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Wish I did
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/22 04:26 AM
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Thanks for your thoughts
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 10:05 AM
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That answers my question thank you
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 10:05 AM
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No I know how to eventually get it but I guess the question is should I get that info before I file
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 03:05 AM
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I’m literally looking at the invoice from the lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/22 03:55 AM
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Yeah good idea
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 09:12 PM
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I understand that. But I mean if you don’t have that info would it best to get her to disclose it prior to filing?
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 08:45 PM
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I cry almost every night. That’s how I control it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/22 03:12 AM
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FOG. Fear Obligation Guilt. Wow that’s exactly it. That right on the money. Might as well make it FOGS. The S stands for SHAME which I’m afraid of too
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 10:18 AM
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That was exactly what I needed my guy. Perfect
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/22 11:03 AM
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Thanks. It’s been so long that I thought about myself that it just doesn’t seem natural to me
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 11:52 AM
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Thanks for putting things in perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 09:47 PM
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That may be difficult. I feel guilty for a lot. This is gonna cause a lot of trauma
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 09:12 PM
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I shouldn’t feel guilty?
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 08:19 PM
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Custody will be something that we SHOULDNT have an issue with. Money on the other hand.. Seeing as she is the one who primarily supports the family with a corporate job the investments into the 401k were done mostly by her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 08:04 PM
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Sure bro. Message
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 07:32 PM
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I just feel off that I would be taking the 401k that my wife started. Or at least half. I would feel guilty.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 07:32 PM
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That’s a toss up. I’m hoping it will be but I sense that when it comes to the house and 401k it’s going to be ugly
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 06:31 PM
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Yes but invoice attached. This is for the retainer
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 06:18 PM
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Thank you. I don’t want to save the marriage because I don’t have faith that it will ever be what I want it to be no matter how much effort and hope I throw at it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 02:55 AM
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Check DM
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 05:10 PM
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She’s aware. She knows I’ve had intentions to divorce in the past. I’ve never made any big moves towards it. Maybe she’s calling my bluff?
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 03:23 PM
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I don’t get that impression as she has stated she has no intention nor desire to divorce. If she did and I was aware I think things would be easier to do
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 02:48 PM
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Therapy didn’t help me really. It gave me a place to talk about the constant 24/7 turmoil inside me more than anything. It was hard to take the therapist advice to start putting myself first because I’ve been putting others before me for DECADES
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 12:02 PM
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I’m not but all those feelings come out of me daily because of this marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 12:00 PM
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Thank you for that.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 12:00 PM
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I’m scared of the DRASTIC change in life path. Because what if it’s worse?!
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 11:59 AM
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It never got better after promising it would. Why does she make it so difficult to leave. Fuck
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 04:41 AM
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Don’t say “miss me with that shit” you’re not a 14 year old girl The comments are right. Ridiculous. Money isn’t an issue in the grand scheme. Don’t think of it that way. That’s a sunk cost fallacy. Just leave cause she sounds insufferable as do you
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 04:33 AM
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