kind of tired or something and that you want her to come over instead. Set up your place like a little movie watching area or something in your room. Idk it’s up to you how you do it but then it’s like the exact same thing except you can actually talk, cuddle, a…
/r/seduction06/01/20 07:28 AM
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When you’re about to make a move, don’t say to yourself “you got this”. This is saying to yourself that things are going to go great. Instead of this, if you start making excuses for not making a move or getting worried that things will go bad, say to yourself “fuck it”. Whether things go bad or good, in the end you will be fine so just fuck it. Make the goal of the date to have a good time rather than to show her a good time. This will help you loosen up, making it more fun for you, your date, …
/r/seduction06/01/20 07:20 AM
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Yeah you should’ve just gone for it without asking if you were getting vibes from her. Here’s a trick that I learned recently for when you are questioning what to do. So guys get turned on by tits and visual stuff. For girls, however, it’s more complicated. Girls are turned on by 50 shades of grey type books and shit like that. They want a man like Romeo or Zoro to protect them and who can be romantic. Cheesy stuff like that. So when you’re not sure what to do, think: what would Romeo do? If Rom…
/r/seduction06/01/20 06:39 AM
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You could say that like once but idk why you’d repeat it over and over like that. If a girl kept saying “if we dated then” I’d be pretty annoyed
/r/seduction06/01/20 05:22 AM
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Stop spending time trying to keep the girl interested. Spend more time trying to make yourself more interesting
/r/seduction05/01/20 12:25 AM
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I’d look into physical escalation. Imagine you were on a date with a girl and things are going great. You’re having a good time and she’s showing interest. Then, at the end of the date, you just straight up ask her to fuck. Obviously she’s not going to go for it and she’ll be kind of weirded out. However, if you had kissed her, started taking off her pants, etc etc, she would likely be down to have sex. Kissing is the basically same thing. You need to start touching her so she becomes comfortabl…
/r/seduction04/01/20 11:42 PM
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Hmm alright thanks man
/r/seduction03/01/20 07:35 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction03/01/20 02:46 AM
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I mean if you really don’t give any shits about what happens then you might as well message her but I wouldn’t. This would be a terrible way to lead a relationship with this girl as she would immediately have disinterest in you. I would just leave it be unless she is like, the perfect girl, but otherwise just keep going out and meeting more girls
/r/seduction02/01/20 02:55 PM
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Yeah just read that ... in fact you will see a similar or the same question in the comments. I’ve made some goals for myself, I just find that while I’m not actively working on these goals I am thinking about this girl
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:29 AM
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Hmm alright. Just to clarify, I think heavy weed usage at a young age causes anxiety or that is at least what happened to me. I quit smoking and noticed I had anxiety and was always overthinking everything. And I really agree I’ve even told friends before that I don’t really like being left alone with my thoughts because it usually goes to dark places. Not really sure what to do about it but 2020 is gonna be a big year of a self improvement for me. I really do like this girl but I don’t really k…
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:28 AM
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Hmm alright. I have been trying to connect to my spiritual side with hallucinogens but I’ve only been meditating to help me sleep or calm down. I’ll try to get into it
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:41 AM
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It’s not that I need to move on. We’re still on okay terms and we could continue hooking up (which I want to do) but my idolization of her is causing me to do needy things, making me needy which is both bad for my mental stability and makes me less attractive
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:35 AM
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Even if I was looking for a long term relationship right now, which I’m not, the problem is not about me being stuck on one girl. The problem is more that I idolize this one girl and think that I will never do better then her, thus making me needy and such
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:33 AM
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Hmm alright I’ll try to pickup a sport or something. And thanks for the new perspective
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:15 AM
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How do I go about having a more self-improvement based mindset. I really am trying to improve myself in a lot of ways, but I feel like a lot of it is partially for the sake of impressing girls. I can’t really just decide that I no longer am doing stuff for girls. This seems confusing so let me explain. I want to become more fit, for example. I do want to do this in part for ME, but sadly another reason for it is because I want to look better to girls. How do I get to the point where I am only go…
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:01 AM
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How to I get to this mindset and stop caring about girls
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:52 AM
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Amazing
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:31 AM
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Well it’s mental. In my mind, girls that I’ve been talking to (or in my current case have been hooking up with) are amazing and could get any guy they want. I fear that they might forget about me and doing this causes me to be needy. I’ve been controlling myself and purposely avoiding things that I deem needy but they are things that I really want to do and girls can often read right through you and tell if you’re being needy or not
/r/seduction02/01/20 04:01 AM
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That’s really weird bro tell your mom to fucking stop and if she won’t then move out
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:12 AM
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Yes I have become clingy or copedendent; plus, I feel like my problem is loneliness. Not the same thing as being alone, but feeling lonely a lot of the time which makes me really miss and become dependent on this time I spend with girls. I’m not really sure how to fix it and I think this loneliness stems from anxiety that I developed from weed addiction at a young age
/r/seduction01/01/20 07:22 PM
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Alright thanks a lot. This is very helpful
/r/seduction01/01/20 09:22 AM
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But what do I do once I figure this out and figure out why I’m putting them all on a pedestal. How do I stop putting them on a pedestal or thinking in the way that I am?
/r/seduction01/01/20 09:04 AM
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What are ways I can self-improve and put more energy towards myself. I feel like I already put a lot of energy towards myself and there’s still a lot left over to give out to girls and be the nice guy. I’ve been working out, got a job, am getting good grades, have been learning to draw. Yet, with all this, I still find that I spend a lot of time thinking about (and worshipping) chicks who I deem attractive. How can I stop this?
/r/seduction01/01/20 08:13 AM
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Build tensions. Escalate. I’m not the best at this, but try to do some physical and verbal escalation. Start touching her more (start out small, maybe give her a light push if she teases you and laugh). Misinterpret what she’s saying to build sexual tension verbally (if she says she’s got to go to the bathroom or something, jokingly say thanks for the invite but I’m worried coworkers will see us go in together). Try this I think this is what to do. Good luck; make sure that all you escalating mo…
/r/seduction01/01/20 03:28 AM
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I think if I showed any girl I know this playlist and said I liked it they assume I’m gay. Maybe it’s just an age difference thing tho
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:36 PM
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Wow thanks man. That last little paragraph is really meaningful and true, I’ll keep it in mind
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:55 PM
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That’s fucked up man I’m jus tryna learn game because it’s helping a lot with self improvement while at the same time showing results. It’s helping me get through withdrawals and loneliness and a lot of personal issues. I’ve had a lot of trouble with girls in the past and I’m just trying to figure shit out. I understand your point but cmon man
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:32 PM
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I explained why I asked this above ... if she says she is interested in me and I just say I’m interested in her straight back it could make her lose interest or become bored or whatever.
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:29 PM
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Damn that sounds like a good idea actually. However, how do you then get to the point where you are official or whatever?
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:28 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:26 PM
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Girls don’t choose you first. Girls just like to think that they love the nice guys and are unique. They talk about how hey just want to meet a nice guy who will pay attention to them but sadly, although it isn’t your fault, no girls are like this.
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:58 AM
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^
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:56 AM
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Nope. Just no. Sorry bout it
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:55 AM
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Hmm I guess I’ll wait for her to make the move. I haven’t fucked a string of bad bitches as u said but I’ve worked on myself a lot and would drop her if I needed to (I hope).
/r/seduction27/12/19 10:41 PM
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Buy some books about game and self-improvement (I think most of game actually is self-improvement and it also shows results with girls which makes me feel like I’m improving). Join communities like this and watch YouTube videos. I did all this to get through withdrawals and it’s really helped so I think it can help with other problems too.
/r/seduction27/12/19 10:37 PM
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🥴
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:50 AM
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Nah I’ve learned this shit the hard way too many times but I guess ur right. It’s not like I can drink or smoke rn anyways but like idk. I’d rather be happier for the next few hours and try to forget about it and just remember the overall lesson than overthink it for super long. I think smoking weed has given me anxiety and now I overthink all this girl shit it’s so annoying
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:21 AM
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Yeah fuck this shit I’m kinda pissed now. Figured us hooking up like 6 times and having sex would mean that this connection between us has already been implied but no. I now show this interest like this and she’s suddenly less interested. And it was literally me calling her beanie cute. I need some fucking alcohol.
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:09 AM
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Damn too late now. And I think I’ve learned that the hard way ... she was snapping me fast after every snap but after I sent that she responded “thank youuu” and hasn’t opened my last snap in a while ... I mean she could just be busy but I think you’re right. I also think it’s so fucked that this is the kinda shit you have to do to get girls but if that’s how it is then oh well I can’t do anything about it
/r/seduction27/12/19 03:49 AM
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Facebook? I’m tryna meet hot girls not my moms friends ...
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:49 AM
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For real I fucking hate this age of Snapchat and Snapchat flirting it’s so weird sending pictures and shit but still talking like as a form of flirting. Social media should be for social media not for flirting and talking but like in our age it is
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:48 AM
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Well just to help with the whole values and inequality thing in terms of dominance: I used to be a nice guy too. Not only did I give girls everything they want and this really hurt my game but I also took a lot of shit from other people and just accepted it as I was against fighting back. However, I don’t think my values and morals of being nice have changed and yet I am much less of a “nice guy” and stand up for myself. I basically started to become more confident and realized that, just becaus…
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:46 AM
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Hmm alright
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:32 AM
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Damn alright thanks
/r/seduction27/12/19 01:54 AM
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Alright that’s what I’ve been doing thanms
/r/seduction27/12/19 12:38 AM
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Yeah but I mean we were drunk so maybe we can have better sex. And like besides actual dick in vagina sex everything is good like she gives good ass head and I can almost always make her cum when fingering her so maybe that’s enough until we can figure out how to have good sex. Guess I’ll figure it out.
/r/seduction27/12/19 12:37 AM
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Uhh I’m worried it might be the second one. Like I think we were both ready for sex but then we ended up at a party and got drunk and the fucked. Are you saying that this would cause a bad relationship? I think we would’ve had sex that night even if we weren’t drunk so idk.
/r/seduction26/12/19 03:25 PM
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No offense but I don’t understand this because of how it’s organized would you mind explaining qualification again and in more detail. What is even the point of qualifying?
/r/seduction22/12/19 09:59 PM
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Yeah
/r/seduction22/12/19 09:57 PM
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So disqualify hot girls just to initially shut down their anti-flirt mechanisms. Got it. When do I qualify a girl and do I disqualify a girl if she doesn’t get a ton of attention or isn’t that hot or something
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:06 AM
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Alright yeah thanks
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:35 PM
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Huh alright thanks. I don’t think it’s approach anxiety because she seems like a very confident person but I guess i couldn’t know for sure
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:35 PM
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Alright thanks. I already knew this but I guess I forgot or something and made this mistake for a bit without realizing. Really messed up there
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:33 PM
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Yeah true thanks. Should I back off to lead her in the right direction of not thinking of me as a tool
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:18 AM
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Oh cool that’s basically what I did. Probably in a little worse way because I didn’t say anything that I would do either way but still. I walked up to her and told her that I’m free this weekend and then I’m going on vacation for a while. I then said, you should invite me over this weekend if ur free. She said alright happily and my plan was to see this weekend what happens. If she invites me over, she’s dedicated and interested enough to make time for me before I go on vacation. If not, she doe…
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:57 AM
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Well it was about 50/50 till she cancelled. After that we’ve just barely texted each other in general but in person it’s basically always me initiating it ... what do I do
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:44 AM
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Stop taking down my fucking posts
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:02 AM
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Damn thanks
/r/seduction16/12/19 02:15 PM
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Alright thanks
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:12 PM
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How can I get to this point? I feel like I was doing really good with this girl for a bit and doing this and now suddenly small insecurities that randomly have formed are pushing her away. I’m too into her and I’m trying so hard to hide it but it’s hard. I’m insecure about how I speak and I overthink everything. How can I stop giving a fuck
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:40 AM
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I feel the same. I play video games and am basically addicted to music. But usually doing stuff like this just leaves me feeling like I wasted my time and I end up thinking about her again
/r/seduction14/12/19 05:43 AM
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How can I make these things happen. Do u have examples of ways I could make her life better or improve without coming off as a dick. Also what new experiences could I have with her
/r/seduction14/12/19 05:41 AM
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Alright thanks man. Is there a way to forget about her when I’m not with her besides putting my attention towards other girls. Right now I’m not really at a stage in my life or even age where I can just go around talking to tons of different chicks
/r/seduction13/12/19 06:13 PM
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First of all I think this is needy. But even if it wasn’t I’d have to be dating her to have serious talks about our relationship like that and not come off like I’m taking things too seriously
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:49 AM
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Alright thanks
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:22 AM
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This is really helpful thank you. However, what if masculine polarity causes me to ignore her in a way. What if I am so caught up in my own life that I ignore her or forget about her, giving her the chance to forget about me, move on, etc.
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:14 AM
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I know investing myself and becoming the best me (self help) is the best thing to do with girls but I feel like right now the problem is me not giving her ENOUGH attention. Like I am putting my personal attention and thought towards her which I know I shouldn’t be doing but then in person I’m shying away and not talking to her enough. I want to spend more time with her and talk to her more but at the same time am worried about being needy
/r/seduction13/12/19 01:56 AM
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I don’t know if this is the kind of charming you’re looking for but: Vincent Vega - Pulp Fiction
/r/seduction12/12/19 03:34 PM
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Should I ask her out then. Don’t really want to commit to a relationship but at the same time we’re close and I like her
/r/seduction10/12/19 12:10 AM
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It’s not really pickup or dating. We’ve hooked up a few times and we’re kind of just a thing
/r/seduction09/12/19 06:16 PM
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Haha alright
/r/seduction09/12/19 04:35 AM
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School
/r/seduction06/12/19 02:12 PM
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Yeah that’s true thanks man
/r/seduction06/12/19 02:12 PM
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Lmao thanks but how can I stop thinking like this
/r/seduction06/12/19 06:41 AM
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Okay thanks
/r/seduction06/12/19 04:15 AM
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What if I’m going to see her within the next 2-3 days. Does that change anything? We have school tomorrow
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:18 AM
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Best article I’ve read on this topic yet. I’m a beginner and I feel like this article was literally written for me. Thank you so much I really needed help with this
/r/seduction05/12/19 05:47 AM
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Okay this is helpful thank you
/r/seduction03/12/19 02:40 AM
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You’re welcome
/r/seduction02/12/19 06:36 AM
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Yeah I’m gonna do this I think it’s my best option. Thanks
/r/seduction01/12/19 05:29 PM
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I’m just not good at this kind of shit so I’m just going to slow down on texting her like a lot. All of our subjects have pretty much been boring now that I think about it so it’s not really worth it
/r/seduction01/12/19 05:28 PM
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Alright I’ll do that thanks
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:44 AM
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Yeah I understand what you’re saying. I don’t do this normally but she’s on vacation so it’s not like we’re going to make plans or talk in real life and I don’t want to grow kinda distant
/r/seduction01/12/19 04:59 AM
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Hmm alright this actually makes a lot of sense. But I don’t think she’d re-initiate contact to be honest and am kind of trying to keep her close
/r/seduction01/12/19 04:54 AM
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Like what for example?
/r/seduction01/12/19 04:52 AM
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Yeah that’s exactly what’s going through my head. The little that I have texted her has been fine but I always do something stupid like kill off the conversation or something and I don’t want that to happen. Yet, at the same time If I don’t do anything things might die off completely
/r/seduction01/12/19 02:10 AM
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Yeah I know what you mean. Honestly when I get nervous or something like that around a girl it’s because I think they’re more valuable than me or better than me in some way. Like if you thought of yourselves as equals and are confident in who you are as a person then you probably won’t be nervous as you won’t think there is a reason to be. Nervousness just stems from your brain thinking you’re in a situation that might be difficult to handle. This means that working on who you are (once again) a…
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:02 PM
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Thanks yeah I’ll make sure not to
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:52 AM
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Yeah. Used to have the same problem where i felt like I had confidence around girls but doing something bold isn’t the same as being confident. Try to hang out with girls more in general or be more social. This could help your social confidence so that way you don’t have to fake it
/r/seduction29/11/19 10:04 PM
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If I’m reading this right I have a friend who has a similar problem. He seems to get confidence to make a move every once in a while but seems to usually get rejected and things don’t work out for him even though he’s an average looking and nice guy. One problem he has is that he, in his head, exaggerates the role the social media plays in terms of relationships with girls. He thinks that so and so snapchats or conversations or instagram follows could mean something in terms of that girl liking …
/r/seduction29/11/19 09:29 AM
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Yeah true. Thanks a lot man
/r/seduction29/11/19 05:17 AM
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Alright thanks I can try taking her pants off; kinda hard to do without some help though don’t you think?
/r/seduction28/11/19 10:58 PM
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I guess I’ll try dirty talking more it just doesn’t really seem like me. What are smaller things I could say to dirty talk that aren’t like as extreme as I want to fuck you. I want to smart small to see how I even am at dirty talking.
/r/seduction28/11/19 06:35 AM
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When I first started trying to do this kind of stuff it was kind of awkward and difficult. I think I hinted at us kissing for like my first “move” and then it just kind of happened. Now I’ve gotten better at it and it kinda just happens if we’re flirting. Just be confident and even if it’s awkward at first u will get better at it
/r/seduction21/11/19 08:53 PM
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