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1

So, can you have sex with zero want of a relationship at first?
/r/seduction31/03/17 11:56 PM
1

Yeah I guess. But couldn't she talk to a friend for 3 hours at the same time? I mean as a virgin I'm don't find her that unattractive to me, but I get what you mean. And she didn't ask me to go to the library, she suggested it which is similar. And I'm not even thinking about her other than for this post since you always have an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction31/03/17 11:55 PM
1

How to make subtle hints of interest though. I've been rejected before so it's fine.
/r/seduction31/03/17 11:50 PM
1

What's the difference between casual sex and this?
/r/seduction31/03/17 10:36 PM
2

Oh that's good for me in one of my situations.
/r/seduction31/03/17 09:26 PM
2

Lol I did this yesterday where I wasn't a dick but I didn't say always positive stuff to the girl.
/r/seduction31/03/17 08:58 PM
1

How do you escalate in those situations?
/r/seduction31/03/17 08:31 PM
1

I guess but I'm talking from her point of view. If you talk to her for a while I assume she's not repulsed by you.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:16 PM
1

Really? I was talking to a girl this week and she fixed her hair 3 times over the hour we talked. Didn't change it at all, just played with it.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:12 PM
1

Usually I agree. But with tinder and online dating, you kinda have to text a bit before you meet. I know for setting up meetings is fine for people you approach in real life, but online you have to build some rapport.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:09 PM
1

That was by mistake. It just said how flirting was inadvertent and you make others laugh etc...
/r/seduction31/03/17 01:52 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/seduction31/03/17 01:13 AM
1

Thanks. I thought they were platonic anyways.
/r/seduction31/03/17 01:12 AM
1

Any examples of how the subconscious will help you flirt naturally? More smiles etc?
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:50 PM
2

What is a starfish?
/r/seduction30/03/17 07:06 PM
3

There are girls who are smart as fuck though. Just my preference but I enjoy those people over others who do nothing but party which gets boring after a while. Stimulating conversations are always good.
/r/seduction30/03/17 07:05 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction30/03/17 05:02 PM
1

I find that situations are the easiest way to start convos.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:00 PM
2

Most average men are at least 150 I've found that are also at least 5'7 in height
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:45 AM
1

Uh yeah. I'm 170 and though in shape, still a bit light for my weight. 125 for an adult male is really light for that height.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:45 AM
3

Really? I always thought FWB was people who didn't want to date but weren't in a relationship but just casual. Guess I'm wrong, but I wouldn't want to be in a FWB where the other is committed but you do you.
/r/seduction30/03/17 02:26 AM
2

Lmao how do you do logistics for a FWB? Seriously I have had female friends, so I assume it's mutual attraction?
/r/seduction30/03/17 01:29 AM
1

Dumb question, but you can be FWB and good friends right? Not in this situation, but generally
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:21 PM
1

I know that not trying to brag but I did make her laugh a bit and she was definitely down for hanging out. She asked a few questions about me and seemed to enjoy talking with me. I know that isn't much, but I know what I have to do. Won't stop from talking to other girls obviously
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:06 PM
1

Oh an I got a girls number today so there's that
/r/seduction29/03/17 09:51 PM
0

Common connections of wherever you are. Make a comment about something related to your location.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:47 PM
1

Probably why I've never had a match lol!
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:39 PM
1

That's a good one, but does that show enough intent if I say it verbatim? Saying you enjoyed the conversation and want to talk later cover say drinks/coffee could make intentions clear right? Though your method seems more indirect.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:39 PM
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Yeah that sounds good. Though if you just want to get to know the person better that works right? Saying I find you cool enough let's get (x) and then go for a number close is a decent plan?
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:23 PM
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Yeah, if it's someone that you've seen before how would you ask them out? Say you enjoyed talked to them and let's get drinks/coffee soon?
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:06 PM
16

Oh man, the first one. I never swipe right unless I see their 2nd picture. First one was great and the 2nd one she was large. Yikes.
/r/seduction28/03/17 10:54 PM
14

Yeah, I prefer the confident, funny 7/10 over the insecure, not a good personality 9/10 every day of the week.
/r/seduction28/03/17 10:53 PM
2

Yeah, that makes sense. Although that's why all the cold approaches for me have to have a sort of common connection with a class/sports/venue anything
/r/seduction28/03/17 09:49 PM
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Thanks. A hangout with more intent is the way I'll do things in the future. She was attractive to me, but not "crush" attractive for me. But I get your point. Though it isn't cold, I hope tomorrows goes better if she's there, if not I'll continue doing this.
/r/seduction28/03/17 08:50 PM
1

I just wrote a field report if you're interested
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:59 PM
1

Models. I read parts of the preview version, and one of the bigger points I think was that women should be a part of your good life, not the main focus of it.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:43 PM
1

Great analogy and I'll take that comment to heart.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:18 PM
1

No books, just the sidebar stuff on this subreddit. Again, I'll submit a field report later today
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:00 PM
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I get that coming out of your comfort zone is important. I know I have to do that anyways. But taking risks is new for me, so getting ready to do so takes a certain mindset which I have to achieve.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:00 PM
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Dude, I'll submit a field report today, after a while. I'll approach someone and see how it goes. Please don't bring information about me because that's weird.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:57 PM
1

It's been tough I'm trying to get over it and move forward positively
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:55 PM
1

I'm not autistic, I'm just very anxious. And someone who is behind in social development I guess?
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:48 PM
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How am I spamming when I am inexperienced and just trying to get help? I'm not trying to troll, I just have a ton of questions and I'm sorry if I offended anyone recently with "spamming" too many posts. And I'm trying not be annoying as I'm still relatively new to this. Again I'm just very anxious regarding this stuff
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:48 PM
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Holy shit, so I can't ask questions and comments anymore? I googled the keywords and I didn't have what I was looking for.This is ridiculous if you're just going to post that all the time, and not give advice. Just because I don't fit your narrative doesn't mean that you can just not give helpful advice or whatever
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:45 PM
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What do you mean by emotional connection if it's someone you've met recently. I thought you'd be friendzoned if you open up too much?
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:36 PM
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Dude I get it, but I can't ask questions now in old threads? I won't post but still, I want an answer to that question, that won't be a repost of that imgur link. I've done incedental touches before, but still I struggle with carrying it out
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:33 PM
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Ah, that makes sense. How can you touch her forearm without being creepy though to test it out?
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:24 PM
1

Ok. I won't post a new thread again on r/seduction until my field report next time.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:22 PM
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What do you mean by non verbal question and see non verbal answers?
/r/seduction28/03/17 12:55 PM
1

Yeah. Though I do in class if they're alone or solitary
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:47 AM
1

True but that's why you have to be selective. Don't do it at areas where you have to go back and you know that person will be there such as a exercise class
/r/seduction28/03/17 12:59 AM
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Problem is I'm worried if it goes wrong and my reputation spreads quickly. You can never know on a campus. Which is why I've approached only twice this year and not to compete randoms. And that's why I only approach in class/etc
/r/seduction27/03/17 10:40 PM
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At least you've probably been on more dates than I have which is zero. I'm so far behind on this stuff at my age it's laughable.
/r/seduction27/03/17 07:18 PM
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So do I.
/r/seduction27/03/17 07:17 PM
1

At least you get matches. I haven't had one in 5 weeks despite changing my bio and pics multiple times!
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:16 PM
1

Kino and verbal I'd imagine is good in this situation?
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:39 PM
1

Sounds good dude I'll use this.
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:31 PM
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True. I know that just read the some situations it turns out different so who knows.
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:18 PM
1

Read a post that some are just weak talks
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:06 PM
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If there's a common connection you go for that first and then go from there right? And then a compliment right? I wonder how you can word a hangout on the future so it isn't creepy sounding.
/r/seduction27/03/17 02:43 PM
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Yeah I'll try that once I get the confidence to do so.
/r/seduction27/03/17 02:34 PM
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I already have taken a few days off. But I want to approach and not be creepy, or be given a label that gets around quickly and you can't shake of being the guy who asks people out which is why I've been only covert so far. Any help with that? Is being direct too creepy in 2017?
/r/seduction27/03/17 02:26 PM
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Asking to hang out or making plans for something would reduce the flake rate and maybe if they're in the mood for giving out the number right?
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:46 PM
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How to be honest about intentions? Starting conversations are fine with me, except that going to the part about intentions is where I have issues. Though isn't saying that's she is cute kinda creepy in a large setting? Is asking for a hangout too needy after vibing?
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:46 PM
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I get that but don't have show interest if you want to get a certain number though?
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:42 PM
1

Yes but this subreddit is more accessible than google in terms of specific related questions
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:41 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:33 PM
1

Say we should hang out, what's your number etc?
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:29 PM
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The ring question isn't irrelevant. I am confused in if asking for a number too soon is thirsty. And I didn't approach today since I had work to do. I don't know how to approach without making a fool of myself (I've been rejected before so that's fine) which is why I'm making these threads. This community has improved my social skills but still not to the level I want them to be at. With social norms changing, approaching on a campus has never been harder.
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:28 PM
1

How can you entertain her? Make her laugh with me a small bit? I've done that with girls before
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:26 PM
1

Lol there's this girl I want to talk to which is why is asked the question.
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:25 PM
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Ha I guess. It's just that I see really tall guys who are 6'2 + and I feel like a midget at times.
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:24 PM
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I try not to be those things..
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:24 PM
1

How?
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:24 PM
1

There are some girls that are taller and I don't know if I should approach. I mean if they're slightly taller that's fine, but if they're over 6 feet I don't know if that would work.
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:24 PM
1

How can you "pepper in" anything that indicates interest or brings up the idea of sex? Any examples?
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:21 PM
1

The part about making plans for the future while getting her number makes sense
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:20 PM
2

How to do long eye contact that isn't creepy? Look at the lips?
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:12 PM
1

Yeah, a girl I want to talk to has one on her middle finger so I guess that means nothing
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:55 AM
1

Yeah I get the laid part is after the number, but talking about common interests sparks convos and I've held them well it's just I haven't made my intent clear sometimes so yeah, complimenting the outfit could work then. Wonder if asking if they like _x hobby that is creative could work too. And when do you ask for the number if they show some interest? And how to know if they aren't taken?
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:52 AM
1

So just approach without expectations, be myself and hope for the best so I can get laid soon right? Or eventually
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:49 AM
1

I've done small talk before so that's not an issue. So I guess saying stuff like after as I had to talk to you since you were cute, and we should get drinks soon is a good starter right?
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:47 AM
1

Is asking them out a good way to get a number? I've done other ways before getting a number
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:46 AM
1

How to show intent but not be too thirsty though?
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:43 AM
1

As a weightlifter, that's a good analogy. Thanks. I can hold conversations, it's just the next step that's the issue.
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:42 AM
1

In terms of getting laid does that help honestly? Still a virgin and trying to get over approach anxiety. Do I just stop a random girl and say hi my name is I thought you looked cute etc? Talk about school and then go for a number close?
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:41 AM
1

Doesn't ring finger on their right mean nothing?
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:40 AM
1

In this case it was just on her middle finger
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:40 AM
1

I don't know what to say to get them interested for a number though...
/r/seduction27/03/17 02:45 AM
2

I've watched a few of Todd's vids before. Good stuff. Are you sure going up to a random girl and talking to her with intentions of asking her out is cool? What should I say to make it not creepy? I've only done approaches where I either sat next to the person, in the same class, or area, not a true cold approach (although they didn't know my name previously)
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:43 PM
1

I've tried in class before with no results, so how can I improve without looking stupid? Make up some small talk before asking them out? Calling that I find them cute etc?
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:41 PM
2

Yes I did since I'm inexperienced. So if I approach 5-10 girls during a time period, as long as I carry myself well, I'll get head then?
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:40 PM
1

How can I improve? Or just passing by walking? Mine have been in a class setting
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:20 PM
3

But most of the time if you see someone attractive and you just approach but I don't know how? Say I think you're cute and I just had to say hi? Show intent?
/r/seduction26/03/17 09:34 PM
1

How can you establish a sexual vibe?
/r/seduction26/03/17 09:22 PM
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Yeah I guess but for people like me who are still virgins, it's disheartening
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:28 PM
4

Imagine having girls tell their friends they want to hook up with you. Must be nice
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:17 PM
1

Yeah should I make plans for something as it was generic last time
/r/seduction26/03/17 05:33 PM
4

Is that true? As a virgin would they be fine with it?
/r/seduction26/03/17 05:24 PM
1

Yeah I get that, but shouldn't a 2nd text be it and then move on? I've read differing ones on whether to give up after 1 unresponsive text
/r/seduction26/03/17 05:12 PM
1

That makes sense.
/r/seduction26/03/17 04:32 PM
1

Hmm. Ask to study before asking out seems like a good testing option
/r/seduction26/03/17 04:31 PM
1

I thought both were a part of the game, but I guess not?
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:21 AM
1

So you can't cold approach in class or on a non library part of campus then? Goes against what I've read
/r/seduction25/03/17 11:40 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction25/03/17 11:39 PM
2

Isn't cold approaching big here? You just described social circle
/r/seduction25/03/17 11:15 PM
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1.
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:45 PM
1

Lol I am in a club, so just approach a girl on campus then? I can hold conversations it's just planning time outside school that I am bad at communicating
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:45 PM
1

Yes and it's fine but after a while it gets tiresome
/r/seduction25/03/17 07:50 PM
1

Where I've been clear yes, I've done approaches where I wasn't as clear and probably got rejected. Part of it is that I don't want be embarrassed and get the reputation of the pick up guy on campus. Just trying to get laid is part of my motivation I guess.
/r/seduction25/03/17 07:49 PM
1

This is true. I used to be chubby and ugly until I hit the gym and became moderately more attractive
/r/seduction25/03/17 05:39 PM
1

I don't get what you mean
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:53 PM
1

Ah, that makes sense
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:49 PM
5

Walk confidently too!
/r/seduction25/03/17 01:13 AM
1

That's not what I meant. I mean partying is good and fine but if it's everything though
/r/seduction25/03/17 12:07 AM
1

Yeah. No idea how to have 18 inch arms but if lift and do biceps
/r/seduction24/03/17 08:35 PM
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Lol I hit the gym enough that my pecs show sometimes. And I'm in shape enough that wearing a tank top doesn't look bad on me. (Shoulders covered though)
/r/seduction24/03/17 07:56 PM
1

How can I be? I try to be attractive to my fullest
/r/seduction24/03/17 07:27 PM
1

I'll try that lol, I guess
/r/seduction24/03/17 07:14 PM
1

No idea how to do that when my cool shit is normal
/r/seduction24/03/17 06:02 PM
2

Small amount
/r/seduction24/03/17 06:02 PM
1

No idea what is going on through my friends honestly
/r/seduction24/03/17 03:14 PM
1

I guess but I have no idea how to have a social life lol or have adventure as a student
/r/seduction24/03/17 01:27 PM
1

No idea how to do that despite living in a big city
/r/seduction24/03/17 01:16 PM
2

Ah I get that though I have no idea how to climb a social ladder
/r/seduction24/03/17 01:01 PM
1

Ah.
/r/seduction24/03/17 01:00 PM
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I don't get what you mean there?
/r/seduction24/03/17 11:45 AM
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Yeah I am in a certain club that is athletic
/r/seduction24/03/17 03:29 AM
2

No girls are dtf where I am
/r/seduction24/03/17 12:49 AM
1

Similar. Didn't do anything in high school as I was fat and ugly. Went to college and got in shape. Still a virgin but I get looks and stares and even a few numbers her and here though I have to step my game up
/r/seduction24/03/17 12:47 AM
1

Hopefully. I might though....
/r/seduction23/03/17 04:55 PM
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Lol I get that, but again I barely know this girl. So it can really get there?
/r/seduction23/03/17 02:59 PM
1

Really? Only met her once
/r/seduction23/03/17 02:35 PM
1

Yeah I mean kino should be fun as it escalates sexually in some cases. learn to use your body right?
/r/seduction23/03/17 04:06 AM
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I get that but man I was in a good headspace to talk to her.
/r/seduction23/03/17 03:22 AM
1

Yeah I know that is big, thanks.
/r/seduction23/03/17 01:43 AM
1

I've tried already. Many times. I don't know what else to do. Approaching? I'm not good enough for most girls, except the ugly ones.
/r/seduction22/03/17 10:42 PM
1

How can I love myself when I have no direction in life and don't know what to do, and just meh with myself.
/r/seduction22/03/17 08:57 PM
1

I don't know what accidental touching in a public setting is or would be.
/r/seduction21/03/17 04:33 PM
1

Hmm. I might try that. Any other subtle ways when you're sitting next to or talking to someone close?
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:03 PM
1

Does the leg test work? In terms of showing intent
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:44 AM
4

It might be since my pecs were showing through the loose shirt. But seriously, since I got into shape, it's a change albeit nice to see more attention than I got before.
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:25 AM
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Yeah, they're either boring or just plain if they don't respond to it.
/r/seduction21/03/17 01:16 AM
1

Start lifting.
/r/seduction21/03/17 01:14 AM
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Show intent I guess? Seriously that's what I would do.
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:15 PM
2

I thought you were cute, what's up?
/r/seduction20/03/17 09:42 PM
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You can be an alpha male and not a douche.
/r/seduction20/03/17 07:09 PM
1

I work out and dress decently so that's a start. I'll take your advice and being a weightlifter helps!
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:43 PM
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Yeah I'm already doing that. Tinder is more for quick lays though
/r/seduction19/03/17 09:54 PM
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I guess. As a student, that's a hard thing for me to do at first.
/r/seduction19/03/17 07:25 PM
1

I guess. I've tried better ones with no change in results
/r/seduction19/03/17 07:17 PM
3

Again: 4 weeks, no matches despite being rated good on r/amiugly and r/amisexy so who knows .
/r/seduction19/03/17 06:59 PM
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0 matches in 35 days
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:23 PM
1

Yup. I used to be in that mindset before I started college and lifting. Oh boy was that a good thing I did.
/r/seduction19/03/17 03:47 AM
1

What innocent touches?
/r/seduction17/03/17 04:52 PM
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Not a coincidence more attractive women work out than not.
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:21 PM
1

Yeah I guess. I learned from my last sort of infatuation (before I was on this subreddit) to not have oneitis, so your advice is useful. Maybe during the break, to talk shop but she has her headphones in then, and she leaves quickly after class. Don't know what time then.
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:19 PM
1

Play an instrument.
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:17 PM
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I've just met her and I can sit elsewhere if needed. Only a month of class left anyways....
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:35 AM
1

Yeah I guess, but anything about the second part? Terms of not always being attracted to her? Next time I sit next to her I'll invite her out to something. She changes her hair sometimes when I sit there so who knows.
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:34 AM
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I haven't got laid yet, but I got a few numbers this year so far. Maintain eye contact and if they smile you've got their attention, so at least I know my hard work has paid off. You'll get attention for being jacked! Keep at it man!
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:36 AM
1

Really? I thought casual sex has a different meaning but I guess you're right
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:04 AM
1

True true.
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:03 AM
1

Lol dude, I hope to get laid soon. This sub is good for curing my social anxiety and what to say. Even though I haven't lost it yet, 2 years ago I would've laughed if I was at the point I am today.
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:26 PM
1

Maybe I should do that!
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:21 PM
1

I'm half Chinese/half white, so maybe not the best person to ask, but I've found I jive better with white girls and pretty much everyone else except Asian girls. Though to be fair I'm just not attracted to Asian girls. And looks matter here. I have Asian hair, but have "white type" features such as not as light skin etc... anyways it depends on the girls and person
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:18 PM
2

Lol Jesus.
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:16 PM
1

High school. Not close as in shape as I am now, but I knew a girl was semi interested, didn't talk to her about anything but school. If I knew what I know now about seduction, then fuck man.....
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:14 PM
1

Ask her out. She's either interested or an attention grabbing person. She's obviously shy to admit she likes you man!
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:12 PM
1

I read somewhere that are a few more attractive girls that are single or aren't approached because dudes are scared shitless. As the quote says, fortune favours the bold and I'm going to follow this quote too.
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:08 PM
1

What about the middle. That's honestly where I'm at now. Would be nice to be with a girl, but marriage shit, not there yet, but want to be more than a duck buddy honestly. I'm in shape if that matters.
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:06 PM
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Isn't that basically casual dating?
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:06 PM
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I went from an out of shape guy to someone who isn't ripped, but is damn close to it. I did it since one day I didn't fit into my pants for a function and I said "holy shit you're fat". I lost the weight and then built the muscle. It took a year for this, so yeah I takes time. Not a coincidence girls smile at me and give me a fuckton more attention than I ever got in high school. It isn't mainly about getting a girl, more about boosting your own self confidence and then girls are secondary. Gett…
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:04 PM
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Building afftraction through slight touches I guess!
/r/seduction16/03/17 10:44 PM
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Sorry I am just skeptical that it works. I've tried before had good convos but just not in your way I guess. So it can work right? Just don't stare I'd imagine
/r/seduction16/03/17 04:33 PM
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I'll be confident for sure!
/r/seduction16/03/17 01:55 PM
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Yeah. I just hope one day that happens to me 😥
/r/seduction16/03/17 12:56 AM
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I've had zero experience with girls so again it's pretty sad. But thanks for the advice anyways. Maybe one day I'll be able to kiss a girl properly 😪
/r/seduction16/03/17 12:06 AM
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I don't know I'm that clueless and not that attractive. Though I've seen some smile at me for a bit though so who knows
/r/seduction16/03/17 12:05 AM
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I'm struggling with making intentions known, how can you do that?
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:51 PM
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I've had anxiety in terms of thee situations though how can I approach in the future?
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:49 PM
1

How to know if a girl hits on you though?
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:49 PM
3

True but don't you worry about sexual harassment these days?
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:48 PM
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Holding her hands in any situation is code for making out? Really?
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:44 PM
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I hope one day that happens to me since I'm clueless about this stuff, and I doubt someone would be sexually attracted to me but I try.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:27 PM
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I get the smiling part, but how is it a self-fulfilling prophecy? It just seems ambitious.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:23 PM
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I don't get what you are saying.
/r/seduction15/03/17 06:13 PM
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How can you get someone to hook up with you after a short period of time? That seems curious to me.
/r/seduction15/03/17 03:42 AM
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Hmm. Would they get offended by cute though? And on a campus per say is a lunch date too much? Something lower investment?
/r/seduction15/03/17 03:32 AM
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Huh, even add the "you're really cute" quip? I've read that saying other things help. And as well, shouldn't something as we should go for lunch sometime work better than do you want to go for lunch?
/r/seduction15/03/17 03:03 AM
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I live in Toronto, that's not the issue. Probably is my pics since again on different sub reddits I've been said I'm fine/good looking + in real life I've been checked out times before by girls. Any help is needed and appreciated!
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:59 AM
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How can you show attraction confidently?
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:59 AM
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For tinder ask out and get a number. Oh how I wish I could get a single match, none in a month! And I'm not ugly!
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:59 AM
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I mean it's fine in terms of being off for it for a week - 2 weeks but anything else and it's unhealthy. You'll get urges that screw up daily life.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:47 AM
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How to be clear in intent?
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:19 PM
1

How
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:19 PM
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In a similar situation probably but only talked to her for 2 minutes during class. Am I still fine to say I introduced myself because you look interesting?
/r/seduction13/03/17 11:49 PM
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How though? It looks creepy to others
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:39 PM
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Half Asian and the most attention is get is from white girls
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:38 PM
1

Bingo. It's the one place where I never initiate.
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:36 PM
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I know but talking about cases where I'm interested in this certain girl etc.
/r/seduction13/03/17 08:24 PM
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Most of the time just meeting random people sometimes in class on campus etc.....
/r/seduction13/03/17 05:58 PM
1

After introducing yourself in general say class/campus etc. How long until you hug? Haven't escalated in any case so how would you?
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:52 PM
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How to make it smooth though and not just touching out of the blue after a convo?
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:45 PM
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Have handshakes before. But hugs seem creepy if you just met though right? After laughs maybe a high five? I get things are better in the flow but I don't know.
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:45 PM
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My favourite is I didn't catch your name....
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:42 PM
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I'm the opposite. Fine in person got numbers, no luck on line yet.
/r/seduction13/03/17 02:01 PM
1

How can you physically escalate without a kiss (some situations I've been in it's a non starter (classroom)
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:59 PM
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How can you do that before asking them out though? I mean building a short amount of attraction beforehand.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:58 PM
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Touching in terms of arm touches etc?
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:55 PM
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This is in general not specific though
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:17 AM
2

How to take the lead?
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:06 AM
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Is a good one, that I think from time to time, but another one is that I see them up close and most of the time, while still cute/hot, they have small imperfections, so like everyone else they're normal people.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:13 AM
1

Bingo.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:12 AM
2

Ah. So I now know what to swipe left on tinder.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:11 AM
3

Asexual means you don't want to fuck girls right?
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:56 AM
2

How did you not get the glasses girls number?
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:09 AM
1

What are the anime eyes?
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:02 AM
1

I haven't had a match yet and I swipe how is that possible
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:43 PM
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How could I do that?
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:37 PM
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I've talked to them once though.
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:06 AM
1

I guess improving the pictures is an option. It's more of a supplement to approaching, but yeah.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:46 PM
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"I try to not get hung up on a particular girl cause im young (21)" Until you've been on multiple dates, I agree.
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:39 PM
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You'll know when the moment comes.
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:37 PM
1

How would you do that?
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:24 PM
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So get to know her a bit and then go for the number close. Though it would be harder to flake if you would see this girl on a semi regular basis though right?
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:23 PM
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I've already shook her hand in some cases so initial contact for various ones is broken. But I've read that you have to use kino before asking someone out. Those don't sound sexual though which for most cases is my end goal.
/r/seduction11/03/17 04:14 AM
1

So say a few minutes in, you have to ask whether she's single or not? Can't just avoid that an ask her out after a small while?
/r/seduction11/03/17 04:10 AM
1

I had a similar thing this week. Girl I find cute who I she sat beside once before and said nothing. After meeting through group work (and had her laugh a small bit at my jokes during the discussion. At the end of class I grew a small bit of balls and introduced myself, and we shook hands, and she smiled. Didn't get her number since we were both in a rush, but at least I built a small amount of rapport. So maybe next time I can escalate. Though still focus on other girls as until you at least go…
/r/seduction11/03/17 01:42 AM
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"She eats, she farts, she pukes, just like you. When you realize that you'll be able to approach." That part helped me out a ton.
/r/seduction11/03/17 01:35 AM
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Until you at least kiss her, she's another person. Even then, not until sexual contact that it feels different, and not building up the people into who they are.
/r/seduction11/03/17 01:28 AM
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Unless you're trolling, just use protection.
/r/seduction11/03/17 01:26 AM
1

So just ask her out? Let's get (x) on (x day)?
/r/seduction11/03/17 12:40 AM
1

I get the date part, but what about someone you talk to but want to escalate? This would be before a date. And since I'm a virgin, when I get to that part I have to fake it a bit for sex right?
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:38 PM
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Sounds more clingy the last one....
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:38 PM
1

So make a move by doing what? Kino? Asking them out?
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:25 PM
1

How do you do that non verbally leading to it though?
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:24 PM
1

I'm half Asian/half white and have zero attraction to Asian girls. So there's a clear example.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:14 PM
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Makes sense, though I've read that sometimes after hookups some girls want more than just a hookup.
/r/seduction10/03/17 12:42 PM
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Christ, really? I thought it was just girls that don't want to be in serious relationships. And what does polarize them mean?
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:22 AM
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They have, but I do want to see results getting better soon.
/r/seduction10/03/17 01:29 AM
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It's pretty even, for the field I'm in. (Arts and sciences), though other parts of the school are male dominated for computer science (where I think more introverts are) Tough school, a bit of a party school, but nothing close to other ones in the province. And I've tried tinder, so hopefully that works, and there are 2 other big schools in the city as well as various colleges. I think it's mixed in terms of guys being scared.
/r/seduction09/03/17 08:10 PM
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Dude, I've read the sidebar, and have seen some success from it. More of how do you ask about it?
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:40 PM
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Or "I didn't catch your name"
/r/seduction09/03/17 06:12 PM
2

What should you say to the BF line?
/r/seduction09/03/17 06:09 PM
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Too many sexual thoughts all the time. Doing the deed 1-2 times a week is enough.
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:13 PM
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No. it just built up urges that were unhealthy. for me, nofap is more about not doing it every day.
/r/seduction09/03/17 04:24 AM
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Thanks. Talked to a girl today, didn't get number due to situation and time, but introduced myself and had a strong handshake. She laughed at a few of my comments during a group talk so who knows. Still going after other girls obviously. So she was fine with initial kino.
/r/seduction09/03/17 03:57 AM
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Yeah, I've followed those rules. Have to pick your spots, and this is the one place where IOI's are critical. And also don't tell them how to do a workout unless they ask you.
/r/seduction09/03/17 03:55 AM
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I've never asked anyone out through the gym but I've talked to girls there before. The staff there knows me enough, so I'll be careful and just see for the IOIs.
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:40 PM
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Yeah I'm struggling with this too.
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:34 PM
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Lesser known ones for both.
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:16 PM
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The place I go to is a UNI gym, where I'm a regular, and have a few friends there who I see regularly. So I'll see where this goes.
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:15 PM
1

Really? Thought gym ask outs are creepy
/r/seduction08/03/17 08:43 PM
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As someone who's in shape, though I've read that it's not kosher to approach unless she reciprocates, which is a rule that I follow.
/r/seduction08/03/17 08:34 PM
1

So when she looks at you or you look at her like that?
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:41 PM
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Really? Thought it depends.
/r/seduction08/03/17 05:29 PM
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I don't get that?
/r/seduction08/03/17 05:29 PM
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Huh?
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:45 PM
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A bit yes, but you still have to put the work in.
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:26 PM
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Go to the gym. Adding muscle will get you attention in both the gym and outside the gym by girls. As someone who was fat and slobby for years and now is in great shape, it boosts your confidence when you see a girl giving you more than a passing glance :)
/r/seduction08/03/17 04:39 AM
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Thanks. The caught my eye line is one I may use....
/r/seduction08/03/17 04:36 AM
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I'm not used to this amount of attention, as sparing as it is. A former fat kid getting in awesome shape has its benefits.... Yeah, I would though in a class setting, just on the street walking is hard for me.
/r/seduction08/03/17 04:35 AM
1

So stuff like hand touches, small of back are fine right?
/r/seduction08/03/17 04:29 AM
1

What if they advertise it on tinder saying I check Ig more often? But no match
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:29 AM
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Yeah, I mean in daily life I've gotten numbers for 7a and 8s before, so I'd guess that's my range.
/r/seduction08/03/17 12:20 AM
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So just small amounts of kino and go from there? Obviously a kiss will ratchet things up tenfold in terms of sexual tension.
/r/seduction08/03/17 12:11 AM
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About stubble, if you're clean shaven all the time but mostly have a bit of stubble, is that a good look?
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:50 PM
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"High quality/conceptual pictures All my pictures gravitate towards a concept, let's say. Lighting is similar, colors are similar (few edits). Took all of them myself with my phone's rear camera (iPhone 6S) for quality reasons. I made sure I'm showing all my angles and I also have a picture where I'm smiling. I also dressed quite nicely and had a fresh haircut/beard trim so I'm looking the best possible. Tried to keep as spontaneous as possible to" I don't have many friends, so my pics would hav…
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:49 PM
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What are some good small level escalations? And ones that are kosher in public?
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:54 PM
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What are good examples after meeting someone?
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:31 PM
1

I've done that twice and I'll do it again.
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:31 PM
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Message them, why not?
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:31 PM
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Makes sense. Keep it a surprise then I guess.
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:29 PM
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Nope. I have one where I'm wearing its noticeable I'm in shape, but have a shirt on. Though I'll post my profile + pics on r/tinder tomorrow for the review.
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:17 AM
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My bio is short, and I'm in great shape. It's probably the pictures, as I've seen worse looking guys getting matches
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:03 AM
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So don't say it until the moment is about to happen then? Though would going down on someone be a decent way to start off? I've heard from others that it is.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:13 PM
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Ah, so some girls do like taking it from guys etc...?
/r/seduction06/03/17 08:45 PM
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Thanks duly noted!
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:38 PM
1

So just kiss her and go for it? Heard confidence is attractive.
/r/seduction05/03/17 11:20 PM
1

I literally said hey were you in my other class and went from there.
/r/seduction05/03/17 10:27 PM
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Yeah, I used one where I asked if she was in my other class fully knowing she wasn't, but it opens up avenues.
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:46 AM
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Bingo. They're always more acceptable after a small amount of convo. And even asking them out to get to know them better can be a covert way if you're a bit shy.
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:45 AM
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I did it this semester with a girl I was somewhat interested in, got some balls, used a bullshit opener, and talked with her for 15 minutes. She had a BF, but I still consider her a decent acquaintance, and it gave me confidence to do it with other girls later. The first one is always the hardest.
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:43 AM
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I've had a similar issue where I vibed well with a girl, got her number but didn't ask her out. Though reading this sub helps out for what I have to do.
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:42 AM
1

What's the difference between a normal kiss and and sensual/seductive kisses? Is it ones that lead to make out sessions and sometime sex?
/r/seduction04/03/17 03:20 PM
1

So just escalate to a kiss and then go from there?
/r/seduction03/03/17 05:44 PM
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