What is disqualifying, qualifying, and when do you use them?

WIA20XX · 2019-12-20T02:17:06+00:00

DQ is anything you say/do to tell the girl that you aren't interested in her as a romantic or sexual partner.

The context is that hot girls generally expect any guy interacting with her to seek her approval.

Disqualify yourself from her entitled mentality.

Why and when you use them?
- deception to get past her defenses "My girlfriend said..." used in the early stages of the chat.

banter. "You like Elmo? we would never get along" used during the banter stage for fun and humor.
actual screening. "Is that your dog on your wallpaper? I'm allergic" before you switch to a more get to know you stage.
boundary setting. "that ain't it chief" deep into the trust building, hookup, relationship stage.

Girls can get fucked whenever, but is it a hot guy, a cool guy, is the sex good? The deeper in you get, the more your value rises.

Insaneflirt_max · 2019-12-20T03:55:54+00:00

To complete what the other guy said.

Qualifying means two things, you can qualify yourself (which you should never ever do in any situation) or qualify the girl. Let's talk about qualifying the girl.

Two ways, you qualify her directly or you make her qualify herself.

Qualify her directly : if she's insecure/shy or as a reward when she shows investment in you. You basically just say something that shows you like her.

Make her qualify herself : byproduct of disqualifying a girl, if you disqualify she will try to qualify herself is she really likes you and/or has low self-esteem.

Most girls having average-low self-esteem, you might just get girls to qualify even if they are not interested in you, which is good game as their brain will therefore consider investing in your approval as being attracted.

antiquatedipad · 2019-12-20T10:57:11+00:00

Remember that disqualifying (telling her that you aren't into her sexually) is the worst thing you can ever do according to HALF of 'experts' so take every PUA tip with a grain of salt lol

Title	What is disqualifying, qualifying, and when do you use them?
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Date	December 20, 2019 1:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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